Sexual Dynamo

HOW TO BECOME A SEXUAL DYNAMO

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What is Meet Your Sweet? Your new life starts today. With MeetYourSweet.com, you get the ultimate toolkit to creating the success you crave in Life and Relationships. We know that you’ve got the smarts to take care of most areas of your life. So why should dating and relationships be any different? That’s why we here at MeetYourSweet.com take a life coach’s perspective to romance. We don’t want to give you a paint-by-numbers program or dumb down what it takes to master REAL success. Rather, our goal is to empower you by giving you the life skills that you need to achieve a complete personal and social transformation… …the kind that will have you feeling confident, secure, desirable, and powerful, no matter what challenge you face! We’ve done the research, and we know what works. Our thoroughly researched, nonmanipulative approach harnesses capacities that everyone has within them. Whether you’re male or female, young or old, single or in a relationship, we can help you become the absolute best you can be at relating with the opposite sex. Just imagine it. Gone are the days of struggling to get a date. Gone are the days of struggling to keep someone attracted. Gone are the days of worrying about whether you’re good-looking enough, popular enough, or captivating enough or to get attention from the opposite sex! With MeetYourSweet.com, you get expert advice from a team of the world’s greatest writers, life coaches, and counselors in the field of dating and relationships. Every Meet Your Sweet course includes collaborations with top names in the field. Our team of contributing authors includes our very own Slade Shaw and Mirabelle Summers, as well as Amy Waterman from 000Relationships.com and Andrew Rusbatch from SaveMyMarriageToday.com. So kickstart your personal and social transformation with MeetYourSweet.com. We look forward to hearing how our courses have changed you!

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Table Of Contents

Intro.............................................................................................. 5 The 5 Principles of Female Sexual Pleasure................................... 8 Things Women Like and Do Not Like.......................................... 12 Know When She’s Turned On...................................................... 14 Female Erogenous Zones............................................................. 16 Foreplay...................................................................................... 19 What To Do Once You Get ‘There’............................................... 22 How to Give Her the Best Head of Her Life................................. 24 Penetration.................................................................................. 27 After Sex...................................................................................... 30 What If You Have A Problem With Control?................................. 31 Afterword.................................................................................... 32 The Meet Your Sweet Course Catalog........................................... 33

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Intro The ability to please a woman in bed is possibly one of the most worthwhile skills that you, as a man, will EVER have. Aside from the obvious ego-rush of being a man who’s ‘good with the ladies’, this skill will also add to your confidence, AND to your sense of value and worth. And of course, you’re probably aware that, from a feminine perspective, it’s EXACTLY THOSE MEN – the ones who are confident and secure in themselves – who women find MOST attractive. It’s like a delicious cycle of SUCCESS: get a little bit of it, feel better about yourself, which attracts more women … get a little bit more success, feel even better about yourself, attract even MORE women … and so on. Just in case you can’t see where I’m going with this, let me spell it out for you: KNOWING THAT YOU CAN PLEASE A WOMAN WILL BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE LIKE NOBODY’S BUSINESS. It will also ensure that your cellphone is packed with the numbers of ‘repeat customers’ … women who can’t get enough, and who are (literally) groaning for more. And one other thing: the knowledge that YOU can literally, tangibly, and physically IMPROVE a woman’s life … and that you are SEEKING to improve it by dating her … and by allowing her the opportunity to ‘sample’ your skills for herself … just happens to be a nice addition to your arsenal of ‘inner game’ personal development and seduction skills. Here’s why: because it goes FAR to ensure that you DON’T fall prey to the dreaded ‘seller’s mindset’. For those of you who don’t know, the ‘seller’s mindset’ is where, as a man who’s approaching a woman, you feel like a shifty salesman bent on hornswoggling the ‘customer’ long enough to ‘make the sale’. Knowing that you have the SKILLS and the ABILITIES to IMPROVE HER LIFE will obviously remove this problem from the equation PERMANENTLY. Because when you have a skill like SEXUAL PROWESS, you practically have a moral obligation to give her an opportunity to ‘sample your wares’. Seriously.

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Let me tell you right now: men who are ‘good in bed’ are NOT easy to find. Here’s an example for you: one of my close personal friends recently dated a man for six months – that’s SIX MONTHS – whom she LITERALLY could not stand. He drove her CRAZY (and not in a good way.) The only reason that she forced herself to endure his company for such a long time was because she was ADDICTED to his one saving grace: his ability to ‘give her a good hard pounding’ when she needed it (her words, not mine.) ‘I was literally addicted to it,’ she said. ‘And I knew I had to make the most of it while I could, because NOBODY I’ve ever met has been able to make me feel like that – before or since.’ Sadly, the world being what it is – that is, a world that’s packed full of men who think that ‘foreplay’ consists of taking their clothes off – her prediction has so far proved accurate. So think of it this way: if simply polishing up your knowledge of ‘what women like in bed’ can allow guys who are ANNOYING, SELFISH, and INSENSITIVE … a.k.a. ‘HIGHLY UNDESIRABLE MEN’ … … to have sex with a gorgeous woman for SIX MONTHS SOLID … … then just think what that knowledge can do for YOU. Interesting, no? This report will enable you to be one of the FEW MEN who actually know what they’re doing between the sheets. At the very LEAST, it will enable you to approach a sexual situation with a woman with UNSTOPPABLE confidence, an IN-DEPTH knowledge of ‘what you’re doing’, and a solid grasp of the principles BEHIND quality love-making … NO MATTER WHAT her own ‘personal preferences’ happen to be. In other words: this isn’t one of those ‘technique-only’ booklets that will tell you to ‘press here’ and ‘rub there’ in a specific order for a specific number of minutes. Having good sex isn’t the same thing as riding an elevator. You can’t just press the same button each time to make the doors go ‘ding-ding-ding!’ All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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I mean, I’ll definitely give you some solid ‘anatomical detail’ and suggestions for EXACTLY how to physically pleasure a woman. But of course, ALL women are DIFFERENT … meaning that precise and explicit ‘instructions’ are NOT ALWAYS APPLICABLE. One woman’s treasure is frequently another woman’s ‘yawwwwwwn … is it OVER yet?’ experience. So, I’ll ALSO explain to you the PRINCIPLES of good sex, so that you can please ALL women … REGARDLESS of their own personal anatomy and preferences. Enjoy. (I already know that SHE will.)

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The 5 Principles of Female Sexual Pleasure These are the principles that underly ANY and ALL ‘techniques’ that you may learn. Knowing female anatomy, and logically knowing what ‘should’ turn her on are all very well … but each woman is different and you must be able to apply your knowledge ‘across the board’, regardless of personal preference. That’s where the 5 principles come in.

Principle Number One: YOUR ATTENTION GOES ON HER AND NOT ON YOU. If your aim is truly to become sexual dynamite, it will be helpful if you make your goal to become each woman’s ‘favorite lover’. Plenty of men get BOGGED DOWN by SPECIFIC, MEASURABLE GOALS … such as, aiming to cause a certain number of orgasms … to ‘keep going all night’ … or to make her scream his name. All well and good in THEORY .. but the plain and simple TRUTH is that those kinds of goals put your focus on YOU. And that’s not where it should be. It should be on HER. Great sex is when BOTH PARTIES enjoy themselves. And since it’s technically ‘harder’ to please HER than it to please YOU (most men can reach orgasm in 2 minutes … most women take more than 20), that means that ‘good sex’ is equivalent to PLEASING HER FIRST. Which, in turn, means that you ‘take care’ of her BEFORE turning your attention to your own pleasure. When you stop putting your own needs and your own pride first, and instead, focus on what works for her, that’s when you begin to qualify into the ‘sexual elite’ of men.

