The Physical Escalation Ladder

THE PHYSICAL ESCALATION LADDER By Torrent. Torrent Thumbnail 3 Methods of Touch: 1. Momentary Touch 2. Prolonged Touch 3. Caressing The Physical Escalation Ladder: Level 1: 1.Hands and Arms 2.Shoulders 3.Mid to Upper Back Level 2: 4.Legs and Feet 5.Torso and Lower Back (not including the breasts) 6.Face and Neck Level 3: 7.Ass 8.Breasts 9.Inner Thighs and Vagina Introduction Physical contact is very important in your interactions with women! I can cant stress  this enough. I say this in damn near every article and book I write. It display displays dominance, externalizes that you youre not afraid to escalate and releases  endorphins and oxytocin which make her feel happy. Women are very sensitive about where they are touched, however. You need to start off with brief, momentary touches to neutral areas before you can work your way up to a prolonged touch on one of her erogenous zones. The Physical Escalation Ladder This is the Physical Escalation Ladder. I will tell you exactly where and how to  touch a girl to start building physical momentum. It Its important that you follow this ladder if you wish to work your way up to erot ic, sexual contact that leads to sex. Click here to jump straight to the ladder. But first, I suggest you keep reading  to better understand the ladder. Building Physical Momentum The key to following the Physical Escalation Ladder is to build physical momentu m. This means touching her frequently and escalating your touching as you go.

As soon as you physically escalate, youll get a momentum going that will make fut ure escalations seem natural and effortless. Keep your momentum going by keeping your touches overt and frequent. Once you begin working your way up the ladder and building momentum, dont stop to uching her or take a break! When you slow down physically, your momentum slows down as well. If you stop for too long, youll lose your place on the ladder and have to start a t the bottom again. Once you start, dont stop and youll be getting sexual with each other in no time. Act Natural Your physical escalations will happen simultaneously with the rest of your inter action. Most of the time you will be in deep conversation with her, working your way up the ladder as you go. Dont pause the conversation to touch her, just do it while talking. Dont make it apparent that youre making a physical move. Act natural and continue on as if nothing is happening. Physical Rejection If you move too quickly up the ladder, you may get a physical rejection. For example, if you try to place your hand on her leg but you havent built enough  physical momentum yet, she may move her leg away from your hand as soon as you touch it. This is completely involuntary on her part. Shes not consciously thinking that sh e doesnt want you to touch her, her body has just not warmed up to you in that wa y yet and she subconsciously moves it away. DO NOT make the rejection apparent! Like I said, shes not even thinking about it, its just natural. If you pull your hand back quickly after this, it will show that you regret touc hing her in that way and went back to defense mode. If you verbalize it or say, S orry it will make the rejection apparent and now shes really feeling like she reje cted you. If you make an embarrassed facial expression, it will show that youre e motionally invested in the outcome. If you get a physical rejection, just act like nothing happened. You moved too fast, thats all. Slow down, take a step back and work your way up again. Go one step down the ladder and use those physical advances again until shes warm ed up to you more. When you think youre ready, make the physical advance again 10 minutes later and

most likely shell comply with it this time. Remember, a physical rejection doesnt mean she doesnt want it, it just means shes n ot ready for it. Slow town, take a step back and be persistent. 3 Methods of Touch I have found that there are 3 effective ways to touch her. Momentary touching, p rolonged touching and caressing. I will explain the 3 methods below. 1.Momentary Touch  This is simply a quick, brief touch. A handshake is a momentar y touch. If you touch her arm for a second then pull away, thats a brief touch. M omentary touches are so natural she wont even notice them. This is the easiest to uch to pull off and is least likely to get rejected. 2.Prolonged Touch  The prolonged touch refers to touching her for a longer period  of time. If you rest your hand on her shoulder while telling her something pers onal, and leave it there for 5 seconds before pulling away, this is a prolonged touch. She will become consciously aware of the prolonged touch after about the first 2 seconds which could result in some tension. This touch is pulled off onc e you have built some physical momentum. 3.Caressing  Caressing is a prolonged touch with the addition of some light rubbi ng or massaging. If youre resting with your arm around her shoulders and youre gen tly running your fingers along her upper arm to show affection, this is caressin g her. The goal of caressing is to get her to caress you back. Caressing is mutu al and if you have enough attraction and physical compliance built, she will rec iprocate and begin caressing you back. This is what you want. As you move up the Physical Escalation Ladder, you should be employing all 3 met hods of touch. On the first level, youll start off with momentary touches, and after a couple ti mes when you feel physical momentum has been built, youll move on to the prolonge d touch in the same area. If she responds well to this, go for the caressing or move up one step on the la dder and begin using momentary touches again. 3 Levels of the Physical Escalation Ladder I have divided the ladder into 3 levels, each of which have 3 steps. In this case, a step is a sub-level of each main level that we have to climb to reach the top of the Physical Escalation Ladder. Each step refers to a different area of the body you will touch. In each step I will provide a list of touches you can use to pull off this step. Each level gets more and more sexual as you climb. Level 1: 1.Hands and Arms 2.Shoulders 3.Mid to Upper Back Level 2: 4.Legs and Feet 5.Torso and Lower Back (not including the breasts) 6.Face and Neck

