The Perfect Groom
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The Perfect Groom AN INDIREADS NOVELLA
Sumeetha Manikandan
Version 1.0 Copyright © Sumeetha Manikandan 2013 Published in 2013 by Indireads Incorporated Toronto - Ontario All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise without the prior permission of the publisher. The author asserts the moral right to be identified as the author of this book. This is a work of fiction and any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. ISBN: 978-1-927826-14-0 Cover Illustration by Shehna Khan e-Book Formatting: Skan4 Labs
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DEDICATION
I would like to dedicate this book to Thangam. I would have never completed this novelette without her constant encouragement.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
My sister Swapna, whose razor sharp critique was invaluable. Naheed Hassan for legitimizing my claims to be a ‘writer’ by publishing my book. And last but not least, everyone who babysat my cute little daughter, so that I could finish what I started a year ago.
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CONTENTS
ONE 1 TWO 3 THREE 7 FOUR 10 FIVE 14 SIX 19 SEVEN 23 EIGHT 31 NINE 42 TEN 51 ELEVEN 57 TWELVE 64 THIRTEEN 72 FOURTEEN 77 FIFTEEN 82 SIXTEEN 88 SEVENTEEN 99 EIGHTEEN 102 NINETEEN 107 TWENTY 118 TWENTY-ONE 121 Glossary of Terms 127
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ONE
The apartment was a beehive of activity. Ashok and I had been cleaning, cleansing, throwing and hiding stuff since morning. My mother-in-law was arriving tomorrow from India to stay with us for about three months. Ashok had been in a bad mood ever since he heard the news, and was increasingly edgy and angry as her arrival neared. He had taken a day off from work today and had been cleaning his bedroom. Huge boxes of books, magazines, CDs and t-shirts made way for books, saris and kurtis, along with my cookery books. “Where do we hide this stuff?” I asked. It was a cardboard box full of his things. “On my head! GIVE!” shouted Ashok. I gave him the cardboard box and went to the kitchen where I had cleared some space for the photos of God and Goddesses that my motherin-law had sent with some of her relatives. “LISTEN! We need to put our wedding photo somewhere,” he said. Oh! Yes! We need to show your mother what a lovely couple we are, don’t we? “Okay.” “Pick out a photo from the marriage album and put it in this frame. I will hang it up somewhere.” “Okay.” Given the chaotic condition of the apartment, it took almost an hour to search for the album. As I leafed through the photos, a wave of nostalgia
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washed over me as I looked at my mom and sister’s photograph. My mom, looking so happy, proud and relieved that her daughter had married into a ‘good’ family. “Are you done?” asked Ashok. I skimmed through the album and in the end took out the reception photo. I was wearing a wine-colored, silk sari and he a black blazer. He had a stern look on his face, while I was radiant, smiling away happily. I took out the photo and gave it to him. He pocketed it and left the room. I went back to what was to be 'our' room and sat down in front of his old laptop, that was mine now. The Internet was my only refuge. While Ashok was in the office, I spent hours browsing through the Internet checking out recipes and trying them out in my small kitchen. Though Ashok was largely unappreciative of my efforts, Sunil would praise my cooking. Yet I never took anything that he said at face value. I knew that Sunil felt guilty about my predicament and tried to be nice to me. Ashok peeped inside the room and said, “I am going out now. I’ll be back late, will be eating out, so don’t wait up.” “Okay.” I went to the kitchen to make myself a cup of coffee. I checked out my favorite website and noted down the ingredients for paneer pakoras. I was sure my mother-in-law would not allow me to make paneer during her stay here. Ashok had been behaving as if he had been dealt poor hand, but it was I who would suffer for the next three months. Ashok could escape to his office for a good part of the day and night, but I would have to be here at home listening to her, answering her questions and lying. I went back to the album, leafing mindlessly through the photos of every ritual that bound me to Ashok, from the second engagement to the last ceremony of putting the metti on my toes. After thumbing through the entire album, I settled down to a fitful sleep.
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I was jarred awake when my mobile phone rang. Disoriented, I checked the time. It was around twelve am. It was Divya, my sister calling from India. “Nithya! Hi, How are you? What time is it now? Did I wake you up?” She always asked the same question. I shook myself awake and sat up. “Divya! It’s okay. I am awake anyway. Ashok is not back home yet. How are you and how is mom?” “Amma is fine. She is asking if you have any ‘good news’?” ‘Good news’ actually meant, ‘Are you pregnant yet?’ “Do you think you will get pregnant this month?” “By any chance, do you think you will not get your periods?” I was tired of answering these questions. “Ayyo! You are calling me in the middle of the night for this? Tell Amma that we are not planning any sort of ‘good news’ as of now,” I replied. “Sorry! It is just that your mother-in-law keeps calling Chittappa all the time and keeps telling him that you are not pregnant yet.” I already knew that. My aunt and my mother-in-law had a conference call last week to share their angst at my inability to produce an offspring. My mother-in-law acted as though her investment in me as a brood mare was a total waste, and my aunt was full of suggestions about how to get pregnant. She even started suggesting ‘positions’ best suited to get pregnant. “Listen! I have some good news then. I passed the interview in Wipro. I will be joining next month once I get the offer letter.” www.indireads.com
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This was the best news that I had heard ever since I got married. I could feel myself getting teary, as happiness filled me. At least Divya was able to accomplish what I couldn’t. “Divya! This is great news. Wonderful. What will your salary be?” “Starting will be twenty-five thousand rupees. I may be in the US project team. Won’t that be great? Then I can come to California and stay with you.” God forbid! NO! You are too innocent to see us in all our married glory. “Yeah sure. Let’s see. Did you get the money that I sent?” “Nithya, stop sending money. Now that I have got a job I don’t want to inconvenience Athimber,” she said. They never believed me when I told them that it was my own money that I was sending. “Okay. But if you need money for anything just give me a call,” I replied. “I don’t think we need money now. Our days of struggle are over Nithya. We don’t have to depend on Chithi or Chittappa for anything now. In another six months, I am going to look for a house and get out of here,” she said enthusiastically. We lived in a dilapidated one-room apartment on the by-streets of Mylapore Kutchery road that our Chittappa gave us for free. “I hope it happens. You have no idea how happy I am,” I said fervently. “I know. Anyway take care. Go back to sleep,” she said happily. “Bye, take care.” My mother was the eldest in the family and she had a younger stepsister. Her stepmother married her at a young age to an alcoholic whose only achievement in life was siring my sister and I. Her stepsister married a smart army colonel who retired as a Major. My father died in an accident, when I was in the tenth standard. He never held down a permanent job and in the end we found out that he had been borrowing money from others, and was bringing it at home as salary. With debts amounting to one lakh 4
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rupees, rent, household expenses and school fees, my mother was completely overwhelmed. My uncle ‘Chittappa’ had by then retired from the army and had built himself a swanky bungalow in Mylapore. With nowhere else to go, my mother went to her stepsister for help. Chittappa gave us his old house near Madhava Perumal Kovil to stay. My mother became her sister’s glorified servant and helped with cooking, laundry, and housekeeping. So, this was indeed good news. If Divya could get my mother out of Chittappa’s house both physically and mentally, it would be great for everybody. She had spent half of her life slaving for them and now it was high time that we looked after her. My situation was hopeless in any case but I had striven hard to hide it from all, especially my mother. Just as I was turning off the light to settle back to sleep, the phone rang again. It was my father-in-law. “Amma Nithya! How are you? How is Ashok? I just left your mother-inlaw at the airport. She has boarded the plane,” he said. That’s just great! “Ok.” “Is Ashok there?” he asked hesitatingly. “No.” I did not want to talk to him more than necessary. In fact in those three years, I had avoided speaking with him. Once I was naïve enough to think that he was unaware of our situation. But recently I realized he knew everything; and despite that he had arranged our marriage. He was silent for a while then asked, “Nithya! Is everything set for your mother-in-law’s visit in US? Where is Ashok? Will he be picking her up at the airport?” “He has gone out with Sunil,” I said. “Oh! Will he pick her up or not?” he asked hurriedly. “He told me that he would…” I said and hesitated.
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“I hope he goes alone to the airport. I just want her to be comfortable there. I hope you understand,” he said in a worried voice. “Really? I thought you wanted to know something else. You know everything right?” I asked him. He immediately got defensive, “I don’t know what you are talking about. Don’t try to act smart with me. You were almost a servant in Narasimhachari’s house. Your mother didn’t even have one gram of gold to give you. You were living on your uncle and aunt’s mercy. Your father didn’t even leave money to educate you or your sister. You have lived on other people’s charity all your life. I got you married to my son, gave you jewelry, paid for your ticket to USA. Would any father-in-law do this? And you know what, I bore the entire marriage expenses too and you have the audacity to ask me questions? Just who do you think you are?” I tried to interrupt, but something was wrong with my voice. He continued, “Just keep one thing in mind. While Saroja is in the States I want you to make sure that everything is normal. She is a heart patient so please don’t argue with her or tell her anything. We will speak more about this when you come down here. Until then I don’t want any more discussion about this. Do you understand?” He didn’t expect a reply and put the phone down.
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THREE
Ashok didn’t come back home in the night nor did I expect him to. He would probably go pick up my mother-in-law straight from wherever he was. I couldn’t sleep after the upsetting call with my father-in-law. I quickly took a bath and got dressed in a sari. While I was making breakfast, Ashok called me. “Hello.” “Yes?” “Amma’s flight is delayed by 3 hours. I am at the fucking airport. If my father Desikacharya, the bastard, calls, tell him,” he said in a drunken drawl. “Ok,” I replied. God! He is drunk. I just hope he sobers up before his mother arrives or else there will be another conference call from the inquisition squad in India. I quickly prepared lunch and thought I would go and meet my friend Diana. Diana owned a restaurant right around the block. We became friends three years ago. I had been in the neighborhood park, brooding over my hopeless situation and crying. I didn’t notice anyone and no one bothered me. I didn’t know how long I sat there. Suddenly I felt a hand comforting me. It was Diana. She said that she had been watching me for a long time. “There, there, dear! Don’t cry.”
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I poured my heart out to her. Sometimes it is easier to talk to strangers. Things that I had kept hidden from my mother and sister tumbled out of my mouth. It was the beginning of a beautiful friendship. I was glad that I had Diana to fall back on, in this strange country. I made paneer pakoras for her to taste. She loved Indian snacks, especially samosas, and was forever asking me to give her recipes to try. I wrapped the pakoras in aluminum foil and went to the restaurant. Diana is a 40-year-old woman with gray eyes, blonde hair and a lovely dimple. She was writing something in her notebook when I entered. She looked up and smiled at me. I sat beside her and waited until she finished and gave her the paneer pakoras to taste. “Hmmm. Very nice, Nithya. I am thinking of adding a couple of Indian snacks to the menu. There has been a noticeable increase in Indian customers here,” she said, eating the pakoras with relish. “How about it Nithya? You can make this stuff from home and send it around to the restaurant. I’ll pay cash. What do you say?” she asked. Diana’s suggestion seemed God-sent but I also wanted it to be my ticket out of the house. “My mother-in-law is coming from India today. So most likely she will take over the kitchen. I can come here and make the snacks, if you don’t mind. How about that?” I asked. She seemed pleased to hear that. “Sounds better. We can serve them hot! Great. So how long is your mother-in-law here?” “For about three months I think. She might leave earlier if my sister-inlaw’s marriage gets fixed,” I said. “I still can’t understand why you won’t leave him? Divorces are also common in India. My Indian friend Malathi is divorced and happy.” I bit my lip while I pondered her question. She never really understood why a younger sister would have trouble getting married if the older sister got divorced.
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“Ashok and I have an agreement. I can’t back off now,” I said morosely. She scowled and pursed her lips as she considered my situation. “What agreement? He’s just taking advantage of you. Can’t you see that? And have you thought of what you want to do, once you go back to India?” she asked. I have thought about nothing else in all my time here. I looked directly at her and said, “I want to go back to India and start a restaurant like yours. I have studied hotel management.” She seemed pleased with my decision. “That’s good. At least you have a definite plan. So when is your sister getting married? Does she like anyone?” she asked. Despite having many Indian friends, Diana never really understood the concept of arranged marriages. We had several interesting conversations and arguments about how people get married in India after one or two meetings. “My sister just completed her engineering. Next month she will be joining Wipro. She will need some time to get settled in her job,” I said. “That could be another three to four years. What about Ashok’s sister? How old is she?” she asked pondering deeply over my situation. “She is twenty-two years old. They are actively looking for a match. My mother-in-law wants Ashok to find someone for her from the US. But he is not very keen,” I said. “I’m not surprised. So you are going to lead this sham life for the next four years. Do you think it is worth it?” she asked me directly. I was afraid to answer that. She was right. It was not worth it. But I just needed to pretend that everything was fine, until Divya got married. That’s all.
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FOUR
The first time I heard anything about my marriage was when I was fourteen years old. My uncle Narasimhachari and aunt Kanakavali loved to matchmake. They rarely thought about the wishes of the boy and girl. Ever since Chittappa retired from the army, he had cultivated a couple of hobbies. One was to match-make along with his gossipy wife (my aunt), and the other was to show people how deeply religious and charitable he was. The first proposal that they had in mind for me was to marry his brother’s son Vasu. Vasu was an orphan. His parents died in an accident and my uncle became his guardian since there was nobody else to take him in. He was brought to live in my uncle’s house with his cousin. My uncle financed his studies until twelfth standard and then suggested that he go to patashala to study for priesthood and get married to me. We both were made for each other, with Vasu becoming a priest and me a cook; we would be the ideal low class couple according to my uncle. Vasu was not interested. He did not want to become a priest. I was not sure how he felt about marrying me. He left the house after his twelfth standard results were out and never came back. My uncle was very angry. It was the first time one of his plans had gone awry and somebody actually had the courage to stand up to him. He had a big face-off with Sridhar, who had come to persuade him to let Vasu work with him. Sridhar even offered to take up the cost of Vasu’s education. But it was of no use. After Vasu left the house, I found out that uncle had told all his relatives that he had stolen some money from home, hence his hasty departure.
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The last thing that I heard about Vasu was that he was working with Sridhar and had moved to Mumbai and was very successful. Sridhar was a businessman dealing with computers and Vasu used to work with him parttime, assembling computers during his summer holidays. Thankfully, after he left, there was no more talk of my marriage. When I completed my twelfth standard, my uncle wanted me to start working. I was heartbroken but my mother met an old friend of my father’s, and asked him for help. He agreed to finance my education and Divya’s as well. This, again, had not gone down well with my uncle. It was the final year of my college and I had come to my uncle’s house to help my mother make the yearly portion of appalam and vadam for my uncle and aunt. While we were preparing the sheets for the vadam, my uncle came to the terrace and told me his plans for my future. “Nithya! Yesterday I was speaking to Chinnu mama. He is looking for an apprentice for his cooking team. You will learn a lot from him. He is a top cook nowadays and he is always in demand for marriages and other functions. He said you could help him by cutting vegetables, cleaning utensils and clearing tables. He will pay you three thousand rupees for a marriage and a thousand rupees for other functions. You can start working for him from next month. His only condition is that you will have to wear a madisar,” he said with a flourish. Then he had turned towards his wife who was adjusting the sheets and said, “Kanaka! Give your old cotton madisars to Nithya. She can wear them when she goes to work with Chinnu.” I had looked at my mother who was silently watching my uncle. She could not and would not say anything. “Chittappa! Three of my friends have started a catering business from their home. I want to join them. They already have eight clients, all software companies to whom they are supplying food. They want me to join them. My monthly salary will be eight thousand rupees.” “Nonsense Nithya! I know you. Don’t aim too high. It won’t work. I think you are lucky to get this job, that too because of my recommendation. This
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job is perfect for you. Don’t dream too big. Just because you studied hotel management it doesn’t mean that you will open a hotel,” he said, dismissing my decision. “Chittappa, please. I want to….” My mother intervened and said “Nithya! Help me with this.” We got busy with the vadam and appalam and my uncle went down. I wanted to protest this decision, but my aunt was there. She took up the discussion from where my uncle had left. “Amruthi! Do you know how much money Chinnu makes with marriages? Almost two lakhs for each marriage. If Nithya works with him, he will also find a good match for her. We thought Vasu would be perfect for her but he turned out to be a wastrel.” My mother and I were stoically silent until she went down. And then I burst out. “Amma! I will not work with Chinnu mama. I want to take up this catering job. If it means that we will be thrown out of that house then so be it. I can support us with my salary,” I said vehemently. “Nithya! Stop it. In the first place you shouldn’t have told him that you want to take up another job. You should have told him that it is an internship or something for a year after which you will get your graduation certificate.” “Oh! Why didn’t I think about this?” My mother knew her survival techniques well. “You go ahead with your catering job. I will tell your aunt that you will not get the certificate unless you work with these people,” she said calmly. “Thank God!” I had said relieved. We finished laying out the vadams and then went down. My uncle was on the verandah talking to a friend of his. They looked up when I came out. “Chittappa! I am leaving now. I have to go to college today.” He called me, and holding my hand, introduced me to his friend. 12
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“Desika! This is my wife’s sister’s daughter Nithya. Her father died leaving them with a big debt. I gave them the small house that we have near the temple tank and paid for their education.” My uncle’s friend surveyed me from top to bottom. I greeted his friend and escaped as fast as I could. Desikachari was Ashok’s father. I guess after I left, he asked for my hand. He had been on the look-out for a demure, non-independent beautiful girl for his son and I fit the bill perfectly.
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My aunt and uncle came over two days after I met Ashok’s father. “Amruthi! I have come with some very good news. You will probably die of shock, once you hear it.” My uncle’s opening statement caught our attention. “I’ve got a very good alliance for Nithya. You’re not going to believe her luck. She’s got many lucky stars in her horoscope to attract such a proposal.” “I don’t understand. Whose proposal?” I was sure that it was going to be a proposal from a temple vadiyar, cook or a driver. But nothing in the world prepared me for this. “My friend Desikachari wants the hand of Nithya for his son Ashok. Do you know where Ashok lives? In the USA. You have got a US proposal for your daughter!” he announced happily. Our jaws dropped. “Ashok lives in California and is a software engineer. He has been staying there for about three years. He is their only son. They have a daughter too, who is working. Desika lives in Adayar in an independent house; they have fifteen acres of land in their village in Maduramangalam. They don’t want anything. I have explained everything about your circumstances. They want a simple marriage. We can have the marriage ceremony in our house and then Nithya will fly off to the US.” “What are you staring at? Aren’t you happy?” he asked waiting for our reaction.
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My mother was the first one to recover. “Athimber! Is this the first marriage of this boy or the second?” she asked voicing the doubt that I held in my heart too. “What are you asking? Of course it is the first,” he blustered angrily. “Then why would they…?” He interrupted her. “Listen! Desika wants a simple traditional girl for his son. Someone who can take care of his son. He is afraid that Ashok might marry somebody unsuitable from the US.” “But Athimber! Why do they want my daughter? We have nothing to give her. You know that we don’t have a single gram of gold,” exclaimed my mother. “Kanaka! Give back Amruthi’s jewels to her. You can use those jewels for her marriage. I will take care of the rest of the expenses,” said Chittappa, ready as always with his project plan. “But Athimber! She wants to work for some time. We have not talked about marriage at all…” said my mother feebly. “Listen Amruthi! Do not refuse a good proposal when it is coming on its own,” he coaxed. I intervened and said, “Chittappa! I don’t want to marry now. I want to work. I am just twenty-one years old. And I don’t even…” “Nithya! I am talking to your mother. Listen, don’t say anything now. I am sending Nithya’s photo to Desika’s son. Desika is also getting the horoscope matched. If everything proceeds smoothly then they will come to see Nithya,” he said firmly. I noticed that my aunt was not very happy with this proposal. “Amruthi! I wish my daughter had got this proposal. But she didn’t. And my husband is trying hard to get your daughter married. Instead of appreciating him, you and your daughter are questioning him,” she said, reminding us of our duty to praise him at every turn.