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Principle Number Two: ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT. One woman’s trash is another woman’s treasure – and vice versa. Expecting that what made the last one squirm will make ALL women squirm is the sexual equivalent of burying your head in the sand. With each and every woman, the rule book is written afresh. You DON’T KNOW what’s going to please her until you figure out what turns HER on.

Principle Number Three: ASK FOR FEEDBACK. Being able to ask for feedback is absolutely IMPERATIVE to pleasing a woman. You can ask her verbally, by asking her if she likes what you’re doing. You can ask her to tell you what she wants you to do. Or you can ask for DIRECTIONS, as you go. Of course, you don’t necessarily need to ask her verbally (although this rarely hurts). You can ALSO use your powers of OBSERVATION, by WATCHING HER and FIGURING OUT FOR YOURSELF what turns her on. A third option is to use NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION to get across what she wants more or less of. For example, a good method during cunnilingus (when you go down on her) is to place her hand in your palm, and tell her to trace circles in your palm which you will then mirror with your tongue. If she presses harder, you’ll apply more pressure; if she eases off, you’ll use less. And so on. (This is especially handy if either of you is shy and not accustomed to vocalizing in the bedroom, or if you feel that speaking will break the mood or interrupt the flow.) A lot of guys are afraid of asking for feedback because they feel it will somehow highlight their ‘amateur’ status, or show them up as being ‘inexperienced’. Not so. It actually requires a lot of CONFIDENCE and a fair amount of EXPERIENCE to have the ‘balls’ to ask a woman, verbally or not, for feedback of ANY kind. Women know this. They appreciate it. And they think MORE of you for WANTING TO PLEASE …

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… a HELL of a lot more than they would if you were too wrapped up in your PRIDE to ask for ‘help’. Talking to her and asking what she wants is actually something that will make you seem MORE confident and MORE at ease – which in turn, translates into a better experience for her. It’s like when you’re in an airplane. If the pilots seemed nervous and jittery, you’d be convinced that something must be horribly wrong and that the plane would probably crash and burn. But if they seem calm and assured, you can sit back, relax, and expect to enjoy your flight. In the bedroom, from a woman’s perspective, you are the pilot and she is the passenger. Your attitude sets her mood and her pleasure to a LARGE EXTENT. Of course, HOW you ask for feedback also counts: ‘squeeze my hand if you like how this feels’ sounds a lot better than ‘um, I haven’t really done this a lot before, so could you, um, let me know if you’re OK with what I’m doing?’

The Fourth Principle: ANTICIPATION IS YOUR SEXUAL WATCHWORD. Let me explain what I mean here, because this theme is truly central to the experience of sex for a woman. A great way to ensure that she is enjoying herself is to remember that, for a woman, about 75% of her enjoyment comes from her largest sexual organ … … her BRAIN. Great sex, for a woman, is about the build-up and release of anticipation. The more she anticipates and LONGS for something, the more she will enjoy it when it finally comes. For example, if you just throw her down on the bed and stick your dick into her, chances are she’s NOT going to be all that turned-on. But if you lay her down on the bed and start tracing patterns all over her skin with your fingers and tongue … and get her really REVVED UP by TEASING her … and bringing her to the BRINK of orgasm over and over again, but not allowing her to finish until YOU want her to … that’s going to be DYNAMITE.

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It’s all in the ANTICIPATION. And you CREATE anticipation by BUILDING UP to something … then PULLING BACK … then BUILDING UP SOME MORE. The theme of ‘anticipation’ is INCREDIBLY important when it comes to creating a fantastic sexual experience for ANY woman. Allow her to build up a YEARNING within her mind … and take the TIME required for her to really BEG you to do something … and do everything SLOWLY … and the result will be POTENT BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS.

The Fifth Principle: HOLLYWOOD DOESN’T APPLY. What you’ve seen in the movies does NOT apply here. There is no choreographer: people sometimes fall on their faces or elbow each other in the eye. There’s not going to be moodlighting unless one of you creates it. And 99.9% of women can NOT come within the first 3-4 minutes of penetration. Put aside EVERYTHING you’ve seen in the movies (including, for that matter, PORN movies.) Remind yourself that it is FICTION and that it DOES NOT APPLY to real life. Lots of guys get really self-conscious and nervous because of all this PRESSURE that they put on themselves, thanks largely to what they’ve seen in ‘R’- and ‘X’-rated movies. DON’T DO THIS TO YOURSELF. Sex is more about having some really up-close-andpersonal FUN with someone else. Your ego, your need to ‘look good while doing it’, and your NERVES don’t really apply here. You will find that the application of these 5 principles will effectively REMOVE things like nervousness and ego from the frame. For example, if you apply principle #1 – your attention goes on HER not YOU – and principle #3 – ask for feedback - it becomes very difficult to get stressed out or worried … … because your attention and your thoughts are taken up with how SHE is feeling and what SHE might like you to do next. Let’s take a look at exactly HOW you can go about pleasing her.

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Things Women Like and Do Not Like Yes, all women are different. But there are certain ‘global ideals’ of pleasure that you can rely on as a ‘gold standard’ … using your powers of observation and creativity, of course, to adjust according to each woman’s needs. All women tend to like: »» LOTS of kissing. Kiss her for a long, LONG time: on her mouth, her cheeks, her neck, her decolletage, EVERYWHERE. Whenever you remove an article of clothing, pause to kiss the flesh that you’ve just exposed. As far as kissing goes, and as a general rule for ALL things sexual, ‘slow and gentle’ is usually best – but gauge the mood. If you’re both frothing at the mouth with lust, ‘harder and faster’ kissing might be more appropriate, so use your powers of observation and get feedback. »» Take your time with foreplay. Most women want more, more, MORE foreplay. Guys tend to rush through it because they’re in such a tearing hurry to get to the ‘main course’. Your aim is to be DIFFERENT from all those other guys, and to be her FAVORITE lover. So think of foreplay not as a ‘prelude’ to sex, but as PART of sex … because that’s what it is. Take your time and explore her body. Enjoy it. Linger over it. Create some anticipation. Make her BEG for you to hurry up. »» Trust is a HUGE component of her enjoyment. For a woman to open up and become uninhibited, she must be able to trust you completely. She needs to know that if she wants things to slow down or stop, they will. If she seems uncomfortable – she tenses up, or says, ‘We should stop’ - do so. If you pay attention to her state of mind and her mood, chances are excellent that she’ll want to pick up again in a few moments … simply because she now knows she can TRUST YOU to listen to her. »» Compliments are ABSOLUTELY necessary, and are a huge part of a woman’s enjoyment and ability to ‘let go’. For a woman to enjoy herself, it’s more about how she feels EMOTIONALLY than ANYTHING ELSE: if you can make her EMOTIONS feel good, her body will often follow, so focus on making her feel good about herself FIRST. Your goal here is to make her feel safe, protected, utterly cared for, and to let her know again and again that you find her both beautiful and arousing. So: encourage her and tell her again and again how beautiful she is. Reassure her. Compliment different parts of her body. Tell her she smells and tastes delicious. Tell her how turned on you are. Make her feel that you are ASTOUNDED by her and her body. A woman who feels secure and attractive is a woman who is open and uninhibited in bed; on the other hand, most women will be reluctant to turn the lights on, throw the covers back, or even change positions unless they feel totally comfortable and beautiful.

