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Contents Introduction..............................................................................4 Level 1: Dominance..................................................................7 Self Control..................................................................................8 Social Control............................................................................12 Ignition.......................................................................................16 Reflection and Manifestation 1....................................................21 Level 2: Connection...............................................................23 Conversation..............................................................................24 Touch........................................................................................29 Windows of Escalation...............................................................33 Reflection and Manifestation 2....................................................37 Level 3: Leadership................................................................39 Shaping.....................................................................................40 Logistics....................................................................................46 Sexual Escalation.......................................................................49 Reflection and Manifestation 3....................................................58

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The Drills Bootcamp Welcome to DiClassified Drills! Dear Student, Here at DiCarlo DiClassified, I am committed to providing you, my client, with the simplest and most advanced ways to approach, talk to and take home any woman you desire, so you now hold in your hands everything you will ever need to infuse power and sexuality into your personal and social life. This unique weekend will be completely ‘drill-based.’ This means that you won’t be listening to hours of lecture and mindless drivel. Instead, you will be organically learning advanced pickup skills as simply as possible, and experiencing a brand-new way to look at life in general. It is important that you take full advantage of the massive amounts of individual attention and listen closely to your instructor’s feedback over the course of this weekend. This is in order to correct the subtleties in your thoughts and actions that will take your interactions with women to a whole new level. It is even more crucial to note that not all the drills are realistic, realworld scenarios. This is because I distilled all of the time, nuance and hassle of real-world pickup into effective, targeted exercises in order to ingrain new, attractive habits directly into your muscle-memory. I believe that a man’s true, natural self is the most attractive personality he can present to a woman. (And over a decade of effective transformations back me up) Because of this, I annually make small changes to the Drills program.

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So, right now, not only are these drills more efficient and effective, they actually enable you, the student to modify their application according to your natural personality and style. Because of this, every time a drill is done, it is truly a unique experience.

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But before we begin, there are a few tiny concepts you should understand. In all interactions, there is a certain level of acceptable tension. I call this ‘social tension’. Each and every man has a certain social threshold for this ‘tension’. If a guy experiences sweaty-palm anxiety approaching women, he probably has a low threshold for social tension. He could be uncomfortable showing sexual interest, and he could be uncomfortable being judged by others. One of the core goals of this program is to raise your threshold of tension to a level most ‘average’ men will never reach in their entire lifetimes. We use The Natural Game Transformation Equation™ to teach you the ins-and-outs of sexual dominance in-context. The levels of the NGTE will be drilled, in order, to the point of deep-down understanding in order to unleash your naturally attractive personality. This manual is designed so that you can and should continue practicing after the workshop. However, it is absolutely crucial that you listen to your coach, and take notes based on your coach’s feedback, and your own realizations in order to continue your exponential growth after this weekend is over. Because no two students are exactly the same, each workshop is unique and “brand new” in a sense. So while the manual is a guide, the most powerful aspect of the workshop is the intense, personal attention you will get from your coach at all times. He is trained to notice every subtle little thing that is subconsciously murdering attraction in women you meet. Please, understand this, and take full advantage of this unique experience I have prepared for you, this weekend.

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The Natural Game Transformation Equation™ consists of: • Level 1: Dominance • Level 2: Connection • Level 3: Leadership

To your success, Vin and The DiClassified Team

Note: Please keep this booklet safe, intact and private. If you are going to share your experience, I would prefer that you share this experience with only 1-2 of your most trusted friends. That way I can protect the elite and exclusive nature of this program for you in the future.

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Level 1: Dominance Dominance requires an independent emotional state, as well as comfort with tension and compliance reversal.

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Self Control The definition of dominance is a calm, unaffected state in the face of otherwise anxiety-inducing situations. Most guys ruin their chances with women by focusing on the polar opposite of what they should. With the following drill sequence, you will make the simple, yet crucial shift from chasing, to attracting, any woman you choose. This shift begins inside you. Before you can begin to affect a woman’s emotions, you must first be in control of your own. Instructor Insights:

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The Drills Bootcamp 1. Crystal Ball Purpose: To shift your thoughts from submissive to dominant. Most Men focus their attention to the wrong things, which spawns a domino effect of submissive and inconsistent behavior. Women can tell when you are thinking like a dominant man, no matter what techniques you are using. Where a person focuses their attention is just a HABIT. Once you change that habit and permanently adopt a dominant state of mind, you’ll notice an instant and dramatic change in women’s responses to you. Instructions 1. Face your partner and hold eye contact. 2. Adopt comfortable, poised posture. 3. Cultivate a sense of curiosity, using a mindscript. 4. Maintain your focus without resolving your curiosity. 5. Fractionate between Ex curiosity, and nApp curiosity (refer to your instructor for clarification). Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 2. King’s Oath Purpose: To continue gaining control over your focus so that it can begin to replace your old, dysfunctional habits. Most guys who are perceived as dominant are only scratching the surface of what’s possible. By taking your focus to the next level, you will form a psychic “shield” of energy that not only attracts women, but also protects the integrity of your state.

