ExBack Roadmap Matthew Hussey

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IMPORTANT: I know you want to jump into this Roadmap right away. But you’ll get so much more out of this if you watch the video I created for you to go along with this Roadmap. It takes you through lots of details that I couldn’t fit in this PDF. You can find that video by clicking here… http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/exback/plc3-roadmap/

What you have here is a Roadmap to get your ex back. I’m handing you every step of my new “Get Him Running Back to You” approach. For the past five years I’ve coached millions of women to help them get the love life of their dreams. My relationship guide is a New York Times bestseller, my YouTube coaching videos have helped over 19,000,000 women and I’m the resident love expert on The Today Show. I’ve worked with royalties and celebrities like Christina Aguilera and Eva Longoria, and I’ve coached over 100,000 women around the world in my live seminars.

But I’ve never shared my secrets for getting your ex to come running back to you before…until now. This is a really big moment for me in my career and I’m so glad you are here to share it with me. I’ve always known exactly what it takes to get to get an ex boyfriend back. But I’ve held back these secrets because I was worried that women would use them to get back a man that wasn’t right for them. But I recently realized that many women will try to get back their ex with our without my help. And I would rather you do it the right way, with my help, than the wrong way which will only leave you with more heartache. So below I’m giving you my each step in my Roadmap to get your ex back fast. Don’t worry if you feel overwhelmed by any of it, in the next video I’ll show you how to get access to every single detail behind the Roadmap in one simple package that is so simple it is practically paint-by-numbers to get him back. Please promise me you’ll watch the video that goes with this Roadmap. In the video I explain the 5 Simple Steps you need to follow to get him back. As I’ve said from the start, the only way to get your man back is to have a plan. You can’t wing it and you can’t let your emotions rule you during this delicate time. Otherwise you will lose him forever. And we are not going to let that happen. DO NOT go it alone. Let me guide you through this time and you absolutely will get him back, or, if you decide, move on to a man who is even better for you! To your lasting happiness,

Matthew Hussey ExBackRoadmap.com

This is what the entire Roadmap looks like. I know it is too small to see. Sorry about that, but it was the only way I could fit it all on one page for you. Don’t worry though, I’ve broken it down on the following pages so you can see every detail. -Matthew

Leaving Use His Fears Staying “60/40” Concept #1: Nothing to Rebel Against 3-Legged Chair #2: Keep Him Off Balance Emotional Judo

No extra effort required

Pilar #1: Understand His Head and Heart Reality not as expected 4: Secret Strategies

#3: His “Lag Period”

He’s hurting too But won’t last forever Can give in

#4: He’s Winning You Back

The Attractions Forumula Earn benefits

You MUST follow a plan to get him back

Your Strategy

All women You’re not alone He’s feels these too - in different ways Valuable emotions Not your fault Right time, right place Reflex Response

Pushes him further away

Use the right mode High Value Response

Pillar #2: Don’t Let Emotions Rule

This always wins

Power Move #1: Live An Amazing Life Power Move #2: Kill Him With Kindness...And Love

6 Power Moves

Power Move #1: Use the “Goldilocks Contact Method” Power Move #4: Become a Mystery Again Power Move #5: Humbly Admit Your Role Power Move #6: Follow a Plan, Not Your Emotions

Reflex Response vs. High Value Response

Perceived Challenge

Visual Chemistry Perceived Value “THE ATTRACTION FORMULA” Perceived Challenge

Laying the Foundation

Your Attraction Toolkit Connection Deep attraction Lasting attraction Timing it perfectly

“Cooling Off Period”

Must do

“No Contact” window

The formula for success Let him miss you

Give him just enough space

Don’t let him think you’ve moved on Walking that fine line

Before You Connect

Pushes him further away Reflex Response Mode

Digs you deeper into an emotional hole Don’t de-value the relationship you’re trying to save

High Value Response Mode

The art of Emotional Persuasion

Facebook

No manipulation

Copy/paste posts

LR-LI Strategy Text Messages

Copy/paste messages

Prevent His Panic Don’t be “easy” Fine line Use “Nonchalant Confidence”

Step #1: Re-Establish Contact With Your Ex Again (The Right Way)

Always remember the “Goldilocks Contact Method”

Early Flirtation

Avoid letting him play with your emotions Examples Making Contact

Copy/paste

The Ultimate Social Media Rule

Nothing to Rebel Against

Control Your “Personal Brand” Image

He’ll sell himself on having a relationship with you again!

