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I recently returned from a phenomenal conference by the RSD crew. The material t hat was presented was billed as the outer game component to the Blueprint. The o rganization and scheduling of the event was anything but flawless but the content more than made up for it. Day 1: the only speaker was Tim Day 2: Nathan then Alexander Day 3: Ozzie then Jeffy
his portion was filmed for a future DVD set.
Tim s presentation was mind-blowing. But since it s coming out on DVD, I won t review it here. Nathan: 31 years old; 5 8 ; built like a fucking fire hydrant (Alex referred to him as Robocop and that s about right); has been with RSD for two years. He was my BC instructor so I have a lotta love for this guy. Shameless Crew Honolulu! Your Destiny is Becoming Your Own Guru Pickup Methods - These systems are linear; logical; masculine models. - Methods inherently create outcome dependence and therefore expectations. - For Nathan, PU is a social art form requiring adaptability and creativity. The epiphany of destiny: Be Whom You re Meant to Be; BWYMTB My destiny; my path; my legend; my gut Listen to your gut. Your gut is your inter nal compass. It is never wrong. Have faith in your destiny. Take action with str ength and courage for your integrity. Nobody cares. No excuses. Don t fail yoursel f. Example: You re at a bar with a buddy and 3 girls are standing next to the bar. Th e reality is, you re single and would love to meet them. The mind trick: I ll approa ch after this beer; looks like they re having a good conversation and I don t want t o interrupt them; they might be mean and blow me out; I m not wearing my favorite shirt Answer: BWYMTB. Follow your gut and approach. Perception is Projection. Be a man of integrity. Step the fuck up. Not taking ac tion on whom you re meant to be is you failing your own destiny. Want to prevent a midlife crisis? Following your gut is to live a life of no regret. Cornerstones of Natural Game: Integrity and Dominance To have integrity you must know your values and follow them 100%. By following y our values you have core confidence. To be dominant is to lead and a leader is inherently unreactive. Focus on integr ity and all else will fall into place. To live a life of integrity is to give va lue. Living a life of integrity: 1. Do what you mean; mean what you say. 2. You live a life of total congruence. No hidden agendas. 3. You are emotionally and intellectually honest with people and most importantl y yourself. 4. You re whom you re meant to be and don t fear people figuring you out. You always p ut your personality on the line to be judged. 5. People react to you because you have a higher sense of your own integrity. Yo ur reality is stronger. 6. You set expectations. People know what you re about and what you expect from th em. 7. You are dominant and not afraid to fight for what s right. You are unreactive t o superficial and immature emotions. 8. Life is not necessarily easier, but it is because you have direction. Being h
onest and living by your values is hard. 9. You are the minority. You have a vision for yourself and are relentlessly sti cking to it. 10. You are happy and fulfilled because you know you are doing the right thing a nd know your ultimate agenda is always to give value. Who are What do What do What do
you? you value? you want and desire in life? you want people to say about you when you re dead?
