The Madonna Whore Complex lenguage of lust

The Language of Lust – Becoming a Sexual Superhero: Understanding the Madonna Whore Complex

by Lawrence Lanoff

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex

Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex: Becoming A Master Of Brain Sex Here’s the deal. I was just privately coaching a student. He’s 45 years old, has accumulated riches, and is watching helplessly from the sidelines of life – as hot girls wander by. NEVER having the kind of sex he really wants. You know the kind: Great sex. Dirty sex. Mind-blowing, wake up in the morning with your dick being sucked on by the hottest-girl-ever sex. Which is sad. He flew in from Europe because he felt like life was over for him. He was ready to give up – cause that's how sex is. If it's good, your entire life is good. And when it's bad, or it ain't happening, all of life sucks. And his real big fear is that he’s way too old to get and fuck the girls he really wants. Which is ridiculous. It's just a BS voice in his brain (Belief Systems), eating away at him, talking a bunch of nonsense. Why am I telling you this story? Because, if you bought this product, chances are it's the same kind of voice that's been haunting your head, too. That's when he said. "But you don't get it, I'm different. I really suck. Watch, I’ll prove it to you.” I watched him walk up to girl after girl and turn her off. Hard. Even with his bad-ass James Bond accent. And each time, he looked back at me, feeling more desperate and humiliated. Finally he gave up and said, “See, I told ya.” Look, I get it. I've been there, too! I remember thinking that when I turned thirty, I'd never get laid again. Really. One Saturday night, I wandered around New York City feeling lonely, desperate, and looking at girls like a

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex hungry dog looks at a big bowl of food, thinking to myself "I'll never have that. Ever." Especially not with hot girls. The really hot ones. Man, I was so wrong. I'm Lawrence Lanoff, and the reason why you are listening to this program is because it's an astonishing opportunity to show you, step by step, the insider tactics and shortcuts used by a real-life sexual master to get a full access pass to any woman's heart, mind, and body. I'll teach you my sexual secret weapons that will show you exactly why I'm booked around the world, a year in advance, to coach men and women in these sexual-super-power secrets. I'll also teach you how to get your big head straight so your little head gets all the deliciously dirty and wet sex you desire. So fasten your seat belt. You are in for the ride of your life. Life is fun when you discover how this language stuff works. And that's what The Language of Lust is all about. Fun. Language. And sex. Lots of it. But first you need to understand something we call the Madonna Whore Complex. I’m not talking about Madonna the pop singer. I’m talking about a concept that was first discovered by Sigmund Freud way back in 1925. You know who Sigmund Freud is, right? He’s the classic idea of a psychiatrist with his beard and his glasses, and the couch. But way back in 1925, Sigmund Freud said, “Where such men love, they have no desire, and where they desire, they cannot love.” Now, what the fuck does that mean? Translating that from Freudian terminology to English, here’s what that means and here’s why it’s important to you. If you’re a guy, it’s totally possible you’ve found yourself falling in love with a woman, and for the

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex first six months or a year, you see her as the most sexual, fuckable thing in the entire world. Then as soon as you move in together, have you noticed something changes? Have you noticed maybe when you have a kid together or as soon as you put a ring on her finger or you really fall in love with her, something changes inside of you? When you look at her, you suddenly can’t see that primal, fuckable creature anymore, and instead you see your “wife,” the mother or your children. And all that fuckability disappears. This is because of the Madonna Whore Complex – a condition where men view women as either saintly, sexless, pure, virginal Madonnas or as sexual, ravenous, insatiable, dirty whores.

What do Greece, Freud, and Dirty Sex have in common? If you are stuck in the churn of the Madonna Whore Complex, then you will only value a woman if she’s on your pedestal, which she may enjoy for a couple of months. After that, she wants to let her hair all the way down. Which means she wants to cut loose sexually. But instead, she’s frozen in time, like a Greek statue in Freud’s office – her pussy locked down by centuries of social expectations. And you lose. Because she can’t fuck you in the dirty ways she really, really wants to. Because she knows, you’ll judge her for being sexually free – because a real lady doesn’t let go like that. So why is understanding this about women important to you? Because it leaves you playing a game that 98% of men must play when it comes to sex. The game of tricking her to “give it up” to you. But the trick is on you because you bought into the Victorian idea of female sexuality, which sucked. It was repressed, horrible, constantly contained. And because of that, YOU are not getting the hot sex you deserve.

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex

What does a woman really want? There’s no guesswork at all.

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex Let me tell you why what I’m about to say is relevant to you: Because women want the same thing you want. There is no game to play. Right now. What she really wants is sex. Great fucking, pillow-drooling sex. Because when there aren’t social consequences, there’s no reason NOT to have sex. The only things holding her back are her beliefs about what sex means.