Instructions Part A 1. Look at your partner, while adopting good posture. 2. Send an appreciative mindscript with your eyes. Part B 1. Tell your partner the 3 things you fear the MOST, that a woman could say to you. (The 3 triggers you are most self-conscious about) 2. Your partner will be verbally hostile using the first of these three things. 3. Verbalize altruistic intent while employing touch and EC. 4. Repeat steps 2-3 until your focus is unshakeable and your reactions are emotionally neutral. 5. Repeat with the remaining triggers until all 3 are emotionally neutral. (Only drill one trigger at a time) Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 3. Aikido Spin Purpose: To learn how to reverse tests from women and use them as an opportunity for escalation. Being in the moment, or in the now is crucial to keep an interaction flowing and positive. Most guys get stuck when they perceive a challenge to their self-esteem. It may manifest itself as overthinking, or self-consciousness, or doubt. The problem begins in the perception of challenge or threat. By reversing the intention of her tests, and staying in the moment, you stand out among virtually every man she has ever met. When you can deftly control the direction of a topic, you’ll be able to escalate with virtually any woman you engage in conversation.

Instructions Part A 1. Begin with self-acceptance verbalization (refer to instructor). 2. Verbalize “flaws” with same energy. Part B 1. Your partner will criticize you. 2. Respond to the non-insult component of partner’s statement, with self-accepting energy. 3. Don’t explain or attempt humor - keep response neutral to positive. Instructor Feedback

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Social Control The key to social control is perceived authority. Perceived authority is easily created using an intriguebased approach. This requires an extroverted focus. Compliance is at the core of intrigue. When a woman is complying more with you than you with her, she will feel pulled towards you. This is what we mean by “intrigue.” When you can generate intrigue, using an authoritative focus, you will garner full social control. Instructor Insights:

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The Drills Bootcamp 4. Eagle Eye Purpose: To flip the approval-seeking switch without negativity. Women are trying to seduce men in their dress, mannerisms, and their very being. Most men don’t realize this. There’s no need to hurt her self-esteem to be dominant. By simply shifting your focus to extraversion, without blatant supplication, you convey social authority. When you see her effort, and comment on it from power, you not only convey that you are used to women wanting you, but she will be very likely to start chasing you. Instructions 1. Take turns making specific, acute observations about your partner. 2. Avoid trying giving compliments or criticisms. 3. Avoid trying to say something “good, “creative, or original—focus on honesty and specificity. *Refer to your instructor’s example - his guidance of your focus in real-time is crucial here. Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 5. Head Coach Purpose: To shape a woman to show you her best, most attractive personality right off the bat. Guys take women at face value. This isn’t bad in a relationship. In the first meeting, however, women often put up a persona to protect themselves from the kind of hurt they’ve experienced in the past (as men do). Guide her to treat you the way you want to be treated. Instructions 1. List the three socially-desirable traits for which to shape a woman of interest. 2. Greet your partner. 3. Partner gives varied responses. 4. Find Direct or Contrasting Evidence that indicates your partner has these traits. 5. Implicitly shape your partner’s future behavior. *Your instructor’s experience will make a huge difference in your success. Be sure to ask him what works and what does not. Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 6. Man in the Mirror Purpose: To encourage a woman to converse openly and spontaneous with you, by doing it first Men are always trying to say the “right thing.” It doesn’t exist. The “right thing” is to speak without over thinking, in such a way that the woman can relate. When you are able to converse with freedom and spontaneity, women will follow your lead. This creates the feeling of connection, usually only shared by good friends.. Instructions 1. Converse back and forth with your partner, using only statements about yourself. 2. Use the proper threading technique by making statements that relate to the subtopics of your partner’s statements. 3. Thread with the intention of demonstrating the kind of expression you’d like from your partner.