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»» Be playful. Don’t get too serious. Sometimes bodies make funny noises; sometimes people lose their balance and butt foreheads. It’s OK to laugh at these things when they happen. »» When you’re naked together, she wants to feel that you are PRESENT and WITH HER in your mind and attention. A lot of men unwittingly make her feel objectified and ignored simply because they hide their face, turn it away from her, or forget to make eye contact. All it takes to remind her that SHE is on your mind – rather than just her BODY – is to look her in the eye every now and then; give her a little smile; and KISS HER. You cannot be ‘ignoring her’ if you are also kissing her. This resonates with all women on a visceral level and will go far towards reminding her that you are PRESENT and WITH HER. Also: deep kissing during sex is an INCREDIBLE turn-on for most women in a purely physical sense too, so don’t ignore this potential goldmine. »» Caress her all over her body and remember to TEASE. For example, don’t just grab her breast; slowly rub your palm in ever-decreasing circles over her belly and rib-cage until she’s ACHING for you to go further. Let the tension and the anticipation build. »» Although ‘variety’ is definitely a good thing, it’s best not to bring out more than one or two ‘techniques’ at a time. It takes awhile for women to reach orgasm, and every time you change what you’re doing, she has to start all over again. Pay attention to how turned on she is, and when you find something she likes, stay with it. Don’t keep changing your speed, angle, position, or area of focus: if she’s liking it, keep doing it until she asks you to do otherwise. »» It’s a classy thing to do to always sleep with a woman at least twice. One-night stands float some guys’ boats; even so, morning sex reassures a woman that you find her sexy (i.e. let her know that it wasn’t just the drink/drugs/being caught up in the moment). If you are interested in HER pleasure and HER experience just as much as you are in yours, try not to ever sleep with a woman less than twice.

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Know When She’s Turned On There are certain signs that a woman will exhibit when she’s turned on; most women will exhibit at least two or three of these signs. By observing these signs, you can use them as a kind of physical ‘hot or cold’ indicator of whether what you’re doing is working. (Hint: if she’s displaying these signs, KEEP DOING what you’re doing!) »» If a woman’s turned on … »» Her skin will flush or become pink and/or blotchy on her cheeks, throat, and décolletage »» Her pupils will dilate »» She’ll start breathing faster and heavier »» If she’s REALLY enjoying what you’re doing, she’ll start moaning and panting »» Her back will start to arch »» She’ll push her breasts and pelvis into you »» She’ll grab your ass and pull you closer »» Whatever part of her body you’re touching, if what you’re doing is feeling good for her, she’ll push herself further into your hand/mouth/penis or pull you closer. For example, if you’re going down on her and she’s really enjoying it, she’ll probably spread her legs further and arch herself further into your mouth or pull your head closer.

NOTE: women take much longer to climax than men do. A recent study by Durex found that the average man can climax in just 2-3 minutes of steady sexual contact with a woman; whereas women take between 20-45 minutes of prolonged, consistent stimulation. If you change techniques, speed, or pressure when she’s really getting into it, she’ll ‘lose ground’ and will likely take even longer to finish. So: pay attention to the signs she’s exhibiting, and if she’s getting aroused, KEEP IT UP.

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What To Do If She’s NOT Getting Turned On If she’s NOT showing any of those signs, that’s a sign that you need to take a step back DOWN the ladder and re-evaluate. Don’t just keep doing what you’re doing and hope for the best; you will probably need to back off a bit. It’s a good idea to TALK to her at this point. Tell her how beautiful she is and how much she turns you on, and then ask her what’s going through her mind. This is a good ‘open’ question that allows her to be honest without feeling like she’s being ‘prudish’ or that she’s ‘spoiling the mood’. She may be feeling tense or uncertain, in need of reassurance from you; or she may just not be feeling that turned on by what you’re doing. In either case, that’s where good ‘foreplay’ technique comes in. Good foreplay makes her feel safe, relaxed, in tune with you, and MASSIVELY turned-on. Let’s take a look at what ‘good foreplay’ means, and WHERE EXACTLY on her body you should be paying attention to.

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Female Erogenous Zones There are certain areas of a woman’s body that will turn her on when touched, licked, or otherwise stimulated. These are the EROGENOUS ZONES. For practical purposes, I’ve divided these up into 3 zones. Zone 1: COLD. This is where you start off to ‘warm her up’ from a cold start. Zone 2: WARM. This is where you go when she’s been nicely warmed up and is wanting more. Zone 3: HOT. Spend enough time here and you WILL bring her to orgasm. Of course, it pays attention to spend as much time as possible touching ALL areas of her body, from her stomach to her toes … but a solid understanding of a woman’s erogenous zones is ABSOLUTELY necessary if you want to become a sexual DYNAMO. NOTE: I have included ‘lips and tongue’ in ALL of the zones because the amount of arousal that a woman feels simply from being kissed deeply will grow massively, depending on which ‘zone’ you are currently in. For example, kissing a woman while you’re touching her in ‘Zone 3’ areas will turn her on HUGELY … just as much, in fact, as touching her in any of the other areas in ‘Zone 3’. I’ve also included them because you must NEVER forget her lips and tongue, no matter which ‘zone’ you are in. It is not only massively PHYSICALLY arousing for a woman to have her lips and tongue nibbled, sucked, and kissed deeply, but it is also also massively EMOTIONALLY arousing: the more you kiss her, the more ‘connected’ to you she will feel and the more COMFORTABLE and TRUSTING of you she will feel.

ZONE ONE »» Skin on her upper arms, decolletage (just under her collarbone), upper shoulders, and outer thighs. »» Toes »» Fingertips (suck or lick them) »» In between her fingers and toes (the soft webbing of flesh) »» The small of her back (where her spine joins her pelvis) »» Lips and tongue All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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ZONE TWO »» Ears and earlobes »» Lips and tongue »» Stomach »» Buttocks »» Throat »» Nape of her neck »» Armpit and inside of upper arm »» Inner thighs

ZONE THREE »» Breasts »» Lips and tongue »» Nipples »» Perineum (area between the anus and the vagina) »» The crease between her buttocks »» Anus »» Outer genitals (the pudenda, which is the fleshy mound where her pubic hair grows, and the labia) »» Inner genitals (vagina and clitoris) NOTE: A good way of creating ANTICIPATION is to MIX THINGS UP a bit. You do not have to progress in a ‘linear’ fashion: i.e. from Zone 1 to 2 to 3 then orgasm. Be original and TEASE her. For example, start off by licking and biting her neck and blowing in her ears (Zone 2) until she’s breathing heavily and really getting into it. Then, take a step BACK and start licking in between her fingers, sucking her fingertips, and kissing her deeply on the lips (Zone 1.)

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Then go back to Zone 2, by slowly trailing your fingertips up and down her inner thigh and on her stomach. Then go quickly to Zone 3 and tease her a bit by letting your fingers trail down over her pudenda … and then go back to Zone 1 and start rubbing the small of her back while kissing her deeply again. And so on. This is a FANTASTIC way to really TEASE HER MERCILESSLY until she’s BEGGING you for more (and I DO MEAN ‘begging’.)