Level 3: 7.Ass 8.Breasts 9.Inner Thighs and Vagina In order to reach the next step or level of the ladder, you must first complete the previous steps. If you try to touch her legs in step 4 before youve completed a prolonged touch t o her upper back in step 3, youre likely to get a physical rejection. Try to utilize the three methods of touch in each step in order to build enough physical momentum to successfully move to the next step. Be careful with the caressing though, make sure you have enough momentum built b efore you start overtly caressing her or she may get a little bit nervous. If you manage to skip a step and successfully pull off a physical escalation in a later step, then all of the previous steps become unlocked for you. She will be receptive to your touches from lower steps if youve passed them alrea dy. For example, if you reach step 8, her whole body is pretty much fair game for yo u except that listed in step 9. So without further ado, I will now explain each level and each step in-depth and  tell you how to pull it off. Ill start with mentioning eye contact and the hand shake and how it leads into le vel 1, step 1.

The Physical Escalation Ladder In-Depth Eye Contact  Eye contact is the first form of contact youll make matter the circumstance. Whether youre standing by her in line at ing up to her in a bar, or being introduced to her at work, youll egin making unconscious judgments about each other before uttering .

with a woman, no Starbucks, walk meet eyes and b a single word

I know that eye contact is not really a form of physical contact as there is no di rect skin-to-skin contact going on, but it is very important and worth mentionin g. You will hold strong eye contact with her throughout the whole interaction. This will make the rest of your physical escalations more effective and give her  a deep sense of having an emotional connection with you. Hand Shake  The hand shake is the first form of physical contact you will make. I t is the easiest move to achieve and is even expected in pretty much all social situations. You probably shake the hands of just about everybody you meet. If yo u dont, you should. When you shake a womens hand, reach out your right hand first. She will meet her hand with yours, clasp her hand softly and pump two times.

Shaking with a woman is different from shaking with a man. When youre shaking another mans hand, youll grab firmly and give about three strong  shakes. Be more gentle with women. While you shake her hand, try to gently place your left hand on her right forear m. This is a simple shake and touch. Its a little bit more physical than the trad itional hand shake, a bit more personal and is a good way to kick start the accu mulation of physical momentum. Although nobody thinks much of a hand shake, this is the first step to building physical momentum and moving up the Physical Escalation Ladder. [back to top] Level 1 Level 1 refers the areas of the body that are impersonal and touched on a regula r basis. These areas include the arms, shoulders and upper back. You shouldnt deal with much resistance in this level as long as you are genuine w ith your touches. Use this level to build as much physical momentum as you can to smoothly transit ion to level 2. Step 1  Hands and Arms The first step on the ladder involves touching her hands and arms. Youve already started this step by giving her a handshake, now its time to escalat e. Below I have listed examples of the touches involved in step one. Use these move s to breeze through step one and build some physical momentum. Remember to start with momentary touches before employing more prolonged touches . Step 1 Examples: Brief touch on her forearm while making a point. Lightly brushing her arm. Sitting or standing close in a way that causes your arms to touch. Pulling her into you by her arm to say something into her ear. High fives. Spinning her by her hand. Feeling her bicep. Reading her palms. Asking her about a ring or bracelet, while holding her hand up to get a better v iew. Anchoring her arm around yours as you walk. Holding hands. Step 2  Shoulders The second step involves touching her shoulders. I feel that step 1 and 2 go hand in hand. Usually if she allows you access to he r arms, shell allow it to her shoulders as well.