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“Kanaka! That is not what I am saying. Marriage is a big decision and I want my daughter to marry the right man. I don’t want her to suffer like I did…” said my mother with a sob. My aunt made a face and turned away. My uncle intervened again and said, “Let us not talk negatively. I am sure the horoscope will match. Let us wait until they call.” We were at a loss to say anything after they left. Too many things were happening and we were not able to decide whether it was good or bad. *** After an uneasy night, my mother went to my uncle’s house to attend to her daily duties, and I waited at home for news. Around 10 am, she came hurrying to fetch me to the house. Divya had already gone to college and I was alone at home. Our horoscopes had matched perfectly and Ashok’s parents were coming to meet me officially. My uncle was in an agitated state, shouting out orders and hastening my mother to do the necessary chores. My cousin Jayashree came and took me inside. She was a good person. She was so unlike my uncle and aunt that I used to wonder whether she was adopted. She draped her silk sari on me and made me wear my mother’s jewelry. They came. Ashok’s mother was the typical mami that you would meet in Mylapore. Traditionally clad in a madisar, she was very authoritative and demanding. She fired question after question at my mother about our father, our village and our properties, trying to determine our social standing. Ashok’s father put a stop to all that and said finally that they liked me. I could see that my mother-in-law did not approve but she was sidelined. “I want Nithya to speak to Ashok now. He won’t be asleep yet,” he took out his mobile phone and dialed.
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“Ashok? I told you about Nithya right? We are at her house now. Your mother and I like her a lot,” said Ashok’s father smiling at me. I saw my mother-in-law making a face at this comment. “We want you to speak to her now,” he said and gave the phone to me. I took the phone and moved to the balcony. “Hello!” I said with a shiver in my voice. “Hi Nithya! I am Ashok!” said a pleasant voice with a long American drawl. “Hi,” I said. “So my parents met you today. Your uncle sent me your photograph. Did you see my photo?” he asked. “No. Not yet,” I said slowly. “Oh! Ask my father to show it to you. I live in California. I am a software engineer. I work for LTC Systems. I have been here for about three years. Umm… there are lots of Indians here; temples, Indian societies and cultural activities are very common. I am sure you will enjoy it all when you come here. As for myself, I want a simple girl who is traditional and conservative. My father tells me that you are a hotel management graduate,” he said. It was difficult to understand much of what he said because of the accent. “Yes. I have finished my graduation in hotel management.” “Great! Look Nithya. I am a simple guy and I want a simple girl as my life partner. I like the sound of you. See my photo and if you like me, we can get married. I am coming to India next week. Okay?” “Okay. I will give the phone back to your father.” I came back into the room and gave the phone to Ashok’s father. My hands were shaking. “You spoke to him. Is he still there?” he asked.
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Ashok’s father took the phone from me and spoke to him for some time. My uncle and my mother hurried over to me and asked a hundred questions about my conversation with Ashok. While I was stammering answers, Ashok’s father came and showed me Ashok’s photo. He was quite fair, broad forehead, strong nose, curly hair and very athletic looking. He looked quite handsome. I couldn’t believe that such a nice man would want to get married to me. I looked at his photo and could hear his soft voice in my head. Could this be true? Will he truly change my life for better? My aunt snatched the photo from my hand and scowled. Now when I think back, my aunt expected Ashok to be as ugly as sin since the proposal was for me. But she was shocked when she saw that he was handsome. My mother-in-law was still unhappy about me being the prospective bride. Now that she knew we were the poorer relations of Narasimhachari, my uncle, she felt that she could get a much better proposal for her son. In fact, she openly favored my cousin Jayashree. I could hear snippets of their conversation where my aunt was talking about Jayashree and my motherin-law was telling her that she was searching for someone like that as a daughter-in-law. But my father-in-law hurriedly put an end to all those conversations. They both gave me dirty looks. But in all fairness, I had never wanted this alliance. I never expected to get married so soon, or ever.
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SIX
The next two weeks were a blur. I was engaged to Ashok the very next day. My mother, finally overcoming all her fears, convinced me that this alliance was God-sent. She even cited many instances where rich grooms sought poor girls like me for their beauty and other redeeming qualities. Since Ashok was not there, I became engaged to his family instead. It was a very small function with just three aunts, four uncles, five cousins and their families. I also met Ashok’s sister Anu, who was about the same age as my sister. There were not many people from our side except for a couple of aunts. Many of my father’s relatives refused to come because they couldn’t stand Chittappa. One of my cousins from my father’s side came along with her husband. The marriage date was fixed for the following week. My mother-in-law presented me with a ten thousand rupee sari and a jewelry-set with necklace, bangles and earrings. I was overwhelmed. My mother hugged me and started crying. I didn’t speak to Ashok after that first day. He was at a conference, somewhere in Europe, and then was traveling through Europe so he couldn’t find the time to call me. My father-in-law told me that he would come and see me when he came to India next week. I didn’t think much of it since we were busy shopping. My uncle outdid himself and took us out shopping to Nalli to get us all silk saris. I berated myself for thinking so many bad things about him. My mother, on the other hand, was ready to build a temple for him.
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Four days before my marriage, Ashok arrived from US. He came to meet me next day at my uncle’s house. It was a very short meeting with his mother in tow. I was made to sit next to him while he chatted with my uncle, and my future mother-in-law scrutinized me minutely. I stole glances at him and once or twice and I saw him looking at me and smiling. He didn’t say much to me except a casual ‘hi’. My mother was very excited and my sister disappointed because he didn’t speak to her. The day of the marriage dawned. My aunt half-heartedly did the chores set by my uncle. She recognized that it was a good PR opportunity to highlight her husband’s benevolence towards me and my family; at the same time, however, she was also afraid that their other relatives might expect the same type of help for their daughters. Things proceeded very smoothly and soon I found myself seated next to Ashok on the dais. We went through the motions and chanted our mantras repeated by the priest. Then it was time for him to tie the thali. My father’s cousin and his wife played the role of my mother and father during the marriage, and it was in his lap that I was seated when Ashok tied the thali. By mid-morning, everything was done. We went to the registrar’s office to get the marriage registered before returning to the hall to bid everyone farewell. My mother was very emotional but she was kept busy by congratulating relatives. My sister helped me to pack my bags. My mother hugged and blessed me, and I took a formal farewell from my uncle and aunt. We came out of the hall and got into the car and sat next to each other. The romantic ‘me’ thought that he would then hold my hand or at least smile at me, but Ashok was busy checking his messages on his mobile. We reached his house and my mother-in-law and many other relatives took the arthi and invited me inside. It was a big house and I was immediately taken to Ashok’s room. My father-in-law and Ashok were busy discussing my passport and visa with an agent. My documents and application were already with him and now they added the marriage certificate to it and asked him to expedite it. 20
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My sister-in-law Anu came in to help me unpack. Not that there was much to unpack anyway. But I learnt a bit about Ashok in the process. “My brother is a very neat person. He wants everything to be arranged properly in the room - clothes, books and CDs. He keeps shouting at my mother when she folds his clothes. She doesn’t do it properly. You have very beautiful eyes, you should wear mascara and eye shadow when you go out with him.” She chattered away as she helped me. I arranged my few pieces of clothing in an emptied cupboard drawer and then we went out to the kitchen. My mother-in-law was sitting with a couple of other mamis. “Nithya! You can help us in the kitchen from tomorrow. Not today. Go and check if your father-in-law and Ashok want some coffee,” she said. I went to the hall and then to my in-laws bedroom. Ashok was standing near the window and my father-in-law was behind him. My father-in-law was talking to him in a low voice. I came inside and said, “Mama! Amma wants to know if you want some coffee.” “Yes, get us two coffees.” When I got the coffee, I saw my father-in-law standing alone by the window. Ashok had gone out. He took the coffee from my hand and said, “Ashok had to go to the passport office. He will be back by this evening.” Soon it was night; Anu and my mother-in-law were decorating the room, while I was nervous and trembling. I didn’t eat much during dinner - I thought I would throw up. Ashok came very late and went inside the room. My mother-in-law gave me a silver tumbler full of milk and asked me to give it to him. I entered the room to find Ashok sitting with his laptop at the table. The room was decorated with flower bouquets and rose petals were strewn on the bed. I placed the milk next to him. He looked up and smiled at me.
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“Nithya! I have some work that I have to finish now. You must be tired so you sleep. I will come to bed later.” I was relieved but also a bit disappointed. I said okay and turned to go to bed. He said, “Listen, I want to know you better before we begin our life as a married couple. My parents were in a hurry, so I got married but it is necessary for me to know my partner before we have any kind of relationship. My parents are old-fashioned, traditional. So tomorrow morning they will ask you all sorts of questions. They will expect us to have slept together… so don’t tell them that we didn’t, okay?” It took me some time to understand what exactly he was saying but then I said, “I understand. I will not tell them.” That night I was too tired to even think about anything. I slept the minute my head hit the pillow. I didn’t know when Ashok came to bed. But he was sleeping next to me when I woke up the next day. It was almost seven in the morning when I woke up and I hurried to the bathroom to get ready. My mother-in-law tried to pry as much information as possible from me. I tried to act shy and escaped somehow. My father-in-law had arranged for a trip to Tirupathi the following day. Ashok was busy packing and shopping. We had to get up early the next day so I went to bed early and Ashok worked again. I actually appreciated his thoughtfulness about wanting to know me better before sleeping with me. He was very polite and nice to me but a shade impatient with his parents. After the Tirupathi visit, Ashok stayed at home for one more day and then he left for the US. I had to wait two more months before I could start my married life with Ashok.
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These days I almost feel sorry for Ashok. Ever since my mother-in-law arrived, all that she has done is cook for him and he doesn’t have any choice but to eat. “Just one more puri! Try this chutney. Nithya bring that tomato chutney for him to taste.” Ashok made a face and waited patiently while I searched through the bottles of chutney and pickles that she brought with her from India. Dripping in oil, the chutney bottle was swaddled in two aavin plastic covers. I took out a spoon and put some chutney in his plate. “Today I am making usili, kadamba sambar, applam and lime rasam. All your favorites. You must come home for dinner today.” I knew that he wouldn’t come home any time sooner than eleven. He had been escaping to office earlier than usual every day and returning late at night. With his temper at an all-time high, it was difficult to be with him, let alone talk to him. My situation was far worse. This time around, her visit to the US was undertaken solely to check whether we were leading a normal married life or not. The second purpose was to give me more gyan about how to become pregnant and how I was ruining Ashok’s life by not becoming pregnant immediately. As to the first, there was no problem in pretending that we were a normal married couple. Ashok was rarely home in any case. The only awkwardness was when we had to sleep together in the same bed. Thankfully, the bed was very big and I slept in one corner and he on the
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other. And thanks to Diana, I had four to five hours of respite from home during the day. While I was clearing the breakfast items, she started off on her pet project. “Last month, I ran into that girl Deepa whom we had seen for Ashok. She got married two months ago and she is pregnant already. God knows what sins I have committed to be saddled with a daughter-in-law like you. Next month when I go back to India you are coming with me and we are getting a check-up done. If there is a problem with you then I must find out. My friend’s sambandi, is a gynecologist. She is also a very good doctor. We need to do a scan and find out whether there is any problem…” I resolutely refused to look towards her or even to react to her statements. But I could feel her eyes on my stomach. If she could, she might actually scan me with her eyes alone and find out what my problem was. I tried to talk to Ashok about the impending medical test that she might force me to have. I told him while we were in bed. “Ashok! I need to talk to you about something.” “What?” “Your mother is pestering me to get a medical check-up done. I have given her many reasons why we don’t want kids right now. She is not listening. Can you speak to her and tell her that for the next two years you don’t want kids?” “Hmm… I don’t know man.” “I have been listening to this pregnancy talk for the past one month now. She wants me to go along with her to India next month and when we go she wants me to have a medical check-up with a gynecologist that she knows. If you don’t tell her that you don’t want kids right now, I will have to undergo a medical check-up. Please Ashok! Speak to her.” “What the fuck, Nithya? It is just a medical check-up. What are you scared of? Why are you pestering me? I don’t want to talk to her about this. Just leave me alone.” 24
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I bit my lip to fight back the tears but they just rolled down. I felt trapped in a situation where the walls were closing on me from all directions. “You don’t understand Ashok. Please try to understand… I…” He tore at his hair and screamed, “Oh God! I am going to kill that guy the minute I land in India next time. He sent her here deliberately to mess my life. Okay! I will talk to her.” He turned away to sleep. He did speak to her the next morning, I think, because she looked sullen when I came back from the restaurant and kept muttering about my hold over her son. “God knows what sins I have committed. All I want is a grandson to hold before I die. If you cannot give it then what is the point of this marriage? I always knew that people from Salem are very cunning. Now I know why they say that. You have him twisted around your little finger. Usha’s son got a new wife because his first wife was not conceiving. You should thank your stars that we are not doing anything of that sort…” I willed myself to ignore her, and listened instead to A.R. Rahman and checked my mail. Divya had sent a mail saying that her friend Ragini’s friend Srinivas, was coming to the US for a conference. I had bought her a couple of t-shirts and a make-up kit and bengay lotion for my mother all of which had been sitting in my cupboard for months. Divya had forwarded Ragini’s mail with Srinivas’s number. Srinivas was going to call me once he reached California. I was not sure what my mother-in-law would say about my sending a package for my sister. Maybe I should call Srinivas to the restaurant and hand it over to him there. The next morning, I was distracted because my mother-in-law was trying to persuade Ashok to say gayathri mantra and change his poonal, as it was aavani aatam. “Yesterday was aavani aatam in India so according to astroved.com you can change your poonal,” she said, quoting her authority for auspicious dates.
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Ashok seemed to be pushed in a corner. I had seen him wearing a poonal only once, and that was during our marriage. I didn’t see much point in changing it when he rarely wore it. Ashok pretty much said the same thing to his mother, “Amma! I don’t wear poonal here at all. Then what is the point?” But she was ready with her Brahmaastra, her eyes swimming in tears, “Won’t you do this for your mother? Do you have to argue with me about everything? I may not be alive to see you do another aavani aatam?” Cornered, Ashok went and had his bath while his mother waited for him in the bedroom. “Amma! I have to change. I will come, wait.” She immediately started applying the traditional namam on his forehead. It was funny the way he tried to bat her hand away but she was formidable when she wanted her way. I made aapam and idli, while she made Ashok recite Gayathri japam, wearing a makeshift dhoti. He scowled at her, as she went around taking pictures to put on Facebook. It was quite funny, but I dared not laugh as Ashok was close to bursting-point. My mother-in-law was naively unconcerned about this. “Bring the aapam and serve it to him,” she ordered. I brought out the aapam and when I served two on his plate, she shouted, “Put three more. He loves to eat aapam.” I had never seen Ashok eat anything so oily in the three years we had been married; it probably was his favorite decades ago. When I started serving him three more, Ashok shouted, “NO THANKS.” “Don’t serve it to him if he doesn’t want,” said my mother-in-law as if it was my mistake. My mobile rang and thankful for the break, I went inside the room to answer it. It was an unknown number. Curious, I answered the phone. It was a stranger’s voice, “Hi! I am Srinivas, Ragini’s friend. Is this Nithya?”
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“Hi! Yes, I am Nithya. Thanks for calling. Are you in Sunnyvale?” I was glad he had called; I would be able to send the package for Divya now. “Yes. Ragini said that you had a package for me. Can I come by today and pick it up? My friend is going directly to Chennai today so he can take it. If it is not ready I can pick it up later. I am here for one more week.” “Thanks. The package is ready. It’s just some t-shirts and make-up items for my sister. You can come and pick it up.” For some reason, my sister hated chocolates so there was no point sending them. My mother would not touch them as well, as she thought all food items from US would have egg by default. “Great! Then I will come by and pick it up. I am quite close by,” he said. “Fine no problem. Please come.” I went back to the kitchen to clean up and only then did I realize that I should have asked him to come to restaurant. I hurried back to the room to call him, but Ashok was changing and would not open the door. By then, it was too late. The doorbell rang. As my mother-in-law went to open the door, Ashok opened the bedroom door and asked angrily, “Can’t I have even one minute of peace in my room? What do you want?” He had changed into a t-shirt and shorts and was sitting on the bed with his mother’s camera, no doubt trying to delete his photos doing gayathri japam. “Nithya! Nithya! Someone is here for you,” shouted my mother-in-law. Ashok’s head shot up. In my three years in the US, no one had ever come here for me. He knew that Diana was my only friend here and even she had never come home. “Who is it?” he asked me curiously. I was frantically searching through the cupboard to find the package that I had put together two months ago.
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“It is my sister Divya’s friend. I am sending a package to her through him.” I finally got the package and went out. I could hear my mother-in-law interrogating him. God! Why didn’t I ask him to come to the restaurant? There were two people sitting on the couch. One was fair complexioned, mustached and tall and the other was brown, clean-shaven with intense eyes. He seemed to be listening to my mother-in-law patiently. He also looked vaguely familiar. My mother-in-law was in full flow. “So what is your purvegam? Where do your parents live? Where does your father work?” She was addressing all her questions to the dark complexioned man. I caught the other man suppressing a smile, enjoying his friend’s interrogation. “I am originally from Thanjavur. My parents are dead. I live in Mumbai.” I entered the room and stood near the couch. He looked towards me and that is when I found out why he looked familiar. He looked at me steadily and frowned as if he was trying to remember who I was. “This is Nithya, my daughter-in-law,” introduced my mother-in-law. He got up and lost his frown. I think he finally recognized me. “Hi I am Srinivas. You are…” I knew him as Vasu. And for a moment, I was back in those sun-kissed days that I spent with him in my uncle’s house. “Vasu! I am Amruthi mami’s daughter, Nithya,” I told him, reminding him of the person who had become his surrogate mother during those four years we spent together growing up. He looked surprised, shocked and also happy to meet me. He got up and came towards me. His friend looked on curiously. “Nithya! God! I never thought that I would meet you here…”
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My mother-in-law, who had been following our conversation like a tennis match, interjected. “So how do you know Nithya?” she asked Vasu. Vasu turned towards her and said, “We are distantly related.” How apt. But I wondered what she would say when she knew how distantly! “Nithya! Go get some coffee for the guests.” “It’s ok mami. We are in a hurry,” said Vasu hurriedly. “Nonsense. I got coffee powder all the way from Chennai. You must have some,” she insisted firmly. I turned and went to the kitchen. This was going from bad to worse. Fancy meeting Vasu like this! I could still hear her voice. She was on to Vasu’s friend now. “So you are from Mumbai? Do you live in Matunga? Do you know Janaki mami there? Everybody in Mumbai knows her!” my mother-in-law launched a rapid-fire question round, to which he mumbled some answers. I took the coffee and went into the hall. Vasu and his friend were looking around. Vasu sipped his coffee silently and seemed to be in deep thought, while my mother-in-law was telling his friend about her trip to Dwarka. “So are you going to Chennai?” I asked Vasu. “Not immediately. But Raghavan is leaving tomorrow. So I thought I would send it with him. Don’t worry, it will reach your mother,” he said, looking into my eyes. “So, how are you related to her?” asked my tenacious mother-in-law. I was about to launch into a story, when Vasu said calmly, “I am Narasimhachari’s brother’s son.” Oh God, no! “Oh! Narasimhachari’s nephew. I have heard about you.”
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There were a hundred undertones in that one comment. I handed the package over to him. He was searching for something in his wallet. He took out his card and gave it to me. “Call me when you are free,” he said. I guess he meant “Call me when your dear mother-in-law is not around.” I took the card and nodded. My mother-in-law was more interested in the package. “What is there in the package? To whom are you sending it?” she asked. “Just some t-shirts and make-up items for Divya,” I said. “I hope they were not too expensive. Anyway, it will be good treat for Divya. She probably can’t afford to buy any cosmetics even in India. Next time around, I will ask Anu to give her any of her unwanted lipsticks and nail polish.” Vasu‘s face darkened, while I cringed in embarrassment. Raghavan was already out waiting by the elevator. Thankfully, Ashok made his entry at this moment having erased all his photos from his mom’s camera. He came and stood behind me. If nothing else, at least his mother would watch her mouth with him there. “Vasu! This is my husband Ashok,” I said, introducing Ashok. They shook hands. Vasu smiled and tried to look cordial. But I guess my mother-in-law’s words still rankled. Ashok merely nodded and looked at him as if he were waiting for him to leave. “Ok Nithya! I will catch up with you later. Bye.” He turned and put his shoes on and looked back at me. It was a glance that I was familiar with, one that took me back to a time when we had known each other well.