Sexual Myth Busting EXERCISES – Week 1: Destroying The Madonna Whore Complex Forever It starts with your beliefs. You would never believe the women who walk through my doors for sessions to help free themselves from sexual shame, who want to go out into the world fearlessly and have more and more sex. This is why I want you to understand – forever – that women are wanting sex, craving sex. And they do whatever they need to to make that happen. Step 1: Try on this mental idea for ONE week – “All Women LOVE Great Sex.” Step 2: “All Women Are Having Sex – with or without me – regardless of what I believe about sex.“ Step 3: When you are out and about and you see women – no matter how detached they seem from sex, no matter how they are dressed, no matter what their specific situation is – I want you to understand and imagine each woman you see masturbating, fucking, and sucking. Because, the reality is, sex is happening right before your eyes, so you need to begin to train your brain to see it. Starting right now. Sex is happening. Sex has been happening. The world population has doubled in the last 50 years – not because sex isn’t happening, but because people are fucking. A lot.

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex And when I meet a woman who says she doesn’t care much about sex, I know that’s because she hasn’t had great sex. Because great sex feels amazing and there literally is no downside.

The Function of Focus – Let’s cut the head off the snake. I’ll help you finally dump your Victorian era beliefs and help you build your sexual confidence. It’s the reason why you will be able to have sex with any woman you desire. Because you will be seeing CLEARLY – it’s like seeing through the matrix of sex. Now . . . let's get to work demolishing those old Victorian era beliefs that are keeping you in a sexual prison. True learning means that at a fundamental level you have changed your behavior. I want you to follow my 3-Step Process right now to permanently change your beliefs.

Sexual Myth Busting EXERCISES – Week 2: Step 1: Make a commitment I want you to make a commitment to me, and more importantly, to yourself. I want you to commit to being open to new beliefs about women and sex. Over the years, I've coached hundreds of men through what I'm about to teach you. If they can do it, so can you. Grab a notebook or an iPad. Step 2: Write some things down. What would YOUR ideal sex life look like? Really. Spell it out. In GREAT detail.

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex What do you want? Sexually, financially, the whole kit and caboodle. Why do you want to learn the Language of Lust? Step 3: Train Your Brain To Be a SLUT – Sexual + Liberation + Unleashing + Treasures. It’s kinda like training a pet. But it’s your brain. And your brain can change. I’m about to tell you something that sounds like a big deal, and it is because of what it means to you and your ability to break down any woman’s sexual resistance. Scientists have discovered a phenomenon called neuroplasticity and it's powerful to you – because it means you can learn something completely new. It’s powerful to women because it means they can overcome their crappy, Victorian, pussy-control training. The affirmations below are going to help you clear out some of those negative beliefs and change your brain. Which will change your sex life. I want you to repeat these affirmations through writing, reading, and speaking. You’ll begin to train your brain to believe them. Neuroplasticity. Even if you think affirmations are bullshit – here’s the real deal. Repeat these affirmations in the mirror. Psychologists suggest that saying affirmations while you look at yourself in the mirror, directly into your eyes, is the most effective way to change your core beliefs. I want you to do this exercise three times per day. Until you know, deep inside, that the phrases below are true. I also want you to add your own self-affirming phrases to the list – right now. Read these phrases out loud. Imagine speaking to your changing brain. Imagine the changes. All women desire sex. All women are having sex.

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex I am sexually confident. Beautiful women are naturally attracted and sexually open to me. I am relaxed and confident with my deepest sexual desires. My sexual confidence is strong like a magnetic field. My partners are turned on by my sexual confidence. I now release any sexual insecurities I have and drop them into the center of the earth. I now release my sexual shame. I now celebrate the true power of sex. I now automatically attract SEXUALLY OPEN WOMEN to ME. Now, read them again. Next, write these affirmations down. And add your own – Right NOW! And I’m totally serious. It’s important that you get clear about what you really want. Why are you doing this program if not to change your reality about sex? The more you say these power phrases to yourself, the better you feel and the more you relax. Step 4: Rinse, repeat, and go deeper. Over the coming days and weeks, I want you to come back to this list. Read the power phrases and take a few minutes each day to write them down in your journal. Handwriting is good for training your brain. The more you repeat, the more you believe; and the more you believe, the more these affirmations will become your inner reality. As your inner reality evolves, the more you will see changes around you. You are doing GREAT!

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Understanding The Madonna Whore Complex You're doing a great job so far. Follow the momentum. Follow the sexual flow. And let The Language of Lust be your guide! In the next segment, I’m going to teach you how to Talk Dirty with Respect.

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