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Foreplay It is very difficult to go wrong with foreplay. Give her plenty of it (we’re talking 20 minutes and upward) and you’ll be GOLDEN. Most women want MORE FOREPLAY. This means that it is easy for you to be an ‘unusually good lover’ simply by spending MORE TIME turning her on and working her up. Not only is it fun, relaxing, helps her get in the mood and feel comfortable around you, and, when done properly, a HUGE turn-on, but women actually NEED plenty of foreplay in order to lubricate. If she’s not adequately turned-on by the time penetration takes place, she’ll be dry and uncomfortable. It’s not going to be a pleasurable experience for her – and that will reduce the pleasure for you, too. If you’re interested in being ‘different from every other guy’, learn to LOVE FOREPLAY. (Trust me – it’s not a difficult thing to enjoy.) Most men zero straight in on nipples and genitals and don’t spend a lot of time savoring the other, more subtly arousing aspects of a woman’s body. But know this: after her brain, her largest sexual organ is her SKIN. Get to know it intimately – all areas of it - with your fingertips, your palms, your lips, and your tongue. Foreplay is not something to be rushed through in order to get to the ‘main event’. Try this mindset instead: once clothes start coming off, the main event is already in progress. Foreplay IS sex, so take it slow and experience each sensation … and let her anticipation build. The more she has to wait, and the more you TEASE HER, the more she wants it to happen.

Fail-safe Foreplay Techniques Kick off with a massage. This reassures her that you’re looking out for her pleasure, and makes it easy for her to relax around you. It also makes it nice and easy to segue from ‘fully dressed’ to ‘partially dressed’ to ‘clothes off’. Here’s how to give a great one, that will make her feel safe and relaxed around you. Set aside about 45 minutes for this. You don’t want to rush, and you want her to feel that she can be comfortable around you without being pestered for immediate penetration or groping. The less pressure she feels to have sex, the more she will want to and the better it will be for both of you. All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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Make sure the room is WARM and DIMLY LIT. If she’s shivering, she can’t relax; if it’s too bright, she’ll be self-conscious and uncomfortable. Candles would not go amiss. Light some incense or start an oil-burner burning. Fragrance relaxes her more and puts the focus on ‘sensual pleasures’. Let her choose the oil or incense: if you put on one she doesn’t like, it will be IMPOSSIBLE for her to fully relax. Warm some body lotion or massage oil between your hands (don’t just dump it straight out of the bottle onto her back), then SLOWLY brush your PALMS up and down her back. Use a moderate touch at first and slowly press more firmly. Alternate with your fingertips – this will give her little shivers. Spend about five full minutes (or one to two songs, if you’ve got music playing) doing this. Then, working from the base of the spine upwards, progress to firm circling motions with both hands (one on each side of the spine.) Don’t press on the spine itself; stick to the fleshy areas of muscle on each side, spanning out to the far sides of her back and shoulders. Your aim here is not to cure her of any chiropractic disorders, realign her spine, or heal musculature ailments. Don’t try to get ‘therapeutic’: these types of massages are usually painful (and can easily go horribly wrong.) Your aim here is to RELAX HER and make her FEEL GOOD. Use your thumbs to GENTLY and SLOWLY work out any knots or tight areas. Your hand and finger movements should be slow at all times, even if you’re pushing quite hard. HINT: usually, the shoulder blades and base of the neck are packed with tension. Don’t go too hard though: work up to it. Remember that men tend to prefer harder massage than women, so what feels good for you doesn’t necessarily feel good for her. Do ‘The Slide’ … it feels GREAT. First get her to stretch her arms up over her head, resting her forehead on her crossed forearms if she likes. Then, using the heels of your hands (the fleshy mounds where your hand connects to the underside of your wrist), lean your bodyweight on her, one hand on each side of the base of her spine … NOT on the spine itself. Then, slide slowly up her spine to the base of her neck, leaning heavily on her the whole way. When her spine reaches the nape of her neck, slide each hand out to the side and continue up her shoulder and arm. This should take about 5-10 seconds from base to top. This releases tension from the columns of muscle on each side of the backbone and feels FANTASTIC. Repeat five or six times – you should hear her sigh heavily as her spinal tension releases, after the second or third slide. Know that MOST MEN use massage as an ‘excuse’ to rub breasts, buttocks, and genitals. If All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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you want to get a woman to relax and enjoy herself naked around you, show her that your FIRST DESIRE is to RELAX HER and make HER feel GOOD. Prove to her that it’s not all about you; it’s a good idea not to dart straight to the ‘good bits’. She wants to feel that you appreciate ALL areas of her body, not just the X-rated ones; so spend lots of time rubbing her back, neck, shoulders, hands, and arms before making any progress to other, saucier areas. After you’ve spent a considerable amount of time relaxing her and stroking her body in a sensual – NOT sexual – way, you can progress to more ‘loaded’ areas of her anatomy. Get her to turn over on her back and give her a ‘frontal massage’. Start with her thighs: stroke them lightly up and down on the OUTSIDE of her thighs with your palms and fingertips, then stroke her inner thighs … but DON’T touch her genitals yet. Let the tension build, and then trace up over her hips and start rubbing her stomach instead. Remember, anticipation. Rub all over the front of her body: her décolletage, her stomach, her shoulders, her arms, her thighs. Note how turned-on she’s getting and have fun teasing her and getting her worked up. Most women LOVE IT when you nibble their necks. Spend at least a couple of full minutes doing this – she’ll get tingles. Suck, lick, and bite her gently (but NO hickeys, please.) Tug gently on her earlobe with your teeth and blow, gently, in her ear. Lick around her ear and inside it with your tongue, breathing gently in it the whole time. This is a HUGE turnon. Don’t shirk her breasts: a lot of guys bypass these (believe it or not) and dive straight for the genitals as though they’re the ‘exciting part’. If you want to be her favorite lover, you should know that her breasts are a HIGHLY erogenous zone and deserve a LOT of attention. Rub them lightly at first, and see how hard she likes it – some women need firm stimulation, almost kneading, on their breasts. Watch her for signs of arousal and see if she likes it when you touch lightly or firmly. Spend time sucking and licking her nipples. If you want to increase the sensation, wet them with your mouth, blow on them, then suck them firmly. Nibble them gently or sharply – it all depends on the woman, her mood, and how sensitive her breasts are. Some women can barely stand a gentle nibble, whereas other women practically need to be bitten. Only when you’ve paid plenty of attention to ALL other areas of her body can you progress to her genitals.