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Ignition It’s rare that you approach a woman with no one else around. Either she’s with friends, or she’s in a public area with other people watching out of the corner of their eye. This is not a bad thing – in fact it’s much to your advantage because women are aware of the social pressure you are facing when you approach. The purpose of approaching a group is to select, engage, and escalate with the woman of your choice. By maintaining a calm, independent state and focus, a woman will perceive you as extremely bold and confident. This is how a man really demonstrates value, and thus, attraction. Instructor Insights:

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The Drills Bootcamp 7. The Gunslinger Purpose: To cultivate a powerful presence by perfecting your body language and movement. Women always respond to the way a man carries himself. A man with great body language and a confident walk will always garner lots of female attention, regardless of his stature. Poor body language is one of the most common problems guys have. If they only knew how much women really pay attention to a man’s posture and walk. The way a man carries himself conveys who he is: whether he is successful, happy, focused, and unafraid of others. By making a few simple tweaks, you can explode your body language to make your presence felt. Get used to women checking you out! Instructions 1. Walk slow and straight, with direction 2. Look into the distance 3. Propel yourself forward from just below your navel 4. Open your chest, keep your chin straight 5. Use a mindscript to exude your presence (refer to instructor) Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 8. K.I.S.S. Purpose: To instill the understanding that approaching women isn’t about being clever or showing value. It’s better to not think about either of these things. There’s a common myth that a clever pickup line is necessary to meeting women. In reality, trying to be witty or entertaining kills attraction. Try something completely opposite and counterintuitive – open a group with zero content. What really makes women look at you in awe? When you develop your presence by taking the focus off of content, you’ll be able to say anything and still produce a powerful and rapid attraction state. Instructions 1. Approach the group using presence (see previous drill). 2. Use a base-level fundamental opener (refer to instructor). 3. Resolve any persona issues. *Feedback from instructor will be highly individualized here. Be sure to take notes on your core persona issues.

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The Drills Bootcamp 9. Group Threading Purpose: It’s important that you get to know a woman’s group and make a good impression. They will either help or hinder your escalation because she looks at her friends’ opinions as she forms her own. Vibing with a group of strangers is easy if you know how to focus. When you can guide a group without committing the three deadly mistakes, women will automatically and subconsciously see you as a charming, exciting, confident guy. Instructions 1. Approach with presence. 2. Keep your focus extroverted, use a simple question to start conversation. 3. Converse with everyone in the group. 4. Avoid the three mistakes A) Defending B) Attacking C) Hiding *Defer to your instructor for clarification on these terms, and pay close attention to which is the source of YOUR persona. Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 10. The Glass Slipper Purpose: Real pickup is not about you. There’s a woman you want. Go for it. Too often guys chatter away, hoping to seduce the entire group and get one of the women to choose him. Neither are natural, and neither are effective. Women respect, and at the very least, get out of the way of, a man who goes for what he wants. This drill will give you an incredibly easy, yet powerful way to engage any woman of your choice in a one-on-one conversation. Drill Instructions: 1. Approach with presence and a simple, upbeat opener. 2. Converse with the group without submitting. 3. Use curiosity to engage the group-member of your choice. 4. Mini-isolate with your attention and body-direction. Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp Reflection and Manifestation What is your goal for this weekend?

What is not perfect yet?

What are you willing to do to make it the way you want?

What are you willing to stop doing to make it the way you want?

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Level 2: Connection A connection is created in the correct balance of sexual tension and fun conversation.

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Conversation Rapport comes down to emotional comfort. Emotional comfort is not about verbal content. It’s about an underlying feeling of safety, the feeling that you can talk about anything and everything. Conversation is the best way to create a feeling of emotional comfort and trust with a woman. It is the fundamental counterpart to physical escalation. The purpose of conversation is to generate emotional comfort.

Instructor Insights:

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The Drills Bootcamp 11. Open Books Purpose: To create a deep connection through natural conversation. People who just met typically talk about impersonal ‘stuff.’ By effectively changing the subjects of your conversation, you will allow a natural connection to form. When you can guide an interaction to reveal what’s interesting about a woman, and share who you really are, your conversations will gain a dimension of true, natural depth and intimacy. This creates an amplified connection and deep feeling of “destiny.” Instructions 1. Thread with statements using only Inner Process Language. 2. Keep emotional state neutral to positive. 3. Push your personal comfort zone in terms of what you reveal.

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The Drills Bootcamp 12. Pharaoh’s Tomb Purpose: To gain a high level of control over conversational vibe and creation of positive energy. There’s always another guy louder, wittier, and more entertaining than you. But that’s OK – pickup is not about entertaining anyone (contrary to popular belief). Typically, louder, more talkative guys garner more attention from women. But by controlling the frame, you can actually use his effort to bring a woman closer to you emotionally. This technique is so easy to use, you’ll never have to compete with another guy again. In fact you’ll look forward to the opportunity to take advantage of would-be show-stealers! Instructions 1. Use your instructor to begin. 2. To your partner, frame the third party (instructor) as “entertainment” for the two of you. 3. Use different verbal structures to reinforce the core message of this exercise. Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 13. Get Real Purpose: To become a real person to others. When a man meets a woman, he often becomes “bar guy” or “coffee shop guy” or “Joe’s friend from high school.” By sharing details about your most important relationships and goals, you can become a real, authentic person in her mind. If she sees you as a real person, with a life outside of the pickup context, she will be able to let her guard down, allowing a much deeper connection. Instructions 1. Begin threading, inserting the following two topics: A. Goals B. Positive relationships with females (or male friends and family if you don’t have any females to speak of). 2. Continue using I-P Language and keeping a positive emotional state. Instructor Feedback

