MNX's Love/Hate Pendulum

Push Challenge/ Challenging Breaking Rapport

PushPull

PullPush

Challenging by forcing the bond

Bonding through challenges

Forceframing Rapport

Expecting Rapport

Pull Bond/ Bonding Building Rapport

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MNX’s Love/Hate Pendulum and MNX’s Push/Pull Attraction Model Whats goin down gentlemen?! Hope all is well, it’s been a wild ride lately, beachlife is too much fun;-) Here’s the 4th Chapter of MNX’s “The Ways of the Gentleman” that builds upon the foundation you have built thus far and incorporates what you have already learned into an attraction strategy. Please refer to the other lessons and your notes in regards to definition inquiries however I have included (redundantly;-) a few MNX definitions as they tend to be quite different than that of the community;-) Here is the comprehensive breakdown of how attraction works and how to incorporate MNX’s Push/Pull Attraction Model into one’s interactions *RIGHT NOW*. All romantic interactions are subject to this attraction model (**SEE ENDNOTE**) and will add to one’s game even if one uses an alternate attraction strategy. Original (Old) Push/Pull Theory Push/Pull Theory was originally defined as similar to a Ying/Yang of energy: one side of interactive energy is “Push” which flows into “Pull” and vice versa. Some examples of Push would be when one challenges, false disqualifies, or negs a woman and a few examples of Pull is when one rewards a woman through compliments, body language, or kino. Unfortunately this theory was quite vague. Questions of *when* one should Push and *when* one should Pull would arise. The generic response: Figure out each girl’s unique “Push/Pull ratio”. A couple of examples: Some girls need to be Pushed more to every Pull because they WANT a challenge (for example: some girls need to be teased more than other girls in order for them to become attracted) and some girls hate being Pushed as it brings up insecurities (for example: a girl who doesn’t feel she is good enough for you). The biggest problem with this broad generalization of attraction is that it can be hard to figure out each girl’s unique “Push/Pull ratio”. MNX’s Love/Hate Pendulum IME/IMO, all social interactions (with the opposite sex;-) fall within a “Love/Hate Pendulum”. On one side of the pendulum is “Hate” and on the opposite side is “Love”. When the pendulum is in the middle it represents “indifference”. The reason the Love/Hate dynamic is better represented by a pendulum than a Ying/Yang is because IME, the more I challenged a woman, the more apt she was to have strong feelings (of negativity, hate, or anger) towards me. At the same time however, these same frustrated, annoyed, pissed off women would become super attracted to me, somehow, someway. A majority of the hottest girls I had ever dated (ahem;-) have told me that they HATED ME when they first met me. Was this coincidence? Not a chance;-)

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It was part of my strategy to first get a woman EMOTIONAL, in order to instill various feelings (one being that of attraction) within her. Unfortunately, the only way *some* of these beautiful girls would even be fazed (read: NOT FEEL INDIFFERENT OR HAVE A “WHATEVER” ATTITUDE TOWARDS ME) was when I pissed them off… literally. Here’s why:

For one to react strongly towards something one must first be INVESTED. EMOTIONALLY INVESTED. When one puts one’s own feelings (one’s “heart and soul”) into a project, person, program, team, idea, movement, etc. ONE IS INVESTING ONE’S OWN SELF.

SIDENOTE 3A: That’s why when you don’t care about that project for school or work and it turns out to be crappy, you DON’T CARE BECAUSE YOU DIDN’T TRY... YOU DIDN’T PUT YOURSELF INTO THE PROJECT... you didn’t INVEST. On the flip side, especially early in the progression of the community, one may put a lot of time and effort into learning how to do well with women so when one has a bad night, it can really hurt. It hurts because YOU INVESTED YOURSELF INTO THE EFFORT and didn’t get the results you were TRYING TO GET. You had become EMOTIONALLY INVESTED. And because you now *CARE*, UNFAVORABLE END RESULTS WILL AFFECT YOU MORE (than if you didn’t care).