Exercise Time: List 3-5 examples You: What do you value about yourself and can never be taken away from you? Life: What do you value about life and can never be taken away from you? Relationships: What do you value about relationships that will never change? Women: What do you value about women that will never change? You need focus. Make lists for these. No more searching. This is who you are: - Uncompromisable - Never fear them (your values). You are unapologetic of them and own them. You love them. - These are the standards through which everything in your life is filtered. - This is where your core confidence and emotional state comes from; as a man. L ove it. - Use your masculine polarity to gain state. - Challenge yourself to achieve. Enjoy the challenge. - These are the only values in your life that will ever fulfill you Masculine / Feminine Polarities; Yin (Strength) / Yang (Goodness) What are the hardwired characteristics of a man? - Achievement (Orientation towards) - Dominant / Aggressive - Unreactive - Leader - Decisive - Logical / Rational - Strong - Report - Validation from Within - Rough What are the hardwired characteristics of a woman? - Relationships (Orientation towards) - Follower - Emotional / Irrational - Weaker - Submissive / Passive - Rapport - Emotional state derived externally - Reactive - Indecisive - Delicate Be unapologetic. Be a man of integrity. This is giving value. I pursue women but I do not chase them. Up next: Alex the crazy Aussie
Posted July 13th, 2008 at 10:37 AM Report | #1 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Alexander: 22 year old Aussie; 5 6 (?); looks a little like a young Alec Baldwin IMO; been w/ RSD for 1 year; taught more BC s than anyone else last year; billed as the future of RSD. He s very cerebral; strong knowledge of psychology and the game. He s also a little crazy wanted us to trash the conference room because the Westin billed h im $2K for trashing a room during a previous visit. Kids what can I say? Understanding natural attraction Natural game is a deductive process. We are born naturals. Watch children play; they are unstifled. We become chodes because of social conditioning. We become to lerable as adults. Most men stop evolving here. If we continue our journey toward s becoming a natural, we must progress past the entertainer stage until we discover elf-actualization. Then we will have come full circle; back to our natural, unsti fled selves. The Golden Rule of Natural Game: Whatever you feel, she feels. Don t think at all. Just relax and entertain yourself. Integrity: being true to yourself. The self you put out is the real you. You can t get laid unless the girl games you. Classic game gets you mentally unsta ble girls. Natural game gets you higher quality girls. Rhythms and emotional spikes: everything has a rhythm; music; heartbeat; social interactions; etc. The self is always coming through. Identity is a combination of self perception and social feedback: EGO Identity is always at the mercy of the people around you. Be yourself. Faking it until you make it? You can t fake playing a guitar. The I know who I am pledge - Naturally I am a man - I live in accordance with my default masculine traits - By nature: I am present, I am positive dominant and I am a man of initiative a nd action - By nurture: I take credit for my achievements but I do not identify with them - By nurture: I remain congruent with my nature but celebrate and decorate mysel f in many ways - I am unapologetic for my actions and beliefs because they are generated throug h positive intentions Confidence happens when you perceive that nothing holds you back. 1. Present trust yourself on a moment by moment basis. To live in the now is to radiate presence. The key to good game is action with conviction; no second gues sing. The key to good game is giving the girl a chance to invest in you. Be unre active and chill. 2. Positive Dominance be assertive with a smile. Be playful and sexual. Perpetua lly communicate higher value. 3. Escalation the depression of stagnation. To not move forward is to decay. Peo ple will follow others who lead. Women don t know what they want, they follow thos e who do. Be decisive and take risks. Guys who aren t cool and have no game but wh
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o escalate get laid! So fucking escalate! Naturals are rare, hot girls are not. To be natural, you must self actualize and undo social conditioning. Be deliberately illogical. 50% of natural game is pla yed in congruence tests. Be able to recoil and re-correct if your opener or anyt hing you say bombs. Your true personality comes out in moments of turbulence. Ego and Self Esteem: Your self-esteem is encapsulated by your ego. Your ego is l ike a cage, it hinders the growth of your self esteem. In order to reach Elite Co ngruence, we must shed the ego. The Ascent to Elite Congruence is learning Natural Game - Close the gap between what you project and who you really are - Come into alignment with yourself - Have a sense of self causality - Stop being the entertainer; be a natural - Impression to expression I'll fill in details as I think of them. Up next: Ozzie Posted July 13th, 2008 at 10:38 AM Report | #2 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Ozzie: We ve all seen the Just Close Spaniard in Transformations. He s been with RSD for thre e years; is pushing 40; stands around 5 8 (?) and his BC s sell out the quickest. He was the only speaker to chat with every attendee a genuinely warm guy. He s also f unny as hell. Physical Game Always assume attraction. I m the coolest guy in the club. PU is not rocket science. It is simple but not easy. Sometimes it can happen jus t by opening the girl. If you are looking for instant gratification in the game, you will be very frust rated. Why do guys give up? - Looking for a magic pill - Incapable of long-term goals - Incapable of trial and error - Incapable of consistency of practice - Incapable of learning from experience The 3 Rules: - Try, really try; don t quit too early. - Think, really think; don t get emotional or personal. See the big picture. - Believe, really believe; believe good things can happen to you. Negative Mindset From ages 6-12, we are told no, We need to say yes, do it and positive affirmations.
