Marriage Matching - Beyond 10 Factors

VEDIC ASTROLOGY - MARRIAGE COMPATIABILITY Beyond 10 Factor Matching

The expectations from marriage are different when compared to the Vedic period for example, the importance for wealth generation,

competitive

environment,

mental

tension

upbringing the children, lifestyle etc, but surprisingly the Vedic astrology has answers for all these problems and he is the one to have analytical skills to go in-depth of this wonderful subject.

Today's advancement in science and technology should be taken into the account especially in the case of marriage and marital discord and the reasons based on today’s life style. The expectations

are

different,

it

is

not

only

the

physical

appearance that matters, it is more of the support to the family earning capabilities economic reasons and so on.

The requirements for marriage matching goes beyond the normal ten traditional parameters like understanding, character, intelligence etc.

Some

of

the

common

problems

found

in

delayed

marriages •

For marriage the involvement of third house[9th from 7th house] 11th house[5th from the 7th house] and the 7th house. The eighth house represents the longevity or a secured marriage popularly known as magalya bhava.

•

Here the presence of ketu may cause delays, these delays are due to the moods of the person having ketu in the 7th

house. Here one has to be cautious and should be aware, due to his/her expectations the disappointment occurs. •

The presence of Saturn in the 7th house always leads to delays in marriage for a male around 30th year and for a female around 27th year.

•

The affliction of the 7th house due to the aspect of Saturn or the placement of the Saturn in the stars that denotes the 7th house. For example if a person is born in mesha rasi the placement of Saturn in libra or in the star of sukra,

namely

bharani,

puram,

purvaasada,

may

contribute to this delay •

The onset of ketu dasa may also cause the delay, the aspect of Saturn on the 7th house in gochara[from the moon sign] may also cause delays.

Papasamyam

This means equality of Malific nature. This factor is also important, the presence of papa planets namely mars, Saturn, rahu, ketu, sun placement in 2nd, 4th, 7th,8th,12th cause papasamyam,

we

can

consider

one

point

for

each

house

placement of malefics mentioned above. The rule is the points should either be equal or lesser than the male. These factors are also responsible for causing the delay.

Affliction to Venus

The affliction to the Venus by way of combustion with sun, planetary war, placement with mars and the adverse planets in the 7th house from Venus, combination of rahu or ketu with Venus may cause serious set backs in relationship.

In case of the presence of the malefics in the 7th house, the partner’s horoscope the aspect of the planets to the 7th house or presence in the 7th house is a positive factor.

Navamsa

It is very important to clarify the strength of the planets in navamsa for a healthy married life. in case of the afflictions there as well as in rasi then one has to do some remedial factors. Based on the nature of the affliction.

The third house represent sangamam, the 7th house represents desire and the 11th house represents progress associated with marriage. The 7th house is the fulcrum or the lagna for marriage. All these factors should be properly examined for marriage.

Added to the above factors the man made factors like earning capabilities, status and sleek appearance, the riders are so many that causes serious set backs, for example if the eligible bride studied M.S and earning say 12 lacs per annum, she is not merely satisfied if the groom is earning more than her, but he should also have more than her education say M.S and M.B.A etc, just analyze your expectations and give importance accordingly, suppose if you are interested to lead a peaceful life with the caring husband then you better formulate your ideas according to your requirement, by marrying the money making machine, you can be initially happy but the frustration will certainly follow, be clear with your ideas and search accordingly, too much of money does not guarantee you the passport for a happy married life, also match your ideas with other persons point of view and be realistic, in order to avoid

man made problems, status alone does not bring you the happiness and the person with only objective of caring for you may turnout to become a disappointment, balanced approach is essential, it is important that a girl should some how get engaged before her 27/28th year and a male should not cross his 31/32nd year in order to excise better choice. Do not keep postponing things, it is your life make it a merrier one!

The

Science

of

Horoscope

Matching

–

For

Lasting

Happiness

Now a days every one expects the bride to be employed and should have equal status and sharing the responsibilities at home as well as to carry out the responsibilities in profession, in addition to that she will have to carry the responsibility of pregnancy and deliver the child, adding to this it is not fair for any one to expect her to do the cooking and house hold works. These type of pressures may not last long and a a girl easily gets frustrated with too many responsibilities and shows her displeasures. If some one gets into the shoes of the girl perhaps they can understand things better, if a girl is also employed and the bread winner of the family, the equation certainly changes and adaptability to the situation can only bring in the peace to any family. There is no point in blaming the girl or her horoscope matching.

The traditional ten matches are sufficient in analyzing the compatibility, but the present day’s situation is different, she also

go through the professional pressures and

travels and overtime working etc.

strenuous

Under the circumstances, one should understand her potential earning capabilities, ascertained from analyzing her 10th, 11th and 2nd house. Analyzing her 4th house reveals her comfort level. The second and the 9th house , indicates her family and luck

factors,

all

these

matters

conveys

her

moods

and

adaptability to the situation.

