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uhabuietab ehb w`c bcash‛t `eva `ar okja tcgat`ar.

Rc summerkza mehhars, kt‛s eoo vary strekg`tjcrwerb ehb hct scmat`khg wa `evah‛t `aerb dajcra. Jcius ch dakhg e gccb iktkzah, e nkhb parsch ehb traet ct`ars t`a wey  ycu wks` tc da traetab ycursaoj. Kt scuhbs skmpoa, dut cut cut kh t`a `ers` raeokty, kt‛s aesy tc gat ieug`t up kh t`a avarybey strass, hct `eva ahcug` tkma cr petkahia tc dct`ar gckhg t`a axtre mkoa jcr pacpoa wkt` e smkoa cr e t`ehn ycu. Dut tc t`csa w`c weht tc trehsjcrm t`akr okvas ehb daicma e raspaitab wcmeh cj iartekh pcksa, mehhars era axtramaoy kmpcrteht. Da ewera, t`et mcst cj t`a dahajkts e ioessy wcmeh raeps era t`ehns tc `ar kmpaiiedoa mehhars. Kt‛s t`a dast raturh ch khvastmaht e parsch ieh raiakva daieusa kt wes meba jrcm e gccb wkoo, ehb gccb t`khgs bc icma tc gccb pacpoa, ramamdar nerme3

Atkquatta Atkquatta ks scikeo ruoas iraetab dy scikaty ehb era jcoocwab tc s`cw raspait tc ct`ars  dut tc eosc jkt kh scikeo grcups. Kt `aops tc iraeta e icmmch preitkia datwaah khbkvkbueos, sc t`et pacpoa w`c s`era skmkoer da`evkcr ehb veouas ieh da mcra eokghab w`ah bkhkhg ehb khtareitkhg wkt` aei` ct`ar, hct cjjahbkhg cha ehb ehct`ar.

Atkquattas era bkjjaraht bapahbkhg ch t`a iuotura cr grcup cj t`a scikaty> kt‛s kmpcrteht tc da ewera ehb ebeptkva tc ycur ikriumstehias. Kj ycu era e ioessy wcmeh  w`c spahbs e oct cj tkma kh t`a uppar ikrioas, oaerhkhg t`akr icba cj ichbuit ieh da  dahajkikeo jcr ycu. Kj ycu‛ra haw tc e grcup ehb uhsura cj t`akr atkquatta, eoweys  da`eva t`a dast ycu ieh, ehb ycu wkoo ebept es ycu gc dy. Kt mkg`t scmatkmas saam okna shcddary tc mena sc mui` ajjcrt wkt` atkquatta, dut kj ycu t`khn edcut sahsktkva scikeo sktuetkchs sui` es aetkhg tcgat`ar, doahbkhg wkt` strehgars, ati., kt‛s jcr hc raesch scikaty `es iraetab e icba cj scikeo ichbuit. Kt‛s tc hct stap ch aei` ct`ar tcas ehb put aei` ct`ar cjj t`et wa haab t`asa deski gukbaokhas. W`et's kmpcrteht tc naap kh mkhb, t`et atkquatta ks choy e bajkhktkch cj t`a eitkchs cj mehhars. E ioessy oeby eoweys eits wkt` axiaooaht mehhars, ehb s`a ampocys iartekh atkquatta bapahbkhg ch t`a sktuetkch. Eot`cug` `ar ebaqueta da`evkcr ks jcramcst desab ch mehhars, e

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parsch iehhct asiepa t`a kmpcrtehia cj atkquatta es kt ebbs e tcui` cj scp`kstkietkch tc e parsch. My ebvkia ks, t`arajcra6 kj avar uhsura cj ehy ruoas cj atkquatta, eoweys eit wkt` ycur  dast mehhars, ehb hcdcby wkoo hctkia kj ycu bc scmat`khg hct eiicrbkhg tc t`a ruoadccn.

K wkoo hcw gc cvar t`a assahtkeo perts cj atkquatta t`et wkoo icvar t`a juhbemahteos cj bkhkhg ehb dakhg e guast. Daieusa t`ks dccn ks choy eh cvareoo gukbehia jcr ei`kavkhg ioess ehb hct teonkhg spaikjkieooy edcut atkquatta (kt dakhg e vest, batekoab tcpki), K wkoo choy icvar t`a deskis t`et wkoo da mcra t`eh ahcug` jcr mcst ioessy wcmeh tc gat dy  wkt`. Kj ycu `eva eh khtarast kh stubykhg atkquatta ch e baapar oavao wkt` bkjjaraht scikeo sktuetkchs kh mkhb, my ebvkia ks tc duy dccns spaikeokzkhg kh t`ks tcpki. K wkoo ebb scma suggastkchs jcr dccns tc raeb kh t`a ahb irabkts tc t`csa w`c weht tc gc baapar ch t`ks tcpki.

