How to Approach Women

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How Do You Approach The Girl You Desire ...and how do you overcome your anxiety and get connected with her

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Initial Thoughts I do believe that most of us men, really do want to know about approaching women you are interested to get to know with.

Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to talk to this attractive lady, but then your mind keep telling you to back off? Your mind keep telling you that, 'Hey, she will look at you like an idiot!' 'You sure? People will be staring at you talking to her' 'She must have a boyfriend'. Etc.

Do you not realise that your mind is actually playing tricks on you? How do you know all these even before you do the actions? Are you bullshitting yourself?

I do know, and I do understand that, you must be saying that, Hey talk is cheap. But doing it is way hard.

Nothing is impossible in this world. Nothing is hard. If you know the steps to take to overcome the inhibitions in your mind playing tricks on you, you be surprised and be glad, that you took the initiative to do it.

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What You Can Do To make a first step for you, you can do this on anyone you believe you can interact with , without having the mindset that, 'you want to get her number'. Your first step is to do the initiative to talk to her just to connect with her. What do I meant by that?

Connecting with the lady you desire. Or in this case, connecting with a lady.

Your intention here is to get to know or rather to warm yourself up on how to communicate with ladies with ease without making yourself break out in cold sweat the next time you found out that you want to talk to the lady you desire.

Your intention here is to 'plant yourself' into her mind. So that, when you walk away, she will remember you as someone who have connected with her earlier, or before, or last week or last month. She will remember you in a way or another.

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What Make It Difficult For MEN to talk to women we desire?

It is because of our self-talk in our mind that is stopping us from doing what we thought we should do, but we do not! Our mind is a powerful tool. If you train your mind to do things that you thought you never could in the first place, but then you did it, the rest of your life will be at ease.

If you ever encounter the same instance situation, you know how to overcome them smoothly.

You can do that at your workplace, your schoolmates etc. You can get connected with the ladies that you do not have high interest in, and practice your way connecting with them, tease them, and have fun with them.

If you want to approach someone you desire, you can 'warm up' yourself by engaging in a conversation with random stranger, preferably female of course. Not the one you desire to get to know with.

Just talk..

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Once you warm yourself up, you will feel better. Or rather, you feel freshen up to do things you thought you never could.

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Let's Give You An Example

Let say, you saw a lady. An attractive lady. And you desire to talk to her.

What would you do about it?

Should I talk to her? Should i approach her?

These and many other questions will probably start playing in your mind.

Throw them off your head and walk towards her. Just go towards her. You do not need to think shits on what will happen next. The outcome is not important.. What you are doing next is important.

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Of course you say you have to reach the destination right. And what about the actions you do need to take during your journey from home to your destination? You got to think what transport to take.How long will you take to travel, etc And if you are driving, which road you have to take? Will the traffic be heavy or light? Etc.

See.. The actions you gotta take requires more energy than reaching the destination. Reaching the destination is important. However, the in-between is crucial for you to reach the destination. Without the in-between, would you ever reach the destination?

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The First Mindset The first mindset you got to instill in your mind is, 'Having her number' is not the priority here. This have to be instill in your mind. For REAL? Yea man! For REAL! Or else, why should you put pressure on yourself?

You are talking to her to learnt something out from it. That is how you gotta put it in your mind.

Example: She is at the cooler looking at fruits. You can go up to her and ask her an 'open-ended question' as a conversation starter. What do I meant by that?

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This is to allow her the opportunity to talk to you other than Yes or No.

When that happens, it will get boring, and you may be lost for words to continue. Forget about the stupid pick-up lines you got to remember. What if you remember the pickup lines. And what you expect her to say next is not happening? You will be lost for words. I've been there. I know how it feels like. It sucks. You just, go 'Err.. oh shit. What am i supposed to say next? Holy shit! Godamit!'

Why must you go to that extreme? Some do say that, pickup lines allows you to start a conversation with her. But why make it so “important” in talking to somoene?

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Simple Technique Tip: Observe Her Surroundings

Observe surroundings. What is she doing? Start asking open ended questions. You don't go to a lady in a supermarket and start asking her,

“What are the differences between men and women when it comes to dating?”

She just look at you and give you a tight slap to your sorry red face amigo... She is at the cooler looking at fruits. She must be having a hard time thinking about what to buy. She is looking for fruits. Not going to answer random question about differences in dating... Put yourself in her shoes.

