Finding A Girlfriend

 

Guide for Finding Your Love…..

FINDING A GIRLFRIEND

 

WHAT DOES A WOMAN WANT? There's no way to generalize about what "all women want". Some women are attracted by the strong, protective type. Some women like a quiet poet who will read with them. Some women want an active man who will bike and hike. Some women want a smart guy, to do crossword puzzles with and share long conversations. However, all women, like all human beings, want someone they will *enjoy* being with. They want to be treated with kindness, to be loved and cared for. They want to be accepted - really accepted - for what they are. Women get more than enough prodding from media and TV to "be thinner" and "be younger" and "be sexier". They want a guy who will let them know they are beautiful - just the way they are.

 

Always remember: there are no men or women in a good relationship!

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What do women want in relationships? What do men want in relationships? It doesn't matter matter.. What does matter? It matters what people want in relationships. Women Women aren't a mysterious alien ali en race. They're just like and men.keep So to all treat you men out athere: if you want to people, get a girlfriend, her, her like person. If you're with a girl that you can fall in love with and be with forever, you can be open, honest and straightforward about your feelings for her and what you want in a partner, and you can take at face value everything she says ornd does. If you truly honest and treat her with respect, and you that her are words and actions are misleading or dishonest, tell her what you would want to hear in that situation. If you let her know it's okay for her to trust you and stop playing games, and she's looking for the same things you are, you'll always have success.

 

Be Happy

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One of the most important things a girl looks for in a guy is that the guy is happy with what he is. I'm not saying EGOSTISTICAL or self satised. But very few people in the world want to be around someone who is grumpy, angry andtime. meanIfall theare time. They want to have fun, they want to have a good you a generally happy person, satised with what you have in life, girls will be drawn to that like a magnet. They will want to share s hare in your happiness and be happy too. So instead of looking at the bad side of things, look at the good side. Appreciate you have and cherish the great blessingsthe youmany havegood in life.qualities The more content you are with your world, the more likely that others will wish to join you in it.

 

Be Where the Girls Are 

Of course, the key to nding a girlfriend is talking with girls. You You won't have much chance if you are hanging out in a boys-only school! There are many types of activities which tend to attract more girls than guys. If you found a club or group near you, you probably would have an easy time meeting with girls. Not only that, but you would have a built-in subject to talk about! * Garden clubs * Dance groups and events * Child care or child charity * Sewing groups * Ballet or musical performances * Cooking classes Look in your local paper - most areas have all sorts of dances going on all days of the week, and oer free lessons. You learn a free skill, and you get to meet a wide variety of girls in the process!

 

Bite Her! 

Bite her all over making you a girl magnet!

 

Confidence 

Condence is key You'll never get a girl buy shaking in the corner wishing you could make your move. (unless you want a girl to take pity upon your poor shivvering soul hehe) be condent in all of your actions, but not over condent mind you, condence can reassure those around you that you are someone who knows your next action and knows what you're doing, while obvious o bvious overcondence can make you seem haughty and more or less of a "know it all" (not sexy people, sorry n_~)

 

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Flirting 101, the pinicle of irtation and mastery of the art, begins with this one understanding~ Flirting is like playing with a cat~ If you just drop the string on it's i t's head, it'll have fun for a moment, then leave the room, AND YOU. you wnat to entertain the cat, otherwise you're just another object, like a chair or something. now, you don't want to drop compliments on a girl left and right because she, like the cat, will get bored. now if you dangle the string just out of reach, the cat goes crazy for it i t n_n and the cat'll be entertained for hours, and will come to you for fun. Same goes for a girl, if you dangle your complements just out of reach, and make her try for them, she'll have fun and feel like she's earned them by truely impressing you, even if it's something small n_n

 