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What To Do Once You Get ‘There’ You’ve spent plenty of time on massage and foreplay. You’ve acquainted yourself with all areas of her body. She’s relaxed and turned-on. It is now time for you to go ‘THERE’. Here’s how to touch her below the waist. ‘Warm her up’ first with your hand. With her panties ON, start stroking her through the material. Only remove them when they’re wet. Press the heel of your hand against her clitoris (near the top of her genitals) and touch her quite firmly with your fingers in a gentle, SLOW rubbing motion. Don’t pat or prod; keep your hand in place and rub back and forth, as if you were SLOWLY scratching an itch with the heel and palm of your hand. Her flesh should move back and forth with your hand slightly. When her panties are wet, remove them. Distract her as you do so, to prevent her feeling self-conscious, by gently pinching her nipples or kissing her stomach. Once her panties are off, take your hand and cup her genitals with it. Don’t attempt to insert any fingers yet or spread her labial lips apart, just rub gently, but firmly, in a circle with your hands – much as you did when her panties were on. The mound of flesh over her pubis should move slightly with your hand. This will indirectly stimulate her clitoris and feel really good. After a couple minutes of this, spread her labia (the outer lips) with your hand and trace a finger gently up and down the exposed flesh. It should be moist; even so, it’s a good idea to wet your fingers in your mouth and add even more lubrication. The wetter the better. Do it GENTLY and SLOWLY. Wet your finger in your mouth again and rub her clitoris once or twice, SOFTLY and SLOWLY, and then pull back, place your hand over her outer genitals again, and start rubbing in a circle with your hand again. When she starts breathing heavily and arching herself against you a little, that’s your cue to repeat step two (spreading her lips and tracing with your finger). Repeat these steps several times until she’s really turned on. Remember, the more time you take, the better: ANTICIPATION is key. Now repeat step 2 again, but this time, you’re going to insert a finger inside her. With a wet mouth, lick your finger to penetrate her with (using saliva for extra lubrication if you like). Keep the heel of your hand pressed against her clitoris as you slide it inside her: your index finger allows for the most flexibility and gentleness. Many women will All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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show you what they want by rocking their hips against you (if she does this, it means she wants more pressure. If she pulls away, ease up.) Keep your motions SLOW, but penetrate her DEEPLY with your finger. If you want more guidance, place her hand over yours and get her to show you how she likes it. You can also ask her, or simply observe how turned on she is by paying attention to her breathing and the motion of her hips. When she’s really turned on, you can start using your mouth on her. Here’s how.

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How to Give Her the Best Head of Her Life For many woman, oral sex is literally the only way they reach orgasm; so it’s worth your time to master this step. Here’s how to do it. Take your time. Don’t just dive straight in; work up to it. Kiss and lick her inner and outer thighs; rub her stomach with your hand and kiss and lick her stomach skin. Make sure she’s really turned on before you go down there. Use your hands, as described in the previous chapter. With your mouth and hands, start at her thighs and work up; start at her belly and work down. Lick the clitoris last. Lick everything else first, inner AND outer genitals. Use your hands and fingers as well as your mouth. Most women like to be penetrated with a finger as you’re licking, or, if you’re licking her vagina itself, stimulate her clitoris with the palm of your hand or a fingertip (not too hard!) Most women prefer a flat, soft, wet tongue as opposed to the point (which can feel like it’s stabbing her in a very sensitive place.) Relax your tongue and drag it slowly over her flesh. Use your whole mouth, too, and kiss her as well as lick her. Kiss her as if you were kissing the lips of her face: deeply, slowly, gently. When you find a motion that she likes, STAY WITH IT. Pay attention to her body language and her breathing; if she’s turned on, keep your rhythm, speed, and angle consistent. It can be really frustrating for a woman if she’s just starting to get really turned on, then you switch techniques … and she has to start all over again. Patience is necessary; women take longer to reach orgasm than men, and longer still through oral sex. Don’t put pressure on yourself to ‘make her come’; relax and enjoy it. If you seem like you’re wondering what’s taking so long, she’ll pick up on it and will lose her ability to climax. She needs to know that you are ENJOYING YOURSELF, and that there is no pressure on her to climax. This should not be exhausting for you. You need to be able to sustain your actions for at least 15 minutes (and, realistically, more like 20-30) if you want her to orgasm through oral sex. Keep a relaxed tongue: it’s easy for you to keep going that way, and most women like it better. All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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It’s crucial to her enjoyment that she not feel rushed. Some women can feel self-conscious about the length of time it takes them to climax (particularly if they’ve experienced bad lovers in the past who acted like oral sex was something to be ‘got through’.) She will never be able to finish, or even enjoy herself, if she feels rushed or hurried. Let her know that you’re enjoying it: make noise (groaning and moaning), take a short break every so often to tell her how beautiful she is and how delicious she tastes, and she’ll get even more turned on. Get feedback. Ask her to tell you; pay attention to her body language, the rocking of her hips, and her breathing. HINT: if she moans or groans aloud, that's generally a GOOD sign. Feedback Idea: Get her to use her fingers to demonstrate on her palm what she wants you to do with your tongue. This is a really handy way of communicating exactly what she wants, especially since talking aloud can feel like an imposition for some people (and for more than a few women, they’re embarrassed trying to explain what they want.) I.e. if she traces circles on her palm, you trace circles on her clitoris and vagina with your tongue. If she presses hard, you press hard. And so on. When she’s nearing orgasm, her body will tense and she’ll breathe harder. At this point, DON’T change what you’re doing at ALL. It’s natural for men to speed up their movements or increase the pressure, since this is what tends to work for men when they’re nearing a climax; but if you change ANYTHING now, she’ll most likely backslide, so try to keep everything consistent as much as possible. Granted, she may be bucking around quite a bit, so this might not be 100% possible; but do your best and let her move around as much as she wants. Just keep up what you’re doing. When she’s coming, she might moan loudly, gasp, or go completely still and not move at all. Every woman is different, and every woman also comes differently depending on how it feels for her at the time (so, just because she might have moaned the last time doesn’t mean she’ll moan this time.) At this point it’s best to cover her clitoris with the entire flat of your tongue. DO NOT PULL BACK. Slow your movements down or stop them completely: if she wants pressure or stimulation, she’ll push herself against you. But DON’T PULL BACK or you’ll cheat her of her orgasm. When she’s finished, she’ll move away herself when she’s ready. For most women, after orgasm the clitoris is incredibly sensitive, so be careful. Don’t touch it or lick it any more once she’s finished.

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Common Male Mistakes When Giving Oral Sex »» Only doing it when asked; never volunteering »» Not showing her how much you like it (make noise and groan a bit, tell her how sexy she is) »» Not doing it for long enough »» ‘Chopping and changing’ your technique too much »» Using a ‘hard’ tongue instead of a soft, wet one »» Ignoring her body language telling you she’s tense (in which case, pull back and relax her with a massage, or stroke and kiss her thighs and stomach), that she’s not enjoying what you’re doing (not displaying any signs of arousal) or that she wants more pressure (arching herself into you, pulling you closer) »» Licking her too fast or too hard »» Pulling away too soon when she’s coming

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Penetration There are four basic positions when it comes to penetrative sex (actually, there are over 600 known positions, but they’re all variants on the basic five.) Those four are: Missionary Woman on top Side by side (‘spooning’) Rear entry Each woman has her own favorite position depending on her mood, how she’s feeling, how confident she is at the time, the time of the month, and the lighting in the room; but here’s a basic guide to get you started and help you figure out what might be best.

The Missionary Position »» Is very relaxing and feels ‘personal’ and more romantic to most women »» Is great for kissing and ‘soul-gazing’ during sex (to really ramp up the intensity) »» Is good for indirectly stimulating her clitoris, but gives her very little control over what’s happening »» Is relatively easy for most men to finish in as they control how fast, how deep, and the angle (so if you tend to come quickly, bear this in mind) »» Can make a small woman feel crushed or smothered if you are very large »» Is the easiest position to progress to from you giving her oral sex »» Is the position that most people have sex in for the first time with a new partner »» Is very intimate, and excellent for slow, firm thrusting and lots of build-up »» Is easy to vary: pull her legs up around you, put one or both legs on your shoulder, put a couple of pillows under her hips to increase pressure on her clitoris; or let her head and shoulders hang over the side of the bed (many women swear that this turns an ‘ordinary’ orgasm into ‘scream-out-loud’ material).