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14. Buried Treasure Purpose: To show a woman you value her for her character. Most guys experience anxiety when talking to women because they are paying attention to the wrong things. There’s a simple way to stay out of your head and focus on escalation. By using your natural curiosity, you can make a woman will feel like you understand her better than even her best friend. Instructions 1. Employ Inner-Process Questions. 2. Recognize when you’ve found the “treasure.” 3. Read your partner’s personality. 4. Relate to that personality using I-P Language. *This is one of the most challenging verbal exercises. Be sure to refer to your instructor and get as much guidance and feedback as you can. Instructor Feedback

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Touch Being adept at touching women in a way that is comfortable and arousing is absolutely crucial to escalation. Unfortunately, touching (or “kino”) is often misunderstood and misapplied. By combining touch, with conversation, you will be able to escalate rapidly with any woman you desire. Remember, if you aren’t touching, you aren’t escalating. A pickup is sexual in nature. Sex is a dance with two fundamental aspects. Begin this dance by employing both aspects from the start. Instructor Insights:

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The Drills Bootcamp 15. The Magic Touch Purpose: Physical escalation should be smooth – gradual and well-timed. It’s rare to find a man who truly knows how to touch a woman. When you understand the proper energy behind your touch, physical escalation becomes unconscious and effortless. Separate yourself from every guy she’s ever met by touching her in a comfortable yet arousing way. When you can effectively touch women using the 3 keys of congruence, calibration and energy, they will feel more comfortable and turned on, and escalation will become a breeze. Instructions 1. Refer to your instructors demonstration and explanation of Expressive and Appreciative Touch. 2. Practice Touch on your instructor for basic competency. *Instructor demonstration is the only real way to get started, so pay attention to his energy. And remember, you must have the right focus to emulate that energy. Take notes! Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp 16. Two-way Street Purpose: To escalate physically as a reward for a woman’s self-expression. Creating an intimate, sexual vibe and escalating is fundamental to pickup. This drill sequence will drive home the feeling of using touch as a reward, so that you can move your interactions . The goal is to employ physical escalation within a natural conversation. Instructions 1. Partners thread back and forth using I-P Statements. 2. Combine Expressive Touch (in the designated class) with the statements. 3. Add Appreciative Touch: after your partner is done talking, verbalize your understanding of his statement while employing appreciative touch, and commence expressive touch as you continue with your thread.

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The Drills Bootcamp 17. Climb the Ladder Purpose: To be able to increase physical intimacy while carrying on a comfortable, spontaneous conversation. Creating an intimate, sexual vibe and escalating is fundamental to pickup. This drill sequence will drive home the feeling of smooth escalation, so that you can move your interactions forward regardless of conversational content (or lack thereof). The goal is to split your mind into two parts—one which escalates physically on autopilot and another part that is free to manage verbal content. Instructions 1. Practice proper timing of Expressive and Appreciative touch in Class 1. 2. Move to Class 2 3. Practice light Class 3. 4. Incorporate Free Threading into your touch escalation. 5. Move up the ladder as instructed.

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Windows of Escalation Women are constantly giving men signals – they actually feel they are being proactive! But most guys miss these signals 90% of the time. Once you get in the habit of responding to these signals as if the were “windows” for escalation, you will see signals everywhere, and you will escalate much faster with every woman you interact with. When your first impulse is to respond as if women were inviting you to get intimate with her, you will leverage her cognitive dissonance to generate instant attraction.

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The Drills Bootcamp 18. The DiCarlo Handshake Purpose: To immediately generate sexual tension while conveying incredible confidence. A woman’s “love at first sight” fantasies can be manipulated and created out of thin air, in seconds. Most guys allow themselves to fall into a woman’s non-sexual category. When a woman puts out her hand to introduce herself, she is unconsciously giving you a huge window, if you only know how to respond. Where most guys fail to convey sexual power, you will stand out as a guy she instantly sees in a sexual way. Instructions 1. Introduce yourself, and shake hands, pulling partner in slightly. 2. Communicate Appreciation with your eyes (use mindscript if necessary). 3. Hold partner’s right hand with your left, while you continue conversation.

