Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Handling Women PDF

 

The Complete Guide To Handling Women by Wayne Ross

Introduction Thank you for buying my manual. You will gain a lot of invaluable advice in dealing with women. You will learn the mistakes most men make with women that destroy any chance they have of establishing any kind of  relationship. You will learn how to get women interested in you and what makes them act the way they do. Have you ever  seen a beautiful woman with a homely guy? Do you ever wonder why a lot of beautiful women go for homely guys? You will no longer wonder, you will know. After you finish this manual, you will be able to get practically any woman you want. You will know the secrets of meeting and dating beautiful women. Within a few days after reading and studying the techniques in this manual, you will start being in the company of some of the most beautiful women in the world.  Not only will you know how to meet them, you will also learn how to handle them and keep them interested as long as you want. You will also learn how to use psychology on women, a very important tool to win a woman's heart. Well enough, let's get onto the meat of the subject. The importance of this manual To illustrate how important the subject of handling women is, just look at the divorce rate. A study of the divorce rate states that 50% of marriages fail and within 20 years or so, it will probably be 75%. I will state here and now (a lot of women will love me for this, and a lot of men will hate me for this, but it's true) but I really feel that when a marriage or relationship fails, it is the man's fault in over 90% of the cases. He does not know how to handle his wife or girlfriend, he does not know how to make her happy. He takes her  for granted and ignores her. The other day a guy who bought one of my manuals on meeting women through the  personals called me and asked me the following: He wanted to know why no one would stay interested in him. Every woman he met would lose interest in him after the first or second date. I explained to him a few simple rules holding women, (the refuse same rules you with will learn) and now he has no trouble at all. him, Another guy wanted knowof why all women would to dance him when he asked. After I questioned I realized that heto was making a basic mistake that nearly all men make when they ask a girl to dance. I had calls from hundreds of guys who have had problems with women. It is so easy to have dozens of women in love with you and interested in you that you will wonder why you ever had trouble. Men make so many mistakes with women and it's sad to see them unhappy and miserable when there is no reason for it. Women are a joy to know and a joy to spend time with, and if guys would only apply a little know how, they could have all the women they want. You will have all the women you want when you get through this manual. Why listen to me? It's so easy for someone to tell you that they can teach you all there is to know about women and how to handle them. But why should you listen to me? Who the hell do I think I am that I should consider myself an expert? Well, let me tell you what I am not. I am not the kind of guy who always knew how to handle women.

 

I am not good looking, in fact I am very homely. Before I knew how to handle women, I was a complete failure with all kinds of women. I was the kind of guy who couldn't make out with a woman even if I paid them a hundred dollars. That was true a few years ago, but today things are quite different. In high school I was very shy. I rarely dated girls and could never muster up the courage to ask a girl for a date. The few dates that I did have were blind dates arranged by my friends. I had a miserable life in high school as far  as girls were concerned. I met my ex−wife quite by accident through a wrong number I dialed one day on the  phone. By some miracle, I got to know her on the phone and made a date. We dated nearly four years and finally got married. That was the biggest mistake I ever made in my life. I was 22 years only and she was the only girl I ever dated. If by chance you meet a woman and want to get married, please take my advice and don't do it unless you have dated at least a hundred women. Too many guys get married today and all they dated was a few women. How could they know if this girl is for them unless they see what other women are like? We were married for ten years and had three kids. Many times during those ten years I used to daydream about what a great lover I could  be if only I wasn't tied down to my wife and kids. I felt that I had missed a lot by getting married so young and never having a chance to enjoy being a bachelor. I  believed I could really have a ball if only I was single. Finally, my chance chance came. After ten years of marriage, I was divorced and suddenly found myself a 32 year old single man. Now I was ready to live the great single life that I had heard so much about. I was ready to meet dozens of girls and sleep with as many as I could. I was a virgin when I got married and wanted to make up for all that I had missed. I was raring to go. A single friend of mine told me about what great success he had in meeting girls in a certain singles bar. I decided to go with him the following Friday. After we got to the bar, I had a few drinks and was ready to try to pick up some girls. The night I struck out with every girl I tried to pick up. I approached ten girls that night and struck out with every one of them. That was the story of my life for the next seven years. I wanted to give up on girls completely. I met a guy who told me about meeting girls through personal ads and decided to try that method. I had tried meeting girls in bars and failed. This would be different. After a few weeks of answering and inserting personal ads, I came upon a formula for meeting women and it worked. I even wrote two manuals on meeting women through personals. You may have one or both of them. I had arranged to meet a dozen women for coffee who I met through the first few ads I placed. I really felt that they would like me and keep dating me if I wanted because I had sold myself through letters and phone calls. But a certain pattern emerged. Out of all the women I met and dated, not one of them wanted to date me a second time. I was doing something wrong and had no idea what it was. I placed more ads and met more women, but the  problem of holding their interest was still there. What could I be doing doing wrong? I was more depressed than ever. Here I could meet girls, but what was the use if they would not date me more than once? I decided to try something different the next time I dated a girl to see if it would change anything. Boy was I shocked! One little detail and the girls were interested in dating me again. This little known detail is what I call the "D" technique and it is dynamite. I will explain it in detail a little later. I decided to learn everything there was to know about women and I started by questioning all the women I could. I talked to nearly a hundred women about what works with holding their interest with guys. They were very helpful, especially when they found out I would publish a manual for men on how to handle women. They felt that men could use all the help they could get. They all agreed that the "D" technique was great and gave me loads of advice that you will learn about in this manual.

