Muse Method @ PUA and Social Skills @ 2nd Edition

MUSE TM METHOD PUA & SOCIAL SK I LL S nd 2 Edition Written by Dr Perry Barnes How to suddenly Get Girls, Become a Social Giant and Find Yourself Approaching easily Copyright Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media Creative Commons Protected

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from cliffslist.com as featured in Neil Strauss Book “The Game” Hi Perry, Thanks for your email and the book. Can you tell me a little about what you've done with it so far - has this been distributed much out there? If so, what have you been charging for it? It looks to me like it's up as a free download on that site. My team will take a closer look at it and we'll let you know what we think but I am interested. Thanks again. Best, Clifford

[u][b]~Matticus~[/b][/u] says: Dude, I think I love you [u][b]~Matticus~[/b][/u] says: This system is perfect, I had no idea it existed you're writing a book? [u][b]~Matticus~[/b][/u] says: wow awesome, i'd love to read it. Ash says: He is a genius.. he writes poems,, His song are No.1 in the world he can speak Portugese he speaks ok Hindi His voice is sexy! his blue eyes are sooooooo nice Daniela says: i will undress for you slowly Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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for real Daniela says: and then i will lay over you and caress your whole body kiss you lick you rub my body against yours [Ting][ティング][くにます ちん][陈国升][陳國升][진국승][팅윈선] says: i'm 70% through your paper, some good stuff in there. thankyou for writing it. Guto says: lol only you to make me laugh lmao i like your ideas, u could become very rich, you can sell ideas...

Mario says: welcome o que voce tiver duvida pode me perguntar que terei o maior prazer em responder-lhe ok Mario says: thank you my brother Mario says: ok I'm learning now you are my teacher Ash says: let me see you for a min.. after that I go to sleep ok? Ash says: Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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you look like, the genius! Ash says: marry me i realise you need a word to say in that situation [c=6]Fernanda Rodrigues------6diass[/c] says: you read my mind my opinion is not that of the world i'm one person ~Mary Ève~ says: lol yes it is Gustavo says: i really don't know what kind of man you are, sometimes you seem to be a teacher, sometimes... a musician and sometimes... a entrepreneur...

Ash: impressive! Ash: You are really brilliant! Ash: u can speak about any thing under the sky! Ash: wow Ash: !!!!!!!!! mar says: You can't deny you're funny! mar says: you're so original! mar says: No, you are always original and when you have time you becom genial!! I've never met someone like you! Lívia says: você é ótimo! Figuraça!! (cool person) Hi Thank you your congratulation. I congratulate you too. Merry Cristmas and Happy New Year! Great successes and Heap (pot ?) of money! Come some time. We'll drink wine\vodka. Andrey

Dear Muse First of all, I have to apologize to you, sometimes I talk too lightly. I mean, with people like you one is in awe in a way. I am puzzled and amazed (apart from my teachers I have never met someone like you). You are not an ordinary guy! ( here my small talk is getting through again...) Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Can you tell me who is Muse? not the writer, or the professor but the real one...(am I asking too much?) What does it mean that you like young girls? (sorry, but I had to ask) I am pouring out my thoughts here, I apologize again. Thanks for everything...hope to hear from you soon... Mar Silmara says: this is so great Silmara says: is it your idea Silmara says: wow i love it Adorei....ameiii....lindooooooo!!! Só você...você é único!!! Acabei de chegar de viagem,estou muito cansada. Quero te dizer...parabéns pelo seu jeito de ser,amável,adorável,etc. Você chegou e me conquistou,foi tudo muito lindo e rápido. I fell in love with você.Então not want to isso.Sofrer that life is so beautiful!. beijão lindoooooooo.Seja feliz.E you for everything! Que você consiga arrumar uma namorada que cuide de você com amor,carinho e respeito. Seje muito feliz,pois,você é só você é o unico e absoluto. Estarei sempre pensando em você. Obrigado por tudoooo. Vou tomar um drink e dormir. Ouça sempre Marisa Monte e lembre de mim se puder. xau

Daniela says: you´re beautiful, smart, skilled, funny, good talking Ash says: the girls need you.. it is more correct @n@ says: Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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por isso existem lugares inisqueciveis @n@ says: coisas inexplicaveis @n@ says: e pessoas incomparaveis/and people incomparable @n@ says: like you @n@ says: yes @n@ says: like u luis @n@ says: this poem its for you Elena: “omg, you're going to be famous, and i'm going to say, I know him” Darlene: “I feel it, when you speak, things change” Cristina "u are mysterious, funny, teacher, smart...anything else?" Ivanir says: voce e o melhor Ivanir says: voce e um professor" estraordinario" Roberta says: see Roberta says: now i can give as many compliments you want Muse says: 20 Roberta says: smart Roberta says: honest Roberta says: handsome Roberta says: nice voice Roberta says: good player Roberta says: now ... how many??? Roberta says: straight to the point Roberta says: not easy going person but ok Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Roberta says: funny Roberta says: hilarious actually Roberta says: confident Roberta says: thats it Saumu Lwembe: = ) , thats what you make me: smile. It was one of the greatest evenings I spent on friday....spontainety sweeps me off my feet... pushes you to self motivate and learn new things everyday. I love learning...I believe you cant get to the point of saying I am too intelligent to learn, for either you will be wearing blinkers in life, or be too stupid to be helped....hey, thats my philosophial..you get me! Lívia says: Luiz é o "cara"

Ash says: :) teaching is a good profession.. only genius can write books... you are a genius then.. you are so funny.. then you must be a good teacher.. pupil wont sleep in your class :) my pleasure too.. when will you log in again? Francesco: I Like the way you push me into sets

Muse Method is a many DHVs >thus making you a better person Making people Feel good is central You are going to be the greatest person she has ever met and thus she will immediately or eventually accept you You will go For your type or use other hbs to get the girls you want You will take and make opportunities

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IF you can Pick Up one girl you can Pick Up every girl

I have and can: fuck a girl inside an hour get a french kiss in 5 minutes get a phone number in 5 minutes get an email/facebook/msn in 2 minutes kiss 2 girls in one day sleep with and date married women fuck and kiss women who are paying me for my business date 4 girls who work with me inside a month open 6 girls at 1 bus stand keep 2 part time gfs who I meet when I want Skills Include: cold reading compliments game opinion/direct/compliment/situational openers nlp commands/anchoring life coaching

How to Write Poems DHVs > Become the DHV Maker How to be funny + How to be funny and alpha together Be clever The Best openers for every person Persistence What girls tell me > actual hbs and their collected advice/ideas Practise Anything can be a routine

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Credit to the amazing people who made this book and knowledge possible, Mystery, Style, Me, Badboy, Mehow, Zan, Juggler, In10sec, Bishop and of course Richard Bandler who started this phenomena directly or indirectly (his flirting seminar from 1988 and nlp which he created were the catalyst for all this community) Thanks to you all

Quick notice from Muse: I am admiting that I always get kinder like a kid in a sweet store when one of my newest books comes from the publishers. I think i'll be patient and serious, anticipating tearing open the box until I'm nearly in the back door and start reading it from front to reviews, expecting that it create as much of an improvement to anyone who reads it immediately as I did think it shall when I sent off the last editing. As my version of Muse Method: PUA and Social Skills jumped into my porch, I had relief and delight, and the early compliments suggest that this is the finest hour and most completely usable book. No big Amazon campaign here, but I do want to include added value to someone who downloads the book and express special appreciation for these of you who accept to share it with your families, works, colleagues and true friends. Lean back, relax, and dance the fandango - the life you totally transform could just be your own...

Since the human mind first wakened from slumber, and was allowed to give itself free rein, it has never ceased to feel the profoundly mysterious nature of timeconsciousness, of the progression of the world in time,-of Becoming. -HERMANN WEYL

The fact that you’re reading this means you can easily incorporate these new ideas into your life Jamie Smart

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Contents feeling content and still learning Even More Successful Times and Field Reports

Necessary, Effective and Doable with your current skills section Have a plan or routine for every section discussed here. Be Ready to Do Every part and Complete All the Sections, she's just a girl. When you Become a Master Pick Up Artist you can pick her up again, by then, maybe you want other things.

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(Location Change:Instant Date) Open > Attract > Comfort > Kiss > Fuck (Number, Email, Facebook) Openers Invent an original opener based on the principles of each opener: Who lies more, men or women? (who ACTION more, men or women?) Do you think men really understand what a woman wants and needs? The Oceans in the world... what are the names of them all? (continents) My friend's gf goes out to bars and kisses girls for fun is that cheating? (2 part) I ask because he's getting annoyed about it and saying he's going to kiss other girls. Girl, is my finger not on the pulse of men. So u think its ok and he's too emotional. I Like you and i'm going to get to know you, Tell me about yourself (direct)

Notes for openers: Always give a time constraint. “I only have a moment/my friend is waiting for me.” (In Portuguese: Eu so posso um momento) Give a reason why you are asking, either as part of the question or be ready to explain why e.g. “me and my friends were talking about it and we couldn't decide” Openers are sometimes suitable for different types of people. For example, who lies more... men or women. Young girls love this (17 to 25 years), older women sometimes went cold or started an argument (LOL). Then I did think “men have lied to the girls for 20 years and so of course the girls go crazy for you”. I ask girls outside the city about the oceans of the world and they asked what the f**k are you asking me that for and don't respond much. Inside Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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The City women make all of the conversation for you with this opener. Its perfect. In fact many times I open with “what are the 5 oceans called” she doesn't know the answer. So I ignore her and she re-starts the conversation. I Get her Number 5 minutes after. Use an opener 10 times before you decide its value.

Body Language, Energy and Smile are More Significant than what you say.

Body Language: Stand Side On to hbs when you Open. This Makes hbs Feel Comfortable and Often they turn to you and become attracted wanting to make you like them. This is also Excellent Body Language for attracting hbs always. Almost every girl I have met becomes Attracted to me when I do this body language. If you do a Direct Opener with your hands on your hips Like a Super Hero and a Smile Like You are The Man, then its ok to face them directly. When your body language is side on hbs will often look you up and down more. This body language gives them the opportunity to Notice Your Good Features. Situational Openers: look around and find something you can ask a question about, an open question, which requires her to talk for 30 seconds to 1 minute. e.g. standing in the supermarket queue, “hey I just have a second, which is the best brand of cigerettes to buy?” hb: “why?” “because I usually smoke with others I don't buy them so i'm not sure which are the best” > follow with your 2nd routine.

PS: juggler says a person usually doesn't listen to what you say to start a conversation. They are checking your voice, clothes, attitude, how you make them feel. Often when I Open with the same openers I always use I make my voice deep, smooth and relaxed because I realise this makes more sets hook. Its Like standard opener hooks 4/10 sets + good body language 6/10 sets + good voice 8/10 sets. This is why you must do many many openers because you become aware of what works and keep doing it. I was tired once, I opened a set and not well. Then after I realised my body language wasn't right, or my voice wasn't great, or that she didn't speak english. Often in cities 2/10 sets don't speak english very well. An experienced pua realise this and adapt. Change your opener. Make it visual, one of my openers is “does my hair look better up or down?” and I move it up and down (Muse Exclusive), this makes a girl giggle, because she's telling you how She likes you. Habits for Opening: Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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open the 1st hb you meet in the day because its good to change into conversation mode. Speaking to a person gets the energy in your body moving and switches you into the same good feelings of successful conversations Learn new openers if you need motivation to open, its good to have routines because they are reliable, to keep pu exciting learn a new opener. It gives you more flexibility and allows you to open 5 sets in the same location with different words

Hook Point and Attraction Routines (with DHVs) Cs vs Us (smiles) I noticed your smile, I saw a documentary and a c smile means you are unfriendly, and a u smile means you are friendly (can be either way) (can say this various ways and the point is that you are teaching her something) Koala bear vs penguin my friend was explaining the way men and women think... women think in feelings, men are logical and when they accomplish something they want something else... is that correct? Thumb War (Kino Routine) best friends test (2 sets) how long have you been friends? Oh my god, I have to give you the best friends test? Right, ready? Do you both use the same shampoo? (they look at each other) stop stop, you passed. People who are best friends Your routine should show that your value is high. High Value things include: sense of humour, cocky funny, knowledge of women, teach her something, make her have fun, tell her a story Use Openers to Hook: Mystery said Use 3 or 4 openers until the set opens. It does work from my experience. If you have 3 openers in your memory then Use Them until she starts talking. Ploughing is another community principle which is similar. Hook Point: (Style's term) is when she likes you more and is staying to talk with you. Capture Her Attention. She can Become Interested on the opener, the hook routines or the comfort routine. Maybe She Likes You and she becomes interested when you Kiss Her. With Practice you shall notice the hook point and realise which stage you are at.

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Comfort and Rapport Routines Palm Reading: See Extra Paper (Easiest Comfort Routine)

Video Demonstration: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zT9y1YEUjy0 Handwriting Analysis These routines she often remembers for 7 days to a month sometimes 6 months. A girl I did the cube on, we went for a date after a 6 month gap and she could still remember her cube. These routines can take up to 10 to 15 minutes which gives her time to become attracted to you on a different level. They give you a reason to isolate and continue the conversation. They are consistent, you can 95% of the time get a solid phone number after one of these routines. Muse Favourites: Horoscopes and Star Signs: Grab a newspaper (free ones in london), Open to the Star Signs page and Put in your Pocket. After the hook point routine ask “what's your star sign?”. From Here you have several options, you can read it to her in normal voice or your bedroom voice (both options have benefits). You Read her Star Sign and laugh which Makes Her Curious, then let her have it. She may ask your star sign which you can extend with “guess” or Tell Her it if she doesn't ask. Poetry: Write a poem about her, with her or Read her a preprepared one. They all fit into a women's romantic fantasy. You Become the Prince. If its about her you show an understanding of her deeper than she expected, you DHV with writing ability (not many guys can write poems) and she shall probably keep it for some time. A girl phoned me after I wrote her a poem and I didn't have her number until then. If you write a poem with her you are teaching her something and sharing with her (kinder Like a couple). An extra point is to do things together. She often wants guys to share activities with her. If you read a preprepared one then you can select the most romantic amazing poem ever. I recommend this website: http://eltiempohabitado.wordpress.com/poemas-en-ingles or you can find poems with nlp in them which have a slightly stronger effect. An nlp poem usually wont Make a girl jump on you (it can), its one part of the seduction process. A poem, play a guitar song for her, massage her and dance with her then She's likely to jump on you. Complete the process Open/Hook/Comfort/Number/Kiss/Fuck. Process is More Significant than what you do. Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Get Phone Number and Contact Details best number close is: u got any contact to u always works HB:" u mean phone number?" phone number is alrite Type 07 2009). 643 987 you say

in your phone and give it to her (Perry Barnes Exclusive Copyright The idea is that she will start saying the number in her head. 07 22 because its automatic to remember all your phone number when the 1st part.

If you have been speaking for 5 minutes then an email is easier to get than a phone number. If your 1st email is good then you can get her from there. “Do you have email?” is the David D. phrase. He also suggests as they are writing the email say “and Just write your number there too”. My aim is to get solid numbers so they anticipate answering my call. If I Meet a girl at a bus stop, we talk on the bus then we get off at the same stop (offer to swap numbers as she's getting off “we should swap numbers” or “i'll call you later” she'll say something “ok” or “you don't have my number). This is 3 locations and the more locations you both go to the more familiar you feel to her (this concept is discussed by all the top puas). So after 15 to 30 minutes talking, 3 locations and probably the 3 main parts of seduction opener/attraction/comfort I prefer to get my numbers around this time. This is my system and if you find an easier way then use that. improving and I suggest you do too.

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You can Make girls call you. If you talk to a girl for many hours every day, which is easy with msn or skype; then one day you are not there. She will often call you to discover where you are. This is assuming she already has your number. So its a good idea to suddenly stop talking to a girl sometimes, go and meet some more; always have lots of friends/contacts.

Maximum Audacity Kiss The Timing of the Kiss depends how you meet them. If you Meet them on the train or bus then Kiss Them at the 3rd Location e.g. get off the bus or train and Kiss Them at the bus Start or the train station. Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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If you Meet Them in a friend/business/social context then 2 to 4 hours is a time to Do It. In Fact the girl often makes it easier for you about this time. She Stands in Front of You Smiling (KISS ME KISS ME), maybe with head to one side. If you are rude to her she just giggles. Kiss Her using your preferred style or JUST KISS HER. Go for the Kiss 2 or 3 times. Girls want to Feel wanted, many are not sure about their appearance and if a girl thinks logically about kissing you when she has a boyfriend then She probably wont Kiss You. If You Persistent with the Kiss or Kisses she will eventually give in. Its natural and She Likes You. Also I Read something Like this in a romantic novel (lol, yes i'm reading one, its awesome research) written by a girl (of course). “if a guy wants a girl then he goes to kiss her, and that's it” on the afc days I had some girls hanging around me for ages and ages waiting for me to Kiss Them and I didn't. stop it. Go to Kiss Every Girl who seems to Like You on some level, of all ages, types and countries. Thus Discover From Experience. Good Routines: “I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now....” I Like This one and her response can vary, depending on how much of a player or a romantic she is. A Kisser said “not yet” then I kept quiet for 20 seconds and said “i can't concentrate, if I kiss you then I can concentrate on this” so we do. A girl who was a player said don't and I continued anyway. Most nos a girl says are playing or logical, she wants to kiss you and wants you to Make it Happen. A Kiss which I do 2 or 3 times is to Get the Girl on your Lap (for example she's sitting near and you pull her onto you quickly), sitting on top of you. From Here its “Kiss?” if she does on the lips “you can do better than that”. Then Kiss.