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The Drills Bootcamp 19. The Wrangler Purpose: To escalate rapidly by spotting her cues. Most guys clumsily overlook women’s signals. When you demonstrate awareness of a woman’s escalation windows, you signal to her on a subconscious level that you are a) very experienced, b) have many women attracted to you and c) can fulfill her sexual desires. And that creates MASSIVE attraction. With congruence and proper timing, you can increase the physical intimacy with a woman by leaps and bounds. Instructions 1. Begin with Free Threading. 2. One partner will present a conversational question as a Window of Opportunity. 3. Respond verbally while employing Class 2 Touch.

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The Drills Bootcamp 20. Touch-back Purpose: To reverse the sexual dynamic by getting the woman to escalate on you. It’s true, you have to escalate physically. But, as sex isn’t a oneway street, neither is touch. The average guy can’t even see past conversation. A guy who’s “good” with women knows how to touch. A master has women touching him. He “flips the script” as we say. By getting a woman acclimated to touching and pleasuring you, you make yourself the sexual prize in her eyes. Drill Instructions: 1. Begin with Free Threading. 2. Your partner will give the window of a light touch. 3. Promptly qualify your partner 4. Follow this with a suggestion to go somewhere else, while congruently taking partner by the hand. *This drill requires your instructor to impart his experience and share his own field-tested techniques. Instructor Feedback

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The Drills Bootcamp Reflection and Manifestation What do you think you have to change about your old approach?

When did you start holding yourself back?

What do you want your life to be about today?

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Level 3: Leadership Leadership means managing your relationship with a woman via shaping, and logistical and sexual escalation.

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Shaping An attractive, healthy woman wants to be understood, appreciated, and encouraged to feel good about her self. When a woman feels this way with you, she will open her self to you in ways she hasn’t with other men. Be careful – the skills you are about to learn will give you an incredible power. Keep in mind that people are emotionally vulnerable, so be sure to use your power wisely. The key to shaping is a) having standards, and b) sticking to them. It may seem counter-intuitive, but this will lead to MORE options.

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The Drills Bootcamp 21. Success ‘R’ Us Purpose: To encourage women to make an effort for you. Men are so focused on what women think of them that they end up either completely submitting and complying with her, or getting stuck in a combative frame that gets them nowhere. With a simple shift in perception you can get a woman in the habit of complying with YOUR leadership. Compliance is absolutely crucial in maintaining a woman’s attraction for you. Once you internalize this drill, women will not only feel aroused by your leadership, they will begin to devote themselves to you. Instructions 1. Your partner will make a somewhat revealing statement. 2. “Us-Frame” it, with the focus on mutual success or enjoyment. 3. Alternatively, use Dirty Compliance to mix things up and set a conducive frame.

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The Drills Bootcamp 22. The Heartbreaker Purpose: To become the source of self-actualization for people you care about. Most people fail at building meaningful, passionate relationships because they are stuck in their own egos. Know this: at their core, people want to feel seen and understood. Being a source of leadership and support is not about literally fixing anything – it’s about perception. When a woman sees you as her guide to a better life, she will feel hopelessly attracted to you and will crave to have you in her life. Instructions 1. Your partner will make a statement. 2. Delve with I-P Questions. 3. Verbalize partner’s core emotional need. 4. Pace the challenge to attaining the emotional need. 5. Presuppose partner’s need is fulfilled by flipping the script or using the Us-Frame.

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The Drills Bootcamp 23. Dream Girls Purpose: To clarify your expectations from the get-go. The most important question is not “How can I be more attractive?” It is, “What do I specifically want in a woman?” Having standards is fundamental for attraction; only a dominant man could look beyond physical beauty. A woman can tell when a man has standards, and when you convey what they are, she will make an effort to meet them. Instructions 1. Brainstorm character traits of your ideal woman. 2. Clarify three traits with the aid of your instructor. 3. Use one of three shaping tools for each trait: A) Evidence (direct or contrast), B) Precedence, C) Preference *Your instructor’s input will be crucial for every step of this drill.

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The Drills Bootcamp 24. Private Dancer Purpose: To shape a woman into your ideal partner. Women are constantly looking for direction on how to treat the guys they meet. With every word that comes out of your mouth, you are constantly telling her what kind of woman to be for you, and how you should be treated, on a subconscious level. Now you’ll be able to shape her behavior by asking useful questions, or talking about specific themes. The common question, “What do I talk about with women?” becomes a moot point. Instructions 1. Thread with your partner. 2. Insert shaping tools into your conversation. 3. Reward compliance with the Us-frame. * Be sure to take notes on conversational shaping technique: smooth segues, calibrated questions, and a strong intention are vital for success.