In a Males horoscope it is important to find out his level of tolerance and his approach, from his 2nd and the fifth house.

His 9th house and Venus talks about his luck and affection and romance. It is important for the women to offer security and soothing words and basic understanding to make the life smooth, so that both of them engages in working professionally and also finding time to bring up their children and they can live with better understanding to lead the better quality of life. The following things to be analyzed in a female horoscope.

1.7th house- for husband 2.12th house- conjugal life 3.position of the Mars- expectation from her husband 4.2nd house- her tolerance, family finance and talks. 5.4th house her level of comfort 6.10th house her professional responsibilities 7.>star- her approach and character. 8.Venus luxury and happiness

These

factors

are

very

much

important

to

analyze

the

compatibility with male and also her progressive dasa periods.

Similarly in the case of male his expectations can be gauged by the position of Venus, his professional competence, his earning

capabilities, all these factors can be gauged from 2nd, 9th, 10, 11th house, the progeny factor from the 5th house of male and from the 9th house of female and finally their longevity.

By analyzing in depth, one can come to the conclusion, any way the god’s will is over and above all these analysis, we are only making an attempt to do our job at best.

The process goes like this,

First step: picking the right horoscope with the basic knowledge of star comparability. Second step: short listing the horoscopes with the help of the astrologer Third step: communication to the concerned parents and arrive the mutual conclusion Fourth step: meeting of the boy and girl and arriving the decision Fifth step: the marriage takes place.

When you are short listing the horoscope it is done on the random basis. When you are at the stage of finalizing say from 10 short listed horoscopes, you may find mutual interest only with three or four parties. At that point of time it is better to have second round of discussion with the horoscopes for a detailed

analysis,

in

a

way

this

process

will

reduce

mistakes and errors and make them to live happily for ever.

the

The dasa sandhi

The dasa sandhi is attached with importance in match making, we are addressing the positive and negative features of the same

Dasa sandhi occurs when the dasa period of the male and the dasa period of the female changes ranging from few days to one year?

For example a male is running the gurudasa, say it ends by 15th November 2010 and from that time onwards the Saturn dasa commences.

In the case of the female, suppose the ongoing Mars dasa coming to an end by say 10th of October 2010 then the difference between the starting of the dasa’s between the male and female is just 35 days, this is called the dasa sandhi.

Due to the change of dasa there may be some inherent changes in life style and that may affect the routines and they may even go through a period of impediments, as a precaution this type of horoscopes based on the coincidence of dasa change is avoided.

The span or the interval between the boy and girl need not exceed 365 days for this consideration, because in some cases the dasa sandhi is considered more than three years also, according to our opinion if the earth completes one cycle in 365 days may not have the chain reaction if the interval is more than one year.

Suppose even in case of the dasa sandhi, the change of dasa period belongs to the benefic planets like Jupiter, Venus, mercury

and

moon,

this

dasa

sandhi

considered

to

be

auspicious. hence it can be accepted, in case of the dasa sandhi of the malefic planets like mars, Saturn, rahu, ketu, sun and krishnapaksha moon and badly associated mercury can be associated as malefic and it should be treated on case to case basis.

Mars dosha chevvai dosham-manglik dosham

[Meenam]

Mars [mesham]

[Rishabam]

[Mithunam]

Mars

Rasi chart

Mars

[Kumbam]

placement of Mars in the

[katagam]

above places Mars [Makaram]

[Dhanush]

does not cause dosha.

Mars [Vrichigam]

[Thulam]

Mars [Simmam]

[Kanni]

If the mars are in the above places the dosha gets cancelled, if Saturn aspects the mars even then the dosha stands cancelled. Rishaba lagnam and simma lagnam the mars in the second house cancels the mars dosha

For vrichika lagnam mars in 12th house the dosha cancelled.

As a general rule mars in 2nd,4th,7th,8th,12th house then the dosha is present.

Papasamyam

Malefic planets in Lagnam, 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th, 12th from the lagnam is known as Papasamyam, it is important to check up only 7th, 8th and 12th. As a rule when malefic planet occupies this place naturally 6th house, 7th house and 8th house is 180 degrees

from

12th,

1st,

2nd

house.

Only these six houses with reference to lagnam and Venus to be analyzed, here the affliction of the girl should be less than that of the boy, for the simple reason a girl should not add misfortunes, but here the blind application of malefic to be matched with malefic is wrong, especially for those born in Katagam and Simmam with rahu in the 7th house, should not be matched with similar one, similarly matching two kalasarpa yoga horoscopes etc.

