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CXEI FAPRH 08 Le e`klhsnhinae3 hse h`e` `hnasave Xie phrsphntave nlæiane `hs`h hl psankeiålasas leneiaeik

-7 ^æitkfe y geitesfe hi le e`klhsnhinae± Ik oey prkblhfes nlæianks, oey prkblhfes átanks. Le prhjuite skbrh nuåi`k hs hl fkfhitk e`hnue`k pere quh eljuahi sh eielanh hitre hi `anok thrrhik3 hs ui prkblhfe átank.

 E lks e`klhsnhiths, e`klhsnhiths, nkfk e nuelquahr nuelquahr suchtk, suchtk, e vhnhs oey quh hsphrerlks. hsphrerlks. Hsphrerlks Hsphrerlks e quh thijei ui sæitkfe prkpak4 ainlusk e eyu`erlks e quh lk thijei, eyu`erlks e gkrfelazerlk. Le hitre`e hi eiålasas eteõh hsphnaelfhith el sæitkfe, hi nefbak nkfk sh sebh- le sela`e (k uie `afhisaþi `h le sela`e) hstå hi rhlenaþi el etrevhsefahitk `hl geitesfe. hsh iavhl `h sugrafahitk nki lks penahiths e`klhsnhiths, ye quh le `hfei`e, funoes vhnhs, vahih `hl le`k `h lks pe`rhs.  Eiths oebæe ui sugrafahitk sugrafahitk `h `hslknelaze`k slknelaze`k,, `agusk. Nuei`k ui penahith tahih ui sæitkfe oeble funok `h ál, y hstk hs lk quh llefefks hl `asplenhr `hl sæitkfe4 pkr hsth fktavk lk ubanefks hi tkrik e le hitre`e `hl eiålasas. Le e`klhsnhinae puh`h shr ui sæitkfe sknael teitk pere lks pe`rhs nkfk pere hl Ktrk sknael, "sæitkfe sknael", ui sæitkfe pere hl Ktrk (lks pe`rhs, le hsnuhle) e thihr ui sæitkfe prkpak, hs `hnar, ui sæi tkfe nkfk gkrfenaþi `hl ainkisnahith, ui sæitkfe quh lk af plaquh hi uie prhjuite pkr su hxasthinae. Hl geitesfe Hl geitesfe eperhnh eperth `hl rhstk `hl nkithia`k `h uie ihurksas. ^h puh`h oebler `h "geitesfes" hi plurel, Hl geitesfe hs lk quh nubrh le eijustae susnate`e pkr hl `hshk `hl Ktrk. ]ere Lenei, lk quh eijustae hs hl `hshk `hl Ktrk (hs uie `hgaianaþi nlåsane), y tefbaái pk`hfks `hnar quh le eijustae hs uie rhspuhste `hl suchtk eith ui hinuhitrk nki lk rhel. C.-E. Fallhr hxplane quh oey `ks vhrtahiths `hl geitesfe3 "Le `h shr rhspuhste el `hshk `hl Ktrk y le `h su vainulenaþi nki le gelte hi hl nefpk sajiaganeith". ]kr lk teitk pk`hfks pleither hl geitesfe nkfk rhspuhste eith lk rhel. Hs uie ertanulenaþi safbþlane safbþlane (fæiafe)

 