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Meeting Vasu was a good distraction for my mother-in-law and myself. I had always wondered about him. I had heard from other relatives that he was in Mumbai but didn’t know that he had been so successful. I hadn’t recognized him right away. He had grown taller and had become fairer, which was still darker skinned than I remembered. He used to be quite skinny when I knew him but he had filled out well. It was his eyes that I had recognized and the intense stare that he gave me. Imagine the odds of meeting him like this in the US. After he left, Chittappa had told everyone that he stole something from home, and that was why he ran away. We never believed it. Vasu’s visit provided a new topic of discussion in the house for my mother-in-law. After he left, she probed me to learn more about him. She took it for granted that I had been in touch with him right from the beginning and wouldn’t believe me when I told her that I was meeting him for the first time after all these years. I told her that he left the house because my Chittappa had wanted him to study at patashala and become a vadiyar. “How can he leave the house after all that Narasimhachari did for him? Doesn’t he have any gratitude? He would have become very rich indeed if he had become a vadiyar.” She took Vasu’s visiting card and studied it. “What kind of name is ‘Cybermax System’? It says he is the CEO. It is probably fake.” I left her shaking her head and trying to remember all the things she had heard about Vasu.
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*** Safe in my room, I googled Cybermax Systems. It seemed that Cybernet, the company Vasu started with Sridhar, had overtaken all its competitors within two years and had netted huge profits for the partners. A small operation that had started with twenty-five people had become a public limited company with over a thousand employees. Three years ago he had merged Cybernet with System Max, another company, to create Cybermax. I also read many news excerpts that described Cybermax as providing outstanding customer service. Many software giants were buying their assembled computers and their service was reportedly impeccable. Vasu had been named the ‘Entrepreneur of the Year’ by an organization called TIE and had been called to speak at a conference. So that was why he was here in the US. He was getting an award. I went back to my room and changed into a kurti and jeans. It was getting late for work. It was quiet at the restaurant and there were not many people around. I sat down at a table and got myself a cup of coffee. I wanted to send him a SMS. ‘Hi, it was great meeting you’ ‘It was nice meeting you…’ ‘Vasu, Nithya here. Sorry about my MIL’s comments. It was nice meeting you today. Let me know when u will b free and I will call u’ I sent the SMS and was pleasantly surprised to receive a response almost immediately. ‘It’s ok. I suppose she is our Chittappa’s best friend. Anyway am at a boring conference so can’t talk but I can SMS. I guess I will b free after 6 pm today.’
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It felt odd messaging Vasu. He was someone from a different time altogether. ‘Ok. I will call u then. bye’ With that, I went to the kitchen to start my work. After two hours I had finished most of the snacks and was awaiting further orders from Diana. I took my mobile out of my jeans to check if there were any further messages. ‘When did u come to the US?’ Is he messaging me from his conference? I hurriedly typed my response. ‘3 yrs ago’ Within a minute he sent me another one. ‘After marriage?’ ‘Yes’ ‘Love marriage?’ ‘No’ ‘Arranged marriage like a good girl?’ ‘Yes’ ‘I was shocked when I saw u’ ‘Me too’ ‘It never occurred to me that Ragini’s frnd Divya cld be our Divya’ Before I could type my response, Diana came in with a request for more samosas and I got busy with it. After about an hour, I checked my mobile and found 4 messages from him. I settled down in the storeroom to read it. ‘How is Amruthi mami? She must b happy seeing u well settled’ ‘I am going to book a ticket to Chennai once I get back home. I want to see your mom.’ ‘R u there? R u busy?’ ‘Can we meet for lunch or dinner tomorrow? I have lots to ask u’
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My mother was disappointed and hurt when she didn’t hear from Vasu after he left Mumbai. But she also understood the reason for his silence and shared it with us. She said that Vasu was probably afraid that we might believe our Chittappa, when he put out the false rumor of him stealing something. Divya and I knew that Chittappa was lying because he kept changing his story about the ‘item’ that Vasu had stolen, but we couldn’t contradict him. I replied to all his messages immediately. ‘Amma is fine. She is happy. Divya recently got a job in Wipro’ ‘Amma will be glad to see you after so many years’ ‘Am sorry I was busy at work. That’s y I didn’t see ur messages’ ‘Sure. You can come down to my restaurant for dinner tomorrow. Can u be here by 7 pm’ I waited for his response for a few seconds and there it was. ‘Ur restaurant?’ He seems surprised but I was glad that I was able to tell him that I was independent to some degree. ‘Yes. I work at a restaurant as an assistant chef’ ‘Wow! That’s great. Send me the address’ I quickly typed the address and sent it to him. After about half a minute there was one more message from him. ‘When can I call u? I want to talk to u’ I guess he must be feeling odd messaging me when we had not met each other for more than ten years. There were too many things to share and in my case, many things to hide. ‘After 9 I will be alone in my room I will call u’ Within a minute, he responded and I wondered whether he was listening to any of the papers being presented at the conference he was attending. ‘Wat abt ur husband? Will he there?’ 34
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‘No he comes late’ I suddenly remembered that I didn’t ask him whether he was married or not. Exchanging messages through phone somehow seemed to me like flirting and I wouldn’t want to do that with a married man. I quickly typed a message. ‘I forgot to ask u. Did u get married?’ Will he say ‘yes’? Maybe he was married. He must be twenty-seven or twenty-eight years old by now. He was successful, nice to look at and well settled. My aunt’s grapevine may have missed the news. Maybe his wife was from Mumbai and maybe he had brought her here along with him. As I was mentally trying to picture his wife there was a reply from him. ‘No. y r u planning to do some matchmaking’ Great! So he is not married. And why would I do matchmaking for him… ‘No thanks. I really can’t compete with Chittappa’ After that there was no reply from him. He was probably busy at the conference so I tidied up and left for home. It was seven pm by the time I reached home. My mother-in-law was sitting in the living room with her computer on. She was busy chatting with her husband. I quickly went to the kitchen and heated up my dinner. She had made rotis, dal and potato curry. I silently filled my plate and ate in my room. I could still hear some snippets of conversation from my mother-in-law. “Ashok says that he does not want kids right now… Maybe they are using Nirodh or something like that… I don’t know what to do…” A pause as she listened to her husband. “Yeah she is coming with me to India after two months… Yes she is working in some restaurant… God knows why Ashok is allowing all this nonsense.” “Yes. Those people were from Madurai. What did they say? Did they match the horoscope? Ok! Let me know what they say.”
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They had been actively looking for a match for my sister-in-law Anu for almost a year but nothing had clicked so far. I checked the time; it was a little after eight. I quickly finished my dinner and called my mom. “Hello! Nithya! Sollu ma!” she said happily. “Nothing much Amma! Guess who I met today?” I asked her. “Who?” She asked curiously. “Vasu,” I said smiling to myself. “Vasu. But how?” She was predictably shocked. “Divya’s friend’s friend was supposed to pick a package from me. It turned out to be Vasu. I couldn’t believe my eyes.” She was silent for a while and then asked, “How is he? He came to your house?” “Yes. He came home. He looks totally different. He actually resembles Chittappa now,” I said voicing the impression that had been at the back of my mind ever since I saw him. “Does he? Did he remember you? How come he is in the US?” she asked eagerly. “Yes he remembered me. But we couldn’t talk much as my mother-in-law was there. He is here for a conference and he is getting an award,” I said, recalling what I had read on his company’s website. “Really! I wish your Chittappa could hear this. Anyway what is done is done.” “I will be talking to him in an hour or so. I will call you later and give you an update and by the way, Vasu’s friend Raghavan will be coming home to give you the package,” I said “Okay, say thanks to Vasu. Ask him to call me without fail,” said my mother. I said I would and ended the call hurriedly, as I could hear a beep for another call coming in. I hoped it was Vasu, but it was Ashok.
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“Hello!” I said. “Listen! Tell my mother that I have booked her ticket to New York for tomorrow. She wanted to go to Indra mami’s house for a few days,” he said. That will be welcome relief for both of us actually! “Okay,” I said happily. “The flight is tomorrow afternoon. Tell her that I will drop her at the airport,” he said calmly. “Okay. Are you coming home?” voicing a question for which I already knew the answer. “I will come late. I am going off with Sunil and others for some wine tasting in Napa Valley tomorrow. I badly need a fucking break,” he said and cut the call. He couldn’t have put it any better. And it meant I would be completely on my own for the next two or three days! I felt like celebrating. I sat on the bed, pensively looking at the phone. It was almost nine pm. I almost had no one to talk to in US, apart from Diana. And there were so many things that I had to update Vasu about. So many things had happened, so many changes. He had gone on to make a name for himself and was successful while I was still stuck in a rut. Just then Vasu called. I composed myself and took his call. “Hi!” “Hi! Vasu! Back from the conference?” I asked. He sounded tired. “Yes!” he said with a sigh. “I didn’t have much to do but it was so boring that I almost fell asleep. Are you back home?” “Yes. I come back by seven pm. So where are you staying?” I asked settling myself on the pillows. “At a studio apartment that we have rented for ten days. It is pretty close to your house.”
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We were silent for a while. I had so many questions to ask him but somehow I couldn’t open up. After a while he spoke, “I am sorry, Nithya!” I was surprised, “For what?” “I didn’t keep in touch with you or your family after I went to Mumbai. I had my reasons but now when I think about it they seem unimportant,” he said softly. My mother was right. It was just as she suspected. “Did you think that we would believe Chittappa’s version of events?” I asked. “Yes,” his reply was almost a whisper. “How could you? We knew that he was lying. But we are sorry too, we couldn’t contradict him,” I said softly. He was silent for a while and said, “I know. I understand. Now when I think about it I feel like kicking myself. You know I missed your mom so much.” There was an unspoken pain in his voice. “I know. She missed you too. She never quit worrying about you. I spoke to her today and told her about you. She was very happy,” I said. “Did you? Give me her number and I will call her.” “Hmm. Not now. Right now she will be at Chittappa’s house. Call later. I will SMS the number,” I said “So. When did you get married? You know I got the shock of my life when I saw you today.” “I was surprised that you recognized me after so many years. I have changed a lot,” I teased. “No! I would have recognized you instantly. You still have those big, onerupee coin eyes and that parrot-like nose. Remember how I used to tease you…” In a flash he was back to being the Vasu that I knew from years ago.
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“You know, you’re horrible! I am generally considered to be pretty, even by American men. By the way, why aren’t you married? I thought you would be by now?” I asked, curious to know his answer. “Why? Are you planning to match-make or something? No thanks. So how did you get married?” I wondered what I could tell him. “Hmmm three years ago. Ashok’s father saw me in Chittappa’s house and asked for my hand for his son.” “And…” “And what?” This was getting too close for comfort. I wondered how I could change the subject. “And then what happened? Chittappa must have said ‘no’ right?” He knew his uncle better than anybody. “No. He didn’t. He convinced my mother that this was a great proposal and got me married,” I said, hoping that this would be the end of the subject. Vasu was silent for a while. I thought he had cut the call. “Hello!” “Yeah I am there. I think I may have to clean my ears. Did you say that he got you married?” “Yes Vasu, he did. Anyway, leave it. How long are you here till?” I asked trying to change the subject. “I still can’t believe it. Chittappa getting you a US alliance! Why didn’t he snap it up for Jayashree? Did she get married before you did?” he asked. I closed my eyes. I wish I had told him that it was a love marriage and I had eloped with Ashok. “Jayashree got married two months after I did. But her alliance was fixed before mine. I guess that’s why?” I said, hoping desperately that he would leave the subject alone.
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“Wow! Namba mudiyala! Well I am glad that you are well settled. Your mother must be so happy for you,” he said sincerely. I knew he meant well but certain things were better unsaid. “So anyway, how long are you here?” I asked him. “I am leaving next Monday. Where does your husband work? Is he a software professional?” he questioned. “He works at Siemens Communication. Yes he is a senior software manager there,” I replied mechanically. “Are you happy?” he asked softly. Why is he asking me this question? Does he suspect that I am not? “Of course I am happy,” I answered making my voice light and carefree. “I am happy to hear that,” he replied happily. “Did you ever return to Chennai in all these years?” I asked him. “No. I had no reason to go back there. By the way, Raghavan will be going to Divya’s office tomorrow, to give your package,” he replied. “Thanks,” I said. “Then, what else? Do you live with your mother-in-law here?” “No, she is just visiting. She will leave in another month or so,” I said hoping that it would indeed happen that way. “Okay. I actually came to the US for an award ceremony. On Sunday TIE, the organization that has sponsored my trip, will be giving me an Entrepreneur award. Would you like to come for the event? I can book three seats for you, your husband and mother-in-law,” he said. “No,” I said quickly. “You can book a seat for me, alone. My mother-inlaw doesn’t go out much and Ashok won’t be in town.” “Okay.” He hesitated for a moment and then asked, “So, you are an assistant chef in a restaurant?” “Yes. I make Indian snacks there,” I replied.
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“Great. So when do you go to India? Once a year?” he asked. “Actually I have not been back in India since I got married. But next month I will be going there,” I replied remembering my mother-in-law’s conversation about taking me to a fertility expert. Returning home had lost most of its appeal ever since I heard that. Sensing my silence, Vasu asked, “What happened? Slept off? You must be tired. Go to sleep. I will come to your restaurant tomorrow and we can talk more.” I suddenly felt very tired. “Yes. It’s been a long day for me. We can have dinner at my restaurant.” “We’ll see. Bye,” he said and ended the call. I don’t know how long I sat there looking at the phone and going over my conversation with him. I was glad that I had met him, but the burden of pretense was getting to me. And Vasu would be the last person I would want to confide in, about my life.
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NINE
I don’t know what time Ashok came back home. When I woke up, I found him sleeping next to me. I got up quietly and took a bath. I felt excited and awake after a long time. Then I remembered that I had not told my motherin-law about the ticket that Ashok had booked for her. I quickly got dressed and went into the kitchen where she was cooking breakfast. She was very happy when I told her that Ashok had booked the tickets. She was bored, was feeling claustrophobic and, most importantly, she hoped that I would use the weekend to make a baby. I did not tell her that Ashok had his own plans for the weekend. I helped my mother-in-law to pack her bag and woke up Ashok. “Make fresh meals for my son and do not add garlic or onion. I don’t want you cooking onion in my kitchen,” she ordered. I wonder what she would say if she knew Sunil used to cook chicken in ‘her’ kitchen every weekend! “Tomorrow is amavasya so you will need to make payasam.” Ashok wheeled her suitcase back in hall. She hugged Ashok as if she was leaving the country forever. “Stay at home and enjoy a relaxed weekend… I really think a cozy weekend at home would do the trick.” “AYYO! WILL YOU JUST STOP IT?” he shouted. Not that it had any effect on the woman. She just pinched his cheeks and walked out, with a sullen Ashok following her. I sat down on the couch for a while, to relax and unwind.
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Half an hour later, Ashok came back and started packing. He came out after fifteen minutes with his backpack. I was just going to the kitchen to get his lunch when he said, “No, don’t bother. I am not hungry. She doesn’t know that I am off for the weekend so you will have to manage if she calls. I will be back by Monday afternoon and will go straight to the office.” It had been almost a month since he spoke to me so normally. “Okay,” I said. “Call me if you need anything,” he said. Which actually meant ‘Do Not Call Me’. I had learnt that a long time ago. He got into his car and zoomed off without a backward look. I had the house and the weekend all to myself. *** After Ashok left, I also went out. My mother-in-law was right; it was claustrophobic in the apartment. I went for a walk and ended up in the park. I sat there listening to A.R. Rahman’s soothing music for some time. Old memories of the time that I spent with Vasu surfaced. I remembered how we used to roam around the roads of Mylapore during Aaruvathi moovar eating free pongal and drinking neer more. He was more like a protective older brother then. I remembered how he had fought with some boys from the nearby slum when Divya had complained that they teased her. He was a rebel and always found new ways of defying my uncle’s plans. My mother was always worried that he would get into some serious trouble but I was glad that he left the house to do what he wanted to do. At least one of us had escaped. ***
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I got up and started walking towards the restaurant when my phone rang. It was Divya. I promptly cut the call and called her back. “Hello” “Hi! Sollu! Did you finally get the package that I sent you?” “Yes. Thanks. I love the make-up. Raghavan came to office yesterday and gave it to me,” she said enthusiastically. “Good,” I said and smiled. “Amma said that Raghavan is Vasu’s friend is that right? How is Vasu anna? I want to speak to him too.” “Yes. They both came to my house yesterday. Vasu is fine. He is here to get an award. Can you believe it? I will call you next time, when he is around, so you can speak to him.” “Hey and by the way, do you know Raghavan is Deepa’s cousin?” Deepa was Divya’s close friend from college. I was surprised. This was indeed turning into a week of twists of fate. “That’s a coincidence,” I said out loud. “Yes. Deepa and I are meeting him today again. We are going out for a movie. He seems like a nice guy,” she said. I promised to call Divya again later in the day and ended the call. When I reached the restaurant, I told Diana that I was expecting a guest. She was very happy and took it for granted that it was a dinner date that I was expecting. She urged me to take off early and get ready. I changed into a nice salwar kameez that I had brought with me and applied some light make-up. Vasu came at around six-thirty. Diana seated him at a discreet table and drove me out of the kitchen to join him. “Hi,” I said, a little nervously. He looked up and gave me an x-ray stare. I remembered a tidbit of information that I had read, something about not been stared at, until you
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have been stared at by a Scorpio. And I remembered that Vasu was a Scorpio. And then he smiled at me and I blinked, he had really turned quite handsome over the years. “I thought I would see you in an apron and a chef’s hat,” he said, smiling wickedly. Humph. So much for getting ready. I shouldn’t have listened to Diana. “Sorry to disappoint you but I changed,” I said, a little miffed. He smiled. “I am not disappointed.” And that look again. “So what will you have?” I asked, handing the menu to him. He looked through the menu and came to the Indian snacks section. “You make these?” he asked looking doubtful. “Yes!” I looked at him outraged. He grinned. “I will have the assorted snacks platter. Then I can taste everything that you have made,” he said charmingly. I went over to the counter, placed his order and came back. He smiled at me and asked, “Why don’t you call your husband and ask him to join us?” “He has gone to Napa Valley for the weekend with his friends,” I said. “Oh! Why didn’t you go too?” he asked. “It was an office thing. Anyway he wanted to go there with his friends,” I said lightly. Thankfully he didn’t pursue the subject. “So what did you study in college?” he asked. “Hotel management,” I answered. “Good. And Chittappa didn’t say anything to that?” “Well, he wanted me to stop my studies and start working but my father’s friend Chandru Uncle stepped in and funded my studies, and Divya’s.” www.indireads.com
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We were silent for a while. I looked up at him from underneath my lashes. “What?” he asked suddenly. “Nothing,” I answered and lowered my eyes. “What nothing? You are staring at me,” he asked, staring back at me. “I was just imagining what you would look like, if you had opted to become a vadiyar,” I said teasingly. “If I had stayed and had become a vadiyar, you would be married to me,” he said looking into my eyes. It was a ‘classic foot in the mouth’ moment. He realized it immediately and coughed as a cover up and then promptly changed the subject. “So how is Chittappa nowadays? I heard that Jayashree got married too? How is she?” he asked curiously. “He is just the same. Jayashree got married the same year that I got married. I got married in July and she in September. She is in Canada. She calls me now and then,” I answered, biting my nails. “Still biting your nails… chh'ee. And on top of it you are a chef,” he said, making a face. “I actually stopped this habit but started it again when I saw your face yesterday morning,” I said, making a face back at him. I smiled, remembering how he used to hate that habit of mine. One day he had put bitter neem oil on my fingers while I was sleeping, to stop me from biting my nails. I remember shouting at him after waking up and chasing him. But he had been too fast for me, and had run away before I could hit him. “So you are still with Sridhar?” I asked. “We are still partners in the same company, yes. But we live separately now. I have my own apartment and he got remarried last week.” Vasu smiled thinking of his old friend and benefactor.
