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Warm Dominance Drills

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1.Eye Contact 2.Positive Visualisation 3.Acknowledge Flow 4.Aikido Spin Opening Drills

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1.Punchy Questions 2.Question + Compliance 3.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read 4.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read + Isolate Intrigue Drills

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1.Hooks(Missing Information) 2.Cold Reads 3.Hedge your bets Leader Drills

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1.Question - Mini Isolate 2.Compliment - Kino 3.Kino - Meet Friends (Isolate) Thread Management Drills

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1.Simple Thread Flow 2.The Negotiator Role Playing Drill

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1.(a)Daddy Daughter l.(b)Old Flame 1.(c)Teacher - Student l.(d) Vacation Credibility Drills

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1.Friends Stories (Statement - Related Story) 2.Qualification - Compliment 3.Problem - Reframe DiCarlo Escalation Drills 1.Incidental - Overt Class 1 2.Incidental - Overt Class 2 3.Incidental - Overt Class 3

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Follow-Up Drills (Logistics)

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1.Getting Phone Number 2.Getting Day 2 Logistics Drills

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1.Changing Venues (Lets Go!) 2.Isolation Escalation Ramp Drill

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1.Memorization of Ramp Advanced Cold Reading

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1.Pace and Lead 2.Coversational Cold Read 3.Magic Mirror 4.Derren Brown Mentalism Sexual Tension Drills

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1.Sensual Language 2.Double Entendres Compliance Drills

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1.Dirty Compliance (Re-Frame) 2.Imaginary Compliance Reality Replacement Drills 1.Compliance Levels 2.The Virtual/Imaginary Ladder

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1. Welcome to DiClassified Drills 2. The Attraction Hierarchy 3. W a r m Dominance Drills 4. Starting Conversations with Groups 5. Opening Drills 6. Intrigue Drills 7. Leadership Drills 8. Role Playing Drills 9. Managing Conversational Threads 10. Credibility Drills 11. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 12. Follow-up Drills 13. Logistics Drills 14. Advanced Cold Reading Drills 15. Sexual Tension Drills 16. Compliance Drills 17. Escalation Ramp 18. Ramp Drill 19. Reality Replacement Drills 20. A Quick Word From Vin

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DiClassified DRILLS Welcome to DiClassified Drills, Cont. Everyone has a threshold of how much social "input" or information they can process at a given time. This places restrictions and blind spots on their social interactions.

The purpose of this program is to instill the deep belief within you that pick-up is easy. I will do that by removing the mysticism and hocus pocus from pick-up.

The drills will push to your threshold, and then way beyond it. You can think of as working out your mental muscles. By doing this over and over a variety of different ways, your entire personality will evolve.

The belief or feeling that pick-up is hard, difficult or complicated is an illusion. If you prefer to keep things simple in life, this can be the only guide you'll ever need.

Don't worry though, you won't lose your core identity. This process simply allows your true nature to s h i n e through, uninhibited. You will lose a lot of your old dysfunctional behaviors that kept you from reaching your goals in this area of your life.

So prepare for an experience. Take good notes. Write down your realizations. Participate FULLY. This is not just designed to help you out a little bit with your social life— this is hardcore pick-up training. You're not here to hear me lecture for 7 hours a day and then watch me talk to girls at night. You're here to rewire your automatic res p o n s e s and change your entire m e n t a l strategy. I can do this because I have built this bootcamp structure on a gradient of increasing difficulty. That is, every one of the 36+ drills in this program is built on a foundation of everything that has c o m e before. You will take two major concepts away from this weekend: 1.

A drastic i m p r o v e m e n t of your social intelligence. Competence in social intelligence can be defined as the intelligence that lies behind group interactions and behaviors. Any intelligence is not something you are born with, but rather something that can be developed.

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Internalization of the DiClassified System and with it, a deep k n o w i n g n e s s that attraction is a p r o c e s s . Many guys believe that attraction is either there or it isn't. Many successful naturals simply believe that with them, it's always there. While it is true, a woman can be attracted or not, it is also true that attraction is a process that anyone can lead anyone else through. People have built in responses. Some of your current automatic responses may be limiting you in ways you don't yet even realize. All women also have these automatic responses. Your job is to learn and practice a set of cognitive tools that you can use to learn to lead these responses in predictable ways. For once, you will be creating attraction on purpose.

Please keep this booklet safe, and private. If you are going to share your experience, I prefer that you only share this experience with no more than 3 of your closest friends. That way we can all enjoy the "elite" or "underground" nature of the bootcamp. Here's to your success, Vin

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DiClassified DRILLS The Attraction Hierarchy The hierarchy consists of five levels of conditions that dictate whether sexual attraction will be present or not. Each one is dependent on the earlier ones. So in other words, the lower levels serve as a necessary foundation on which the higher levels may build.

Drillset Sequence #1 You Need to Establish a Strong Internal Frame

For example, Level 3: Connection, does not function as attractive unless both Level l: Warm Dominance and Level 2: Intrigue are both present. The Hierarchy is as follows: Level 1: Warm Dominance Level 2: Intrigue Level 3: Connection Level 4: Credibility Level 5: Leadership These levels will be drilled to the point of internalization in order to construct a personality which is naturally attractive.

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W a r m Dominance Drills

It means: To Possess a steadfast emotional state that is completely independent of transitory social interactions.