don t and you can t 15,000-25,000 times! you can 15,000-25,000 times to reverse the process. Use
Your Belief System People are out to get me. Everyone is always helpful. Which statement sounds like you? Turns out that 70% of the population think that people are out to get them! These beliefs will create different realities for y
ou. We create experiences that match our beliefs. You must have a delusional bel ief that everyone is friendly. Why you are fearful: We live in a fear induced society. Fear is used to control people. ticians, the media, corporations, marketers, etc.) want us to have em. They want us to believe that we are incomplete; we aren t good es suck; so we will buy their bullshit beliefs and products; so we ep.
Society (poli low self-este enough; our liv ll be their she
Fear keeps you in the victim role. You blame others for your lack of success. Yo u don t want to take action; you don t want to step out of your comfort zone. The co mfort zone has enormous dragging down power. Failure in the game happens if: - you view the game as a high-risk adventure; you have approach anxiety - you don t care about people; you use them; you are needy, desperate - you are outcome dependent; approval seeking The only failure is not to learn! Why you don t push the interaction/escalate - you re afraid of losing the girl - self-esteem, ego protection - fear of rejection - fear of failure - signal syndrome you are waiting for the IOI that never comes - you give her more value than you give yourself; the pedestal Fix perception, fix reality Perception is reality That super hottie in the corner that you re afraid to approach; may look horrible in the daylight with no makeup on (or even with makeup); she may have a kid; she may have one breast; she may have a missing tooth; she may have really bad brea th, etc. Would any or all of these things lower her value? The Value you give he r is superficial. You won t know unless you approach. Your frame should be I want h er but I am not yet attracted. You are screening her. Look at women as a source of fun, not value. Look at her personality, not her ti ts and ass. Classic sarging is for losers: waiting for IOI s; girls get bored or think you are a dumbass; girl goes to toilet Game Over! Entitlement Feel entitled. You don t need a reason to be social, physical. Become the physical guy. Everything is an IOI. Unreactive Disregard a woman s reaction, whether positive or negative. Otherwise you become a pproval/validation seeker. But reward positive behavior. You lose state because you need a woman s validation. Draw state from within. Have the strongest frame. O wn your reality. Sex Be playful and friendly. Don t be the horny guy (Ozzie gave an example of one of h is students getting a boner in the club). Don t be desperate. Don t think about sex in the club. Women can have sex anytime they want. The less important sex is to you, the more you will be offered it. The less you need it, the more you are gon na get. You don t buy meals for starving homeless people. You buy meals for people
who have high status. Erase sex from your mind when interacting with women. But do lead, be dominant. State killers - self evaluation; self doubting; good set vs bad set thinking - too much time between sets; choding around - energy state based on performance - playing to win the game - every girl has to like me mindset State killers for players - I must perform - I must do right paralysis - I must be liked; I have to entertain - PU is a high risk adventure What to do - identify state drop early - stop picking up and start making friends - don t fight your bad state Don t objectify women. Look at them as people, not objects. Be playful and friendl y. Have an I will not be denied frame. Be willing to plow. As Jeffy says; burn your ships. There is no way home without victory. Posted July 13th, 2008 at 10:40 AM Report | #3 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Jeffy We all know the angry guy from San