Mind Control Her

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

In this course you'll learn the highly guarded secrets of mind readers and mentalists and how to use them to pick up beautiful women. You'll learn how to get past any woman's defense mechanisms and how to initiate the pick up easily.

For those of you who don’t know me – My name is Spencer Michaels. For years, I’ve been coaching guys around the world on how to meet and attract women. My unorthodox approach has been field tested over and over again. The bottom line is – THIS STUFF WORKS. I got my degree in Psychology from a major university which taught me a lot about human desires, but that was nothing compared to the education I got while promoting and managing nightclubs in New York City for 8 years. For years, I spent 5 nights a week at the hottest nightclubs in New York City surrounded by the most beautiful and most attitude infused women in the world. I’ve read hundreds of books on seduction, human sexuality and psychology and combined that with what I’ve learned in my real life experience. Through years of trial and error I’ve gotten it down to a science and now I have it all packaged for you. The following concepts and techniques will change your life.

Mind Reading professionals have spent years and thousands of dollars developing the secrets you'll learn in this course Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

and they've made hundreds of thousands of dollars utilizing these methods.

You'll learn the exact dialogue you can use to walk up to any woman, transition immediately into your routine, and leave with her phone number - or better yet... Leave with her! Once a woman realizes that you have special mental powers or an amazing ability to read her - rock stars, rich guys and Brad Pitt look-alikes will have nothing on you.

Before I give you specific mind reading tricks, I’m going to teach you a quick technique that you can use to help deliver these tricks with ease. Before approaching women, you need to go into what I call a “Movie Character Trance” also known as an MCT ™. The idea behind an MCT ™ is that you want to go into the situation as if you’re the ultimate movie character. I want you to think of all the characteristics that you find enviable in your favorite movie characters. I want you to envision yourself having these characteristics and really believe you have them (I go into more detail about the MCT ™ in my course The Art of War For Dating which you can get at DatingWar.com). For example – you may envision yourself having the smoothness of Tom Cruise in Cocktail (not the weird couch jumping Tom Cruise), the toughness of Robert Deniro or Clint Eastwood and the Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

mystique of Val Kilmer in The Saint. While you’re in your MCT ™, you’re unstoppable and invulnerable. You can say no wrong. You can walk up to women in the protection of your MCT ™ and there are no consequences for your actions. If you get rejected or not – it doesn’t matter. You are simply role playing. This is a great mindset to take on before using the following tricks. Okay – so now that you have your MCT ™ on, let’s get to the good stuff. Here are a series of “mind reading” tricks you can you use to approach, disarm and amaze any woman.

PHONE NUMBER PREDICTION Imagine walking up to a girl at a bar and revealing her phone number just by looking into her eyes! Do this one correctly and she’ll have no idea how you knew things about her that you have no business knowing. You can predict without fail: Her last name, PIN number or phone number.

The Effect You walk up to a female and say, “If I can guess you’re phone number – can I call you and take you out?” Chances are she’ll agree because she’ll think there is no way in hell you could figure it out.

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

You ask her to borrow a pen or pencil (or just pull out your own), you write down a number on a piece of paper and sure enough - you’ve written down her phone number!

The Details Now before you start salivating and think you’re going to actually be able to go around figuring out her phone number by reading her mind… remember – this is a trick.

Now that she’s agreed to your little “bet”, you ask her to borrow a pen or pencil. If she doesn’t have one, just take out your own. Tell her to look you directly in the eyes. Tell her that through body language and visual cues you’ll be able to figure out her phone number. You can say that you are psychic if you want but she’ll probably think it’s nonsense and then figure out that you must have used some kind of trick. People tend to actually believe you if you throw in stuff about body language or visual cues.

Now say, “Visualize the first digit of your phone number”. Tell her told hold that number in her mind (make sure to tell her to skip the area code). Mention that she’ll do something to give away what the number is through their body language or through her eyes. You can go into a spiel about how people tend to give things away without knowing it. You Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

can say that you’ve studied body language or eye-accessing information gathering techniques for years. Pretend to write the number down on a thick piece of paper, index card or pad. A coaster works well at a bar as long as it has plenty of blank white space. The less it looks like you brought props with you – the better. Now tell her to visualize the next number, etc. Until she gets to the last number. Somewhere in there say, “Oh wow – you’re very easy to read. I could probably figure out a lot of other stuff about you too… Actually I did pick up a few other things but I’ll tell you those later”. Saying this gets her very curious and gets her thinking that there may be a “later” that involves the both of you. Once she gets done visualizing the last number, tell her that you have the whole phone number. Until you get good at the trick, you may want to just say that you’ll guess the last four digits of her number. Give her back the pen/pencil or just put it down.

Now you ask her for her phone number. She says, “5556428”. You tell her, “There’s no way I could have known that, right?” Wait for her answer and continue, “Do you think I got it right?” She’ll probably say no way. You turn the paper over and sure enough you have 555-6428 written on it.

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

HERE’S THE SECRET - While you were asking her “There’s no way I could have known that, right?” – you were secretly writing the number down on the paper with something called a Swami Gimmick. It’s a device that looks like a small skintoned rubber band with a pencil tip on it. You can get this at a magic store. However you don’t need this. You can just use a little piece of pencil lead stuffed under your fingernail. If your nails are short, you can use a little bit of scotch tape and tape it to your thumb to hold it in place. Remember before when she thought you were writing down numbers? You really weren’t writing anything down. You were just moving the pencil/pen as if you were writing. So right after she tells her the phone number, you immediately start to write down the phone number with the piece of lead under your nail or with the Swami Gimmick. Keep the paper/pad close to your body and conceal the fact that you’re writing something. See the images below for the concept.

