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''And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.'' Surat Ar-Rūm (The Romans) - سورة الروم, Verse 21
Please fill the *must titles in the below form as briefly & as accurately as possible and remember Allaah is All-Hearing and All-Seeing and knows the secrets of the hearts. By filling this form the proposing family will have
some idea about your personality, character triats, spiritual side and family background as well as important close references to investigate further! Note: Blue font optional Q’s and this form is subject to change in future and this form should not be altered or copied or used in any sort of business without founders approval! *Full Name (Bride or Groom)
Halaal Snap(without Soul) e.g. Your favourite book cover or scenery.
*Gender *Date and place of birth/Age (to the accuracy of the months)
Gregorian: *Hijri:
*Personality Assessment: If Muslim what type: Sunni/Deobandi/Sufi or Ahle Hadith/don’t know. What matters more Aqeedah or Manhaj or both or more? Are you iqama holder? Define Salafi Manhaj with references. Define Muhaddith ul ‘Asr? Name leading scholars of Salafiyyah today. Name Salafi Daees. Name worst Ahlul Biddah of past. Name worst living in our times. Give name of best book you read on Aqeedah and Tawheed. Name book you read on Manhaj. Do you accept polygamy (sisters only)? If Yes you like to be 1st wife or 2nd wife or it doesn’t matter? Manhaj: Give level of practice of religion:
1. Fajr Salaah in Jamaah and < takhbeer al ihraam in a month regularly Yes or No? 2. Co-edu. halaal or haraam? 3. Clothes – tight jeans or loose thobe/shalwaar? 4. Beard – trimd or untouched? 5. Lower garment above or below ankles? 6. Hijaab between family or only outside? 7. This is time for Dawaah or Jihad or both or none? 8. Which education is important, deen or dunya or both? 9. Quran Hafiz or Hadeeth Hafiz, both or none? How many Ahaadith hifz? 10. Do you finish Quran once every month? 11. Like Fast-food or BBQ or home food? 12. Like idea of many children/2/none? 13. How wud u do tasfiyah and tarbiyyah of kids? 14. Hajj done or not? 15. Do you obey ur mother? rate 1-5? 16. What makes you angry? 17. What makes you happy? 18. Social or anti social behavior? 19. Time spent on FB or wid real neighbours? 20. Do u celebrate Birthday/Valentines? 21. Do you smoke? Do you tell lies? 22. If you see some1 being wronged in street, do you stop him or leave ignore? 23. Do you know what is Tawheed Asma wa Sifaat, plz give some e.g.s
24. In vacation which u wud choose: Hiking/Duroos of Scholars/BBQ party? 25. If u had fight wid ur spouse, how wud u mak up to him/her? 26. Jumuah walk to Masjid or by car and Umraah by bus or plane? 27. Chocolate or Vanilla or Dates and Olives? 28. Research and technology studies? 29. Mission in Life? 30. Orphans, disabled and diseased – do u hav any1 now u r helping? 31. Do u have ur plants or ur own Masjid? 32. Have you heard/read abt Salafi dawaah and Sheikh Ibn Ba’z, Ibn Uthaymeen, Albani or Saleh Al Fowzaan? 33. Who was Sheikh Al Islam ibn Taymiyyah R.H? 34. Is praying in a Masjid which has grave allowed? If not then why Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam’s grave is in Masjid un Nabwi? 35. If you child doesn listen and you had hard day in office will you hit him or go out of house? 36. If ur mother and wife had disagreement whom will you support? 37. How much Ajaar is there in visiting the sick? 38. Do u know classical Arabic? Read/write? Rate level 1-5. 39. Miswak usage rating 1-5? 40. Any sports in a week how many hrs? 41. Do u consider taking pics
haraam? Will u lik to tak snaps @ ur marriage? Please give ur fb id to add marriage network. How often to you remember death? What removes rust from hearts? Describe Siraat al Mustaqeen? Do you think you are ready to enter the grave right now? Have you read Quran tafseer or meaning cover to cover? Do you prefer spouse to complete education before or after marriage? Which age, color and height you prefer in your spouse? Do you believe looks are important or the heart(good ikhlaaq or both? Will u like one who has good ikhlaaq but doesn’t pray? What action doesn’t make a Muslim heedless according to sahih hadith in al mustadrak? Would you relocate wherever you husband would go or like to live close to parents? Do you prefer that husband has above average apartment and car or ready to
bear whatever husband provides? Define success? Define happiness? Define sadness? Plz give e.g. of each!!! What role do you want to portray in Muslim society?
