Oral Sex Guide for Men

Women want to know if they are good at giving a man oral sex, and how to give mo re pleasure through this intimate act. Men want to know how to ask for this most favored activity. Oral sex is intricate, playful and can give any couple more s atisfaction in their lovemaking and in their relationship. 1 Popular sexologist Dr. Ava Cadell gives readers the tips and tricks they need to know for pleasurable oral sex, including overviews of male and female sexual an atomy and how each part works. veryone, from the sexual novice to the seasoned l over, will benefit from these step-by-step techniques for giving and receiving. 2 Almost all women enjoy oral sex that does not involve the genitals. They see it as romantic as it shows how much their man loves them. But when it comes to havi ng their genitals kissed, licked and sucked, things can be rather different. 3 I believe the reason for so many divorces these days is simply that couples are lazy about their sex lives. Good oral sex can keep a man satisfied and faithful to you even when the wrinkles start to come and intercourse isn't what it used t o be. 4 Hey "Bad Sex", I feel the same way. My boyfriend's idea of our sex life is me gi ving him oral sex. I really don't know what to do about it. 5 Most women realize that men are concerned about the smell and taste. It can rang e from pleasant to sour to uric tasting. We women realize this and are just as c oncerned about it as men. 6 The term for oral sex for men is "fellatio. It comes from the Latin, fellare, to suck. Fellatio can be profoundly symbolic. 7 Oral sex for women is called cunnilingus and most women find it very exciting. C unnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vagina with your mouth and tongue . It is a delicate skill, requiring patience, practice and dedication. 8 Don t be afraid of outright asking. Just like penises, every vagina and vaginal ar ea is a little different. Some women are a little more sensitive than others and some clits stick out more than others. 9 A woman who can jack her man off to orgasm will be his best lover ever. Play wit h it, feel it, kiss it, jack it, talk to it. Press it to your breasts; rub it ag ainst your face and lips. 10 There s a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, th is is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who s a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. 11 Once your partner has been aroused by non-genital oral contact, she'll probably be very receptive to genital oral sex. This is the best time to try, but go gent ly if she has any qualms. The best position is probably with the woman lying fla t on her back with legs apart. 12 Bear in mind that a lot of men don?t come through the oral part of oral sex alon e. They need more vigorous stimulation if they?re to let themselves tip over int o orgasm. If that?s you or your partner, make sure the hands are as active as th e mouth during oral sex. 13 Many lovers are just plain selfish. Both men and woman. The old clich?s "Slam Ba m, Thank You Maam. Implying that the man is the selfish one. It has been my expe rience that there is enough selfishness in sexual relationships to go around. 14

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