Fran in Transformations and The Jeffy Show. H e s in his early 30 s; stands around 5 8 (?); he s growing his mullet back; he s getting a little pudgy so he s back on the abs program; he s been with RSD for 5 ½ years. How to Be Ultra Super Awesome and Bang a Shit-Ton of Hot Chicks What s new since the Jeffy Show (1 ½ years ago)? He realized when watching the Jeffy show that he was still angry at that time. N ow he s more relaxed; more congruent; has more simplicity. I have nothing else to prove to myself. He went from Learning to Doing to Being. Be unapologetically yourself. Problem: You have no passion behind your game. Traveling adds to your game. Jeff tells a story of teaching a BC in S. Africa. H e saw homeless men begging for money and they weren t wearing pants. He asks his s tudent; What the fuck is this? He s not wearing pants! The student replies; Hahaha. T his isn t America. They can t afford pants. (I m paraphrasing but you get the point). This puts your life into perspective. [All the RSD guys travel to third world co untries and they see shit that you wouldn t believe; I know because I ve been to a f ew myself. Tyler talks about this a lot}. Success is most likely when it s a necessity. You re doing yourself a disservice by not going to the hottest venues and not talk ing to the hottest girls. Don t talk to Comfort Fatties. (Everyone laughs because we all do this). Jeffy tells a lot of stories so it s hard to take notes but one in particular whic
h stood out was the newbie in Seattle who banged two girls at the club. Jeffy wi ngs and fucks one of the girl's friend on the sofa (she's sitting on top of him and covering the action with her dress. Chodes walk by and do the double take. " Are they fucking? Nah. Can't be." It's too far out of their reality. Jeffy throw s her off. She says; "If you're not going to fuck me than buy me a drink!" Wired rawn you stud! The RSD Triangle Revisited: Inner Game, Outer Game and Understanding the Social Matrix de the triangle is Nimbus.
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Inner Game (see Nathan s portion) - Core Confidence - Living on Your Purpose - Drawing State From Within Understanding the Social Matrix - Empathy nonverbal level of understanding; mirror neurons - Presence - Interpretation - Knowledge of the Social World Outer Game - Rhythm pacing, tone, volume, breathing; all interactions have a rhythm - Leading - Self-Presentation - Playing the Girl, Not the Game People are always searching for insincerity. Tune into the rhythm of an interact ion. Ride it like a wave. Rapport 1. Mutual Attention 2. Rhythm 3. Shared Positive Feeling The Indifference Threshold: Approach until you hit Nimbus, then you don t give a s hit. Game is all around us. We must channel it through us. The Passion of the Jeffy - Zen Minimalism brevity; lots of content with few words - Rosetta Tonality never use TR tone (trying for rapport see Transformations) - Detached Indifference purposely over-escalate to elicit a negative response. I f she doesn t leave, it builds massive attraction. She builds tolerance to Jeffy - Juxtaposition/dichotomy unpredictability; can switch to romantic chode at any moment - Emotional Breadth have a wide range of emotions; most guys have a very narrow range Why Guys Give Up - Low Emotional IQ can t read others - Refusal to Crucify Themselves - Attach Ego to Results
emotions (read Daniel Goleman s book)
Plowing Continue to beam your positive emotions. Don t accept her negative responses. It s e asier to affect a woman s emotions than the reverse. Give them a chance to give you a chance.
Blazing Presence vs Smoldering Presence (this is in The Blueprint) Let people see the world through my eyes. Transcend people s ability to understand you. Stop judging yourself and stop judging others. I cannot get blown out from over-escalating! Mantra not really true but a helpful mindset. Always be playful. There s plenty of time for creepy at my home. Breaking Point ess these.