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Woman on top »» Is a massive turn-on for her, since she’s in complete control »» Is easier for most women to orgasm since they can rub against your pubic bone, use their hands, or use your hands to manually stimulate themselves »» Allows great visual access for you: you can watch her body and her face as she approaches orgasm »» Allows you to set the pace to a certain extent: if she likes feeling ‘dominated’, hold her hips with your hands and dictate how fast or slow she can move »» Allows you to roam her body with your hands: cup her buttocks, put your hands on her waist, or stroke her breasts »» Allows you to lie back and let her ‘have her way with you’ »» Is most women’s favorite sexual position

Side by side (‘spooning’) »» Is relaxing and doesn’t take much effort for either of you »» Is a great position for morning sex when you haven’t brushed your teeth yet (no breathing in each other’s faces) »» Allows her a certain amount of control, since she can arch her back and push back against you »» Allows you easy access to her breasts, clitoris, buttocks, and anus »» Can be varied by lying face-to-face and side-by-side, in which case it’s more personal and more clitorally stimulating for her

Rear entry »» Is a huge turn-on for most guys: if you have a problem with premature ejaculation, you will need to gain some SERIOUS control before experimenting with this one »» Indirectly stimulates her clitoris from the inside All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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»» Is a major turn-on for women who enjoy fantasies of being ‘taken’ »» Can make some women feel uncomfortable or objectified; some consider it too ‘racy’ for a first encounter »» Maximizes arousal from her breasts, since they’re hanging down »» Can be varied by having her lie on her stomach, with your legs either between or over hers; by having her kneel on all fours; by standing up and leaning her against a wall; or by bending her over the bed

There’s More To It Than Just ‘In And Out’ »» You don’t have to stick to plain old back-and-forth thrusting. There are heaps of other techniques for you to have fun with. Here are some to get your imagination going: »» Use your penis to stimulate the OUTSIDE of her vagina. This is great for creating anticipation. »» ‘Grind’ her by pushing yourself in to the root of your penis and rolling your hips from side to side. »» Twist your hips in a figure-eight motion (in the missionary position, this will directly stimulate her clitoris and can really turn some women on.) »» Make a scooping motion with your hips, almost as if you’re trying to lift her up from inside her vagina with your penis. This will stimulate the G-spot and, if you can keep it up for awhile, will MASSIVELY turn her on. »» Alternate with shallow/deep thrusts. To build anticipation, thrust shallowly more than you do deeply – for example, six shallow thrusts to two deep. »» If you feel yourself getting too aroused, pull out and take a deep breath. »» From a female perspective, ‘slow and deep’ is usually best: forget what you’ve seen in porn movies, forget the term ‘jackhammer’, and forget anything you saw in the movie ‘The Heartbreak Kid’. For most women, fast thrusting usually numbs the vagina after awhile; slow thrusting, even if it’s hard and deep, allows tension (and her orgasm) to build up to earth-shaking proportions.

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After Sex Even if you need to get up and go to the toilet afterwards, or clean yourself up a bit, COME BACK and GET BACK INTO BED with her. Don’t just get up and go do something else; DO NOT flick on the TV or start fiddling with your cellphone. Your attention should stay on her. What happens directly after sex will usually influence HEAVILY whether or not you sleep with her again. Here are a few tips: »» You don’t need to talk all that much, or even at all. A conversation may naturally arise; if so, that’s cool. Go with it. But if not, there is no need to stress. You can just lie there together and soak up all the good energy you created. »» Cuddling is a beautiful thing, and is the perfect post-climax experience. I have never met a woman who professed not to like cuddling; but for some men, they need to be FORCIBLY REMINDED of a woman’s desire to spend some ‘relaxing naked time’ together after sex. Do not be one of these guys: if you immediately leap out of bed and start putting your clothes on, she WILL feel used. »» Cuddling does not have to be ‘energetic’. Simply lying there side by side is enough. You can also let her snuggle into your shoulder (put your arm under her head and neck and scoop her in close to you), or rub her back as she lies on her stomach. »» Stay awake for at least 15 minutes or so after sex. Don’t just fall asleep: pinch yourself if you must. If you leave her alone with her thoughts immediately after sex – ESPECIALLY if this is your first time together, or if you have not been together that long – she may start to feel anxious or negative about the experience. Sex is something you create together: so is the afterglow. »» It is NOT a good idea to fondle her erogenous zones. No nipple-rubbing or anything of that sort; now is the time to give her a rest and just chill out together, so it’s back to ‘sensuous’ and ‘relaxing’ touching rather than ‘sexual’. »» It is appropriate and thoughtful of you to tell her how beautiful she is (yes, AGAIN), and how much she turns you on. Women want to know that you enjoyed the sexual experience with them just as much as you do, so tell her that you love her body and how sexy you find her. A well-placed compliment now will ensure that she can’t WAIT to jump into bed with you again. All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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What If You Have A Problem With Control? Premature ejaculation is a problem for a lot of guys … and it can ruin an otherwisesmoldering sexual experience. To gain more control of yourself, medical studies suggest that you practice one (or all) of the following: »» Masturbate often to ‘desensitize’ yourself »» Take a breather during sex: pull out and stop moving for a moment. If you’re REALLY close to the brink, switch to something less directly-stimulating for you (such as giving her head or licking her breasts.) »» Accustom yourself to your own personal sequence of sensations just prior to orgasm, so you can pull back from the brink before it happens. (Another reason to masturbate frequently.) »» You can actually cut off an orgasm before it happens by squeezing your PC muscles. To activate these, you need to clench the muscles responsible for stopping your urine mid-flow. If you squeeze your PC muscles just prior to orgasm, you should be able to hold off; however, you will need to PRACTICE on a regular basis, by squeezing them throughout the day. (Don’t worry: they’re entirely subtle and no-one can tell you’re doing it.) The stronger they are, the more effectively you’ll be able to exert control over yourself and prolong your sexual experience.

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Afterword Although some of this report has been dedicated to giving you specific techniques, it is not a ‘rule book’ or a list of techniques that you need to follow with precise exactitude. Rather, I’ve given you the techniques included in this book to use as a FOUNDATION for your own development: something to give you an idea of where to start, and which areas to work with, as well as – MOST IMPORTANTLY – how to know ‘what works’ and ‘what she likes’. Without your ability to GET FEEDBACK and PAY ATTENTION TO HER, all other ‘techniques’ will be USELESS. It’s up to YOU to use the 5 principles of female sexual pleasure to figure out how to ‘tailor’ each technique to each individual woman; as well as your knowledge of basic female erogenous zones, your knowledge of female arousal signs, and your powers of observation and communication. Once you have the principles that lie BEHIND a satisfying sex life internalized, it is EASY to create a sexual repertoire, one that’s specific to each woman you encounter, that will leave her wonderfully exhausted and wanting more. So, rather than getting bogged down in ‘rules’ and ‘step by step processes’, put your focus instead on the concepts and attitudes that are the root-cause of true sexual expertise … and learn to pay ATTENTION to EACH WOMAN as a sexual individual. Never forget that a woman’s MIND is her largest sexual organ. Make her feel rushed, objectified, taken for granted, or ignored, and the sexual experience will be a negative one for both of you. Make her feel safe, beautiful, appreciated, and encouraged, and she will feel free to enjoy you without inhibition or embarrassment. Remember, above all, that ANTICIPATION is your watchword. Create the ANTICIPATION in her mind of what’s to come, and the TEASING, YEARNING, and BEGGING that accompany it, and sex with you will LITERALLY feel like DYNAMITE. Welcome to your new life as a sexual dynamo.

