State

State (emotional system, which looks at the situation and see if you have value and gives you the level of personality that works best).  Intelligence/Innovation and Social Bonding.  When there’s an alpha male in the group and you become more confident (which attract girls), if you don’t have VALUES to back that up, you’re in trouble.  Nimbus. (good emotion and you don’t care).  Characteristics: Surge of positivity, dominance. Everything ‘Clicks’. A feeling that you are the source of good emotions in that situation (feeling of total abundance and offering the value). No approach anxiety.  Off-state: Jokes are out of rhythm and ill timed. “Oh the moment is not good enough as it is but if other people start to like me, I’ll feel good.” View other people as source of good emotions.  Be yourself – Be your best self, your best side of your personality.  Your mind totally outside your head and in the moment.  State sub-communicates value.  If a person is from a position of abundance, less needs to be authentic.  IMPORTANT!!! o PERSONAL BOUNDARY: If I’m not in state, I’ll just go through my life. Not resist it. o State is a higher state of being that threatens your ego. o RESISTANCE (emotion): is the emotion that you feel that the reality in front of you is in some different way. o If your thought loops “I want to be in state”, it creates resistance. Resisting the now. o Never resist the reality in front of you. What’s the right action? Go. Take the right action is a muscle. o Not identifying the emotion of depression or etc in your body but recognizing it as chemical reaction in your body. Not your core essence is depressed. o It creates space with the emotion. o “That you resist, persists”. Just accept it and live life.  We live in a society, where the reason for not acting is because of bad emotions and it’s feasible.  Most through life, we’re trying to walk in a straight line but fumbles a lot and goes off track but we still have to do it. LIFE IS 95% NOT SMOOTH SAILING incl. Bill Gates.  Courageous people: The willing one to move through the fog.  1. Right Action. 2 Non Resistances or Acceptance. = Great way to state.