Drill #1: Face to Face Encounter

In other words, your livelihood, your energy and your happiness is completely independent of the girl you are talking to, or her friends, or other people in the vicinity. If you have ever acted differently around a girl because you were attracted to her, you did NOT possess warm dominance. If you were upset or thrown off balance because a girl wasn't attracted to you, you did NOT possess warm dominance. The key is to draw your energy from things in your life OUTSIDE of meeting women. Meeting women should be a fun activity that you do, not a need to be fulfilled.

Purpose: To get comfortable emotionally with another person who you do not yet know. Application: Sit across from your partner and hold eye contact without flinching, looking away, laughing or fidgeting. This should be done for about 5 minutes. Drill #2: Encounter plus Visualization Purpose: To be able to see the abilities in other people, which in turn creates those abilities in yourself. Application: Sit across from your partner and while holding eye contact, visualize that person having success with women. (Having conversations, getting phone numbers, women pleasantly involved in the interactions) Drill back and forth for 2-3 minutes. After the drill you may debrief and share what you visualized.

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Drill # 3 : Acknowledge-Flow

Drill # 4 : Aikido Spin

Purpose: To be able to keep your attention flowing despite a person's non-compliance.

Purpose: To be able to interpret any negative remarks or tests as positive indicators of interest.

Application: 1. Sit across from your partner, holding eye contact. 2. Partner uses stock "woman tests" to try to reject you. 3. You must move on using stock acknowledgements.

Application: 1. Sit across from your partner, holding eye contact. 2. Partner insults and belittles you verbally. 3. Each time you receive an insult, you must interpret it as positive, and react to it with enthusiasm.

Do not react negatively, laugh or otherwise try to make your partner feel bad. W o m a n tests: I don't like that shirt. Why are you talking to me? I only talk to good looking guys. Buy me a drink. We're having a private conversation. Acknowledgements: • Cool. Check this out.... • That's great. And... • Awesome. By the way...

Drill as if it's an actual conversation with a woman. Example: Partner: This might not be the club for you, maybe you should try the gay bar down the street. You: I know aren't gay bars awesome! One time a bunch of us went, and my female friends absolutely loved the fact that they weren't getting hit on continuously. Anyway have you ever sang karaoke? This should be done back and forth for 15 minutes.

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Drillset Sequence #2 You Need to be Able to Start Conversations with Groups, Take Control and Manage the Group Dynamic

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Starting Conversations with Groups

The Easiest Way to Open

When approaching a group of people it's important to be aware of a three different factors:

The fastest, easiest way to open a group is with short, punchy questions.

Your Energy.

I prefer NOT to use stories as openers. If you rely on a story for the first 30 seconds, how are you going to make it through 4 hours of natural interaction?

Friendly, warm and assertive. Open with a big smile, and approach them confidently. Do not hesitate or show any signs of insecurity.

Use Short Questions. Good Questions:

Your Presence. Speak loud enough so that the whole group can hear you. Stand up straight and have relaxed body language. Make eye contact with everyone in the group. Your Conversational Content. Should be kept light, positive and somewhat relevant. Topics that work well are your immediate surroundings, fashion and cities. Note: Opening is easy. Many people lose confidence in their material. But it is that very loss of confidence which is harmful to the interaction. Have confidence in your material, and anything can work.

1. Hooks. Why are Manhattan girls so friendly? Why are women so possessive? 2. Humor. Who invited the physics'club? (If there's a group of nerds nearby) 3. Accusations. Are you wearing socks? (If she has white, non-distinct shoes on) Are those bracelets (If she's wearing huge hoop earrings) 4. Controversial. Should Paris go to Jail? Do you guys believe in psychics? Bad Questions: 1. Tourist Frame: Do you guys know any good bars? What time is it? 2. Rapport Seeking: What is your name? Where are you from? 3. Supplicative: Can I buy you a drink? Are you a model?

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Opening Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Punchy Questions

Drill #2: Compliance Escalation

Purpose: To build confidence in opening with short, punchy questions.

Purpose: To set a strong precedent of leadership, by using a quick, and easy compliance request.

Application: Approach the group and spontaneously ask a question.

Application: Approach the group with a punchy question. Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request. The request may or may not be related to the initial question, it does not matter.

Don't worry if you use a "bad" question at first, we will repeat the process over and over quickly to build your spontaneity.

Easy Compliance Requests:

Approach the group, with awareness of your energy, presence and conversational content. Launch into your question. The goal is to deliver your question, and have everyone in the group hear and understand it.

Hold my drink one sec. Here, turn around, let me see. Let me see your hand. Wave to my friend over there.

If anyone in the group objects to your energy or presence, you must try again. The objector should give one point of feedback, and allow you to try again.

Also, rapport seeking questions can now be effective since they will be delivered through the right frame:

You must get universal affinity from everyone in the entire group. Drill until you can achieve this consistently.

What's your name? Where are you guys from? Who's the leader here?

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Drill #3: Mini-Cold Reads

Drill #4: Leadership

Purpose: To generate fast intrigue by playfully making snap judgments on girls within the group.

Purpose: To incorporate active escalation into your interactions. Instead of waiting around hoping something happens, you make it happen.

Application: Approach the group with a punchy question. Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request. After getting a positive response to either your punchy question or compliance request, use a mini-cold-read on anyone in the group.