Spiking His Attention From Afar Without investing in love Use Loving Behaviour Kill him with kindness Humility The 3 Qualities to Guide Every Communication

Strength Resillience

Stoke His #1 Fear

YOU getting over HIM

Critical Choosing the right place to meet

Only let him see your best side

High Value approach Puts you in control

Create An Aura Of Positivity Keep Him “Off Balance”

Draw him into you again Erase past negative ideas he may have

Leverage “The Art Of The Unfamiliar”

Be the girl he doesn’t recognize anymore “Hangover Model”

Step #2: Make Your Life Irresistible To Him

Pick the Right Recovery Model “Athlete Model” Maximize Your Time Apart

It is a gift to increase your impact on him forever

Use His “Lag Period” to Your Advantage The “Moving Train Mindset”

Let him know the cars are leaving the station

Gets him chasing after you

Ignites that first time excitement Create a SECOND First Impression Better than before Why it works Scent - Your Secret Weapon How to do it Body Language of Attraction

Evidence of growth Defying Expectations

Your 5 Step Plan to Win Him Back

Turn his world upside down

Step #3: Blow Him Away With Your NEW First Impression

“Show Don’t Tell” Method

Scramble his brain Show yourself in an amazing new light

Daniel Musto’s celebrity secrets Be The Sexiest “You” He’s Ever Seen Effortless beauty

Touch Calibrated

Jealousy

Hit the sweet spot

Make him feel enticed without feeling like you’re trying to get him back

Don’t give in

Humbly Admit Your Faults How to answer his “hidden landmine” questions Maintain Your High Value Response What to do if he has seen other women

What you trigger in him The Next Level of Flirting

No flirtation that wuldn’t be OK on a first date Exact ways to do it Drive him crazy for you

Uncertainty Create Excitement and Challenge Unpredictability

It will backfire at this stage Don’t Use Love at This Stage Trigger the right emotion at the right time

Permission Turning Up His Desire 10x

Use subtle techniques Spontaneous moments

What to say If he’s seeing other women How to remain High Value

Stand out all other women

Scarcity “Rebound Relationships”

Step #4: Create Uncontrollable Desire In Him

Independence Use his imagination to your advantage

Raise your value Storytelling

Surprise him Challenge his prior beliefs

Create an even better relationship this time Avoid past destructive patterns Use your clean slate

The rules to live by Never Engage in “Emotional Time Travel” Don’t rehash the past

Secrets of Attraction

Keeping him “Off Balance”

The Affection Equation Timing Kissing Dos and Dont’s Test His Intentions

Spark of desire

What he’s thinking When he wants to sleep with you How to respond for long-term attraction

Limit Intimacy

Wanting more Leave on a High Note Pique his interest

Timing

What to say

Copy/paste messages

After Your First Date Not about technique The Tightrope Walk

Step #5: Let Him Win You Again (And Stay Forever) Keep Him Interested

But don’t move too fast

Follow Your Plan, Not Your Emotions Retain Some Key Boundaries Maintain Your Values When He Tests Your Standards

Avoid the Temptation to Move to Quick

Re-Ignite the “Honeymoon Phase”

Use the Butterfly Metaphor

Trigger His Dopamine Response

Overly romanticizing?

Can you Forgiveness

Should you Uncover hidden issues

Forgiveness If you caused the breakup

3 Reconcillation Steps

Gut Check

Communicate it won’t happen again Make him feel like your #1 priority

Keep your thinking clear Stay Out of Emotional Black Holes “I’ll never find another him” Making excuses The wrong reasons Overlooking too much

Should you make changes?

The only rule you need

Recovering from a mistake

Be Prepared for Anything

“Want vs. Need” Paradigm Why you can’t lose

Crucial for desire Win-win

It benefits you!

Family Self-esteem Friends Protection Mode

Your body View of men Optimism Emotional energy Disarray Halt your progress

“Survival Mode”

Destructive behaviours

Reflex Response Including

Emotion led

Impulse led “Distraction Hunting”

#1 Transform Self-Loathing Into Self-Love

Be your own best friend

Filling the void #2 Don’t Force Your Feelings

Rebuilding Your Emotional Armor

Your “Emotional Immune System”

#3Letting Your “Emotional Wound” Heal

How to heal it

Don’t accidentally make it worse Avoid the bogus cures “Kindred Spirits”

#4 Surrounding Yourself With Love

3 types that are essential to your recovery

“Sage Counsel” Who to avoid at all costs

7 Methods to Feel Better Fast

#5 Regaining Responsibility

#6 Feeling Desirable

Surprising value of dedlines Restoring emotional balance

Withdrawal stage Flirting to boost your emotional recovery Reconnect Inspiration

#7 Becoming Invincible

“Fun-Lovers”

“RISE UP Model”

Self-Esteem Energy Unattach Purpose

Recovering smart

See past his excuses

Mindsets That Guarantee You’ll Lose Him

The Excuse Minefield

Understand true meaning

Use your “4 Secret Strategies” Show him you are the right woman

“He’s afraid of commitment

No man fears commitment with the right woman

“He’s Too Focused on Career”

Men ca always make time for what they decide is important

“He’s Moved On”

You’ve won his heart before, easy to do again

He’ll beg you to commit!

“60/40” rule

“High Value” approach eliminates jealousy Reignite the spark

“He grew bored with the relationship”

“Eternal Honeymoon Period”

He’ll forget about work

Deep connection

Live an Amazing Life “I was/am too jealous”

Make your relationship important