Fuck Her Style's Line: “if I let you take me home, do you promise to feed me?” she may not agree with you, if her body language shows she wants you then proceed appropriately e.g. wait for her to complete work. When you Invite Her to Your Place give a reason “you have to hear this new cd” “come and listen to me play guitar, you can play harmonica” “i'm going Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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to cook for you” “i have a new tv and you have to test it with me”. The attitude is Just Get Her To Your Place. You may find yourself using the best method for you based on your situation, complete this part of the process with something. Hotels: these cost £40+ a night and they can make your seduction easier. If your hb is married then you can't go her house, and the suggestion of a hotel can trigger her romantic notions. Be quite direct about this “we could get a hotel tonight, i'm working until 6pm”. LMR: women give kinder last minute resistance (term coined by mystery), you may ask her to move to your bedroom and she says nooooo (smiling because she wants to), in this situation your behaviour can be “ok” then continue with something. An example of this, a new girl moved into my shared house and we are kissing for some time, I pointed to upstairs and she said noooo (smiling) and then I go ok like I didn't care, which I kinder did not (when you do this game for some time you care less about specific girls, I already kiss her so I go to my computer). 5 minutes later she comes back into the kitchen (I was doing stuff on my laptop), then she suggested we go upstairs (excellent) so we do and she waits by the door. Before I tell you what I do I want to share another significant concept that I you only hear from muse method. *women want to know you want them. I read an article when I was 12 years, women conversating about sex. A woman says she takes off her bra and she always lets the guy take off her knickers because then she knows he really wants her. Women want to feel wanted, a lot of the game improves when you realise this. Many times girls see if you choose them instead of another girl, and they'll tell you after “i would have been so annoyed if you'd chosen her”. They stand 1mm from your lips and move away when you go to kiss them because they want to feel desired so I grab her hand and pull her across the room and she flies onto the bed, then the rest continues as nature intends as for sex tips, hold her back in some way (her arms behind her back, put your hands into her hair so the kissing and blowjobs are in your control, women like to be submissive similar to some male fantasies) tell her or show her what you like then she does it more (she wants to make you happy). porn movies can be educational for this purpose, for example, in almost every porn movie the woman starts playing with the front of her pussy and then makes the oh my gods noises, the same way we know exactly how to turn ourselves on, so do they. Copy them. Nature Pretty Much does the rest for you, so hop on the good feet

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From Juggler's Forum http://forum.charismaarts.com/viewtopic.php?f=73&t=8690 Direct Game and Where It's Been Taking Me PlayfulConfidence “Excuse me for a moment, but I had to let you know that you are so cute.” Stand still, chest out, shoulders relaxed, hands out, direct eye contact. Outcome 1 – The Movie Moment – Eye contact persists, normal conversation begins Outcome 2 – Playful Direct – She smiles at you, playful banter ensues. Outcome 3 – Challenge Back – She’s not into it, you ask, “But what else do you have going on for you?” This has been my opener for the past several weekends. Everywhere I have gone – nightclubs, restaurants, a college campus – I have used nothing but this opener. I will (gently) push guys out of the way, interrupt cell phone conversations, even stop groups in the middle of their meal – all to tell her I think she’s cute. A couple of hours ago, I stopped a girl in the gym just as she began to start running… turns out she runs two miles everyday BEFORE cheerleading practice, watches Bring It On with her cheerleader friends, and has brains to match her body. Direct Game Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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It is the next step in my personal journey of self-development. For too long I have run away from my sexuality and have been ashamed of my desires. Now, I am embracing my longings, listening to my natural instincts… I want to meet her and make love to her. I want to create a beautiful moment between two beautiful people I have begun to incorporate unabashed sexuality into my warm and friendly vibe. I touch women on their waists (very sexy!), put my arm around them, poke them in the belly button, squeeze their hands. In return, I have been touched alot more as well… women have transitioned from only touching me in the arm to touching me on the chest and wrapping their arm back around me When I first began my journey, going indirect was what I needed to get myself out there and talking to people. I needed to show myself that I could go out there, have a great time with many different people, and learn at the same time. I can put out the friendly, warm vibe with consistent competence (and excellence). Now though, it’s time to step it up a notch. The Personal Benefits It Feels Right. I am proud of the way I am playing the game. I’m playing the game my way. I’m being genuine with people… I’m upfront and honest with my intentions. I am putting myself out there, making my intentions known, letting myself be vulnerable to harsh scrutiny, group rejection, or negative reactions. Here I am – love me, hate me, whatever. I am making quite clear that I desire you – no apologies, no excuses. Undergo Scrutiny… And Come Out Unscathed Some people did not like what I was doing. Some people did not like me. Jealous guys would try to tool me, insecure boyfriends and husbands would stare me, and fellow female friends would immediately focus the attention on themselves. If somebody “calls me out,” I laugh… I am who I am, I want what I want, and I’m straight-up honest and upfront. To these people, I say simply this… Oh well. Most people, however, like the straight up honesty. I’ve had guys tell me the like the fact I had the balls to tell their friend she’s cute. Girls have told me they my honesty and sincerity. I’ve had some great, amazing interactions being direct… for me, it’s calling out the elephant in the room from the get go and it’s standing up for yourself, who you are, and what you want. Being Genuine Being alpha is an ever ongoing debate within the community. That answer is different depending on the man… just like whatever your style of game happens to be. In the end, if it feels right to you, follow that instinct. As for me, I accept who I am and I accept my desires. I make no apologies Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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for that. I’m out there to build genuine connections with amazing women. Like me, great. Hate me, that’s cool too – we’re all entitled to our opinions. I know I’m a great man, somebody who’s becoming better with each passing day. I’m looking for women who enrich my life and I in turn will enrich theirs. What’s Next Escalation/Time-Bridging My success is limited to the interaction… transitioning/escalating from there is still territory in which I am unfamiliar. I have begun telling them straight-up to give me their number… at which point I’ll flip out the cell phone. However, admittedly most of the time I just say, ‘good meeting you, have a nice day.’ Taking Advantage of Opportunities Occasionally, after the moment, I’ll realize that I missed a perfect opportunity… a woman was into me and I didn’t realize an opportunity was presenting itself. Being in the moment and perceiving the subtext of the interaction is something I’m still working on. If a woman likes me, I gotta do something about it. Integrating My Identities Together Like most aspiring ladies’ men, infusing my two identities together is something I’m working on. Me 2.0 has yet to be released…. It’s still in testing. However, the progress is coming along quite nicely. Now, it’s time to ramp up the work on myself. Conclusion During certain stages of my development, I have questioned where I was going, if I was making progress, and if I could be any good at this. Lately, I have shown myself that I am making progress, that I can be good at what I do, and most importantly, that I like who I am becoming. Ultimately, nothing can stop me... it is only a matter of persistence and desire. Kurt

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3 minute phone number it was like a 2-3 set. i do a situational opener muse says: bragging doesn't exist tell me genius [email protected] says: i was like, what is that? (pointing to some coffee drink) then the normal things happens, what's your name, where you live, where you from bla bla then, i'm like, what's your name? huh? how do you spell your name? muse says: awesome [email protected] says: so I get my phone, and try to spell her name. show it to her, (i've spelt it stupidly wrong, like double letters, whatever) then she says, here's how you spell it. [email protected] says: then i'm like, put your number in there then i start to talk to the bf while she's putting her number in. i didn't even give a reason. i was really happy, cos i leaned back a lot during the interaction.

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you (kelma) are pretty and good singer she's like "i am bad person, i have no personality" me: i didn't say that u know this pretty girls, some of them hate being called pretty they want people to notice their brains so i never notice hers and she loves me surprise surprise

Techniques and Things which Help and Make You a Better PUA DHVs, Cool Lines and Negs You can say these at various times. The delivery is the best part. Pose or smile to enhance them. A slow nodding of the head is cool and gets them to agree unconsciously. When a comedian keeps a straight face while telling a joke is a good skill to use. This makes you look “for real”.

Do you believe in love at 1st sight or should I walk in again? I'm a quiet and chased man. In the west we read from left to right. (Muse Exclusives) don't pretend you can read hey, don't touch there, that's my special place

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actions always are stronger than arguments i like dhvs to be physical when possible so if you write her a poem or play her a song or make a picture of you together its stronger than saying something even if its an amazing language this is an idea to play with because with some examples its not true, buying a girl dinner is usually not useful (zan does it) kissing her is more significant than playing her a song

Rarity and Enhancing what you have Muse says: a study was on the radio women who do speed dating they find themselves surrounded by sexy guys then they raise their bar and often girls went home alone i see this alot a girl comes from brazil or india they have no blue eyes there they make my sarge much easier even if they are a 9 or 10 [Ting][ティング][くにます ちん][陈国升][陳國升][진국승][팅윈선] says: ic Muse says: hb on the bus the other day looks quite similar to those girls made my sarge as hard as possible despite i was reading her very positive body language Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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everyone has blue eyes where i live for example [Ting][ティング][くにます ちん][陈国升][陳國升][진국승][팅윈선] says: interesting you say blue eyes, i tried that one time, blue contacts, but no one could really see, lol. but, carry on they say about women's make up lololol i have some varied metaphors i just noticed that it should only enhance what you already have similar with dress sense i think blue contacts is excellent in a system without blue summary: if you are rare in your system its easier to pick up high quality hbs >its easier to pick up older women if you're the only young guy interested in her >its easier to pick up a girl if you're the only celebrity interested in her >mystery is an example of this in that he's probably the only magician interested in her

Muse's Religion some girls are religious aghargagrghrahgrahgragrgargahgrara well, if they are fixed in one behavior we can adapt around them we can attach ourselves to their behaviours, hb says: i'm going to church muse says: pray for me hb says: yes a lot hb says: kisses (she wants rewarding for her behaviour) and now when she prays she'll think about me even god and muse may become linked hey I didn't invent it, just make use of it Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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almost every girl is going to let you go to church with them, they don't consider it a date, if you can sit through the brain washing then this is one way to progress your interaction, also if you have good nlp anchoring abilities you can add her feelings about church to you another routine around this “you know all that praying you've been doing” hb: yes “well, it worked, i'm here” hb: hahahahah “u prayed for an amazing perfect superman guy and now you have him” (the idea of this is, i'm quite certain christians just pray for things instead of planning and acting, thus a female prays for her ideal man, I just use their simple father christmas view of the world (wish and get TM) and use it people are always telling me this, that christians are evil maybe this is true, and also you must be proactive and use the predictability of the world to be smarter if people always behave the same you can become smarter every day until you have the perfect formula for how to seduce them (email it to me when you have it: [email protected])

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Reopeners would you like to write poem with me? (90% say yes to your dhv:reopener) (when they're holding a newspaper) have you read the horoscope yet? >say something in a different style from your original opener, if you've said a direct opener an opinion opener is a good reopener Specific Openers Most of the time you can use the same 1, 2 or 3 openers for everything. To give variety and better suited lines here are some specific ones I use Charity Girl in the street: (stop, look at her like you are examining her and say:) “you're pretty, u get 3 minutes” >then she does her selling charity thing and you look not impressed (looking into the distance) > use your own game from here

if you are higher value than her, move Like it sometimes a girl decides if she's going to kiss when she 1st meets u then she thinks its fair game to make and sometimes they are rude they think when i kiss him that makes it ok i've noticed that women who are really meet them often are looking for a kiss

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they seem to be suppressing their attraction, so that they don't giggle continuously in this situation we must go for the kiss every time in fact we need no game she gives us totally happy giggling 1st impression then just lean back don't smile much let her impress us give no reaction to her dhvs kiss at the end of the meeting i remember a specific time she didn't giggle she looked starstruck in a trance when we meet so i gave no dhvs she compliments me i gave almost no response then she invited me to her house this is more piece to add to my game

Romantic Game Making a song or poem with a girl is an excellent DHV. This may only happen 1 or 2 times in a girl's life so you really highlight yourself and she'll definately fight for you if she see's you with other girls. you don't write poems or songs? Relax Muse Method teaches you how How to write a poem (muse method guide)

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start with a title or write it after the poem (u choose) strategies for creating lines: 1. write something that sounds nice (meaning is optional) in fact mix sentences and mix meanings Luis said (20:04): ash walked up the (normal, so now write something crazy) moon ash walked up the moon (makes no sense, so its perfect for a poem) so write 1 sentence Like this a poem I wrote is called Teacher Feature the co>writer Lia wants to write more words so I suggest (say how u feel about teachers, being a teacher, rhyme with my words, comment on my words) (or be descriptive) ex: its like 100s of shining beacons looking up to someone who was the student, answers in their minds, awaiting activation (this is my description of a class of students looking at a female teacher) the Barnes uni of poetry says write 1st thing in your head

from Perry's Poems http://www.scribd.com/doc/4503368/Perrys-Poems-Poemasde-Perry-perrybarnessongsblogspotcom-O-Poeta-Ingles How to Write a Poem a poem does you can just write the title can be your can be

not have to rhyme a collection of thoughts favorite line from the poem the 1st line

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I recommend people write the title 1st then they have a subject to refer to so the title is.... chocolate batteries write everything you think about chocolate and batteries chocolate is... and make it sound poetic the more illogical a poem sounds the better chocolate is the dancing lemon in my bathtub (forces the reader to imagine an original picture) batteries born from catteries, flattery... gets me everywhere (battery born = alliteration ex: Practise makes Perfect 2 of the same letter is easier to say and sounds nice) rhyming: think all the words which rhyme battery:cattery:flattery then write a line from this (this is what I did, shhhhh poet's secret =) you can also bend words to rhyme by change the sound flattery:smattering:matting:tin:inside (take part from the word and rhyme it) my notes to a friend: (write what you think about subject, something which rhymes with my words, change a phrase, comment about what i said) complete a poem with a line which puts a question in the readers mind “and you go into the sky looking for...” Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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or the answer to the question “people don't change they only rearrange ok!” the more poems you write the better you get write 1 for your husband 1 for your daughter 1 for your teacher and then you'll have a pattern happy poeming Ways to Meet People

i don't do dating sites i do language swaps i have profile on 5 websites saying i'm english speaker and they add me most of the time that one was from a poetry website i emailed 10 girls asked if they want to write a poem with me? Social websites can be useful, its the same structure as in field game use a realiable and tested opener, I often get them to teach me something when I send my contact details >lots of websites like this, for music too Robot Girls Muse Exclusive single words which you wrap with conversation, women really enjoy certain words, you'll realise when you have one because the girl freezes and listens totally to how you're saying the word “romance” or “romantic” is a good example as 4 in 10 girls respond very positively to this, so remember the magic words

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e.g. propaganda: example of how to fit in a conversation (propaganda is a smart person's word, she'll feel smart just by talking to you about it, its an inbuilt intelligence dhv) opener: do you think propaganda still exists? Attraction piece: u are such a propaganda princess, always new fairytales for the princes, i'm gonna have to watch you precisely.... if you make an appointment princess: I want to be the princess, show me the love!! chocolate: i'm eating chocolate > hb says: you like chocolate? Of course.... (she'll talk for 20 minutes if you mention chocolate, 2 times hbs offer to send me chocolate for christmas and I live in a different country) marriage: lets get married and make babies... romance/romantic, pleasure = older women words

Groovy Ideas I Hear from Humans who were not puas “i told her she has a lovely bum and she is absolutely in love with me since then” Muse Action: let a girl catch you looking at her bum, then give no attention, either you didn't like her bum in which case she wants to impress you, or you like it butt it doesn't impress you because you always date gorgeous women (she wants you). Also if you're a bit tired, then you can still evaluate who likes you (she'll flick her hair or sit next you when the seat becomes available or give you strong eye contact every 30 seconds). In this situation its better to go for a direct opener because its obvious you like each other so an indirect opinion opener would be seen as lying or you avoided talking to her Direct Openers: “I Like You and i'm getting to know you” “you are so damn sexy and i'm gonna get to know you” >tell me about yourself (what do you want to know = IOI > so continue) credit badboy http://www.badboylifestyle.com

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compliments opener “If I want to be as beautiful as you... how do I do it” “because I realise i'm 8/10 and I want to be a 9/10.... how can I get this extra point” Muse Exclusive: this opener is the most fun to do 1. its a compliment and it feels good to compliment people 2. its loaded with presuppositions for example: i'm good looking, she's good looking, I like to improve, i'm intelligent to have made such a linguistic compliment (they haven't heard one so wordy before), i'm confident, I take what I want women love compliments if they believe you mean them Muse Says: the best way way to give compliments is with presuppositions how to do Presuppositions... More Later you make her feel good and you trick her into feeling good, she fucking loves it consider that to trick her you must be more intelligent than her women want men who are better than them I asked a woman if I could use my hb6 part time girlfriend to make other girls jealous: “if the woman is more beautiful than me, then I want him” >muse arranges to meet her and a younger girl with big breasts to meet at the same time... she totally let her guard down after that

Routine Stacks How to put your routines into the seduction process so you can always seduce the women you want go into the set with 1 piece for each part of the seduction process ready to use:

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with a piece for each of these parts ready, sets are much easier to open so before you go today, decide your Opener, Attraction and Comfort routine and use it in every set, usually just these 3 routines stacked together gets you to the Number/Email stage, just by doing these she will be ready to give you her Phone Number (then Ask for her number whichever way you use) even if you do natural game, you should have a game plan “you are beautiful and i'm going to get to know you” > tell me about yourself > what do you do for work > how many babies should we make > get her number > location change > kiss her if you test new routines which you learn you probably have reliable routines for each stage of the process choose ones which you used before and put them together write 1 or 2 routine stacks here: (1)Opener: (2)Attraction: (3)Comfort: (4)Phone Number: (5)Instant date or Location change: (6)Kiss (7)Fuck

In Field Pua Videos and Audios I recommend watch or listen to these before you go sarging as then you may find yourself automatically using the lines, body language and language patterns Mystery: http://www.megavideo.com/?v=11DYVIG2 this is the best pua in field video I see he uses about 5 to 10 pua techniques here badboy: http://www.megavideo.com/?v=KP9N8RPP showing a cool routine, you can do this standing up too by putting her hand on your shoulder (muse version)

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4 minute get the number by a mehow guy (this looks amazing to a beginner and its quite simple when you do it 10 times, decide to ask for the number after 5 minutes, do it 10 times see what happens) http://www.megavideo.com/?v=2VYJ4PMB supermarket opener: http://www.megavideo.com/?v=OMW8JFW0 Excellent street opener: http://www.charismavideos.com/play.php?vid=90 wayne elise makes the best pua video i've ever seen (yay) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NpGqxRTOLco&feature=related more ways to kiss if she's leaning away from a kiss then kiss her hair various times she'll then kiss you at the next opportunity

i went into a starbucks and there was two 30 to 50 years girls (a 7 and an 8) i put my business card on the notice square and they started talking to me about something she opened me with something then she asked for a kiss on the cheek and a sri lankan girl kissed me on the cheek in a pub 1 time, she did it slowly.... and she touched my cheek with her tongue i wanted to kiss her so much after this so i did it to the starbucks girl and she realised i wanted more so then we kissed for real in front of her friend i was so proud of myself anyway a way to use this is kiss her on the cheek when you 1st meet and then kiss her 5 minutes after Reading this sentence causes rapid learning

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just deliver the dreams Classroom PU college pus > 38 & french girl Workplace PU

have a plan if girl is rude to me i immediately talk to the next one then she's usually receptive and other girl gets jealous and sometimes restarts the conversation you can control your side of the situation not theirs mar says: that's great advice >this gives you perspective and always finale things on a high is what I say >perspective: if you open 10 sets 2 girls won't be good 8 are going to be fantastic so if the 1st girl is awesome and the 2nd, if the 3rd is not good then open a 4th girl who probably shall be awesome too this is a useful pattern which keeps you in a good mind you'll Feel Good again then you can open another 5 sets oh yeah!! She's just a girl a = one of many