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“That’s good. I am happy for him,” I said. I had heard of his wife’s death. “Yeah. I thought he would never get over his first wife’s death. He used to drink a lot too. But after he met Shanthi two years ago, he was finally able to get over it.” “Is that his new wife’s name?” I asked. “Yes. She is a Maharashtrian. She was his neighbor’s niece.” The lingering smile on his face showed that he cared about the woman who had married Sridhar. Diana came over, carrying the snacks platter. “Diana! This is my friend Vasu,” I said, introducing them. Vasu shook hands with her. “Vasu! Diana is the only friend that I have in the US. She is also my boss here.” “Hi! Nice to meet you.” Vasu stood there, with old-fashioned gallantry. “You too. Nithya is a very special girl. You take care of her.” Diana winked at him and left. I could kill Diana. Vasu was looking puzzled. “Don’t mind Diana, she is just pulling my leg,” I said and changed the subject to food. “Try this cutlet and tell me how it is. This is our in-house specialty.” He took some and nibbled. “Hmm. Good. Too bad you make only north Indian dishes here,” he said, sounding disappointed. “What do you mean?” I asked. “What I really want is some pulliyorai made by your mother, vathal kozhambu, yennai kathirikai. You know it is very strange. Two days ago, I had a sudden yearning to eat pakka south Indian food.” “Hmmm! Maybe it was a sign that you are going to meet me. Sorry but I can’t serve pulliyorai here,” I said, smiling at him.
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“But I want Amruthi mami’s pulliyorai,” he asked boyishly. “For that you will have to go to Chennai.” I was quiet for a moment. “You know my mother used to worry about you so much,” I said softly. A hint of a shadow passed over his face. “You have no idea how I felt. When I left Chennai, I was so angry. I didn’t think at all. I just told Sridhar sir that I wanted to go with him. He made all the arrangements and I went off with him with all I owned in the world, two sets of clothes. A week after we reached there, Sridhar sir came back to Chennai and he met Chittappa to inform him that I was with him in Mumbai. That’s when he told Sridhar sir that I had stolen some jewelry and left. I was so lucky that Sridhar sir believed me otherwise he could have sent me back. I knew in my heart that your mother would not believe the lie, but I was also afraid. Does that make any sense?” There were tears in his eyes and I couldn’t help but put my hand in his and give him an affectionate squeeze. We were interrupted by Diana, who had come with another tray of assorted snacks for him. We let go of each other’s hands just as she gave me a smug smile. I was embarrassed and blushed a deep red. Luckily Vasu didn’t notice anything. He was too busy loading his plate with patis and cutlets. “Give me your mother’s number. I want to talk to her.” I dialed my mom’s number. I knew she would be home now. “Amma? Nithya here,” I said. “Sollu ma. Are you ok?” she asked. “Yes I am fine. Vasu is here with me. He wants to talk to you.” I gave the phone to Vasu. He took the phone and said softly, “Mami. Vasu here.” “Vasu! I am so glad you are in touch again.”
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“Mami, you have no idea how happy I am to hear your voice. I am so sorry; I should have contacted you before. But I thought…” His voice broke and he looked into my eyes regretfully. I patted his hand. “Ennada Vasu. Leave it. There is no point in talking about the old things now. I heard that you are getting an award in the US. Congratulations!” “Thanks mami,” he said and smiled. “How long are you there in the US? Where are you staying?” “I am here for another week. After that, the first thing I am going to do is to book a flight to Chennai.” “Yes I want to meet you too. Let me know when you are here.” They talked for a few minutes more and after the call ended, he handed the phone back to me. We smiled at each other. “Thank you.” “You are welcome.” After the call, Vasu seemed to have developed a voracious appetite and he polished off the entire platter of snacks. It was as if he hadn’t eaten in years. Perhaps a burden had been lifted for him that night. Afterwards, he offered to walk me home. The night air was crisp and cool and we walked comfortably together. I wondered if we would meet again, when he spoke, “I have two tickets for a Hindi movie tomorrow. Do you want them?” “What will I do with two tickets?” I asked him. “Watch the movie with your husband,” he said, fishing out his iPhone. “Ashok is out of town.” “What about your mother-in-law?” he asked smilingly. “She is out of town too,” I said. After hesitating for a moment he asked, “Do you think your husband will mind if we watch the movie together?” “No, he won’t,” I said quickly. www.indireads.com
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“Are you sure?” “Very sure. It is ok. Ashok will be fine.” “Why don’t you call and tell him? Then I won’t feel bad about taking you out,” he said finally. “I will be talking to him tonight. I will tell him then,” I said, and smiled at him. So this is not goodbye after all. I will see him again tomorrow. We reached my building and Vasu waited until I was inside before leaving. I entered the house humming a beautiful A.R. Rahman number. I didn’t know what was happening but I felt light and happier than I had ever felt before. It was a whole new experience. After feeling constantly heavy and miserable for almost my whole life, I finally realized what it meant to feel happy.
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TEN
I woke up feeling free and happy. It took me some time to get used to the feeling. It was great. I lounged around lazily in bed for some time. It was only eight and I didn’t have to be at the restaurant until one. Then I remembered that there was an order for a party today. I should be done by six pm but I hoped I wouldn’t be late for the movie date. I smacked my head. It is not a date! I guess I was becoming more American living here. It was simply two childhood friends going out together to watch a movie. That’s all. I fished out my phone from under the pillow and checked my messages. There were three from my mother-in-law. ‘Y is Ashok not picking up the phone.’ Well why would he? He must be having fun out there. I quickly replied that his phone had some problem and that we were fine. Then I typed a message to Vasu. ‘What time is the movie?’ He replied immediately. ‘8 pm. Hope it is not too late for u’ ‘No probs. I am free,’ I wrote ‘How abt an early dinner and then the movie?’ He wrote back. I smiled and typed. ‘Fine. Be at my restaurant by 6 then’ ‘No not yours. It’s my treat today. Wats ur fav restaurant here?’
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Hmm. I thought for a while. Sunil used to rave about Masala Curry all the time. Maybe we could go there. ‘Masala Curry recommended’ ‘Well then I will book seats there for us’ ‘Ok. Had breakfast?’ ‘Having… you’ ‘I am still in bed’ ‘Lazy girl. Get out of bed, put kolam and make breakfast’ ‘Am taking a break from being a good DIL’ ‘I will let ur mother know in India abt this’ I sent him a ‘making a face’ smiley and got out of the bed. After a leisurely bath, I made some fresh breakfast for myself, and ate while watching TV. Around eleven, I left for the restaurant, wanting to start early so I could be sure of finishing the order on time. Diana gave me a conspiratorial smile whenever we looked at each other. I really needed to tell her to stop it. I went over to her desk. She looked up twinkling, “So, how was the date? Did he enjoy it?” “Diana! It was not a date. But yes we enjoyed it. Thanks,” I said with exaggerated patience and then added, “You know he is just a friend. There is nothing between us. And we met yesterday after a ten-year gap. So don’t jump to conclusions.” “Honey! My instincts are rarely wrong. You’ll see,” she said with another smile. “Oh God! It is useless arguing with you. I have to leave by six today, but don’t worry, I will finish the regular snacks and the party order by then,” I said. “Ah! So it is another date night today. Where are you off to with your young man?” she asked with a smug smile.
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“It is not a date. And he is not my young man. We are just going to watch a movie and have dinner,” I said, knowing she wouldn’t give up. “A boy and a girl going out for a movie and dinner sounds like a date to me. I really don’t know what you Indians call it back home,” she said, grinning and giving me an arch look. “Aaaagh! I am going, I have work to do.” I left hurriedly, maneuvering through the chairs. “You can leave by five if you want. I can manage,” she called out as I left. Great! That would give me enough time to go back to the apartment for a quick shower before we left for our date. Correction! It’s not a date. I got busy with preparations for the party order. It was four-thirty when I finally finished preparing everything and cleaned up. I sat down for a break and sipped some soda while checking my phone for messages. There were four from my mother-in-law, which I ignored, and two from Vasu that I opened immediately. ‘Where should I pick u up? Apartment or restaurant?’ ‘Did u ask ur husband? Is it ok?’ I ignored the second message and sent my answer for the first, asking him to pick me up at the apartment. I went back to the kitchen and was making sure everything was ready, when Diana came and hustled me to get going. *** Back in the apartment, I took a quick shower and then took some time searching for a nice outfit. Finally I settled on a pretty sky blue salwar kameez. I dried my long hair with the dryer. I felt it was my only really beautiful feature thick, straight, glossy and almost waist length. I tied it loosely and put on some light make-up. It had been a long time since I surveyed myself in the mirror and I was pleased with what I saw.
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*** Vasu sent me an SMS from downstairs when he arrived. I picked up my handbag and hurried down. He was wearing faded jeans and a t-shirt, and smelled of soap and cologne. He smiled at me and for some reason I blushed. “You look nice,” he said appreciatively. I could see it in his gaze. I felt hot and awkward. He opened the door for me and I sat in the car. He seemed to really know his way around. “Have you come to Sunnyvale before this?” I asked curiously. “Yes, four years ago. I had come for a project and stayed here for a month,” he said. No wonder he knew his way around! In the past three years, I had never gone out with anybody except Diana. There were some shopping trips that I made with Sunil during the early days but Ashok resented it, so I learnt to find my own way around. We reached the restaurant and the maître d’ seated us in a corner seat. It was a nice restaurant, quiet and serene. Even after we placed our orders Vasu continued to search through the menu. “Are you searching for pulliyorai in the menu?” I asked mischievously. “Yeah. It says Pudhina rice and I read it as Pulliyorai,” he said, putting the menu aside sadly. I looked around the restaurant and spotted some Indian families from the neighborhood. When I looked at Vasu, I found him staring at me intently. “What?” I asked. Sometimes his stares could be quite unnerving. “You don’t talk much about your life here. What about your husband? What kind of a guy is he? Is he keeping you happy? What are your future plans?” he asked, looking steadily into my eyes.
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I felt flustered. Why is he asking me all these questions? I looked down and said, “I am fine. Ashok is a nice guy.” “I am very curious. Tell me more about him,” he said, as if he was interviewing me. I felt uneasy and tried to hide it, and pretended to think aloud. “Hmmm. What can I say? He is very quiet and reserved. Doesn’t talk much. He likes his space and gives me a lot of space too, to do whatever I want to do.” At least this much was true! “So do you go out much? Does he take you out for holidays?” “He is a bit of a workaholic and he likes to go around with his friends. But he is a nice guy,” I said, hoping that he would change the subject. “I am surprised that he left you alone for the weekend and went away. If your mother-in-law is also not here, he could have taken you along.” He seemed unconvinced by the character certificate that I had given Ashok. “No. I told him to go. He has been working very hard this past month. On top of that, ever since his mother came he hasn’t been anywhere with his friends,” I said almost truthfully and added, “And I really don’t mind staying alone for two days.” “Did you tell Ashok that you are going out with me?” he asked narrowing his eyes. “Of course. I asked him, he said it was fine,” I said smoothly. I needed to change the subject before I revealed anything more. “Hey! Divya got the package. Please thank Raghavan for delivering it,” I said gratefully. “Sure. Raghavan called me last night. He said his cousin Deepa is Divya’s friend. I believe they went out yesterday,” he replied lightly. “Yes. It is such a small world,” I said and smiled at him. www.indireads.com
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The waiter brought the food and we started to eat. I was famished. Most days I barely had an appetite, but today I was ravenous. I ate through the rotis and dal that he had ordered and we shared pulav rice with some paneer butter masala. We skipped dessert and left. At the theatre Vasu turned and asked me, “Ayyo! I forgot to ask you. Can you understand Hindi?” I gave him a disdainful look and said in a superior tone, “Of course. I watch Hindi serials and movies all the time. Okay?” He smiled and said, “Okay! Okay! Just asking. I can’t switch on a subtitle button if you don’t understand…” I punched him on the shoulder before he could finish. It was a comedy film and I couldn’t remember the last time I laughed so much. We shared popcorn and chips that he bought during the interval. It was late by the time the movie ended. He dropped me back at the apartment. “I really enjoyed the movie. Thanks,” I said sincerely. “Yeah me too. I don’t usually go and watch movies in the theatre. Listen! I want to do some shopping tomorrow. If you aren’t busy, can you come with me?” he asked, hesitantly. “Sure. No problem,” I said, happy to know that I would be meeting him again tomorrow. I didn’t probe the feeling too much.
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ELEVEN
Ashok was back, and so was my mother-in-law. She had a hundred questions to ask about the so-called ‘sexy weekend’ that Ashok and I had. Despite the situation at home, I was having a wonderful time with Vasu. We would meet after my restaurant hours and spend hours eating snacks or sipping soda. I couldn’t wait to leave the apartment in the morning. I took to leaving as early as possible and finished my chores as quickly as possible. Evenings were reserved for Vasu. We talked non-stop about how he used to help me escape from our uncle’s house especially when Chithi assigned us some chores. We shared notes on all the movies that we had watched over the past ten years. I gave him updates about all the neighbors and friends in Mylapore. At some level I thought I should feel guilty. I was, after all, spending time with someone who was not my husband. But I didn’t. It seemed so natural and so right. One night, I came home a bit earlier than usual. I got dirty looks and mumbled comments from my mother-in-law. But I was too happy to let them bother me. “Going off to a restaurant… don’t know what Ashok was thinking when he gave you permission… not interested in having a baby… my mother-inlaw used to lock me in with your father-in-law soon after Ashok was born… she was not satisfied with just one son…” That was interesting and I suddenly had a vision of my mother-in-law’s mother-in-law wearing a madisar, with a hunter whip in hand, asking her
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son and daughter-in-law to do the deed. Controlling an overwhelming urge to laugh, I retreated to my room. After a relaxing bath, I lay down to rest and wait for Ashok to return. I didn’t want to call him and make him angry so I sent him an SMS instead. ‘R u having dinner at home? When r u coming home?’ ‘Will be home late. I already had dinner’ Having discharged my duty as a good wife, I settled down with a book but found myself distracted and unsettled. I got up and pulled out the other album I had found along with my marriage album. There were old photographs of some function or the other that occurred at my uncle’s house. I had collected the ones with my family in them. I finally found the one I was looking for. It was a group photo of Jayashree, Divya and Vasu and I. He was wearing a shabby shirt, which had clearly once belonged to my uncle, and khaki pants. He must have been fourteen years old. It was the only photo in which he was smiling. I noticed the small details of his nose, his hairline and his tall frame, and compared it with his present image. I was shaken out of my reverie by sudden loud knocking. I hurriedly closed the album and hid it in the cupboard before opening the door. It was my mother-in-law. Surprisingly, she was smiling and that too at me! “Your father-in-law just called. Anu’s marriage is fixed. Thank God! I was getting so worried. This was the eighth alliance that we looked for her. I have to go to Upilliappan Kovil and to Srirangam. And I must return to India earlier.” Great! If Anu’s marriage is fixed, I only need to wait for Divya to get married. “Call Ashok and give him the news right now.” “Ok.” I got out my mobile and dialed Ashok’s number. Ashok was probably out with his friend but surely he wouldn’t get irritated if I called and told him about Anu’s wedding. 58
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His mother snatched the phone from my hand, just as we got connected. “WHAT?” shouted Ashok. “Ashok! Ashok!” “Don’t shout, Amma! I can hear you.” “Listen! Anu’s wedding is fixed. Your father just called.” “Really! That’s good news. Who is this guy? Where is he working?” “I will tell you everything. You come home first.” “Okay. I will leave now.” She gave the phone back to me and went back to her video chat. “We have to get the jewelry out of the locker. I have to inform Usha mami immediately. And I will bring Nithya with me to India this time.” I strained my ears trying to hear what she said. “Yes I have informed Ashok. He can book the tickets tomorrow for the both of us.” Great! This is good news! I can meet Vasu in India! For a full minute I was happy before I realized what a fool I was. I was married to Ashok, and Vasu and the entire world thought that I was happy with him. I could not go around meeting Vasu like this all the time. This one week was just a one-off thing. We had met after almost a decade and we had a lot of catching up to do. No matter what excuse I gave myself, I knew I didn’t have any reason to continue to meet him every day. Except that I wanted to. I kept brooding about it the whole night, and was still awake when Ashok came in early in the morning. I asked Ashok whether he wanted to attend Vasu’s award function with me but he was not bothered. Thankfully, he didn’t have any objection to my going. I told my mother-in-law that I was attending a function that we were catering for and that I would be late.
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I breezed through my work in the morning, not allowing myself to get upset by Ashok’s sullen face or by my mother-in-law’s comments about the impending medical check-up in India. Vasu had said that he wouldn’t be able to pick me up, so I had made arrangements to get to the venue on my own. I selected a beautiful designer sari that Diana had gifted me last year. I took my sari and make-up kit and went to the restaurant. Diana had said that she would help me get ready at her apartment. I felt more excited than I had ever felt before. I draped the sari and Diana took care of my make-up. She was also excited for me and I was touched. She sat me down and brushed my hair, while I checked my phone for messages. “So did you tell Vasu everything?” she asked, her mouth full of hairpins. “No,” I said, gearing up for another bout of arguments. “Don’t you think you should tell him?” she asked, turning me around to face her. I bit my lip. “He is just a friend. And I don’t see any reason why he should know about anything.” “I still think that you should open up to him and tell him,” she said seriously. “Diana! I know you mean well. You are probably right. But Ashok’s sister is getting married in another three months. My sister will probably get married in a year or two. After that we are going to get a divorce. He will know about it then,” I said lightly. “I thought he was your friend. He can help you decide.” “I don’t want anybody else to plan my future. My uncle did that once and I am paying for it. I want to make my own decisions. I don’t know if I will make the right decision but even if it is wrong, at least I will have myself to blame and not anybody else,” I said decisively.
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“Fair point. Anyway, forget it. You go and enjoy today. It is Vasu’s big night.” Diana surveyed me from top to bottom and declared that I looked beautiful. I looked at myself appraisingly and felt beautiful. She had booked a taxi to take me to the event, which was taking place at a concert hall in Sunnyvale. The reception was at the same place. When I reached the hall, I called Vasu’s mobile. It seemed to be a black tie affair. Guests and members had begun to arrive and were being ushered inside. Feeling a bit unsure, I looked around for Vasu. Suddenly, I felt as if someone was staring at me. I turned. Vasu was staring at me, with some undefined emotion in his eyes. I looked up at him and smiled. He was dressed in a formal suit with a tie and was looking very handsome. He came closer and smiled, “You look very beautiful. Your husband didn’t come?” “No. He had to take his mother shopping,” I said, one of the many excuses that I had thought up for Ashok. He took my arm and walked with me to the front row. “Nithu, thanks for coming. I am really happy that you are here,” he said calling me by the pet name that he alone used. “Vasu, I am so happy tonight. I wish my mother were here. She would have been so happy,” I said, smiling back at him. “Yes. But at least you are there. That itself is a big thing,” he said quietly. “I have to go on the stage when this starts. You will be fine, right?” I smiled at him and said, “You go on ahead. I will be fine.” He gave me wink and went backstage. Within ten minutes, the function began, with an address by the General Secretary. And then the President of TIE spoke, of the various endeavors that they had undertaken in these past years and about Vasu, and his achievements. I learnt that he had not only made money for his investors but had helped many new, struggling
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companies to find their ground in the market. Soon after the speech the President called on him and presented him with the award. I clapped and clapped until my hands were raw. I felt so proud of him, for rising above his situation and achieving something. And somewhere deep down, there was some regret too. Maybe if I had left my uncle’s house just as he did, I could have made something of my life too! There was applause all around but I was so lost in my thoughts that I did not see that Vasu had come across and was standing next to me. “Hey! What happened?” I looked up and smiled and said, “Nothing. Show me your award.” He held it out to me. It was a heavy figurine with the engraving ‘Best Entrepreneur Award’. I looked up at him and said, “Congratulations!” “Come, let us go and have dinner.” He smiled and held out his hand. We were seated at the head table and Vasu was asked to make a speech. He gave an appropriately short, succinct speech and thanked the organization for recognizing him. Many people came over to congratulate him, and he introduced me to all of them as a ‘close friend’. It was late by the time the function ended. Vasu and I left in the car that TIE had arranged for him. I was exhausted and sad too. I didn’t know when I would be able to meet him again or spend time with him. “What happened? Tired?” he asked, looking at me. “Hmm!” I said, stretching myself. “You should have brought your husband along. You know many people actually thought that you were my wife?” he joked. “Did they? What did you say to them?” He didn’t answer and I didn’t probe. When we approached my apartment building, he turned towards me. “I don’t think I can meet you tomorrow. I am going out with a couple of friends tomorrow night and the day after that, I will be leaving.”