With love,

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The Meet Your Sweet Course Catalog Transformational 12-Issue Course: A 12-Month Education in Total Attraction Transformation Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series – For Men...........................................34 Men’s Foundation Program: The core essentials to creating the success you crave in Love… Fireworks With Females......................................................................................36 Technique and Life Skills Programs: The specific skills, tips and techniques in your ultimate toolkit to creating the success you crave in Life and Relationships… Connect And Commit: How To Take Things To The Next Level Of Commitment..38 Supreme Self-Confidence in Dating, Relationships & Social Situations...............40 Conversation Chemistry – How to use the power of communication to create and maintain unstoppable attraction with the Opposite Sex!.....................................43 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex..............................................46

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Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series – For Men Created by the Meet Your Sweet Team Edited by Slade Shaw Success with understanding and attracting women is an elusive skill that evades most men. You know what you want and what you like in women, but when it comes to actually getting it, Doogie Howser is probably better at getting chicks than you. Many experts and pickup artists will share the techniques that work for them, but you’re not them. You’re not going to wear black eyeliner and do magic tricks, are you? You want a method that works for YOU, all the way from start to finish. That may mean closing on a girlfriend, not always another one-night stand. The problem with most other guys and PUAs is that they think there’s a magic bullet: ONE thing, one secret, one new skill that will guarantee success with women. But women are so much smarter than that. They want the WHOLE picture, a man that not only has the SKILLS, but the CONFIDENCE, ATTITUDE and the CHARISMA to back it up. As far as most women know ... attraction just happens. And when they see the whole package, sparks fly! But first, I have a few questions to ask. Have you ever had any of these things happen to you? • You wished you were someone else in order to become more attractive to women. • You’ve finished a conversation, knowing you didn’t really say what you needed to and left her with a poor first impression. • You really like women but usually end up being their friend rather than their lover. • You wish you had a social circle and social skills to impress a woman and show her you are a man of value. • You’re confused about attraction and what women truly want in a guy (Do they want a nice guy? Do they want a jerk? Do they even know what they want?) All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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• You’ve found yourself in a relationship where the love and attraction is waning, but you don’t know what to do to fix it. If you want to truly understand attraction in a way that you never have before, you need to know that it’s about much more than just ONE opener, ONE affirmation, ONE part of your body, or ONE aspect of your character. It’s about you actually being the COMPLETE PACKAGE, a man of integrity and a man of power, who understands attraction is about more than just looks, attitude, or intellect. It’s about being ALL THREE. No matter if you are 26 or 62, we have created a course that is going to change your life, starting today, with the first of 12 life-changing issues. It’s never too late to see the big picture and truly transform yourself into the attraction master you want to be.

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Fireworks With Females By Slade Shaw Success with high quality women is a total mystery to most men. In fact, most women won’t be able to explain to you why they are attracted to certain men and not others. At least they won’t necessarily understand what is really going on. The reason they can’t tell you is because women don’t just decide that they are going to feel attraction for a man. It isn’t a decision based on what you dress like, what you look like, what kind of things you say and how much money you have. As far as most women know ... it just happens. This book is a combination of that research, my own YEARS of experience of being ‘that guy’ with women, the input of my ‘natural’ friends, and Mirabelle’s incisive professional insight as a female dating coach. It’s based upon the THOUSANDS of hours I spent meeting guys, talking to them, and observing their behavior around women, and the THOUSANDS of hours I spent doing extensive research into human behavioral psychology, and the emotional and psychological underpinnings of self-confidence and dominance. I’ve seen in REAL LIFE how the application of these concepts and ideas can literally TRANSFORM the lifestyles of HUNDREDS of men. I know this stuff works, because it’s worked for me my WHOLE LIFE... it’s worked for the thirty or so guys I grew up with... ... and MOST IMPORTANTLY, it’s worked for the HUNDREDS of guys who learned it, applied it, and went from ‘abysmal failures’ with women... to being the kinds of guys who can walk up to an UNUSUALLY ATTRACTIVE woman, and get her phone number... in about 3 minutes flat. The “Fireworks With Females” course has been specifically designed to teach you how to: • keep a beautiful woman attracted • communicate with women on a sexual level • create attraction and chemistry with women

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• be the man that EVERY woman wants • demonstrate quickly that you are a man of high value • approach women and start conversations • change your self image for dating success • use the power of body language to become irresistible to women • take control and develop unshakeable confidence

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Connect And Commit: How To Take Things To The Next Level Of Commitment by Amy Waterman This course is all about building the love, affection, and long-lasting relationship that you want and deserve. Imagine how it would be to have someone in your life who is genuinely and deeply committed to you and your relationship? Imagine never feeling insecure about the future again? Imagine knowing that you can attract and create a relationship where the two of you want exactly the same things, and are going to grow from strength to strength together? If you want to put an end to unfulfilling relationships, take things to the next level of commitment, attract emotionally available women who take you seriously and support you in your life goals, if you want to learn how commitment really works for women, then you’ve got to read this book. It’s crucial to your success. Amy’s discovered a foolproof method of magnetically attracting your partner to grow in closeness and commitment – on physical and emotional levels – as time goes on. How would it be to be completely immune to the death of love and closeness in your relationship? To not be worried when the lust and romantic love starts to fade, because you know something even greater is in store? Do you want to be in a relationship with your best friend, your favorite person, the woman you love more than anyone in the world … and have those feelings reciprocated? When your love life is going well, everything else works like magic. But the best part is, it’s not actually magical at all – it just takes knowledge and a little skill. That’s where this course will give you the step up in your love life that you really need. Amy’s life-changing course is one of the most thorough courses on helping you understand, create, maintain, and foster commitment through every stage of the attraction and relationship process, If you want to create the ultimate relationship… improve your relationships starting RIGHT NOW… create better communication with everyone around you… achieve true and All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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lasting physical passion in your relationship… and strengthen your relationship with your partner, even in times of stress and change…then I strongly recommend you read this book. It’ll change your life in ways you never knew was possible. In addition to the course, there are a number of bonus ebooks and audio files that will further assist and enable you on your search for commitment in your love life and relationships.

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Supreme Self-Confidence in Dating, Relationships & Social Situations by Slade Shaw Let me ask you a few questions: • Have you ever seen a woman from across the room that you really like, or who you’d really love to meet.... but were too overwhelmed by fear and nervousness to go over and start a conversation? • Have you ever felt like you don’t deserve the kind of woman that you are REALLY attracted to, that they might be out of your league, and as a result always settle for second best? • Have you ever felt yourself shaking with self-consciousness when you are talking to a girl that you’ve got a crush on? Lost your words? Can’t be your best self? • Have you ever been in a relationship where you got emotionally insecure and ended up driving your partner away by your clinginess and insecurity? • Have you ever fallen in love with someone before you’ve even dated her and got jealous and upset when she pays others attention and goes out with someone else? If you answered YES to any of the above questions, then this book is a great fit for you. I strongly believe that this information could help you lift yourself above the rest when it comes to attracting and maintaining relationships with women. When you’re not self confident, then you get nervous and act differently at times when you feel stressed or need to be at your best. For example: on a date, or when you’re talking to a woman you’re attracted to. If your confidence betrays you at these vital times, then you may actually struggle to make your life turn out the way you want it to. Confidence is attractive and a crucial tool for men to have when dating, and without it, it’s difficult to attract a really good catch. Why? Women base their assumptions of you on what they know of you. That’s why first impressions can count for so much and be so hard to change. If that impression she gets in All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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those first few moments is all she knows of you, then as far as she’s concerned, that image she has in her head of you IS YOU. So if you meet a woman you are attracted to and act nervous, fumble your words, and run out of things to say… then as far as she knows, you are the kind of person who is nervous, fumbles their words and runs out of things to say. And in those crucial first few moments, you lose your credibility and social status. (Of course, a little nervousness - with a smile! - can be endearing and can even help you, but if you can’t let your best self shine through quickly, your love life is going to be characterized by a series of stilted interactions and misunderstandings of who the REAL YOU is.) Also, it’s really unfortunate that people may assume from your shy or nervous behavior that you simply don’t like being around them. They pick up on your discomfort. Women expect you to take the lead when you approach them, so its crucial that you are able to follow through and hold a conversation. And this is exactly the kind of problem that this book deals with in detail. By reading Slade Shaw’s book, you’ll become a guy who enters a relationship with confidence and charisma, without needing someone else to ‘complete’ you. You’ll be looking for a woman to ‘complement’ you instead of asking her a favor by dating you. This is one of the most powerful and special characteristics that you could possibly offer to a relationship. The self-confidence that Slade teaches you will instantly help you become a more socially adept man who is able to manage the challenges and negotiations that all relationships and interactions bring.