 

Today when I'm at home, it's by choice. Since I have some of the most beautiful women in my life now. There is no more lonliness for me. It took me several months to learn how to handle women. But I did learn and what I learned  works! Once I found out what to do, I changed from a lonely and unhappy guy to a guy who makes out with the kind of gorgeous women most guys can only dream about. You will learn the secrets I discovered in handling beautiful women. And if you follow my advice, within days you can start meeting and dating some of the best looking girls in the world. How these men changed their lives Jim: "I had terrible luck with women. It was terribly hard for me to meet women. When I did meet women, I couldn't hold their interest at all. I would date them once and they would never want to go out with me again. I was ready to give up on girls when Wayne told me about the "D" technique. I met this sexy looking girl at the super market. She was one of the cashiers. I just started talking to her one day. I became pretty friendly with her. After talking to her for about two weeks I asked her out. To my surprise, she agreed. I didn't want to screw it up, so I decided to use the "D" technique that very night. I picked her up and she looked absolutely gorgeous. It was going to be hard to follow my plan, because I felt like attacking her on the spot. Have you ever seen a girl that looked and smelled so sexy and you desired her so much that you'd do anything to make love to her? This is how I felt with Jan that night. I wanted to head right for my apartment, but I restrained myself. We went out to eat and dancing at a local night spot. When I danced close to Jan, my heart was beating fast as hell. I felt like I was in another world. Could I really go ahead with the "D" technique? As Wayne will explain in detail a little later, the "D" technique is the Dangling technique. Let her dangle he says. Easy for him to say. When you have a beautiful sexy girl willing and eager, it's hard to make her dangle, but I did it. I did exactly as he said, and surprised not only myself, but Jan as well. Jan could not leave me alone after that. She kept calling me for dates. I guess I was the only guy who ever used that on her and it made me a challenge. I dated Jan a lot and she fell in love with me. So did dozens of other girls I used the "D" technique on. The word got around and beautiful girls were asking my buddies to introduce them to me. My fame is spreading and my buddies are amazed, because I am a homely guy. I owe my success to the "D" technique. Thanks Wayne." Jim used the "D" technique with much success. I will explain it in great detail in a little bit and how and why it works. Let's meet a few more guys whose lives have changed since they learned how to handle women. Louis: "My biggest problem was not knowing what to say to girls after I met them. I could gather up the courage to talk  to a girl, but I could never carry on a conversation. I would usually stand there in frozen terror not knowing what to say next. The girl would usually lose interest and leave me. I felt that I would never have any women because I  just didn't know what to say to them. Wayne told me how important the first 60 seconds were and what to do in those first five minutes. He also explained to me how to warm up to her and make her receptive to talking. It was a big help. Now I have no trouble talking to women and I always know what to say."

 

Later on in this manual you will learn everything there is on talking to women, how to hold her interest, etc. It is extremely valuable advice because why the hell meet women if you can't talk to them? Sam: "Until I followed Wayne's advice on handling women, I was a complete washout as far as any type of dating or  relationship. I felt like a fat Woody Allen and was what you would call a nerd. Beautiful women were only a dream to me. Depression and loneliness were like old friends. I was in my late 20's and never had a girlfriend. I felt that nothing would help me meet any kind of woman, especially the good looking ones that Wayne claimed that I could meet. Wayne told me that he could have beautiful sexy girls begging me for dates within two weeks. I told him that he was nuts. But since I had nothing to lose, I decided to follow his advice and see what happened. His advice  proved to be a real eye opener. I couldn't couldn't believe that it could be so easy meeting and dating women. I met three good looking women the very first week I followed his advice. I not only met them, but I dated them and eventually had to tell them to stop calling me because I wanted to go out and meet more women. I met and dated between 30 and 40 girls in three months following the advice in Wayne's "Complete Guide To Handling Women". Not one of them dumped me. I had to stop dating 25 of them because I just didn't have time. It's so easy to hold on to beautiful women once you know how. Beautiful girls are no longer a problem for me. I have dated some of the most beautiful girls in the world. I owe it all to "The Complete Guide To Handling Women".  Now you are going to learn what Sam, Louis and Jim have learned, learned, how to handle women. Read the rest of the manual over very carefully, and I guarantee you that when you finish and absorb all the priciples, you will be ready for some of the most beautiful girls in the world to come into your life. Relationships with women I've had hundreds of calls from guys in the last few years asking me what is the matter with women. They were having terrible luck. They could not keep relationships going at all. Most of them were even having trouble getting a second date with most women. They wanted to know why women act the way they do. Some of them had such bad luck that they wanted to give up completely. This would have been the biggest mistake they could ever make. So many of them begged me to write a manual on handling women. So here it is guys. Read it and be prepared for a radical change in your social life. Why men lose a woman after a few dates I can state here and now that one of the reasons women lose interest in men after a few dates is that they are  bored. Most guys take a girl to a movie, then dinner and maybe a few drinks. They follow the same pattern date after date after date. No wonder women get bored. You must take a woman on a date that is different and unique if you really want to impress her. Women like men who are special. They remember them better and have fantasies and daydreams about them. If  you're not good looking and want to win over women from almost any other man, then take her out on a magical memorable date. If you get a first date with a woman, they way to keep her coming back for more and more is to take her out on a spectacular date. And the worst place to go on a first date is the movies. How can you get to know a girl in a dark movie theater. Some of the very best places to take a woman on the first date are the following:

 

Take her dancing: One of the biggest complaints that I hear from women are that men don't like to dance. If you can dance, you are way ahead of most guys. Most women love to dance. If you ask a woman out and tell her you want to take her dancing, she will be more eager to go out with you. Why? Because most men ask a girl out to the movies and she rarely gets asked to go dancing so she will consider  it a real treat. Women say that men who like to dance are more sensuous and exciting. A sexy girl once told me that men who like to dance are better in bed and more fun to go places and do things with. Besides, when you are dancing with a girl, you have a good reason to touch her and hold her close. I cannot describe the wonderful feeling you have while holding a girl close on the dance floor who excites you and appeals to you. But don't just slow dance, fast dance also. Have you ever gone to a singles bar where they have a band? How many times have you seen two women fast dancing together? That is because most guys don't fast dance. When women know you can fast dance, they will be extremely eager to get to know you and date you. Let's hear  what Roger has to say about dancing. Roger: "I was a really lousy dancer. When I went to a singles bar, I would usually just stand there against the wall with a drink. Whenever I wanted to meet a girl, I would usually walk over to her and mumble something about buying her a drink. 90% of the time I would be turned down. One Friday night I was at my favorite bar watching the sexy girls dancing. I kept watching this one girl. Man, she was beautiful. I couldn't take my eyes off her. She had long blonde hair and a build that wouldn't quit. I watched her for hours.  Not one guy ever asked her to dance. She sat out every slow dance and danced most of the fast dances with her  girlfriend. When the band announced it was the last song, I decided to take a chance and ask her to dance. I walked over and said, "Would you like to dance?". She said yes, which shocked the hell out of me. When we were on the dance floor I held her tight (it was a slow dance) and was as nervous as hell. I was shaking because she felt so good in my arms and I could smell her perfume. It was like an aphrodisiac to me. I don't know what gave me the courage, but I asked her if she would go out with me. I told her we would go dancing and have a good time. She told me that no guy had ever asked her out dancing before and that she would  be thrilled. I took her out the following Friday night and we had the most fun I ever had on any date. She told me that she would remember our first date forever because most guys just took her to a movie and then went home. We dated nearly three months and she finally moved out of town because she got a job transfer. But she did tell me that the main reason she went out with me was because I asked her to go dancing. She was so beautiful that my confidence soared in meeting other women and I now know that most women love to dance and dancing would break the ice on the first date. Asking a girl to go dancing increased my chance of  getting a date with her 100%. Take her to an amusement park:

 

This is a real fun date. Offer to take a girl to an amusement park and you will almost be guaranteed a yes answer  when you ask her out. I would like to have Richard tell you about an amusement park date. Before he does, I would like to add here that many of my manuals include a lot of case histories. This is because when many of these guys talk to me, I feel it would be so much more personal to include their actual words in my manual. I feel that they can get the point across better than I. Do you like this practice? Write and let me know. If you have any good experiences in meeting and dating women, write and let me know about them. I might include it in my next manual. Okay, on to Richard. Richard: "I was at a singles bar one night feeling sorry for myself as usual. I just could not meet any women. My buddy was there with me and he made contact with a good looking girl. I thought how lucky he was. He came over and told me that the girl he met had a girlfriend and asked if I would like to meet her. I was really interested, but I didn't know what to say to her so I asked him what she looked like. He told me that was a fox and wanted someone to dance with. I reluctantly agreed to meet her, but I was positive that she wouldn't like me. When my buddy brought her over to introduce her to me I was shocked and speechless. She was a real beauty. Her name was Laurie and she looked like an angel that dropped from heaven. She had long dark hair and  beautiful sparkling eyes. My buddy left her alone with me and went off dancing with the girl he was with. Laurie was real sweet but I didn't know what to say to her. I was an avid talker with guys, but here with this beautiful girl I was speechless. It's a good thing the bar was closing. I wanted to see Laurie again so I asked her out. At first she hesitated, but I  blurted out "Maybe we can go to Disney World". Her face lit up like a kid who had been told that Santa Claus was coming. Her entire tone changed. She was so excited. Though she had lived in Florida for a couple years, she had never been to Disney World. She said that she would be thrilled to go. That Saturday was one of the best days in my life. We went on most of the rides, even the ones mostly for kids. We were like two kids having the best time of our lives. Laurie said that it was the best date she ever had. Laurie and I have been dating about six months now. Recently she told me that she would never have gotten to know me if I didn't take her to Disney World that day. She wasn't going to go out with me because I seemed dull and boring. Asking her to go to Disney World broke the ice. She told me very few guys would take a girl to an amusement park and when they did, they had a very good chance of winning a girl's heart. All women like the little boy in a man. Show her this little boy and you'll be surprised at the results. Don't be like every other guy and take her to dinner and a movie. Be different and you'll have more women than you could handle. Other places you can take a date to make it unforgettable are some of the following: take her on a Sunday  picnic... a picnic is very romantic and she'll remember it for a long long time. How about a helicopter ride? That's certainly different and unique. Bring her a present on the first date. She'll view your generosity as a sign of loving, of caring, of giving. Try it.  Next time you arrive to pick her up, see how excited she is because you've you've brought her a box of candy, a card that you thought was funny or some flowers. Do the above and I guarantee you won't be sorry. You will be amply rewarded.