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one exercise I suggest to my students is if they have a bit of one-itis (they like 1 girl a lot because she tricked him) go to facebook or orkut (similar) and type there name you may find there are lots of girls with this name, which can make you always open to other girls at various times then, add the girls with who also share that common name as friends, or send them messages saying who you are 10 messages should guarantee 1 to 4 replies if the girl is from another country you may find the other girls have similar qualities to her thus you still get what you want awesome dr alex benzer on abundance consciousness Seems kind of mean, but it's just the way of the world: wealth begets wealth. So even if you don't have a companion, act as if there is an unlimited supply of what you want available to you already. And you know what? There is. Because even if only one thousandth of one percent of the 6.5 billion people in this world are cool enough to be eligible for your companionship, that's, oh, 65,000 folks. That's enough dates to tide you over for a whole month http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-alex-benzer/the-tao-of-dating5-princ_b_227982.html Stories from your Life at some point in your seduction pilgrimage, you'll be having lots of fun times and you can use these as constant new material, a key with these is to only say the parts which give you high value... I mean that maybe you didn't lay the girl, but she invited you back to her house, so you innocently only describe how she invites you to her house then start a new story (its socially acceptable not to mention sex), if a girl didn't kiss you then explain how she stroked your face and only say that part, Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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and then lead into a preprepared routine (I would explain how certain girls have trance eyes when they look at me, or how women from every country do things to me and say its their culture)

[Ting][ティング][くにます ちん][陈国升][陳國升][진국승][팅윈선] says: had a thought in your experience, do you always reward iois luis electim says: hmmmmm various approaches to this well 3 some thoughts about pua a person can either give her no attention or rewards (badboy type) give her too much attention totally over the top, so she's smiling giggling (my style before pua, i still use) or something in between reward her ocassionally reward her if she moves location with u if she kisses u if she compliments u >if she gives her number to you then reward her with a more interesting version of you

Multi Purpose Words

i found Guess is a multi purpose word some words are gold in pua princess guess love chocolate doesn't matter what u say about it

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if i guess 3 numbers of your phone number then you have to give it to me you don't love me yet?! If I dress in my best Princess costume the you'll love me hb: where are we going? You: guess i'm making you a chocolate bath, if you are good your can have it, or its all for me, choose between good and evil... married women muse says: forget your limits as they say married girls should be in your vocab well, i had limited beliefs, i'm sure. if you've not kissed closed a married girl then do it one time and then decide if its good or not marriage is not natural they are born with breasts not a wedding ring natural conversation packed with DHVs i've wanted to write about this for some time, this is how I used to DHV before I found the pua community this section was written by Daryle Dickens in his useful book Twitter Primer for Artists which can be found here: http://www.scribd.com/doc/21753346/Twitter-Primer-forArtists

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A better strategy is to naturally bring up the topic of your work as you go about your tweeting. Just as you would do at that cocktail party. And mention it in ways that do not have to do with sales. “Another morning spent working on this portrait’s tricky eyes. Commissions like this are always a bit more stressful.” “There is magic in watching a photo I’ve been Photoshopping for hours slowly exit the Epson.” “1st draft of the 1st chapter done. Time for that latte I promised myself.” All these examples talk about your art and the fact that you’re an artist without hitting your followers over the head. They also leave out a bit of information that your followers may reply and ask you about. Who is the portrait of? How often do you do commissions? What is the photo of? Is Photoshopping really a verb? What is the book about? Where are you getting your latte? Through these types of tweets you will connect with people and spur on conversations. A much better way to build a fan base that leads to buyers have u noticed this women just extract ideas from men they use the men who want to fuck them for knowledge every girl does it including u (the hb I was talking to) they're not interested in actual sex knowledge is better and shoes hahahahah so they can attract more men with more knowledge

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i am a master of getting free things through flirting to become more relaxed around women you may decide to become a master flirt before I divulge more secrets, here are some of the free or better price things i've got from flirting with humans Natural game to generate natural conversation, think about the things you want to learn or that you love doing for examples, I'm a musician, a teacher and i'm learning investing, so these are on my tongue ready for when I talk to people, I may open with something else and these are available to continue the conversation usually the woman is a musician in some way she sings for the choir is frequent, this leads to me talking about singing techniques she plays piano, “i want to learn piano, where should I start” she's always wanted to sing but doesn't have the courage >i teach her some singing techniques (very easy to get contact details after this) things I love or am very interested in are: 1 2 3

thus, bend the subjects you like into something you can talk about with her, one of the secrets to social abilities is to find commonalities and build the relationship from here Kis sing: some things to realise women who are 16 to 21 are experimenting and often they have no idea how to attract a man, either with words or with the way they dress so you can kiss them by leading them tell them what to do Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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signals: she'll turn her head to the side and smile = waiting for you to kiss her women 22 to 30 usually have some kinder defence to kiss them etc you must be a great player, the best looking guy in the college, dated her friends already, drunk with her somewhere women 31 to 39 know how to dress well, they know what they like, they'll make you wait 5 meetings to kiss and probably won't give contact details on the street, if you are perfect then maybe she could over 40s, all rules go out the door as any 40+ year old is leaving a room just stand by the door waiting for her and kiss her also its easier to lean in and kiss her and consider, by that age they can't anyone to look at them even though they have perfected their dress sense they are better in bed and they are desperate for the validation a 20 something provides if they are 50+ an odd thing seems that they kiss not as much, they might kiss you on the lips and if you want more you may have to make it very clear and lead them well to the improving pua and the seasoned professional it means do you want consistent women and you know about the momentum effect imagine this you date a 19 year old which is easier the next day you have a one night stand with a pretty 41 year old woman, you meet their friends and swap numbers etc Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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building your social network you relax around woman and naturally start using situational openers everyday “i have 2 girlfriends already, I don't give a fck if she doesn't love me” so, no matter what resistance the 20 year old girls say you plough through it and then you have a 20 something girlfriend too eventually you have 5 to 10 girlfriends so you don't care if you gain one or 2 you go for the most beautiful and intelligent women you learn and practise until any girl can be yours within 2 meetings this path can be yours 1 you must decide to date girls you didn't used to find really attractive thus by self discipline you can have every girl you want discipline st

WOMEN RESPECT YOU FOR KISSING THEM when you realise this, its heaven on earth men have competitions with each other so between men the concept of failure existed, didn't it if you go to kiss a women, she is a success she has succeeded in attracting a man women stand around all day hoping a man is gonna seduce them they may turn their head from your kiss and then they give you £2 of free food because you are really helping them rarely can a woman lean in and kiss you they totally respect you for it Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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so go to kiss them all and notice what happens decide to kiss 5 girls in 1 evening and due to the statistics of life 1 of them is going to en joy it whether she says yes or no, its good info use momentum there are various examples of puas using the momentum from opening 5 sets to open more sets and kissing 3 hbs in the evening its also a good habit to have open someone as soon as possible when you go from your house to your bus or train or you walk this gets the ball rolling an example of this recently I opened 5 sets in the day then I decided to go somewhere a gain and I decided to open 3 more sets then I got my 3rd email address of the day (I like emails, everyone has yahoo addresses so I add them to messenger when I get home) another time I kiss a hb after 1:30 minutes then I open more sets on the way home and I got another kiss (2 in 1 day from day game) that set is much more comfortable and the kino just flows naturally she was cold and her knees were exposed so I put my hands on them, to keep her warm (because there is a logical reason (the cold) she goes with it) she put her hands on top of mine Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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I get off the train with her (to get her phone number) we talk for 10 minutes and kiss before my train comes Fucking several things about fucking 1. if you haven't fucked a girl yet, then fuck any girl just to get you starting because experience is good for learning most things and there's a lot of lies around it which you'll find when you do it you may find its a simple thing, sticking your penis in her hole and thrusting is very easy its like user friendly things easy to play and takes some time and practise to master it when you're doing it then read books by sex guru's and improve your techniques plus if you've watched a lot of porn this can help too, the girl's are excited when you rub the clitoris (at the top of her vagina) in most of the videos, if you stick your fingers in and rub the top part inside she becomes excited this is not advanced sex techniques, you can find them later, play the lottery, then develop a system for picking numbers 2. lead her to your bedroom when you're in the house, learn Mystery's lmr techniques, they are his and thus learn them from him, they are like using takeaway's so if you already know takeaway's you transfer them to the sex stage

3. feedback, you'd be surprised how much women don't know about sex and often they keep quiet and hope you don't notice, if you tell her how to do it properly, you'll be leading her, she'll learn something, you'll dhv and you'll find yourself having better sex for longer Routine Stacks I recommend every student learns natural game (direct game, situational openers etc) at some point in their pua evolution even when you do, the system of stacking routines will be useful when you have an opener and an attraction routine which works put them together twin stacks like this are very useful: who lies more, men or women? + best friends test ask her the time + read her palm Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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many women will give you signals if they are interested in the time you do 2 routines like this doing one routine like where is a good bar around here? could just be a guy asking for directions or asking for information after 2 routines they notice that you wanna talk thus they sometimes become more social stacking routines also gives you something to say you can use the stacked material until something situational comes up, like you find that you both do the same job or you both read the same books etc the stack gives you something to say in all situations then you build it to 3 routines opener + attraction + comfort who lies more + best friends test + palm read (for example) when you can do these consistently you can take emails and phone numbers easier, after 10 minutes talking a girl is more likely to give you her contact details

you can build multiple choice into your routine stacks I always did a routine about her teeth, then I thought I should only do that routine if she has good teeth so now as i'm doing my opener I check her teeth, if they aint good I switch to asking her about her job (natural game) who lies more + teeth routine + palm read (for example) + what do you do? So this extra routine gives me a choice to go 2 ways which means I keep more sets going and get more phone numbers and kissing eventually you may want a stack like this opener + attraction + comfort + phone number + kiss + fuck the phone number, kiss and fuck are less linear than the opening part, openers are quite similar

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thus your stack might be more like this opener + attraction + comfort > some time during or after comfort get the phone number > some time before or after the phone number kiss > fuck same day or when its possible according to her dating rules or your player abilities also location changes could be because of comfort or after comfort or whenever is suitable stacks are a general reliable guide which change as you learn new routines and techniques

If fighting is sure to result in victory, then you must fight = sun tzu: the art of war if speaking shall result in seduction, then you must speak = muse: muse method

he is telling me about a girl he really likes and explaining she keeps inviting him places and i said "woman can't kiss a man, you must kiss her, she's inviting u these places to give u the opportunity" Ash says: ohhhhh... yes, u are right.. Women always want the men to make the first move good thinking! luis joia says: nice she must love him because she's sticking with him he's frightened to lose the friendship i know from past experience he only had that fear from lack of choice Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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if he has 3 girls to choose from of that quality he would go for it

i found a useful thing in life: go back to see people once every 3 or 6 months and they appreciate so much that you remember them they Love You they give phone numbers, offer dates etc etc i've kept a girlfriend for 3 years using this system ok, she doesn't want to see me every 7 days the familiarity system does keep us together though Use your environment if she has an umbrella, pull yourself under it (kino) if its cold, hug her, put your hands on her exposed knees use interruptions to escalate oh know, you are getting off the train do you have email? Then you have a reason to get off with her open her 1 minute before the train or bus comes and then you can complete your conversation on the transport, u have a reasons to continue

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i wanted to kiss a kenyan girl she wouldn't agree Ash says: huh? (slighty jealous girl) luis joia says: but i wouldn't give up eventually our lips touched as i went in then i said, omg our lips touched and then we kissed i was surprised but i think nature took over and that's why girls avoid it, cos their not in control when it happens

Logistic being in the right position or place when you open, attract etc can make your sarging much easier the set can go well or not openers everywhere you go sit next to the hottest girl there example: the train appears, you look for the hottest girl as the train is slowing and sit next to her create this habit so its automatic and you'll meet 5 more girls everyday and have more options other girls walk into the location and see you next to a hot girl, they just assume you are friends or that the hot girl sat next to you make this habit and you'll have social proof in every situation you enter if she sits near you and you would prefer to be nearer slide your bum across the seat and then open or take a large side step sideways to be nearer, Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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accomplishment intros when you introduce any 2 people for the 1st time give them a compliment for what they do, or mention their best qualities if you do this for a man then you or him is getting some action if you do it for a woman, she'll like you more and the other girl becomes jealous this is a useful piece for your social game examples luis joia says: introuding people lu is a photographer luis joia says: fernanda is a genius marketer Fernanda says: that is completely right luis joia says: hahaha i like people who take compliments about 10% of people do it luis joia says: hi bienka meet fernanda, she's a genius too Bianka - says: Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Hi why 'too'? am i a genius? KKK luis joia says: bienka = good poet Fernanda says: Hi Bianka... luis joia says: fernanda = my future wife, i pray Bianka - says: hi xD luis joia says: what u doing bienka Fernanda says: kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk Marli has been added to the conversation. Fernanda has been added to the conversation. luis joia says: hi debora meet fernanda she's great debora is some kind of super genius Fernanda says: Hi debora... i am more that that kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk hi kind of something kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk luis joia says: i would just like to feed fitnanda chocolate all day i think she's too busy i have all this chocolate... what shall i do with it hi marli Fernanda says: kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk i never will be busy for chocolates

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Marli has been added to the conversation. pancake girl has been added to the conversation. luis joia says: hi pancake pancake girl says: hi luis joia says: this is desirable debby and magnificent marli Debora says: hi there! luis joia says: pancake is learning english too (mention what they have in common) very smart Debora says: hehehe and the incredible luis joia who is pancake? pancake girl says: my name is Esmer (cialdiani's influence in action: reciprocity = I give them compliments and then debora calls me incredible, if you give something, often people give something to you commitment and consistency = when a person says something in front of other people, usually they stick with their opinion, u've probably heard of people publicly quitting smoking and then they never smoke a gain, due to commitment to a public view, do things which make them compliment you) Guto has been added to the conversation. luis joia says: www.ilovegustavo.com my new website pancake girl says: who is gustavo?? Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Guto says: hey y'all! how are things? luis joia says: he's some kinder god Guto says: hahaha I wish! Gina says: haha.. but she means it is good you have big shoulders in my opinion muse says: i did see a programme they asked 8 year old boys and and girls about their ideal partner for the future the boys talked about curves they girls said tall and wide shoulders when i see polish girls in london they only have boyfriends which fit this model although all the polish are builders so i worked on the shoulders (don't tell anyone, secret)

men work on things like big muscles and dream of the perfect stomach and which muscles are Significant to women? Shoulders Are, that social study has helped me another study showed that men with square jaws kinder action hero strong guys are the type women tend to have one night stands with and men with a kinder rounded face are the type women get married to and have children with i'm the 2nd type and I consistently attract hb10s who already have children or are looking to get married they like me more than girls looking for fun

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knowing this kinder information can save you a lot of time and let you know which girls are most receptive to you, then you can choose the 10s from that specific area

the length of your toe next to your big toe shows your level of testosterone I have confirmed this on many occasions for example male friends who are very competitive have a very long 2nd toe and from my face and toes I would say i'm a medium or low testosterone guy and I consistently attract girls with a longer 2nd toe (I am compatible with high testosterone girls) http://gapingvoid.com/2009/12/21/my-phone-number

have this attitude

field report + insight today I see an hb that I opened about 14 days ago, after another look I realise its her, so I walk fast (lean forward, walk on your toes > uses gravity to double your speed, I teach this to students) tap her shoulder and say hi we met on the train hb says: omg, u remember me, I can't believe it Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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I realise she likes me remembering her so I recall as much as I can about her, she works in a bank (I couldn't remember which one but she volunteered the info and I play along) I remember style said people's favourite subject is themselves, this is an extension of that concept I got her contact details easy when it probably wouldn't have been easy the 1st meeting often I return to places and meet hbs when they thought I had forgotten about them, cafe girls, receptionists, supermarket girls they are so complimented by this its easy to get their contact details and an opportunity to kiss her will conveniently arise, as they use their sex to keep u around this strategy works well with hired guns (girls working) as they have an auto response of I don't give my number to customers the 2nd or 3rd time u see them they'll give it to u the law of scarcity (cialdini affects this in some way) if I only visit the cafe on sundays then my chance of getting the number is increasing adjust the frequency of your visits until she's begging u to take her number so to speak

anchoring if you start with 1 anchor it could be easier i started with a visual anchor (hand to chest for example) then just anchor them when they feel good then when they don't feel good i fire the anchor to return them to a good feeling from here you can create various anchors and build your knowledge and memory of them the masters seem to set 5 to 10 anchors and even more and sometimes 1 anchor is stronger than another depending on the person recently a student (for a different subject) was unhappy so i fired my visual anchor, not much difference then i touched her shoulder and she totally transformed, she's hugging me making me drinks saying she loves me experiment

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High Attention Game before I became a pua I was doing quite well with hbs i'd improved my looks in various ways (example: big shoulders) and girls were treating me totally different in many cases, because of this I was just enjoying saying controversial and direct things to girls which I eventually almost perfected into an art form, I also met another guy who demonstrated he used similar game what i'm now naming High Attention Game the structure is something Like this SOI (immediately show interest) > high attention compliments and virtually every type of attraction routine you want > proof of interest (demonstrate with time or something romantic so she's certain your words are true, write her a poem, play her a song, write her a song, give her flowers (maybe) > be persistent until you kiss her (getting numbers is optional and easy after you kiss her) >sex with whichever method you like I prefer mystery method's tactics how to make a house love you do the same dhvs for everyone so its easy for you to remember them and they'll tend to compete to see who can do it the best Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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instant dates and location changes i'l walk you home i'l get your number (then get off bus or train) let's go to the pub commitment and consistency one of the laws of Influence from cialdini's book record her giving you compliments: with a voice recorder or get her to write her compliments on paper