I find it works best if you do it with your thumb. This will take some practice to get it to work properly. Once you get good at this, it’ll work wonders for you. Actually, it’s one of Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

the most useful skills I’ve ever learned in my life. I can now do it so fast and easily that people would never imagine in a million years that I could have written something with my one hand. It’s really not that difficult. If you practice, eventually you’ll be able to write with just one hand – practice, practice, practice! Now that you have her number – just take it, put it in your pocket and tell her that you’ll give a call tomorrow or just keep the conversation going. If you get really good at this, there’s no reason why you can’t go home with 5 phone numbers a night.

TELEPHONE TELEPATHY

The Effect Walk up to a woman and tell her to pick any card and tell it to you. You then pick up a cell phone, call a friend and your friend is able to tell her exactly which card she picked.

The Details Walk up to a girl or group of girls at a bar or club and tell them that you can telepathically project thoughts through radio waves via a cell phone. Tell her it’s taken you years, but through lots of meditation it’s possible to get brain waves in sync with the frequency of radio waves. Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

Tell her to pick any card that exists in a standard deck of cards (ie. The 6 of Hearts). What makes this trick great is that you don’t need to actually have a deck of cards with you. Have her tell you which card she picked. Now tell her that you will call a friend and through telepathy you’ll tell the friend which card they chose.

The secret is to have the friend (wingman) on the other end of the phone in on the trick. You can do this easily at a bar or a party by having the person go into the bathroom, outside or at the other end of the bar/club. You can do this with a friend at home too but they must be aware that you are going to call specifically about this. As the soon as the friend answers – they should start counting Ace,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,Jack,Queen,King. Have them pause about a second between each card. Let’s say the person picked the 6 of Hearts. Immediately after your friend says 6, you say, “Hello?” – The person will assume that your friend just picked up the phone at that moment. This will indicate to your friend that the card is a 6. Then you say to your friend, “Have you got the card?” Then hand the phone to the girl and your friend will tell her the card. Notice that you said, “Have you got the card?” By starting the sentence with an “H”, this tells your wingman that it’s hearts. You can use Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

a different sentence to indicate whether it’s Hearts, Diamonds, Spades or Clubs. For Clubs you might say, “Can you tell her the card?” For Diamonds you might say, “Did you telepathically get the card?” For Spades you can say, “Say the card please”.

If done smoothly and quickly the girl will have no idea how you did it. The great thing is, you can hang up and do it over and over again. She’ll never know how you’re doing it! Okay – now here comes the best part of the trick. After you do it once, tell the girl that you can project even more complex things through the phone as well. Tell her to give you her phone number and you’ll mentally project it through the phone and you guarantee your friend will be able to pick it up. If possible, have a pen ready so she can write it down for you. As soon as she gives you the number, pretend you’re calling your friend (you can be putting her number in your phone at this time). Then just say, “Oh – he didn’t answer… but thanks for your number. I’ll give you a call tomorrow”. Now start to walk away and give her a little smirk. Don’t say goodbye. Just disappear from her sight for a little while and come back in about 5 minutes. I guarantee that she’ll be all over you when you get back!

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

READ HER MEMORIES Okay – this trick is actually “kinda-sorta” real mind reading or at least as close as anyone will come to real mind reading. This one uses NLP (Neuro-Linguistic-Programming). This is a controversial and very interesting branch of psychology. You’ll use subconscious eye-movement signals to amaze women with this one.

The Effect You approach a woman and tell her to think of 3 different memories and write them down on 3 separate pieces of paper. The first should be a memory of an old friend. The second should be a favorite song of theirs. The third should be a memory of a time that they were in physical pain (like an injury).

You then tell them to throw away two of the pieces of paper without showing you which ones they threw away (or tell her to put the discarded ones in her pocket). Tell them to focus on the memory that remains. You mysteriously tell them which memory they are holding in their hand.

The Details NLP has shown that people will look in specific directions when accessing different kinds of memories. Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

Walk up to a girl and say, “You look like your mind’s going a mile a minute – like you have something stuck on your mind. Something happened recently that can’t get out of your head… like something involving a relationship between you and someone else – true?” The best part about this is that most women will definitely make some correlation between what you said and something that happened recently in the past. If she says something like, “Yeah – how could you tell?” – You’re golden. Just go on with the rest of the routine. If she says, “nope”, you just say, “That’s odd - I have a natural gift of reading people’s auras. I can usually just feel when someone has something heavy on their mind”. Then say, “Let me try something with you”. Tell her to think of 3 different memories and write them down on 3 pieces of paper. If you are somewhere where paper is not readily available, you can just have her think of them in her head. The first should be a memory of an old friend. Have them write down the name of the friend. The second should be a favorite song of theirs. The third should be a memory of a time when they were in physical pain (like an injury). You then tell her to throw away two of the pieces of paper without showing you which ones she threw away. You then tell her to focus on the memory that remains. If there’s no paper available, you tell her to mentally discard 2 of the memories and to focus only on one of them. Tell her to Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

visualize the memory in her “mind’s eye”. She will subconsciously glance in one direction while trying to visualize the memory. Tell to think very deeply about the memory. Tell her that at some point you’ll feel what she’s thinking of. What you’re really looking for is the direction she glances in at some point while thinking about it. With some people this will be very obvious – with others the glances may be very subtle or they may quickly dart their eyes in one direction and back. If she isn’t doing it, tell her to think harder and harder about it. Tell her to project the though thought to you. Make sure to tell her to lift her head up and look at you. Don’t mention anything about the eyes because you don’t want her to know you are looking for that. Here are the eye accessing clues you’ll be looking for:

Right handed people will look in the following direction while accessing the memory:

Visual Remembered Images (old friend): Up and to their left Remembered Sounds (favorite song): Their left Kinesthetic (physical pain): Down and to their right

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

Left handed people will look in the opposite direction. If the person is left handed - reverse the chart (just look at which hand they are writing with).

She’ll be totally confused about how you’re doing it and she’ll think you’re a mind reader, extremely gifted or or in tune with people and the universe. Either way – getting her number or getting her home with you will be a piece of cake from here.

THE GROUP PENETRATOR The Effect You ask a girl or group of girls to think of a vegetable and they say, “carrot”. They are amazed that you predicted it beforehand. Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

The Details Girls tend to go out in groups (aka. “sets”) and they like to protect each other with the strength of their group from creepy guys like you. I’ve found that this trick is the single best way to break into a set of women. In fact – it’s never failed for me.

Approach a group of women and say, “I was just arguing with my friend about something. He thinks that men think about sex more than women. I told him them that I think women do. What do you guys think?” You’ll probably get mixed answers here but it doesn’t really matter what they say. Then you say, “Onto a totally different subject… Can I try something with you guys?”

Before the trick starts, you have the word “carrot” written on a piece of paper. You start by telling the girls you’re going to give them a brief math quiz to prepare them for an experiment in mind reading. Tell them it’ll only take a minute, so they know that they won’t be getting involved in some 3 hour experiment. If you’re at a party, you can have a bunch of pieces of paper ready and pens to hand them. If you’re at a bar or club you can just tell them to think of the answers in their head. Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

Tell everyone to write down or mentally record the answers as quickly as they can. Shout out about ten easy math questions like 2+5, 4+7, 8x2, 10-5, etc. Tell them not to worry about getting every one right; just try to write (or think of) the answers as quickly as they can. Immediately after the last math problem, tell them to write down or think of the name of a vegetable. Tell them, “quickly, quickly – go with the first one that comes to mind!” If you see anyone thinking too much – hurry them up. Tell them not to say it out loud yet.

Have the piece of paper with “carrot” written on it already face down on the table or in your hand. Tell everyone to reveal which vegetable they choose. 80-90% of them will most likely have chosen carrot. Have one them turn over your piece of paper and watch them be amazed that you had “read their minds”. If they were thinking of it instead of writing it down – make sure you say, “You were thinking of a carrot” and then just watch them be baffles that you knew what they were thinking. Why does this work? There are many theories on why it works. Some claim that numbers and the word carrot are somehow stored in the same part of the brain – others say it’s because carrot is the most popular vegetable – others think it’s because it’s one of the simplest Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

vegetables to say and spell. Either way – it doesn’t matter how it works – but it does! The second most popular answer will probably be celery but the overwhelming majority of people will say carrot.

Now you can tell the girls that you’ve proven your point. You can even pull your friend over and act as if you’ve won the argument with him. Tell the girls that this is a Freudian experiment. Tell them that they all thought of carrot because it’s a phallic symbol. Tell them that 90% of women think of carrot and that when the experiment is done with men – the answers are totally varied. Tell them that Freud used this to show how sexual women are and how much of their subconscious is consumed with thoughts of “penis”. They’ll get a kick out of this and probably believe you.

Another way you can sell this trick is to say that master of subliminal suggestion and that somewhere in there; you subliminally suggested that they choose carrot. This will get them thinking that you’re amazing and most importantly – YOU’RE NOT BORING. Women would rather be dead than bored.

THE MYSTICAL TOUCH Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

This is a great trick that will leave people believing that there is some kind of connection happening between two friends. This one is especially great at parties.

The Effect Approach a set of two or more women at a party. If there are more than two of them, pick two that seem to be talking to each other most. Say this to them, “You two seem like you have a really strong connection – have you been friends long?” If they say yes, you’re all set. If they say they just met recently you say, “Wow, it seems like you’ve known each other for a while… I bet you’re going to be friends for a long time”. Pause for a moment and wait for reaction. Then continue, “Do you guys believe that friends can often sense when another friend is in danger or that friends can develop some kind of telepathic bond?” They’ll usually agree that this is possible and may even mention some example of how this happened in their life. If they do, great – this will make the job of selling this trick even easier. If they don’t, you can tell them you’ll prove to them that it’s true.

Tell her that momentarily you’ll be touching the other friend and that sometimes, when friends have a really good connection and are in synch – they’ll be able to feel when the other friend has been touched. Have one of them close Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

their eyes and proceed to touch the other friend on her hand twice. You then tell the girl with her eyes closed to open up her eyes and ask her if she felt a touch. She will tell you that she felt two taps on her hand. The girl with her eyes open along with everyone in the room will be baffled. The girl with her eyes closed will be convinced that you really touched her but everyone else around will say that you were nowhere near her. The friends will think that they somehow had a telepathic connection. They’ll probably talk about it all night and somehow ramble on about how they are BFFs (best friend’s forever) and may even cry about their special connection.