 

Biggest mistake men make on their first date You may be shocked at the material in this section, but I've talked to hundreds of women and they are all in agreement that men are too aggressive, to pushy, especially on the first date. According to most women, men act like sex crazed idiots, like a dog in heat. This goes hand in hand with the "D" technique which I will describe in the next section. A lot of good looking women expressed the same attitude as Tina did. Tina: "I just don't understand men. They all think that they have to act like some kind of macho horny he−man to win over a woman. I met this real nice guy at a singles dance one night. His name was Jim and he came across as a sincere, nice person. He asked me for a date and I agreed. He wasn't that good looking, but he seemed to have a real nice personality. He picked me up for our date and right away I noticed a difference. Women know. In the car, he seemed to be leering at me, as if he was undressing me with his eyes. He looked as if his tongue was hanging out and he kept  panting like a dog in heat. I couldn't believe that this was the same guy who I had met a few days earlier. He took me to a movie and put his arm around me. That was nice and romantic but he started kissing me on my ear which was a real turnoff for two reasons. It was too soon after I met him and it was in a crowded movie theater. He was also breathing hard like he was extremely worked up and raring to go. We went to a singles bar afterwards and that was even worse. I love to dance, but not with him. We danced a few slow dances and that was enough. On the dance floor he was humping me as we danced. It was crude and vulgar. I was embarrassed and humiliated. I felt as if I were being raped on the dance floor. I finally told him that I didn't feel well and had to go home. At the door he asked if he could come in for a drink or  a cup of coffee. What nerve! I told him to go to hell and slammed the door in his face. He called me many times after that, but I would never go out with him again. Where are all the nice, courteous, romantic men? Practically every guy I meet expects sex on the first date. I want to be courted in the old fashioned romantic way. Maybe it's just a dream. There are no nice guys around." It's a shame that Tina feels that way. There are a lot of nice guys around, but most of them are misguided as to how to treat a woman on the first date. A woman is not a piece of meat. She's a wonderful person with feelings. A lot of books I read on meeting women say to move fast, that women like it when a guy moves fast. This is total B.S. Do not feel that every time you take a woman out, it must end up in a heavy love making session, especially on the first date. Ignore some of the advice you may have heard about speeding up when you're with a woman. A woman today wants a man who is different and unique. Show her some consideration and respect, especially on the first date. You will rarely seduce a girl by being too horny. The more desperate you seem for sex, the less a woman will want to have sex with you. For a woman, nothing is more important than having a man take his time. Usually this is not what a woman runs into. Most men bombard women with sexual demands. If they don't come right out and ask the woman to go to bed with them, they usually act sullen and withdrawn until the girl agrees to give them what they want. This is a real turnoff because most women read this as sexual anxiety and insecurity. It's a real turnoff. A slow  pace is what a skilled lover takes. When he finally decides to have sex, the woman is a very willing target. The

 