SIDENOTE 3A >>> So, armed with this knowledge, I would PURPOSELY NOT BE AFRAID TO PISS GIRLS OFF. IOW, I was not afraid to DISAGREE, IGNORE, DISMISS, or CHALLENGE women. Moreover, I actually ENJOYED exercising these different forms of Pushing, to display my personality as well as my independence (read: non-neediness). At one end of the Push/Pull spectrum, while others were SUPPLICATING by agreeing with everything a girl said (read: trying too hard to bond), I was actually displaying attractive qualities by being “my own man” (IOW, being myself;-) and having my own opinions. By disagreeing or teasing girls, I was Challenging the girls’ reference of reality (read: their frames). It was the tactful ability to bring the girls from the Hate side (Push) of the Pendulum *BACK* to the Love side (Pull) that created an emotional rollercoaster that led to Attraction. Like other guys who were too aggressive, I learned a valuable lesson through trial and error: I would come off as TRYHARD if I CHALLENGED TOO MUCH or CHALLENGED AT THE WRONG TIME.

SIDENOTE 3B: TOO MUCH PUSH = TRYHARD Challenging too much or Breaking Rapport at the wrong time comes off as INSECURE; Trying Too Hard (to prove one is of high(er) value and/or to prove that someone is of lower value in relation to the rapport breaker).

NOTE: PUSH = to CHALLENGE one’s frame (CHALLENGING one’s reference of reality) CHALLENGING one’s reference of reality = Breaking Rapport Thus, Push = to Break Rapport SIDENOTE 3B >>>

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SIDENOTE 4A: TOO MUCH PULL = SUPPLICATING Trying TOO HARD to Build Rapport (showing one’s acceptance for another, searching for commonalities, etc) comes off as Telegraphing Too Much Interest; Desperate, Supplicating (trying too hard to impress/bond)

NOTE: PULL = to BOND (to ACCEPT another’s value, to SHARE one’s *own* self/worth/ value, i.e. give value) Accepting another’s value and giving value = Building Rapport Thus, PULL = to BUILD RAPPORT

SIDENOTE 5B: Being able to control one’s natural tendency to become emotional when one is invested is a HUGE SIDENOTE: HV ACQT! Sometimes one tries to INITIATE a desired response by doing a particular action or saying a particular thing, but women’s behavior is mixed as a result. This sticking point can be fixed first by being aware of one’s own fundamentals (making sure youre not leaning in, etc) and then secondly, if one’s fundamentals are down, then RANGING may be needed (i.e. trying the material/action/etc out during different stages of one’s interactions with women and then *TESTING* the desired end result by testing SEVERAL different women to find when/how/ why the best possible desired end result occurs.) MAKE MENTAL NOTES OF THESE PATTERNS AS WELL mnxnetwork.com/events 5

SIDENOTE 6A: SIDENOTE: Havingagain Once the “stronger” the very frame and gaming presence of one every being girl the exact same unfazed *IS*sounds an attractive great in theory.. This quality. but means is not one the best or even could show most high(er) efficient value way. By displaying by not budging thisorquality adapting or like but tailoring all HV ACQTs, one’s game to theis aparticular there time and girl, a one WILL for place ALWAYS everything;-) BE PLAYING A ‘NUMBERS’ GAME -> only the girls who ACCEPT one’s frame, will become attracted. The problem with this is that if no girl accepts one’s “strong” frame at a venue, then unfortunately, there will be one lonely strong framed individual at that venue. Adapt. Evolve. Reactiveness gets a bad rep by the community but being able to REACT/ADAPT one’s game to a woman is what advanced game is all about: Rising to the occasion.. anytime.. anyplace