The point(s) during a PU that could fuck up the PU. You must addr
The story of Ryan, aka: Sparky Bird in the hand vs the Trade Up He s talking to an HB7. A hotter girl walks in. It s late and the 7 is a sure thing. Do you stay with the 7 or do you go after the 9? Ryan leaves the 7 and goes for the 9. I m not doing it because it s the right move; it s the right move because I m doing it. A New Crisis We have a Set Point for happiness. Our overall happiness level doesn t change. The high of breaking a plateau is short lived. The Hero s Journey (Joseph Campbell) - Ordinary World - Call to Adventure - Refusal of the Call - Meeting the Mentor - Crossing the First Threshold - Tests, Allies, Enemies - Approach to the Inmost Cave - Ordeal - Reward (Seizing the Sword) - The Road Back - Resurrection - Return With the Elixir (love, wisdom, etc.) Success is not linear. There are crests and troughs. The deeper the wound, the more universal it is. Defiance is what spurs you on when you re in the darkness. You have to enjoy the journey; the excitement of expanding possibilities. I'll fill in details and expand when I have the time. In the meantime, I hope yo u enjoyed. Control Intro The story of the girl who called out the PUA (I don t have good notes here so I m ba sing it on memory). Tim was teaching bootcamp. One of his students used routines and tactics. The gi rl blew up. Tim came over to see what happened. She s angry. Tim: Why are you actin g weird? She explained that she s dated pickup artists before and she s familiar with the tac tics the student was using. Tim calms her down. She says she s dated pickup artist s and naturals. She says; I like the naturals the best.
The Tim He s been with RSD since 2003. Before that, he sucked with women. I believe he stands around 5 8 -5 9 . Tim took a year off to pursue his other love: House music DJ. He went by DJ Timo thy Marc. He became a celebrity; rock star status; getting laid like a rock star . Yet from the DJ booth, he could see poor chodes messing up their chances with girls. When Jeffy went to visit Tim in Australia; Jeffy wrote Tyler; Tim won t come back. Why come back T? - Comfort vs. Growth - The original Tyler call (the first time he came to teach with RSD). - Tim had a wonderful girlfriend whom he loved very much. - But that was Comfort; not Growth. He wanted to grow. He broke up with her to c ome teach. - The true characters he meets every weekend teaching are some of the coolest gu ys he s ever met. - Little man deluxe: the little Asian guy - Porn Star: 56 year old, overweight guy with a porn star mustache - Virginia: the real life 40 year old virgin - Atari King: the point was that he saw these characters lives change. (RSD gives funny nicknames to their clients and bootcamps) There was also the sad letter he received from his cousin (?). The cousin s girlfr iend dumped him. Dear Tim I am in a really bad situation and devastated right now Tim realized that he had unfinished business with RSD. He needs to help more men become successful with women. Tim Vision: Image of a guy Lording the Club. Smash the chode. Lord it up consistently. Whooooshhhh! Jeffy and Tim together. Tim picks up a girl. Jeffy says; Whooooshhhh! PU has changed. PU used to be one person talking, then the next; repeat. Whoooos hhhh is the sound PU makes now. 3 Core Components 1. Flawless Attitude 2. Flawless Method 3. Flawless Ecosystem The Flawless Natural - My personal world view, fresh formulas - Represents the cutting edge in dating technology - Built from the field Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:11 AM Report | #14 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 - Take what resonates with you today Hit the Reset
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1. The Flawless Attitude 3 Main Components
the MIND of a flawless natural