Application: Leading with the sequence created from the previous 3 drills, this time, use the leadership momentum you create to mini-isolate yourself with an individual of your choice within the group. Example:

It does not have to be related to either of the previous two bits, and can in fact be directed toward anyone in the group.

You: Who invited the physics club? (Laughter)

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You: Come over here. (Girl comes over)

You're trouble Girls like you get away with murder You're a recovering nerd, aren't you This girl has good taste in fashion, I'm giving her a job I can tell that you're intuitive You're a shy girl—but when you're with the right people, watch out

You: It was you, wasn't it? I can tell. You're a recovering nerd... Aren't you... (Girl: Why do you think that?) You: It's ok I won't tell anyone. I was a nerd once too, here, let's share some equations. (Mini—Isolation) (Be sure not to say this too seriously, she should know you are kidding, but it will definitely disarm the rest of her group)

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Drillset Sequence #3 You Need to Hook FAST and Get Her Chasing You Immediately

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Intrigue Drills, Cont.

It means: To withhold your power on some level, whether it means holding back information, compliance or direct indications of your interest.

Drill #1: Hooks

Intrigue can also be described as a negative compliance ratio. This means that the girl is working harder in the interaction than you are. For example—early in an approach— you need to demonstrate that you know more about her than she knows about you.

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Purpose: To learn standard hooks that can be used to get a woman curious about you, and trying to find out more information. These are good early on in the interaction. Application: Begin by starting out with a standard hook from the list below. Your partner will then pick up on the implied question, and try to get a logical answer to it. You respond immediately with a line from below, or one you made up. The line must not give away the logical answer to the question.

She should be physically turned more toward you than you toward her. Standard Hooks: (Unanswered question in italics) Later on, she should be talking more than you are, and you should be more relaxed than her. On a date, she should travel further than you do to meet her. Maintaining this balance is the key to creating a vacuum that continues to pull her toward you.

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Do you always act like this when you go out? Drill #2: Cold Reads

• Act like what? • Ask so many questions... • • •

Do you know who you remind me of? Never mind. Who do I remind you of? In about 2 minutes my friend will get here... and he'll tell you the answer.

Drill until your response is immediate, with no hesitation and you feel comfortable with leaving unanswered questions.

Purpose: To amplify intrigue by demonstrating that you have some secret knowledge about them. This in turn makes them even more curious about you. Application: Use the standard cold reads from the list below. After you can deliver all three without reading off the page, (they don't have to be word for word) in an authentic manner, create an original read based on something you believe may be true about your partner. Standard Cold Reads: • A lot of guys think you're aloof and distant, and they don't realize that it's just a shield, and they never really give you a second chance. And one of the things that makes you most happy is to show your real self to someone. • I get the sense that people around you and the circumstances of your life right now expects you to act like a grown up adult, but deep down, you're still just a little girl with little girl dreams and little girl wishes. •

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Drill #3: Hedge Your Bets Purpose: To calibrate your compliments by making them conditional and thus, retaining your power. Application: During conversation, give your partner a compliment, but then hedge it, in other words, make it conditional and much less flattering. Examples: •

You're a lot of fun. Especially for a blonde.

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I could really see myself hanging out with you—now and then.

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I'd really like to buy you a drink, in a couple hours.

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Your fashion is amazing, in the lighting in this bar.

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We HAVE to hang out, once I get to know you.

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You come across extremely intelligent, for a girl I met in a club.

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Leadership It means: The state of being in control of the social situation and producing certain outcomes through perceiving and exploiting windows of opportunity.

Drillset Sequence #4 You Need to Accurately Recognize and Capitalize on Open Windows of Opportunity

Once you have fulfilled the previous four levels of the hierarchy, the game is simply a matter of using leadership to escalate larger and larger levels of compliance. It is not just important to spotting windows—it is also important to be able to interpret events as windows. Because so many people have such a weak grasp of reality, they look to others for interpretation. The more you practice these drills, the more certain you become, and the more often you will create a reality that works in your favor. More people will follow you. The other half of the equation is having the proper tools to escalate in these windows. We will drill a number of these tools so you become comfortable in various situations.

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Drill #1: Question -> Mini Isolate

Drill #2: Compliment -> Kino

Purpose: If a girl asks you a personal question, she is most likely interested. The purpose is to train you to react positively with a simple mini-isolation the first time a girl displays strong interest by asking a question.

Purpose: If a girl gives you a compliment, she is putting herself on the line. It is a big window she is opening for you. You should reciprocate it with a simple kino escalation.

Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point your partner asks you a question that displays a genuine interest. You react by stepping to the side and pulling your partners attention toward you, as you answer the question. You do not have to move your partner any distance, you are simply changing their orientation away from the group and toward you. Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that you only mini-isolate when the question is enthusiastic and genuine. Do not respond if the partner asks the question in a bored manner or is looking away, etc.

Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point your partner gives you a compliment which may be physical or based on information given in the conversation. (Side note: Most girls will give a physical compliment because that's all they know.) You will react by pulling your partner closer (with your arm on the opposite waist) while anchoring your hips together , as you either reciprocate the compliment or amplify it by asking questions like "Really? Why do you think that?" with a positive vibe. Drill back and forth for 10 minutes or until the move is natural.