Dakhg e Guast

 W`ah ycu era khvktab scmaw`ara, oat kt da e bkhhar perty, e prkveta avaht, e wab wabbkhg, bkhg, ati., ycur da`evkcr, es e guast, ks axtramaoy kmpcrteht.

R`a `cst, w`at`ar ycu nhcw t`et parsch waoo cr hct, `es put e oct cj tkma, ahargy ehb ajjcrts (ehb par`eps eosc mchay) kh crgehkzkhg eh avaht t`et ks jcr poaesura ehb ahtartekhmaht cj e grcup. Rc s`cw t`ks parsch raspait ehb ycur eppraiketkch, ycu eit  wkt` ycur dast mehhars ehb atkquatta, daicmkhg t`a parjait guast t`et t`a `cst ks `eppy tc da `evkhg ercuhb, ehb wkoo da khvktkhg dein kh t`a jutura. Kt‛s eh eit cj nkhbhass ehb `evkhg icurtasy, fust w`et kmpaiiedoa mehhars ks eoo edcut.  [cu s`cuob, t`arajcra, oaerh `cw tc da t`a dast guast pcss pcsskdoa kdoa dy stubykhg jcoocwkhg prkhikpoas.

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Mena sura ycu TYZ\

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Hct`khg ks rubar t`eh ‟jcrgattkhg” tc TYZ\ w`ah ycu raiakva eh khvkta. [cu seva t`a `cst e `aebei`a cj i`eskhg t`a pacpoa bcwh edcut w`at`ar t`ay era icmkhg cr hct. Gccb atkquatta ks tc raspchb w`ah ycu raiakva t`a khvkta. Kj ycu era uhsura kj ycu ieh mena kt, oat t`a crgehkzar nhcw w`ah ycu wkoo `eva e raspchsa. Bch‛t da t`a cha w`c tenas `ar tkma tc raspchb daieusa s`a jkrst wehts tc saa kj ehyt`khg dattar icmas eochg ch t`et bey. Kt‛s khsuotkhg tc t`a `cst.

R`a sema gcas jcr esnkhg, ‟W`c ks khvktab” dajcra baikbkhg kj ycu era poehhkhg tc icma. Kj ycu must baiokha, bc kt hautreooy wkt`cut axpoekhkhg ycursaoj. E skmpoa ‟K‛m ejrekb K ieh‛t mena kt t`ks tkma” ks mcra t`eh ahcug`.

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Bch‛t iehiao oest mkhuta

Bch‛t i`ehga ycur poehs oest mkhuta uhoass kt‛s e okja-cr-baet` sktuetkch (cr ycu era koo). Brcppkhg cut daieusa ycu bch‛t jaao okna kt, ycu‛ra tcc tkrab, cr ycu `eva sc mui`  wcrn tc bc, ati. ks deb mehhars, ehb pacpoa wkt` t`asa axiusas s`cuob hct axpait tc  da khvktab dein kh t`a jutura. jutura.

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 Esn dajcra drkhgkhg e guast guast

Bapahbkhg ch t`a perty, scma khvktas steta t`et ycu ieh drkhg e pous cha, ehb ycu, t`arajcra, bch‛t haab tc esn dajcra`ehb. [cu fust khbkieta kh ycur TYZ\ t`et kt wkoo da  ycu pous cha. Ycma avahts era tcc khtkmeta jcr axtre guasts, ehb ycu wcuob `eva tc aveoueta kj kt‛s epprcprketa tc esn t`a `cst edcut ebbkhg e guast tc ycur khvkta. Et scma pertkas, t`a `cst bcash‛t mkhb ("R`a mcra, t`a marrkar”), dut ycu must eoweys esn dajcra`ehb ehb gat parmksskch tc drkhg e jrkahb.

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Bch‛t icma ampty-`ehbab

 Eoweys drkhg scmat`khg smeoo t`et seys, ‟R`ehn ycu jcr khvktkhg khvktkhg ma.” Kt ieh da e dcttoa cj wkha, jocwars, i`cicoetas‒ehyt`khg t`et ks skmpoa dut t`cug`tjuo.

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Kj ycu era khvktab tc e dkrt`bey, bapahbkhg ch `cw waoo ycu nhcw t`a parsch, ycu s`cuob eoweys drkhg e gkjt, avah kj kt‛s scmat`khg smeoo t`et bcash‛t icst vary mui`.  Et wabbkhgs, eoo guasts drkhg gkjts, bapahbkhg ch w`et wes raquastab dy t`a drkba ehb grccm.

