In order to be the best in whatever you do you need to answer three major questions –
1. What stops us from from moving forwa forward rd !aking !aking a"tion a"tion #eing #eing our best $. What "ontro "ontro%s %s and deter determines mines the the qua%ity qua%ity of our our %ives %ives &. Why do we do what what we do do What are are the u%timate u%timate drives drives behind behind a%% human human a"tions a"tions
“What lies before us, what lies behind us, is nothing compared to what lies within us”
Answers-
1. W'(! W'(! )!*+) )!*+) ,) -*/ -*/ /*0IN /*0IN -*W -*W(D (D _________________________ ____________ __________________________ __________________ _____ Whi%e we a%% e2perien"e "ount%ess variations3 there are two primary fears that a%% human h uman beings share –4 I.
We are not ________ _____________ _________ ________ ________ _________ _________ ________ _________ _________ ________ ________ _________ _________ ____
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We Won5t be ________ ____________ ________ ________ ________ ________ _________ _________ ________ ________ _________ _________ ________ ________ ____
$. W'(! W'(! 6*N!*7) 6*N!*7) (ND D8!8/I D8!8/IN8) N8) !'8 9,(7I!: 9,(7I!: *- *, *, 7I08) _________________________ ____________ ________________ ___ (%% of us have variety of emotions we "onsistent%y e2perien"e3 and these e2perien"e are driven by three for"es that mo%d the meaning we take from those emotions4 the three primary patterns of emotions "a%%ed the !(ID
The Model of Meaning : The TRAI
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'ow you use your physi"a% body su"h as breath3 posture3 movement et".
Whatever you fo"us on3 you wi%% fee%
(s soon as we put words to an e2perien"e it "hanges the meaning we e2perien"e
8verybody wants stabi%ity about their basi" ne"essities – food3 she%ter3 and other materia% resour"es. When peop%e "annot "ontro% their physi"a% "ir"umstan"es3 they may seek "ertainty through a state of mind ;su"h as re%igious faith or a positive out%ook<
+eop%e have a need to "hange their state +eop%e to e2er"ise their body emotions. !herefore they seek variety through a number of means – stimu%i3 "hange of s"ene3 physi"a% a"tivity3 mood swings3 entertainment3 food et".
8verybody need to fee% spe"ia% and important in some way3 peop%e wi%% seek signi="an"e through obtaining re"ognitions from others or from themse%ves. When peop%e fee% insigni="ant3 they may make them fee% signi="ant by getting angry. angry. !hey may meet their need parado2i"a%%y by having others re"ogni>e the signi="an"e of their of their insigni="an"e or the si>e and "omp%e2ity of their prob%ems. It is important to remember that for many3 he%p%essness is power.
'uman need to fee% "onne"ted with someone or something@ ( person3 an idea%3 a va%ue3 a habit3 or a sense of identity3 "onne"tion may take the form of %ove or mere%y of intense engagement@ for instan"e3 one fee% "onne"ted by means of an aggressive intera"tion.
!he !wo !wo )piritua% Needs
A.________________________ A.___________ __________________________ ________________ ___ 8verything in the universe is either growing or dying – there is no third a%ternative. +eop%e are not spiritua%%y satis=ed un%ess their "apa"ities are e2pending
B_______________________ B__________ __________________________ ________________ ___ Cust as peop%e "annot survive without without others "ontributing in some way to their we%fare;No baby grows grows in its own< they "annot be spiritua%%y fu%=%%ed un%ess they are "ontributing to others as we%%.
“&etting goals is the 'rst step in turning the in(isible into the (isible)”
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“It is onl2 b2 meeting the spiritual needs that 2ou will e3perience sustainable 4o2 5&) Momentar2 pleasure”
+eop%e =nd ways to meet these needs in positive and negative3 n egative3 or neutra% ways3 but every person =nds way to meet them in some way (ny a"tivity3 a"tion3 or emotion fu%=%% needs at a high %eve% be"omes3 in ee"t3 an addi"tion. 7ikewise3 7ikewise3 peop%e have positive and neutra% addi"tions. !here is a%ways a w way ay to fu%=%% a need@ need@ the ski%% %ies in =nding a sustainab%e way to fu%=%% it3 and in a way that gives you more p%easure then pain3 as human a"tions are towards avoiding the pain and getting the p%easure every time.
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