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I looked down and nodded. He took my hand in his, “I didn’t realize how lonely I was all these years. Thanks for everything. Thanks for being there for me today.” His eyes were moist and I could feel myself getting emotional too. I squeezed his hand and said, “I am also very glad that I was with you today. I am going to miss you.” He let go of my hand and asked, “When are you coming to India?” “Ashok’s sister’s wedding is fixed. My mother-in-law is leaving in a week. I think I might be going along with her to India,” I said, looking down. “That’s really good news. Then you can come to Mumbai for a visit. Remember you promised to cook me a South Indian meal,” he said happily. I looked up and smiled wistfully. “Yes. I will try to come. But I think I will be busy until the wedding. After that maybe…” “Okay. And this time around, you have to bring Ashok too. No excuses. Send me his number and I will invite him personally to Mumbai,” he said meaningfully. I nodded my head. We were at my apartment building. I got down from the car and said goodbye to him, feeling suddenly bereft.
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It was incredible! I didn’t hear a single taunt from my mother-in-law in the morning. Probably because she had been busy emailing her friends, posting updates on Facebook and having video chats with my father-in-law about the wedding. I took time off from work and went shopping with my mother-in-law. Anu had given me a list of things that she wanted from here. It took me four hours to track down everything and by the time we came back home it was past lunch-time. My mother-in-law ate and went straight to her room, citing a headache. I sat down in the living room, going through my messages. There were three from Diana asking me about the award night and one from Vasu which I immediately checked. ‘Sent u some links in email. Chk them. U look beautiful ’ My heart raced when I read the message. I look beautiful! I immediately opened my laptop and checked my mail. He had sent me the photos from yesterday’s function. He was right. They were good photos; I was looking beautiful and he was looking handsome. We made a great couple. ‘Nice pics. U look handsome nice too.’ ‘Wat r u doin?’ ‘Nothing. Went shopping. Tired. Wat u doin?’ ‘Trying to sleep. Friends want to go to pub tonite’ ‘Hmmm so u drink too?’ ‘Yes. I am very bad guy so don’t try to match make for me’ ‘Dont worry I wont’
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I thought about what he had said about matchmaking for him. The thought somehow depressed me. *** In the evening I helped my mother-in-law pack her suitcase. Ashok came home early and handed over our tickets to India. Though we still had six days to leave, my mother-in-law was getting impatient. “When are you coming? Why don’t you take a month off and come along with us? After all it is your sister’s wedding. We need to go shopping. There is so much to do,” she cajoled. “That’s why I am not coming now. You will just drag me from one shop to another. You can take your husband instead. I have already booked my ticket,” replied Ashok impatiently. “For when? If not a month, I want you to come at least fifteen days in advance,” she said decisively. “No way. I am coming two days before the wedding,” he said, and when his mother tried to argue, he shut her up saying, “I don’t have any holidays Amma. Not this month. Not in the middle of a project. So don’t pester me. You can take Nithya with you.” Huh. Great. I am hardly the consolation prize that she wants! “If you both remain apart for more than a month how will I get a grandson?” she asked, voicing her main concern in life. Ashok shot an angry look towards her and she immediately acted as though it was a joke. Though I could see that she was not amused. Ashok was in the bedroom getting dressed when I entered. “I am going out tonight. I will be very late. I probably may not come home tonight. If Amma gets hyper, tell her that I got a call from the office and had to go,” he said in a hushed voice.
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I nodded and he went out quietly. When I went back to the room I saw my mobile ringing. It was Vasu. “Hello” I said softly “Hi! Did you see the photos? Nice no?” he asked. “Yes. Very nice. You look great in them,” I said sincerely. “So…” he said and paused. “So. Packing over?” I asked. “Yeah almost. What about you?” he asked. “Just starting. So when will you go to Chennai?” I asked “I have asked my travel agent to book a ticket for me in two days. Anyway I wanted to ask you something,” he said. “What?” “Well, you know my friend Raghavan right? The one who took the package for Divya.” “Yes..,” I said, wondering what this was about. “Well...he is a nice guy. He is a great guy in fact, and from a very good family. His father is a lawyer. His mother died a long time back...” Vasu seemed to be rambling. What is he trying to tell me? “Why are you telling me about Raghavan?” I asked him, totally puzzled. “Well... the thing is that, he spoke to me yesterday. Apparently he likes Divya a lot. They met again, after that day when they went to watch a movie with his cousin. He was wondering if you or your mother would object if he were to propose marriage to her,” he said sheepishly. My heart skipped a beat. Divya had not said anything about this to me! “Don’t tell me that you are matchmaking for her?” I said with a smile. “Well, I am not. I am just passing on his message. But I am not saying this only because he is my friend. He really is a nice guy and if Divya likes him, then it will be great. I know he will keep her happy,” he said, seriously.
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My heart leaped. It sounded too good to be true. “Vasu, if you are sure that he is a great guy, then ask him to go ahead. He can ask his father to meet my mother,” I said. “What about Divya? Shall I speak to her?” he asked. “Let me speak to her first,” I said. “Great. Call her now and ask if she likes him. If it is a ‘yes’ I will tell Raghavan. I have an early flight tomorrow. So I may not be able to call you again,” he said softly. I remembered that he was planning to go to a pub with his friends. I smiled and said, “Oh yes. I forgot. I’ll call her just now and let you know. And you have a good time tonight.” “Is your husband around? I thought I would say goodbye to him too.” “No. He has gone out,” I almost said with his ‘friends’. But I didn’t want Vasu to latch on to it and ask more questions so I said, “to the office. He forgot to upload something.” “Oh, okay. Give me his mobile number. I will call and say bye to him,” he said “Yeah sure. I will SMS it to you,” I said, though I had no intention of doing anything of the sort. “Okay then. See you in Chennai.” “Yes. Bye. Take care. Have a safe flight. Call me once you reach Chennai,” I said wistfully. I was going to miss him awfully. But I was excited for Divya. If this worked out, then I would be out of this marriage sooner than I thought. I dialed Divya’s number and waited for her to pick up. “Hello!” “Divya! Where are you? At the office?” “Yes.”
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“I need to ask you something?” “What?” “Do you like Raghavan, Vasu’s friend?” I asked, biting my lip and waiting for her to answer. She was silent for a while. “He is a nice guy. But why are you asking me this. Did he speak to you?” “No. He spoke to Vasu. Did he tell you anything?” “Well...I was planning to tell you but I was not sure what you would say...” she said. “What will I say idiot? Vasu says Raghavan is a nice guy. And I trust Vasu’s judgment. And if you like him then everything is as good as settled,” I said with a smile. “But I just started working. I need some time to settle down before I get married...,” she said hesitantly. “Divya! We can work out all those details. Don’t worry. I will tell Vasu that you also like his friend. What about Amma? Shall I tell her?” “Raghavan is coming home tomorrow with Deepa. Let her meet him first and then I will tell her,” she said. It sounded like a good plan. I was happy beyond words. With Anu’s marriage fixed and Divya’s marriage settled, I could finally look forward to getting out of this mess. I quickly typed a message for Vasu. ‘Spoke to Divya. She likes him. He is meeting mom tomorrow’ He sent back a message immediately. ‘Great ’ What will he say when finds out that I will be leaving my husband soon? Will he be angry? I dared not share the real reason with him. I fiddled with my mobile and read through all our messages right from the beginning.
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Suddenly my mobile rang. I checked who it was and sat upright immediately. It was my Chittappa! God! Why is he calling me now? I had studiously avoided him for three years and had spoken to him only if he called, which he did very rarely. I was not sure whether he knew the truth or not. Maybe he knew and chose to ignore it or maybe he didn’t know. But then, I kept thinking about Vasu’s reaction when he knew that it was Chittappa who had arranged my marriage. The Chittappa that he knew would never do anything unless there was something in it for him. My mobile was ringing incessantly. What if he calls the landline because I am not picking up the mobile? God! No! Then my mother-in-law would insist that I put it on speakerphone. I answered the call and said, “Hello.” “Hello. Nithya va! Enna! Eppadi erukey?” “Fine Chittappa,” I said slowly. “Your mother-in-law told your Chithi that Vasu came to your house there?” he questioned. Aha! That’s why he is calling. He wants to know about Vasu. “Yes. I wanted to send a package to Divya and she asked her friend to find if there was anyone coming back from the US. Her friend’s friend turned out to be Vasu. I didn’t know it was him until he came to the apartment,” I said defensively. “Oh! What is that wastrel doing in the US?” he asked scornfully. Oh! Wouldn’t I love telling you about this? “He came here because he has been awarded the Best Entrepreneur award from a well-known organization in the US called TIE,” I said quietly. He was silent while he digested this fact about the ‘wastrel’. “So that’s the story he has given you. You are so naïve. You will believe anybody,” he sneered. I closed my eyes and sighed. Some people will never change.
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“No, he didn’t tell me. I found this out when I saw his photo in the newspaper. If you want, I can scan and send you the photo,” I said. “No thanks. I am not interested. He is no relation to me anyway. But he is very clever and devious. I don’t want you to have any contact with him,” he said ominously. Clever and devious! I wanted to end the conversation before I actually told him what I really thought about him. “Chittappa, I think Ashok is back. I will call you later. Bye,” I said hurriedly. “Okay. Don’t keep in touch with him. Bye.” With that parting note, I ended the call. I felt like throwing the phone on something or at someone. How dare he? Why can’t he accept the fact that he was wrong and that Vasu was right? Why can’t he be happy for Vasu for achieving so much, all on his own? I sat brooding for a long time and then thought I would talk to my mother about Chittappa’s call. “Don’t react to any nonsense that he says. He knows all about Vasu. He also knows where he works and what he has achieved. He had wanted Vasu to be a failure so that he could go around and tell everybody about it. Thankfully, Vasu has forced him to eat his own words. Anyway it does not matter. He is just bitter. Do not listen to what he says and don’t react,” she said and then added, “You know what, don’t take his calls at all.” “I wish I could. What if he calls my landline and my mother-in-law picks up? God! I really wish I could change my number,” I exclaimed. “Don’t fret too much Nithya. Remember he was also responsible for your marriage. But in one way, he is right. Your mother-in-law is there with you right now. So it is probably best, that you don’t talk much to Vasu,” she said patiently.
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He is also responsible for the mess that has become my life. I almost said it. I bit my tongue instead and said goodbye.
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THIRTEEN
After Vasu left for India, I didn’t have time to talk to anybody. Ashok was impatient to see the back of his mom and me. On the eve of my departure, I met Diana to say goodbye. She was very happy for me when I told her that Divya might soon get married. She hugged me and asked me to take care. I missed Vasu a lot, but couldn’t find the time to call him the whole week. He did call me, twice on the day that he left, but I missed his calls, as they were quite late in the night. Later he called to say that he had reached India and was looking forward to my arrival. He sounded a bit disturbed though he didn’t say why. Two days earlier, Divya had told my mother about Raghavan and we had a long conversation over the phone about the match. The only son of a leading lawyer in Mumbai, Raghavan was also an established corporate lawyer. Excited and scared, my mother wanted a lot of reassurance about the proposal. After a lot of debate from Divya, my mother agreed to wait for six months before the engagement. And I cautioned her not to breathe a word about this to Chithi or Chittappa. Then she told me a bit of news that cheered me up considerably. Divya was finding it difficult to commute all the way to her office so my mother was considering moving out of Mylapore. They had taken Raghavan’s opinion about this when he visited them and he had offered his own vacant flat for them to use. He had successfully squashed my mother’s myriad excuses about staying in her prospective son-in-law’s flat. I was glad and relieved that they would be leaving Chittappa’s house soon. I did not hear from Vasu that whole week. I guess he must have been very busy after reaching India. He didn’t even send me an SMS or an email.
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I kept checking my phone for messages but there were none. On the eve of my departure I called him. “Hi Vasu!” There was silence. I wondered whether he had heard me or not. “Hello! Hello! Vasu?” “Hi! Sorry I was just doing something,” he replied. “Okay. I just called to tell you that I am flying tomorrow. Are you busy? I can call later,” I said apologetically. “No. No. It’s fine. How are you?” he asked, distractedly. “I am fine. I just called to tell you that I am leaving tomorrow.” “So, is Ashok coming with you?” “No. He will come later. I am coming early because we have to do a lot of shopping and planning.” “Oh! Okay I will call you after you land then. I need to meet you. Tell me when you will be free. I will come down to Chennai,” he said cryptically. I felt a fissure of delight go through my heart. This was just what I wanted. It would be perfect. Perhaps we could spend a full day together. “By the way, Amma met Raghavan. And once I come down, he is bringing his father to the house for a formal meeting with mom. Did he tell you?” I asked. “Yes. I am very happy for Divya. Raghavan is like my brother. Tell your mother, not to worry. Divya will be very happy with him. And I am happy they will be moving out Chittappa’s house soon. The sooner they move out of that place, the better,” he said. “Thanks Vasu. Yes it would be really great. You know none of this would have happened if we hadn’t met accidently here,” I said gratefully. ***
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The next day, we left for India. After an uneventful flight where my ears could literally have dropped off thanks to non-stop chattering from my mother-in-law, I slept like a log that night and woke up late in the morning. My mother-in-law recovered quickly and started her shopping that very evening. Since our arrival we had been shopping every day. She bought a trousseau worth five lakhs for Anu and the jewelry alone was worth one and a half crore, a fact that was advertised to every relative and friend who came by. The worst thing was that I was now meeting all the relatives who were not called for my modest wedding. They all had something to say to me. I was supposed to be the luckiest woman in the whole world; I had a handsome, well-educated husband who lived in the US, and to top it all, I got to travel in an airplane to the States! How else does one get there?! And of course, most importantly, I was so lucky to have such a lovely mother-in-law and such a caring father-in-law. My mother-in-law was ecstatic. She finally had an audience who could become her jury and I was available right there to be put on trial. Needless to say, the verdict was a foregone conclusion. They all suggested that I visit temples and do some poojas to get pregnant. Some suggested that I be taken to fertility experts like Gemini Ganesan’s daughter. I sat and listened to them all, pretending that I was not there. After a week of shopping and baby talk, I finally found time to go to my mother’s house for some stress-relief. But it was depressing as well. All that she could talk about was how happy she was to see me settled and how much happier she would be if I got pregnant. She was very excited about Divya’s marriage but was uncomfortable about the six-month wait and tried to get me to change Divya’s mind. But I knew that Divya had taken the right decision. She wanted to get to know Raghavan properly before getting
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married. And I completely supported her. Instead, I tried to change the subject. “So did you see Raghavan’s apartment? Is it nice?” I asked. “It is in a nice area and very close to Divya’s office. The apartment itself is very well made, with lots of cupboards. I really like it. He has two flats in the same building. He said that I could live in the one-room apartment after the marriage. That will be great. At least I will be close to Divya and can help her out,” my mother said enthusiastically. Don’t worry mom, once I get divorced we can live together! “So when are you moving?” I asked, impatient for them to move. “Let this month end. Divya is going for a ten-day training to Mumbai. Let her come back and then we can shift.” “What was Chittappa’s reaction when you told him?” I asked curiously. “He didn’t say anything but your Chithi started crying. I felt so guilty,” she said slowly. That was my aunt and uncle’s favorite tactic; they knew exactly how to send someone on a guilt trip. I told her not to worry too much and to focus on packing. She was also worried about Divya going to Mumbai alone. “Amma, don’t worry about Divya. Raghavan is there and Vasu is there too. They will take care of her,” I said reassuringly. “Yes. I talked to Vasu yesterday. He said he would pick Divya up from the airport and drop her at the guesthouse. But I am still not very sure about this.” “Amma! She is going with four of her colleagues? Why are you worried? She will be fine.” Soon I had to go back to my in-laws house and help out with wedding preparations once again. ***
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Two days later, I came again to drop Divya at the airport. Divya was waiting for me in the foyer of her office with her luggage. She was wildly excited; this was the first time she would ever be flying. I smiled at her enthusiasm and wished wistfully that I too were going somewhere alone. We reached the airport where she met her colleagues. They were also trainees just like her. I hugged her and said goodbye. She promised to call me as soon as she reached, and waved happily as she went past security.
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FOURTEEN
“Nithya, help Ambujam mami with the vegetables and then wash all the lamps and plates that we use in the pooja room. Use the pitambari powder. And then take out the rangoli powder for tomorrow.” My mother-in-law had not let up since the moment I came back. “Okay.” “Another thing, in my room you will find five Kumaran bags with nineyard saris. You will need to soak them in turmeric powder and then dry them out in the terrace.” “Okay.” I rushed from one room to another trying to do all the work that she told me to. Thankfully, Anu came in and declared that she needed me to accompany her to the beautician. I found some respite from the whispers and the staring eyes of all the mamis gathered for the occasion. *** After half an hour, Anu and I set out. She wanted to pick up a few things, a couple of designer saris, some salwar suits and matching jewelry. After shopping, we had to go to the beauty parlor to check out her trial hairdo and make-up for D-day. I had always liked Anu. She was very different from her mother and father. She was not pretentious and had always treated me as an equal and never made me conscious of the fact that I came from a poor family.
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When we returned home, my mother-in-law was in full flow. She was in the middle of the hall, surrounded by her relatives who were drooling over the jewelry bought for Anu. Ashok had also finally arrived and she was showing him off to everybody. “There she is. Why are you so late? Go and make coffee for your husband,” my mother-in-law ordered. My father-in-law was pacing in his room and talking to somebody. I went into the kitchen to make coffee while Ashok and Anu caught up. I made the coffee quickly and came back to the living room with it. My father-in-law was still on the phone talking, “Please come for the function tomorrow. Yes. Ashok arrived today. Nithya is here too. She didn’t call you? I am surprised.” Who is he speaking to? And whom should I have called? He came out of his room. “Nithya. You didn’t call your Chittappa after coming back? He was feeling sad about it. Poor man! After all he has done for you.” Even before I could open my mouth my mother-in-law spoke for me. “Nowadays, she has time only for shopping and getting her face made up. If she had any respect for the elders she would have listened to me and got pregnant by now. But no! There is no point in blaming her anyway. We should have been more careful. Thanks to our bad fate, we have to beg people to get pregnant now. If things continue like this, our family line is going to end with Ashok. That’s it.” I think my mother-in-law had forgotten that Ashok was here. Everybody suddenly stopped talking. “Amma! Will you stop this nonsense? I just came today and you have already started this drama.” My father-in-law tried to manage the situation. “Saroja! That’s enough. You will fall ill if you keep on talking about this.”
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“Ashok, you don’t know anything. She is doing this deliberately…” My mother-in-law went up to him and tugged on his sleeve pleadingly. “JUST SHUT UP OKAY,” Ashok shouted. Then he turned towards his father, “IF YOU DON’T STOP THIS NONSENSE I am LEAVING RIGHT NOW.” He went to his room. I followed him mutely. I could still hear dangerous muttering from my mother-in-law and the shocked mamis. “WHAT WAS I THINKING? WHY DID I COME HERE? GOD - I CAN’T WAIT TO GET BACK!” He went and sat on the bed with his head in hands. There was no point in talking to him now, I knew from experience. I waited until he calmed down. “I am leaving next week. Why don’t you go to your mother’s place right after the wedding, for a break? Or else Amma is going to drive me crazy with this constant baby talk,” he said, when he was in control again. I agreed immediately. The constant harassment was wearing me down and it would great to get out of the house for a while. *** Anu’s marriage day arrived and went off without a hitch. There were over two thousand guests for the reception and I was busy greeting them and ensuring that they all got the tambulam packets. Thankfully neither my father-in-law nor my mother-in-law had time before or on the day to discuss my pregnancy issues with my mother. The most difficult part of the evening came when I met my Chittappa and Chithi. And the worst part was that I had to pretend to be happy, while my Chithi blissfully trumpeted her husband’s triumph in getting me married into such a big house.