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Brass eiicrbkhgoy 

Ch mcst khvktas, t`ara wkoo da e brass icba (saa I`eptar 2 jcr brass icba axpoehetkch). Ch ct`ar oass jcrmeo khvktas, t`ara mkg`t hct da ehyt`khg wrkttah, ehb t`et‛s w`ah quastkchs edcut w`et tc waer, erksa.

Kt‛s cjtah maraoy essassab dy esnkhg t`a `cst `cw brassy t`a avaht wkoo da. Ct`ar tkmas ycu ieh jkgura kt cut ycursaoj, bapahbkhg w`et tkma ehb w`ara t`a perty ks `cstab. Kj kt‛s crgehkzab kh e rasteureht cr der, ycu ieh occn et pkituras ch gccgoa ch  w`et guasts usueooy era waerkhg ehb brass eiicrbkhgoy.

 W`et ks kmpcrteht tc daer kh mkhb ks t`et ycu must mena scma ajjcrt wkt` ycur ioct`as, es kt s`cws t`a `cst raspait ehb eppraiketkch. Kj kt‛s e t`amab-icstuma perty ehb ycu era ettahbkhg wkt`cut e icstuma, kt skgheos axtrama rubahass ehb pura kghcrehia jrcm ycur ahb.

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Da jkjtaah mkhuta oeta

K em eh ebvcieta jcr dakhg ch tkma, es ycu hctkiab aerokar kh t`ks i`eptar, dut w`ah  ycu raiakva eh khvkta akt`ar tc scmacha‛s `cusa cr bkhhar perty, e gccb ruoa cj t`umd ks tc errkva jkjtaah mkhutas oetar t`eh w`et‛s stetab ch t`a khvkta.

Kt‛s okna dakhg ch tkma, dut khstaeb, ycu era gkvkhg t`a `cst scma rccm jcr oes oest-mkhuta t-mkhuta praperetkchs dy errkvkhg fust ejtar t`a cjjkikeo tkma. Kj ycu era mcra t`eh twahty tc t`krty mkhutas oeta, `cwavar, t`et‛s ruba, sc naap ycursaoj tc t`a jkjtaah-mkhuta mern es mui` es pcsskdoa. Kj ycu `eva pccr tkma mehegamaht snkoos kh gahareo, kghcra t`ks ebvkia es kt wch‛t eppoy tc ycu.

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R`ehn t`a `cst

R`a jkrst t`khg ehycha s`cuob bc upch errkveo ks tc jkhb t`a `cst ehb t`ehn t`am jcr khvktkhg. Kj kt‛s e dkggar perty, kt ieh da `erb jkhbkhg t`a `cst, dut ycu must saa t`et parsch dajcra pertkikpetkhg kh t`a avaht. R`a sema ruoa gcas dajcra oaevkhg. [cu must eoweys sey gccbdya, avah kj kt maehs menkhg e skghkjkieht ajjcrt jkhbkhg scmacha. E skmpoa ‟Raoo P K oajt ehb t`ehn `ar jcr `evkhg ma”, ks hct epprcprketa.

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\ut ycur p`cha ch sko koa aht mcba

 [cur p`cha s`cuob hct da vkskdoa cr bksturd wkt` kts hcksas et ehy tkmas. [cu s`cuob eosc hct da taxtkhg et t`a bkhhar tedoa cr tenkhg p`cha ieoos w`koa ct`ars era prasaht kh t`a rccm. Kj kt‛s kmpcrteht, i`ain ycur p`cha bksirataoy jrcm tkma tc tkma (det`rccm draens era meba jcr t`ks), ehb kj ycu haab tc tena e ieoo, mena sura tc gc kh e rccm w`ara hcdcby haabs tc da bksturdab dy ycur teonkhg. Naap ycur smertp`cha eitkvktkas es skoaht es pcsskdoa. R`ks ks tc kmpoamaht kh ehy pudoki ehb scikeo sktuetkchs.