How it Works You are actually touching the person with their eyes closed – just not at the time everyone is expecting. Each friend thinks the touch is happening at different times. You have “Friend A” close her eyes and secretly touch her while nobody is looking. Seconds later you touch “Friend B”. Everyone will think this is the touch that “Friend A” felt while it was really the secret touch from seconds before that they felt.

The Details

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

As mentioned above - you ask the two friends if they feel that friends can develop a special telepathic bond. You can even mention how women who spend a lot of time together end up getting synchronized periods. This will help make the trick more believable and more importantly make them think that you understand women.

Have “friend A” sit or stand on your left, while “friend B” stands to your right. Tell “friend A” to think of special memories she shared with “friend B”. Tell her to imagine herself as one with friend B and to really try and feel a special connection with “friend B”. Now tell “friend A” to close her eyes and relax. Tell her to stay very quiet while paying attention to feeling anything. Tell her you’re going to lift her arm up in a moment but after that be aware of any touch and just remember what she feels. Now you lift her left arm with your left hand so that her hand hovers around waist height. Let her hand stay there while your right hand remains down by your side. Then let your left hand return to your side.

Now you tell “friend B”, “Okay, check this out!” As you do this, take your left hand and point your finger in her face while staring her in the eye. Get right in her face and move your body partially in between her and her friend, distracting Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

her from seeing what you’re about to do. While you’re pointing in her face you secretly take your right hand, reach it under your left arm and gently touch “friend A” on the hand twice with your 4th finger. Make sure this is done very subtly and smoothly. The crowd will be busy staring at the finger you’re using to point in “friend B’s” face. Now you immediately grab “friend B’s” hand and tap her twice on the top of the hand. Remember that up until this point the crowd thinks that nobody had been touched. Then you tell “friend A” to open her eyes. Ask her is she felt anything. She will tell you that she felt taps on the top of her hand. Ask her how many taps she felt and she’ll surely reply, “two”. The crowd will be amazed and tell her that she was never tapped. They don’t realize that the taps she felt were from the secret taps you performed seconds before the tap they were looking for. From there you can just sit back and watch them be impressed!

SOMETHING ROTTEN IN DENMARK The Effect After asking someone a series of questions, you figure out a specific animal that they are thinking of.

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

The Details After you do this, most people will figure out that they didn’t have their mind read (except maybe if you do this with a blonde stripper). However it’s still lots of fun and it makes a great icebreaker with women. Just ask her this series of questions:

1. Think of a number from 1 to 10 2. Multiply it by 9 3. Add the digits together 4. Subtract 5 5. Find the letter of the alphabet which corresponds to your number (1 = A, 2 = B, 3 = c, etc.) 6. Think of a country that starts with that letter 7. Think of an animal that starts with the last letter of your country 8. Think of a color that starts with the last letter of your animal

Tell her to just keep this stuff in her head and not to say it out loud. As she is done, cleverly say, “There are no orange Kangaroos in Denmark”. Almost everyone will come up with this as the response but they’ll be surprised that you said that because it seems like it was nearly impossible for you to force this answer. A few people will think Koala but then Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

they’ll have a hard time thinking of a color for it. They may end up with an aqua or amber colored koala from Denmark so if they say you have it wrong you may want to say, “Oh and there are no Koalas in Denmark either”. To make sure they say Kangaroo you may have them write their answers down because many people will have difficulty spelling koala so they’ll most likely go with kangaroo. There’s an outside chance someone will say killer whale, kitten or something very obscure, but it’s extremely unlikely. You may want to pressure her to go with the first thing that pops into her head so she doesn’t try to think of something really odd like the Komodo dragon.

HUMAN CALENDAR Want to make people think you’re a genius? After seeing you perform this trick, they’ll think you’re the smartest person they’ve ever met. You’ve heard stories about how savants, autistic people and the select few with photographic memories can recall the most intricate details that most of us could never remember. Now you can learn this skill in minutes!

The Effect

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

Tell your subject that you can name the day of any date in history. Have her pick any date on the calendar and you tell her which day of the week it fell on!

The Details You will actually need to use your memory to perform this but not nearly in the capacity it would take to memorize every date in history or in the future. You just have to memorize this simple equation for finding the day of the week that any date falls on (from the year 2000-2099) that has been kept secret for years by mentalists and those claiming to have photographic memory:

Let’s say your subject picks June 12th 2006:

1. Look at the last two digits of the year and add ¼ of that number to itself. [when finding a ¼ of the number, if the answer ends in a decimal, just get rid of the number after the decimal. Ie. 1.5 becomes simply 1] (06 + 1 = 7)- So we end up with 7

2. Find the month code for June in the chart below – It is 3

3. Now think of the day of the month given by your subject. In this case it was the 12th Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

4. Now add up “answers” to #1, #2 and #3 together (these are the numbers highlighted in red (7 + 3 + 12 = 22)

5. Take away 7 from the number highlighted in blue over and over until you are left with a number between 1 and 7. (22 - 7 - 7 - 7 = 1)

6. The number you’re left with corresponds to the day of the week that date fell on (ie. 1=Monday, 2=Tuesday, 3=Wednesday, 4 = Thursday, etc.)