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Ashok acted out the part of the dutiful husband perfectly. He smiled at me, took my hand in his, all the while posing for the camera. By the end of it, I was glad that Anu was Ashok’s only sister. I strategically took my mother to meet my mother-in-law when Anu’s inlaws were around her. As expected, my mother-in-law was very gracious and enquired kindly about her new house and promised to get a groom for Divya. Of course we both knew this was nothing but an empty promise on her part. *** By night, I was dead on my feet. Ashok went straight to his room to sleep. But I was too tired to sleep, so sat in the balcony savoring the silence around me when Divya called. “Nithya. Hi! Listen, Can you come to Mumbai?” “Mumbai? Why? What happened?” I was alarmed. “You remember Yasmine, my old friend. I met her here and it turns out that she is getting married this Sunday in Goa. And I really, really want to go. But Amma is not letting me, saying that Goa is not a nice place. I think she is saying no because she thinks that I might be going with Raghavan. But if you come here, just for the weekend, then I am sure she won’t object.” “The wedding is this Sunday?” “Yes. Tomorrow is Friday. So if you fly here, we can take a bus to Goa and be back by Sunday night.” I thought quickly. It would be great to go to Mumbai, and I was certain Ashok would agree after his outburst the other day. Plus it would be great to get away, even for two days. “Hmm. Okay, I will tell Amma. Just check if a ticket is available for me for tomorrow.”
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I told Ashok about the plan in the morning. As I had expected, he readily agreed and gave me money for the trip. I packed my bags and called Divya. She had already booked a ticket for me to fly to Mumbai. Knowing his parents would never agree if they knew the truth, Ashok told his parents that I was going to my mother’s house. I called my mother, told her that I was coming and called a taxi to take me there. I got ready and left the house, grateful to be away from the prying eyes of Ashok’s extended family.
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I was on my way to Mumbai! I was excited and also vaguely apprehensive. The excitement stemmed from the fact that I would be seeing Vasu again, but I was uncomfortable that he would expect me to have come with Ashok. He had been strangely quiet when I told him that I would be coming to meet him in Mumbai but he promised to pick me up from the airport. The flight landed on time and I collected my suitcase and came out of the terminal, looking for Vasu. He was standing in one of the bays, scanning the crowd for me. My heart missed a beat. He looked very handsome in a sky blue t-shirt, dark blue jeans and day-old stubble. He smiled at me and waved. I walked shyly towards him. “Hi!” I said smiling up at him. He gave me a quiet smile back. “How was the flight?” “It was good and on time.” “Come,” he said beckoning towards the parking lot. He took my suitcase and wheeled it out. We got into his silver Toyota and started off for his house. I looked around with interest. I had never been to Mumbai. He just smiled at my enthusiasm. “Welcome to my home!” he said opening the door with a flourish. It was a huge penthouse on the sixteenth floor with a private terrace. I loved it. For a boy who had left his uncle’s house without a rupee in hand,
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he had done really well for himself. He showed me around the house and I noticed that there weren’t any photographs displayed anywhere. “You don’t have your parents’ photos?” I asked. He winced and said, “No. I would have to ask Chittappa for them, so I never…” “Don’t worry. I think my mother has some of your things. I will ask her to search and send them across if she finds any.” “That would be great. Thanks.” We moved to the balcony. I loved the view and I stood there for a while. “Here, have some tea,” he said, coming up behind me. I turned around and saw that he was holding two mugs of steaming hot tea. I smiled at him. The tea was lovely. “You make a nice cup of tea,” I complimented him. “Thanks,” he said seriously. I looked at him and found him staring at me with troubled eyes. “What happened? Why are you so worried?” I asked, a little afraid. He ran a hand through his hair and sat down. He didn’t say anything for a while and I didn’t know what to make of it, or of him. “Nithu, I don’t know how to say this,” he said, looking at me helplessly. “Vasu, what is wrong?” I was worried now. “Nithya, there is something that you should know,” he said slowly, choosing his words carefully. I froze. “Vasu! What is it?” I waited on tenterhooks while Vasu seemed to be steeling himself to say whatever he had to say. “When I was in the States, remember I told you that I would be going out with friends on my last day there…” www.indireads.com
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“Yes…” “Well we were bar hopping that night, and one of the guys wanted to go to a particular bar. It was a gay bar. I didn’t know it at first…and then…I don’t know how to tell you this,” he paused, “Nithya I saw your husband there, with another man.” “Actually Ashok has many friends and he occasionally goes to bars with them. He doesn’t drink much Vasu. So no need to worry,” I said desperately, trying to salvage the situation. “Nithya! If it were just drinking, I wouldn’t even be mentioning it to you. I also drink occasionally. You are too innocent. You don’t know.” Suddenly something occurred to him and he crashed his fist down, “God! That’s why that bastard got you married to him. He must have known.” I kept silent. I was horrified. I never thought that he would find out about this. I closed my eyes and hoped this would go away. I opened my eyes to see Vasu staring intently at me. “You know about him don’t you?” he sounded unbelieving. Tears welled up in my eyes and coursed down my cheeks. With my heart pounding wildly, I nodded. “Oh Nithya! I am so sorry. How long have you known?” he said, standing up and taking my hand in his. “After I went to the States,” I said, biting my lip. “And no one in your family knows about this?” he asked gently. “No! And please don’t tell Divya or my mother,” I implored him. “So you have been pretending that you are happily married for the past three years. Do his parents know?” he questioned. “His father knows. His mother doesn’t,” I said softly. “His father knew? He must have told our uncle about his son and they both must have decided to sacrifice your life. I have never known a bigger bastard than our uncle,” he said bitterly.
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We were silent for some time. I wiped my tears and waited for him to speak. “I want to talk to Ashok. Where is he?” “Why Vasu? Just leave it.” “That’s why you didn’t give me his number? How did you find out that he is gay? Did he tell you himself?” he said probing further. “Yes,” I said closing my eyes. If I had known that Vasu had guessed the truth, I would never have come to visit him. “How very straightforward of him! Bastard!” Vasu let out a string of abuse words that I had never heard before. I didn’t know what to say to him so I closed my eyes to shut out whatever was happening. I didn’t want to explain anything to him. I was so ashamed. It was so difficult to admit that my husband was gay, that we had no relationship and an empty marriage. “Tell me everything,” he said forcefully. There was no point in hiding anything now. Red with shame, I began my story, one that only Diana knew. “Ashok left for the US three days after our marriage. Within a month my visa was approved but Ashok asked me to stay back for one more month to attend Jayashree’s wedding. After that, I joined him. When he picked me up at the airport I could see that he was not very happy to see me. When he brought me home I learnt that a man called Sunil was staying with him. He told me Sunil was his roommate.” I took a deep breath. “You must have seen him with Sunil in the bar. Sunil is his sweetheart, partner and soul-mate. That first evening, when I woke up there was no one at home. They both came back late in the evening. Ashok was totally drunk and Sunil was trying to take him to the bedroom. Ashok made me sit down on the sofa and told me the truth. He hates women - finds them nauseating. He told me that he loved Sunil and that Sunil was his wife. I couldn’t
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believe it at first. Of course I knew of homosexuals, but I never thought I would end up married to one.” Every little detail of that horrible night came back to me. I had never shared these details, with anyone, not even Diana. Vasu came and sat next to me and held me in his arms. I turned my head into his chest and sobbed. I had held back for so long, now the floodgates were open. After some time, Vasu released me, dried my tears and got some water for me. “And then?” “I just ran and hid in the bathroom. I thought it was a horrible nightmare. Sunil persuaded me to come out and talk to Ashok the next day. Ashok said that he hadn’t wanted to marry me but his father forced him. His mother is a heart patient and his father didn’t want to disappoint her.” “This Sunil? He also lives there with the two of you?” Vasu asked. “Yes. But when my mother-in-law comes to the US, he moves out,” I said wiping my face. “But before that, Ashok, Sunil and you live all together in the same apartment!” he asked gently. I gave a little laugh. “Yes. After all, Sunil is his real wife.” “Why didn’t you leave him? Did you think that he would ever change?” “No. I never thought that there was any possibility of that. I stayed because I couldn’t tell all of this to my mother. She was so happy that I got married. You know our circumstances. How could I tell her that I was not happy, that my husband likes another man? Ashok also had the same problem. He wanted me to stay with him until his sister got married. So we both came to an agreement that we would stay married until both our sisters were married and I promised him that I would not say anything to his mother or to anybody else.” The anger was apparent on his face.
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“Wow! And you agreed to this. Do you have any brains? How can you possibly live with a gay husband and his lover?” he asked angrily. “I didn’t have much choice Vasu. It was either that or come back home,” I said, looking down at my hands. “Then you should have come back home. I have nothing against homosexuals. I know many decent guys who live openly with their partners. And that requires a lot of courage. Ashok is a coward,” declared Vasu. We were silent for a while. “You are not used to that kind of life.” “I am now,” I replied quietly. “Actually I don’t mind Sunil. He has actually been very nice to me. And he was against our marriage from the beginning.” “Listen Vasu! My life is not totally unbearable. It is true that I don’t have a normal family life but it could have been worse. What if Ashok had pretended that he was straight while having an affair with Sunil on the side? At least he was honest enough to tell me that he is gay. Some women find out that their husbands are gay after years of marriage and children. At least he spared me that.” “He had no business marrying you when he knew that he was gay. He had no business ruining your life in this way. I don’t care if his mother was dying. If he were honest, he would have told his mother and avoided this marriage. So don’t defend him.” And with that, he walked into the apartment, leaving me alone on the balcony.
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We were quiet for a while. I was exhausted. Lunch was forgotten. I didn’t have the energy to make anything and neither of us had much appetite. I just sat there wondering what he would say next. “Why didn’t you tell me?” he asked. I looked up at him. He seemed more curious than angry. “I met you after ten years and you wanted me to confide in you?” He was silent for a while. “So what next?” “What do you mean?” I asked. “You know what I mean. What are you going to do next? Ashok’s sister got married last week. Divya will soon get settled with Raghavan. Just divorce him. No one is going to fault you, once they know the truth.” “No! I can’t expose him until he is ready to come out on his own,” I said firmly. He stared hard at me. “Vasu! What is it?” I asked. “I still can’t believe it.” “Believe what?” “When I first saw Ashok with that guy, I thought that he was cheating on you. I called you that night from the airport, but I was glad you didn’t pick up the phone. I was shocked. Then you said you were coming to India. So I thought that I would tell you here…but I never thought, not even once, that
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you knew the truth. You know I wanted to meet your mother as soon as I returned her, but after discovering this, I was not sure if I could...I wanted to talk to you first...” he said in a quiet voice. I didn’t know what to say. Just then his phone rang. He took it out of his pocket. It was Divya. “Hello!” “Anna! Did you pick up Nithya?” “Yes. She is here.” “There is a crisis here. I don’t think I can come back to the guesthouse tonight. The project that I was working on has some complications. The entire team is staying back to work on it. I have to finish this today, only then can I go to Goa tomorrow. Explain it to Nithya please. I will try to come back as soon as I can. Bye.” Vasu looked up and said, “Divya says that she is busy and will be coming in late tonight.” “Oh! Okay. Can I stay here till then? I don’t want to go to the guesthouse without her.” “Of course,” Vasu said. Then he asked, “Are you hungry?” “Not much. Just a little.” He searched for something in the table drawer, then took out a Domino’s menu and gave it to me. “Order anything - it’s fine with me,” I said handing the menu back. I went to the drawing room and sank into the sofa. He dialed, placed the order and then came to sit next to me. “I want to meet Ashok,” he said. “Why?” I asked. “Why not? Don’t you think someone should ask him why he did this to you?”
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“It is no use doing it now anyway Vasu. What’s the point? He is what he is. And he truly loves Sunil and Sunil loves him too,” I replied softly. “Yes. I can see that. But what I don’t see is why you need to be with him. You have your whole life ahead of you. You don’t have to stay in this relationship,” he said, looking deeply into my eyes. “It is not a relationship Vasu. We just live in the same house - that’s all. He barely tolerates me. At the same time he gives me the freedom to do whatever I want. And yes he gives me money to spend too,” I said looking down. “And you are happy?” he asked incredulously. “No I am not. But it could have been worse than this.” “Comparing your situation with worse situations is not going to make you happy Nithya. When you have a problem you need to resolve it rather than wallow in it,” he said seriously. “Vasu, I am not wallowing in anything. I found myself in an impossible situation and I made the best of it. Yes I am still living with my gay husband and his partner. But to some degree I am independent. I need Divya to get settled, before getting out of this marriage. And she will get married soon. Until then, I don’t want to rock the boat.” Before Vasu could answer, the doorbell rang. Our pizza was here. He paid for it and placed it on the table. “How come they came so quickly?” “Domino’s is just two buildings away, and I am a regular customer. Come let’s eat.” I felt guilty. If he had not brought up this topic I would have cooked the lunch that he had so craved. “I am sorry,” I apologized. “For what?” he said tucking into his pizza. “I was supposed to cook lunch for you today. I had promised you,” I said apologetically. 90
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“Don’t worry I will hold you to it. You will have to come here and cook for me, one day.” It was dark by the time we finished the pizza. He cleared the table, while I strolled onto the balcony to see the evening view. After a while, he joined me. He was agitated…I felt touched and moved. And in some ways I felt as if a great burden had lifted off my shoulders. He kept looking at me with worried eyes and I literally drowned in them. I suddenly felt embarrassed and also very aware of him. We stood and watched the traffic trickle by for a long time. “I am sorry,” he said, breaking the silence. “For what?” I asked. He turned around and took my hands in his. A jolt of pleasure went right to my breasts and I felt breathless. I looked up and met his eyes. “I shouldn’t have left you and come here. Chittappa actually wanted us to get married. I should have stayed back. Then at least, you wouldn’t have been in this mess,” he said softly. “Vasu! How can you think like this? You left because you wanted to pursue your dream. You wanted to study further. And look at, what you achieved because you left. How can you feel guilty about me? You were not responsible for me.” “No, but maybe I should have stayed back…” “Then you would have become a vadiyar!” I said lightly. “I don’t mind. At least you would have been mine,” he said, looking straight into my eyes. I don’t know how long we looked at each other. It could have been a few minutes or half an hour. Slowly he raised his hand and touched my cheek. I closed my eyes and a tear slid down. “I love you. I don’t know how or when this happened but it has,” he whispered.
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‘I love you.’ I can’t believe he said that. I opened my eyes and looked at him, and realized what sheer joy it is to look at someone who truly loves you. “I love you too. And I can’t remember since when,” I whispered. I don’t remember how it happened, but the next minute I was in his arms. He held me tight and I put my head on his chest and closed my eyes. Without releasing his hold, he placed a kiss on my neck. I felt a tingle go through me from head to toe. I looked up and drowned in his gaze. His hands caressed me tenderly and he placed tiny little kisses on my forehead, my cheeks and then finally on my lips. “I love you,” he whispered through his kisses. He loves me! I don’t know why I started crying, especially when I was so happy. “I love you too,” I said. He hugged me tightly, all the while kissing my tears away tenderly. It felt surreal. Things like this did not happen to me, they happened to other people, more fortunate than I. And yet, here I was, held close by a man who loved me. I ran my fingers through his hair while he kissed every inch of my neck. Suddenly he stopped, and looked into my eyes. “I want you.” The words were soft and urgent. He was waiting for my answer. If I said yes I would be crossing a threshold that I had never crossed before, but I did not care. Looking right back at him I told him, “I want you too.” Things proceeded fast from that point. He bent down, picked me up and carried me to his bedroom. It was big and neat, with a huge king sized bed. He laid me down gently and undressed me slowly all the while kissing me all over. A slow urgency was building up in me and I couldn’t wait until he joined me on the bed. For a moment I felt self-conscious and shy as he stood and stripped hurriedly. But then we were gripped by a primeval need
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to touch and explore each other with an urgency that left us breathless. I cried softly as my sensitivity peaked when he touched my breasts almost reverently and kissed them gently. Nothing that we did seemed wrong. It was sheer heaven when he came into me. I was edgy and tense but I wanted him as badly as he wanted me. When we found our rhythm, I knew then that we were made for each other. We looked into each other’s eyes as we came to the peak of our pleasure and afterwards we lay together, stroking each other tenderly. So this is how it was between a man and a woman. He held me gently as I dozed off. I woke up again and found him nuzzling my neck while he gently touched my breasts. I smiled and put my arms around his neck. This time we made slow gentle love, taking our time to savor the moment. I forgot everything and everyone else. *** In the middle of the night I got up suddenly. Vasu was dozing with his hand on my breast. I woke him up gently. “What time is it?” Both our mobiles were in the living room. Vasu switched on the bedside light while I tried to hide under the covers. “It’s past midnight.” “I should call Divya, she’ll be worried.” “No. She is going to be back late anyway. We can tell her that you stayed back here.” He switched off the light, got back under the cover and took me in his arms. It was warm and safe, and I let go of all worries and relaxed in his embrace. Exhausted and fulfilled, we slept in each other’s arms. Vasu’s alarm woke us both up at seven in the morning. As he switched it off, I finally looked
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around the room. Our clothes were strewn near the bed and my thali lay near my clothes. He had taken it off along with my clothes. “Can you get my clothes?” I asked him. I felt shy and self-conscious though we had spent half the night exploring each other’s bodies. He smiled at me and kissed my nose. We dressed slowly taking our time and almost went back to bed. But Divya and I were leaving for Goa at ten, and I had to go to her guesthouse and get ready. I was tempted to call and tell her to go by herself, but then realized it would raise too many questions. A cool, gentle breeze blew my hair around as I stood on the balcony. Vasu came from behind and hugged me. “Don’t go. Stay here,” he whispered. “I can’t. You know I came here to go with Divya to her friend’s wedding,” I whispered back. “Don’t go back to Chennai. Stay here with me,” he said kissing my fingers. “Are you serious?” “Yes. I want you to divorce him as soon as possible, and then we can get married,” he said, with a finality that made me panic. “It is not that simple Vasu!” “Why not? I don’t see any reason for you to wait anymore.” “I can’t do this to my mother, Vasu. She is so happy after so many miserable years…” I argued. “That’s a stupid argument, Nithya. You are just delaying telling her the truth and in the process you are making yourself unhappy. You have to listen to me. You are going back home and getting a divorce from your husband,” he said, getting angry. For a moment he looked just like Chittappa when he said that.
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I looked at him and said, “Vasu, No one asked me what I wanted when I married Ashok but I want to decide my divorce at least, on my own terms and in my own time.” “Yes you can decide, but I want you to do it now,” he said stubbornly, holding my shoulders. “You are telling me that I have the right to decide and yet you are forcing me to do it now,” I argued. “You don’t understand. You are mine and I can’t stand it when you wear Ashok’s thali. I can’t stand the fact that you are going back to his house. You will be sharing his room as well. I can’t bear the fact that everybody thinks that you are his wife, while you are really mine. You are mine and I want you with me,” he said passionately. “Vasu give me some time...” “No Nithya! I made you mine yesterday. We slept together in the same bed as husband and wife. I want to marry you and live with you. Divorce him and come with me,” he said in an authoritative tone that annoyed me. “I will need some time, Vasu, to think this through. It is getting late and I have to go to Goa. Take me to the guesthouse please. Let’s discuss this later.” He looked so crestfallen and disappointed that I almost gave in and almost said, “Yes I will divorce him.” But something inside me, emerging after years of suppression, held me back. He left me on the balcony and went into the bathroom. I felt tired and beaten. Why did we have to argue about my blasted marriage? Why couldn’t we be happy for now and forget that I was ever married? Vasu came out of the bathroom and left the room without looking at me. “Vasu! Please don’t be angry with me.” He looked back and stared at me.