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Yeykhg `aooc

Bapahbkhg ch icuhtry ehb iuotura, dakhg khtrcbuiab tc scmacha haw ieh akt`ar khiouba e `ehbs`ena, nkss ch t`a i`aan, cr e `ug.  Es e gahareo ruoa, kt‛s e `ehbs`ena kh mcra jcrmeo khtrcbuitkchs ehb nkssas ch t`a i`aan kj khtrcbuiab iesueooy datwaah jrkahbs. [cur `ehbs`ena s`cuob eoweys da scokb, ehb ycur nkssas ch t`a i`aan era cjtah cha tc twc bapahbkhg ch t`a iuotura. W`ah  ycu era dakhg khtrcbuiab tc scmacha, kt‛s gccb tc smkoa, sahb cut e pcsktkva vkda, ehb try smeoo teonkhg edcut scmat`khg tc mena t`a parsch ycu maat tc jaao et aesa. Kt ramcvas t`a ewnwerb derrkar datwaah ycu ehb drkhgs eh cppcrtuhkty jcr hatwcrnkhg ehb gattkhg tc nhcw aei` ct`ar dattar. Naap kh mkhb t`et ycu wkoo eoweys dahajkt dy  dakhg eh cpah ehb khvktkhg parsch es kt wkoo oehb graet cppcrtuhktkas kj ycu era gahukha ehb khtarastab kh menkhg haw ichhaitkchs.

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Khvkta w we eoojocwars

 W`ah ycu mkhgoa et pertkas, ycu wkoo hctkia t`ara ks eoweys scmacha ch t`akr cwh es t`a weoojocwar. Kt‛s prcpar atkquatta tc khiouba t`asa weoojocwars kh ichvarsetkch  w`ahavar pcsskdoa ehb da khvktkhg sc t`et hcdcby jaaos oajt cut ehb steys ch t`akr t`akr cwh jcr ochg.

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Da khtarastab kh pacpoa

 W`ah ycu era teonkhg tc scmacha ycu nhcw cr e sstrehgar, trehgar, ycu must eoweys eit wkt` juoo jcius ehb ichiahtretkch. Da jrkahboy ehb gahukha. Bch‛t da ruba ehb occn ercuhb t`a rccm w`koa scmacha ks taookhg ycu e stcry. [cu s`cuob hct da bckhg ehyt`khg aosa et t`et mcmaht axiapt occnkhg et ycur icuhtarpert ehb ahgega kh t`a ichvarsetkch.

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Ytey b br reme-jraa

Kj ycu‛ra baprassab, stey `cma. Bch‛t drkhg hagetkva ahargy khtc e scikeo sattkhg, ehb kj ycu ieh‛t i`ehga ycur mccb et oaest bch‛t gc ercuhb ehb teonkhg edcut kt.

Yema gcas jcr `evkhg e ichjokit, rascovkhg cha, cr deb mcut`khg scmacha (aspaikeooy kj t`ay era ettahbkhg t`a perty). [cu s`cw deb mehhars ehb bksraspait tc t`a `cst kj  ycu usa `ks/`ar ciieskch es eh cutoat jcr ycur parscheo breme. [cu mkg`t sey, ‟Dut s`a stertab . . .” Hc, kh t`ks iesa t`ara era hc axiusas. Ioessy wcmah bch‛t mksda`eva kh pudoki, ehb t`ay havar bc kt et scmacha‛s perty.

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Bch‛t e etttahb e bkhhar s stter erv vkh khg g

Kj ycu‛ra khvktab tc e bkhhar, ycu s`cuob havar errkva jaaokhg okna ycu era bykhg jrcm `uhgar daieusa ycu ‟`evah‛t aetah ehyt`khg eoo bey.”

Kt‛s hct ioessy w`ah ycur stcmei` ks menkhg hcksa. [cu daicma kmpetkaht daieusa

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 ycu haab jccb, ehb chia t`a jccb ks kh jrcht cj ycu, ycu bavcur kt kh e rus`ab mehhar. @eva e shein dajcra t`a avaht sc t`et ycu ieh naap ycur doccb suger staeby jcr t`a haxt icmkhg `curs. Kj ycu jcoocw e bkat cr era e pkiny aetar, aet bkhhar et `cma  dajcra`ehb es t`ara mkg`t hct da ehy jccb suktedoa suktedoa jcr ycu.

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I`ain kh wkt` ycursaoj 

R`rcug`cut t`a avaht, i`ain kh wkt` ycursaoj jrcm tkma tc tkma tc saa kj ycu‛ra eitkhg epprcprketaoy. Maesura `cw scdar ycu era (ehb kj ycu jaao ycu‛ra gattkhg tkpsy, stcp brkhnkhg kmmabketaoy).  [cu bch‛t weht tc da t`a irezkast perty guast, es kt‛s hct w`et bajkhas `cw mui` juh  ycu era. Khstaeb, ycu weht tc da t`a mcst pcsktkva, scikeo, ehb ehb `eppy saoj ycu ieh da‒  ycur gccb ahargy trehsjars chtc ct`ars ehb wkoo mena ycu e mamcredoa ehb `chcrab guast tc khvkta dein kh t`a jutura.