Would you like to work from home/outside if your husband is unable to provide for some reason?
If Yes define your work nature.
How would you resolve conflict if your husband wants to divorce you on a small thing?
If your husband stops you from going to a relative house due to manhaj issues how would you react?
Would you obey your parents or husband after marriage if conflict arises?
What are the 10 things of fitrah?
How important is Hygiene?
Do you take care of
Taharaah well in&out?
Do you feel Muslim sisters should be supported in Oppressed Muslim countries?
How much are you willing to please your husband in terms of beauty and cleaning the house?
Do you think last Q has to do anything with salafiyyah?
What are the rights of husband?
What are rights of wife/wives?
Personality you are inspired most from in Muslims?
In Non-Muslims?
If you waste food what should your husband do?
In which part of Muslim world is most Shirk practiced?
What is AIDs and Coronavirus?
What does a married man need the most in 1st few years of
marriage? Nationality Height (in cms) Weight (in kg) Appearance (color and body type). E.g. Cream like fair and atheletic. Last degree/diploma obtained, LinkedIn link. *Present Address P.O.Box with telephone numbers, Email and Skype IDs etc *Permanent address Telephone numbers Work/Job related details: Job description and is it halaal? Any Interest/riba? *Work address with telephone numbers Monthly salary income range or figure. Lunch in Office or Home? Monthly income from business with small description of the income if any. Any future plans? Assets: Car, house, land etc Do you spend a lot on hoteling with friends and collegues or rather save money for miskeen, family or to persfrom ibadaat like ‘Umraah? *Marital status and marital history Children if any? *Name of Father *Permanent address of father including telephone numbers
Last Educational Degree obtained by the father Profession and occupation of the father Cast of the Father Name of Mother Last Educational Degree obtained by the mother *Profession and occupation of the mother *Brief description of the family (brothers sisters etc) *Any sickness, disease, disability, accident or personal problems, allergies you would like to share? *Kindly mention here what qualities you are looking for in your spouse e.g. beautiful, religious, highly educated, caring, loving, rich or middle class, age etc Famous Islamic Ideal you follow living and dead. *Name of your favourite books? Like reading rate 1-5? Youtube, FB, Twitter exposure per week 1-5 or in hours? *References Atleast 3 with mobile numbers: 3 Collegues from Office. 3 from neighbourhood. 3 from Masajid. 3 from University. Their email id’s and names at social websites like twitter or fb: *I Testify that this is my sig -nature and I solely hold responsibility for my decision.