Even More Successful Times and Field Reports Be an Opportunist > Everything which comes your way is an opportunity to get girls I remember using this attitude for a month and getting lots of success purely through this. Examples: fit/hot girl walks into neighbour's house (I see from my window) > I walk in there with some appropriate words and some alcohol, I give her attention (look at her/her bum), and when she goes to her car I Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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stand by the door in front of her, waiting for a kiss; she kissed her relatives on the cheek. Then me and her tongue kiss and she says “oh” like it was an accident (lol). Sit next to girls in the library/on the bus/on the train, things you need to know (where I get a travel card? Anything Like This) > look around and ask a girl (new neighbour moves in, take her a bottle of wine: paul janka idea I read after my experience) (also where I lived recently wine cost 2 bottles for £4, wow!) PS: these field reports are from when I started opening, up until recently. (about 2 or 3 years)

email to a german pua My attraction is: Just be around them for 20 minutes to 2 hours and say routine after routine. If the convo slows, then ask yourself for a routine. & if you read as much PU as I do & practise every routine you hear about they will just (pop) into your mind. I was in cafe 1 day & I had 2 hbs fighting to impress me. Because I did this. Constant routines and also if there's more than 1 shift focus every 1-2 mintutes. For example I did the Cube & nlp stuff with 1 girl then when the other hb asked for psychic stuff i only had the Palm Reading Takeaway left. So I did it and ignored her while I talked to the others. It was funny because 2 hbs were saying i'm psychic so she couldn't complain & i changed the subject anyway. Recently i've been explaining Acessing Cues to hbs and it works great. I also say "a person does this (look up & to right then bottom right) when they're attracted to you. At this point they realise there is no point pretending they don't like you. Because seriously, all hbs think about men all the time and fake non-attraction cos of ASD, yeah. So that helps kill it. When i say simple stuff i mean that, Talk Like a Woman. If you do it for long enough (I did it for 7 days solid) then you realise that the Star Sign bullshit they talk Actually Makes Sense. Its like learning a new language that's all. Get JD Fuentes book The Sexual Key because that really opened my eyes. R Jeffries and him understand something Style/Mystery etc don't. Its not hypnosis. Women run on feelings, that's their petrol/solar power. We think very differently from them. The princess thing is inside every hb and if you set it off then you can do whatever you like. When I Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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say self anchor RJ mentions that hbs do their own things to get into sexual state e.g. a deep breath. In fact breath very deeply (1 big breath) in front of hb & see what happens. C&F: talk in feelings. Just ask "what feeling does that give u & what do you like about that feeling" and you'll do fine. Seriously just that bit will add alot for you. Plus maybe you were bored on those dates, so have more fun. I went to an nlp seminar and me & some hb did Rapport all morning and it was so easy to Lead her after that. I slowed walking or told her to hold me hand and she did. With kino I often Swing her chair or Lift her leg up & down which makes her receptive to other things. Make anchors simple: if she looks happy when she says A certain word, say it whenever convo slows. Always turning Side on to hbs (& customers) has been major for me. It gives them a chance to Eye you up (look at you), flick their hair and eventually it annoys them & they lean towards you (which looks good). We were in a youth centre (kids) & there was hb we both liked, he lay down on the counter/side (table top) with hands behind head & says Never get married, too good looking. Which made me & hb laugh plus how the fuck do you answer that. He beat this PUA, however i'm going to use it, so i win next time. "Fingers jamed behind his HEad and has the Elbows spread out ?" - i've seen several alphas do this. Lobster & Ichitchy started doing it. Bum/arse/ass/gluteus maximus/shitter/poo station/plop place/brown dungeon???? You know what bum means now & why its funny. Get on msn or send emails instead. I don't like Mys Method forum. People whine bullshit on their posts and i go on there and explain how to do things and the Administrator removed the post. I think i must be getting good at teaching this Awesome Attitude There was a period earlier this year when I seemed to be around/with a new girl every 7days at the minimum. Here’s what happened. Girl in the café, I harassed for 2-3 days with constant DHVs etc. I’d been hanging around with another girl at the time & had heard the HB ask her friend if me & here were together. The other girl in there said to me before I left one night “aren’t you going to wait for her”. So I waited until she came back & asked if she wanted me to walk her home, yes. I waited around & thought I’d got a result here. Walked her home & she says “I don’t want u to get wrong idea blah blah, just had LTR”. The total AFC I was tries to persuade her as I knew she liked me (BL, body language). She says something like your totally gorgeous which made me happy. I had other opportunities to follow up but turned up late one day & another day I went out with the other girl who went funny with me. Bad choice. Note for future if there’s newest girl & other girl go for newer girl. The fresher the meat the better your meal. When the other girl went on holiday for a month, nlp charged up me says “I’m going to go out with every girl I can before she gets back”. PS: should have kissed this girl before she went & was all “love you” with her. Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Strange phase where I felt bad for not saying those words to Loved of Life. So I was dropping them in everywhere. She did say she loved me too by email whilst on holiday. Anyway, at work a new woman started & I found a way to talk to her (HB 9.5, age 29). I was making her drinks etc & she says “what r u doing tonight” my quick reply “going out with you”. Surprised her. So we meet up outside, get the bus to her other job (1st day of her work) & then she wants church. Absolute hypnosis bullshit (church) PS: she has invited me again because I test PU emails on her. We then go to Nandos, nice meal. End of night she looks scared at kiss close & is going back to church. I get half a hug. The email responding to that was a big boost that I showed off. “Friday was one of the best nights of my life, I love being swept off with spontaneity like that”. (save emails and messages like this, its great social proof) Sub plot: I’m going to compile any good emails or text messages I got this year from many techniques. So you/me can see the technique & the responses.

My sister comes home with a friend who I immediately show interest in (hb7). She negs me I give her compliments & kino loads (tickle, bra, hair). A point on kino is that do something she won’t complain about & then something she would usually. What I mean is bra strap comes after tickle her feet. Poke her stomach before pinging knickers. So anyway, I’m sitting on a bar stool next to the side (sideboard) & I pull her onto my lap which she’s cool with. Sister walks out (nice one) & we watch TV. I kiss her on lips by saying something & then say “is that it” (romantic). This took about 30 minutes by the way, so it’s possible. I kiss her then we go into front room & watch TV I escalate kino further. Other sister comes back so we leave each other alone. In fact I ignore & insult hb as if nothing ever happened. I offer to walk her to bus stop & kiss her whilst waiting some more. She had a boyfriend which is another plus. I text her during week & her boyfriend saw it. I told him to fuck off via text a few times. She comes round again & her boyfriend has given her an iffy time which she forgot. End of. Another new girl at work (ha ha, fresh meat to carve) who I bothered for days especially with kino. Kino note: Just this without even speaking gets you closer to goal/person. Have you noticed that people often move their feet reflecting their state of mind or as reactions. One I do is when a girl lifts up her foot (IOI) then quickly put your foot underneath. She steps on your foot & this is a switch. They then realise that they can’t hide their attraction for you which creates relaxation & speeds up the process. Remember that attraction is kinaesthetic: words have to be converted into feelings. Touch does not. This girl I got to the “where are you going stage” & during that lunch break some 60 year old woman tried to block said “what’s going on here” so I started chatting her up. “All those love letters & poems I keep sending you” I said something like this. E.g. any obstacles, go with the flow. Me & the main girl start passing notes to each other which I keep for a while as a reminder. She turned me down in this note but I acted like no wasn’t a possibility & got her to agree for us to go out that night. We went to the supermarket which according to PU advice is far better than a restaurant. I lent her my jacket (romantic textbook) & kinoed repeatedly. We get near her house & she tells me she’s with someone. I stand around AFCing for something. Which I did very well despite it being AFCish. She tells me she doesn’t want to kiss as it would mean a lot to her. Female insight there: girls often avoid kissing etc as it means a lot to them. So push on as I did anyway. However, use PU & nlp stuff as opposed to just persistence (although that is good). E.g. what would it feel like if you kiss me? So I get her to agree to a kiss on the lips which I knew may be more. So we did & just caught the inside part of her lips.

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This is crucial stuff. There’s times when resistance just shuts off & nature takes over. This is one of them. I ask for another kiss “come on, you can do better than that” & we do kiss. She romanticises it with “it’s a stolen kiss”. We walk off & she looks back at me before going in doors. Future note: ask for a kiss on the lips. Interesting day of sarging. I played a song on the guitar ages ago and personalised it to the person i was singing to (2 or 3 sections add their name) this got great results in my early days pua sarging finally i got another guitar (£39) and learned the song again, i've played the same song to 2 hbs in 2 days and 1st one had quiet reaction the song is Spread your Wings by Queen which is intermediate level song (it looks impressive) and he sings about sally. Replace sally with hbs name www.ultimate-guitar.com for the song. Update: I also played this to a customer's wife and she swooned with excitement and her constant bedroom eyes at me didn't help my business. She did though by getting my another customer 6 months after this = ) 2nd one, tongue kiss (Yes!) I went to hb (she works as receptionist) with guitar "are you seranading me" me: "yes". i play the song then i ask hb to look after guitar (like they do to afcs) while i go buy headphones i come back and read poem "Star of Bishop" from his book adapting it for the lights on the ceiling (she loves this) so i'm doing some romantic game and i mix it with push/pull, takeaways so its like i'm playing u a song and don't get any ideas (lol) her friend comes and i play with her (let's have a sexy competition!) and point to my cheek for her to kiss when she went (she did) primary hb has been not easy to arrange meeting with so i level with her as i heard Zan suggesting "there must be somewhere you will go, and where is that?" PS: i'm finding that every hb has an exact criteria for meeting a guy, even if he is much higher value than her, she still will only meet in certain conditions e.g. arrange meeting 7 days in advance, call her not text her, things like this then i follow with "because i'm such a dating guru expert, i know if we go for a drink you would be uncomfortable, so let's do....." anyway i'm really persistent and i poke her bum (no resistance, there was before lol), i kiss her hair and eventually as i'm leaving i kiss close her (Yes!) and we have a date to see Dylan Moran or to go Camden Market (cool) she is sitting at her email all day and i prepared this also by sending her several emails (convo on msn with hb about her writing me a poem (i edited it and removed shit test lol), me telling hb my rules by email and technique for instant orgasm) Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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values conveyed: girls chase me and sex expert lol being in a great state and noticing hbs eyeing me cos of guitar i opened 2 hbs on way home and talk smooth for 10 and 5 minutes each i gave business cards which usually is not good but i didn't have comfort level high (that's bad habit which is good for business and not for girls, Make her write her number on the back of a business card, Much Better) 2nd hb isn't english so she may call me cos english teacher b card (if she's foreign my english teacher business card is suitable, 2 hb9s call me from my business card) also, when you delete an hbs facebook contact they notice an hb is very into me now because i did this so i will be deleting facebook profiles if hb is not useful and any joy with facebook puaing? apparantly there are books on how to do this Let me know how you are doing Muse Smooth Reality Open with Good Body Language, always side on. Niece's teddy bear, Cs vs Us. Waited a while then did the Cube & hb loved it, she was really excited. Apparently a relative had just died so i explained a nlp technique to get over grief. (in a cafe where they know me) At that point of “intense connection” i did a takeaway & gave her no attention. Suddenly a convo starts with “what's going on with you” because apparently hbnew was acting funny. I didn't look at her but 2 other girls were whispering (she likes him talk) & they disappeared upstairs to talk. I'm thinking “this is why Style is always on about the Cube”. Its hot. Some guy is there bothering the girls, he's pissed & swearing at them & wont leave. I weren't that bothered until he swore at me then i got a bit annoyed. However = Opportunity to demonstrate the protecting female dhv Mystery talks about. So i grabbed him, chucked him out (threw him) & he still wont leave. He was trying to get past me at the door. So i'm shouting in his face “go home now” & he's telling me to eff off. I was tempted to hit him but i walked into the cafe closed the door & lent against it & he came back. So we got the pigs because i wanted to go home. & told them he had a knife so they would actually turn up. The fuck pigs got rid of him but didn't hang around, so i did.

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After this i got labelled psychic & so i was running every nlp/cold reading technique i know whilst being pretty alpha. I've noticed that in every interaction i had today i was completely alpha. e.g. Neighbour asks for a kiss & i refuse unless she feeds me 1st. The practise is becoming a natural part of me. I did my lift the girl up & spin her which works well & i recommend it. Something i've been doing with groups is shifting focus, i suddenly takeaway on a hb & give another one so much attention that she's smiling & happy which the others notice & pull me back. I did the cold reading takeaway which worked great & she was begging me to read her palm to which i kept changing the subject. & she never caught on that i couldn't do it, because of course the others social proofed my psychic abilities due to the Cube = 0 I then explained Accessing cues after doing Styles lying game. I explained how to tell if someone's attracted to you using accessing cues which they loved (have a class for the answer 07963960499). A couple of them mentioned the way i look at them so i explained Soul Gazing & started testing it with one of the hbs, & this is an example of how i switch, i explained to 1 hb who was then really interested and then i did it with a different 1. The funniest moment was when the drunk guy was banging on the door and i was leaning against it, i did the alpha “come here” with my hand, you know, the matrix thing. She came over & i gave her a Thumb war which they loved and it was like the drunk wasn't even there. By this point the 2 girls are competing over me and kino was easy & natural. I couldn't believe i had a couple of 8.5s competing over me. (i'm leaning back on the chair and they both standing there with ways to impress me, lovin it) That's the strength of pua material i suppose. I've found with “how old are you” that completely dodging the answer is the best thing for me. Guess. Hmm close. Then i pretended 1 had it right although she was no where near. “who do you think is prettier” she's a 7/10 but i'm (the author) a 9/10. Well her eyes are better but your smile is better. - I heard that specific compliments are the best. You're beautiful, is nice but they probably hear it too much so don't Believe it. We then move onto talking about relationships with me talking like a total girl. Which by the way actually makes sense if you do it for a while. They talk a different language but it means something to them. The J.D. Fuentes book the Sexual Key has helped me get a grip on this idea. It explains the difference between male & female thinking and how hbs always think in emotions where as we think practically.

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Towards the end i gave 2 of them business cards which they were so excited to get it was unreal. But i didn't give one to hbeyes, & she was almost begging for one + upset she didn't get 1. After i pointed to my cheek “kiss” she refused (which they do sometimes) & i explained she can give me her number. I didn't get a perfect response so I Reframed. “i don't want you calling me all day, i'm asleep in the morning & i'm fed up with people waking me up so you can't have it” (don't give business cards unless you have experience of it working for some holy reason, what I did then could be improved by taking their numbers after, the business cards for only 2/3 hbs is good if mix with get their numbers) She says something like “so you like hbnew then” bit upset sounded. So i say You're too clingy, i don't want a long term relationship, you're like a stick on garfield. Then they started punching me which was fun (owch). Anyway i needed a toilet & some guy turned up + hbeyes starts work at the cafe tommorow. DHVs before i found the game i'd realised that depending on how you describe things you look good or bad. She sometimes can prompt you into DHVs: Do you like kids? Tell a story about a kid you know. I used to mention the kid next door & how he'd come in & play video games & then i'd add a bit about how i help him with his homework (i'll be a good dad is the point) (on some level every hb is checking how you relate to kids, have stories prepared. You probably helped a kid some time in your life) A dhv is very useful if you have to mention a dlv. e.g. i mentioned i live at parents & then explain how my dad abused my mum, i beat him up, threw him out & i'm staying there to protect her (75% true) Other dhvs can be making something sound better. I mentioned i was at college & they weren't interested, but if i mention how many courses i'm doing (i was doing at least 10) one after the other, then they start flirting with their hair i was working a volunteer job once & would change the details to suit the hb. i was either teaching there, in the youth centre (dad dhv again) or helping a wonderful charity. So look through your life & write a dhv for each area, and they are: Protecting loved ones Good with kids Intelligent (grades, number of courses, degree, psychology) Social proof Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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(mention hbs in any stories you tell & how they did obviously flirting thngs around you, which u innocently misunderstood ;) Something about a job (never mentioned "looking for work" reframe it: i have £5,000 in the bank so i'm taking a gap year) hbs r always checking for this stuff so prepare ur answers & practise replying these ways Muse (I posted this on one of the forums and the instructor said Muse gives you all the information, that's making it too easy. LoL, different ideas of what a great teacher is I think.)