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Girls are like cats, if you give them everything they want with no resistance, they'll get bored with you very quickly. if you the timeyou, to play, she'll have have afun making fallin love with her bytake impressing and you'll great timeyou watching as she grows closer and more attached to you. if you just complent the crap out of her, you'll never get to know her, got it n_~* good luck people!!! Sincerely, or merely, in reverie,

 

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Your best bet, is to LOOK at people before approaching them. and no boys i don't mean the Breasts. Say you're in a starbucks (my ultimate fave place (yes I'm a man who loves Latte's, if you have a problem with that then lets re-anylize our success with the opposing gender lmao sorry bout that n_n;) so you're in a starbucks, and oh my god you see the perfect hotty!!! (gasp! lmao) DO NOT WALK UP TO HER AND DROP A RETARDED PICKUP LINE (that's gotta be the least attractive thing ever~) look her in the eyes while you walk up to her (just a tip, but try to look at the pupils of her eyes, not just the general vacinity, vacinity, no idea why but for some reason people react to this(if you've seen memoirs of a geisha you know what i mean n_n) okay so you're walking towards her, she turns her head and you look her directly in the eyes and smile (not huge, not even your bigest smile, just a little cute one (girls like cute, it's something they just do, so even if you're reading this and you're hulk hogan, time to cutesy up big boy n_~* romao) continued in "Condence continued (3) cuz it's long lol

 

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now comes the good part, when you look her in the eyes and smile, she (%99 of the time time)) WILL WILL smile, it's human nature, but what we're looking for, is consistancy. study the smile even if it lasts for just a moment. did she look interested when she smiled? or did she seem to be just smiling out of common courtesy? courtesy? did she keep smiling? or did it fade when she turned away? how long did it tak take e her to turn away? did she hesitate before disengaging eye contact? continued in "Condence continued continued (4) cuz it's long lol

 

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Two of the most important peices of the information you got from from my last post, are 1)IS SHE STILL SMILING EVEN THOUGH SHE HAS TURNED AWAY FROM YOU/BROKEN THE EYE CONTACT??? Smiling is an OUTWARD OUTWARD gesture to display inward feelings, people tend not to smile when they know no one is watching, so if she turns away and KEEPS smiling, she almost denatly either knows that you're still watching, or is hopeing that you're still watching. Y ou can tell away if she's s he's hopeing or knows byremain the ways she faces, almost never turn completely from you, most likely positioned so she'll that at least her face is visible to you even the slightest bit, and will take more care in her movements so that she'll seem gracefull. This is your cue, read on in condence continued (5) Keep reading people n_n and denatly text me with any questions n_~*

 

Conversation 

Don't be stuck with nothing to say or there will be an akward siclence. plan out things to talk about

 

Dont Go too fast 

You never want to put a move on a girl too soon. If you know you like the girl, but don't quite know how she feels about you, get her number, hang around her more, maybe wait a few weeks, weeks, monthes monthes if you have to. You will never gainbut anything by nd asking out a girl  just met, you wont you n d girls runni running ngyou up to you and asking you out just because you are there either. Be availiable.

 

Dosti Karo To Dhoka Mat dena 

If friends were owers I would not pick you! I'll let you grow in the garden & cultivate you with love and care so I can keep you as a friend 4ever

Dosti Karo To Dhoka Mat dena, Kisi Ko Aashaon Ka Tohfa Tohfa Mat dena, Dil Se Roye Koi Tumhe Tumhe Yaad Karke, Aisa kabhi Kisi Ko Mooka Mat dena

Best frnds r lyk a pair of scissors,  joint togthr, togthr, often go in opp dirctions, dirctions, But they giv punishment to those who come between them.

 

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Har khushi dil ke kareeb nahi hoti, zindagi gum se door nahi hoti, Sanjokar rakhna ye dosti humari, yeh dosti har kisi ko naseeb nahi hoti Samne ho Manzil to Rasta na Modna Jo Mann me ho wo Khwab na Todna Har Kadam pe Milegi Kamyabi Aapko Bus Sitare Chhunne ke liye Kabhi zamin na Chhodna

If You You Have Any Problem, Pr oblem, Bindaas Tell Tell Me, I Will Help You. If You You Do

 

How to get a Date!! 