Example: Example: Partner: You're a musician? What instrument do you play?

Partner: You have really nice eyes.

You: (Pulling your partner's attention to the side) Well I've been playing guitar for 10 years. But it wasn't always easy...

You: (Pulling your partner close) Thanks, I think you're really attractive too. And you've got such a great energy.

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Drill #3: Kino -> Meet Friends Purpose: When a woman starts touching you, or reciprocating your kino, it's not only a huge indication of interest, but it can also be dangerous if her friends are around. When this happens, you must take the lead and relocate her. Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point your partner grabs your hand. At this point you say "You know what? My friends would love you. Let's go meet them." If she is in a group, turn to the group and say "Guys, I'm stealing your friend for a moment, we'll be right back." Drill back and forth for 10 minutes.

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DiClassified DRILLS Role-playing Drill Drill #1: Role-playing Purpose: To create a fantasy scenario by using playful dialogue. The fantasy allows her to disengage her logical mind and bypass socially programmed objections.

Drillset Sequence #5

Application: Partner picks a role-playing theme from the list below, and you playfully talk to your partner as if you are in that role. Keep the dialogue consistent with the role.

You Need to Step Outside the Context of a Pick-up by Creating Alternate Scenarios with RolePlaying and other Playful Devices

Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with each of the 4 themes. Daddy-Daughter: There's a lot of strangers around here, so stay close and hold my hand. If you're a good girl later, I'm going to take you for some ice cream. Old L o v e r s R e u n i t e d : This is wonderful. This bar reminds me of our first date. Ah, Paris was wonderful, so many cute little cafes and shops. We almost went broke with all the shopping you did! Teacher-Student: Now pay attention. I'm going to teach you something very important. You only got a A- on your last test, but if you work a little harder this semester, I think you might get an A. Vacation: I'm so glad we decided to come to X-City this year honey. So many things to see, and we can leave all of our cares behind. No work, kids or dishes to do!

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Drillset Sequence #6 To Succeed with Women,, you Must be an Excellent Conversationalist

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Managing Conversational Threads

Threads, Cont.

Have you ever been in a conversation with a person—and were overwhelmed with topics that you wanted to talk about. It was almost if every new topic reminded you of three other things that you wanted to communicate with this person.

Let's list the topics: • • •

Last year Girl Hotel

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Rooftop New York City First date

That's the vibe you're going for in pick-up. Not only does it allow her to go into "fate" mode, but it also serves as a convenient distraction to your escalations.

Now, in order to keep the next thread relevant, it should include one of those 6 topics.

This next section is all about managing conversations. You could literally spend a month on this topic alone.

Any of the following threads could follow as a socially intelligent response:

What is a Thread? A thread is nothing more than a piece of communication. It is a single idea. By calling it a thread it allows us to give it structure, and understand it's function more easily. Take for example...

Last Year: Wow, last year must have been crazy for you. Actually it was pretty good for me. I really figured but what I want to do with my life...

"Last year I took a girl to a hotel rooftop in New York City as a first date. She freaked out."

Girl: Do you take all the girls you date to places like that? Wow. If I know most girls, they would either freak out or love you for that.

This can be broken down like this: "[Last year] I took a [girl] to a [hotel] [rooftop] in [New York City] as a [first date]. She [freaked out]."

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Thread Management Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Simple Thread Follow

Drill #2: The Negotiator

Purpose: Get comfortable carrying on a conversation indefinitely, without routines.

Purpose: To be comfortable steering the conversation to achieve any desired outcome you wish.

Application: You and your partner will generate threads as in the previous example. Use statements rather than questions, and try to provide multiple topics in your thread so that your partner has a few different directions to proceed.

Application: You and your partner will generate threads as in the previous drill. However, this time, you will use the list of "good topics" and "bad topics" below.

Drill until you feel you can carry on a conversation about any topic as long as you like.

Your partner starts by creating a thread on a neutral topic. You will try to talk about every topic on the "good" list, while avoiding topics on the "bad" list. As the conversation progresses, the partner makes it more and more challenging by attempting to throw "bad" topics into the mix. Drill until you feel comfortable that you can control the flow and direction of any conversation.

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Good European Vacation Childhood Dreams Your Best Friend Current Pop Music

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It has 3 main levels. First, she should feel that you are safe and trustworthy. This is needed for her to feel safe sleeping with you. Secondly, she should feel a bit connected to you. You should have some amount of commonality, and share the same awareness of life, especially 'social' themes.

Drill #1: 'Club Guy Annihilator' Purpose: To show her that you are a real person, and step out of the 'club guy' persona. Application: Partner picks a topic, and makes a statement on that topic. You should relate that to that topic by sharing a story of one of your friends or family members, referring to them by their first name.

Even demonstrating that you perceive similar obstacles in life will help you create this. If not, she may feel that you are too good for her and likely to abandon her.

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You need this for her to continue sleeping with you or to start a relationship with you. The key to maintaining the type of relationship you want is to be absolutely congruent to the things you talked about to build credibility in the first place.

Partner: Yeah I'm going to school for marketing.

Thirdly you should be able to give her direction. By first understanding her reality, and then showing enough competence to change her reality, you will be able to exert great influence in her life.

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Drill #2: Beauty is Only Skin Deep

Drill #3: The Limiter

Purpose: To demonstrate that you genuinely like her as a person, and aren't just trying to get in her pants.