advantages of taking your time are numerous. You are different from the hundreds of men stampeding after sex. Taking you time implies to a woman that you are a skilled lover, whether you really are or not. It allows you to get to know a woman in a relaxed way so when you do make love to her, it will be very exciting and wonderful. In the world of winning with women, it is one of the best techniques there is. This is very important. Don't push a girl to have sex. This goes hand in hand with the "D" technique which I consider dynamite in winning women. Use the "D" technique and be prepared for hoards of women to fall in love with you. The "D" technique The "D" technique, when employed correctly, is so powerful it should be shared with only those men who can use it correctly and wisely. The "D" technique, put simply, is to keep her dangling. Do not even attempt any sexual advances to a woman until at least the 7th or 8th time you date her, even longer if you can hold out. Don't laugh or scoff at the simplicity of this. It works, it works like crazy. Let me tell you of my own experiences and how the "D" technique literally got dozens of women to chase me and fall in love with me. You can prove the power of the "D" technique to yourself the same way that I did. I discovered the "D" technique quite by accident. I had been meeting various women through personal ads. I would arrange to meet them for coffee dates and a little conversation. 90% of them would agree to go out with me on a first date, but I could never get a second date with them. I was doing something wrong and had to find out what. I thought over what I did and figured maybe I was coming on too strong on the first date. I decided to develop an uncaring attitude about sex. On my next date I would act like she didn't turn me on at all. A girl named Shirley answered one of my ads. She sent me a letter with her phone number so I called her and made a date for a cup of coffee. I met her and we both agreed to go out that same evening for a few drinks and do some dancing. I was completely worry free that night. I had a good time and made no sexual passes at all. I acted just as if I was out with a female friend. When I took Shirley home, I walked to her door, gave her a light kiss and left. She looked surprised and bewildered. I dated Shirley sex or seven times before she practically attacked me one night in her  apartment. By that time, she was madly in love with me because I was different than any other guy she dated. I presented a complete challenge. If a woman thinks she doesn't appeal to you, she will try anything to prove to you that she is appealing. I always use the "D" technique. In the six months after I dated Shirley, I met thirty other women and tried the "D" technique on every one of them. On each date, I acted very nonchalant and indifferent as far as sexual contact was concerned. Every one of these women fell for me. They called me night and day trying to get me interested in them. They were trying to seduce me instead of the other way around. This is dynamite and really works. Why does it work? Because you're a challenge. Do you always wonder why women fall for guys they cannot seem to hold onto. Because the "D" technique is used over and over again. It can be used for other areas besides sex too. You can dangle a woman as far as interest is concerned also. Do not call her every night. Keep her guessing about how you feel. Let her be aware that you date other women.. This will hold her interest. You will always be a challenge and women love a challenge. I've got to tell you about Doug. Doug is in his early 30's, divorced and a little overweight. But he had dozens of beautiful women chasing

 

him night and day. It wasn't always that way. I'm going to let Doug tell you exactly what he told me. Doug: "I was a hopeless failure with women for years. I met Wayne in a singles club, "Parents Without Partners". We talked quite a while and I told him about my trouble with women. He advised me to start being more relaxed around women and to stop being so eager for sex when I took them out. I read all the books and how liberated women were and I figured that they were all eager for sex. It was so easy to meet women in PWP (Parents Without Partners) because there were about two women for every guy. I could usually get the first date with a girl, but none of them would go out with me a second time. I knew I was doing something wrong. I told Wayne all this and he told me about the "D" technique. What did I have to lose? I asked a girl named Barbara out. Even though it was easy to meet women in PWP, the really good looking ones would not go out with me. I would settle for the less attractive women. Barbara was nice, but average (I know I should have judged women  by their personalities and not looks, but at that time I had never dated dated a beautiful woman and I dreamed about it all the time). When I went out with Barbara I acted like a completely different person. Wayne said the dangling technique was to keep the girl dangling as long as possible and not to make any sexual advances. Just have a good time. Barbara and I did have a good time. It was nice because there was no tension in the air for me to make a move sexually. We went bowling and I treated her just like a friend, not a sexual conquest. I dated Barbara seven times  before I even tried anything sexual at all (other than an occasional kiss). By that time Barbara was ready to attack  me. She even asked me why I didn't find her attractive. I dated three or four other women while I was dating Barbara and I treated them all the same. I tried no sexual advances on any of them. Soon very good looking women were approaching me at the PWP meetings and dances. They were coming up to me and introducing themselves. Some of my buddies told me that I was getting a reputation as a lady killer. Evidently some of the women were talking. I must have dated over 100 women in PWP in that year. Some of the gilrs I dated were so sexy and appealing it was hard for me to hold back, but the wait was worth it. The sex I did have was exciting and wonderful. After dangling these women for so long, they went out of their way to please me. Now that I've dated some of the most beautiful women around, all women appeal to me. I date beautiful women as well as average looking women. I can date practically any woman I want. In the last year my reputation has become legion. Women approach me all the time wanting to dance and go out with me. I am the first guy women want to meet when they join PWP. Other guys are jealous and envious of me. I owe it all to the "D" technique, thanks Wayne." Doug is on of the many guys using the "D" technique successfully. You can do the same. You've got to adopt the attitude of dating women in a non−sexual way early in the dating game. You will be a challenge to them. They will wonder if they are appealing and why you don't find them attractive. This will make you very attractive to them, and they will go to any lengths to seduce you. By the 6th or 7th date you will drive these women crazy wondering why you are not making a sexual advance. They will be wild for your body by this time. Besides sex, you should also let a woman dangle for many other  reasons.