So there you go! We have our answer. If someone asks you what day of the week June 12th 2006 falls on, you can look them in the eye and say – Monday. These calculations seem a little complex but get very easy with a little practice – trust me.

Month Codes Jan: 6 Feb: 2 Mar: 2 Apr: 5 May: 0 Jun: 3 Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

Jul: 5 Aug: 1 Sept: 4 Oct: 6 Nov: 2 Dec: 4

Notes In the rare case the date you’re looking for is in a leap year and it falls in January or February then you have to subtract 1 from the total you get in step 4.

To find a year in other centuries you have to subtract or add to the total you get in step 4. The amount depends on the century the date is in. Use the chart below for other centuries:

1700s: add 5 1800s: add 3 1900s: add 1 2100s: subtract 2200s: subtract 4

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

If at the end of step 4 you get a 0 or negative number, just add 7 over and over again until you get a number between 1 and 7.

Selling the Trick You can sell this trick in many different ways. You can act like you have a photographic memory and that you’ve memorized every single date in history (and the future). You can also tell her to find the date in the calendar and keep the day of the week in her head. You can tell her to say the day of the week over and over again in her head and that you’re going to extract the thought from her through ESP or by picking up cues from her body language.

I like to sell this trick to women by guessing the day that their birthday will fall on. Women have this silly obsession with birthdays so it’ll be sure to strike a nerve with her if you can do this. Just say, “If I can guess the day of the week your birthday falls on this year (or next year) I get to take you out for your birthday”. Any way you choose to sell the trick it is sure to be impressive!

GUESS WHO TOUCHED IT

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

The Effect You put a beer bottle in the middle of the table. You turn your back and close your eyes while telling a group of people to pick one person to touch the bottle. You turn around and by assessing people’s body language, you announce which person touched it.

The Details The way this is done is almost too easy. It’s so easy that people won’t know how the hell you’re doing it. You get a friend, AKA “a stooge” who’s in on the trick with you. Magicians and so called mentalists use this all the time in their stage performances, but most people don’t think they are actually doing it. Why do people rarely suspect “a stooge” is used? Well, first of all, it’s such a simple answer that people are usually searching for some complex solution. The simplest tricks are usually the best. Also, people tend to believe the magician, when he/she says with conviction, “No stooges will be used during this performance”. It’s almost as if they forget that the magician is trying to trick them. They forget that the whole performance is a “lie” - why would the performer hesitate to lie about not using stooges? Although – in this case, make sure not to say, “I’m not using a stooge”. This will probably tip them off to it.

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

This is a great way to get women at parties interested in you. People at parties generally sit or stand around and wait for someone to do or say something interesting. While other guys are boring girls with the same old crap they always hear – this is a great way to stand out and become the life of the party.

First of all, you can use any object for this trick. I choose a bottle because it shouldn’t be hard to find a beer bottle at a party. Have this set up before hand with a friend (stooge). Your stooge simply signals you which person touched it by using a number system going from left to right. If there are six people in the group, the person furthest to your left would be #1 and the person furthest to the right would be #6. If they are sitting in a circle, just use a clockwise system. Don’t forget to have your stooge give himself a number too and to have him touch the bottle once in a while as well.

The stooge should signal you by casually placing fingers on the table in front of him. If person 6 touches the bottle, your stooge will rest 6 fingers on the table without making it very obvious. Have him place his hands on the table in a very relaxed manner. You’ll be surprised how easy this is and how natural it can look. Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

If the people are too scattered you can just have your stooge mimic the exact posture of the person who touched it. For example, if the person who touched is leaning all the way back and has one hand over his head, your friend will sit in the exact position. If it’s the friend who touched it, have them sit with their hand in a specific way so you know it was them.

Selling the Trick This is the most important part of the trick. If you don’t do this, people may begin to suspect a stooge. You tell them that you’ve been studying body language for years. You can go on to say you’ve read lots of books on body language and taken a bunch of courses. You can tell them that unknowingly, people will give away that they are the one who touched it. Look around at everyone as if you are studying their body language. Then you can say, “Ahaa! You just gave it away” while pointing to the person who touched it.

GUESS WHICH HAND This is a perfect trick to use out at bars or clubs because it doesn’t require any bulky props and it’s great for use on a group of girls. One of the hardest things for most guys is Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

approaching a group of women. They walk up to the group and get overwhelmed by all of the “girl power” that the groups can exhibit. Girls often tend to make their little circle impenetrable. I’ve entertained countless sets of girls at bars with this trick. You can do it over and over again with every girl in the set.

The Effect You walk up to a group of women at a bar or club and say, “You guys are a predictable bunch - I noticed from across the bar that you guys display so many of the classic body language “tells” that most women exhibit in social settings.” Calling them “guys” let’s them know that you are casual and not intimidating at first. Then you follow with, “You’re body language gives away so much about you”. They’ll be sure to get slightly offended but you’ll definitely have their attention. They may say something like, “Oh yeah? What can you tell about us genius?” The person that says that (or something like it) is likely to be the leader of the group because she stepped up first. Either way, it doesn’t really matter what you say here. You should point to the one who spoke up first and say, “I can tell you’re the leader of the group”. It’s a natural tendency for everyone to want to be the leader of the group so she’ll probably agree with you or Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

least be happy that you found her to be “special”. Also – by doing this, you’re making the other girls feel like they are lesser and will instantly make them want to validate themselves to you. You may also look for someone who has her arms crossed and say, “You’re guarded, but you open up once people get to know you”. Most people that are slightly shy tend to think this way so she’ll probably be somewhat impressed that you caught that. Now you say, “Let me show you how predictable you are. Any one of you have a coin?” Take the coin from whoever gives it you. Now pick one of them (Not the one you are most interested in) and say, “I noticed you as the one who was most obvious with her body language… take this coin and put it behind your back. Put it in either hand and put your hands out in front of you. I’ll guess which hand it is in every time just by assessing your body language cues – If I get it right 5 times… your friend here will buy me a drink (point to the girl you’re most interested in)”. At this point you’ll have broken past their guard, built up suspense and have a whole group of women eating out of the palm of your hands. All of this done while not even revealing your hidden intention of getting one of them into bed (or at least out on a date).