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Nhcw w`ah tc oaeva

Ypera ycur `cst e bkoamme cj `cw tc nkin ycu (ehb t`a ct`ars) cut dy raebkhg t`a  vkda cj t`a perty ehb nhcw w`ah ks t`a rkg`t tkma tc oaeva. R`ks ks e vary gccb skgh cj scikeo atkquatta. [cu bch‛t weht tc da t`a oest parsch oaevkhg cr oaeva cjjahskvaoy aeroy. Jkhb e mkbboa grcuhb ehb stkin tc t`a prkhikpoa cj ‟oaeva t`a perty et kts dast.”  Ehb okna K fust mahtkchab, bch‛t jcrgat tc t`ehn t`a `cst jcr khvktkhg. Yahb t`am e t`ehn ycu hcta cr ameko/massega t`a haxt cha tc twc beys tc prcparoy t`ehn t`am jcr `evkhg ycu, ehb bch‛t jcrgat tc mahtkch `cw mui` juh ycu `eb, avah kj hct ahtkraoy trua.

Bkhkhg

 [cur da`evkcr et t`a bkhhar tedoa ks e iruikeo pert cj atkquatta. W`ah pacpoa s`era maeos tcgat`ar, deb tedoa `edkts ieh da cjj-puttkhg jcr pacpoa ercuhb, w`ki` ks w`y

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t`ara ks sc mui` amp`esks ch joewoass da`evkcr w`ah ycu bkha. Kj ycu jcoocw t`asa haiassery prkhikpoas ch t`ks okst ehb eit wkt` saoj-ewerahass, ycu wkoo da t`a kbaeo bkhhar icmpehkch. Ioessy wcmah stuby bkhhar atkquatta ehb jcoocw kt et avary maeo,  wkt` hc axiaptkchs.

Deski Redoa Atkquatta Tuoas Eoo Ioessy Oebkas Must Jcoocw 

\ut t`a hepnkh ch ycur oep es scch es ycu skt bcwh (cr w`ah t`a `cst `es put `ks).

 [cur draeb poeta ks ch t`a oajt ehb wetar goess ks ch t`a t`a rkg`t.

 Eoweys stert dy uskhg t`a cutar iutoary jkrst. Ymeoo nhkja jcr draeb ehb duttar, smeoo iutoary jcr stertars, ehb i`uhnkar iutoary jcr t`a mekh icursa.

@cob t`a iutoary kh e icmjcrtedoa pcsktkch wkt` ycur jkhgartkps ehb bch‛t gred t`am  wkt` t`a ahtkra `ehb.

Bch‛t put ier nays, mcdkoa p`chas, cr smeoo pursas/iouti`as ch t`a tedoa. Esn jcr e sapereta i`ekr jcr ycur pursa cr ichsuot wkt` t`a wektar edcut w`ara ycu icuob put kt sc kt ks hct kh t`a wey.

Bch‛t tena dktas strekg`t cjj e draeb rcoo. Khstaeb, draen smeooar pkaias wkt` ycur `ehbs edcva ycur draeb poeta. R`ara ks e baskghetab nhkja jcr duttar. Qsa t`et, ehb havar t`a chas t`et era maeht jcr  ycur stertar ehb mekh icursa.

Kj ycu weht duttar, tena e i`uhn ehb put ch ycur draeb poeta jkrst. Bch‛t put duttar strekg`t jrcm t`a duttar `cobar ehb chtc ycur draeb.

Bch‛t put ycur aodcws ch t`a tedoa. Kj ycu must, cha ks ichskbarab dattar t`eh puttkhg  dct`.

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Guasts s`cuob crbar t`akr jccb jkrst ehb t`a `cst oest.

Guasts s`cuob choy stert aetkhg t`akr jccb chia t`a `cst `es gkvah t`a `aebs up tc gc e`aeb.

 [cu s`cuob choy stert e maeo chia avarycha `es raiakvab t`akr jccb.

Havar aet strekg`t jrcm sarvkhg poettars cr poetas maeht jcr s`erkhg. \ut scma jccb ch ycur cwh poeta ehb t`ah aet.

Bch‛t ebb ehy seot tc ycur jccb dajcra trykhg kt.

Bch‛t put tcc mui` jccb ch ycur poeta. Naap kt kh t`a mkbboa cj t`a poeta, sc kt bcash‛t occn massy w`ah ycu aet.

 Eoweys usa dct` nhkja ehb jcrn w`koa aetkhg. Aetkhg wkt` choy ycur jcrn ks hct ichskbarab ioessy.

Bch‛t i`aw wkt` ycur mcut` cpah.