Purpose: To demonstrate that you not only understand her self-imposed limitations, but you also offer a way out, and a new way of thinking about things.

Application: Partner picks a topic, and makes a statement about that topic. You ask a question to coax your partner to reveal something about himself. Once your partner does, you are going to take a genuine interest in whatever he has revealed, and give him a compliment for it. Drill back and forth for 5 minutes. It is important that you show a marked increase in your interest level after the partner reveals his information.

Application: Partner picks a topic, and shows uncertainty or a lack of confidence on that topic. You show empathy, show her that you understand her problem. Then you show her a new perspective or way of looking at the problem that makes it less scary.

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Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that you do not offer advice or a solution to the problem. You are simply showing her how to see the problem in a less threatening way.

Partner: I like coming here after work.

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You: Oh yeah? What do you do for work?

P a r t n e r : I am taking psychology class right now., but I'm thinking about dropping it. It's really hard.

Partner: I'm a veterinarian. You: Really? That's great. I bet you're really compassionate. Wow, I'm envious. That's great you get to do something in life you're very passionate about.

You: Yeah I totally understand. It's such an abstract science, and so complicated. At the same time though, it's really just describing things that everyone experiences all the time. And when you start to relate things you're learning to your own thought processes or people you know, the subject becomes a lot more familiar. You: (Incorrect) You should study more. When I was in school I would study 5 hours every night.

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Hand shaking Arm brushing Light touching on her arm to emphasize your points Anchoring her arm near elbow to hold her close as you talk • Standing next to her with your arm touching hers • High Fives • Palm Reading

3. Overt Class l There is an unmistakable recurring pattern throughout the DEL: incidential kino, followed by overt kino. Overt means open to view or knowledge; not concealed or secret. While incidental kino is usually done in a context which masks your intention, overt kino is not. The incidental kino which precedes it creates the familiarity necessary for the overt kino to be accepted. The duration of overt kino should be anywhere from 5-10 seconds. Overt Class 1 Examples: • •

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Overt class 2 kino is usually done while sitting down. It's not necessary, but definitely a smart place to make the transition to sitting down. This class of kino should be done in a protective, almost romantic manner.

Drill #2: Incidental to Overt Class 2

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Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate incidental class 2 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3 occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 2 kino.

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Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from incidental class 2 kino to overt class 2 kino.

Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt kino.

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6. Incidental Class 3 Her hair, face and neck are the regions included in class 3. Many guys make the common mistake of touching these areas too soon, with a girl they first met. Girls are surprisingly protective of their hair, face and neck placing these relatively high on the ladder. Another common mistake is that more experienced guys will generally skip this step altogether, only to face last minute resistance later on.

• Placing her head to rest on your shoulder • Moving your face into her neck and smelling her • Lightly stroking her face with your finger, close in, looking into her eyes • Running your fingers through her hair, close in, looking into her eyes • Holding her behind the neck with your palm to the side of her neck, looking into her eyes

Incidental Class 3 Examples: • Brushing (or pretending to brush) something off of her face • Talking very closely with your face touching hers because the environment is extremely loud • Touching an interesting necklace she's wearing, meanwhile allowing your fingers to lightly caress her neck • Playfully pinching her cheeks

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Drill #3: Incidental to Overt Class 3 Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from incidental class 3 kino to overt class 3 kino. Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate incidental class 3 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3 occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 3 kino. Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt kino.

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Drillset Sequence #9 You Need to Have Powerful Tools for Phone, Email, Texting and Other Forms of "Follow Up" Game

Application: Your partner will start a random thread. At some point you will get the topic on one of your hobbies. Once your partner displays interest in that, you will provide an opportunity for him to be involved, and get the phone number as a minor logistical detail. Drill back and forth until you feel you can get anyone's phone number with ease. Partner: Me and my friends usually only come here on the weekends. You: Me too. I'm usually too involved with the theatre during the week. Partner: What do you do in the theatre? You: I'm the production manager. We do some amazing shows. You should check us out sometime. Partner: Sure that sounds cool. You: Great, I'll give you a call then. Partner: Ok. You: Ok... (Take out your phone for the exchange) 61

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Follow-up Drills Drill #2: Mock Phone Conversation Purpose: To create the proper frame for all future interactions in the very first phone call. Application: Your partner will start a random thread. At some point you will suggest meeting up—on your terms. Immediately after introducing the meet, make it conditional by requesting additional compliance. Drill back and forth until you are comfortable with having the meet on your terms. Partner: I have lived in this city for all of my life. You: You know, I was really thinking about that, and I came up with a great idea for a really special experience for the two of us. Partner: Oh really? You: Yeah. But you have do to do a few different things. First, you have to bring your camera. Second, bring a bathing suit. You probably won't need it, but just in case. Thirdly, meet me at the Platinum hotel. What time can you make it? Partner: Hmm ok. I can make it at 7 O'clock.

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In the case of pick-up, however, however we'll replace the word "resources" to "women". Logistics is best described as . coordinating movement from one venue to another until you end up in isolation where sex can take place. It's always best to take a pick-up as far as possible on the first day / night you meet a woman, but if there are circumstances which restrict either your or her freedom, then it's best to take a number and resume another time. It is also important to note also that in the end, all restrictions are emotional. Even if she has to go to school, work, or even meet her friend it is still an emotional restriction. She misses work -> She gets fired -> Short on money and has to find more work (emotional upset.) So the better you get at game, the more these restrictions disappear. This section will deal with venue changing considerations as well as how to get phone numbers and schedule dates.