Its possible to go from step 1 to step 2 instantly by pulling off a move in step 1 then immediately going for a momentary shoulder touch. Sometimes Ill even start  with a prolonged shoulder touch, then employ the moves from both step 1 and 2 s imultaneously. If youre not comfortable moving that fast, however, start with step 1 and work yo ur way to step 2. You can begin using caressing in this step. Once you have some physical momentum  built, try caressing her shoulder with your hand. This works even better if you  have your arm around her and can begin caressing her far shoulder with your han d. Your goal in this step should be resting your arm around her shoulders. Girls lov e this, it builds a lot of momentum and gives you easy access to step 3. Step 2 Examples: Brushing something imaginary off of her shoulder. Touching her shoulder with your hand to emphasize a point. Grabbing her shoulder while laughing at a joke. Placing your hand on both of her shoulders to tell her something important. Resting your elbow on her shoulder. Resting your hand on her shoulder. Putting your jacket around her, including a monetary touch to her shoulders. Sitting close in a way where your shoulders are touching. Giving her a shoulder massage. Sitting with your arm around her shoulders. Step 3  Mid to Upper Back The third step involves touches to her mid to upper back. Be careful not to touch too low on her back. This area is a little bit more pers onal and will be unlocked in a later step. By now youve unlocked a large portion of her upper body which will make her much more comfortable with having her legs touched in the next step. Giving a shoulder massage is a great way to build momentum in this step. Give he r a massage as you progress through this step and have her reciprocate and give you one back. This will set the stage for the mutual caressing that youll employ more and more in level 2 and 3. Step 3 Examples: Pulling her into you with your hand on her upper back to tell her a secret. Coming up from behind, placing your hands where the upper back meets her shoulde rs and telling her something from behind. Leading her through the venue with your hand on her mid to upper back. Pulling her into you for a side hug with your arm around her upper back, slightl y below the shoulders. Giving her a back massage. [back to top] Level 2 Level 2 of the Physical Escalation Ladder involves her legs, torso, back and fac e. This level is more personal than level 1. If you do get any physical rejections,

 they are likely to be in this level. That is what the physical momentum we buil t in level 1 is for, allowing her to be more receptive to these more personal to uches. Try to employ the 3 methods of touch in each of the steps in this level. When the mutual caressing is successfully taking place in one step, you know your e ready for the next step. Move through this level slowly, work your way through each step and pull it off smoothly in order to get to the third and final level. Step 4  Legs and Feet The fourth step involves touching her legs and feet. Her legs are much more pers onal than her arms. Youre more likely to get a physical rejection in this step. Dont worry or even think about that and escalate anyway. Remember, if you get a physical rejection in this step, just take a step back an d employ the moves from steps 1-3, build more physical momentum and come back to  step 4 to try again. While her legs are fair game in this step, her ass in not. Dont touch her butt ye t unless you truly feel like you can playfully pull it off. Her ass will become unlocked in a later step. For now, here are a few moves below to begin using. Step 4 Examples: Sitting or standing very close with your legs touching hers. Having your feet touch each other while sitting down. Re-tieing or adjusting her shoe. Briefly touching her upper leg while talking. Placing your hand on her knee while teasing her. Feeling her pants as if to compliment the material. Resting your hand on her leg while sitting down. Picking her up, which involves your arm around her legs. Sitting with her legs over yours. Giving a foot massage. Playing footsie, an act of flirting where you caress her feet with your own. Step 5  Torso and Lower Back The fifth step involves touching her torso and lower back. This step involves her whole upper body not including her head and breasts. Dont touch her boobs yet, that will come in step 8. Be patient, well get there. Fe el free to touch her stomach, upper chest, sides, and her lower back in the mean time. Step 5 Examples: Lightly brushing her stomach with your hands while talking. Lightly placing your hand on her lower back as if youre pulling her in to hear yo u better. Full frontal hugging. Placing your hand on her back while introducing her to someone. Placing your hand on her heart.