If one is emotionally unaffected by something, *NORMALLY* that is a sign of High(er) Value. This is how celebrities come off as “cool” while many fans become flustered in their presence. The fan is emotionally affected; the celebrity unfazed, above it all. Unfortunately, because the very act of being “indifferent” is considered to be the higher value or “power position”, some guys try to act “too cool for school, super GQ” towards women. Because they know that being indifferent can equal being cool, but don’t understand why or how, they tend to alienate friends and can come off as anti-social or stuck up in social interactions. Not Bonding (for example: not Vibing) when one *SHOULD* be Bonding, comes off as Breaking Rapport (i.e. being “indifferent” or nonresponsive to other’s emotions (of wanting to bond) *IS* Breaking Rapport/Pushing/Challenging). REMEMBER: Breaking Rapport AT THE WRONG TIME comes off as TRYHARD. Being “too cool for school” will only work on a woman if she either 1) is INVESTED in the guy and/or 2) believes the guy to have high(er) value in relation to her and/or 3) is unsure of his value in an initial encounter. In short, understanding and incorporating the dynamic of the Love/Hate Pendulum will serve one’s self far better than just trying to be “unreactive”. In actuality, BEING ABLE TO REACT to what is happening is the very definition of being human (the ability to adapt) and the essence of a seduction. > Therefore, IME/IMO it’s important that “attraction is not a choice” be reworded to: Attraction is not a *SUBCONSCIOUS* choice.

SIDENOTE 7A: This is why so many guys in the community still assign high(er) value to a woman when they game her! By *TRYING* to IMPRESS the girl (with game), they are actually giving her high(er) value by SUBCOMMUNICATING that this girl *NEEDS* to be, or is *WAITING* to be, IMPRESSED, thus their reference of reality (read: their frame) is in order to get the girl, she must be “gamed” (read: impressed)! Although one *will* impress women with good game, ironically, “good game” does *NOT* mean “impressing” women. Marinate on that for a minute;-)

This means that if one simply follows MNX’s Push/Pull steps of attraction, a girl WILL BECOME (SUBCONSCIOUSLY) ATTRACTED to you! *IF* SHE *CONSCIOUSLY ALLOWS* HERSELF TO BE So in its entirety, the complete *UPDATED* theory is: Attraction is not a *SUBCONSCIOUS* choice, however, it CAN BE a *CONSCIOUS* decision. This is what is meant when a girl BACKWARDS RATIONALIZES that she is attracted. She CONSCIOUSLY makes the decision to ALLOW HERSELF TO FEEL THE EMOTION OF ATTRACTION. The same applies for when a girl “locks up” or has ASD: SHE IS *CONSCIOUSLY* NOT ALLOWING HERSELF TO FALL FOR YOU.

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MNX’s Push/Pull Attraction Model When someone wants another person to LIKE them, they want to bond with that person, impress that person, have that person be impressed, and gain the other’s approval and acceptance, etc. IOW, they want to be on the Love (PULL) side of the Pendulum. Every tactic in MNX’s Push/Pull Attraction Model leads one to accomplish this by: encouraging the connection by punishing bad behavior (of not Bonding), rewarding good behavior (of bonding), Forceframing everything she is/does/says as her trying to build rapport with you, and giving her chances to impress you. Each tactic fits into MNX’s Love/Hate Pendulum in accordance to how much Push (Hate side of the Pendulum; Breaking Rapport) and how much Pull (Love side of the Pendulum; Building Rapport) it (sub)communicates: PUSH Push = Challenge “Push” refers to CHALLENGING a woman. IOW, it means to BREAK RAPPORT with her: You do not accept her and/or her value (IOW, you CHALLENGE her or her value, by CHALLENGING her frame). Push subconsciously implies (frames) that your value is greater than hers (so she should/needs to prove the contrary by proving herself/her value) Breaking Rapport = Not accepting someone’s self/value/worth by challenging their reference of reality in order to have them prove their self/value/worth (in order for this to be successful, the Rapport Breaker’s Frame must be accepted by the other person). There are many ways to Break Rapport: Challenge(s), Disagree, Ignore, Dismiss, and Accuse are a few examples. A few reasons why one would use PUSH: To punish bad behavior, if she Pushed you first, to display certain HV ACQTs, to create tension, to relieve tension, to get her to become emotional; instill emotions, to make her care about the interaction (a negative emotion is better than no emotion at all;-) Example of a PUSH: I’m done with you now. Go away. REMEMBER: Attraction can only happen if she feels your value is equal to or greater than hers. By Pushing her, you are subconsciously/consciously implying (framing) that her value is lower than yours because you do not accept her value (or her own perceived high(er) value) therefore; you must be of high(er) value, at the very least, you must be of high(er) value in relation to *HER*. In-Field Excerpts: When a girl tries to turn one’s game down by infering one is “hitting on her/bothering her”, she is CHALLENGING (Pushing) you, so CHALLEGE (Push) her back!