 

 No woman likes a doormat for a boyfriend, be be more of a challenge. Always leave some doubt as to how you feel about her. Treat her nice and tender, but don't call her every night and day. Tell her you love her, but don't let her  think the sun rises and shines on her. Women will respect and love you if you're more of a challenge and a mystery. I would like to hear from more of you on the results you obtain using the "D" technique. The first 60 seconds What you say or do in the first 60 seconds will determine many times whether or not a woman will respond to you. All you have to do is keep the woman's unconscious attention focused directly on you (and off everyone else) in a positive manner for a total of one minute from the time you meet her. This really works, you must project something positive and appealing. Come across very humorous and very honest and you will do very well. Some of the best approaches in the first 60 seconds are the following. 1: Ask for help. This is one of the best. You can go up to a woman and ask her just about anything. Women love to  be helpful. You can ask her questions about directions, cooking, cooking, grocery shopping, and even ask her to help you  pick out a gift for your mother. 2: An honest approach. Just go up to her and tell her she's pretty and that you would like to meet her. Honesty is the  best policy. A woman appreciates a man who is honest. 3: One of the best approaches is the humorous approach. Just go up to a girl a smile and start laughing and joking about anything, a funny movie or book, etc. This worked for me with a good looking girl named Linda. Let me tell you about Linda. You can use the same technique. I went to a singles dance one Friday night by myself and was hoping to meet some girls. I got there about eight thirty and the first thing I did was order a drink and stand against the wall watching the girls. It's amazing how many of us guys make a career of standing up against the wall. I noticed Linda about two hours later. She was sitting at a table with a girl I knew, just a friend of mine. I kept staring at Linda but she kept turning her head away. I thought she must be a snob because she didn't even smile when she looked up at me. Finally the other girl waved me over and asked me to sit down for a second. I, being my friendly self, sat down but didn't know what to say. I sat there for nearly 10 minutes not saying a word. I was aware of Linda the whole time because she smelled so good and was so pretty. She was a brunette and had the most beautiful eyes that I had ever seen. She also had long beautiful hair and I just love long hair. Jan, the other girl I knew, was asked to dance and I was left sitting alone with Linda. I was sitting in stunned silence when I decided to say something. I blurted out, "I wonder if the wall fell down yet, I was holding it up so long." I looked over at the wall and ran over to pretend to hold it up again. Linda laughed a little and she seemed to  become more friendly. We even danced a few few times. Before they left that night, I became bold (....pun....) and asked for Linda's phone number. She told me that she just moved and didn't have a phone, but could she have mine. I gave her my phone number but I never expected her to call because I felt she was politely turning me down by not giving me her phone number. To my shock, she called me a few days later. We made a date and went out the

 

following week. We had a hell of a good time. Linda and I went together for about six months and it was one of the best periods of my life. I asked Linda one time why she even talked to me that night and why she called me. She told me something that I'd remember for a long time and it helped me meet dozens of pretty girls after that. She looked at me and said, "You opened your mouth." Just because I said something humorous, I appealed to her. I know I could never appeal to her on my looks alone. Linda was about 10 years younger than me and extremely sexy. Guys everywhere used to stare at her when I took her out. Just open your mouth. Very good advice. Say something and hold her interest for at least 60 seconds. You will have 50% of the battle won. My cousing David discovered a very unique method of meeting women and he shared it with me. He met over a 100 girls with this method. Use it and you will be surprised. Let David tell you about it. David: "I discovered this quite by accident. I worked for a toy manufacturer. We were trying to sell a new line of stuffed animals that talked. I had an appointment out of town one day to demonstrate the bear. I had a room at the Holiday Inn and was testing the bear in my room and had trouble getting it to work. I decided I would be more relaxed if I had a drink. So I went down to the bar with the teddy bear. I sat at a corner table trying to figure out why the teddy bear wouldn't talk. I was nearly frantic when I heard a soft voice asking me about what I had in my hands and how cute it was. I looked up and saw one of the prettiest girls I had ever seen. She sat down and asked to see the bear. I have her the bear and she had it talking in a minute. I had the batteries in wrong. Many girls came over that night to see the bear. I made friends with a lot of them and they said they would go out with me next time I was in town. I bring unusual stuffed animals anytime I go to a bar or resturant now. Wayne and I met twelve girls one night in a resturant we brought some stuffed dogs in and set them on the table. I met over 100 girls just by bringing some kind of unusual toy with me in a resturant or bar." Remember, girl like a guy who is different or unique. Try bringing a cute stuffed animal in a bar or resturant some night and see how many girls come over and start a conversation with you. You can certainly hold their  interest for 60 seconds. You can even tell them it's a gift for your little niece or nephew. This is one of the best methods for meeting a woman and holding her interest that I know of. The most important gift a guy can give a girl I talked to hundreds of women about this and they all agreed that the very best gift a guy can give them is to  become their friend. You would be surprised that so many women are dying for a man to be their friend. friend. Friendship, in many ways, is even more special than romance or sex and a relationship that developes from a friendship is extremely enduring and satisfying. The sad part is that so many men today are so eager to seduce a woman that they forget all about being their  friend. Most of the time they don't even like her. A man that allows himself to become close to a woman and  become her friend can only make the vibes between them more exciting and intimate. The most successful pickup artists are men who truly enjoy the company of women. A woman is a lot more free and open with a man who opens up to her, let's her know how terrific she is, and allows friendship to develop  between them.