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Drill #1: Changing Venues

Drill #2: Isolation

Purpose: To use powerful leadership and assumption to get a person to accompany you to the next venue.

Purpose: To use intrigue and curiosity to pre-empt and overcome any possible uncertainty about being alone with you.

Application: Use the scripts below to suggest going to another venue. Start leading your partner confidently as you say the script. Be fully assumptive, and truly believe your partner wants to join you. Your partner will pass / fail you on your confidence, and how enthusiastic he feels about going with you. Drill back and forth until your delivery is confident and assumptive, and your partner wants to join you. You: I'm hungry. Let's go to the diner and grab something to eat. You: I'm having a great time. Let's go window shopping downtown. You: I'm in the mood for coffee. Let's go to Starbucks.

Application: Your partner will read down the list of isolation windows. You will respond without hesitation, with an answer that builds intrigue. Start by using the structures below, and then create your own. Drill until you can create intrigue structures on the fly without any hesitation. This is a speed drill. Isolation W i n d o w s : • Where are we going? • Why do we have to stop at your place? • I have to get up early in the morning for work. • What do you want to do now? Intrigue Structures: I guess you can come inside, but only for a little bit. But you have to promise not to laugh at my place, ok? I'm staying with my friend Rob. You're not going to believe how nice his place is. Oh I have a special surprise for you too. Cool. We'll have to make it fast then, you're not going to believe it when you see this video I have.

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Advanced Cold Reading Drills Cold Reading is a skill of making a "read" on a person with little to no prior information. It is how psychics make a living. Basically you are telling a person something that they think you couldn't possibly know—unless you were their best friend. Cold reading does many things, all beneficial for pick-up: • • •

It establishes you as an authority It demonstrates an understanding of her world It creates intrigue, because you know more about her than she knows about you • It allows you to shape her behavior in any way you choose • It creates the feeling of an "instant connection" • It supports the fate / destiny theme that women love

The truth is, there isn't anything special or mystical about this and it can be learned very easily. A good cold read both makes sense, and generally can be true for any person who hears it. They are even more effective when the person hearing it either:

Drill #1: Pace and Lead Purpose: To shape her reality by showing a strong understanding of it. Application: When the mind hears two true things in a row, it will automatically accept the third thing a true without objection. Sitting across from each other, you are going to make two plain observations, followed by an implication that follows from the observations. Drill back and forth for 5 minutes. Example: Your partner is sitting across from you, upright, looking you in the eyes. You may say: "You're sitting across from me, looking me in the eyes, and I can tell you're ready to get started with the drill." Notice the first two were plain observations, and the third is only implied.

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Drill # 2 : Conversational Cold Read

Drill # 3 : Magic Mirror

Purpose: To make a complimentary generalization based on information learned in conversation.

Purpose: To give her a compliment that exactly matches her ideal self image.

Application: Start a conversation back and forth by generating threads. After 3 or 4 threads pass, you make a cold read based on that information.

Application: Start a conversation back and forth by generating threads. At some point your partner will try to express who he is by putting his best foot forward. It may be through a story or through sharing his dreams or making a self-statement. At this point you will simply give it back to him in your own words.

Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with the structure of a cold read. Example: Partner: "I think that white shoes should never be worn with black leather belts."

Drill back and forth until you can deliver the compliment transparently. Example:

You: "Yeah I agree. Shirts, on the other hand can usually be any color regardless of your belt." Partner: "My favorite shirt is white. That way I can wear it with whatever other colors I have on." You: "You seem to pay a lot of attention to your appearance. You're the type of person who wants to be perceived in a positive way and because of that you've developed a really keen awareness of fashion. You really know what you like."

Partner: "I'm studying to be a nurse. I like to see that my work is appreciated and I really like helping people." You: "Yeah I could tell when I met you that you're a people person. You want to help but at the same time it can be overwhelming when people depend on you so much. There's not many women out there that actually have the strength to do what you do. "

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Drill #4: Derren Brown Style Mentalism Purpose: To create an emotional state where she feels as though whatever cold read you use is completely psychic. Application: 1. Establish yourself as the authority by leading the interaction, and getting rapport by pacing reality. 2. Ask if anyone has ever said anything to him in the past that was really convincing, or it was something he wanted to believe. 3. Coax your partner into an emotionally suggestible state by asking him to imagine that time. 4. While you're coming up with the read, tell your partner to "Hear me say the line". 5. Deliver a cold read that both sounds good and is generally true for everyone. Drill back and forth until you feel you can deliver a cold read very convincingly.

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Connection means that you are showing a promise of something that is directly valuable to a woman.

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To most women, pleasant conversation and attention is enough. To women with a very high sexual awareness, however, they are looking for "sexual value". Sexual value resides in this level of the hierarchy. To women who respond to this, it is a great accelerant in pick-up.