Number Close I see girl i know and really like walking the other way. I divert completely and cut her path off “Karma?” (cool name). It is her. Aint seen this girl for 6 months & she the electronics shop girl. “where you going” “to get some ice cream” “can i join you?” “sure”. We go get ice cream & i chat up the girl behind counter which karm enjoys. I teacher DHV mentioning pay which amazes her. I ask her to walk me to the train station so i'm on time for licao. I continue with B. Institute and my values behind it (my website/college I use as dhv then and still can). She stops walking to hear this and then continues to train station with me. I look in a shop purposely and say “bloody shop” & she goes i bet there's some girl you like in there. PS: fake body language or purpose looking is always taken as honest so use it. I start telling her a PU line as part of the Shop Girl story to show Player status. She says best line she's heard is “your ugly, do you want to go out with me”. She says she turned that guy down so i told her the line is therefore crap. Might test it though. One of the PUAs lifts girls up on his shoulder & carries them off. I did this last year a lot as it seemed to show off strength etc. I did it to this girl as i'm testing old stuff. She seemed to like it & i remarked “yeah, you have lost weight”. I dropped in stuff like “Where are you taking me?” she replies don't understand so I “i'll give you a moment to think about it”. The basis of this is, unconscious hears everything so you don't need to make sense, just trigger her attraction switches. I give her my business card & pull out another BC (the back of) & lean on my wallet. I give her my pen & she don't respond. So I ask “do you use the left or the right hand?” & i put the pen in her right hand. She writes it for me & I ask “do you want some business cards?”. I then said “can you write your name/draw a picture because i'll forget who it is otherwise”, she writes “me” on the card. Cool. So I break off the Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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conversation and say i have to go. Pointed to my face and said “Kiss” she kisses my cheek and says “I have a cold sore” e.g. I'd kiss you properly... I ask “is that an excuse” & she states “no”. I say “hmmm, walking around with your cold sore, an interesting sharing thing”. She's edging away (back to work, manager) so i smile and goodbye. Other stuff: I've been using the card trick i showed rafa (8 year old girl. Hey, it works with one girl, it works with all girls). PS: it's great. I used it to give someone my business card the other day. & used it as an opener. I tested the card levitating trick on someone and it worked (cool as its simple). The coin pocket trick is good but my trouser pocket makes it 50% effective. I did the palm reading by explaining i had read a book about it so i got the kino through testing. “you did worried about the health of friends but are less concerned with your own” (ha ha ha). Also I realised a good kino is “how do I feel for someone's pulse?” That girl gave me the practise. Also sometimes girls give loads of IOUs yet refuse questions for whatever reason. Forget these and grab another target nearby. Also if you show a girl enough interest she sometimes e.g. 1 in 20 starts talking to you. No can opener needed. New level of game In café. Mixed up the few tricks that I know. I did ESP, then think of a number and then coin disappearing trick. I messed up all 3 but still got loads of IOIs and them asking for more. I’ve been spurred on by another guy in the café who really talks like a PUA. He calls the girls guys, talks about his “relationship” with every girl there, talks like a girl (I told her & she must have told you). He walked in other day & says I just had a massage. The women’s ears perk up & IOIs. How much was it? A pound a minute for 60 minutes he says. Girl asks “was she beautiful?”. I like this guy & I’m going to steal every routine he has. I consider walking up after massage talk & asking girls for massage. Blow him out of water. I think he gave girl love letter/poem. So I anchored the word Hi/High to myself and explained that I take it as a command. And very hi. “instead of how are you doing say how hi are you today?” The guy is floundering & says to the girl “I wont talk to you whilst you cleaning the fridge”. So of course the PU in me continues (he’s on the ropes) I write on the back of my business card “Perry’s Love Letter: I love you lots & lots & lots & more & lots & more. 3 o clock?” PS: this guy seemed pissed off with me all day after this & he seemed to be listening for my game. New plan: Do an opener as soon as I leave the house. As this changes my state into PU. (always do this) More resourceful. I see nice girl go upstairs on bus. I get the Jeffries excitement rush (label fear as Excitement & feel the difference). I get upstairs & sit behind a Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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different girl. Men or Women? Great response plus I drop quotes patterns (“I want to sleep with you”) in hypnosis tonality. On the train there’s HB9.5: pulls out yoga magazine. So I ask “what is yoga?”. I thinks that if she likes it then her love for that is linked to me = yes. She real unresponsive & don’t believe me not know Yoga. So I explain. Then I drop Teach and mention many world/cultural issues plus “there’s a polish café there, its really nice”. Then she re-starts the conversation when it trails off. She talk about husband a bit & she fitness instructor. I give her BC as her ingles ok. We change trains, she hangs behind me & there’s a gap next to me. I turn to her & say “I saved a space for you”. We get on train & she casually walks near to me with back to me. I poke her and just smile when she turn round. I also flick her hair. I keep teacher talking “do you love teaching?” she asks (typical question). We talk about nutrition & she explains something I don’t know plus vice versa. She writes something down & I put my arm around her in fake support. I also wrote name on BC as she was playing with it. I also saw a girl half look at me & said “all these girls looking at me, I’m not an object you know, I have feelings”. I don’t think I complimented her once on her looks which is something I’m improving on. As I get off I say “stop calling me” and jump off. Time distortion with the trains is a great asset I realised. Me make use of this again. (get her email in this situation or phone number if you have more experience) Later in day I open 3 set girls in café with Men or Women. I get some mild response to this and say “I’ll let you get back to your conversation”. I turn to PC and they go completely quiet, no sound. 5 minutes later and they start talking about Who lies more and only that. Cool. So I re-enter with “your going to write a book on it aren’t you?” and this time I get deeper conversation, including with HB9 who wasn’t my original target. I turn back & one sits close to me whilst others are quiet. She didn’t give any IOIs apart from this. & I wasn’t sure how to follow up & I wanted them to open me. Which I thought was going to happen. Also I was meeting someone in 5 minutes so I thought we could join them. Anyway, I hadn’t opened a 3 set before. Rock on. (always notice how you are improving and ask yourself what you could do better next time) At train station other day I approach 2 girls with BCs & they turn them down although I was funny/persistant (I waited till BFs had left before this). So my new response to mild rejection is open next available girl. MenWomen? Drag out answer, talk about dress sense. What should I wear? (asking women about dress sense is a gold topic, depending on the girl she may neg you, if so ignore her for 3 minutes) Did loads of stuff on this. 10 minutes conversation and we get on train at same door but we got separated, boo. Finding that rapport is useful. I copied this girl’s movements using peripheral before approach & it happens great. I believe that purple is a women happy bra-silly colour. Me convinced. I’m going to hit on every girl who’s a bit purple to test this. Roger Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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them all. (Muse Exclusive: women seem to wear purple during their periods or when they want a man, purple nail varnish too) Train I was on a train about a year ago and I sat next to a HB 10 and she seemed interested. So interested that she was staring directly at me the way blokes do. I was on a female high from that teaching course where I was chatting up 5 of them & swapping round. I didn’t look at her that time. But I crushed an empty can of coke in my hand which I do sometimes for grip strength & attention. (this is a good routine in a darwinist kinder way, it gets iois: you do it casually Like Everyone does it, then put on the table as you read a book or throw at the girl so she has to catch it) She then looks straight at me and I look at her in the eyes. This was a kissing moment and I asked myself afterwards should I have kissed her. Answer: yes. Before I get off train she starts reading a Dating book. PS: they start reading books to give you excuse to talk to them. (muse exclusive: they read books to give you a reason to open them, they know the social rules better than us sometimes, until we learn from them. Its the same when they look through their handbags>>> looking for something to grab your attention) So always do openers if you get IOI like this. I say “you don’t need that book” She “my friends bought it for me as a joke, look”. The book has a message inside the cover from her friends. Muse “good sense of humour” she laughs hysterically but that was my station so I got off (when I should have got off with her) I’ve kinder had the belief for ages that I’m a 10 because of stuff like that. I can attract some girls better than anybody. Remember your statement of “you compared yourself to others, you now think what can I do that only I can do”. (yes I nlp it). I’m sure you can remember a many times when you have do things like this. Write them down… wood inflection. Where’s your field reports? Engineer yourself . Juggler says: talk in statements. Friends talk in statements and these demand answers. Put some DHVs into statements for example; or better is talking emotionally/in feelings. E.g. I say “I love music as it seems to completely transform the street into a vibrant exciting place. (I said this to a hb and she dribbled during afc day) That’s full of energy waiting to emerge into sunny conversation”. I say something similar to this (improvise) and girl looks enthralled in my words. The Feeling Female language fits into this practise as well. Enjoying the Muddle I went for some moving PU today. I conveniently appeared in shops where i saw HBs go. One HB 9 seemed to be walking past me & then walking back just for attention. I waiting for estudante so i don't move. but tired later i guess where she is & walk to place & she is there. i sit next to her Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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(PCs). I "arrrr" her puppy picture on screen & then "men or women". she's french & don't understand me so i business card her & leave after. Later in day i sit next to HB because i'm using, her mate pissed me off/turned me down as motivation. I use Men or Women then move to Spells & compliment her necklace, BC, teacher & ask her opinion on it. Leave it. Come back with ESP & next trick which she ask me to wait moment. I got lots of kino in (poke thigh, arm & hair flick). You know the complience test with grabbing hands. I think poking & hair flick is the same & what i've used for testing. I poked her on arm repeatedly at one point & she ignored me for 5 seconds. This is big IOI (enjoying attention). When she turned round from that i looked in her eyes & smiled then flicked her hair. She went off with friend but set up nicely for language patterns next time. Here's the current emailing situation with a girl i met on PlentyofFish (good dating website, its free too). I've included most of the messages to show my simple guide that seems to have gone well. Hi. Its Perry. I met you on PlentyofFish about a week ago. I haven't been able to log in there. I've tried lots of ways to get in. Have you had any trouble logging on. I've attached my picture to the email again & remember its not necessary to become more & more fascinated with me. If you had a touch day have a nice relaxing bath & think of me That tends to help most girls xxx... only 3 for the moment, i you want more than that you have to earn it. Perry. hey perry, hows it goin babe feel free to drop me a line for a chat im always here Do you ever go to Earl's Court? I'm there tommorow (Thursday) after 3 o clock. In the Milano cafe next to the station. xx Pezza - (nice ambigiuty here e.g. kiss perry) Hi Perry hope ur good, i cant get to earls court tomoro or trust me i would happily come meet u, im sure there will be other times to meet in the future Not exactly super impressive but i've sent 5 messages to this girl including on the site & got Email Address & agreement on future meet. I think the formula is correct that's why including it. e.g. be cocky, say how great you are, tell her to meet you where you already are anyway (that one works. always arrange meetings that way).

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Girl gets on train (HB 8.5) after me staring at her on platform & then staring direct into eyes until she sat near me. I fixed internal tonality/messages & eventually after much physical rapport I asked “Who lies more…”. She mis-hears me twice which I prefer (more time elapsed & I get to hip-nosy my voice). The guy on right (AFC) says “oi mate, that’s the best chat up line I’ve ever heard”. I was AMOGed whether he was serious or not (probably not) because then ASD comes out. “he’s not doing me with PU line, I’m intelligent”. I could see this guy was into her from my peripheral, & was extra pushed to speak to get in before him. So, whatever, it’s a game. (afcs are stupid, be smart and always help your friends sarge) He gets off the train & I start again, really confident smiling, good tonality. My state is getting a much better with this stuff. I’ve also found that the Curious state is great for PU. “I’ve just got to know what will happen here”, become addicted to knowledge. I ask where she’s from (I couldn’t find an English bird if I tried) & she’s a French. Stops & I do my big harmonica/Bandler enhanced breathing all around her (pheromones in your breath can automatically attract girls, breath in their direction and make it look Like a deep breath: after I learned this technique a brazilian girl did it to me, then I do it to her and she becomes glassy eyes and moves really near to my lips). I think unconsciously (no I don’t) that girls know what a big breath means. Test this: do a massive relaxing inhalation near a girl & watch how they react. I then drop teaching into conversation as my student is half French so I ask HB (pencil) to teach me something so I can look good with student. She only suggests bonjour/merci. I get off, as its my station & see her again as we bumped into each other on platform. I say “bonjour”, she laughs. She’s not at my bus stop: Fin. I was great at the flirting stuff before PU & nlp but I’ve added to it. Bandler & Teachworth (how fit was she?!) suggested the look from foot to eyes as slowly as possible. I’ve added this as I used to stare at bum & let them catch me (still good). & I guarantee that when you do this, even if they had showed you no interest up until that point it flicks a switch & gets them in the right state. You’ll see the switch as you reach their face & something happens. Even if the girl is not looking at you this works. I think the peripheral/unconscious has plenty of time to PU on you looking at them. It’s great = 9/10. Patterns & Fish I’ve had 2 or 3 times where I’ve been doing PU most of the day to condense into this report. I was counting how many & saying it out loud as to help me e.g. “4”. Approach anxiety has been massively reduced due to my intense efforts on some days. I have been filling in gaps in my game. For example as soon as I get on a bus on train I now position myself next to a HB. You can move nearer once you’ve sat down but I think this better & you can make it automatic. From here you can choose whether to speak to Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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them but realise you often have 5 minutes to make a move before they Get Moving. So get yourself in state especially if she is IOIing you. Some guy was suggesting that you should go to the supermarket and walk along every isle (with a basket & food). See a HB & approach only asking for the time. Do this every day for a week. I thought the time thing is ok and his idea is that you use your state, posture & smile to induce them into talking with you. Hmmm, interesting. So, the next day I went back to my blatant openers & did them more confidently. I got better reactions. This sounds like a great one for you as you buy shopping (or can) most days. Even at your local supermarket. After a week AA will be dead & you will find out just through persistence what you have to do to get a number/kiss close in that environment. I will really appreciate the feedback from that one. Have used “who lies more, men or women” about 10-15 times. They stop & think for 30 seconds so it really helps make you comfortable & you can ask “why, do you lie a lot?” Also they suggest lying is bad, so I say the circumstances when its not. I get the fair point nod. Use this one it is great. There was a nice OW (older woman) in front of me on the train. Loads of IOIs, with her boyfriend/husband though. Plan B: See peripheral HB & use the 3 second rule “Men or women”. She asks me to repeat twice & it was quiet on the train. Everyone was looking at me, however, fuck them. This girl is actually a 9.5 rich girl. Nice. She uses the word Elegant into the 1st sentence. Sub topic: some girls understand nlp. Another nice OW a while back replied “Pleasure” when I said thanks for the time. & she knew what she was saying. Big smirk in both cases e.g. you basically have her if she says this. Just keep the conversation going. Which by the way I didn’t but I’m in training so I’m going to. (women have key words which they use when they want sex with a guy “elegant” “pleasure” “smooth” “romantic” if they say a certain word with no reason for it in the conversation then they want you, act accordingly) Anyway I DHV with teaching by asking about a magazine to advertise in she knew about (indirect DHV). She gets off & makes a point of smiling at me, no result but it went well. In the card shop (Girls Court) there was a book called How to Get a Shag in any Country”. I had to pick it up & ask innocently “does this work, let’s test it. Well when do I get my shag then?”. (routines are everywhere if you Look For Them>>> books and book shops are particularly useful, there is some book in the shop which helps you demonstrate higher value) Oppor-2-nities like this aren’t everywhere… or are they? I couldn’t find the books but I had fun with them anyway. There were 2 girls both were 6 or 7s. I decided to use “Have you ever” for the 1st time today. I did ESP on one girl & guessed the number 7 correctly. Done that 5 times before & only got it this time but when u get it right its great. I played on this with “I felt some kind of link between us”. I gave them my business card with my fee (important part). Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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I decided to fractionate with them to maintain interest. triple whammy before going back in.

& planned a

Remember it’s not necessary to become more & more fascinated with me. Have you ever met someone & felt like you’ve known them for years & the more you talk… (they interrupted me here). Then I pulled out a typed up poem I had for another woman I met last week. I wrote the poem the 1st day I met her in 10 minutes & just included lots of things from our conversation & complemented her almost identically to another poem I wrote a year ago. Making the best of what I had I showed it to the girls & said do you like it/do u think she'll like it (all innocent) I wrote it for her & she hasn’t seen it yet. They both love it 7 this nicely followed on from the command as they have something to be interested in. I think they work well together. I come back again & ask what time one of the girls finishes as the other one had gone. She says 4.30 (its 12.30) So I said I’m going before then. Then I get all the IOIs going, name, live, work here etc? Shame about the time they leave work but I have this information for another day & so do you if you want to go in there. I go to see the HB 9 & she’s an OW at the Polish café near where I live (there’s a Portuguese café in Ilford). Armed with the typed up poem & the original I went to the café but bought a Krishnamurti book on the way. Showed her my advert translated into polish to show that I’m friends with polish, plus it’s a teaching DHV. Used It’s not necessary to… & Have you ever & If I want to be as beautiful as you how do I do it. (muse exclusive: direct opener> if I want to be as beautiful as you, how do I do it? This works very well if you are already seen as high value or if hb has low value) Answer: Just be yourself. I almost melted at that answer = no oneitis, stop it. I loaded on the compliments which as you put it, married women want attention, so give them loads. Didn't neg here. Said some stuff in polish = DHV. I decided to learn 10 words of every language as it makes people happy especially as I’m English but I’m sure a polish will be surprised when you speak their language. Sat at my computer with the Jeffries cards & sent a woman a confident DHV suggestion filled email including “what would it feel like if we suddenly had sex” & I got a yes response to that bit. She invited me for a date at the end of the e-mail so this stuff works. Add the Zebu & Jeffries cards to you desktop & open one when emailing, or applying for a job, or for your CV or when talking on the phone. (when learning nlp language patterns this is an excellent technique> Take Classes With Muse for language pattern training) I went mental on www.plentyoffish.com & got about 20 replies from around 50-60 messages sent. I either went through their profile & replied to it or sent the Ross Jeffries message. Insert a holy noise for the Jeffries message, its that good. I’ve included it in the Your Personal Guide along Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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with Style’s advice. I followed Style’s & redesigned my profile so I sound like the cocky fucker you’d ever meet. My profile name is la la la if you want the example. Let me know if you can see it as I can’t from mine. Anyway one of the 1st messages, I put in the subject line something about being the prince to rescue her as it was in her profile & I used Jeffries’s thing. I followed up with some compliments & then next message asked how to use instant messenger. Sub plot: one of my new techniques which I copied from girls (who do this so much) is to ask for help with something. See the previous report for example of this from a girl. Test it. Excuse me, I’ve just come over from Portugal. How do you use this money? (has to be done seriously or smiling. Speak as well :} (blatant openers = muse exclusive > open with something which is obviously a lie to meet her. Then 10 seconds later she realises you want her and she sometimes reopens you, or lets your reopen her very easily) This girl gave me her email because I didn’t get on the IM quick enough. Email, nice. I got another reply like “well the prize goes to you for the best email xxx”. I got into a discussion about Family Guy that went quite well for 3 or 4 messages & the initial mail back from her was good. Some other girl put me on her favourite list (1st one) because we’re both Queen fans. This seemed more appropriate to talk about than using the Jeffries opener. I was looking for something to talk about & if nothing I used Jeffries. Another girl HB 9 was so up her self in her profile & her pictures which I saw as an opportunity to neg. & my gods did I neg. I criticised Everything I could & with that profile I look proper alpha. She had a tongue stud so I said Do you need that to get a boyfriend (LOL brilliant, I must use this again: muse exclusive lol), etc? She replies What’s your problem blah blah? So I adapt the Spells opener & say can you help me, has this happened to you, you look quite intelligent (this line is awesome, “you seem quite intelligent” “you look quite intelligent but” I use this in every sarge), I don’t know what to do. I got back the most helpful message you’ve ever heard. Really nice, informative & complimented me a bit But also said Intelligent: people always say that to me. But I got some xxxx at the end. What a perfect example of negging. I felt a bit funny negging like that but I thought it would be fun to see what happened. Good attitude for PUA. Happy day (Wednesday).

That’s what they say on XFM.

