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BAZI & APRIL ATTRACTION (Basically How To Use Bazi To Determine Your Potential Spouse) April 6, 2017 | Alexia Praks

Okay, I’m only doing this just because I’m bored out of my tree and also because I haven’t been writing a blog post about bazi for a while now. For this month of April, it’s going to be about Attraction. Because, you know, it’s April Attraction. I’m trying to be funny here by the using alliteration. P.S. You may want to know why I’m so bored. Remember in my last blog post, I talked about a bunch of tradesmen working on the collapsed roof in Rosie’s bedroom? Yeah, you know what? They happened to pull out our satellite dish as well, and now we have no T.V for like two weeks. As of today, I’m both super bored and super behind current affair. Yes, I watch the news every day. Yes, I also watch a lot of cooking shows while I do the cooking at five in the evening before my dear sisters return home from work. Yes, my sisters love my cooking, so sue me. And you know what? If no one comes to fix that satellite dish by tomorrow, I’m so going to scream the world down. Not that I can scream because I have such tiny voice, but that’s beside the point. Everything is so screwed at the moment. That broken star residing in my Si Snake isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. So damn frustrating. Anyway, back to the main topic of BAZI (Four Pillars of Destiny) and ATTRACTION now.

So, what is this ATTRACTION? According to wiki, attraction is ‘The action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something’. In term of a romantic relationship, attraction is a mystery, isn’t it? Like how come you’re attracted to one person or feel comfortable with him/her and not another? You may think this is a mystery, but actually, bazi can explain. Thus, me, this romance writer with an unhealthy interest in the mystic subject of bazi, is going to help you decipher why you are attracted to a certain person and not another. In bazi, attraction is very simple. You have a bazi chart, which is calculated from your date and time of birth. Other people also have a bazi chart. Attraction works like this. Your chart (meaning you) will be attracted to any charts (that means other people) that have a certain element that your chart needed most. Let me explain more clearly. In bazi, it’s all about balancing the temperature and five elements. Just like nature, life is best when everything is balanced in term of the right temperature (not too hot and not too cold), the perfect sunlight for growth, and of course, the perfect amount of resources such as water for growth and good soil etc.

Okay, I will burst your bubble now and tell you that only a small percentage of people has a perfect chart, as in like the chart has all five elements in harmony and in perfect balance and the chart is at the right temperature. Most of us have a mediocre chart with a shit load of bad relationships between the branches happening as well as missing an element or two. Not to mention the chart is in extreme temperature (either too hot or too cold). I’m talking about me here where the temperature is the same as a desert in Africa during a heat wave. To sum up, your chart is attracted to another chart because of: 1. That chart’s temperature – Needed for regulation 2. That chart has your most needed element USEFUL TIP: When you’re spending time with people who has your A and B as above, they’re magically giving you good luck. Think of them as your personal good-luck charm. ^_^ Now, time to go through your own chart. I’ll walk you through it. First, we need to check the temperature of your chart by determining your month of birth. The month is considered the season in bazi and has the strongest Qi. That means the season temperature affects the whole chart.

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Here’s the temperature during certain months: Winter is extremely cold and the months are November (Hai Pig), December (Zi Rat), and January (Chou Ox). Spring is still a little cold, but is getting warm and the months are February (Yin Tiger), March (Mao Rabbit), and April (Chen Dragon). Summer is hot and the months are May (Si Snake), June (Wu Horse), and July (Wei Goat).

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Autumn is warm (perfect temperature) and the months are August (Shen Monkey), September (You Rooster), and October (Xu Dog). Please remember the starting and ending date for these months varies, but usually, it’s between the 7th to the 7th of the next month. Also, when I say season, it’s not the actual season according to the northern or southern hemisphere because of the 35-degree slanted angle of the earth in relation to the sun. This season I’m talking about is a bazi season and it is fixed regardless of where you were born. Okay, now that you know the temperature of your chart, let’s determine the chart/s that you’re likely to be attracted to. If you’re born in the season of winter, your chart is cold and you’re very likely to be attracted to those with a hot chart. That means if you’re born in November, December or January, you’re very likely to be attracted to those born in May, June or July, which is the summer season. If you’re in the summer, likewise, you’re likely to be attracted to those born in the winter season. As for me, I was born in May, amid summer. My chart is extremely hot, so from personal experience, I find I’m very comfortable with those who has a cold chart. Hence, I’m very close to my two younger twin sisters who were born in January (the end of winter). And most of my close friends were born in December, in the middle of winter. If they were not born during the season of winter, they’d usually one of my most needed element in abundance, which is either water or metal. If you’re born in spring, you’re still a little cold, but better off than winter, and at the same, you’re warming up. So technically, it’s a pretty nice