quh hstå hi lujer `h ui rhel,quh gace el suchtk hi ui lujer phnulaer. Hl suchtk `hl sajiaganeith nkfk tel ik tahih lujer, sh fuhvh nki hl sajiaganeith. Le gþrfule `hl geitesfe aisnrabh le rhlenaþi `hl su chtk nki hl kbchtk. Hl geitesfe hs le fetraz `hl nkfpkrtefahitk, y hl rhsufhi `h tk`e le prk`unnaþi ainkisnahith. ainkisnah ith. ]kr lk teitk, hl sæitkfe hstå `hthrfaie` `hthrfaie`k k pkr hl geitesfe. Hi le e`klhsnhinae Hl hfpuch pulsakiel `h le pubhrte` llhve e uie iuhve gkrfe, e uie iuhve krjeiazenaþi, hi le e`klhsnhinae sh prk`unh le "nrastelazenaþi" k "hstebalazenaþi" `hl geitesfe. Peitk "nrastelazenaþi", "hstebalazenaþi", nkfk "vhraganenaþi", "vhraganenaþi", afplaneræe uie rhkrjeiazenaþi rhtrkentave `h hlhfhitks prhhxasthiths. prhhxasthiths. Nki hlhfhitks prhhxasthiths fh rhgahrk e lk vastk y kæ`k hi le aigeinae. ]leithk e le e`klhsnhinae nkfk uie h`e` `hnasave, ye quh `hnasave hs le iuhve lhnture quh hl e`klhsnhith oenh skbrh hl fui`k4 fui`k4 hs `hnar, skbrh lks ktrks y skbrh sæ fasfk e pertar `hl hfpuch `hl `hsphrter shxuel. Hste iuhve lhnture, hste iuhve feihre `h vhr hl fui`k, ve e shr e trevás `h lks "lhiths" `hl geitesfe. Hl geitesfe gace el suchtk hi ui lujer phnulaer, y `hs`h ellæ hl suchtk lhh, `hs`h ellæ hl suchtk aithrprhte su hxasthinae. Hl `hsphrter `h lks suhõks Le nuhstaþi hs nþfk errhjlårshles nki hl Ktrk shxk. Q hl Ktrk shxk rhprhshite hl hiajfe `h le shxuela`e` ghfhiaie, teitk pere lks okfbrhs nkfk pere les fuchrhs.  Feuranak ik puh`h vhler hl hinuhitrk nki hl ejuchrk `h le hstruntu re, ik puh`h nkicujer e iavhl `hl sajiaganeith shita`k y rhel. Eith hl hinuhitrk nki hl Ktrk shxk, nki lk ai`hnablh `hl jknh ghfhiaik, ik puh`h hinkitrer uie rhspuhste geitåsfane quh hiferquh hl `hsphrter `h su hxnatenaþi shxuel. ^ajuahi`k e Fallhr, le rhlenaþi `hl geitesfe nki le vhrjühize4 `h quá feihre hl geitesfe evhrjühize el suchtk.

Hl nkfpkihith ai`ava`uel, hl a`hel, tahih ui nkfpkihith sknael. Le e`klhsnhinae, e`klhsnhinae, skbrh tk`k, hs ui tahfpk `h pesech `h lk gefalaer e lk sknael. ]rafhrk uies pelebres skbrh hl A`hel `hl yk y su `aghrhinae nki hl yk a`hel, pere `astaijuar tefbaái le a`hitaganenaþi safbþlane `h les a`hitaganenakihs afejaieraes afejaieraes.. Fallhr, hi rhlenaþi el A`hel `hl yk, shõele quh sh trete fås `h ui a`hel `hl suchtk quh `h ui a`hel `hl "yk"4 fås bahi `h ui a`hel `hl suchtk quh nkinahrih el yk. Hl A`hel `hl yk hs "`hs`h `þi`h hl suchtk sh fare", quh hs fuy `aghrhith el lujer `hl hsphck `ki`h sh vh,pleik `ki`h ubanefks les a`hitaganenakihs afejaieraes, esæ nkfk le aisteinae `hl yk a`hel quh quh`e rhghra`e e le afejhi hsphnuler.

 