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“What do you want me to do Nithya? Treat this like a casual affair? I can’t do that. I love you too much. You are the first and the last woman that I have slept with. Do you even realize what we have done? What are you going to do if you get pregnant? Will you go back to Ashok’s parents and pretend that the child is your husband’s?” Tears poured down my cheeks. “How can you say something like that? Do you really think that I would do something like that?” “What else do you want me to think? You want to stay married to Ashok. And I don’t know where I figure in the scheme of things. I don’t know whether last night meant anything to you or not,” he replied angrily. “Vasu! Stop it. Enough,” I shouted back. “Why should I stop it? What do you want me to think then?” he asked, his eyes flashing with anger. I took his hands in mine. “I love you. I didn’t know when and how it happened. Or maybe I was always in love with you. I wouldn’t have given myself to you if I didn’t love you. Please believe me, Vasu,” I said, sobbing now. “I can’t. Not unless you agree to divorce him. Please say you will Nithya. Ashok is not man enough for you.” I could feel the revulsion he felt for Ashok. “Vasu! Please don’t talk about Ashok like that. He may not...” “Why not? I don’t think I am wrong. You love me. I love you. So what is wrong if we get married?” “I will. Just give me time, okay? Either way, you can’t expect me to marry you today. I am already married.” “You are being evasive. I think you are just using your mother as an excuse. You don’t want to get out of the marriage. You want to stay married to him,” he said bitterly and dropped my hand.
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“That’s ridiculous, Vasu,” I said angrily. “Is it? Your mother-in-law wants a grandchild. Are you hoping that you might have conceived yesterday?” he asked aggressively. How can he love so passionately and yet talk such rubbish? “I can ask you the same question Vasu. You said yesterday, that you loved me. But I don’t think you do. I think you like the idea of rescuing me. And last night, you just wanted to show me exactly what a man should be like in bed. I admit it is something that I can’t get from my husband,” I said bitterly. He stared at me quietly. “Perfect. I think we understand each other very well now.” We didn’t talk after that. He dropped me at Divya’s guesthouse and waited in the car until I went inside. Divya was sleeping when I entered the room, which gave me some respite. I didn’t want to think about anything. Totally drained I lay down next to Divya and held myself tightly, willing myself not to cry. *** I don’t know when I dozed off. The next thing I knew was that Divya was shaking me. “Hey get up. We have to leave. How was Vasu’s place? Swanky? Thank god you had some place to stay or else you would have been bored staying here by yourself. I thought we could go to Raghavan’s house after coming back from Goa but Raghavan and his father are in Chennai for some case. I guess they will come home...” I half listened to her conversation and spaced out for a while. Too many things had happened and I needed some perspective. I had half a mind to tell Divya everything, but she was too innocent to be embroiled in the mess that I was in.
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I went in for a quick wash. I could smell Vasu on my clothes and on myself too. There were numerous love bites and my breasts felt full and slightly sore. “Nithya! Hurry up we will miss the bus.” Divya was on the laptop when I was getting dressed. Thankfully she did not ask too many questions.
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SEVENTEEN
All that day, Vasu did not call and neither did I. I was hoping that he would, and checked my phone every two minutes, but there was nothing. At the wedding reception Divya was thankfully busy with her friend, leaving me alone with my thoughts. I barely knew what I was doing or what I said. We took the late night bus back to Mumbai and arrived in the wee hours of the morning. I had not slept properly for two days and it was talking a toll on me. I slept for six hours straight that morning and when I woke, I found out that Vasu had come by and had met Divya. I didn’t know what to do. I had an evening flight to catch and tried to call him but he didn’t pick up the phone. He just sent Divya a message saying that he was in a meeting and that he had arranged for someone to take me to the airport. I was desolate and desperate. I wanted to meet him and ask him to hold me one last time. But there was no way of getting through to him. I packed my bag and left in the car he had arranged for me. I called him one last time from the airport. The phone kept ringing but he didn’t pick it up. I was so disturbed that I almost missed my flight. Who knew that a sudden trip to Mumbai would change my life like this? By the time I reached Chennai, I had resolved on a plan of action. I would need to take Divya into confidence and tell her the truth about my marriage to Ashok. After that, we could decide when and how to tell my mother. Depending on my mother’s reaction, I would decide on the next course of action.
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I barely noticed that the flight had landed. I got a call from my father-inlaw, just as I was boarding the airport bus. “Hello Nithya. Enna! Are you at home?” he asked with his customary rudeness. “No, but I am on my way there,” I replied cautiously. “Okay. Your mother-in-law and I want to see you, and we thought we would come to your house,” he said. Oh! For what? “When will you come?” I enquired. “We were thinking that we will come tomorrow,” he said, with a trace of annoyance. If you are so annoyed then why come all the way to see me? “I will talk to mom and call you,” I said finally. “Okay,” he said and put the phone down. I found myself depressed just looking at Chennai airport. What would happen if I bought a ticket and went back to Mumbai to make up with Vasu? Back to Vasu! I sat in a cab and closed my eyes, holding onto the thought, wishing it were that simple. *** At home, my mother was more concerned about Divya. She wanted to know everything; where she was staying, what she was eating, and whether she was safe. I answered her as best as I could. She was afraid that Divya might spoil her reputation by roaming around alone with Raghavan. She was relieved when I told her that Raghavan and his father were in Chennai and would come to meet us soon. Divya called, and I gave the phone to my mother who seemed satisfied after a second round of questioning. She handed the phone back to me.
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“Anything else?” I asked Divya. “Yes. Listen, it is going to take me another four days to come back. And since you are there, I was wondering if you could help with the move. The apartment is ready for occupation, so all we need to do is move our belongings. It is not as if we have a lot of furniture or anything anyway. Raghavan is there, and he said that he would make the arrangements,” she said reasonably. Great! The sooner we move out of Chittappa’s house, the sooner I can move out of this marriage. “That’s a good idea Divya. I will ask Amma!” My mother was not very enthusiastic initially, but when Divya said that she would not be able to take time off from work and asked her to move while Raghavan was there to settle her, she agreed to check whether there was any auspicious date available for moving. “Day after tomorrow is a good day,” I volunteered. “That’s great. So you help Amma to shift and I will take care of the rest after I come back,” Divya agreed. But my mother was a bit hesitant to take my help. What would my inlaws say? What would Ashok say? I ignored her arguments and started planning the move. It seemed like a good omen to me. We decided to go to the apartment and check out whether it had been cleaned or not. I called my father-in-law and told him that we were moving house and that he could visit after a week. He didn’t seem too happy about it, but I didn’t care.
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Moving out of the house was easy but managing the emotional drama triggered by the move was very difficult. My uncle and aunt tried everything to stop us from going. He even offered to repair and re-roof the house. But I was adamant. There was no way I could stay in the marriage that he had contracted for me while my mother and sister lived off his charity. Apart from the drama, I was very happy with the new apartment. It was airy, with lots of windows and cupboards and good neighbors for my mother to socialize with. It took us just one trip to move all our worldly possessions from the old house to the new one. Raghavan came with his father and helped us get settled. Unassuming and helpful, they made us feel very comfortable in their house. Vasu was right; Divya was going to be very happy with them after the marriage. My mother was busy settling into her new house. I had put out the threadbare sofa and the old beds for sale and the house looked bare without any furniture, so I went out and bought a new sofa set and two new beds. My mother raised a storm of objections when she found out that I had bought the furniture, but I ignored her and felt good about being able to do this for her. I also kept busy and tried not to think about Vasu, but he was never far from my thoughts. I often replayed our time together, his voice, his touch... each memory stood out vividly. ***
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“Your in-laws are coming here tomorrow,” my mother said a few days later, giving me a rude shock. What!?! “They called?” “No. I called your mother-in-law and told her that we have moved to this house. They are both going to be in this part of town tomorrow and want to take you shopping,” she said, smiling happily. I felt really uneasy now. What shopping? And why with me? The next day, my mother was cooking, hoping my in-laws would eat here. They came. My mother-in-law pursed her lips and examined the house. My father-in-law sat in one corner and kept looking around. Fortunately the sofa set that I had ordered had been delivered time, so they had a place to sit when they came. They both agreed to have coffee at our house. “Why would anyone leave Mylapore and come to Velachery? I can’t understand that logic Mami. Now here, you will have to pay advance and rent. And they will increase the rent every year. Do you really think you can afford it? You could have stayed there.” My father-in-law came to the point directly. I bit my lip and stayed silent. “Nithya, get ready. We are going out. We want you to come along,” said my father-in-law. “Where are we going?” I asked suspiciously. He smiled. “It’s a surprise.” That didn’t reassure me in any way. I fetched my handbag and we left. My mother watched me leave from the balcony. My uneasiness increased when I heard my father-in-law calling Ashok and telling him to come to an address. Where were we going? And what was happening?
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Things became clear very soon. The car stopped at ‘Devaki Infertility Clinic’ and my mother-in-law hustled me out of the car. My father-in-law didn’t look at me, when I tried to meet his eyes. “Come. My friend’s daughter-in-law is the doctor here,” said my motherin-law imperiously. “No! I don’t think I want to be here. Why didn’t you tell me that you are bringing me here?” “Why are we talking in the middle of the road? Let us go inside and discuss,” my father-in-law said in a reasonable voice, leading me inside. We sat in the reception area, while my mother-in-law went to talk to her friend. “Listen! Please do this for Saroja’s sake. Any mother would want to hold her grandson or granddaughter in her arms. For her sake, at least just get yourself checked out. Nothing more,” he implored. I looked at him incredulously. A nurse came by and took me inside ushering me into a waiting room. She gave me a form to fill, which asked me for details about my sex life and monthly cycle. I filled the form distractedly. I had already decided what I was going to tell the doctor if she wanted to examine me. Next minute, my mother-in-law came in and took the form from me. She made irritated noises as she read my answers. Finally the doctor came in. She was young in her late thirties. “Hello Anjali. How are you? This is Nithya, my daughter-in-law.” “Hello Nithya,” she greeted me pleasantly. I nodded mutely. “She and my son have been married for almost three years now. But still, there is no child. I know for sure she has some problem or the other. Please do a complete check-up,” my mother-in-law said bitterly. The doctor looked shocked. Maybe she had not met outspoken females like my mother-in-law.
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“I will see what I can do,” she said and took the form from her. “Nithya, you will have to undergo a couple of preliminary tests. I will write them all for you. The results will come through by next week and then you can come back and see me,” she said gently, looking at me. “Aunty, I will need to see your son also. He needs to go through some tests as well,” she said firmly, writing down the tests. “My son is in perfect health. I don’t think there is any problem with him,” my mother-in-law claimed loftily. “No, I am sure there is no problem. But I would still need to check. It is standard procedure,” replied the doctor evenly. I could sense my mother-in-law’s blood pressure rising. “Why don’t you check her? She is the root of all troubles. She is the reason why I am not becoming a grandmother,” she said, looking at me venomously. “Aunty, don’t worry. We will get her pregnant somehow,” the doctor said pacifyingly, and looked at me with pity. I couldn’t bear any more. I got up and left the office. I didn’t know where I was going but I managed to find the exit and walk out of the clinic. I stopped at the entrance, to see my father-in-law standing there with a furious Ashok. Ashok looked at me angrily and barked, “What happened? Did they test you?” “No,” I said shortly. “I am not going to go in there for any test Appa. So you can bloody well forget the idea,” he said, turning his back on his father and walking to the car he came in. I stood there for a moment, and then ran after him. “Ashok! We need to talk,” I said. “Come with me,” he said and I got into the car with him.
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He put the car in reverse and backed out savagely. “What do I do now, Ashok?” I asked him. “Whatever you want to do. Stay married to me and live in the States or stay married and live in India or get divorced and stay anywhere. It’s up to you. Frankly I have had enough of this nonsense. I know we had an agreement. I can wait if you want to get divorced after your sister gets married but is it worth it?” he asked driving smoothly on the almost empty Adyar bridge. “Do you know what my old man’s plan is?” he went on. “He wants you to go for in-vitro treatment and conceive through artificial means with my sperm. After that he is planning to take the child and raise it, on his own or some shit!” He hit the steering wheel with his hand. “I think it is dangerous to come to India.” I agreed. What sort of a crazy plan had my father-in-law cooked up and to what lengths would he go to secure a grandchild. Ashok turned and looked at me. “You are very quiet. What do you think we should do now?” he asked. “I want a divorce,” I said and was jolted forward as Ashok stopped the car suddenly, in the middle of the road.
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NINETEEN
Getting a divorce is definitely easier than getting married. Ashok and I ended up in a lawyer’s office in Royapettah. After hearing our request, the lawyer gave us some general gyan about the merits of staying married, until Ashok finally cracked and said forcefully, ‘NO! We want a divorce.” The rest of the proceedings were easy. We signed the application in triplicate and the lawyer promised to stay in touch with us. Oddly enough, Ashok became very amiable after that. He took me out for cup of coffee to discuss things. I felt strangely calm, yet fragile. I didn’t know what was going to happen next, but I knew that I had taken the right decision. “I will make a one-time settlement after the divorce,” Ashok said over coffee. “That’s okay, Ashok. I have enough money right now. I will get a job and soon I will be out of your life.” I didn’t care about a settlement;; I couldn’t believe this was actually happening; that soon - I would be free. “Yes, I know. But look, I know, I have been an ass. I should never have married you at all. I admit I have behaved very badly with you. You became my punching bag for all my frustration with my parents. I am really sorry for all the pain I caused. I really am. And I think I need to apologize to you, on behalf of my parents too. My father manipulated you, with the help of your uncle of course, and totally screwed your life,” he said slowly. I knew how difficult it was for him to admit this. He had always acted as if I had got married to him deliberately.
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“Sunil always told me what a decent, nice girl you are. I knew that he was right but something within me was wrong. I felt trapped and took out my anger on you. I know you don’t want my money. You have never asked for anything. But I will feel a lot less guilty about everything, if you take the settlement. Please!” I could see he really meant it. “I will think about it,” I replied slowly. “Please do. You will need money to start your life again anyway. I hope you are able to put these three years behind you and start a new life,” he continued sincerely. “What’s got into you Ashok? I can’t believe that you are talking like this,” I said teasingly and smiled at him. He smiled back. “I am just happy. I think we took the right decision today.” “What will your father say?” “Frankly I don’t care what he says. I am going back home tomorrow,” he said with a carefree smile. “Oh! Okay.” “I hope you will be fine. Will you tell your mother?” he asked. “I will have to tell her, one way or another. Divya is back tomorrow. I will talk to her first and then, we can talk to her together,” I said. What would her reaction be? “Will you tell her about me?” he asked me slowly. “You don’t want me to?” I was not sure what he was asking. “Maybe you can tell her that I am having an affair with another girl. That way, at least my mother will not know for a while,” he said imploringly. For the first time I felt pity for his mother. She was unkind, rude, and ignorant but I knew she wouldn’t be able to bear it if she knew that her son was gay.
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“Yes. That’s what I was planning to tell her anyway,” I said, finishing my coffee. Ashok dropped me at my mother’s home and left. I spent an uneasy evening thinking about all the events that happened in the past week and about my upcoming divorce. And then there was Vasu. Just when everything was falling into place, why did I have to complicate matters by falling in love with him? We could have just left things the way they were in California. And then, how could he have said all those things to me the morning after? The next day, Divya finally returned from Mumbai. Vasu had dropped her at the airport. I was afraid to ask her whether he had asked about me. But, first things first. I told Divya that I would come to her office to have lunch with her. I thought I would take her out and then give her news of my impending divorce. *** “You are joking. Don’t joke about such things Nithya.” Divya looked disbelievingly. We were sitting at a quiet corner of Pizza Hut and I made her lower her voice. When she realized I was serious she was shocked beyond words. “Athimber is gay? How is that possible? This sort of thing happens only in movies.” I felt like crying. After the shock settled in, she got angry. “Why didn’t you say anything to anybody? How could you keep quiet about this? How did you bear all this?” she asked and broke down.
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I put my arms around her and hugged her. After she calmed down, I told her about the decision that Ashok and I had taken and about our divorce petition. “Do you think Ashok’s parents will create any problems? Do they even know that their son is gay?” she questioned. I had not told her that Ashok’s father and my uncle had plotted the marriage together. She didn’t need to know about that - not right away in any case. It would have been too much to take in. “I don’t think they know. But the immediate problem is, what to tell Amma? I think for now I will tell her that Ashok is having an affair with a woman in the US? What do you think?” “Yes. But when are you going to tell her the truth?” she asked. “Soon,” I said. Divya drank some water as she thought things through. “Okay. The sooner, the better I think. What’s going to happen to you Nithya?” “I don’t know. But I am really glad that you are getting settled soon and that too with someone as mature and nice as Raghavan. I wish the divorce could wait until after your marriage, but certain situations arose and I just couldn’t stay...” I said worriedly. “Are you mad? How can you be worried about my marriage? Let us get you out of this marriage first,” she said vehemently. I fell silent and stared at a young couple who had walked in. The man was wearing a shirt similar to Vasu’s. A pang shot up my heart and suddenly I felt like crying. “Does Vasu know about this? Did you tell him?” she asked. What to tell her? “Yes. He found out when he came there,” I said softly.
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“What was his reaction? He must have been shocked and angry. I wish he had beaten Ashok up for all the pain he has caused you,” she said bitterly. “Leave it, Divya and don’t talk about Ashok that way. He is not to blame. I don’t have any ill feeling towards him,” I said. We spent another hour talking about the best way to break the news to our mother. We had to leave when Divya got a call from her office and headed back, while I went home. *** There had been no call or message from Vasu since I left Mumbai. There was a nagging pain in my heart. I didn’t want to call and tell him that I had applied for a divorce. It seemed too much like following his orders. This decision was mine, I needed it to be mine alone, and yet, thoughts of him lingered in the background. I made my way up to the apartment, wondering when Divya would be free to come home. I opened the door and walked in unthinkingly, into the worst possible situation. Chittappa, Chithi, and my mother-in-law were sitting with my mother, who looked as if she had been crying. Oh great! Here it comes! “Look at her coming so coolly into the house, Mama. We got her married to Ashok thinking that she would be the perfect daughter-in-law but all that we got was a headstrong girl who has no consideration for her elders.” My mother-in-law was at her acid best. My mother started crying. I wanted to hit my head on the wall. I should have told her earlier. She shouldn’t have had to learn this in this way, and from these people.
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“Nithya! Is it true? Are you getting a divorce from Ashok? How can you do this to our family? Who will marry your sister if you get divorced? Do you have any sense?” asked my uncle. Great! Ashok, once again you have left me in a soup! But this time I was not going to silently accept everything that came my way. “Divya’s marriage is almost fixed. And I don’t think her fiancé’s family would have a problem with my divorce. Chittappa, Chithi, it is true that you got me married. But I can’t live with Ashok anymore. This was a personal decision that was taken by the both of us. If you want confirmation, you are free to call and ask him,” I said unwaveringly. My mother was still sobbing her heart out, her head in her hands. I went to her and put my arms around her. “How dare you talk like this? You ungrateful girl! Mami! Your daughter is very clever. All that we asked of her was to give us a vaaris, a grandson. And she doesn’t want to do that. Now my son wants to give her a settlement of one crore rupees! Have you ever heard of anything so preposterous? This girl, who did not have one rupee to her name, will get one crore!” shouted my mother-in-law, dramatically clutching her heart. “Mami! Please, you are a heart patient. Please, compose yourself and settle down. We will speak to Nithya,” said my Chithi, who looked as if she didn’t quite believe what she had just heard. “There is nothing to speak of Chithi. We have decided to get divorced and it is final. There is nothing more to say,” I said, holding on to my mother tightly. Just then the doorbell rang. Everybody stared at me blankly. After a moment, I walked over and opened the door. It was Divya. I was relieved, at least now I would have some support. As she came in, I saw there was someone behind her. It was Vasu! Where did he come from?