 

Love is a little more than sex plus friendship. But for love to appear, friendship has to be their first. I missed out on one of the sexiest and nicest girls in the world because I didn't know the value of friendship. I first met Bonnie in my second year of college. She sat next to me in Psychology class. She was breathtaking in her beauty. She had long black hair and a shape that wouldn't quit. We were picked to write a project together. We became very close friends because we had to study together. I remember that many times sitting next to Bonnie that I became misty eyed because she was so pretty and smelled so good. I thought to myself, "Why couldn't she be more than just a friend?" Many of my buddies saw us studying together and told me that they would like to have a friend like her. Bonnie and I became a twosome around college. I figured she regarded me just like a brother and would never consider me more than a friend. Bonnie and I went our separate ways and I ran into her about ten years later. I saw her at a shopping mall one evening. I was married at the time, about to get divorced, and Bonnie was as beautiful as ever. She was married to a doctor. She shocked me by what she told me. She admitted to me that I was the best friend she ever had in college and that because I was so close to her that she fell in love with me. She never told me that because she figured that I wasn't interested. I couldn't believe it. Here I thought she considered me to be just a friend, but because I became her friend, she fell in love with me. I missed out because I didn't know how high women value friendship from men. I no longer make that mistake. Because I become friends with nearly all women I date, I have had dozens of  women fall in love with me. Do not throw away this chance. The next woman you meet, become her friend and you won't be sorry. Romance Do not skip over this section lightly. Women all over the world are dying for men with a little romance in their  souls. You have to get away from being the common guy. Become romantic. One of the most important traits that women are trying to find in their search for good men is romance. They are  praying for this. Women want romance. They crave it. They dream about it. And they get very little of it from from their men. Some of the ways you can get romantic are the following: 1: Take her for a walk. Walk some place that's nice and pretty, hold her hand, talk of dreams, be together and alone. A woman would love a walk in the park. She would love to sit with you on a couple of swings, swinging back and forth without a care. Believe me, if you can lure her into taking a walk, the romance will flow and the closeness will be greater than it could ever be on a date. 2: Kiss her very romantically the first time. When you kiss her for the first time, don't let it be at the door when you drive her home. How about when you're walking her to the car? Do this: stop and hold her in your arms, kiss her gently and say, "I know this is a weird place to kiss you, but I  just want to say I'm glad to meet you and to thank you for coming into my life." She will probably remember it always.

 

3: Compliment her on her looks. Never tell her she is beautiful, but always substitute the word pretty. Girls love that word and when you say, "You're so pretty", or "Hi pretty face", it will melt her heart. Always tell her she looks nice and pretty. You will never lose out. 4: Buy her all kinds of small gifts during the year, not just on her birthday, but anytime. Send her all kinds of  romantic cards anytime of the year. You will never be without women if you use a little romance on them. How to get any woman you want Is there a certain woman you want that you think you cannot have? If there is, or if you ever run into a beautiful woman that you want with all your heart and soul, there is a certain program you can follow to win her. Perhaps she is going with some handsome dude or she is so pretty that you feel she is unattainable. Neither one is reason not to try to win her. Let me tell you a little secret.  No woman can resist a programmed, persistent, sincere pursuit. By nature, a woman woman loves to be chased, wooed and wanted. Joe wanted this girl so bad that he could taste it. He finally won her over by pursuing the hell out of  her. Do the same thing he did and I guarantee you no girl can resist it. Joe: "I first saw Tiffany at the bank where I do my business. She was one of the tellers. She was so beautiful and nice that I dreamed of her at night. I was determined that I would take her out. I asked her out, but she told me that she was engaged. I was still determined to have her. I found out where she lived and started sitting outside her house in the evenings. I knew HE went over to her house at night, so one night I hid in the bushes and waited for him. When he came up the walk I came up behind him and acted like I was lost. In my hand was a bunch of roses and a small toy angel. I kept looking at a piece of paper in my hand pretending I was looking for an address. I said to him, "Excuse me, I'm delivering for Anderson's florist. Could you tell me where a Miss Tiffany Wilson lives?" He was very helpful and even took up the gift with him. There was a note with the gift that said, "To the angel from your devil. Tell HIM I said thanks for delivering these for me, Joe." This cracked her up so much she called me later and was still laughing about it. From then on I put notes and cards on his car window when he picked her up for a date. I always said it was from the one who really loved her, her little devil, just waiting for his angel to reform him. He was getting madder and madder about me. He was showing a really jealous side of his nature, I send flowers and cards of love to the bank where she worked. One time I put flowers in his car while he was inside her apartment picking her up for a date. On his side of the car I put a stuffed jackass. I put a note saying, "Hi, thinking of you but felt it wouldn't be fair to slight him, so I bought him a little token, Joe." Boy was he pissed off. She was laughing and he was pissed and the more she laughed, the madder he got. Another time I put a note on her door when they were out on a date so they would see it when he walked her to the door. It said, "Joe was here to touch your door, because he loves you. Sleep tight." Eventually they broke up  because he was always giving her hell about me. They were always fighting. She finally started dating dating me and

