Julien Manifesto

Julien Manifesto Opening  Opening is the least important part of the game  Three rules when opening  1. Lower your time of reaction  2. Instead of calibrating before, start calibrating after the fact  3. Set the frames of the interaction from the start (man to woman)  Physicality  Strong eye contact  Breaking rapport tonality  Be clear in your intent: thoughts, words and actions aligned  Comfort is having no filters  Be yourself, but don’t worry about the outcome Hooking  After opening, your objective is to reach the hook point  Indicator: anime eyes  Sometimes set will automatically hook after your opener, other times you need to plow  You want the girl, but you don’t need the girl  Set the rhythm of the interaction: you want her to be reacting to you  First 3-5min: short, breaking rapport: Hey, what’s your name, cool, what do you, etc., come here, boom (you talk 90% of the time)  Get close, in her face  Be the cause, not the effect (poke her in the stomach randomly)  Be the buyer, not the seller Vibing  Once hooked (see anime eyes), then turn it to a normal conversation, you talk 50%, she talks 50%  Give her the opportunity to talk back (contrasted with above)  Get to know her as a human being  Build a bubble with just you and her, isolate, turn her away from her friends  Bounce her around (lets go outside, lets go talk to my friends, etc.)  Roleplay (“hey, this is my gf, this is my sister---makeout!”)  Get her to emotionally invest (“You can go if you want to…”) What Next?  Find out the logistics  1. Who are you here with?  2. What are you doing tomorrow?  3. Where do you live? Timeline  First 2 hours: shorter sets, less investment/commitment, joking around

It’s all about me Warm up, get in the social zone, screw around, pranks, be loud, no pressure, bounce around  Get numbers, build leads  First ask 3 logistic questions (find out who’s DTF)  “We’re hanging out later…what’s my name?...cool…we’re hanging out later” repeatedly  If can’t hang out later, then suggest Day 2: “have coffee with me tomorrow” (hammer out the logistics in person)  Text her next day, “what are you doing tonight?”  Later that night, can text these leads Last 2 hours: longer sets, more investment/commitment, pulls  Determine the girl you’re going to pull and commit for the SNL (could be one of the leads from before, could be a new girl)  Set will be 45min-1.5hrs: open, hook, vibe, then pull  Establish logistics for her to go home with you: “Hey, afterparty, let’s go!”  Take responsibility, give her bits and pieces to rationalize why it’s ok  

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