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TUESDAY, DECEMBER 16, 2008

Love Systems Tip of the Day: She has a boyfriend

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came up in a student's one-o n-one with an instructor last week that I was observing, so I thought it was worth a quick tip.

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do it sometimes for quality control and to help share best practices across instructors. It takes a lot of effort to make sure we have a great system of peer review, student review, and my

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