You can Gain Such Incredible Command Over Sexual Tension that the Interaction can be Turned Sexual on a Dime

If you find a girl is not responsive to sexual tension (i.e. doesn't respond to your sexual language or kinesthetic advances) it usually means she needs to trust you before responding in that manner. Skip to Level 4: Credibility in this case. Sexual tension is produced not only in your vibe, but also by your language. Once you have levels 1 and 2 present, your use of sexual language will produce a highly aroused state in her. It is usually a good idea to only do this when you are l-on-1 on with the girl. The purpose is to drill the different types of language until you can use it freely without coming across as weird or creepy.

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Drill #1: Sensual Language

Drill #2: Double Entendres

Purpose: To be comfortable using vivid and descriptive language while talking about commonplace topics.

Purpose: To be able to project double meaning through language. One meaning innocent and the other sexual.

Application: Pick any topic. Talk to your partner about the topic, meanwhile using words from the below list of sensual words.

Application: Pick any topic. Talk to your partner about the topic, meanwhile using phrases from the list below.

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Fast Close Wet How you feel How you feel inside You are quick It's hard for you You are getting close You're a fast girl I like it when a girl is open It's too late

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Compliance means: The act of conforming, acquiescing, or yielding.

Drill #1: Dirty Compliance

In other words, whenever you get a woman following your lead, and conforming to your requests, you have her compliance.

Purpose: To get a woman comfortable with putting effort into the interaction, based on a simple reframe of the situation.

Compliance is very important for maintaining the attraction you have built, or making it more real.

Application: Your partner will talk about doing some kind of work, such as cleaning his home, or shopping for groceries or shopping for an item. At this point you will reframe the work he has done for himself as work for you.

It's easy to put a woman in a good state, and have her attracted to you, but unless you get her to actually act on that attraction, you have something that is very transient.

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When you use attraction to get compliance or escalate in other ways, a woman will have something more real to look back at to realize just how much she really likes you. The following chapter is various tactics to not only directly get compliance through leadership, but also psychological methods of getting her more likely to comply with your ridiculous requests.

Partner: I spent all day shopping for groceries and putting them away. You: That's really sweet, but you didn't have to go through all that trouble for me, we can simply go out to eat.

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Drill # 2 : Virtual Compliance P u r p o s e : To get a woman comfortable with putting effort into the interaction, based on compliance in an imaginary scenario. Application: Your partner will choose one of the four roleplaying themes. While role-playing along with the theme, create an imaginary situation where your partner has put work into something in your favor. Drill back and forth for 5 minutes. Daddy-Daughter: Thanks so much sweetie for being a good girl and cleaning up your room for me. Because of that, I'm going to take you to the movies tonight. Old Lovers Reunited: So nice being together with you again my dear. And yes, I have saved all of the love letters you have written me over the years. And I've kept them in a pink box underneath my bed. There must be a hundred! Teacher-Student: Your extra credit assignment was excellent. You not only followed all the directions, but you also did all the research for the bonus points! Looks like you'll be getting an A after all. Vacation: I couldn't ask for a better wife. All the time you spent planning this vacation has paid off. And booking the flights and hotels... I'm in heaven. I can't wait to see what you have planned for tomorrow! 84

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Escalation Ramp While the above steps from 1-7 may take anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours, the escalation ramp described on the following pages is very rapid. The duration of the ramp should be about 5-15 minutes. Start the ramp very quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location.

Drillset Sequence #14 You will Learn How to Escalate Directly to Sex in the Most Efficient, Smooth Way with NO Last Minute Resistance (LMR)

8. Kissing Start kissing from a very close proximity. Don't come diving in lips first from three feet away. Ideally you should already be in a suitable position for kissing before you try. If you have overt class 3 kino taken care of, you're probably in the right spot. A technique for building sexual tension - move closely in, slowly as if you might kiss her, and then move away and start talking about something else. This will build the tension and she will wonder when you're going to actually kiss her. A technique to initiate kissing - try placing your finger just underneath her chin and pulling her mouth towards yours. Kissing should be light and short at first. You should be the one to pull away first. Don't use too much tongue at first, just use it to tease her, and build anticipation.

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12. Kissing her Body-

Once you have kissed her for a bit, move down to her neck. Kiss it gently, while holding her close to you.

Having her shirt pulled up affords the opportunity of moving downwards to kiss and caress the bare flesh of her abdomen. Start kissing her there, along the sides, and move upwards.

Depending on how rough you want to set the mood, feel free to throw in some gentle biting too.

10. Touching the Bare Skin of Her Back Once you have established kissing both on her mouth and neck, move your hands to her waist and underneath her shirt. Continue to hold her close to you, now with your hands directly on her back. 11. Stomach to Stomach Now that you have established touching her skin, below her shirt, simply move your hand to the front, and lift her shirt, exposing only her stomach. At the same time lift your shirt as well so that your abdomen is in direct contact with hers. It seems innocent, but will meanwhile trigger intense sexual feelings inside of her. The only time she feels contact like that is usually when she's naked and having sex.

Touching and kissing the breasts is optional. It is not necessary, and in some cases can be detrimental to your progress. There are some women who have a negative anchor to their breasts. Inch toward their breasts and feel her reaction. If she becomes increasingly turned on, then go for it. If she starts to close down, skip the breasts until you are already having sex.

13. Incidentally Stimulate Vagina While you are kissing her body, you can position yourself between her legs and use your midsection to rub against her vagina. If you are kissing her mouth you can position your thigh to stimulate her vagina. You can also be kissing her body and reach between her legs and plant your hand on the bed below her. Then use your forearm to stimulate her vagina. The key here is that because you aren't using your hand or fingers, she has no basis for objection.