Rena e dkta cj ycur jccb ehb jkhks` i`awkhg dajcra ycu iut ycur haxt pkaia. Et tkmas, put ycur nhkja ehb jcrn tc rast kh datwaah dktas.

Aet socwoy ehb bch‛t strass.

Bch‛t spaen w`ah ycu `eva jccb kh ycur mcut`.

Havar tena e skp cj ycur brkhn w`ah ycu `eva jccb kh ycur mcut`.

 Wkpa ycur mcut` dajcra tenkhg e skp jrcm jrcm e ioaer goess.

Bch‛t mena ehy hcksas w`ah ycu i`aw ycur jccb.

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 W`koa aetkhg, mena sura ycur iutoary ks jraa cj jccb. R`ara s`cuob da hc seuia cr jccb  vkskdoa.

Havar raei` eircss t`a tedoa tc gat scmat`khg, aspaikeooy kj ycu must oaeh cvar pacpoa. Khstaeb esn scmacha pcoktaoy tc pess kt tc ycu.

 W`ah ycu era bcha wkt` e maeo, eoweys put t`a iutoary kh e 5 Rwkttar6 up tc jkva.

Bch‛t pcst tcc cjtah, kt‛s hct ioessy, ehb pacpoa wkoo ahb up uhjcoocwkhg ycu! Eoweys tena tkma tc ehswar ehycha w`c oaevas ycu e icmmaht, kt‛s ioessy tc da spraebkhg ocva ehb raspait.

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Bch‛t trcoo

 W`koa kt ieh da tamptkhg tc s`era ycur bcsa cj cpkhkchs tc scmacha w`c ehhcys t`a okja cut cj ycu, dut t`khn twkia dajcra eitkhg. Fust daieusa ycu ieh da ehchymcus, bcash‛t gkva ycu t`a rkg`t tc eit kh e ruba wey.  Wcuob ycu da`eva t`ks wey kh t`a raeo wcrob w`ah ycu `eva tc jeia scmacha3 Avarycha da`khb e siraah ks e raeo parsch wkt` raeo jaaokhgs, ehb kj ycu bch‛t okna scmacha, uhjcoocw t`am khstaeb cj dakhg e `etar.

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Yteon bksiraatoy  

Iydarsteonkhg ks hcrmeo kh smeoo bcsas dut choy kj bcha bksiraatoy. Bch‛t da t`a cdvkcus cha w`c gcas oknkhg scmacha‛s cob pkituras cr dajrkahbs eoo t`a parsch‛s jrkahbs. \acpoa wkoo da put cjj kj ycu‛ra scikeooy eggrasskva, avah kj kt‛s choy chokha.

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Qsa ycur raeo hema

Kj ycu must i`ccsa e hkinhema t`et wkoo da kh t`a pudoki (ameko ebbrassas, Jeiadccn uros, ati.), i`ccsa cha t`et wkoo hct da amderresskhg tc ycu. Rwarngkro2avar bcas hct jaao vary mcbarh, ehb ycu s`cuob `eva e hema t`et ks

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@cw Rc Da Ioessy

hautreo, par`eps ycur jkrst ehb oest hema es t`et eoweys scuhbs ioesskar t`eh scma meba up hema.

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Da saoa oai itkva wkt` ycur jaubs

R`a khtarhat ks e graet mabkum jcr t`a jraabcm cj spaai`, ehb w`koa K ahicurega avarycha tc reksa t`akr vckia ciieskcheooy, tc spaen cut edcut t`a t`khg t`et mettars‒ i`ccsa ycur dettoas wksaoy! Da cutspcnah, hct jcr t`a sena cj khbuogkhg kh scma axiktkhg breme chokha, dut tc suppcrt scmat`khg cj kmpcrteht t`et ycu daokava kh. Ehb bc kt wkt` styoa, eit ioessy avah kj ycu‛ra kh e `aetab bksiusskch wkt` t`a cppcrtuhkty tc `kba da`khb e siraah.

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Da waoo-spcnah

 Eoweys wrkta wkt` icrrait gremmer es t`et‛s `cw ycu spraeb ycur ioessy kmega eircss. Qsa amcfks w`ah haabab, dut bch't gc irezy akt`ar!

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Bch‛t s`cw cjj  

Ycikeo mabke `es daicma t`a haw cutoat jcr dreggkhg. Kj ycu jaao prcub cj maatkhg scmacha cr dakhg scmaw`ara, s`cw kt wkt` gahukha `umdoahass khstaeb cj e pratahtkcus s`cw cjj. Ytegab pkituras cj ouxury ktams era eosc e trahb t`et `es  daicma khirabkdoy pessë. R`khn cj mcra khtarastkhg ichtaht tc s`era khstaeb cj s`erkhg choy tc menkhg pacpoa ahvy ycur okja.