- Core Purpose - The Golden Touch - The Assumptions of Glory Core Purpose 1. The Blueprint Woman vision of the perfect girl 2. 10 Reasons why you want this: start writing these down. NOTICE: Are these self-centered reasons? Or are they for BOTH of you? Your reaso ns should be for BOTH of you. This girl wants to go on a ride. I m the ride. 3. Analysis Giving or Taking value. If your reasons were all self-centered, you ar e taking value! Purpose - Let the reasons fuel you - Picking up a girl is a celebration of you and her - She gets just as much out of it as you do - The JMAN and Cassie story (sorry, don t remember this) - WARNING: Never lose touch with your purpose The Golden Touch - Good nights vs. Bad nights: Learn equally from BOTH. Look at it with indiffere nce - Your Ruining Everything (no notes) - It is just a skill set lesson learned - Adopting a delusional sense of coolness As far as I m concerned, I m the coolest mo thafucker on the planet! This is your mantra - Easily excitable (chariot) Chariot was T s shitty car. (Trust me, he was driving a shitty car). - The Weekend Crew This was Tim s crew Down Under. It s a self-amusement tactic; You weren t creepy enough. Get your creep on. Be so persistent. Assumptions of Glory! Most pickup theory: the girl has higher value than the man. You use tactics & te chniques to lower her value and raise yours. Flawless Naturals ASSUME EQUAL VALUE. Oblivious Dicklead man story of persistence Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:12 AM Report | #15 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Permission: Give yourself permission - To be cool - To be a natural; Hey! Come here. I want to talk to you! - To be Superfly Deluxe Just Tim thanks chode story of Tim with a woman (cashier or something). She asked w hat s your name? He says it with no confidence. She busts him. He should say; Hey! I m Tim! Be THE Tim! (Again I m paraphrasing and probably messed the story up). What What What What What What
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What does a chode look like? What does naturalness look like to YOU? Our brains are smart - Your brain actually knows how to be both - You just don t choose to - Little Tommy picked on me (chode story of Tim) - Naturalness ME on TURBO! Pickup Revelation - Pickup is NOT about the WOMEN - Pickup is about a celebration of YOU - YOU are the only CONSTANT in this game - The women and the environment are the VARIABLES 2. The Flawless Natural Method: the Actions of a flawless natural - Wooo! - Spontaneous Lovestriking - Bubble of Love - Rhythm 10 till 2 - Harmony Win/Win Wooo! - Full flow state - Every part of your body buzzing - Inside a quiet little smile - Gold coming out of your mouth - Nothing else matters but what your doing completely in the moment - It s like being DRUNK! Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:12 AM Report | #16 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 A Step Further - The feeling inside your body will dictate everything - The mind and body are intertwined into what we call state - You change one, the other will follow Mind as a Radio Tuner Tuning into WOOO! Best self is WOOO state Yuck is lowest state WOOO! Has a physical and mental component Physical Wooo! - Alright cool man: too cool man. James Bond doesn t work. - Wooo! Ritual: WOOO! (Clap) Let s Go! Changes your state. Do this when you go out; when you enter the venue; anytime you need to pump your state. - Action Rules: Approach 1st girl you see when you enter a venue. - Movies in the mind: you never know what s going to happen. Don t play mental movie s. Low Frequency State Girls have this too. You may not be being blown out. She may be in a low frequen cy state. Tim has been opened when he was in low frequency he lost the girl beca use he was caught off guard and he wasn t in state. His response sucked even thoug h he would have liked to get to know the girl better.