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The Drills Bootcamp 25. The Forbidden Door Purpose: To secure your place as the sexual prize in the relationship. It’s very easy for a guy to fall into the “chaser” role in a relationship with a woman. It’s because in the back of his mind, he’s worried he might lose her. This just pushes the woman away even further. But solving this problem is easier than what you were probably doing before. By flipping the relationship dynamic, and keeping the woman preoccupied with chasing and keeping you, you can relax knowing she’s all yours. There are three aspects to the relationship you must shape her effectively. Here they are, with examples of verbal shaping. Sex: • I love how you make an effort to please me, and you like learning how to make me feel good. • I can tell that you want to let yourself go with me completely – I just get that feeling when we make love. I think it’s because I can see how much you like turning me on. Trust: • I’m able to relax with you because I trust you. I can tell you really care about me and it allows me to let my guard down. • When I first met you, I wasn’t sure if you were different from other girls. But I really feel the sense that I can trust you. Jealousy • My friend offered to cook me dinner, but I wanted to spend time with you instead. • My friend Jenny invited me to a bday party but I don’t know if I should go – I think she has a thing for me.

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Logistics ‘Logistics’ simply means moving her from point A to point B, ultimately to total isolation where sex can happen. If you don’t have a hold on logistics, you won’t be able to escalate all the way.

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The Drills Bootcamp 26. Game Plan Purpose: To design a date that is not only fun and interesting, but allows the two of you to get to know each other, and leads to sex. Typical dates are not only boring and awkward; they actually slow the sexual process down! Effective dating is simple, and your instructor will guide you through this process. When you can set up effective dating scenarios you’ll not only convert all those phone numbers into dates, you will be ending those dates with physical intimacy and sex, every time. Instructions With your coach’s instruction, design a date using compliance, and proper logistical sequencing • Locations:

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The Drills Bootcamp 27. Safe Code Purpose: To neutralize a woman’s objections to isolation. Even the most experienced guys can’t overcome common objections women have for being alone with a men. When you know what’s really going on with her, it’s easy to address her objections in way that peaks her curiosity. This skill is absolutely crucial if you want to move to the bedroom without wasting any time.

Instructions 1. Using intrigue, and proper framing, address your partner’s isolation-objections. 2. One way to sequence this is by 3. State your (non-sexual) reason for going home 4. Allow her to come over (verbal framing) 5. Playfully screen her, reluctantly allowing her to come over on a silly condition (flip the script).

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Sexual Escalation Most men simply don’t come off sexual. In other words, when women look at the average guy, having sex with him is the furthest thing from her thoughts. Don’t fall into the asexual category of men she meets on a daily basis. Being sexual begins in your mind, but is conveyed, initially, through your appearance and body language. From there, it’s all about escalation, dominance, and of course, sex itself! Remember, there’s no limit to what you can experience with a woman sexually, except in your own mind. A man who knows what he wants, and goes for it, is inherently sexual. A woman will want to “go there” with you, because you are intent on going there yourself.

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The Drills Bootcamp 28. The Eros Effect Purpose: To trigger a woman’s attraction switches by finetuning your appearance. A few simple tweaks in the way you present yourself can create an aura around you, and instantly make YOU the guy she looks for when she walks into the club! (I’ve never had more women approach me, than when I finally nailed down this stuff.) Most men tend to be poor dressers. As a man, you probably don’t pay much attention to superficial stuff like clothes and fashion because it’s not important to you. But it’s important to women. Women can tell a lot about a man just by how he dresses and the image he presents to the world. Now you may be a successful, cool guy, but if you’re not showing this, you may be giving the wrong impression. Let’s face it – what you wear makes a difference. But it’s not about specific clothing items or brands. It’s about YOU – how congruently you display your personality. When you know how to trigger interest in women based on the image you present, you’ll have women approaching YOU. Remember, if you stay ready, you don’t gotta “get ready.” Dress for success. You never know when or where you’ll get your next opportunity.

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The Drills Bootcamp 28. (cont’d) Fine-Tuning Your Image I. Overall Image • Contrast • Sexuality • Edgy • Full II. Accessories • Success • Depth • Sexual Confidence III. Style • Flow and emphasis (masculine parts) • Color, cut • Grooming: clean, congruent with style, hair, skin, smell, teeth/mouth

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The Drills Bootcamp 29. Virtual Escalation Ladder Purpose: To escalate rapidly using role-playing and the DEL in tandem. This is one of the most powerful tools we teach. During normal conversation, the rate of escalation varies on the woman’s comfort level, and can take awhile. The Virtual Ladder bypasses a woman’s objections by removing her from the present reality while engaging her imagination and getting her aroused. This can be used for situations where you want to escalate straight to sex, i.e. in an isolation location, or on the way. Instructions 1. Create an imaginary scenario that takes you and your partner out of the present location and relationship status. 2. Use three situation-relevant activities to justify Overt DEL Touching. 3. Employ role-playing tonality, paint a scenario while escalating up the Ladder.