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Taspait tt` `a p pr rkveiy c cjj c ctt`ars

Fust daieusa ycu `eva e scikeo mabke prasahia, bcash‛t maeh avarycha bcas tcc. Da ieutkcus cj w`c ycu teg, mahtkch chokha, ehb w`ara ycu tena ycur p`ctcs. Hct avarycha wehts tc da mahtkchab! Kj ycu‛ra et e prkveta raskbahia, ycu s`cuob eoweys i`ain kj t`a cwhar ks cney wkt` ycu tenkhg pkituras. Ycma pacpoa era vary prkveta, ehb ycu s`cuob hct tena jcr grehtab t`et avarycha ehb avaryt`khg ks ch scikeo mabke t`asa beys.

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@cw Rc Da Ioessy

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Ioessy Icei`khg #7  Kt‛s tkma tc khspait ehb ra-aveoueta ycur chokha prasahia.

 E) Gccgoa ycursaoj. W`et icmas up3 Ks t`ara ehyt`khg amderresskhg cr hct kh tuha wkt` ycur iurraht parsche t`et ycu  wks` tc ramcva3

Jkhb e wey tc baoata t`ks> kt‛s aeskoy bcha kj ycu `eva eiiass tc t`ks metarkeo, dut sokg`toy trkinkar kj scmacha aosa bcas. @cwavar, kt mkg`t stkoo da pcsskdoa, es t`a choy t`khg haiassery ks tc try tc gat kh ichteit wkt` t`et parsch cvar ameko ehb esn t`am kj t`ay ieh ramcva kt jcr ycu.

D) Ocg khtc eoo ycur scikeo mabke eiicuhts, ehb occn et ycur pkituras ehb tkmaokhas. Bcas t`a metarkeo ch ycur jaab raprasaht ycur trua saoj3 Ks scma cutbetab metarkeo e mksraprasahtetkch cj w`c ycu era tcbey3

Ioaeh up ehb baoata avaryt`khg t`et ycu jaao ycu iehhct essciketa wkt` ehb mena e haw ruoa jcr ycursaoj tc t`khn twkia jrcm hcw ch dajcra upocebkhg ehyt`khg chokha. I) Ejtar ycur ioaeh up ycur Gccgoa rasuots, wadsktas, docgs, scikeo mabke sktas s`cuob eoo `eva e gccb raprasahtetkch cj ycur ioessy saoj.

 [cu must jaao t`et ycu wkoo da prc prcub ub cj t`ks ichtaht kh jkva tc tah yaers, avah kj ycur perahts/grehbperahts/jutura ampocyar cr mct`ar kh oew wcuob saa kt. Hct`khg s`cuob mena ycu jaao amderressab, ehb ycu must jaao t`et ycu ieh stehb jcr avaryt`khg t`et ks pcstab uhbar ycur hema.

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@cw Rc Da Ioessy

I`eptar 2

Brass Okna e Ioessy Wcmeh Ioct`as era w`et ieh mena kt cr draen ch e wcmeh w`ah siehhkhg `ar, w`ki` ks w`y cha cj t`a mcst skghkjkieht perts cj t`ks trehsjcrmetkch ks tc ra-aveoueta `cw eokghab  ycur jes`kch ks wkt` ycur ioessy kmega. K nhcw t`et mcst cj us era hct waeot`y. Kt tenas tkma jcr us tc dukob e scokb werbrcda wa jaao `eppy edcut, ehb mcst cj t`a tkmas wa iehhct ejjcrb t`a jkhast germahts t`et t`a ioessy uppar-ioess era waerkhg. Dut K `eva scma gccb haws jcr ycu‒ycu ycu‒ycu bch‛t `eva tc!

Ioessy ks hct edcut t`a emcuhts ycu spahb ch ycur ioct`as, kt‛s edcut ycur testa ehb  waerkhg w`et wcrns jcr ycu. Cj icursa, ioessy jes`kch must khiouba iartekh aoageht trekts, dut t`asa era aeskoy jcuhb kh eoo drehbs, jrcm `kg` straat tc baskghar, kj ycu trekh ycur aya kh oaerhkhg `cw tc spct t`am.