Tickling her sides and stomach. Feeling her stomach to compliment her abs. Pulling her into you with your hand on the side of her abdomen. Leading her while you walk by placing your hand on the small of her back and lig htly pushing. Holding her abdomen on the side while sitting down and talking. Touching her lower back under her shirt. Step 6  Face and Neck The sixth step involves touching her face, neck and hair. You must follow the ladder and have enough momentum built before you get to this  step. Humans are naturally very protective of their head, face and necks. These are th e most vulnerable areas to attack. If someone were to come up and touch you on the head or face, you would feel ver y uncomfortable and annoyed. The attraction and physical momentum must be there in order for her to feel comf ortable enough to let you touch her face. Dont make the mistake that many men mak e by touching these areas too soon. Dont skip this step either, the momentum youll get from this step is essential to move on to the sexual touches later on. Step 6 Examples: Brushing something, real or imaginary, off of her face or hair. Playfully pinching her cheeks. Giving her a french goodbye. This is where you touch your cheek against hers and k iss the air next to her ear. Touching the back of her neck. Playfully touching or pinching her nose. Placing your hand on her forehead, as if to check if she has a fever. Playing with her hair. Touching foreheads. Adjusting her hair. Running your finger up her neck then pinching her chin. Running your fingers through her hair. Talking very closely with your face touching hers if the venue is loud. Touching a necklace she is wearing, while allowing your fingers to brush her nec k. Placing your hand on the back of her head while giving her a compliment. Giving her an eskimo kiss, which involves rubbing your noses together. Moving your face into her neck and smelling her, as if to compliment her smell. Resting her head on your shoulder. Caressing the back of her neck. Kissing her. [back to top] art of close Level 3 Level 3 of the Physical Escalation Ladder involves her erogenous zones, such as her ass, breasts and vagina. This level is much more sexual than the previous two, and requires much more phy

sical momentum to pull off. When pulling off these last 3 steps, you should both be getting very sexual with  each other. These last 3 steps usually lead to sex. These steps can be accomplished well while making out with her. If done right, t hese 3 steps can be pulled off in quick succession followed by sex. Step 7  Ass The seventh step involves touching her ass. Youve already touched her legs and lower back, which built great momentum for thi s step. Now that her level of physical compliance is much higher, she shouldnt fe el weird about having her ass touched. You can pull off this step playfully, by spanking her or grabbing her ass in a j oking manner. You can also pull this step off sexually, by kissing her and movin g your hands to her ass as a way to sexually escalate this kissing. The second option is preferred, as this will lead to sexually escalating to step s 8 and 9 with ease. Step 7 Examples: Brushing her ass with your hand. Playfully spanking her. Hugging from behind, forcing her ass to make contact with your body. Dancing with her ass grinding into your crotch. Grabbing her ass. Massaging her ass. Playing with her ass while making out with her. Grabbing her ass under her panties while sexually escalating. Step 8  Breasts The eighth step involves touching her breasts. This step is not easy to pull off neither on a date nor in a public venue. Allow ing you to touch her boobs is very personal to her and is best done in a sexual manner. I recommend attempting this step while passionately kissing her. By making out w ith her after youve reached step 7, you can escalate to her breasts by playing wi th them during the kissing. This will also pave the way to pulling off step 9 in  the same make out session. Step 8 Examples: Brushing her breasts with your hand. Giving her a full body massage that includes her breasts. Grabbing her breasts. Playing with her breasts. Pinching her nipples. Licking and sucking her nipples. Step 9  Inner Thighs and Vagina The ninth step involves touching her inner thighs and vagina. Like I said before, this step is best achieved while sexually kissing her. Youve already been feeling on her ass and breasts by this point. Naturally, the vagina

 comes next. Try not to jump straight to the vagina in this step. Start with her inner thighs . Begin rubbing her around her pubic area, along her inner thighs and inch close r and closer to her vagina as you go. If shes going to give you a physical rejection, shell do this while youre slowing m oving your hand towards her vagina by pulling your arm away. Once you touch her vagina once and she hasnt rejected you, its fair game. From tha t point on you can begin rubbing her crotch full on, massaging her vulva and fin gering her. This step is usually followed by sex. Step 9 Examples: Rubbing her inner thighs while working your way towards her vagina. Massaging her vagina through her pants while sexually escalating or making out w ith her. Rubbing her vagina through her panties to get her turned on for sex. Fingering her. Stimulating her clitoris. Going down on her. Having sex with her. [back to top] Conclusion There you have it, the Physical Escalation Ladder. If you follow it perfectly step by step, you should definitely be getting laid. Read this ladder multiple times to truly internalize the steps. Remember to be physical and go by the ladder when youre interacting with girls, e specially on dates. The man who can physically escalate in such a socially intelligent manner appear s very confident and is very attractive to women. I hope this system brings you success in all your future conquests as it has in mine. Sincerely, Torrent