I've seen many guys struggle with nding a girl or even to get a date with one. Its not as hard as you think. No matter what you look like, how much money you make, what car you drive... it DOESNT matter. These are the limiting beliefs that men have and why they cant attract women. The 1st step in the process is ATTRACTION. Attraction is not only physical. Women are attracted to man of HIGH VALUE. Of course when you go out to meet a woman you must look presentable. HIGH VALUE is demostrated by being interesting, by being condent, by showing that you are goal oriented and that you believe yourself and in your life. Gentlemen... Attraction IS NOT a choice. YOU can trigger a woman's attraction to you by mearly Demnonstrating Higher Value and by having someting in common with her. So Heres how to get a date 1. Approaching: Approach the woman and begin a conversation...you DONT need some cheesy pickup line. "Hi" works very well. 2. Initiate a conversation: Find something in common. Generally the conversation will ow and even better if it takes tangents and you are both very interested in it.

 

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3. Attraction: Attraction: Demostrate Higher Value and share the same interests as the woman. She WILL be atrracted to you. 4. Get the Number/Email/Facebook, ect: Either you can go for an Instant Date ie coee, ect. OR you can exchange informtion. Number is the best way to get a date sometime in the week or the next couple of days. If you dont feel secure about asking for the number (which she will give you) get her Email or other information 5. GoSOLID on a Date: Call/Email/Message hertoand hold at least ONE CONVERSA CONVERSATION TION with her guarantee she will not ake. Set a time and place and have a good time!! Cheers!!!!

 

Just go for it 

Sometimes, the best way to ask a girl out is just to remind yourself that you've got not much to lose and lot to gain. I'm aapersonal fan of the 'just try it and see how it goes' attitude as it means you can have lots of condence simply because you're doing what you want to do! :D After all, what's the point in wasting good opportunities? You'll only hate yourself later if you had a chance but didn't take it..

 

Keep eye contact 

Keeping good eye contact make her more comfortable around you.

 

Learn to Dance 

Learning to dance is just about THE easiest way to nd a girlfriend that there is. Any club, any dance, any social event you go to, there are tons of girls dancing and hardly any guys. If you are a guy that has even the slightest idea of how to dance, you will nd it extremely easy to meet and be sought after by girls. They They are simply thrilled to t o nd that you can even TRY TRY to dance, even a little. And the better you get, the more impressed they are!

 

Learn to Flirt 

There are probably already girls all around you, but you aren't sure how to break the ice and begin to talk to them. Learn to irt! We have tons of tips on irting here at romanceclass. romancecl ass. Start reading through them, and then start practicing! The rst step to getting a girlfriend is having a Girl Friend.

 

Not getting struck down 

If you like someone instead of going up to her/him and asking her/him on a date and getting turned down try to use some body langue I no its hard to do it and you dont wanna seem too obvious at the same time depending on how you feel when you make eye contact thats good If you smile while doing eye contact thats much better always smile and let her/him no she/he likes you without saying a word you will get a bad or good vibe from these things you'll know what to do better then getting struck down~!

 

the hitch 

30% is good conversation, and 70% is the way you act and move through out the day think about it. good luck people hope you nd the right one.

 

Take her to places she loves... 

By talking to her if you hear a place or thing she loves then try it out...

 

Support her Dreams 

Every woman has things she hopes for, things she wants to achieve. Talk with her and learn what her dreams and aspirations are. And then nd ways even small ways - to help her achieve those dreams. If she wants to be a doctor, get her a small doctor statue for her birthday to put on her desk. If she wants to visit Japan someday, get her a book on Japanese customs, to help her learn more about the country. By helping her keep her goals in sight, you will show how much you care for her and her hopes.