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Girl: That’s so weird! Who says something like that? (Forceframing as low(er) value. Challenge) MNX: You giving me shit? Don’t make me set you in the corner. (Challenge) Girl: Whatever I’ll kick your ass! (Challenge) MNX: Yeah right. With those little things? Here. Make a muscle. Let’s see the guns. (Kinos her arm while she makes a muscle, feigns being impressed) Whoa! That’s impressive... for a girl! (makes a funny face) You got a while to go before you can hang with the big dogs. (Challenge. Hoop. Forceframing as high value. Challenge)

Girl: Whatever! (Challenge) MNX: You’re cool. Tell me, you more of an outdoorsy person or do you workout at like LA Fitness or something. (Forceframing her as impressing him. Hoop) PUSHPULL PushPull = Challenging by forceframing the bond

SIDENOTE 9A: PushPull is similar to a Judo move where one uses a girl’s (negative) force of energy (read: her PUSH) and turns it around on her, putting a positive spin on it to assist in creating a connection!

“PushPull” refers to CHALLENGING a woman by FORCING THE BOND. IOW, it means to FORCEFRAME RAPPORT with her. This is done by APPROVING (read: Taking/Mistaking/Interpreting/Misinterpreting) things she is/says/does as acceptable and/or even pleasing to you by cold reading and/or framing her behavior, actions, and/or communication as desirable. This can be done by either TAKING or INTERPRETING *OR* by MISTAKING or MISINTERPRETING her as trying to impress you and/or prove herself/her worth/her value to you in order to gain your approval/appreciation/acceptance/acknowledgment (i.e. TAKING or INTERPRETING or MISTAKING or MISINTERPRETING her as trying to build rapport with you, IOW, you view her (or MISTAKENLY view her) as trying to BOND with you) IOW, you are taking/mistaking her as qualifying herself (read: proving herself/her worth/her value/trying to impress you/giving value) in order for you to reward her via your attraction (Bond)! SIDENOTE 9A >>>

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FORCEFRAMING RAPPORT = Although her value offering may or may not have been directed towards you, and/or she may infer that her value is neither offered nor directed towards you, regardless, according to your reference of reality (your frame), you are inferring that she *IS* trying to impress you and you take her, her actions, her behavior, and her communication as trying to impress you and therefore take her value (offering) as trying to impress you even if she did not offer value. Because Forceframing is basically judging her and/or her actions, behavior, value, etc, it places one’s self in the power position as having the higher value role in the interaction, as the “Approver”. Forceframing (by cold reading) implies that you *KNOW* her (you KNOW why she acts the way she does; perhaps even better than her). A few reasons why one would use PUSHPULL: She will not bond with you and continues to Push; IOW it’s time to bond and she is still on the Breaking Rapport side of the Love/Hate Pendulum, she is standoffish, as a tension release for a strong Bond Example of a PUSHPULL: You speak your mind. You don’t hold back… It’s refreshing. REMEMBER: It’s the person *TRYING TO IMPRESS* who can become attracted. By giving a PUSHPULL, you are inferring (read: Forceframing) that she is trying to impress you… Even/especially if (in reference to *her* reality) she is not! In-Field Excerpts: To reward a girl and move her emotions from the Hate side of the Love/Hate Pendulum to the Building Rapport side ALTHOUGH SHE CONTINUES to Challenge you and Break Rapport with you. IOW, this is one way to Bond without Rewarding bad behavior!