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The Drills Bootcamp 30. The Jackpot Method Purpose: To escalate rapidly using role-playing and the DEL in tandem. Being a guy, it can be easy to jump the gun and sleep with the first girl who makes herself available. Instead, use this simple strategy to gain access to all the women. Women are extremely status conscious, and constantly competing with each other. If you can leverage female psychology while maintaining discretion and frame control you’ll gain total sexual access. Instructions 1. Restrain from sleeping with any girl in the social circle until you sleep with the hottest one. 2. Discretion: if asked by any of the friends and just claim “We are just friends.” 3. Continue to move down the ladder to the next hottest, and so on. 4. As soon as you have slept with about 3 or 4, the rest will sleep with you in order to validate themselves.

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The Drills Bootcamp 31. Harem Management If men only knew how easy it is to have threesomes. Regular threesomes no longer have to just be a fantasy. It’s no secret that us guys would like a nice variety of women ‘on-call.’ Orgies made up of you and several women is not something reserved for sheikhs and rockstars. By leveraging women’s natural jealousy, and mastering the Us-frame, you can control the sexual dynamics of any combination of women and yourself. Just imagine – all the women and sex you want, with zero drama or headaches. Steps to building a harem, two girls at a time

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1. Go on a date with your first girl and a new girl.  Tell each girl that the other girl is just a friend 2. Become the common enemy to both of them (by being a “jerk” lots of teasing, living in your own reality) which allows them to form a bond 3. Escalate kino on both of them at an even pace. Do not go too far with either one. Manage emotions and jealousy of both girls 4. If you find one is starting to become jealous, use more of the “common enemy” theme to balance out. 5. Escalate to threesome (does not have to happen on first date). Threesome must appear to have “just happened.” A. Tell each that the other thinks she’s cute. B. Get them isolated, put on music, have some drinks ready. C. Kiss each one and qualify them on their skill. D. Tell the other that she is missing out. E. Have them kiss each other. F. Grope both of them. 6. Put their hands on you while continuing to kiss them both 7. Post threesome: After the first threesome, girls will both freak out to some degree. Take a very paternal attitude with women, reassuring them it was natural and fun. 8. Increase the frequency of threesomes, maintaining balance of jealousy while nurturing individual friendships with each girl.

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The Drills Bootcamp 32. Vision Compliance A man with a vision, a goal he is passionate about, is incredibly attractive to a woman. Most women won’t even date a man without any vision whatsoever. Not only do women find vision sexy, they want to contribute to that vision. Women are wired to want to contribute, to nurture and help a driven man succeed. By giving her opportunities to contribute to your vision, you keep her attracted, even devoted to you. Do this with women whom you want to play a significant role in your life. This is not for every woman you meet – just the ones who are really special to you. Instructions: 1. With your coach’s guidance, define your passion, and come up with five ways a woman can contribute to it. 2. Practice compliance requests using the proper phrasing: A. State your need and challenge B. Appeal to her self-image C. Us-frame her contribution

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The Drills Bootcamp 32 (cont’d). Steps for Vision Compliance Vision:

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The Drills Bootcamp Reflection and Manifestation What is your ideal lifestyle and how do women fit into it?

How will you know when you’ve achieved it?

If you knew that getting there was easy, what would be the very first step?

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The Drills Bootcamp Congratulations from the DiCarlo Team!

You made it! Be proud— you’ve earned it. But this is only the beginning… You now have the ability to be deeply successful in all of your social interactions, especially with women. Remember — Men who are successful with women never give up on themselves. So, if you’re ever feeling “rusty”, grab a friend, pick a drill that fixes your sticking point and give yourself a quick ‘check up.’ If you have any questions, please visit my website at http://www.VinDiCarlo.com. Also, feel free to contact your instructor directly by email. We love to hear from you—it’s what makes my job so fulfilling and rewarding. Thank you for choosing your instructor and I as your guides to an adventurous new lifestyle, filled with women. A beautiful, exciting journey awaits you…

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Product Catalog Mastermind Private Coaching You now have every skill, technique and tactic you need to get better with women… But you might not know the first step to take once this weekend is over. Because, after all, your first step could put you on the right path… Or one little slip-up could send you wandering down the wrong path forever. Mastermind Private Coaching acts like a road-map or trail guide, marking the right path in clear, easy-to-see detail. Each month, you’ll receive a printed newsletter, packed with the new thoughts, tactics and techniques from me, personally, and four of my top trainers, so you’ve got up-to-date tips and our newest revelations. Plus, you’ll also receive a monthly audio Briefing CD, where I go over everything from my personal techniques for threesomes, to interviews with the other “top guys” in pick-up, so you can see their stuff, first hand and free-of-charge. But the most important part, the down-right meat of Mastermind, is the live, private forum, where you can get real-time feedback from myself and my entire team of trainers, about your personal, specific sticking point or problem… So you’re never “left in the dark” ever again. So how do you get your hands on Mastermind Private Coaching? Simple. Swing on over to www.GetTheRedPill.com/trial, pick up your one-month free trial and check it out for yourself.