chart. The attraction here depends on what other strong elements are present. If it’s fire elements, you’ll first need to check the time of birth. But regardless, fire will make this chart warmer. If it’s more of the water elements, then the chart will be a little colder. Now autumn is special. The temperature is perfect, and I bet that if you check those who are very successful, either in business or career, you’ll see that they were probably born in the season of autumn. That means August, September, or October. Here’s a few; Warren Buffet (14th August 1964) and Bill Gate (28th October 1955). Because they’re perfect, I have no idea what chart temperature they’re attracted to. Have to ask the professional bazi consultant about that. LOL! Maybe similar to the spring people? Where it depends on other strong elements? Okay, now time for the second one, YOUR MOST NEEDED ELEMENT. In bazi, it is called the USEFUL GOD, or most favorable element. This is actually the most important not just in term of attraction, but also for everything else as well. Going through a useful god via a 10-year luck turns you from zero to superhero. Who doesn’t want that, eh? Determining your useful god is difficult and will need an expert. But the gist of it is as follows: First look at your season of birth, as done above. If you’re born in summer, your useful god is very likely to be a water element, as water helps cool down the chart. If you’re born in winter, then fire is very likely to be your useful god as fire help warm up the chart.

Most of the time, you’ll find that your bazi’s useful god is also your weakest or missing element. Here’s an example, a Jia Wood Day Master born in the season of summer. That means this person’s chart is hot and will need the water element, not to only cool down the hot chart, but to nourish the Jia Wood for growth as well. If this person’s chart has a very weak water element or worse, missing, specifically the Gui water, which is the water of rain, then this person will be attracted to those charts that have strong water element, especially those born in winter, the Zi rat, as the main Qi in a Zi rate is Gui water. If this person is married to a person who has a Zi rat in his/her chart, then this person will bring good luck to the Jia Wood person. Um… Does that sound confusing? Now, time for an example. I’m going to be using Angelina Jolie. Her date of birth is 4th, June 1975. I don’t even have to plot her bazi chart to know her season of birth is in summer. If you forgot, scroll back up and check the list. You’ll find that May, June, and July is the season of summer in bazi, and in summer, the chart is freakin hot. Now, just because she is separated from Brad Pitt doesn’t mean I’m not going to use him as an example, too. LOL! So why was Angelina attracted to Brad Pitt? Brad Pitt was born on 18th, December 1963. Noticed December? What is it? It’s a Zi Rat month and it is in the middle of winter. Get the idea? Now, I can’t go in and decipher what Angelina’s or Brad Pitt’s useful gods are. Why? Because I don’t know their time of birth. Time play an important role, because technically, without time, you’re missing 25% of

the chart’s information. Also, time determines the strength, aka the brightness of the fire element. Fire Elements are unique in that they are not determined by the season of birth, rooting, support or combination, but rather by the time of birth as we are looking at their brightness. I’m using plural for the fire elements because there are two different types; Bing and Ding. Bing is the fire of the sun and it is bright during the day. Ding is the fire of candle light and is bright at night time. You can totally understand why a Bing fire is useless if a person is born in the season of winter and during the night. It’s both cold and dark. So bleak, this picture. But wait, what if this person meets and then married a person who is born in a Wu Horse month, which has the main Qi of a Ding fire? Viola! Perfect Match! Ding fire not only warms the other person’s chart, but also helps brightens it as well. In real life term, the person will bring out the passion and happiness of the one with the dark, cold chart. Get the picture? So, what’s the point in knowing all this, you may ask? Good question. Bazi is all about knowing the hidden luck and making use of it. In terms of attraction, not only in the romantic sense, but in career and business sense as well, you’d want to know who to spend more time or work with for better luck. If you’re single and is looking for love, date a guy whose bazi’s chart has an element that your chart needed most or that helps regulate the temperature of your own chart. Bringing this into real life, that person will not only bring you good luck, but he/she is likely to be your other half and makes you so freakin happy. ^_^

So, check your family’s chart. Check your friends’ chart. Check your next-door neighbors' chart. Check your next date’s chart. In that respect, what you should do before you even go out on a date with that person is to ask, “What’s your Birthdate? And time please if you can because that’s super important.” Don’t forget to smile. And if texting, add a smiley emoticon. If you can’t bother asking them face to face or texting them, stalk them on Facebook and search for their birthdate. God, I’m evil. Mwahahaha… Okay, I’m tired now and also less bored. Good night, people, and I hope this blog post is useful to ya all. ^_^ Tags: bazi and attraction

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