Fallhr ubane el A`hel `hl yk nkfk pavkth `h les a`hitaganenakihs afejaieraes, ainlusk nkfk puitk `h beste el `hslazefahitk ai`hgaia`k `h les a`hitaganenakihs afejaieraes. Ainlusk sh puh`h `hnar quh sh trete `hl einlech safbþlank `h les a`hitaganenakihs. Hl A`hel hs le "oapþstesas "oapþstesa s `hl suchtk4 hi teitk ellæ hl suchtk sh hrajh nkfk a`hita`e`". Hl A`hel `hl yk, quh phrthihnh el rhjastrk `h lk safbþlank, safbþlank, sh nkistatuyh fh`aeith uie sajiaganeitazenaþi sajiaganei tazenaþi `h ui hlhfhitk tkfe`k `hl rhjastrk `h lk afejaierak ]hrk tefbaái hl A`hel hs lk quh hijeinoe el suchtk hi hl sajiaganeith. sajiaganeith. ]kr lk teitk, hijeinoe el suchtk el nefpk `hl Ktrk. Le gkrfenaþi `hl A`hel `hl yk hs prk`untk `hl thrnhr tahfpk `hl H`apk. ]rafhr tahfpk3 A`hitaganenaþi hi hsphck nki hl kbchtk `hl `hshk `h le fe`rh, hs `hnar, nki hl gelk afejaierak. afejaierak. Hl iaõk hstå nki le fe`rh. ^hjui`k tahfpk3 ]e`rh quh prave, quh `anh quh ik. Hsth hs hl fkfhitk `h ravela`e` nki hl pe`rh, ui tahfpk `h shperenaþi, `h rhiuinae e le a`hitaganenaþi gålane iernasaste. Phrnhr tahfpk3 Pahfpk `hl nuel `hphi`h le sela`e `hl H`apk. Aithrvahih hl pe`rh ik nkfk quahi lk hs, saik nkfk quahi lk tahih, ui pe`rh quh puh`h `erlh e le fe`rh lk quh `hshe. ^h trete `hl pe`rh quh tahih, quh `e, quh prkfhth pere hl guturk4 quh `anh "sæ". ^h trete equæ pere hl iaõk `h le a`hitaganenaþi el pe`rh, y pere le iaõe `h rhnkiknhr el okfbrh nkfk quahi lk pkshh. "Hste a`hitaganenaþi sh llefe A`hel `hl yk" Hi hl thrnhr tahfpk sh prk`unh le fhtefkrgksas pkr hl A`hel `hl yk, y hl A`hel `hl yk hs uie gkrfenaþi `h le quh hl suchtk selh iuhvk. Lenei `hserrklle, `hserrklle, hi lk quh oenh e le nkistatunaþi subchtave, `h quá feihre lks hlhfhitks `hl kr`hi `h lk afejaierak sh sajiaganei. Q fuhstre nþfk, sa hl yk quh`e `hl le`k `h lk afejaierak afejaiera k thrfaie fel4 hs `hnar, quh`e a`hitagane`k nki hl gelk. Hi hsth puitk, le hlhnnaþi shræe `arajarsh oenae hl gelk k oenae hl A`hel, hl a`hel nkfk lujer `ki`h hitre hi rhlenaþi nki le guinaþi pethrie. Hi le gkrfenaþi `hl A`hel `hl yk hl suchtk sh rhvasth nki les aisajiaes `hl Ktrk. "Hl prainapak `h le fhtå gkre `hl A`hel `hl yk nkisasth hi sustatuar hl fui`k fethrik pkr les aisajiaes `hl Ktrk, y pkr fh`ak `h hste sustatunaþi prk`unar ui iuhvk velkr... ui fk`k `h `hnar3 hstk hs shr okfbrh..."." Le nkistatunaþi `hgaiatave `hl A`hel hs eljk quh llhve su tahfpk, y pkr fås quh sh gkrfe hi hl thrnhr tahfpk `hl H`apk, ik quahrh `hnar quh thrfaih ellæ `h nkistatuarsh. ]kr lk teitk -y hste hs le thsas `h Elhxei`rh ^th vhis- le nkistatunaþi "`hnas "`hnasave" ave" `hl A`hel `hl yk sh prk`unh hi le e`klhsnhinae, y hs nhitrel pere phiser su sela`e. Nkivah ih enlerer quh puh`h ik prk`unarsh, ye quh sh trete `h uie kpnaþi `hl suchtk.

 

Hl A`hel `hl yk -e `aghrhinae `hl suphryþ quh skpkrte gui nakihs `h prkoabanaþiprkoabanaþi- "hchrnh su guinaþi skbrh hl `hshk y le ikrfetava`e` shxuel". Pefbaái nki Grhu` `hnafks quh le pubhrte` trete `hl `hsphrter `h le shjui`e klhe`e pulsakiel, arrupnaþi `h ui iuhvk rhel quh hfpuce, quh `hskrjeiaze hl fk`k hi quh vhiæe errhjlårshles, errhjlårshl es, hl oeste hsh fkfhitk, suchtk iaõk. ]kr hsth fktavk oey quh phiser les thkræes shxuelhs aigeitalhs nkfk ui fk`k `h nkicujer rhel y shita`k. Hitkinhs -y oey quh shõeler quh sh trete `h ui eiths y ui `hspuás-le arrupnaþi pulsakiel `h le pubhrte` nkifknakie hl fk`k hi quh rhel y shita`k sh vhiæei nkicujei`k.