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Conversation Chemistry – How to use the power of communication to create and maintain unstoppable attraction with the Opposite Sex! by Mirabelle Summers (co-authored by Amy Waterman) When renowned online relationship experts Amy Waterman and Mirabelle Summers started researching and writing Conversation Chemistry, they were initially going to write 2 separate books: one for people who are single or dating, and one for people who are already in a relationship. But the feedback received was an overwhelming number of suggestions that they combine them both together, as there was so much essential information in each of them for people at all stages of a relationship. Hence, Conversation Chemistry was created and is actually the length of two full books (298 pages) and is packed full of essential communication secrets for you, no matter whether you are single or in a long term relationship! We’ve broken it up into three specialized sections: Section 1: The principles of great communication with the opposite sex. Section 2: Secrets to talking to and communicating with the opposite sex during dating. Section 3: Communication inside a relationship Inside this life-changing and engaging course, you will uncover a whole host of conversation tips and strategies, including: • The principles of great communication. These principles differ between men and women, find how and why! • How to adapt the way you talk to suit the man you’re talking to - this may determine whether or not she develops a romantic interest in you. You’re going to find out in detail how and why men and women communicate differently, and how to communicate in such a way that builds unstoppable attraction. • Find out the surprising results from a study of singles bars, conducted by a couple of doctors. They proved the theory that there is a definite sequence to the process All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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of attracting a mate. You’ll hear what this process is, and how you can use it to your advantage in sparking attraction. If you follow this process, you’ll build up an incredible attraction for you when it comes to the ladies! • Find out the form of intuitive communication that NLP practitioners, psychologists and even pickup artists alike agree is crucial to forming a lasting bond with another person… • The ‘magic’ ingredients necessary to build potent rapport with women. This is truly powerful stuff you won’t want to miss out on! • Find out the key secret to become a charismatic and high-status man who has no doubt that what you’re saying is interesting to your audience. • The 5 conversation turn-ons that when applied diligently, you’ll find that people will not just enjoy talking to you... they’ll go out of their way to talk to you! • How to overcome approach anxiety. If you suffer from approach anxiety, you’re not alone. Going up to someone and starting a conversation can be incredibly difficult! You’ll learn how to calm these nerves right here with our highly effective 5 step strategy. • The one thing that you absolutely must say to put people at ease and dramatically reduce your chances of getting “brushed off” by a woman when you try to strike up a conversation. • How to spark chemistry and sexual chemistry with women. You’ll learn some incredibly powerful secrets here, and they are a lot easier than you imagine! • The communication skills required for a great long-lasting relationship are different to those that spark attraction and get you through the first month or two of dating. In this exciting section, you’ll discover vital communication skills that will bring the two of you together and you’ll find out common communication mistakes so that you don’t make them yourself! • What to do if communication stops. Rarely go out for an evening alone together? Feel like you’ve run out of things to say to each other? Find out how to revive your communication and get to know your partner again. • Discover the 3 traits of happy couples who know how to disagree in a healthy, nondestructive way.

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• Uncover essential secrets on how to forgive. Without forgiveness life is governed by an endless cycle, so it’s essential you master this crucial relationships skill! • How to argue properly and grow together as a result, rather than grow apart. This is an incredibly important chapter for you to read as arguments have been proven to be severely detrimental to many relationships, and yet seen as strengtheners for others who know how to argue properly. • Using the power of talking about the future to further enhance your long term relationship success. Discover the next step and how to assess your progress at regular intervals. Conversation Chemistry is designed to take you to the ‘next level’ of communication, whether you’re out to meet someone new, enjoy a fun and flirtatious conversation, master the art of flirting, or make a relationship into the best one you ever had.

You can access ‘Conversation Chemistry’ at this web address: https://www.meetyoursweet.com/conversationchemistry/men/

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2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex by Mirabelle Summers (co-authored by Amy Waterman) If you’re going through the emotional turmoil of a break-up with a woman that you really didn’t want to happen (or now regret happening), then you have my whole hearted sympathy. I know what you are going through, I’ve been there, it isn’t a happy place and it isn’t an exaggeration to say that can even feel like someone has just died. Breaking up is an awful experience. And in this book, I’m going to reveal to you my powerful methods for winning back your ex. Essentially, I’ve written this book to guide you through the process of healing the pain of a breakup; recognizing why it happened in the first place; figuring out whether it genuinely is a good idea to get back with your ex; and, if it is, I tell you exactly – EXACTLY! – what you need to heal the wounds and make your relationship better than it ever was before. But first I have a very important question to ask you before carrying on ... • Why Do You REALLY Want To Get Back Together With Her? • And Is It REALLY A Good Decision To Make? • Were you and your ex really good together? Did she treat you the way you deserve to be treated? • More importantly, did she support you in your goals - and did you support her wholeheartedly in hers? I’m asking that question in particular as it is the biggest determining factor in long-term relationship success according to numerous studies. The first thing that you need to do right now is STOP doing what ever you are doing to get her attention back. No more sending flowers or begging for forgiveness! (Yes, really. Even if you genuinely feel that you are ‘in the wrong’, stop apologizing and stop begging.) Before you do anything that you think will win back the love of your ex, you need to listen to what Mirabelle Summers has to say. 2nd Chance is a course that guides you through the whole self-reflection, consideration, and negotiation process that characterizes a relationship breakup and rescue. If you are committed to getting back with your ex, and giving your relationship every chance of success, you can’t afford to be getting information All Rights Reserved © 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

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that could potentially set you back or even end any chances of saving your relationship. You have listened to the advice of friends, family, indeed anyone who feels they would like to share their opinion with you. But now it’s time to get advice that is GUARANTEED to work. 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex is a course that is specifically designed to: • Maximize your chances of winning back your ex • Help you get your life back on track so that you are happy again and have a positive and exciting future ahead of you... no matter what happens. • Help you gain perspective and work through what really went wrong, and discover relationship secrets to help you avoid going down the path that caused your breakup again. And get your relationship back on track towards mutual growth and bonding.

You can access ‘2nd Chance’ and win back the love of your ex at the following web address: https://www.meetyoursweet.com/2ndchance/men/

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