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DiClassified DRILLS 14. Direct Vaginal Stimulation from Behind (Inside Panties) Once you have really amped her up by incidentally rubbing her vagina, move your hand around to the back and slip it inside her panties and touch her naked ass. Next move your hand all the way down and reach her vagina. Start first by touching the area around it. Then proceed to finger her from behind. Women never expect to have it happen this way. Trying to reach your hand down the front of her pants will often be resisted, but from the rear is unexpected and effective. If she is wearing a skirt or dress, you will instead move your hand up the back of her leg, and reach her vagina that way. Finger her and then proceed directly to step 16.

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DiClassified DRILLS 15. Direct Vaginal Stimulation in Front Get her heated up by fingering her, and then when once she is sufficiently turned on, undo the front of her pants with your other hand. You can use the Situationally Relevant phrase "My hand is being crushed" as you do it, although it's usually not necessary. Since she is engaged by the fact that you are fingering her, she will rarely object to your simultaneous undoing of her pants. You may also have her undo her pants, by saying "Unbutton your pants." as you are fingering her. Moving to the front, you'll be able to get more penetration with your fingers, and get her to the point where she is practically begging for sex. Use a firm "come-hither" motion pulling forward on the front vaginal wall and stimulating her g-spot.

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Escalation Ramp Drill 16. Remove Her Pants, Sex The idea is to get her so heated up by fingering her, that she makes a commitment to sex, verbally or physically. There are a few ways to go about this. Firstly, it is very important that you don't stop fingering her before her pants are off. Too many times a guy will stop fingering her, and then try to take off her pants, only to get more resistance. While fingering her you can say "Do you want me inside you?" Which will usually get a "Yes." response. At that point you say "Ok, take off your pants." and continue to finger her until her panties are off, and she's ready to go. Another option is to skip the question and directly tell her to take off her pants. Usually with your fingers busy at work, she will be more than compliant. Another technique is to ask her "Do you want me to get a condom?" In 90% of all girls you ask this, they will say "Yes." Not because they are saying they want sex, but because they want to appear safe and level headed. You will interpret this as the permission to get a condom and have sex with her, and it will most likely be met without opposition.

Drill #1: Ramp Memorization Purpose: To internalize the ordered steps of the escalation ladder ramp so it flows easily when it comes time. Application: Stand in front of the rest of the participants and recite the steps of the ramp, in order. Ramp: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9.

Kissing Kissing the Neck Hands on Her Back, Under Shirt Stomach to Stomach Kissing Stomach Incidental Vaginal Stimulation (arms, legs, chest) Hand Down Back of Pants, Fingering Hand Down Front of Pants, Fingering Remove Pants, Sex.

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Do you want me to get a condom? Do you want me inside of you? Take off your pants.

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Drillset Sequence #15 You can Suck a Woman into Your Reality So Deep that Her World will Literally Revolve Around You

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Drill #1: Compliance Levels

Drill #2: The Virtual Ladder

Purpose: Drop hints about what compliance you would like her to perform. Instead of coming outright and asking for something, demonstrate a need for it in a very indirect manner.

Purpose: To learn a mind-numbingly effective technique for escalation which seems to have the added effect of making girls fall in love VERY quickly.

Application: Considering your main passion of life, take a few minutes and describe five different ways a woman can contribute to that passion. Then put them in order from the least to greatest amount of compliance.

Application: Perform a virtual-ladder escalation on your partner that is relevant to your city. Drill until you can consistently perform a virtual ladder. Example:

At this point, you will take turns making requests for these levels. Use direct requests for small levels and indirect for large.

When I go back to New York City you have to visit me. First, we'd walk down 5th avenue and I'd hold your hand like this (hold her hand). And we'd look at all the expensive clothing we can't afford ;)

Drill until you can tastefully and skillfully make compliance requests. Small Requests:

Then we'd go to the top of the Empire state building and we'd look over the side and I'd hold you like this (hold her from behind) Are you scared of heights?

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And if it was winter time, we'd go ice skating at Rockefeller center. Can you skate? Ok you can teach me - (hold hands skating gestures)

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Sweetie, go ahead and pick me up some vegetables from the store, that way we can have a side dish with our steaks. You've got awesome taste in music, baby. You have to make a mix CD for me.

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My friend Joe just got some really cool shoes. He looks really great with them. I think they're awesome. If only I had a new set of golf clubs, it would be so much more enjoyable. And just think, the two of us could spend a beautiful day together golfing on our favorite course.

Then you'd come to my place (if in hotel) Then we'd go back to our hotel room with SEPARATE BEDS (if in your place), and we'd relax together. If you were lucky I'd give you one of my FAMOUS massages. I would sit you down over here (sit her down on the bed) then lie down and I would massage you like this. (Just get your partner to sit down)

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Drillset #15 Notes: A Quick Word From Vin Dear Participant, You made it! Congratulations, it was a lot of hard work. This is only the beginning. You now know what it takes to become truly successful in all of your social interactions. So in the future, if you ever feel like you need to brush up, grab a friend, this booklet, and drill away! If you have any questions, please visit my website at http://www.vindicarlo.com/forums. I'll see you there, and good luck! Vin

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