Pet Play Adoption Contract

Pet Play Adoption Adoption Contract Parties Who are the parties to the contract? Owner/Dominant/Master/Mistress: pet/submissive:

Duration How long will this arrangement last? Commencement date: Duration:

Goals and Purpose of the Contract What do each of the parties wish to achieve? Is this a training phase only? Owner ‟s goals:

pet‟s goals:

Alternatively, combined goals:

Owner s responsibilities ’

What does the Owner agree to provide? Owner ‟s responsibilities:

Examples: a safe environment for play, all equipment, food, accommodation, emotional support, training.

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Availability of pet to Owner When does the agreement apply? Times: Examples: 24/7, only on weekends.

pet s Behavior ’

How may/must the pet act toward the Owner and others? Etiquette & Protocols:

Not allowed:

Examples: kneeling, eye contact, posture.

Communication Methods of communicating with the Owner and others? Communication rules:

Examples: discussing the relationship and the rules is always permitted, only with permission, email only, though a journal.

pet s responsibilities ’

What does the pet agree to provide? pet‟s responsibilities:

Examples: domestic servitude, sexual servitude, foot massages, daily chores

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Scope of Contract What is the pet willing to give control over? Is the submission sexual/servitude or both? Is it a total power exchange? Areas of control:

Areas free of control:

Examples: genitals, sexual slavery, clothing & dress, hair style & length, l ength, domestic chores, diet & exercise, work.

pet s veto ’

Does the pet have a right to say „no‟ to commands? If so, when? Circumstances of Veto power:

Examples: when the pet is concerned for her/his safety, when in public.

Exclusivity How exclusive is the arrangement? May others be involved? If yes, how?

Examples: closed relationship only, open relationship, threesomes only.

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Activities & Limits What are the parties ‟ likes, areas of interest and soft and hard limits? What do these mean? A soft limit means: A hard limit means:

Owner ‟s areas of interest/likes:

Owner ‟s soft limits:

Hard limits:

pet‟s areas of interest/likes:

pet‟s soft limits:

Hard limits:

Examples: spanking, restraint, electricity, role play, humiliation.

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Safe words What are the parties ‟ safe words and signals? Explain what is to happen once a safe word or signal is called. Safe word for slow down: Safe word for stop: Safe signal for slow down: Safe signal for stop: Examples: “Yellow”, “Red”, dropping an object in hand.

Punishment How may the Owner punish the pet for misbehaving? Allowed:

Not allowed:

Examples: flogging, corner time, loss of privileges, figging.

Reward How may the Owner reward the pet for behaving? Allowed:

Not allowed:

Examples: treats, gifts, verbal praise, special s pecial allowances.

Collar Will the pet have a collar? What kind? When must the collar be worn? Page | 5

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Collar rules:

Example: the pet will have a training collar only. At the end of the contract, the Owner may award the pet with a permanent collar.

Names/titles How must the parties refer to each other? Owner ‟s name/title in public: In private: pet‟s name/title in public: In private: Examples: “Sir ”, “Mistress”, “Peter ”, “kitty”.

Confidentiality Are the parties required to keep this Contract confidential at all times? What about photos, videos of the parties? Rules of confidentiality:

Example: the parties must never disclose this contract or its contents c ontents to others.

Alteration What are the rules about making changes to the contract? Rules of alteration:

Example: any change must be agreed to in writing and signed by both parties.

Switching Is switching allowed and if so, what are the rules? Rules of switching:

Example: the Owner may require a switch of roles during any scene.

Termination Who may terminate? What happens once the contract comes to an end? Rules of termination:

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Example: the parties may reenter the Contract if they so desire.

Planning/negotiating scenes Who is responsible for planning scenes? How will the parties negotiate scenes? Rules for scene negotiation:

Example: safety, location, roles, equipment, areas of the body, pain, aftercare.

Disclosure Is there anything the other party should know? Disclosures:

Examples: sexually transmissible diseases, medical conditions, phobias, physical impairments.

Additional Rules Any other rules, terms or conditions not mentioned above? Additional rules: Examples: daily chores/activities, maintaining a journal.

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Additional Rules (cont…)

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