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Maybe more than my personal best. I got a few “women are weirdos” responses e.g. woman muttering, no comment & 1 stepped back a bit. I think this was my fault once or twice. Style says that you have to enter a set with equal or higher energy than it has. So I changed to an upbeat smiling mood and did better. I used to talk soft to strangers & sometimes this emerged. Kill the AFC. New openers: TC (time constraint = always include) “do you know the time in Portugal?” Why? “because my friend has just moved there & I don’t want to wake him up” (muse exclusive). This girl talked to me for about 20 minutes so you’d be buying the drinks if we were playing. She was really interested n I explained the business & went to recruit her. She took BC with website on. I hanged around when her friends came for a bit. TC “If I want to be as beautiful as you, how do I do it” (HB 8.5). She loved it. “well my friend was telling me (point to Marco) that if you want to be good at something you have to learn from the best”. I’m in the zone. I blatantly say “I can’t think of anything to say” – vunerability, honesty & I like you in big letters. I DHV teacher & turns out she has English A-level & degree. She mentions her boyfriend coming & says thanks for the compliment, no one ever said that to me blah blah blah she’s happy. I say if her boyfriend don’t appear then I give her them everyday and carry her off into the sunset like a princess (seriously & she loves it). I then say “& look we’ve got a sunset (close enough, look at imaginary watch) “give me 10 minutes & I’ll do it”. Me & Marco hang about but her BF turns about. I don’t care because he’s an afc (ha ha ha). I did a blatant opener right outside the café “Where’s Earl’s Court Station” she laughed & I acted seriously “I’m missing my eyes today” I then complimented her. My new simple structure (not always) is Opener – Compliment (her, yourself or both). This works great & suits me. Might be good for you. (this does work very well, you should add a 3rd or 4th routine and use your own game if it seems appropriate) Ask your unconscious. I was standing in a line in the supermarket & thought there’s no way I can open here I can’t think of anything. Then I named it = Supermarket Queue Opener. My mind processed & I came up with “what is the best brand of cigarettes?” Why do you smoke (or something like that). “I smoke whatever’s around usually so I don’t know what to buy”. (this is a perfect method of inventing situational openers> copyright perry barnes 2009) “do you know when the bus/train is coming” use this. By the way Marco went on Amazon today & bought Hannibal (because I wouldn’t shut up about it) for £1.34. Seriously man & £1 postage on top. I want some of that site. They also had the new Hannibal Rising book for £2.43 or something. Mental. Also I almost always kino before I ask the openers as it makes them more effective e.g. attention etc. (put your the back of your hand on Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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her shoulder and open: this gets her attention and kino usually makes the conversation more intimate) I saw some older woman I really like the look of at the newspaper stand & did a “what is the best paper to buy” opener. (blatant openers copyright perry barnes 2009 all rights reserved in all media) I am then generally an upbeat sort of optimist. & said “thank you young lady” older women absolutely love this (conpliments are the key to older women: muse exclusive). Age regression, does he think I’m young, is it a compliment, does he like me etc. I broke an un-useful belief as well today. I done an opener & then another girl got on the bus & I thought, can’t do another 1 whilst she’s there. Then I thought maybe it will give me Player status (useful). So I did a similar opener & the other girl suddenly got more interested (IOIs). Just looked in my coat pocket & o que em dia homem. There was a girl giving me IOIs at the train station & I sat next to her on the train. It felt like she was trying to demonstrate her personality (going in the handbag) this is a big IOI by the way. She got a book out - “desculpe, só em segundo. What on earth is that book about?”. Good length conversation, me DHVed with film making, Hungarian film guy & my script. She’s going to be in a theatre production in August. She wrote all the details on a bit of paper for me (jacket pocket). Might be interesting. Remember, there were old stupid beliefs in our heads from lots of years of various stupid people. There are always things to change, modify or adapt. I’m thinking about the situations that I still believe its impossible to approach & figuring out solutions as we communicate. As Anthony Hopkins says in MI2 “this is Mission Impossible, mission difficult should be a walk in the park for you”. New new new: (writing this 7 days later) A girl approached me today & asked for help with her computer (heard this one before). She wants help sending an e-card. I kino a bit & am being funny (no compliments). I half went to walk away & I got the “stay stay stay” thing (different words, but the voice urgency is the key component). What’s your name, how old are you, where do you live (IOI limited plc). Her brother appears & she tells him that I’m really funny. I say I’m 24 & she makes some comments about not wasting my time & that I’m a little boy. Hmmm. In the past I would have got pissed off with but Perry Bandler is tired of that. After a bit more help I say “I’m busy so, this little boy is going over there to teach that guy English” she says are you an English teacher? (ha ha ha) “then at 5 o clock this little boy is meeting some Hungarian film maker because I’m his screenwriter for his new film. Unfortunately no one taught me about limitations, so I just do everything”. (if a women negs you make her comments laughable, logically crush her statements: she wants a strong guy so give her yourself: for examples of how to do this Watch Bill Hicks) Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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I walk & (PS get some business cards) write little boy on my business card & give it to her “Thanks” she says. I glanced at her & her face was beaming. Fuck the conscious response of these people & give them what they want. Also my business card says £10 an hour on it. Very good DHV & so replicate it in your own way. Also, on the bus the other day I used “can I get a quick female opinion, who do you think lies more, men or women”. The girl gave me IOIs at bus stop. I sat in front of her on bus & turned round. 1st time I’d used this opener & I was a bit funny about using it. As usual it went great. We spoke most of the journey (45 minutes), when we got to the shopping centre she went a different direction (ASD). Not my type + if we had bumped into each other again at the shopping centre it would have been Destiny. E.g. always take every opportunity. Also, I started reading (which I not Like Passionately) because I need something on the bus journeys. Anytime that you want something to do somewhere & have to wait e.g. queuing, bus, bus stop, trains & stations, library, wherever. Do PU because the boredom overrides the AFC programs automatically. Field report – 12 openers/approaches I had a mental day today with a many openers. useful way (for me & you).

I shall explain it in a

New openers: “excuse me, JGAS, what colour are the buses in this country”? Yes, I got some varied responses from this. From 1 funny look, to a giggle but it was all good practise. I approached a 2 set in a café with this one & they were very helpful but she asked “your accent sounds English, are you being funny with us”? I replied “it must be where I learned my English” LOL. I approached 1 girl and her boyfriend suddenly appeared, ahhhhhhhhh!!!! I recovered with the business card. I started doing more Compliments & Kino today. I asked “do you know when the bus is coming” with good tonality once. Good stuff. I asked when on a train platform walking towards the Central Line “do you know where the central line is”? her & her friend told me. Then I followed up with “by the way, fantastic legs”. She got a bit hair flicky over that. I told another girl that her legs were fantastic which started 1 minute conversation. The best response of the day was from a train. I got IOIs & then asked “do you used this opener a few times today. It seemed really interested. I kinoed her was Lithuanian. I made a comment about Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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that you know you are good looking/handsome they get completely into you. Always use this. I gave her my Business card. I then explained my T-Shirt as English Class & pulled my notepad for more teaching. She seemed unhappy to get off the train and I told her to email me. I also had a good conversation with a nice Portuguese girl at a really cool café at London Bridge. On female student: I used “it is not necessary to become more & more fascinated with me It is just quite likely”: good response. I really like this command as it sounds very natural & is easy to slip in. What a day. Hope this advances you a many much. Remember your unconscious now (hee hee) processes difficult questions whilst you do something else. So if you stuck on coursework then go do some pickup.

Had a very good & slightly funny day today.

Let me explain.

1st to is mention is that I used “when’s the sun coming out today” the other day & then followed up with a compliment like “wow, your eyes are amazing, can you look at me every now & then as a replacement for the sun”. These are the type of compliments I used to do but I’m bringing them back as girls love this level of attention. (especially older women and cafe girls: muse exclusive) Also, using these types of compliments makes your whole life easier. The job centre for example, is a place I use this sort of stuff. They make them feel great & thus you as well. Test this on the 1st suitable girl you see. It’s recommended that you already know the person but not necessary. An example is “by the way, great dress sense” you can if you want follow up with “wow, & you have really nice eyes as well”. Ponder that no one is blatantly nice to people & so these score a direct hit. Right, back to my very good but slightly funny PU. I met this girl 2 months ago when I was teaching the Italian girl. I got her interested quickly & gave her my business card. She emailed me a month later & asked if I could help with her computer. I recently emailed/text everybody with the opener “can I ask you a quick question”. I got 2 good responses at the time e.g. use this one. (intrigue openers: sometimes hbs reopen you from these, in fact they have to reopen you for the conversation to continue>>> and how does a girl feel when she opens a guy? She is 90% of the time wanting you when she replies to these) She however, replied yesterday although I didn’t know, so she phoned me & said remember me, do you want to meet & I said tomorrow. She sounded keen (surprising given Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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the time elapsed) & I found her email saying “my number is… phone me & we’ll take it from there”. So I can’t believe my luck or unconscious skill, however you don’t look at it. I meet her today armed with my guitar as I had suggested this ages ago & she plays. So we meet, sit outside, suggestions are flying about & I’m thinking ultra-snazzy. Then we play some guitar & harmonica, I did some major DHVing. I am almost a master at this area. (DHVing is one of my strongest points>> Take a PUA Course with Muse to Learn This £10 an hour 07963960499) I used teaching, website, tons of useful information, being alpha etc. She gets really into this & says something like “oh my god you are a total genius, I am so lucky to have met you, you’re gonna write books & I can say that I knew you”. Fecking heaven man, I’m like, how the fuck am I doing so well. Don’t relax yet there is a stupid ending to this story. This isn’t surprise of the year. So me and her are getting on great she’s like “I can’t believe how much fun I’m having”. I was digging her on almost everything she said but she liked it alot. I was also inserting the fantastic command “oh yeah, he’s like me a lot”. Bandler uses this one so much & we wonder why we like him so much. I think that the conscious mind takes this as cocky which everyone loves, so it’s really easy to use i.e. I compare everyone to how great I am. She was giving me loads of kino & was enjoying me doing it to her. Then she suggests we go to a restaurant. You get 1 guess. Nandos. The Institute can almost give me my Portu-geezer certificate. By the way I used false takeaways 3 times today. She either ran after me or got really upset that I might go. (Learn Takeaways > Mystery Method) Then came the shit tests/IOIs. These things cross over a bit I think. “how old are you, where do you live, do you live with your sister, do you want kids”. The other shit test she dropped (like it’s hot) was “you’ve got that bad back from too much sex”. I confronted her with “nice test but I told you I’m the one doing the tests”. Style suggests replying to sex shit tests by saying “Respect” or with a high five or something like that. He said something like “you lose with whatever you say on this type of test, so say nothing” e.g. “Respect”. Passed the Kids shit test by talking about Rafaela & how I annoy parents by making the kids happy. I believe that I can create good answers for all of these & may have in the past. E.g. I once used on a girl that I still live at home because of looking after my mum as I had hit my step dad to protect her. Make the best of what you have. You can explain how your family depends on you to live in that house & to look after the kids, Vicky is 2 rafaela is 8. This will be a great DHV good dad family man piece. Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Anyway we go back to café and we are going to plan her business cards. I am doing some free as a sample & then she buys any others from me. Her/my idea. I talk to Marco a bit in the café & then decide because the girl said “we’re not ready yet to do busking” to do it anyway. I sit outside the café and play the couple of songs I know. Which was bit nervous but it got comfortable. Then the Stoopid bit.

She walks out & says “you’re too young for me”.

What the fuck?!?!? I stand up & look as I felt with a “you make as much sense as a chocolate teapot” kind of look. The force of PUA kept me good though. I pointed at my face & said “Kiss”. Use this one it’s great. Also I really like “hands off the merchandise” & used it today. She kissed my cheek & walked off. & by the way earlier in the day she subtly suggested I should kiss her at the end of the date. Anyway, work that one out. Could be a few things ASD (anti-slut defense), she really likes me & doesn’t want to get involved, I got the shit tests wrong. Anyway she needs me more than the other way round. & on the bright side (of life) I got a fun day, loads of DHV n social proof, new business, I did busking for the 1st time, I’m a certified Portuguese (otimo). I asked a Brazilian recently “how was the concert & she replied” Otimoooo. Cool. I now believe that PU is the only way & what I mean is. Even if everything is right girls can be stupid. I met the right one (ages ago, not today) & she pretends I don’t exist (shutup afc and START LOL). So what are you supposed to do? Become a master of the game/s I think. I have a great album by the Game (rapper) & it quotes at the beginning “a lot of people, are advocating that the rich get richer & the poor get poorer. But that’s only because you don’t understand what’s going to happen to you, you see, it’s all just a game ladies & gentlemen, & the quality of your living depends entirely on your ability, to play the game. & I play the game”

To Lobster (good pua) on the way home today at the train station, a 40+ woman was walking by with shopping bags i cleared the space so she could sit then i resumed a recent opening tactic: *if hb is older or less value than me, i open with a compliment this is fantastic by the way, because they never, get compliments the same way, hb 10s never get negged, so that works with them i chat casually, i did thumb war (the only routine i used) then i just joked for the train journey 4 hb8s were looking at me with pure lust and when i got on the train Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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a hb10 was totally playing with hair etc which amazed me then > she number closed me in an afc way (lol) and arranged a date with me where she's giving me alcohol and presents (lolx2) i have been considering dating ugs/hb6s to help get hb8s and now i've decided its the way to go i was in a cafe with a hb5 gf (i'm using her to learn a language) and some hb8's were giving me iois this is so surprising to me, that social proof or jealousy is such and automatic switch that any quality of girl (if she's into you is perfect for this strategy) i currently have 2 MLTRs who are hb6s (and a hb8) i am going to, get 10 and use them to acquire more hbs wish me good skill and i'll post back my results Muse add all the posts from the attraction forum then save as a pdf forum subject: tomboys cool topic. i like tomboys and after getting good with the game they still bugged me. Things that work for me: Flattery: when a hb is all over me; i love it; so assume they do too. Buy hb tea/coffee; afc mentality of having to recipricate works with them. It may take longer; to seduce them; so add factors such as jealousy in. My most recent tomboys have taken over 10 hours to conquer. I pretended i was gay (and was totally serious about it); met 2 hbs at the same time and did numerous dhvs. plus my favourite; turn your body away from them and don't react to them talking; they grab me and make me listen (ha ha) Muse

forum subject: next book The Sexual Key JD Fuentes explains how women really think and i've confirmed this with women its a great routine just explaining to an hb what you learned (from a psychology book) or mentioning that you think the Female way and noone understands you (LOL), it contains loads of R Jeffries style patterns too Style/Mystery are the best and they gave you a structure Add things into this structure Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Direct game through badboy and/or juggler will complete your knowledge you will be using your voice the whole time so take a voice training book/CD i use Jonathan Altfield: Your Irresistable Voice Muse forum subject: my friend and his opinion Meta model him. I don't get why its so important to u, although i've probably tried to convince people of stuff before. I've decided people who disagree with me just for the sake of it aren't worth the time. You can be out sarging with that time. Or starting a business or something other than convincing someone that purposely said "no, no, no" Know more. Its a darwinist world. Everyone's doing something to improve themselves secretly in the background. I wonder what his trick is??? If he hasn't got one then be happy u have. Go meet some PUAs, they don't need convincing, they will teach u a many things. So the decision is, kept explaining urself while some guy goes "great i'm getting free PU lessons without having to make the steps to join the community". Or learn 10 new things that will benefit u 4 the rest of your life. It don't matter how good ur friends r, if they don't support u in what u do at all. Re-evaluate. its a big world getting better I like that song. & it reflects today quite well. Joined a dating (swear word, i know) site. & did my usual mass attack to get a feel for the place. I just wrote a load of fluff/dhv talk to one hb with "i'm in x place at x time". I find that stating where i'm going to be often results in her volunteering a meet. Anyone else use this. in the messages I don't finalise our meeting details so she has to call me to confirm. We meet & its going great however i'm not decisive enough with where to go as i don't no the place & i was really tired. Go 4 coffee, & being tired i don't bother with routines; only dhv, be funny & interesting. I had her hurting with laughter a few times so i figured it was good. Plus she's giving IOIs, kinos going well with no Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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resistance at all. I decide to location change as it seemed appropriate & we go for ice cream. Note: on the way there i had shown interest in 2 locations hbs with flyers. I had made them both happy/IOIing & on the way out i made them laugh again. But the 2nd one i unconsciously went into the "i loved u in that film, with that boy, u should have won the oscar" her friend appears & we're getting on. I go back for email close and she explains she's got a BF. I go to do a BF destroyer but check what date (cough, splutter) is doing. Guess what. i look about & go to our next location bu i've been Total Takeawayed. buggery do dos (to put it politely). i phone her but i'm diverted. poop. so anyway PU fans dejected, i get a bus somewhere, pissed off & half analysing the female beast, when a get a call from someone. Turns out its HB-(send PU messages to as practise & fancied 6 months ago). "Its HBetc", oh, hi HBetc why u calling (manners). "Because I like you" (in a slurred whiskey for toothpaste voice) Cool. Where are u (lines iffy) bla bla. Send me a text & i'll come meet u. hour later text arrives with location + i'll see u next week (huh?) A week earlier i used exactly the same thing by telling her i'd be "outside the train station, 8pm, dress casual". Maybe she turned up as funnily enough i didn't. Anyway i do a nicely delivered approach/attraction on the bus back home so happy daze. C vs Us is really improving my material + non interested body language. Also thanks to Lobster for displaying this one "in an arm wrestle between a penguin & a koala bear who do u think would win?" (crap with older women or serious people but great with everyone else) The moral of the story is there's a hb around every corner & practise alot so you improve where I failed Richard Bandler: failure is only defined by a time limit girl tests you: general guide 1. answer correctly (preferable) 2. blow it up > make her look totally wrong 3. repeat it back to her > hb: you're too young, me: you're too old to date a sexy genius, find someone your own level Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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4. takeaway (if you can't think of nothing) > give another girl attention for 5 minutes 5. agree with her how do I Keep the conversation flowing My new thing for kino that I started using in classes then in the field. Is Thumb War. Everyone member this from school? Revision: 1, 2, 3, 4, I, Declare, a thumb, war (then cause blood). Should fill ur kino gap how to quit any drug (copyright perry barnes 2009 all rights reserved) For quitting the stuff u used to do? Test my method that has always let me quit any drug. 1. Take the drug u want to quit for 1 day but take e.g. no caffeine, nicoteine, alcohol, or 2. forgot that drug, then use another drug to day. 3. then keep takin your new drug which can be protein drinks (whatever floats your boat)

ensure its the only drug u anything. take its place the following exercise, sex, or even

Despite my drug quitting ways. I am currently coffee mental. However, I find, its the most productive drug (caffeine) in its best form. Chocalate makes me sick but coffee fill me with brilliant life changing ideas e.g. i've been drinking it now. If you really want help i'll be your Life Coach. plus I can hypnotise that shit out of your head if necessary or not. Life Coach: 07963960499 call/text whenever.