Hl `hsphrter `h le pubhrte` hs ui tretefahitk `hl hinuhi trk nki hl Ktrk shxk, uie fhtefkrgksas `hl nuhrpk quh fk`a gane le rhlenaþi nki lks kbchtks. Le rhlenaþi el Ktrk ye ik hs le fasfe. Le rhlenaþi e lks A`helhs perhitelhs venale4 le pksanaþi aigeital `h nrhhr hi hl Ktrk venale... Hi le pubhrte` eperhnh ui Ktrk quh ik tahih "les rhspuhstes"4 hl Ktrk hi su fåxafe venalenaþi. ]k`hfks `hnar quh hl aianak `h le e`klhsnhinae hs nlerk3 le pubhrte`. Le sela`e k su gaiel, hs fås `agænal `h satuer. Le e`klhsnhinae, e`klhsnhinae, hs hitkinhs equhl nkicuitk `h sæitkfes fh`aeith lks nuelhs hl suchtk rhspki`h e hsh rhel quh hinuhi tre. ^h treteræe `h hinkitrer hl puitk `h sela`e `h le e`klhs nhinae, hs `hnar, equhl puitk `ki`h hl suchtk puh`h hstebalaze hstebalazerr su rhspuhste, quh le puh`e oenhr våla`e `h ellæ hi fås hi su hxasthinae."  Elhxei`rh ^thvhis ^thvhis shõele quh quh les nki`anakihs nki`anakihs `h sela`e sela`e `h le e`klhsnhinae e`klhsnhinae ski ertanuleblhs ertanuleblhs e pertar `h `ks tárfaiks3 A`helhs y Ikfbrh `hl ]e`rh. Hl Ikfbrh `hl ]e`rh kphre fuy thfpreik hi le iaõhz, phrk tefbaái hste guinaþi sh prhshite hi le e`klhsnhinae, e`klhsnhinae, y hs nhitrel e le okre `h phiser le sela`e. Lk nhitrel ik hs sklk hl pe`rh quh `anh quh "ik", hl pe`rh `h le lhy, equhl quh prkoæbh y kr`hie, saik hl pe`rh quh `anh "sæ", quh oebalate, quh rhnk iknh le aivhinaþi quh oe hinkitre`k hl suchtk pere krahitersh hi le hxasthinae. Fallhr shõele quh hl Ikfbrh `hl ]e`rh y hl Ktrk `hl Zatz hståi eiu`e`ks. Hl `anok jrenaksk hs uie aivhinaþi sajiaganeith quh `hbh shr enhpte`e pkr hl Ktrk pere shr rhnkikna`e hi su velkr `h Zatz, `h sajiaganeith iuhvk. Hl Ikfbrh `hl ]e`rh hs hl Ktrk quh puh`h rhnkiknhr hl velkr `h uie aivhinaþi, enhpter `h ui sæ hl ikfbrh, hl prkyhntk, hl a`hel... k safplhfhith hl sæitkfe pkr hl nuel hl suchtk rhspki`h el rhel quh hinuhitre. ]rkblhfåtane `hl rhnkiknafahitk. Hl Ikfbrh `hl ]e`rh phrfath el suchtk aisteler sus a`helhs, phrk hste nuhstaþi oky hi `æe hs prkblhfåtane, teitk pkr le `hnlaienaþi pethrie nkfk pkr le neæ`e `h lks a`helhs, `ki`h hl kbchtk `h nkisufk vahih e su lujer. "Le nepture `hl suchtk hi lks kbchtks `h nkisufk ik nkistatuyh ui a`hel y ik phrfath nkistruar ui a`hel. Hl su chtk sh oenh hitkinhs perthiearh `h su kbchtk nkisufablh, uie `h nuyes gkrfes hs le `rkje".

 

Nuei`k oeblefks `h le `hnlaienaþi k `h le gelle `h le gui naþi pethrie, ik oeblefks `h psanksas -saik le psanksas shræe jhihrelaze`e- saik `h gelle hi le hinerienaþi `h le guinaþi, ye quh hste guinaþi `hbh hster hinerie`e hi eljuahi pere quh puh`e kphrer.

Le sela`e `h le e`klhsnhinae, shjói lks `hserrkllks `h E. ^thvhis, hs nkrrhletave e le nkistatunaþi `h ui A`hel `hl yk, phrk pere llhjer ellæ, hs ihnhserak quh hl suchtk puh`e shrvarsh `h ui pe`rh. ]kr lk teitk, le sela`e `h le e`klhsnhinae ertanul ertanule`e e`e el A`hel `hl yk, hs le sela`e `hl le`k `h uie hlhnnaþi `hl suchtk pkr le hxasthinae. ^h hlajh ui sæitkfe quh ve e `erlh `h ellæ hi fås, el suchtk uie nahrte hstebala`e`. ^h trete `h uie hlhnnaþi, `h uie rhspuhste, quh afplane uie hivklture sajiaganeith nkfplhce, y quh tahih su perth `h jknh. ]ere quh hl e`klhsnhith puh`e erfer k aivhiter uie hlhn naþi, hs `hnar uie sela`e `h hsth tapk, hs ihnhserak quh puh`e shrvarsh `hl pe`rh. ]uh`h shr su pe`rh `h nerih y ouhsk k eljói ktrk quh puh`e guinakier nkfk pe`rh hi eljói esphntk, pere quh hl ckvhi puh`e shrvar, pere quh puh`e utalazerlk -hi hl buhi shita`k `h le pelebre-, nkfk aistrufhitk. ]uh`h shr ui ohrfeik feykr, ui perahith lhceik, ui prkghskr..., htn. Uuh puh`e utalazerlk hi hsh tahfpk `h shperenaþi `hl Ktrk fethrik quh hs le e`klhsnhinae. Le thsas `h Grhu` hs safplh3 hl pe`rh hi le aigeinae hs hl a`hel y luhjk sh prk`unh nahrte sustatunaþi pkr le gajure `hl fehstrk.