They may or may not agree to the drink buying thing. If they give you a problem with it you can offer to buy her a Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

drink if you don’t pick it right every time. They’ll usually go along with it then. If they make to big a deal about the drink buying thing, just act like you have no time for all of their fussiness and jokingly say, “Okay you wimps, forget the drink thing… let’s just do this”.

The girl puts her hands behind her back and then out in front of her holding the coin in one hand. You look at her and act as if you are assessing her body language to figure out which hand it’s in. Say things like, “Oh man, you’re too easy…. You’re giving it away”. You proceed to guess accurately all 5 times. Each time you can act like there’s something she’s doing to give it away. Once you get to the 4th and 5th time you can really start clowning on the whole group here by saying things like, “It’s amazing how much you guys were giving away with your body language while you guys were talking before I came over. I’ve been studying the psychology of body language for a while and I could even tell that one of you in particular really found me attractive when I first walked over”. Now that you’ve really proven that you are a body language expert, they’ll really believe that one of them found you attractive and they’ll all wonder if it was them that was giving you the nonverbal cues. Once you finish you should ask the girl you liked to make good on the bet and get you a drink. Now that you’ve Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

established the trust of the group, you can lead your target over to the bar and have her get you a drink. From here It’d be a good idea to have a repertoire of techniques ready to build attraction with her. Get my in-depth program “The Art of War For Dating” at datingwar.com for details on exactly what to do from here.

How It’s Done Okay, so all that stuff above was great but if you don’t know how to do the trick, none of that matters. There are a few ways to do this trick, but the best way is to use a compass watch and magnetic coin. There are many good looking watches out there that have built in compasses in them and you can find magnetic coins very cheap online as well (you can “google” either of them and you’ll find a bunch of options). You can also take a normal compass and make a watch out of it by gluing it to a watch strap.

You can either give them the magnetic coin to use for the trick or you can ask them for a coin and secretly swap it with yours by pretending to pass it from your left hand to your right hand, while you really just had the magnetic coin in your right hand the whole time and didn’t swap anything. When the compass goes near the hand with the coin, the compass arms will move. You can just stand very close to Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

your target and point very close to each hand as if you are doing like an “eenie meenie miny mo” kind of thing with your hand while squinting your eyes as if you’re waiting for her to make some kind of movement that will give it away. Really you’re getting a reading on the compass. You’ll notice the compass hand move as it comes close to the hand with the coin in it. This will take some practice, but will look great once you get good at it. If suddenly you get no movement on the compass it is likely she’s trying to trick you and she has it in neither hand.

There are a couple of other ways to do this. Some magic shops sell a magic trick called “Eye to Eye”. It uses a plastic ball or a coin. I strongly urge you not to use the ball as it’s suspect and screams dorky. You don’t want the girls thinking you brought some kind of silly magic trick ball with you. You receive a signal that tells you which hand they’re holding the coin/ball in.

There is a way to do this without any props but it’s not as accurate. The proven best way to detect which hand the coin is in without using anything is looking at the direction the nose will point in. Try this with family and friends and you’ll be surprised how well it works. The eyes can lie but the nose seems to tell the truth. Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

WHERE’S THE PENNY This is my kind of trick because it involves only a nickel and a penny. You don’t want to use big complicated props or use anything that looks like it might come from a magic kit with you when trying to pick up women using mentalism and magic. A lot of women will think you’re desperate or dorky if you do that. As long as the props you use are something you can easily find around – you’re safe. A good way to start this off is to drop a penny and a nickel on the floor near your target. Try to the coins to fall closer to her feet than yours. If possible get them to fall completely on the other side of her so it’s obvious that it’s easier for her to reach for them that it is for you. Don’t rush to pick them up. Hopefully she reached for them. If not, you can even say, “Do you mind grabbing those for me?” If she grabs them for you, you’re all set. By getting her to get them for you, you’ve already initiated a sequence where she’s doing things for you and not the other way around. Actually – getting someone to do a favor for you is a more effective way to get someone to like you than doing a favor for the person. The psychology of it is that a person’s subconscious will suggest to them, “I did a favor for this person, therefore I must like them”. It’s a good idea to get used to asking for Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