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The Following are authentic proofs. I have taken most of them from the book 'Saheeh Al Jaami' As Sagheer wa Ziyaadatuhu' by the scholar, the Muhadith of our age, Muhammad Naasir ud Deen Al Albaanee. Two of the proofs were taken from It'haaf Al Karaam Ta'leeq Alaa Buloogh Al Maraam by Shaykh Safee Ar-Rahmaan Al Mubaarakfooree.{The one who wrote Raheeq Al Makhtoom} Note that I am using the new edition of Saheeh Al Jaami', so the numbering of the Ahaadeeth is not the same as those from the old version. You can refer to the Tarteeb of Shaykh Zuhayr Shaaweesh to the new edition InshaAllaah. Here is what was easy for me to compile as proofs for the points I mentioned earlier: 1. THE MUTUAL AGREEMENT "A Woman is not married until she is consulted, and a virgin is not married until you have her permission." They said, "O messenger of Allaah! And how do obtain her permission? He(Sallallaahu Alay hi Wa Sallam) said: "If she is silent." (An taskuta) [reported by Abu Hurayrah (r)] [Bukhaaree, Muslim, Abu Daawood, and an-Nisaa'ee] Shaykh Al Albaanee reports it in Mukhtasar Saheeh Muslim no. 602 He makes the takhreej of it in Irwaa Al Ghaleel no. 1727 He declares it authentic in Saheeh Al Jaami' vol. 2, no. 7470 2. THE WALEE "There is no nikaah, except with a Walee." (Laa nikah illaa bi walee) [reported by Ibn Abbas (r)] [Ahmad, Abu Daawood, an-Nisaa'ee, At-Tirmidthi, it was authenticated by Imaam Al Haakim - this particular chain is from Abi Moosaa] [It comes from another authentic chain in Ibn Maajah from Ibn Abbaas (r)] Shaykh Al Albaanee makes the takhreej of it in Irwaa Al Ghaleel no. 1839 He decalares it authentic in Saheeh Al Jaami' vol. 2, no. 7555 NOTE: So both chains are authentic. b. "There is no marriage except with a Walee, and the Sultaan is the Walee for whomever there is no Walee." [reported by Aa'ishah(r)] [Ahmad, Ibn Maajah] Shaykh Al Albaanee declares it authentic in Saheeh Al Jaami' vol. 2, no. 7556. 3. THE WITNESSES "There is no marriage except with a Walee, and trustworthy witnesses." (Wa Shaahidee 'Adl) [reported by Umraan, and Aa'ishah(r)] [Bayhaqee] Shaykh Al Albaanee makes the takhreej of it in Irwaa Al Ghaleel no.'s 1839, 1858, 1860 He declares it authentic in Saheeh Al Jaami' vol. 2, no. 7557 b. "There is no marriage except with a Walee, and two witnesses." [reported by Abi Moosaa] [At-Tabaraani in Al Kabeer] Shaykh Al Albaanee makes the takhreej for it in Irwaa Al Ghaleel no. 1839, 1858. He declares it authentic in Saheeh Al Jaami' vol. 2, no. 7558. 4. THE CONTRACT In It'haaf Al Karaam, I found the following: (1018) And from Mu'aawiyah ibn Hakeem from his father that he said, "I said, 'O Messenger of Allaah(Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam), What is the right that one of our wives has over us?' So he said, 'Feed her when you eat, clothe her when you wear clothes, and do not strike her on the face, and do not revile her or make hijrah from her, except in the house.' [recorded by Ahmad, and Abu Daawood, and Nisaa'ee, and Ibn Maajah, and Bukhaaree with some parts of it being Mu'allaq, and it was authenticated by Ibn Hibbaan, and Imaam Al Haakim] Shaykh Mubaarakfooree also considers it to be Saheeh. It can be found on p. 304 of It'haaf Al Karaam.
5. THE DOWRY "The best dowry is the most easy." [reported by 'Uqbah Ibn Aamir] [Abu Daawood, Ibn Maajah, it was authenticated by Imaam Al Haakim] Shaykh Al Albaanee makes the Takhreej for it in Irwaa Al Ghaleel no. 1923 He declares it authentic in Saheeh Al Jaami' Vol. 2, 3279 The following is taken from It'haaf Al Karaam p. 307: Chapter: The Dowry (1027) From Anas(r) from the Prophet (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) that he freed Safiyyah, and made her manumittance, her dowry. [Agreed Upon] Shaykh Mubaarakfooree mentions that there are some Fiqh differences among the scholars regarding manumittance as a dowry, but the overall presence of a dowry in marriage can be established from this authentic Hadeeth in general. And Verily Our Lord The Most High Knows Best.
Source: https://www.troid.ca/index.php/women/nikaah/158-some-authentic-ahaadeethon-marriage.
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