Mental Wooo! - Quiet little smile inside - How can I make this fun? This IS KEY! Your mind will give you options - Zach on the plane story: (no notes) - Self amusement is KEY - Concentrate on the feelings inside your body - Going First NLP concept; they feel your emotion - Player not Spectator: Overwhelm the venue; not the other way around. Tight gam e will turn others into spectators. Tools to Generate WOOO! - My personal vault of tools - Make your own! - Dickhold chicken: He holds his dick and walks like a chicken towards a set unt il one sees him; then he stands up straight and pretends everything is fine. Rep eat. It s ridiculous but it s self-amusement. - Lording: It s LORDING time! - Songs - Anything that gets you ACTING as opposed to NOTHING - Self amusing Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:13 AM Report | #17 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 - Cyclone of Glory! Approach a set; ask if they ve seen the Cyclone; then spin Low Frequency Mindset: What s my opener? Linear. Outcome oriented. High Frequency Mindset: WOOO! Curvy mess. Non-linear. WOOO! Frequency threshold: 20 minutes. Be in WOOO! For 20 minutes and you re in WO OO all night!!! State Butterfly Effect. Ride the Wooo wave. Being the Chode is a lso a butterfly effect. Lid off your TRUE CORE Your true Core has a purpose. A vision of self: close your eyes; imagine no roof over your head; no ground und er your feet. That is the core you; a cool dude. You see the Hottie. Your gut, your core says; Yep, I want that. Then your brain comes up with a million reasons for failure. Ride the core wave. Let your core lead. Spontaneous Lovestriking - Visualization - Ride the core wave of Oh, there she is. - Masculine vs. Feminine = Attraction. Women need certainty. She must be certain that you re a MAN. - Connect to your true male CORE - The King Leer story of the guy who would leer at women. Then he lost it. Cherish girlfriend - Use the energy to FUEL your approach (not destroy it) communicating congruentl y from the core. - Why would she need it to feel spontaneous? To feel the masculine spike. BOOM! You see her. This is for me. Your Intent is to be FELT - You feel dangerous to her from the word
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Like she is in imminent danger of being shagged outside behind a dumpster Full masculine dominance It happens all the time frame. She must feel this. Laser eyes and Killer instinct
Using your emotions - The FURY threshold. Misfired approaches builds FURY. You can t run away from me, I ll be sad. Girls run from Tim. This builds FURY! - I am prepared to go in when others are not. You can pull a girl away from a bu nch of dudes. - Comfort gets you nowhere - The number 1 rule: I don t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me! Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:14 AM Report | #18 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Happy Birthday! Opening random sets on the street to makeout (on video). Openers - I am THE Tim - I thought you were adorable - I thought you looked cool - I m sad I need a kiss - Hey I need a date tonight - Randomness (Have you seen the juggernaut?) Mixed Groups - Open everyone - Or express intent stacles.
I wanted to meet her. The others become cheerleaders; not ob
Dance Floor - Spin and in Remember the basics! WOOO! + Intent Russian Fury Tim pulled a Russian girl not knowing she belonged to the Russian m ob and they were looking for her. I choose you. I will pursue you harder than any man on the planet. You can say this or show it. Presentation of Dominance Create instant spectators with vocal projection. Destroy the default limiter on vocals. Talk through her; not to her. Have a wide Animation Range. Getting Physical - The purposeless hand of doom kino with no purpose - The hovering hand of doom - Scottish Girl: Hello! Are you English? No I m Scottish. Then purposeful claw. Wait. I t s me and you tonight. - Happens naturally through your intent the wooo negates any resistance on her p art - Instead of What do I do? The Irish BC student talking to a girl turns to look at Tim and shrugs his shoulders. Tim gets angry. Instead of What do I do? Ask; What d o I want? Have a purpose. Look at her lips 40%. - The Claw and Keylock of Glory Keylock is holding her same-side hand behind her bac
k with a 90° bend at her elbow. - The Claw Song The claw always wins The claw always wins Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:14 AM Report | #19 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Have no fear The claw is here - Physical Escalation Graph: Weirdness is Y axis; Time is X axis wait for kino, the weirder it gets.