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(Quite some time had past since we first met and here are the texts that led to a D2) 921p MNX: I just met ur twin (Challenge) 943p Girl: Oh really? do you even remember what i look like? (Challenge) 1040p MNX: U dont play games.. Ur real.. Its refreshing (Forceframing her as impressing him. Bond) 1042p Girl: Haha thanks. so aka you dont remember what i look like at all, not sure how you saw my twin then (Bond. Challenge) 1103p MNX: To b honest Im about to cheat on u w her if we dont kick it soon;-) (Challenge. Hoop) 1104p Girl: Haha omg youre gonna cheat on me with my twin!? thats just low (Challenge. Forceframing as low(er) value) 1108p MNX: Be nice. Shes ur sister;-) where u at (Forceframing as high value. Hoop) 1109p Girl: I stayed in. i work at 7am (Bond) 1112p MNX: Ur responsible. Good girl;-) u seem fun. lets grab a beer at happy hour tomorrow. What time u off (Forceframing as high value. Bond. Forceframing as high value. Forceframing compliance. Hoop) 1118p Girl: Ah well i cant tomorrow but maybe sat? (Challenge. Bond) 1126p MNX: Surfn all morning so sat afternoon will work. Until then try not to ask ur twin so many questions bout me.. I can tell shes a jealous one;-) (Challenge. Bond. Forceframing her as chasing him. Challenge) 1127p Girl: Haha ill do my best.. she is kinda crzy tho so be careful (Bond)

SIDENOTE 11A: ATTRACTION CAN BE CREATED when ones “frames”, “reframes”, or “Forceframes” everything she says/does/is as *HER* trying to impress *YOU*.

PULLPUSH PullPush = Bonding through challenges “PullPush” refers to BONDING with a woman by challenging her to comply. IOW, it means to EXPECT RAPPORT with her. Challenging her to comply is important because it ALLOWS THE CHANCE FOR HER TO BOND WITH YOU. If/when she complies, she is making a SUBCONSCIOUS and/or CONSCIOUS decision TO ACCEPT YOUR (high) VALUE, IOW, BOND, with you. This is important because, essentially, by complying with your challenges, she is TRYING TO IMPRESS YOU. Also, by jumping through your hoop (read: by giving you compliance), she is taking the INITIATIVE to TRY TO PLEASE YOU. What you are basically subcommunicating with a Pull/Push is “Here you go, impress me. Prove your(self) value.” “Here’s your chance to impress me.” Once again this is important because it gives her a chance to impress you ON HER OWN ACCORD (in reference to *HER* reality) instead of a Forceframe when you are forcing *YOUR* reality upon her that she is trying to impress you. It is important to get her into the habit of TRYING/WANTING to IMPRESS YOU. SIDENOTE 11A >>> A few reasons why one would use PULLPUSH: To lead to BONDING, to secure and gauge a girl’s compliance, to screen, to give the girl a chance to impress (read: give her a chance to Pull/Bond); allow the girl to bond with one’s self (seemingly on her own accord;-), to get the girl to invest (in the interaction/a connection) Example of a PULLPUSH: Tell me you can cook.

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SIDENOTE 12A: The varying degrees of bonding depict how much effort she truly is putting forth to establish a connection.