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Product Catalog The Attraction Code What if meeting, dating and taking-home beautiful women was as simple as thinking the ‘right’ way? And make no mistake about it, one way of thinking is better than all the others. In Drills, you discovered a set of behaviors and the right Focus to have when talking to women… that will get you great results with women right away. And in The Attraction Code, you can have a Focus, State, Expression reminder at your fingertips, while you apply what you learned in Drills. The Attraction Code acts like a refresher and a guidebook, all in one. While you follow Patrick’s journey with women, you’ll be reminded of the lessons that struck you hardest this weekend… … As well as pick up a few new discoveries that might not have “sunk in” right away. So, if you’re serious about becoming a stone-cold True Natural with women… and you want to master how a True Natural thinks… Then The Attraction Code is for you. If you want to learn more, head on over to www.AttractionCodeBook.com, enter your name and email address to get more information sent directly to you for no cost at all.

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Product Catalog Conversation Cure There isn’t one ‘right’ thing to say to a woman, because there are no magic words that will make her instantly fall in love with you. But the down-and-dirty truth is that most guys she meets every day get tongued-tied talking to her or as nervous as you (most of the time, even worse)… So when you can confidently approach a woman and start a smooth, interesting conversation with her, you automatically stand out in her mind as “one in a million”, and she might even think fate brought you together. The lessons in the Conversation Cure DVDs will show you how to never run out of things to say, so you can take any topic — even if you don’t know squat — and be able hold up your end of a conversation, for hours if you need to. Plus, you’ll also discover how to intimately know a girl without asking questions at all… and… How to design the one or two questions you ask to be so potent, she’ll tell you everything you need to know to seduce her. And you’ll also discover techniques that reveal why the “right thing” to say is a myth… but… How using these tried-and-true tactics will make your conversations so smooth, she’ll think you’re a match made in heaven. So, if you’re ready to have bullet-proof, stress-free conversations with beautiful women, and never fumble through another awkward pause or silence ever again, head on over to www.ConversationCure.com/cure and claim your copy of The Conversation Cure, today. 62

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Product Catalog NoFlakes! If you’re tired of girls not picking up their phones, refusing to meet you in person, or going “cold” on you for no reason, then NoFlakes! is for you. These simple text game techniques were developed by me and my friend Julian, using thousands of women’s phone numbers as test subjects. I’ve literally boiled down the absolute best phone-game strategies into a powerful ‘elixir’, and packed it into an easy-to-watch DVD seminar. You’ll discover how to get a girl so attracted to you — using only text messages — that she’ll sprint to her phone, every time it rings, like Barrack Obama was on the line. You’ll also discover a simple and easy-to-use system to get any girl from cyberspace to your place, pain-free and without a problem. And this system is so airtight, it will even work over the phone in as little as three nights. Plus, you’ll gain the unfair advantage of being able to keep that spark of attraction burning white-hot over the phone, alone… Even if it’s been two months (or MORE) since you last saw her in person. So, if you’re looking to make phone and text game not only EASY… But so guaranteed, you could copy the examples word-for-word and it would work flawlessly… … Then head on over to www.NoFlakesDVD.com/offer and pick up your copy, today. 63

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Product Catalog Dating Diablo If you’ve ever wanted to take a peek inside my “bag of dirty tricks” and discover the techniques — specifically — I use to get any woman from first-meet to sex in a scorching fast amount of time, then I’ve got an important surprise for you. You see, I teach guys just like you (in the Drills program, especially) how to develop your Focus until you’ve got your own tactics. But, I had so many men just like you emailing me, asking to get a glance of my secret techniques, the stuff I hold closest to the vest, that I finally caved in, sat down, and put every one of my best tactics on tape. This audio collection goes over how to take women on the “perfect” dates, which have ways for fast escalation — from meet to sex in under 2 hours — built right in, without being creepy or rushed. Plus, I lay out my personal “toolkit” and collection of tips that you can use to get physically closer and intimate with a woman, and make her think it was all her idea. And I’ll show you, step-by-step, my personal way of shaping a woman so that she will do damn-near-anything for me… Just so I’ll “reward” her with sex. (I believe this is every man’s dream) So, if you want to get your hands on a sneak-peek of my “bag of dirty tricks” head on over to www.DatingDiablo.com/enter and get your hands on a copy, today.

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