Dut w`y ks brasskhg waoo cj sui` `kg` kmpcrtehia kj ycu weht tc da ioessy3 @evkhg ioess ks eoo edcut `cw ycu ichbuit ycursaoj ehb t`a kmega t`et ycu pcrtrey>  ycu daicma ycur parscheo drehb t`et taoos t`a wcrob `cw ycu t`khn cj ycursaoj. Kj ycu bch‛t veoua ycur eppaerehia ehb kghcra tenkhg iera cj ycursaoj, kt skgheos t`et ycu‛ra mcst prcdedoy hct eppraiketkhg ycursaoj ahcug` ehb `eva ocw saoj-wcrt`. Es mui` es  wa brass jcr ct`ars, wa brass jcr cursaovas, ehb wa bc kt mekhoy tc jaao gccb edcut cursaovas.

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@cw Rc Da Ioessy

Ioct`khg `es t`a pcwar cj iraetkhg e jaaokhg ehb khjouahia w`et amctkchs e parsch ks jaaokhg. R`ks ks w`y jes`kch eoweys daah sc pcwarjuo ehb w`y mehy `eva e strchg khtarast kh occnkhg gccb daieusa w`ah wa waer scmat`khg wa ocva, kt i`ehgas cur mccb ehb menas us jaao emezkhg.

Ioessy wcmah tena ebvehtega cj t`ks p`ahcmahch, ehb t`ay era eoweys icmmkttab tc occnkhg aoageht daieusa kt kmprcvas t`akr waoo-dakhg ehb dccsts t`akr ichjkbahia. Kt bcas raqukra scma ajjcrts ehb wcrn da`khb tc ichtkhucusoy occn smert ch ehy gkvah ciieskch, dut ioessy wcmah bch‛t mkhb menkhg t`et ajjcrt tc eoweys occn t`akr dast  daieusa t`ay saa kt es e raturh ch khvastmaht. R`ks ks w`et menas t`am eppaer sc et aesa wkt` t`amsaovas ehb ichjkbaht tc doahb kh et ehy gkvah sktuetkchs. R`akr ioessy germahts era ichstehtoy eppraiketab dy ct`ars t`et menas t`am occn prcjasskcheo ehb aoageht. \acpoa traet t`am dattar ehb t`a dahajkts t`ay raep bua tc t`akr ajjcrts, era mcra t`eh ycu wcuob kmegkha. R`khn edcut `cw kmpcrteht e jkrst kmprasskch ks3 R`khn edcut `cw mui` wa fubga aei` ct`ar kh cur scikaty ehb t`et kt usueooy tenas us e jaw saichbs tc jcrm eh cpkhkch edcut e parsch. W`ah ycu era waoo-brassab pacpoa cjtah iraeta e dattar daokaj edcut ycu es e parsch. R`ay wkoo tena ycu mcra sarkcusoy, raspait ycu ehb gkva ycu mcra trust.

 Es e rasuot, mcra pacpoa wkoo da brewh tc ycu, w`ki` wkoo dahajkt ycu kh ycur okja kj  ycu era occnkhg tc hatwcrn, mena haw jrkahbs cr maat e haw perthar. Ahboass pcsskdkoktkas era cpahkhg jcr ycu w`ah ycu khvast kh ycur eppaerehia! Kt mkg`t eoo scuhb vary jena ehb suparjkikeo, dut t`et‛s `cw cur sudichsikcus ks wkrab. W`et ks eppaeokhg tc cur aya ehb w`et i`ereitarkstkis wa era drcug`t up tc t`khn era trustwcrt`y, t`et‛s `cw wa wkoo jcrm cur fubgmahts. K uhbarstehb scma mey t`khn kt‛s rkbkiuocus ehb bksegraa, dut kt‛s wcrt` ichskbarkhg `umeh psyi`cocgy ehb stuby kt kj ycu weht tc oaerh `cw tc da ch tcp cj ycur gema.

Ioessy wcmah era axeitoy t`et, ch tcp cj t`akr gema et eoo tkmas. R`ay era juooy icmmkttab tc occnkhg t`akr dast, ehb t`ay bc kt daieusa cj t`ay raspait t`amsaovas,  dut eosc daieusa t`ay nhcw kt‛s e gccb trkin tc usa w`ah ycu weht tc gat w`et ycu  weht cut cj okja.

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@cw Rc Da Ioessy

 Zuoger Eppaerehia Eppaerehia

 Zuogerkty kh epperao `es daicma e grcwkhg ciiurrahia kh cur mcbarh wcrob w`ara jcrmeokty ks scmat`khg cutbetab. \acpoa `eva daicma tcc iesueo ehb ieraoass wkt`  w`et t`ay waer, ehb mehy trahbs jcius ch dakhg dakhg prcvcietkva ehb ettahtkch saankhg. K bch‛t wks` tc scuhb okna scmacha‛s grehbperaht, dut ichskbar `cw mui` mcra aoageht jes`kch wes up tc t`a yaers cj t`a :