Simply put, Expecting Rapport (PullPush) means to throw a hoop. To get a feel for how invested she is in the encounter/connection, throw a hoop (IOW, GAUGE HER COMPLIANCE). This will give one the knowledge as to where she stands on the Love/Hate Pendulum and thus, her level of investment. Using the Love/Hate Pendulum as your guide, lead her to where you want her to go. Be sure to Reward her good behavior of giving compliance (IOW, Bond with her when she jumps through your hoops)! The difference between hoops that Break Rapport (Pushes/Challenges) and hoops that Expect Rapport is that with a challenging hoop, one feels that one *has to* prove one’s self. With a hoop where one Expects Rapport, one feels one “gets to/wants to” prove one’s self. Essentially it’s giving the girl a chance to impress you! REMEMBER: It’s the person who BECOMES IMPRESSED as well as the person *TRYING TO IMPRESS* who can become attracted to the person waiting to be impressed. PullPush is important because if she gives you compliance she is BOTH subconsciously/ consciously accepting your (high) value (IOW, becoming impressed) AND proving herself and/or her value (IOW, TRYING TO IMPRESS YOU!) In-Field Excerpts: Girl1: How old are you? (Challenge) MNX: Too old for you. (Challenge) Girl1: Seriously, how old are you? (Challenge) MNX: You remember dinosaurs? (Hoop) Girl1&2: Haha (Bond) MNX: Seriously, I used to have to hunt for my food. I woulda been the hunter, and you woulda been my gatherer. Actually, both of you woulda been my gatherers. I eat a lot. Tell me you can cook. (Reward. Forceframing compliance. Hoop) Girl2: I can cook! (Bond) MNX: Really? What can you cook. (Challenge. Hoop) Girl2: What can I cook?** (Challenge) **Notice because he should have Bonded instead of Challenged, she takes his hoop as a Challege and therefore she Challenges back! MNX: Your favorite thing. (Hoop) Girl2: I make a badass lasagna. (Bond) MNX: (physically picking her up and spinning her around) I LOVE lasagna! You are my new best friend! (Reward. Bond) PULL Pull = Bond “Pull” refers to BONDING with a woman. IOW, it means to BUILD RAPPORT with her. Building Rapport = to establish, reward, and solidify a connection by acknowledging, approving, accepting, appreciating, and even rewarding her and/or her value as well as sharing (read: giving) (your) value. > Punish her bad behavior of not establishing a connection (read: not Bonding) with you and reward and encourage her good behavior of establishing a connection (read: Bonding) with you (i.e. Push (Challenge) when it is time to Punish, Pull (Bond) when it is time to Reward, etc). If she doesn’t Bond, punish her bad behavior by Pushing. If she continues to Push, Forceframe her as trying to Bond, then either Bond (give value), and/or throw a hoop to gauge her compliance, her interest, and get her to invest (and to get her to start ACCEPTING your frame (value, etc) -> if she jumps through your hoop, she is subconsciously accepting your frame!). Continue this cycle to ensure you don’t reward bad behavior and/or punish good behavior. While Bonding, continue to throw hoops and/or Forceframes to continue to challenge her in order to maintain just the right amount of tension (which leads to physical bonding;-) Example of a BOND: Give value: for example share the Mona Lisa anecdote as it displays various HV ACQTs