Delays in Marriage

If Saturn is in any way associated with the 7th house then the marriage after 27years for boy and 25 years for girl is the natural and early marriage in these cases will bring more difficulties. Also placement of ketu in the 7th house causes delay. Running of the Ketu dasa causes set backs in marriage

Myths about stars

In case of aslesha or mulam the last two quarters are not harmful. In case of visagam only the last quarter is harmful, the other three are okay.

Economic conditions

Progressive dasa period is essential for a brighter tomorrow, as well as economic conditions. Presence of dana yoga is also important.

Career

and

business

prospect

should

also

be

analyzed.

Attitude and Qualities

Qualities

should

be

examined

properly

otherwise

the

ego

clashes will lead to divorce or separation in today’s context. For eg. presence of the strong sun associated with 8th house, strong Jupiter, exalted Saturn or even Venus may cause the qualities of domination. Naturally the partner must be flexible, or understanding or friendly for better understanding. Matching the two powerful horoscope will certainly end in separation.

A proper matching will always ensure a happy married life. You will have any regrets for missing out prospective horoscopes for silly reasons.

The importance & significance of traditional marriage combination

In our ancient scripts astrology is described as “the eye of Veda”.

We

are

taking

this

initiative

to

understand

the

significance of the matches, so that the individuals can decide the importance rather than depending on the whims & fancies of various astrologers who simply reject even the best matches on flimsy grounds. We invite the queries and the clarifications in this subject. We are attempting to present this article for the benefit of those who have contemplating in making the right choice.

DINA Porutham

This is counted with reference to female stars. Here the important factors to be considered are to omit the 22nd star also known for its ill effects. This combination is important for Prosperity & Happiness in life.

GANAM Porutham:

This match essentially talks about the qualities described under three

categories

as

Deva

ganam,

Rakshasa ganam. As the name sathvik

quality,

Manushya

Manushya

suggests

represents

ganam

Deva

rajasya

and

stands for quality

and

Rakshasa represents tamasa quality. The important factor here is female being a weaker sex is expected to have soft qualities with reference to male. For example, female born under the Rakshasa ganam can not be matched with a male born under Deva ganam. In case of this type of marriage, a female always dominates

over

male

authority.

There

are

and

she

possibilities

arguments due to this factor.

MAHENDRA Porutham:

will

become

the

deciding

of

mutual

conflicts

and

This match is considered for longevity & offspring and this match have lesser importance.

SREE DERGAM:

This match is also essential for longevity of the couples and lesser importance is given for this match.

YONI Porutham:

The importance is given for this combination considering the sexual gratification of the couples. Here the miss matches are mentioned clearly and importance should be given to this match.

RASI Porutham:

Counting

from

the

female

the

7th

rasi

to

12th

rasi

is

considered to be auspicious. This represents compatibility of the mind as well as progeny. The absence of this match may lead to disagreement between them.

RASI LORD Combination:

This combination doesn’t have the direct impact on the married couples and it talks about the friendly atmosphere of the kith & kin the married couples. Indirectly their enmity may create displeasures.

VASHYA Porutham: (mutual attraction)

It is very important to have mutual love & attraction, so that many

differences

may

get

forgotten

or

forgiven.

This

combination talks about everlasting attraction between them. Though this combination is important the absence of this combination cannot create any serious setbacks.

RAJU Porutham:

This is the most important combination considered by all the caste & communities. It talks about the longevity of the couples,

prosperity

and

their

future

generation.

This

combination should be present. However some exceptions are also mentioned. But it is advisable have this combination intact.

VEDAI Porutham: (aversion)

Here the stars are listed with mutual enmity. This combination is also very important because the mutual aversion may result in separation or remarriage.

NADI Porutham:

In certain cases the mutual union may have adverse effects & health factors considering this fact. The other parameters in the

horoscope

with

regard

to

health

factors

should

be

examined.

SASHASTAMAM:

This factor is very much popular with keralite astrologers. The combination of lagna in 6th & 8th position with reference to

female may cause troubles with regard to the quality of the child. So this combination is considered to be important.

PABASAMYAM:

This combination deals with sins committed in the previous births. This negative factor should be less when compared to male so that the progress of the male will not get affected. This is again based on the presence of malefic planets in 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th & 12th houses counted from lagnam & moon sign and also from Venus.

NUMEROLOGY:

The birth dates also plays an important role in considering the qualities of Male & Female. The proper combination is essential for

harmonious

life

&

prosperity.

We

also

consider

the

matching of the name by numerology.

SUN SIGN:

Western astrologers give prime importance for the position of sun & it has lot of meaning. The sun sign gives the exact qualities of the person, their approach, like & dislikes etc. This combination also strengthens the mutual love & care between them.