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I remembered the call that Divya had taken before we left the restaurant. Was it from him? What had Divya told him? We looked at each other. I had missed him so much yet the harsh sting of his words was difficult to forget. And right now, there was so much else I had to deal with. He looked at my strained face with a puzzled expression, and then comprehension filtered in as he looked into the room. The tense knot in my stomach became more painful as I looked around. Everyone was staring at him, especially Chittappa. Divya looked at me and raised her eyebrows. “They came and told Amma about the divorce,” I told her. “So you told Divya and not me. But why? Why do you want to divorce him so suddenly? I didn’t even know that you were unhappy in your marriage.” My mother looked from Divya to me. “I wanted to tell you Amma! But couldn’t. I am really sorry that you had to find out like this,” I said. “Answer your mother’s question Nithya. We spent so much money and got you married. All wasted! What is so wrong with Ashok that you want a divorce?” asked Chithi bitterly. Before I could open my mouth, Divya replied hotly, “Chithi, Why don’t you ask Chittappa about it? I am sure he knows the truth.” “What do you mean? Your Chittappa and I helped you and your family. We fed you, gave you a house and got your sister married. Who does things like this in this day and age?” asked my Chithi. “Please Chithi! Podhum. You did all this but in return my mother worked day and night to repay your help. The grand finale was the marriage that you arranged for my sister. Do you think you got Nithu the ‘Perfect Groom’? You and your husband are responsible for the mess that she is in,” said Divya vehemently.
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“How can you talk like this? What did we do? How can you blame your uncle?” asked Chithi angrily. “You got my sister married to a gay man. Yes. Athimber is gay. He has a boyfriend who lives in the US with him.” Divya’s eyes were ablaze with anger. I looked at my mother, fearing her reaction. She was shocked. Everyone was shocked. But Chittappa averted my glance, unwilling to look me in the eyes. “Is this true?” asked my mother brokenly. “Yes. I am so sorry. I should have told you earlier. I didn’t know how…” I faltered looking at her. Her eyes brimming with unshed tears, she put her hand on my cheek. “You bore all this for three years. Why? How could you?” “I wanted to wait until Divya got married. Ashok wanted to wait until Anu got married. So we compromised.” “Nithya! Nothing is more important to us than your happiness. Why didn’t you realize that,” she cried, hugging me fiercely. I let her hold me, unable to explain but knowing I didn’t need to. “Mama! What sort of drama are these women trying to play?” asked my mother-in-law, looking scornfully at each of us in turn. “I don’t know,” mumbled Chittappa. “This is not a drama Mami. Your son is gay. If you don’t believe us then go check out Facebook and see what your son has posted today.” Divya turned to face my mother-in-law calmly. My mother-in-law looked at Divya and I saw a hint of a doubt creep into her eyes. “No. You are lying. I don’t believe this,” she said, her voice suddenly trembling. I looked at her with pity.
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“I am sorry but it is the truth,” Divya said. “No. This is not possible. Tell me whether this is true,” she asked turning towards me. “It is true,” I said softly. Her face paling, she backed towards the door putting out a hand as if to push us and he truth away. “I don’t believe you. I don’t believe you. You are all lying. I will speak to Ashok. I know he is not…” she said disoriented and staggering a little. With trembling hands, she opened the door and left. “You shouldn’t have told her Divya,” I said, feeling pity for the old woman. “Nithu! Enough. No more hiding the truth. It is time that you told people what you have been going through in that farce of a marriage.” “Well, we still don’t believe it. Don’t think that we don’t know who is behind all this,” said my Chithi acidly, looking disdainfully at Vasu who was standing quietly in a corner. Oh God! Now they are blaming Vasu for the whole thing. I opened my mouth to protest but my mother came forward instead. She faced her sister and brother-in-law. “Who is behind it? You tell me. How could you do this to my daughter? It was your husband who got this match for my daughter. Can you take an oath, with God as a witness and tell us that you didn’t know anything about Ashok?” My Chithi recoiled at the hurt and anger in her face. She turned to Chittappa. “How could you willingly get such a groom for Nithya? You have a daughter too. What if something like this had happened to her,” my mother asked vehemently.
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“Look here. We got the alliance but we didn’t know anything about this. We don’t believe this gay thing and all. This is just an excuse. There is nothing like that,” said Chithi evasively. “Why is your husband keeping his mouth shut? I want to hear it from his mouth? He was the one who literally pushed this alliance on us. Why is he silent now?” my mother asked bitterly. “Who are you threatening? Just because this wastrel is on your side, you think you can talk however you want. I had no ulterior motive in getting your daughter married to Ashok. I knew he had a small problem - but it is nothing. They could have lived happily. Whose marriage is perfect, you tell me?” Chittappa seemed to have recovered from any guilt he might have had, and was openly pointing towards Vasu. I stared at him shocked. Vasu came to stand next to Divya and I. “Wow! Look at our great Chittappa’s wonderful explanation. What else can you expect from a person like him?” he said sarcastically. “You knew everything yet you saw it fit to sacrifice Nithya’s life. Ashok is gay. And there is no way that they could have lived happily ever after. God knows what your friend offered you to make this happen…” he carried on heatedly. Chittappa turned on my mother. “Can’t you see what is happening here? Your daughter and Vasu are conspiring together. That’s what this is all about. And in the process I am getting blamed. Kali muthirchu,” he said bitterly. “What did you say….” shouted Vasu, moving towards him. My mother came and stood before Vasu and silenced him. “No. I have been silent for too long. It is my turn to talk,” she said quietly to Vasu. She turned to Chittappa, looked him straight in the eye and spoke evenly. “I can see what is happening here Athimber. I know my daughter and I know Vasu. And I know what kind of person you are. You are the sort of
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person who can ruin the life of a girl whom you have known since childhood. That’s who you are…” said my mother fiercely. “How dare you accuse my….” cried my Chithi. “I dare. Yes I do. Your mother ruined my life by getting me married to a gambler and a drunkard. And your husband has ruined my daughter’s life. You people take pleasure in other people’s misery. You helped us when we needed help but I think I have repaid you for all that with my daughter’s ruined life. Please leave now. I don’t want anything more to do with you or anybody in your family,” she said defiantly and pointed at the door. Chithi and Chittappa were shocked. They could not believe that my mother had stood up to them for the first time in her life. They stared at her in shock and then left, muttering threats under their breath. As the tension eased a bit, I looked at my mother. She was slumped on the sofa with her head in her hands. We sat next to her and hugged her tightly and tried to console her as bitter tears ran down her face.
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TWENTY
It was late in night when my mother finally fell asleep. Alternating between sobs and rage, she cursed everybody from my uncle to Ashok for ruining my life. Divya and I tried to console her. We talked for hours as she cried her heart out. I was emotionally drained by the time she went to sleep. All this while, Vasu waited outside on the balcony. He turned as I came out of the room and we looked at each other for a long moment. “Let’s go to the terrace. We can talk freely there,” he said quietly. I nodded and he took my hand and led me out. It was cool and refreshing out in the open but I was numb. I didn’t know what I was feeling. A part of me was happy because I was finally free. I was also sad, for my mother who was heartbroken. And a part of me was embarrassed and ashamed, because everyone now knew my secret, that my husband was gay and uninterested in me. Vasu held my hand steadily and pulled me into a warm hug. There wasn’t anything sexual about it, just a comforting gesture that I needed so very badly. I buried my face in his chest, glad to be held so close. “I know you are upset about all this. But I am glad that everybody knows the truth now,” he said softly. “How did you come here so suddenly?” I whispered. “I came to meet you. I called Divya in the afternoon and she was very upset after your talk, so I came along with her. I didn’t know that all those people would be here,” he said. “I should have told her long ago.”
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“Yes. You should have. Why did you suddenly decide to get a divorce?” “Ashok’s parents took us to an infertility clinic. His father wanted me to undergo in-vitro fertilization so that I could have his baby,” I told him. “In-vitro fertilization!” he said bitterly. His tone reminded me of his accusations in Mumbai. “Yes. But don’t worry. That was the final straw. That is why we decided to go ahead with the divorce,” I said moving towards the parapet wall. “I am glad. We need to make plans now. We can get married as soon as your divorce comes through. Let us tell your mother tomorrow….” I spaced out as he went on talking. I didn’t know what he was saying anymore. I stared at him blankly. “Nithu! What happened? Are you listening to me?” he asked, holding my hands. “Vasu! My mother just came to know today that I am getting a divorce. I can’t just go to her and say that I am going to marry you. I need time. I need space,” I said moving away from him. “What are you trying to tell me? I don’t understand. Tell me clearly what you have in your mind. As far as I can see, we love each other. And now you are getting divorced and we are getting married. Aren’t we?” he implored. “I got married because of Chittappa’s pressure. Getting a divorce is the first independent decision that I have taken in my life so far. I need time to get used to the idea. I need time to forget these three years. I need time to forget a lot of things that have happened. I am not ready for another relationship right now,” I said biting my lip. He was silent for a while. Then he came close and looked intently at me. “Do you love me or not?” he asked pulling me close. I nodded my head, looking down.
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“I love you. But I can’t marry you until I am ready. And I don’t know when that will be. I don’t want to hold on to you Vasu and give you false hopes. I am so confused…” I whispered. He put his fingers on my lips and traced them with his sensitive touch. I held my breath and looked up. “Don’t say anything more. I love you. I know now that I have always loved you. I have never looked at another woman in my entire life. Take all the time that you want. I will wait for you.” I looked up at him. His face was calm, but his eyes looked at me sadly. “You want space, so I won’t call or message or email you. But know that I will wait for you to come back to me,” he whispered passionately. “Vasu, I am…” But before I could say anything, he pulled me close and kissed my lips, trailing soft sensitive kisses along my neck and on my lips. I closed my eyes and lost track of time. After a while he stopped and held me close. “I am leaving now. I don’t know when I will see you again. But remember one thing, I will be waiting for you.” With a last hard kiss, he left without looking back at me. I could feel the imprint of his lips where he had kissed me.
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I was at Madhavar Perumal Kovil after almost four years. I had avoided going to Mylapore ever since the divorce showdown with Chittappa and Chithi last year. But I was passing through the area and couldn’t resist myself. The temple precinct was very calm and quiet. There were many young boys sitting around reading and I was reminded of Vasu. Today it was exactly one month since my divorce was finalized and looking back, I couldn’t believe how much my life had changed in the past months. Ashok was relaxed and actually charming, ever since he came out of the closet. He came out clean and told his mother everything but she refused to believe him. She was still looking for a match for him apparently, but Ashok told me that he would never marry again. I started a catering business with an old friend and batch-mate. Ashok insisted on giving me a one-time settlement of one crore rupees. I invested some of the money in the business and our profits soared. My mother was depressed for some time after the big showdown but I made her join me in my business and it did a lot of good to her. She became an excellent manager and while she managed existing orders, I was able to focus on marketing, meeting with corporate houses to get more catering orders. Divya was in Singapore working on a project for the past four months. We planned to start wedding preparations as soon as she returned. I knew I should have been happy but I wasn’t. I was independent like I had always wanted to be, my family was free of all charity and obligations
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and I had the catering business I had always dreamed of. Yet I felt there was something missing somewhere. Vasu kept his word and had given me the space I wanted. But off late, I had got into the habit of looking at his number and wishing that he would call. Sleep eluded me unless I was bone tired. I didn’t know what my problem was. My phone rang. It was Diana. “Hi, How are you?” I asked cheerfully. “I am good Nithya. How are you? How is your business going?” We called each other at least twice a month to catch up on things. It was she who had told me that Ashok was buying a new house with Sunil. “Business is good. I am just sitting in the temple. Thinking,” I said. “Thinking of what? Are you missing Vasu?” she asked perceptively. “I don’t know. I think about him a lot these days,” I said. “Honey, you love him and he loves you. Don’t go on brooding about things that he said when he was angry and upset. I know you wanted time to settle down, to become independent. And you have done all that. Now what are you waiting for? Go on and call him,” she coaxed. I had told her everything that had happened between us. And though I didn’t tell her that we slept together, she had guessed it. “I am not sure. It’s been so long. More than a year since I spoke to him,” I said hesitantly. “Oh God Nithya! What do you expect? You asked him to back off and he backed off. He won’t come to you now. You will have to go to him or at least call him and take the first step forward,” she said, sounding exasperated. She is right. I will have to take the first step. ***
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An hour later I was back home pondering what to do. I wanted to talk to Divya but she was not online. Vasu was online but he did not buzz me. I felt more depressed than ever. My mother was busy searching for something in an old suitcase of hers. As I sat listlessly I noticed an old plastic cover full of photographs that she had taken out. I picked it up and opened it. They were old photographs and most of them were of Vasu’s parents. I remembered the bare walls of his apartment with no photographs or reminders of his parents. He hadn’t wanted to ask Chittappa for them. Thank God my mother kept these safely for him. I knew how happy it would make him to have these mementos. On the spur of the moment I decided to go to Mumbai and give them to him myself. I called my travel agent and asked him to book a ticket for Mumbai the very next day. When my mother asked, I told her there was a food conference that I wanted to attend. And then finally I called Vasu. What will he say? Does he still love me? As his phone rang and rang I almost gave up and was about to cut the call when he picked up. “Nithu!” he said. His voice stirred something deep within me. “Hi Vasu.” “Hi! What’s up?” “I am coming to Mumbai tomorrow. I wanted to see you and to give you something,” I said. “What time will your flight land? I will come and pick you up,” he said immediately. “Three o’clock,” I said. “I will be there,” he replied.
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*** The flight was late by more than an hour. I was tense and nervous by the time we disembarked. I scanned the crowd anxiously and relaxed only when I caught sight of him. He looked leaner than usual. As our eyes met I had to suppress the urge to run and hug him. I smiled at him instead and he gave me a heartstopping smile back. “How are you?” he asked, taking my suitcase from me. “I am fine. You have lost weight?” “Yes. I have been running around a lot. You look like you have put on some weight. Are you sampling everything that you prepare for your business?” he asked cheekily. “Nonsense. I never put on weight,” I said loftily. We got into his car and as he drove, the bittersweet memories of my last visit to Mumbai came back and I felt embarrassed to even look at him. His apartment was the same Spartan space. While he was busy preparing tea, I opened my bag and took out the photographs and kept them on the table. Vasu came out bearing two cups of tea and placed them on the table. “What’s this?” he asked pointing towards the photos. “Come and have a look.” He sat next to me and opened the package. He fell silent as he looked through each and every photo of his parents. Blinking back unshed tears, he touched his mother’s face in one of the photos. I took his hand in mine. “I found them yesterday in an old suitcase.” “Thank you. They mean the world to me. Thank you,” he whispered as a tear rolled down his face.
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We went through the photos again and I suggested a nice place to hang them in the bedroom. We talked about everything under the sun, my business, his business, Divya, Raghavan, my mother and Chittappa. There was so much to catch up on. He ordered pizza just like last time and I kept wondering what we would do next. Back on the balcony, he stood next to me, in companionable silence, as I looked over the city. “You came here all the way just to give me these photos?” “Yes,” I said looking down at the traffic. “Come I will drop you back to your hotel,” he said abruptly. “No, I don’t want to go,” I replied. “What do you mean?” he asked, turning to look at me questioningly. “I want to stay here,” I said calmly. “And what will people say?” he asked. “I don’t care. I want to be here with you,” I whispered as he came closer. “Are you sure?” he whispered back. “Yes,” I said looking up at him with my heart in my eyes. “Then why are you so far away and not in my arms,” he said, pulling me into his arms and holding me tightly. “Did you miss me?” he breathed into my hair. “Yes. Very much. Even if I didn’t find these photos I would have come to you,” I said fervently. “That’s what I wanted to hear,” he said and started kissing me. Oh God! How did I spend a year without these kisses? He ran his hands greedily all over me. I shuddered as I came alive and I could feel his arousal as he locked me against his body.
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“God! Nithu! We can’t keep doing this all the time. We had better get married,” he whispered hoarsely. “Yes. Please,” I whispered back as he began unbuttoning my blouse. “When? How about tomorrow? I can ask Raghavan to make arrangements for a court marriage,” he asked unraveling my sari. “Tomorrow? Okay,” I laughed. “But not in Mumbai. I want to be married in Chennai. And first you have to come and talk to my mother,” I said unbuttoning his shirt and kissing his beautiful body. He carried me over to the bed and laid me down gently before joining me on the bed. “Okay. Tomorrow let us go to Chennai and I will talk to your mother first,” he said kissing me all over. “We can have a registered marriage by next week itself,” he said kissing my breasts. “Will you move to Mumbai?” he asked suddenly, lifting his head. “Yes,” I said, wishing he would stop talking and go back to what he had been doing. “What about your business then?” he asked worriedly. “My mother will manage that. And I can open a branch here,” I said, and kissed him to stop further questions. Happy to oblige he went back to serious business of loving me. The last time we made love, we had been swept away and had ended with regret and guilt. But today things were different. I was free to love and to be loved. I gave myself to him without any inhibitions. Our union was explosive and I slept happily in my groom’s arms waiting for the day when I would be his bride.
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Glossary of Terms
Metti: Toe ring worn usually worn by married women Chittappa: Refers to father’s younger brother and to mother’s sister’s husband as well Chithi: Refers to father’s younger brother’s wife and to mother’s sister as well Patashala: School for young Brahmin boys to learn vedas Appalam: Tamil version of pappad Vadam: Similar to pappad and appalam but made from different ingredients Madisar: Traditional nine-yard sari worn by Brahmin ladies Vadiyar: Temple priest or officiating priest Athimber: Sister’s husband Mami: A common Tamil term used to call all Brahmin ladies Thali: Tamilian mangal sutra, a yellow thread worn by women to denote they are married Arthi: A traditional custom of welcoming new daughter-in-law to the house Usili: South Indian side dish Kadamba Sambar: Sambar (tamarind stew) made with different vegetables Lime rasam: South Indian tamarind soup with lime, tomatoes and coriander www.indireads.com
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Sambandi: in-laws Gayathri Japam: Chanting of the sacred gayathri mantra. A traditional Brahmin custom for men. Poonal: A sacred thread worn by brahmins indicating that they are twice-born Aavani aatam: A sacred ritual for brahmins who change their poonal after reciting gayathri mantra Brahmaastra: A formidable weapon used by mythological heroes Aapam: A traditional south India dish Idli: South India rice cakes Thiruman: Traditional 'U' marking on the forehead specifically worn by iyengars (a Brahmin sect) Veshti: Traditional south Indian dhoti Purvegam: Means ‘Where are you from? Which family do you belong to? Which village?” etc. Sollu ma: Means “tell me” in Tamil Aarubathi moovar: A 10-day festival in the famous Kapileshwarar temple in Mylapore, Chennai Neer more: Watered butter milk Pulliyorai: Tamarind rice Vathal kozhambu: Delicious tamarind gravy Yennai kathirikai: Stuffed Brinjal vegetable cooked in oil Patis: Snacks similar to cutlets Ennada: a term used for boys Pudhina: Indian term for ‘mint’ leaves Upilliappan kovil: Very famous vaishnava temple in Tamil Nadu, India Srirangam: A holy temple town in Tamil Nadu, India
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Pitambari: A special powder used to shine brass and bronze vessels Rangoli: colored powder used to make patterns on the floor Appa: Tamil word for ‘father’ Podhum: Enough. Kali muthirchu: A common expression in tamil used when things are going from bad to worse Lakh: One hundred thousand. Crore: Ten million
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Sumeetha Manikandan, a freelance content writer is an English Literature graduate with Journalism and Mass Communication diploma. Married to Film Director K.S. Manikandan, she lives in Mylapore, Chennai with her five-year-old daughter. After working as a content manager in Sulekha.com and Clickjobs.com for over eight years, she took a break from full-time work, when her daughter Rakshah was born. While at home, she started writing for various websites and clients. Working on a wide variety of content related projects she established herself as a freelance writer and started a content company of her own in 2011. She wrote her debut novel, ‘The Perfect Groom’ as a script for a serial. Set against the backdrop of Mylapore’s Brahmin community, she sketches many larger-than-life characters in this novella that will capture your imagination. An avid reader, she is never without a book to read. A temperamental writer, she needs a lot of inspiration to write. She loves to watch movies with happy endings, listens to instrumental music and old melodies. A shopaholic, she loves to splurge on books and clothes. Visit her author page on Facebook to leave a message https://www.facebook.com/pages/Sumeetha-Manikandan-Author
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