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In-Field Excerpts: Mona Lisa Anecdote: MNX: You seem very German. (Forceframing a connection) Girl: Yeah Im German, Irish, and English. (Bond) MNX: Very cool. You actually remind me of a friend of mine, she’s German, I have some German in me too, and she was all excited and telling me bout how German scientists just found out who the inspiration of the Mona Lisa was. Come to find out it was this married woman that Leonardo. Leonardo. I was about to say Leonardo Di Caprio;-) (Bond. Forecframe a connection. Bond) Girl: Haha (Bond) MNX: (pointing at her face smiling) Oh my god look at you right now! (Bond) Girl: Haha (Bond) MNX: It was this married woman Leonardo Da Vinci, was crushing on. He hid the true meaning from everyone because he loved her and didn’t want her to get a bad name. It’s actually known as the “happy married woman” in Italian.. Not “happily”. I probably shouldn’t have told you this, I’m kind of a hopeless romantic. I’m kind of a dork, stuff like this interests me. Forget I said anything. (Bond. Challenge) Girl: Nooo! That’s actually really sweet. I’ve always wanted to go to Europe. Have you been? (Bond. Hoop -> to encourage more Bonding!) REMEMBER: Time + Attention = Attraction. EVEN IF SHE IS NOT *INITIALLY* ATTRACTED, SHE CAN BECOME (subconsciously) ATTRACTED OVER TIME by following the MNX Push/Pull Model! Just stay in there and direct the social subcommunication by incorporating PUSHES, PUSHPULLS, PULLPUSHES, and PULLS into the interaction. By following this model WOMEN *WILL* BECOME ATTRACTED to you. It is only natural (a subconscious and/or conscious tendency)! This subconscious attraction will eventually be brought to the forefront by her either backwards rationalizing that things “just happened” or her believing everything was spontaneous. Now one can better understand why I put such a huge emphasis on staying in set past one’s comfort zone and dealing with social pressure. There is actually a method to my madness;-) By internalizing the Love/Hate Pendulum and understanding the dynamics of MNX’s Push/ Pull Model, one will be able to handle negative OR positive social pressure CORRECTLY/ EFFECTIVELY and attract women (by creating strong emotions within her, maintaining these emotions, and leading her through this emotional state to physical bonding). WAYS OF THE GENTLEMAN Attraction can only happen if a woman believes a man’s value to be equal to or greater than hers. Attraction can happen when she spends time with a guy, gives him attention, and in turn, wants *his* time and attention. Giving someone your time and/or your attention is a form of compliance. How much time and attention she gives *you* is a good gauge of how attracted she is (read: her compliance = investment). IOW, how much time and attention she gives you, and how much she *VALUES* YOUR time and attention, directly correlates to how EMOTIONALLY INVESTED she is in the interaction. The more emotionally invested she is, the more she will want to physically bond with you;-)

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The more she wants to Bond or is ready to Bond, the more compliance she will give. The less she complies (if at all) shows she is on the Hate (Push) side of the Love/Hate Pendulum. If physical compliance is an end goal, then you and her need to spend as much time as possible on the Love side of the Pendulum (where acceptance, investment, and REWARD happen;-)

SIDENOTE 15A: This is where many old attraction strategies went wrong. Sometimes one would be trying to bond with a girl when she needed to be challenged or challenge a girl when she wanted to bond. Forceframing her Push is the transition to Pull. One should not continue to stay on the Hate side of the Love/ Hate Pendulum if Bonding (Physically or Emontionally) is one’s goal. Use the momentum swing of her emotions with Forceframing as the catalyst to sway her to the Love side. This shouldn’t be looked at as SHE is leading the encounter but rather, YOU are moving it along to where you want it to go.

> This is why PUSHPULL is of the utmost importance in a seduction. Framing (or if necessary, Forceframing;-) her behavior, attitude, actions, verbal and nonverbal communication as her *trying* to Bond with you subcommunicates to her subconscious that she truly *IS* attracted and is the transition from punishing her bad behavior (*her* Push) with your reward (*your* Pull). SIDENOTE 15A >>>

SIDENOTE 15B: Use these tactics that women use against them! Take your time when answering a question. Don’t always “hear” what she said. These tactics are all found on the Breaking Rapport (PUSH) side of the Love/Hate Pendulum.

Early in the encounter, when the girl is not as invested (especially if *SHE* has the perceived higher value), one should transform one’s questions into statements by making assumptions (i.e. basic cold reading IOW, FORCEFRAMES). This allows the banter to come off as more Challenging (on the Breaking Rapport (Push) side of the Love/Hate Pendulum) than coming off as seemingly trying to Bond (Build Rapport) which, this early in the encounter (especially if/ when the girl does not comply), can be viewed as *TRYHARD*/telegraphing too much interest (Trying too hard for rapport, supplicating). NOTE: If a woman does not jump through one’s hoop, IOW answer one’s question, this *immediately* lowers one’s value. This can be viewed as the girl does not perceive the speaker as of (High) enough value to even bother to answer. The LONGER it takes for the girl to comply, if at all, cements her position as the High(er) Value role, IOW, “the prize”, this early in the encounter. (That’s why stacking and plowing come into play as to NOT DRAW ATTENTION TO HER NON-COMPLIANCE) SIDENOTE 15B >>>