favors from women often. As she reaches to pick them up for you, say the following in a lighthearted manner: “It’s a shame to just leave it there when there are starving kids out there… I was watching an infomercial last night about that stuff, and seeing those cute little kids with the flies on there head got me thinking about how much we take for granted – I actually signed up to sponsor one of them – I hope it’s not a scam ”. This will get her thinking that you’re a sweet guy right from the start. Now that she has the coins in her hands you can say, “Hang on a sec. Before you give them back to me, I want to try something. I’m going to turn around and when I do, I want you to put one coin in one hand and one in the other. If I can guess which coin is in which hand 3 times, will you promise to adopt one of those kids the next time you’re watching one of those infomercials”. Keep this all very light – not like you’re trying to get her to join some weird cult that is trying to get her to give money. Keep a smile on your face the whole time and say it in a semi-joking manner, but keep it serious enough where she’ll think that you really care about starving kids (well – hopefully you really do). The Method Have her put her arms out in front of her and tell her that you’re going to guess which hand each coin is in. Go into a spiel about how you’ve studied body language extensively Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

and that people do certain things with their body to give away which hand the coin is in. Tell her that body language relies on the right side of the brain so you’ll need to occupy the left side of the brain which governs reason to try and allow her natural body language show itself. Explain to her that when doing this, people sometimes try to hide their natural body language so by occupying the left side of her brain with the math, her body language will respond without her being aware of it. Ask her to multiply the coin in her right hand by 2 and to say “okay” when she has the answer. Remember to act as if you’re observing her body language. Now ask her to multiply the coin in her left hand by 17 and to say “okay” when she has the answer. If it took about the same amount of time for each, then the nickel is in the right hand since 1 x 17 is easy to compute. If the second one was much slower, then the nickel was in the left hand. You can do this trick on her two more times but use different numbers like 13 or 16 instead of 17 so she doesn’t catch on to how you’re doing it. She may catch on but it doesn’t matter because either way she’ll think you’re clever. If she catches on, just laugh about it together and tell her that you’re going to take her out next week and try the trick again on her then. Tell her that her homework assignment is to work on her times tables all week and see if the next time she can fool you by Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

multiplying faster. If she doesn’t figure it out, you can go on about how her body language gives up so much more about her. This is a great time transition into another “mind reading” trick I teach in this book – The Accurate Psychic Reading. Just recite the cold reading to her exactly as I wrote it and tell her that you picked this up about her from her body language and by looking into her eyes. She’ll think you somehow know her deep down inside. After some practice, this routine will work wonders.

GUESS HER SIGN I am about to take the most cliché and almost laughable pick-up line of all time, “What’s your sign” and turn it into the best weapon you and a friend can use to start a conversation with a group of women. Have your friend approach a group of women in a group and say in a cheesy voice, “Hey baby, what’s your sign?” as if he’s mocking the overuse of that pickup line. Before she gets a chance to say anything… have him cut her off and say, “hang on – my friend has an amazing ability to tell people’s signs by asking them a few questions”. Then have him reach over and grab you as if the whole thing wasn’t planned. Have him say, “Hey bro – come over here and see if you can read this girls Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

sign”. You come over and make sure you act as if this isn’t set up and that you didn’t know your friend was going to call you over. Have your friend go on and brag about how you have this amazing sense about people (This is great because it’s your friend bragging about you – not you bragging about yourself). Tell the girl that you will ask her a series of questions that will let you know what sign she is. Make sure to say that you can’t always get it but that you can tell someone’s sign by the way she dresses, carries herself and by what career she’s chosen, etc. Now have your friend go over to her and ask her to whisper her sign in his ear. Let’s say her sign is Gemini. Have your friend look at you and say, “Go ahead”. Then you proceed to ask her some questions like:

What do you do for a living? Do you believe in reincarnation? Are you a creative thinker or more of a logical thinker? Do you believe in love at first site? What’s your favorite color? What are the 3 most important characteristics you look for in a mate? Do you believe in soul mates?

These questions aren’t actually revealing anything about her to you but if you seem to be genuinely asking, the girls will believe that you’re really reading her based on the Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

questions. Then to her amazement, you reveal that the sign is in fact Gemini. The whole group is baffled that you figured it out and now think you have some kind of mystical intuition. Women love anything to do with feeling and passion and mysticism. They’ll think you are incredible. How It’s Done As soon as the girl tells your friend what sign she is, he says a short phrase that indicates to you what sign she is. The first letter of the phrase corresponds to the first letter in the sign name. For example: If she’s a Gemini, your friend will say to you, “Go ahead”. If she’s a Pisces, your friend will say, “Pick what sign she is”. For most signs, the first letter of the phrase you use is enough. For some you’ll have to go by the first few letters because several signs start with the same letter. For example: For Aries you’ll say, “Are you ready?” to your friend, while for Aquarius you’ll tell him, “Ask her some questions”. Just memorize this stuff with your friend before you go out and it’ll become simple. You can do this again with a few of the other girls in the group. Make sure that once your friend says the brief phrase, he stands somewhere behind you and out of the way so they don’t suspect signaling of some sort. After doing it with a few girls, they may find it suspect that they have to tell your friend each time before you start asking the questions so

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

you should probably limit it to reading only 2 or 3 girls at a time. Below is the chart of what to say for each sign: Aries - Are you ready? Taurus - Tell the lady her sign Gemini - Go ahead Cancer - Can you read her? Leo - Let’s do this Virgo - He’s Very good at this Libra - Like I said – he’s great at this Scorpio - Sooo – tell her her sign Sagittarius - Say her sign Capricorn - Cool – read her Aquarius - Ask her some questions Pisces - Pick what sign she is

ACCURATE PSYCHIC READING Imagine being able to walk up to a woman and give her a spot-on psychic reading that she’ll totally believe. You can! In fact – using the techniques detailed below, you’ll have about a 90% success rate at making her think you really just read her. You’ll be amazed at how easily you can just approach a woman at a coffee shop or at a bar and say, “Hi, Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

I’m picking up so much energy from you and I had to come over and see if what I’m picking up is true. My friends and family tell me that I have physic ability. I can just pick up auras from people. Your aura is really strong. Can I tell you some things that I picked up from you aura?” By coming up and saying this, you’ve established several things: 1. You’re an interesting person and not your average boring guy. Girls are used to boring guys walking up to them all the time saying, “Hi, I’m John – What’s your name?”