Cold reading: psychic things My brief cold reading knowledge is this. Palm reading takeaway: Ask for hb pencils hand then run ur finger along some line there. Have a concentrating look on ur face then really shocked/suprised. "wow, i can't tell u now, i'll tell u later, its not fair". Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Some crap like that & they become really interested in u. + u don't have t demonstrate nada. Best done early. PS: they often said "u can't do that/read hands" but this concern soon dissappears. The principle of actual cold reading is truisms. "u haven't always been this confident, u were once very shy". Or stating something about them matter of factly. If u notice she has a college bag "u still aren't sure what u want to be, there is a mist around u that is beginning to clear". According to JD Fuentes if you talk in pictures hbs don't analyse what you say "its like a waterfall falling on you and u want it to stop" means more to girls than us. In hypnosis ambigiuty is key. If you use terms like people, they, them, those she will apply what you say to her. In cold reading by being ambigious people (hee hee) search for their specific meaning & attach it to your message compliments and poems Extreme compliments work perfectly on older women. They are staved of decent male attention. Whenever an older woman interrupts me I suggest i'm in love with her, we're getting married, when's she taking me dancing, stop writing me poems etc. Since your new to PU maybe u should do something big to get her attention. Write her a poem & then do a Total Takeaway so she has no time to say thank you. I did this recently & the girl texted & then phoned me. Muse's guide to poetry: 1. Make it rhyme 2. say things you remember about her (people love others remembering them) 3. say something specific u like (describe eye colour) 4. finish with something confusing that she'll spend 2 days figuring out that doesn't rhyme PS: I know several people who didn't bother using tis treasue trove of info. Chocalate medal to you. & remember, you are going to become superior to any alpha you have ever met Muse playing guitar to hbs On the slightly obscure side there's a song by Queen called Spread Your Wings That, ina cold reading fashion, talks of someones desire to be better than Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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they are while others don't help. It can be applied to anyone due to the theme but also includes a name Sammy. I say something like "Hey, I wrote a song for you (its obscure, so why not) then I launch into the 1st line inserting their name or a nickname "Sammy/Ela/bigbreasts/Susan/Whatever was low, just watching the show, over & over again". Its simple to learn too and has brief picking so you can look professional. Another aproach is to find a song named after them. If you listen to lots of music this is easyish E.g. Rose = Roseline by Thin Lizzy Veronica = Elvis Costello Emily = Manic Street Preachers PS: This is also fantastic motivation to learn the guitar and new songs becoming a better person Mystery suggests that you are either a PUA or an AFC and you can choose. being a PUA will give the mind to think of girls as a fun hobby. I realised recently that I don't want a girlfriend. As an AFC I believed this is what I needed. That's a real big change of mind, and reflects the change in me. Through PU and NLP I don't recognise who I used to be. Which is what I wanted. I always find that multiple sources is the best way of learning. I suggest that you sign up to every PU email newsletter there is and make this and Testing the basis for your studies. Also through the newsletters you can find the best gurus and then buy some books/videos/classes Muse my 1st openers I found when I did my first PU style opener I was shitting it. So I made up my own one which was "Do you know when the sun's coming out?" which broke me in. PS: this opener is crap for continuing the conversation but ok as a pebble. I'm in England where sun is rare so people identified with it. I did some days of asking everyone suitable I saw during my day (about 20 people) so I adjusted to openers quickly this way. Some PUAs suggest doing 100 in a day in fact some guy did 120. This approach, has benefits. Whichever you, choose from these, will make your game very good very quick. Whilst I was doing that average opener, my friend however never Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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approached, instead he decided to work on his "confidence" in his bedroom with a computer. The books are great and the game is my favourite book ever. It introduces you to what is possible. Do openers to people you meet everyday. E.g. bus stop, train station, in shops, cafes, internet cafes. Then your old game can carry you a bit. You can talk so just do it and find out what works. AFCs get girls eventually through doing everything. Plus you have the knowledge from the PU books you're reading in your spare time which will just come out during talking. Then get a couple of good conversation openers e.g. who lies more, men or women? Which everyone uses but un-like the Sun opener it always generates good conversation. I'm sure Mystery said once if she doesn't hook to your opener fire off 3 or 4 openers until she's interested. This does work as I tested it. Sometimes they're a bit tired or something so it might take the 2 or third to hook them. Also I find that some openers are better depending on the situation. Who lies more, men or women: is very bad for older women. For them I use "My niece's birthday is coming up and I have to buy her a present..." They can identify with that. I'm thinking of writing a PUA book for beginners, you can have a free copy if you test it for me. Muse

RJ seems to be the orignator of patterns and his stuff is great but is like 1/5. If there's 5 parts to being a PUA patterns is 1 part. RJ seems to get vague (or nominalised as he might say) whenever asked about openers or closing which I think are the most important parts. Everyone can speak about things and is interesting to someone so the mid-game is kind of already there. So i'd say they are weak compared to MM but great as an addition. Richard Bandler was teaching flirting classes before RJ appeared and if you can study his language use or NLP then you can make your own patterns. I hear Bandler say things like "Mystery is alot like me" emphasising alot like me. or Like me alot. I incorporated that into my game and it works great. It appears that you're being cocky when its actually a command. & very easy to slip stuff like that into MM without a big hypnosis induction e.g. RJ Post any good ones you have. I want to advance in this area so we can discuss our a many sucesses. A many, is an NLP thing for making Good stuff Bigger. If the letter A means 1 e.g. a Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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PC then A many free PCs makes the best into more, as Many becomes 1. A many number & fuck closes to you Muse (RJ invented a lot of the terms in pua, he trained a lot of the best (mark cunningham, david deangelo, style, he is an nlp expert and just because of this he has the absolute best tools to use, it may be worth training with him, and I also recommend a combination of Mystery Method and RJ to be in the elite, and if RJ ever reads this, explain to people how your method fits into Mystery Method, it would be the greatest method, or create a new book which explains your structure similar to how Mystery did, your structure is different, even richard bandler the highest genius of us all, has not systematically explained his work for several years, his early books are very systematic, so unfortunately people bought those iffy text books by joseph o connor is it?) Forum subject: Isolating in a 2 set with no wing Whenever I've opened a set of just girls (2-4) if they look like the fun type e.g. not talking politics & work. I become a total clown and entertain them which can be done whilst showing them no male to female attention. If you do this for 10-20 minutes with takeaways and DHVs. In your set one of them will give more IOIs and attention than the others Go for that one. Even if you liked another one, as you can use this success as social proof to get the other one. You can use the tear a sheet of paper in half close which i've adapted to: Give her the back of your business card & a pen and hold another card. Swap cards. A business card has an inbuilt DHV. SOme of this stuff seems based on time. To keep it simple entertain them for 15 to 20 minutes before considering a number close. If you want more then invent a location change. The books on this stuff are very good but your life is specific to you. You can be interesting for 20 minutes in a completely different way to me. So do that stuff and ask every 20+ minutes girl for a phone number. Find out what works through testing and laughing if something funny happens Muse self improve books and doing things A friend of mine gets me all this self help stuff and its very good information. Real inside stuff and I love it. But he never stops buying the stuff. Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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I limit myself to watching a certain amount and then I test it or incorporate the improvements. He reads whole books in a day. I think his method seems good but it has no result. The point is to get a result, isn't it. I'm reading a book called influence at the moment & it suggests stuff like doing a favour means that they owe you. & expensive = good in most peoples minds. So I made some business cards for my customers (in fact I've made 4 lots for 4 of them). I gave them a small amount for free and wrote Choose Expensive or Value service on them. I tested 2 ideas that day with 4 people. Then you read more, & only then. With PU, read a new opener and say it to 5 people that day.

(indian's ask men for permission to leave, its part of their culture) did i tell u i spoke to an indian girl on the bus she had headphones and she asked "can i put them back in now" i said "no" like i do with u luis joia said (13:59): and she wouldn't hahahaaah i owe this cultural knowledge to u i see her Iceland uniform and say "i don't know where iceland is or would could continue" luis joia said (14:00): and old lady 80 years says "oohjhj its at the top of the market" the girl looked like omg he knows now! hahahahha she'll be nice when i see her they always are luis joia said (14:01): she'll appreciate i remembered her (i understand women not so well): ) Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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How to be funny Funniness. I seemed to get this before pu but forgot all the other bits. Familiar with nlp? Most of the time I assume that there is a joke everywhere. Which results is me laughing like a goon. But if you assume that everything has a joke then you will begin to see the jokes everywhere. After a while they will natuarally come out of you. Unfortunately in jobs n schools n stuff people decided that seriousness is their actual purpose. ignore those people. & make their friends laugh. Watch and listen to every comedian you can and repeat their jokes to other people. Through doing this you will get the reward (laughter) that spurs you on to be funnier, still. I often adapt jokes that are too rude into clean jokes so that it appears to be yours (and kinda is). I heard John La Valle (nlp) once say that Humour is basically using ambiguities. When something can mean 2 things and they get a bit confused they usually laugh. I have tested this since, and made some weird funny stuff. Like I held a manual screw driver and made the sound of an electric one. & if they laugh it is always good. So test your new jokes on several people. Pulling silly faces and making silly noises is great, so watch the masters of this. I like the Bottom series. No matter how much Richie is insulted he agrees with the insult which is hilarious. Jokes between 2 people are great as most people are suprised that you make so much effort for just them (good for girls). They look round for someone to tell and there's only you (arrr). The funniest guy at the moment is Russell Brand. http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio2/shows/brand/ I regularly borrow (he he) his jokes and use them during the week. See what works. He does one where he says like "muse, if that is your real name, which i very much doubt, where's the evidence that's all i'm saying" this works everytime (test it). He says something recently about Bras being a symbol of female opression. I adapted it to a text message and sent it to ten girls. 3 became very interested. So, study it. Same as other stuff. If you're making regular approaches then you can test other comedians stuff regularly until your mind understands the stucture of making great jokes without u even thinking about it. Plus: See yourself being funny and while you're being funny imagine what you look like. If they laugh, it is good. Muse w kiss close, use it on the next girl. Anyone can be the best looking PUA ever but if they stayed in the house they missed the Meeting part of the process. These books are fantastic information and when you transfer the principles into your life it will be fantastic

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your strengths are... My mid game was very good before finding the pua stuff. So i've concentrated on openers. I'm solid with a few and invented some new ones. I didn't go pubs/clubs much anyway so i've worked on everyday pu e.g. cafes, transport, street. my friend who introduced me to this has not sarged at all, so I haven't had practise with wings or anything like that. I'm talking to 9's & 10's sometimes for up to 30 minutes. This is one of the benefits of transport pu. I've been relying on giving out business cards instead of number closing which feels good at the time but sucks as they rarely call back. I want to number close consistantly. I'm fed up of being an afc. tuesday sounds great. It will be nice to work with someone on this & exchange ideas. muse

Conversation with the writer, natural pua and hb Techniques demonstrated include: nlp language patterns, cocky funny, testing hb, SOIs (statement of intent: juggler term), push pull, social proof, accomplishment wingmanship, DHVs marie Luis, Cjay ok 15/06/2008 22:50:48 15/06/2008 22:50:52 15/06/2008 22:50:54 15/06/2008 22:50:55 15/06/2008 22:50:57 15/06/2008 22:51:00 15/06/2008 22:51:04 15/06/2008 22:51:06 15/06/2008 22:51:21 15/06/2008 22:51:25 15/06/2008 22:51:35 15/06/2008 22:51:39 15/06/2008 22:51:45 15/06/2008 22:51:51 some day 15/06/2008 22:52:00 15/06/2008 22:52:07 america in general

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hi CJ this marie quem e'? Hey there she funny haha How u doing marie? haha brazilian friend? good he is fucking brilliant man i am fine thanks oh sorry lol Ahhhh brazil - dying to go there

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actually... Pretty much dying to get to south

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dying to = really want to not specifically brazil but im sure its lovely best place to go? yes it is best? i am not sure haha heh How do u guys know eachother? hahahhahahahahaha kkkkkk ahhh, i see a story coming on :) marie stop being rapport with me good question haha oh sorry so do i get to hear the

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oi u are so curious lol good thing im not a cat sure miouw Dogs are better anyways hey new opinion opener myyesss? i hated dogs ur missing out marie Dogs > cats ? much more loyal tho perhaps more smelly yes they smelly i hate it kkk hah i thinks cats are best reserved

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:) so good for ur mum lol kkkkkkkkk rsrs haha yeh sure, just make sure you

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you two rsrs god u making babies already hah who? ur friend? how old are u sweetie? 93 as of next week

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15/06/2008 22:59:05 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 22:59:07 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 22:59:09 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 22:59:19 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 22:59:20 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 22:59:25 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 22:59:45 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:00:14 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:00:25 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:00:26 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:01:28 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:01:38 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:01:51 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:03:16 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:03:30 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:04:14 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:04:25 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:04:31 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:04:38 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:04:57 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:05:08 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:05:09 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:05:21 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:05:51 Cjay Luis, marie better? 15/06/2008 23:06:16 Cjay Luis, marie luive there for a while 15/06/2008 23:06:30 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:06:34 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:06:39 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:06:45 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:07:08 Cjay Luis, marie passionate people 15/06/2008 23:07:08 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:07:22 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:07:26 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:07:29 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:07:32 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:07:35 Luis Cjay, marie english from a native speaker 15/06/2008 23:07:46 Cjay Luis, marie both worlds? 15/06/2008 23:07:49 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:07:54 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:08:00 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:08:06 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:08:10 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:08:17 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:08:21 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:08:25 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:08:31 Cjay Luis, marie Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

im getting on a bit... marie you did drink too much tea i see less sugar next time yes i did lol rsr ok boss hey uno momento ok almost marie your other foto on the one you look very pretty in esta? bk Marie, what brings you to london? luis haha ur friend i can see why, hes a good guy lol sure sure? i need a toilet knock urself out man brazil vs england - which is If u say brazil maybe ill go what ur mean? country,sport...? country people fun south americans seem like very well country england you know people and fun, brazil lol ah hah! marie doesn't want to learn so ur giving england the best of and CJ doesn't have blue eyes Yeh i do kkk thank god spanish man? i don't have to help marie now thanks ma man Im a little spanish Page 91

15/06/2008 23:08:35 Cjay Luis, marie sort of ... 15/06/2008 23:08:39 marie Luis, Cjay hmm 15/06/2008 23:08:46 Cjay Luis, marie My mothers side 15/06/2008 23:08:59 marie Luis, Cjay ok 15/06/2008 23:09:07 Luis Cjay, marie ta 15/06/2008 23:09:17 marie Luis, Cjay marie doesn't want to learn english from a native speaker 15/06/2008 23:09:30 Luis Cjay, marie can't find the book 15/06/2008 23:09:39 Cjay Luis, marie why is marie talking about herself in the third person - very creepy 15/06/2008 23:09:40 Cjay Luis, marie :) 15/06/2008 23:10:03 marie Luis, Cjay rs 15/06/2008 23:10:09 Luis Cjay, marie marie loses 3 points 15/06/2008 23:10:16 Cjay Luis, marie i agree 15/06/2008 23:10:24 Cjay Luis, marie Luis gains 1 point 15/06/2008 23:10:34 Luis Cjay, marie lol and rs 15/06/2008 23:10:40 Luis Cjay, marie x2 15/06/2008 23:11:17 marie Luis, Cjay ok 15/06/2008 23:11:37 Cjay Luis, marie (&) 15/06/2008 23:12:00 marie Luis, Cjay (sn) 15/06/2008 23:12:06 marie Luis, Cjay kkk 15/06/2008 23:12:11 Cjay Luis, marie :) 15/06/2008 23:12:24 Cjay Luis, marie (sn)(K) 15/06/2008 23:12:31 marie Luis, Cjay :$ 15/06/2008 23:12:36 Cjay Luis, marie = :| 15/06/2008 23:12:42 marie Luis, Cjay ?? 15/06/2008 23:12:50 Cjay Luis, marie They dont taste so good 15/06/2008 23:13:02 Cjay Luis, marie wouldnt reccomend it 15/06/2008 23:13:21 marie Luis, Cjay lol 15/06/2008 23:13:24 Luis Cjay, marie why you kissing snails 15/06/2008 23:13:34 Cjay Luis, marie i kiss all sorts of things 15/06/2008 23:13:44 Cjay Luis, marie (but mainly snails) 15/06/2008 23:13:55 marie Luis, Cjay u a really crazy kkk 15/06/2008 23:14:05 Luis Cjay, marie why thankyou 15/06/2008 23:14:06 Cjay Luis, marie They grant me super human abilities 15/06/2008 23:14:19 Cjay Luis, marie Like my awesome snail power!!!! 15/06/2008 23:14:27 Luis Cjay, marie hha 15/06/2008 23:14:30 Luis Cjay, marie hahahahhahaha 15/06/2008 23:14:45 Luis Cjay, marie e.g. 1 day to walk 12 inches 15/06/2008 23:14:57 Cjay Luis, marie one of my many abillkities 15/06/2008 23:15:01 Luis Cjay, marie marie you 15/06/2008 23:15:14 Cjay Luis, marie i can also engulf people with slime! 15/06/2008 23:15:22 marie Luis, Cjay ? 15/06/2008 23:15:31 Cjay Luis, marie so watch out marie 15/06/2008 23:15:32 Luis Cjay, marie marie you wouldn't spend all days having fun wit 12 inches 15/06/2008 23:15:38 Luis Cjay, marie like snails do 15/06/2008 23:15:52 Luis Cjay, marie they really take a whole day to walk this far Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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15/06/2008 23:17:05 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:17:25 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:17:34 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:17:40 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:17:45 Cjay Luis, marie mket 15/06/2008 23:17:55 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:18:01 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:18:10 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:18:26 Cjay Luis, marie powers 15/06/2008 23:18:34 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:19:01 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:19:59 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:20:09 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:20:37 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:20:44 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:21:17 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:21:22 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:21:35 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:21:40 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:21:48 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:21:49 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:22:42 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:22:42 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:22:42 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:22:42 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:22:51 Luis Cjay, marie http://barnesinstitute.2freedom.com 15/06/2008 23:22:59 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:23:10 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:23:29 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:23:33 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:24:08 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:24:30 Luis Cjay, marie CJ 15/06/2008 23:24:41 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:24:42 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:25:07 Cjay Luis, marie convo hang on 15/06/2008 23:25:35 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:25:52 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:26:05 Cjay Luis, marie 15/06/2008 23:26:09 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:26:20 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:26:34 Luis Cjay, marie 15/06/2008 23:26:46 marie Luis, Cjay 15/06/2008 23:27:04 Luis Cjay, marie yourself "These guys are what I need" 15/06/2008 23:27:23 Luis Cjay, marie like marie Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

Marie, u have any superpowers? what about u? Ofcourse i see but i never tell someone i just Youd have to earn my trust first earn my trust* for? for me to tell you about my sure u dont believe me? why i have to? kkk you dont sure marie you have a nice bum i just decided and i wrote it on my website so it must be true not as good as mine though U hv a website? me? no no luis marie likes my website wheres ur pic? mine? both cant send to both ppl what about the model foto you did who asked for u send it? rs or a normal one It wont let me send to a multi so u wanna be my friend? Hmmm you did well take it or leave it nice pic luis i look sexy in this why women love grey hair so much rs marie i STOP and i say to and then what books would you Page 93

