Total Guide to Be Cocky and Funny

T C

O O

T C

A K

L Y

G A

U N

I D D

E F

T O U N N

B

E

Y

COMPILED BY MUZZU (http://ar.groups.yahoo.com/group/deanglospa/) INTRODUCTION This guide is the result of 2 years of my research into the best methods to have more power andchoice with the opposite sex.In a nutshell, I put this guide together to help other men do better with women. I think thatultimately what every man wants is to meet that ONE special woman. Unfortunately, you mayhave to meet dozens, if not hundreds, of women before you’ll find “the one”. And if you don’thave the knowledge and experience to deal properly with women in the first place, odds areyou’ll blow it when you finally meet that special woman. I’ve seen it…firsthand.When the woman of your dreams DOES come around, you’re going to have to say and doeverything right. Truly spectacular women are few and far between, so you’d better be ready.This guide is designed to give you a comprehensive, user-friendly system in order to be readywhen that time comes. About half the contents of this guide are a compilation of my thinking and experience. The otherhalf are compiled from the excellent material and ideas from:David DeAngelo (www.doubleyourdating.com)Tyler Durden (www.realsocialdynamics.com)Swinggcat (www.realworldseduction.com)Mystery (www.mysterymethod.com)Moderated alt.seduction.fast (mASF) (www.fastseduction.com), and the great contributions tothat board by Tyler Durden, Style, Mystery, Papa, jlaix, and many othersCliff’s Newsletter (www.be-relentless.com)The Don Juan Newsletter (www.sosuave.com),Thundercat’s Seduction Lair (www.thundercatseductionlair.com)The Player’s Guide from AskMen.com (www.playersguide.com)Tony’s Lay Guide (www.layguide.com)Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction (www.seduction.com)You can investigate these websites and their material on your own, however with this guide I’vedone all the work for you, and “trimmed the fat” in their systems to give you the bare bones ofwhat works. Just as I’ve taken from others, feel free to take what you find herein and adapt it toyour own style and needs.What you’ll find different about my guide is that I don’t just lay out broad principles and expectpeople to be able to apply them. It’s not enough to just tell a guy to “Say something to her toshow that her testing doesn’t affect you”. He needs to see examples of WHAT to say to

communicate that it doesn’t affect him. Not only do I provide the “what” to do and say in manysituations, but I also often provide some ideas of what to do and say if the situation

continuesfurther.Another thing that’s lacking in most systems is a STRUCTURE. I’ve integrated these techniquesinto a structure to successfully pick up or seduce a woman. This structure is based on the oneespoused by the instructors at Real Social Dynamics, and can be seen described in a video ofPapa available on Kazaa and on the WinMX network.The whole idea of this structure is that regardless of the interaction with a woman, whether it’sa 2-minute street pickup or a 2-hour date, there are several phases that you go through for asuccessful pick-up/seduction:1. ATTITUDE This is the most important part, and is taken care of BEFORE the interaction.Unless you have the right mindset your efforts at attracting a woman will fail.2. FIND/OPEN This means preparing yourself, going where the woman is, andopening/approaching her.3. ATTRACT In this phase, you use techniques to build attraction and sexual tension.4. QUALIFY This involves showing that you're in the frame of being selective and that you'reevaluating HER. Can be something as simple as "You seem cool."5. RAPPORT This phase involves building trust and rapport through emotionally engagingconversation, cold reading, empathy, etc6. AMPLIFY In this phase you use techniques to build up the attraction and sexual tension, toan even higher level.7. CLOSE This phase involves “sealing the deal” (contact close, meet close, kiss close, or sexclose)As an acronym, this is the A-FOAQRAC plan (“folk-rack” for ease of remembering it).To "phase-shift" means to shift from one of these phases to the next. You don’t HAVE tonecessarily go through all of these phases to have success with a woman, and you don’t have tofollow the same order, but ideally you should. Obviously you’re going to have to find and open awoman, and some attraction/chemistry will be necessary. You’ll also have to close her at somepoint (unless you’re just out to practice your game). The other phases are less important, butstill have some bearing.In any case an important principle is to do the least amount necessary to get to the next phase.The purpose and execution of each of these phases will be much clearer as you read on. Goodluck in your study and application in the field, and please send me your feedback [email protected]. ATTITUDE 1.

The Ethics of Seduction Techniques2. The Stigma of the Pick-Up Artist3. Knowing What You Want4. Realize that Women are Sexual Beings5. A Practical Outlook—For Life6. The Myth of General Confidence7. The Power of Beliefs8. The Most Powerful Belief9. Controlling Frames and Meta-Frames10. Controlling Your Physical and Emotional State11. Applying it All in the FieldThis phase is not part of the encounter but instead is something that MUST be addressed beforethe encounter. The “Inner Game” is EVERYTHING. All of the techniques, strategies, and lines tofollow are USELESS unless you’ve got the right mindset. 1. The Ethics of Seduction Techniques When I started to study pick-up and seduction, a big dilemma I had was whether what I wasundertaking was RIGHT. I felt a little dishonest, dare I say SLEAZY, about the whole idea of using"tricks" to improve my chances with women. I also felt like less of a "real man" in seeing I had toresort to them. I realized eventually that such moral dilemmas would have to be worked out inorder for me to be congruent, and have any success in the field at all. From what I've seen mostof the guys out there are decent, moral people with a conscience, so I think that a lot of peoplein this game have at some point or another felt this way. I'd like to lay out the thinking that gotme over this dilemma, in the hopes that anyone else struggling with the same problem might beable to iron out this kink in their inner game.First of all, realize that there’s nothing wrong with having to learn tactics to meet and seducewomen. Most men are absolutely CLUELESS in this area, and it's not entirely their fault. A lot ofthis has to do with being raised by our mothers, as well as the tendency of men not to seek outhelp or advice. Women, on the other hand, grow up reading Seventeen magazine and YM,watching soaps, and focusing more on interpersonal relationships than men. By the time they’readults they have a whole array of techniques and strategies to tease, hook, and trap a man.They become MASTERS (mistresses?) of manipulation of the opposite sex. Until the Internetresources we enjoy became available and known, men didn’t have anything like Cosmo or Sex InThe City to teach them the finer points of meeting and choosing a mate. So the fact that you’relearning techniques to be able to deal with their expertise on their level doesn’t make you lessof a man; it just means that you’re catching up to their extensive experience, and leveling theplaying field.Another important step is to

remove from your mind any negative connotations with the idea ofmanipulation. (Credit to Ross Jeffries for getting me thinking about this issue). I believe that all