2. You’re in touch with your spiritual side. Almost every girl thinks she’s very spiritual these days. Now that every woman under the sun has read “The Secret”, the spirituality thing is at an all time high.

3. You’ve peaked her curiosity and now it’ll be hard for her to turn down the reading. She’ll be excited to hear about how her aura was so strong. Okay – so now you have to deliver the reading. If possible you should grab her hands about 1/3 of the way through the reading once you’ve established some trust with her. This is called kinesthetics. Whenever possible you want to establish touch with a woman. (You can learn lots of ways to Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

establish touch with women in my course The Art of War For Dating, which you can get at DatingWar.com). She’ll be impressed and probably open to you touching her hands once she starts to think that you’re actually reading her. Just reach for her hands in a confident, definitive manner and say in a very soft voice, “This helps me pick up more about you”. There are all kinds of ways to give fake psychic readings but believe it or not, the proven best way to do it that has the highest “believability rate” is to use a script that has proven to fit all women. That’s right – one script tends to fit all (well – almost all). You may have seen Derren Brown do this on his TV show. He gave a group of women a psychic reading that he said was tailored to each of them. Each one of them believed that Derren had given them their own personalized reading based on his psychic ability. The women were all shocked at how much he knew about them. They were amazed and convinced that he definitely had read them. When they found out that he used a prewritten script and that each of them were given the exact same reading, they were shocked. Ya see – the truth is… women are pretty much all the same (human beings in general are pretty much all the same). On a deep level - they all have the same wants and needs. They all have the same insecurities and the same beliefs about themselves. Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

Here are the principles behind this. Most of psychic reading relies on stating obvious things that have happened or pertain to everyone. People will tend to try to find a correlation to what’s presented in the reading and their personal life or personality. They will almost always find a connection. There is a prewritten script that has been tested by psychologists on thousands of women. After using it on a woman, she will definitely will believe that you picked up things from her aura. 90% of women will believe that you actually just read their mind or soul because they won’t believe you could have otherwise known such intimate details about them. I’ve used this reading on countless women and it has worked every time. Here’s a canned script that has been used throughout history which has had the highest believability rate of all universal readings:

Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic. At times you are extroverted, affable, sociable, while at other times you are introverted and cautious. You have found it unwise to be too honest in revealing yourself to others. You pride yourself on being an independent thinker and don’t accept others' opinions without satisfactory proof. You prefer a certain amount of change and variety and become dissatisfied when boxed in by restrictions and limitations. At times you have serious doubts as to whether you have made Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

the right decision or done the right thing. Disciplined and controlled on the outside, you tend to be worrisome and insecure on the inside.

While you have some personality weaknesses, you are generally able to compensate for them. You have a great deal of unused capacity which you have not turned to your advantage. You have a tendency to be critical of yourself. You have a strong need for other people to like you and for them to admire you. Security is one of the major goals of your life.

You are very sensitive to other people’s feelings – In fact you often put other people’s need ahead of your own… especially those of your family and friends. You sometimes take on too much responsibility and a lot of the time you aren’t appreciated. You’re very perceptive about people and are intuitive or even psychic to some extent.

This script has been tested and proven over and over again in countless psychological studies. You don’t have to use it word for word, but should stick as close to the script as possible. You can tailor it slightly to each woman based on other cues you pick up about her. You’d be amazed at how easy that can be too. A woman can be sitting there slouched Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

over and with a huge frown on - you say, “You’re somewhat depressed and disenchanted with life” - and she’ll be surprised that you “read” that about her. It’s almost ridiculous. Once your done with the reading – let her tell you how impressed she is was that you knew all of that. Keep your tone very soft – almost as if you’re still giving her the reading. This will keep her in a trance-like state. Just say, “Thank you, I picked up such a positive energy about you while doing that. Let’s go out this Saturday. I’m intrigued and I want to get to know you more”. Then just take out your cell phone and say “Let me take down your number”. Make sure not to hesitate here. Remember – you have her in a very susceptible state at this point. Have confidence that she’ll give you her number now and chances are she will.

CONCLUSION So you now have an arsenal of tricks to use out their in the field. I strongly suggest reading this several times until the material becomes second nature. Remember – repetition is the mother of success. Keep a look out for my advanced CD and DVD series where I will delve into extremely advanced techniques. Also – don’t forget to check out my original course; The Art Of War For Dating at DatingWar.com. Make sure to join my mailing list because I’ll soon be releasing Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007

part 2 of this book which will have lots more tricks, opening lines and closers that you can use to get the girl. As soon as part 2 is released I’ll be offering it first to the people who bought this one to show my appreciation.

I’d like to sincerely thank you for reading this and I look further to coaching you even further in the future!

- Spencer Michaels

Go to DatingWar.com for more products by Spencer Michaels Copyright © 2007