15/06/2008 23:27:37 Luis Cjay, marie marie tell me your favourite chocolate 15/06/2008 23:28:03 marie Luis, Cjay white 15/06/2008 23:28:49 Luis Cjay, marie i am quite white 15/06/2008 23:28:53 Luis Cjay, marie and proud of it 15/06/2008 23:29:21 Luis Cjay, marie i make babies with italian girl then they look normal colour 15/06/2008 23:29:46 marie Luis, Cjay rs 15/06/2008 23:30:31 Cjay Luis, marie ok thats what i look like in real life 15/06/2008 23:30:47 Cjay Luis, marie (i just had my haircur when i got that pic done) 15/06/2008 23:30:50 marie Luis, Cjay lindt my favourite 15/06/2008 23:30:57 marie Luis, Cjay chocolate 15/06/2008 23:33:32 Luis Cjay, marie marie i'm a badboy i would break your heart and sleep with all your friends 15/06/2008 23:34:11 Luis Cjay, marie one of the things you will love about CJ is his emotions 15/06/2008 23:34:12 marie Luis, Cjay right 15/06/2008 23:34:51 marie Luis, Cjay well u know that i dont like dogs kkkkkk 15/06/2008 23:35:31 Luis Cjay, marie marie feel excited immediately 15/06/2008 23:35:36 Luis Cjay, marie because god said so 15/06/2008 23:35:57 Luis Cjay, marie god is often right 15/06/2008 23:36:05 Luis Cjay, marie he made the world i think 15/06/2008 23:36:10 Luis Cjay, marie or was it buddhe 15/06/2008 23:36:11 marie Luis, Cjay me excited for a dog? never 15/06/2008 23:36:20 Cjay Luis, marie you should be 15/06/2008 23:36:21 Luis Cjay, marie he is so cute 15/06/2008 23:36:21 Cjay Luis, marie im hott 15/06/2008 23:36:27 marie Luis, Cjay Hmmm 15/06/2008 23:36:50 Cjay Luis, marie There are plenty of women out there who will give me love 15/06/2008 23:37:01 Luis Cjay, marie marie if a part of you Awakens to CJ what would it feel like? 15/06/2008 23:37:12 Cjay Luis, marie interesting question 15/06/2008 23:37:36 Luis Cjay, marie i studied Food Technology at school this why 15/06/2008 23:37:54 marie Luis, Cjay intereting for u, cos 15/06/2008 23:38:05 marie Luis, Cjay oi luis eu nao compreendo iss 15/06/2008 23:39:26 Luis Cjay, marie para bens 15/06/2008 23:39:34 Luis Cjay, marie chocolate medal 15/06/2008 23:39:35 marie Luis, Cjay food technology? 15/06/2008 23:39:43 Luis Cjay, marie how to cook 15/06/2008 23:39:55 Cjay Luis, marie wow, thats quite impressive ur rewarding her with the cholocate medal! 15/06/2008 23:40:05 Cjay Luis, marie quite an accomplishment 15/06/2008 23:40:08 Luis Cjay, marie the = only one 15/06/2008 23:40:14 Luis Cjay, marie like highlander 15/06/2008 23:40:22 Cjay Luis, marie heh 15/06/2008 23:40:26 Luis Cjay, marie i think our friend has signed in Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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15/06/2008 23:40:43 Cjay Luis, marie who m,ight that be? 15/06/2008 23:40:51 Luis Cjay, marie marie marie the only one for me 15/06/2008 23:41:08 Luis Cjay, marie but 1st i need a toilet 15/06/2008 23:41:11 marie Luis, Cjay and roberta, monika 15/06/2008 23:41:17 Luis Cjay, marie jahahhahahahahahaah 15/06/2008 23:41:20 Luis Cjay, marie this so funny 15/06/2008 23:41:22 marie Luis, Cjay kkk 15/06/2008 23:41:27 Luis Cjay, marie you call me a player? 15/06/2008 23:41:52 Luis Cjay, marie marie when we make love to you you might to heaven 15/06/2008 23:41:54 Luis Cjay, marie maybe 15/06/2008 23:41:54 marie Luis, Cjay rs 15/06/2008 23:42:05 Luis Cjay, marie might go to heaven 15/06/2008 23:42:47 Luis Cjay, marie marie can you cook? 15/06/2008 23:43:40 marie Luis, Cjay no shall we ask ur friend? 15/06/2008 23:43:46 marie Luis, Cjay kkk 15/06/2008 23:44:20 Luis Cjay, marie you can cook if you write him a poem 15/06/2008 23:44:26 marie Luis, Cjay maybe he can cook for us 15/06/2008 23:44:55 Cjay Luis, marie Only cook for dog lovers ;) 15/06/2008 23:45:06 marie Luis, Cjay oh shame lol 15/06/2008 23:45:07 Luis Cjay, marie i cook pot noodle with ketchup 15/06/2008 23:45:15 Cjay Luis, marie yum 15/06/2008 23:45:30 marie Luis, Cjay no taste 15/06/2008 23:46:18 Luis Cjay, marie Man-U-champs of europe again baby! says: hi how r u i got ur e-mail off some site . are u a personal trainer Luis says: maybe Luis says: are u pua? Man-U-champs of europe again baby! says: im an irish football player and I have a few problems u might be interested in helping me mate? 15/06/2008 23:46:28 Luis Cjay, marie crazy life 15/06/2008 23:47:49 marie Luis, Cjay I am a desatre in the kitchen... 15/06/2008 23:47:52 marie Luis, Cjay kkk 15/06/2008 23:48:55 marie Luis, Cjay disaster 15/06/2008 23:49:15 Luis Cjay, marie disastrado 15/06/2008 23:49:31 Luis Cjay, marie marianna 15/06/2008 23:49:34 marie Luis, Cjay sim 15/06/2008 23:49:40 Luis Cjay, marie monika's friend 15/06/2008 23:50:02 marie Luis, Cjay chef? 15/06/2008 23:51:15 Luis Cjay, marie her hungarian boyfriend is out of country 15/06/2008 23:51:27 marie Luis, Cjay cool 15/06/2008 23:51:41 Luis Cjay, marie she told me 3 things important in relationship to her 15/06/2008 23:51:44 Luis Cjay, marie good sex 15/06/2008 23:51:52 Luis Cjay, marie the small things 15/06/2008 23:51:55 Luis Cjay, marie and 15/06/2008 23:52:10 marie Luis, Cjay money 15/06/2008 23:52:14 marie Luis, Cjay kkk 15/06/2008 23:52:33 Cjay Luis, marie heh well i can agree with maybe one of those 15/06/2008 23:53:03 marie Luis, Cjay qual e' a terceira entao? Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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15/06/2008 23:53:05 Luis Cjay, marie 3rd thing 15/06/2008 23:53:08 Luis Cjay, marie any guess 15/06/2008 23:53:10 marie Luis, Cjay yes 15/06/2008 23:53:17 marie Luis, Cjay no 15/06/2008 23:53:25 marie Luis, Cjay travel? 15/06/2008 23:53:46 Cjay Luis, marie Guess u really must be brazlian, most are answers linked to those with passionate traits 15/06/2008 23:53:48 Luis Cjay, marie close 15/06/2008 23:53:53 marie Luis, Cjay mother in law out... 15/06/2008 23:53:57 marie Luis, Cjay kkk 15/06/2008 23:54:02 Cjay Luis, marie woo 15/06/2008 23:54:04 Luis Cjay, marie kill mother law 15/06/2008 23:54:19 Cjay Luis, marie heh :) 15/06/2008 23:54:25 Luis Cjay, marie watch Halloween for good ideas 15/06/2008 23:55:20 Luis Cjay, marie 3. he has to be interesting person 15/06/2008 23:55:56 marie Luis, Cjay second small things? 15/06/2008 23:56:05 marie Luis, Cjay what u mean? 15/06/2008 23:56:06 Luis Cjay, marie many girls say this 15/06/2008 23:56:25 Luis Cjay, marie e.g. he does many small things which make her smile 15/06/2008 23:56:45 Luis Cjay, marie because you married when you were 10anos you wont, understand this 15/06/2008 23:57:07 marie Luis, Cjay well not after 5 / 7 years together kkkkkkkkk 15/06/2008 23:57:21 marie Luis, Cjay men are like dogs 15/06/2008 23:57:29 marie Luis, Cjay well like ur friend lol 15/06/2008 23:57:35 marie Luis, Cjay ahaha 15/06/2008 23:57:48 Luis Cjay, marie e.g. he always is ready to protect a quality woman 15/06/2008 23:57:55 Luis Cjay, marie she is funny 15/06/2008 23:57:58 Luis Cjay, marie isn't she 15/06/2008 23:58:10 Cjay Luis, marie i suppose :) 15/06/2008 23:58:12 Luis Cjay, marie even though she needs to see doctor 15/06/2008 23:58:26 Luis Cjay, marie Dr Luis 15/06/2008 23:58:37 Luis Cjay, marie the gynocologist 15/06/2008 23:58:39 Cjay Luis, marie and what do you specialise in dr luis? 15/06/2008 23:58:43 Cjay Luis, marie ah... 15/06/2008 23:58:50 marie Luis, Cjay ssshhh dont tell it 15/06/2008 23:58:58 marie Luis, Cjay kkk 15/06/2008 23:58:59 Luis Cjay, marie you think in that profession 15/06/2008 23:59:05 Luis Cjay, marie the women pay for extra 15/06/2008 23:59:14 Luis Cjay, marie not in mine 15/06/2008 23:59:22 Luis Cjay, marie the do to get cheap classes 15/06/2008 23:59:32 Luis Cjay, marie this is why we should be escorts 15/06/2008 23:59:40 Luis Cjay, marie me and marie 15/06/2008 23:59:50 Cjay Luis, marie who would earn more? 15/06/2008 23:59:55 Luis Cjay, marie CJ be Prime Minister 15/06/2008 23:59:58 Luis Cjay, marie or Doctor Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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16/06/2008 00:00:09 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:00:15 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:00:15 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:00:35 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:00:44 Cjay Luis, marie cult in south america 16/06/2008 00:00:53 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:01:03 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:01:12 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:01:27 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:01:37 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:01:54 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:02:00 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:02:17 Luis Cjay, marie romantic book 16/06/2008 00:02:26 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:02:29 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:02:32 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:02:46 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:03:10 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:03:18 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:03:51 Luis Cjay, marie makes you feel like "this is so natural: 16/06/2008 00:03:54 Cjay Luis, marie right ??? 16/06/2008 00:04:03 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:04:18 Cjay Luis, marie appearance so i pretend im a dog 16/06/2008 00:04:30 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:04:41 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:04:48 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:04:52 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:04:57 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:05:00 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:05:12 Cjay Luis, marie actually 16/06/2008 00:05:20 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:05:25 Luis Cjay, marie not translate correctly when write them 16/06/2008 00:05:45 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:06:20 Luis Cjay, marie happier to south americans 16/06/2008 00:06:29 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:06:47 marie Luis, Cjay 16/06/2008 00:06:54 Cjay Luis, marie 16/06/2008 00:07:07 Cjay Luis, marie guys 16/06/2008 00:07:16 Luis Cjay, marie you 16/06/2008 00:07:34 Luis Cjay, marie 16/06/2008 00:07:49 marie Luis, Cjay Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

or the New Jesus you asking me to make a choice? docter id better rs New JEsus, i'll form a bizarre dog? kkk No dogs allowed (apart from me) sure Luis can join maybe he can be our official doctor :) What could you do? I heard that CJ is like a how so? sure lol it may be true he has a certain energy all dogs has kkk have you ever met someone who this is what i am destiny to do" U do know im not actually a dog Im a (sn) But im embarrassed about my cool its a hot costume thanks man! for the marathon next year kkk ah indeed doing a charity run in july For help a london child PS i know some of these words may something i pick up over time e.g. say "more happy" instead of its in their language this way hmm gotcha i gotta head out for the night gotcha = got you = i understand or I received your message ok Page 97

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Roberta Muse, Tania who is Tania??? MuseTania, Roberta Tania: I will see you there at 2pm then Roberta Muse, Tania who is she? Muse Tania, Roberta brasilian Roberta Muse, Tania oi tania , tudo bem Roberta Muse, Tania ???? Roberta Muse, Tania voce mora na inglaterra? Tania Muse, Roberta tudo bem e voce Roberta Muse, Tania eeeeeeeeeeee Tania Muse, Roberta Sim Roberta Muse, Tania e sempre bom falar com brazileiros Roberta Muse, Tania si Roberta Muse, Tania hahahaha Tania Muse, Roberta sim Muse Tania, Roberta coool Roberta Muse, Tania sorry Perry Roberta Muse, Tania i minuto Muse Tania, Roberta lot's of words for me to look up Tania Muse, Roberta Who is Perry? Roberta Muse, Tania you will learn Roberta Muse, Tania voce não conhece ele? Tania Muse, Roberta No Roberta Muse, Tania como foi feita esta conferencia? Roberta Muse, Tania pensei que ele tivesse te convidado Tania Muse, Roberta I dont know Roberta Muse, Tania so Roberta Muse, Tania Perry Roberta Muse, Tania If she doenst know you ...... Roberta Muse, Tania ???? Roberta Muse, Tania i didnt understand Roberta Muse, Tania Are you there Perry Roberta Muse, Tania ??? Roberta Muse, Tania I was sure she was one of your friends Muse Tania, Roberta she is Tania Muse, Roberta listen roberta can you leave us alone Tania Muse, Roberta please Roberta Muse, Tania what????? Muse Tania, Roberta rsrsrsr Muse Tania, Roberta you 2 are funny Copyright © Perry Barnes 2009 All Rights Reserved in All Media

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Tania Muse, Roberta I was talk to him Roberta Muse, Tania yes can leave you alone if he says for me to go hahahahahah Roberta Muse, Tania if not Roberta Muse, Tania i am going to stay Roberta Muse, Tania and you need to leave hahahah Muse Tania, Roberta Tania i invited you here because i had to talk to roberta Roberta Muse, Tania :) Muse Tania, Roberta so it seemed to make sense Muse Tania, Roberta to join the calls together Roberta Muse, Tania yes but i think she wants be alone with you Muse Tania, Roberta instead of moving between both Muse Tania, Roberta join the club Tania Muse, Roberta Roberta do you live in London? Roberta Muse, Tania sorry i didnt know she is your girl friend ... ops!!!! Roberta Muse, Tania i didnt mean anything bad Roberta Muse, Tania he called Muse Tania, Roberta stop it Roberta Muse, Tania right Perry????? Roberta Muse, Tania i am leaving Tania Muse, Roberta Perry What is going on Muse Tania, Roberta see you tommorow Tania Tania Muse, Roberta Ok Roberta Muse, Tania isten ro erta can you leave us alone Muse Tania sorry Muse Tania about roberta I kiss closed Tania the next day (1 hour 30 minutes) and meet her occasionally still and get what I want. I reminded her of this conversation with Roberta when I met her 7 days ago. She told me that Roberta said “listen tania can you leave us alone” when the record clearly shows the opposite. Cool

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Lia pretend i massaging you 03:08:20 luis electim Lia in your favourite place 03:08:20 Lia luis electim hahaha 03:08:29 luis electim Lia in exactly the right way 03:08:42 Lia luis electim u wont do it, will u! 03:08:44 luis electim Lia and as you feel amazing in oceans 03:08:44 Lia luis electim hahahaha 03:08:53 luis electim Lia i continue more

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09/05/2009 03:09:09 Lia luis electim 09/05/2009 03:09:22 luis electim Lia 09/05/2009 03:09:39 luis electim Lia heavenly pleasure 09/05/2009 03:09:45 Lia luis electim humor. i think it is too intelligent 09/05/2009 03:09:47 luis electim Lia 09/05/2009 03:09:58 Lia luis electim 09/05/2009 03:10:07 luis electim Lia

Luis... u r so funny apprentice brasilian is me i have to learn to give brasil girl i love this kind of person with this then i get my certificado i am fascinated by intelligent people i send u my brain in a jar

DHV FOTOS DHV fotos (demonstration of higher value fotos) can be in many forms, your with other girls, you kissing girls highlighting the best parts of your life frequently record the best parts of your life in fotos if you write books then have fotos of this, if you record songs then do this if you present to huge audiences then show them those fotos look around your life and find the best areas then start fotoing (I also like to screenprint then save the images as jpgs)

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you may feel that you deserve the various free things coming to you because of your social skills you do an ioi: if a hb gives you food ex: this kit kat chunky, good memories free body shop sample as part of a direct routine my publishers email address scribbled on some paper, I met him using my social skills christmas card from a student (different subject, also gamed her)

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I decided about 2 years ago to get as many emails and facebooks everyday as I could, to build the skill of taking contact details within 5 minutes of meeting them before that I was taking phone numbers after 10 to 30 minutes talking with them which produced a solid number (they accept the call and you stay in contact) you should realise that some players now only use facebook to pick up hbs, if you practise making dates with it then you can use it more effectively than the phone at some minutes the PUA minutes buy his

point you should also master taking phone numbers inside 10 and getting instant dates + day 2's Sinn (from the game) recommends taking numbers around 17 to 25 in, for the best results cd series for more details Life Coaching and Inner Game

I recommend you Sign Up to their newsletters and Watch their Videos or Listen to their Audios. Having Awesome Social Times is easier to Create when your mind is working better. Other Excellent Life Coaches Include: Micheal Neill:

Radio Show: http://www.hayhouseradio.com/show_details.php? show_id=24&episode_id=4410&episode_type=0&schedule_id=39769# Website: http://www.geniuscatalyst.com/ Jamie Smart: http://www.saladltd.co.uk/ Likeability Assessment Useful Attraction or Comfort Routine: Works with 2 sets well too. If one hb is giving more attention you Give her a slightly higher scores. This pulls in the other one who may be your target

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Pua Teacher for beginners £10 an hour (London) Learn Approaching, Things to Say/Routines, Attraction, Comfort, Number and Kiss Closes NLP/PNL Skills Hypnosis available if you want to change how you think or feel Day Game Specialist: PU everytime you Go Somewhere you want (London) [email protected] 07963960499 Dating Coach: New Approach Learn how to meet people in a variety of contexts How to get contact details: phone numbers, emails The qualities which make your attractive and how to display them various ways to kiss her [email protected] 07963960499

MSN and Skype (World): NLP/PNL Language Pattern Coaching, Advice + hb practise on msn = £5 an hour: Pay with Paypal

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PUA Teacher for beginners 2 hours for £25 (London) Learn Approaching, Things to Say/Routines, Attraction, Comfort, Number and Kiss Closes NLP/PNL Skills Hypnosis available if you want to change how you think or feel Day Game Specialist: PU everytime you Go Somewhere you want (London) [email protected] 07963960499 choose the best place on the map to meet http://musemethodpua.blogspot.com/2009/07/hypnosis-just-for-puas.html free hypnosis just for puas from muse

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