What would you do if you are in the situation?

However, not all have the same mind as you. Some are shy, some are unfriendly. Some are rude human being who don't give a shit at strangers. Walkway from unfriendly people. You do not have to waste time on them. To those whom are friendly enough to engage in a conversation, 13 Copyright © 2009- 2011 Attraction Dynamics For REAL Dating System

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Let her talk. Do let shy ones the opportunity to warm up... I used to be shy. I know how it feels like when I do not know what the hell to say next when i am in a conversation. I just keep quiet.

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What Am I supposed To Say Next?

That is where, open ended quesitons come in handy... LET HER TALK. Women love to talk right? Let her talk. It will give you the opportunity to catch 'ques' during that conversation to continue engaing with her. You get what I meant? When she talk, you listen. From there, there will be ques for you to ask interesting questions from it. Like, “what fruits you thought of buying today?”

Then she probably be saying, 'Oh. I thought of getting apples. But I can't make up my mind.”

“ Who you are buying for?”

“It's for my mum. You know she wanted me to get fruits. But then again, not many in my family eat apples. Except me. And sometimes my mum ate them. But she usually eat grapes.”

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“ You love apples ay? Fickle minded girl... Haha.. Why don't you get her grapes then? You must make her grape juice. Hardworking right? Make them for her. Then I can try them. Ya know! Thirst quencher at this time of scorching heat.”

“Haha.. No way! Make yourself one. Not me.. haha”

... These are just examples... When you are there with her, it is how you say it to her which is more important , rather than what you say to her. I repeat again: It is HOW You say it to her which is much more important, rather than WHAT you say to her.

By asking her open-ended questions, you allow the both of you to engage in conversations that of course will make things easy for you.

Let her talk.

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From there, you can continue on and tease her as well... She love having fun in conversations.

If you love teasing, this will be your opportunity to put your skills in action. Do take note, never go too far in teasing her.

You just meet her up and you are still a stranger to her. Add in emotional conversations in the context. Talk about feelings related conversation. Listen to her feelings as well. She wants you to listen what she feels.

This fruit smell so good. Nice fragrance.. This kiwi is soft...

If you ever listen in into two ladies talking, you will catch this. They do always talk about feelings. “How do you feel wearing this uniform for the very first time?” “How do you feel when he told you that right in front of your face?” “How do you feel when you lost your watch?”

These are just a few examples.

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If us guys talk, we do usually say, “ Don't you feel smart and powerful wearing this uniform?” “ What did you say when he said that to you? You never punch his face?” “ You thought of buying a new watch?”

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The Differences Between Men and Women Conversations

We, Men talk about logical context.

Women on the other hand, talk about emotions. Emotions are what make them, women.

If you manage to connect with them, emotionally, tickle their emotions, sad , happy, angry, etc, do you know how powerful it is?

When she is bored dead, and talking to her make her happy and at the same time surprised when you tease her, and when she is having a great time with you, she will be sad or probably dissapointed that you guys are parting ways, and in one way or another, remembers you.

You have planted yourself in her mind, for as long as she can remember you.

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Get Yourself STARTED! Get started, talking to your female colleagues or female schoolmate in emotional level. Do not make it too obvious by asking her too much how you feel how you feel... Crazy! You will feel awkward and when you screwed up, it looks like you be a “tryhard”

When you two are engage in a conversation, ask her 'How you feel when (whatever happened to her)?

She will jump into the opportunity to talk more and longer about it. She will engage you with her story. This will give you the opportunity to have a deeper longer conversation with her.. Get the both of you connected...

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Sharpen Your Skills These are the psychological skills you got to use to in creating attraction and connecting with women. In the beginning, it may be awkward to you and you may screwed up. Then again, it gives you the opportunity to discover your skill level from there, and you know where you stand. From there, you know what you gotta fix for yourself in the long run. These skills will be sharpened the more you enhanced it. The more opportunity you give yourself, the more you will discover.

Talking to women in the 'emotional level' is not difficult. It is how women talk to each other. We as Men, gotta discover them and enhanced it to take to the next level in our dating life. And I say this for myself as well. I am still enhancing them. ;)

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I look forward to hear your success stories soon,

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