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SIDENOTE 16A: Referring back to the example of the girl challenging (PUSHING) you. Once you had passed her challenge, she became IMPRESSED which meant she then ACCEPTED your value, and because ACCEPTANCE of Value is on the LOVE side of the Love/Hate Pendulum (where her emotions now stand), it means she is now (Emotionally) READY TO BOND (IOW, love you)!

Viewing the girl’s compliance as a gauge (i.e. her investment/involvement in the interaction), one can learn when to make assumptions (when getting low(er) compliance), and when to ask questions (when getting high(er) compliance). Based off of compliance, one could even make assumptions ending in small hoops to soften the challenge. Remember to use the inflection of stating a declaration, not a question.

SIDENOTE 16B: This way, the LONGER she stays in set with you, the more her subconscious/ conscious is going to accept your frame, your reference of reality that she *IS* attracted to you. In layman’s terms, Assume the Sale: Interact with her like you KNOW she is attracted. The more convincing you are (the “stronger” your frame is), COMBINED with the strategy of knowing WHERE one is on the Love/Hate Pendulum and knowing WHEN to use Push, PushPull, PullPush, and Pull, the faster and deeper her attraction to you will be. Once her Love/Hate Pendulum gets swinging, she will constantly be trying to either bond or challenge you. If physical bonding is your end goal, internalization of MNX’s Love/Hate Pendulum is crucial. This will give you the knowledge of WHEN to PUSH (Challenge), PULL (Bond), PUSHPULL (Forceframe), and PULLPUSH (throw hoops).

Remember: It is important to get her Love/Hate Pendulum swinging. For her to become attracted, the worst thing she can be is indifferent to your advances. IME, she NEEDS to become emotional (positively or negatively). IOW, in order to guide her along the Love/Hate Pendulum it is important to understand when she is (or can be perceived as) building or breaking rapport with you.

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Ex: Oh gawd! You’re one of those girls who thinks shopping is a sport, aren’t you. NOTE: Approaching in and of itself, is always a type of PULL (even if you Push, for example: your opener is a neg) because you are trying to BUILD RAPPORT, even if FRAMING it as *trying* to Break Rapport (or as any of the other tactics: PUSHPULL, PULLPUSH). So this means that if she answers your Push with a Push of her own, ACKNOWLEDGE her value with a PushPull before giving value (Bonding) and then throw a hoop (bonding through challenges). ALL VARIABLES (that *CAN* be accounted for and AFFECT how one should game that particular girl at that particular moment;-) mnxnetwork.com/events 17

SIDENOTE 18A: Having the “stronger” frame and gaming every girl the exact same way sounds great in theory… but it is not the best nor the most efficient way. By not budging, adapting, or tailoring one’s game to the particular girl one is gaming, one WILL ALWAYS BE PLAYING A ‘NUMBERS’ GAME -> only the girls who ACCEPT one’s frame, will become attracted. The problem with this is that if no girl accepts one’s “strong frame” at a venue, then unfortunately, there will be one lonely strong framed individual at that venue. Adapt. Evolve. Reactiveness gets a bad rep by the community. Being EMOTIONALLY REACTIVE, not to be confused with THE ABILITY TO REACT, is when one allows one’s emotions to become affected by another and is obviously not always a positive (i.e. becoming depressed or losing “state” when a girl turns one’s game down, or becoming upset when a girl doesn’t call back). HOWEVER, being able to ADAPT one’s game to a woman and then REACT is what advanced game is all about: Rising to the occasion… anytime… anyplace.

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