 

eventually I married her. She never forgot the wild things I did to win her over." If you decide you want a woman, stick by your convictions and never give up. In the beginning she may avoid you, embarrass you or even totally ignore you. So what! You want her and you don't intend to give up until you get her. Romance her every one of her days. Send her tokens of affections at all hours of the day and night. Send her notes, flowers, toys, perfumes, and anything else that would be beneficial. Try everything in the book. Just don't stop trying. If you persist, she will eventually break down. It may take a year, but the wait will definitely be worth it.  Note from Jason: Please remember to be respectful of her privacy. You may scare her if you start treading on personal ground, and your actions may be considered sexual harrassment. Always remember, this is a call for a little romance, not for  you to turn into a stalker. Impress her by going out of your way for her, but  never do anything illegal, or  anything that would endanger anyone's saftey. In the end, you alone will be held responsible for your words and actions, and you have to always remember, that sometimes.. no just mean no. How to talk to women Has this ever happened to you? You walk up to a girl, manage to introduce yourself and you dry up. You stand there in front of this total stranger and can't think of a thing to say. There is a way to prepare yourself so you won't be tongue tied when you are with a girl. The way to do this is to prepare a format, a sequence of  conversational techniques. You can do this by doing the following: 1: Get the girl talking. Women love to talk if you can get her talking about things that interest her by asking questions and taking an interest. The best questions to ask are: a: "What work do you do?" She will tell you about her duties and co−workers. She could talk about this for hours. You and she could then talk about each other's work and really get into a good conversation.  b: "What school did you go to?" You can follow up on this by asking her what courses she took, what kind of  activities she engaged in, etc. You can even ask her about some of her teachers. c: "What kind of music do you like?" You can really get into it about music, singers and records. You can really talk about anything and everything. Talk about movies, television (your favorite shows), radio,  politics, current events, etc. Remember, women love a good listener and if you get her talking, she will love you for listening and taking and interest in her ideas. Some of the things not to talk about are sex (not at first), past girlfriends or religion (not when you first meet her). Women love a sense of humor, so always be prepared to tell some humorous stories or funny jokes. Just do not engage her in very dull or uninteresting talk. For example, do not talk about science or the sex life of rocks. You will be surprised how easy it is to talk to a girl after some practice.

 

Using psychology on good looking women If you can use pysychology on women, you will be very successful in handling women. You can have a great degree of influence over the way women think if you go about it the right way. You should train yourself in the art of influencing other people the same way you train yourself for a job. First of all, to successful in using  pschology on women, you must fullfill her needs. You can determine her needs by a lot of listening and watching. Keep a woman talking about herself and make mental notes of what she likes, her fears, her wants and needs etc. Always watch what she does and you will eventually be given the key to what makes her tick. You will know how to satisfy her deepest needs and desires. This is not hard to do, all you have to do is be a good listener. Another way psychology becomes helpful in handling women is using the pricicples of selling. You must create a desire for yourself in the woman. Just think if a salesman was selling sweepers and he went up to a prospect an said, "Here it is lady, would you like to buy it?" He would make very few sales. The most important aspect of selling is that a desire for the product can be created in the person by a prolonged simulation of the person's imagination with favorable aspects of the product. This can be done by talking or writing about the product. You can do the same with a woman you're trying to impress. You can create a favorable image of yourself by a continued exposure of your personality to a woman. Be humorous, nice and gentle and you will sell yourself in her mind. Fullfill her needs and let her feel good and important when she's with you and you will have it made. Why it's easier to pick up good looking women than plain ones Many times it's a lot easier to pick up very pretty women rather than plain looking ones. Why? Because a lot of   plain looking women want handsome men. It makes them look look better to others, especially their friends. But most women, especially pretty ones, attach much more importance to what's inside a man than what's outside. Personality, sensitivity, and a sense of humor are real turn ons for most women. In fact, a number of very beautiful women do not want handsome men. They feel a handsome man is empty and has no personality because he relies on his looks to meet women. They say that they would rather take an ordinary looking guy who's fun to be with rather than a guy who is stuck on his looks. Women slave over their looks, so the last thing they want is to be with some handsome dude who everyone stares at. They want to be with a man who lets them be the pretty one. This is definetely true because I have heard it from nearly every beautiful woman I know. So go to it and chase some beautiful women. Summary The things you have learned in this manual have brought miraculous change in my life and I am sure they wll do the same for you. Those gorgeous women with sparkling eyes, long beautiful hair, sensual lips, and a sexy shape can now be yours. The point is to meet a lot of women and get along with all of them. Meet and date as many as you can. It will  prepare you if you are looking for for the love of your life. But life is short, so enjoy it. The techniques in this manual are very effective and no girl, no matter how beautiful, is out of your reach. The world's most desirable women are yours for the taking. Enjoy yourself. If you ever need my advice or you just want to brag about your success, be sure to visit the Members Only Forum.