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The Bubble of Love - The Roles that you and her play - The balance of Wooo and intent - Wooo without intent = entertainer guy - Intent without wooo = creepy guy - The bubble is the What Actually Happens part - As fast as possible, create a You and Me situation inside the bubble - Something Solid that connects you two - As close to reality as possible - The girl will then game you as much as you game her - It becomes an us moving the relationship forward. Some Examples - Oh no I once dated a girl named - Blaming her for your lovestruckness - Let s get married - Let s have a date - You re my new girlfriend - I need a London playmate One Word Bubbles - Dearest - Honey - Love - Dear - Be conscious of the roles played The Cherish box of doom - Cherishing in the night: Tim and another instructor (?) were out. The other gu y met a girl. They were in a rapport or comfort stage. After spending all night with her, he got nothing. - Rule: Entertain no thoughts of a future relationship until after sex - You are there for FUN in the MOMENT - Illustrative example: Some guys sex like this Keeping the bubble alive - Net theory - The Pinball of Positivity - The Pounding of Passion Net Theory Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:15 AM Report | #20 Control Junior Member
Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Mind as a net: RAS or what your mind catches and focuses on. Your mind can catc h what it wants. Choose what you focus on. Ignore statements that don t serve you. Pinball of Positivity - Redirect any energy of the conversation and lead it to where you want it to go - Wait, wait, wait - Ok, cool anyway - Net Theory Accept the negative; then move forward. Just acknowledge it and conti nue. Side note on Pinball Positivity: Nathan uses: If by X, you mean Y. Ex: she says you re short. You say; If by short, you mean I m sexy, then yes I am. - Announce the bubble to the group. Look my new girlfriend. Pounding of Passion for when the interaction slows down, ie: when it s dying - Pick 5 random questions - The more random the better - Use breaking rapport tonality: Do you like purple? Have you ever been fired fr om a job? - Generate intrigue and dominance - A note on sexual charge and just kidding (no notes) The Power of the Bubble - You become a sexworthy guy - I m going to FUCK this man - Seriously Let s have sex now - Missy Why a YOU and ME Bubble? No conquering. We re a team. Other methods are combative. Miscellaneous Challenges - Poofing for no reason (Ping Pong) No purpose - Running out of things to say Bubble of love - Chode Hope She s coming back. No, she isn t. - Escalation troubles Purposeful Claw - Dealing with other obstacles No obstacles; they are your cheerleaders. - Introduce the single girl or whole group? Group. Imagine 4 hot cheerleaders al ways cheering for you (mental trick). Otherwise, intercept obstacles as they com e. Rhythm 10 pm till 2 am - What happens between 10pm and 2am? - The perfect thythm (calibration) - 10-11 - 50/50 split of wooo and intent then as night goes on - Chill out with your friends and she can chill out with hers
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- 12, 12:30, 2 Shift to intent and less Wooo. Time to go. Don t want to go? Ok, le t s go eat. - Be cool with the silences Harmony Win/Win - With the combination above you should be in a situation where when you say let s go to the girl she actually goes Yay! - You both win. She has a champ, you have a honey - The House analogy Putting up walls. If one falls, do you give up? Fix it? Or s it and analyze the situation? Persistence; man up. She wins when you persist. Sh e sees a man. Flawless Ecosystem
the world of a flawless natural
Making your world a women generating ecosystem Club Go to the same club for a month. Get to know the bouncer and bargirl. Café Daytime spot. Check Yelp. Home Give home a name; Palay. Using the phone Meet-ups Life strategies Using the Phone - The key to good phone game - Tim s personal text messages: - You re my new GF for the next 5 mins - 5 mins later: Awww. Now we are broken up, it s not you its me. Was fun though. - Bubble of love scenarios Text Messages - if nothing is happening - Your shit - What are you wearing - I miss you - Remember the house! Don t let it blow down. The Ecosystem: Rules: 1. Positive 2. Chill 3. Fun More on You - Who has the style you want? - Who has the body you want? - The You purpose - Notebooks Bring small spiral notebooks with you in the field. The Visionboard My purpose, passion, fuel Bouncer Game How s your night going? Posted July 23rd, 2008 at 4:16 AM Report | #22 Control Junior Member Join Date: 05/19/2008 | Posts: 17 Moving to your own rhythm Your own language; your own attractive world. Make up your own language. Flawless: Attitude; Method; Ecosystem Have a core love for women. Don t have a love for theory. Theory distances you fro m the girl. Action - Take just one of the concepts that resonates with you and implement immediatel y - Condition yourself to new habits Becoming Flawless - This is MY personal way of doing things - No more frustrations: Choice - Deep core love for women - Fun and enjoyment - Connect to your true core - Give girls the gift of you! Win/Win How long does it take to become a Flawless Natural?
To seek to become natural with women is to deny that you are already in fact, a na tural. Welcome to the end. Hope this is helpful.
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