Dorothea Orem

 

DKPKTBHM HCG\M@HTB KPHE =.  @GKFPMIG DKPKTBHM KPHE

Dkrktbhm Hcgzm`htb Krhe cmbgr dg @mctgekrh, Emrycmjd pmdm tmjffmc =8 Lucg =7=4. @hcgmu wmimt pmdm tmjffmc 00 Lujg 0>>6. Dkrktbhm H. Krhe ehjlmcmjg phjdgdgdgamj shakcmb phrmwmtmj dg ruemb smagt ^rkvgdhjoh dg Vmsbgjftkj DO. Cucus smrlmjm eudm tmbuj =7?>. Cucus Emsthr ^hjdgdgamj Ahphrmwmtmj tmbuj =7?7. Tmbuj =748 `hahrlm dg Xjgvhrsgtms Amtkcga dg Mehrgam. _hcmem phrlmcmjmj amrghrjym gm thcmb `hahrlm sh`mfmg stmi  phrmwmt, phrmwmt tufms prg`mdg, phjdgdga, mdegjgstrmsg ahphrmwmtmj dmj sh`mfmg akjsuctmj (=76>).   Tmbuj =782-=787 sh`mfmg akjsuctmj dg Dhpmrthehj Ahshbmtmj pmdm `mfgmj  phjdgdgamj ahshlmbthrmmj dmj `hrpmrtgsgpmsg pmdm prkyha phcmtgbmj ahphrmwmtmj.   Tmbuj =787 akjshp ^hrmwmtmj Krhe dgpu`cgamsgamj phrtmem amcg.   Tmbuj =798 `hrfm`ujf dhjfmj Xjgvhrsgtms Amtkcga dg Mehrgam dmcme ehe`hjtua ekdhc thkrg Ahphrmwmtmj Akeujgtms.   Tmbuj =792 ehe`hjtua ahckepka akjihrhjsg phrahe`mjfmj ahphrmwmtmj, ymjf ehjfbmsgcamj ahrlm smem thjtmjf phrmwmtmj dmj dgsgpcgj ahphrmwmtmj.   Tmbuj =769 ehjdmpmt fhcmr Dkatkr Bkjkrgs Omusm.   Tmbuj =72> ehjdmpmt fhcmr phjfbmrfmmj dmrg mcuejg Xjgvhrsgtms Amtkcga Mehrgam thjtmjf thkrg ahphrmwmtmj.   _hcmjlutjym Krhe ehjfhe`mjfamj akjshp ahphrmwmtmj thjtmjf phrmwmtmj dgrg shjdgrg dmj dgpu`cgamsgamj dmcme ahphrmwmtmj (Okjohpt ki ^rmotgoh tmbuj =76=).   Tmbuj =72> ehepu`cgamsgamj `uau ahdum ymjf `hrgsg thjtmjf hdgsg phrtmem dgphrcums pmdm ahcumrfm, ahckepka dmj emsymrmamt.   Tmbuj =728 ehepucgamsgamj `uau ahdum ymjf `hrgsg thjtmjf ? thkrg ymgtu Thkrg _hci Omrh, Thkrg _hci Omrh Dhigogt, Thkrg Jursgjf _ysthe.

 

  0.  ^MPMDGFEM AH^HPMVMTMJ EHJXPXT DKPKTBHM KPHE ^mrmdgfem mdmcmb sumtu omrm dmcme ehephrshpsgamj mtmu ehemjdmjf shsumtu. ^mrmdgfem ehjlhcmsamj shsumtu dmcme ehembmeg sumtu tgjfamb cmau. ^mrmdgfem ehe`hrgamj dmsmr dmcme ehcgbmt, ehemjdmjf, ehe`hrg emajm, ehjygampg dmj ehegcgb tgjdmamj thrbmdmp `hr`mfmg ihjkehjm ymjf mdm dmcme ahphrmwmtmj. Ahphrmwmtmj ehrupmamj sumtu `hjtua phcmymjmj ymjf prkihsgkjmc, ymjf ehrupmamj `mfgmj gjthfrmc dmrg phcmymjmj ahshbmtmj `hrdmsmramj pmdm gceu dmj agmt ahphrmwmtmj, dhjfmj `hjtua phcmymjmj ehjomaup `gkpsgaksksgk-spgrgtumc ymjf dgtuluamj ahpmdm gjdgvgdu, ahcumrfm, ahckepka dmj emsymrmamt `mga shbmt emupuj smagt dmcme sgacus ahbgdupmj emjusgm. ^mrmdgfem Ahphrmwmtmj ehjurut Dkrktbhm Krhe (_hci-Omrh (_hci-Omrh Dhigogt Tbhkry ki  Jursgjf )   Emjusgm Krhe ehemjdmjf emjusgm shomrm tktmc dmj `hrsgimt ujgvhrsmc, dgemjm ehrham ehe`utubamj phrahe`mjfmj dmj ahemepumj phrmwmtmj dgrg shjdgrg shomrm  `hrahcmjlutmj. Emjusgm ehrupmamj sumtu ahsmtumj dmrg iujfsg `gkckfg, sge`kcga dmj sksgmc.   Cgjfaujfmj Cgjfaujfmj ehcgputg hchehj cgjfaujfmj, akjdgsg cgjfaujfmj shrtm phrahe`mjfmj cgjfaujfmj.   Ahphrmwmtmj Ehjurut Krhe, ahphrmwmtmj mdmcmb sumtu shjg, phcmymjmj/`mjtumj dmj thajkckfg. Tulumj dmrg ahphrmwmtmj mdmcmb ehe`umt pmsghj dmj ahcumrfmjym emepu ehcmauamj phrmwmtmj shjdgrg, dgmjtmrmjym ehephrtmbmjamj ahshbmtmj, ehjompmg akjdgsg jkremc ahtgam thrlmdg ahohcmammj mtmu `mbmym, shrtm ehjfkjtrkc, ehjstm`gcgsmsg dmj ehegjgemcgsmsg hiha dmrg pjymagt/akjdgsg ymjf arkjgs mtmu akjdgsg ahtgdmaemepumj.   Ahshbmtmj _hbmt mdmcmb sumtu akjdgsg ahtgam ahshcurubmj struatur dmj iujfsg smcgjf thrgjthfrmsg dhjfmj `mga. Bmc gjg eheujfagjamj emjusgm emepu ehjfbu`ujfamj `hr`mfmg emome ehamjgseh shomrm psgakckfgs, igsgkckfgs shrtm ehcmauamj gjthrmasg dhjfmj krmjf cmgj. ?.  AKE^KJHJ THKPG

  Thkrg _hci Omrh

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Xjtua ehembmeg thkrg shci omrh smjfmt phjtgjf thrch`gb dmbucu ehembmeg akjshp shci omrh, shci omrh mfhjoy, `msgo okjdgtgkjgjf imotkr dmj ah`utubmj shci omrh tbhrmphutga. _hci omrh mdmcmb phrikremjoh mtmu prmatha ahfgmtmj gjdgvgdu ujtua  `hrgjgsgmtgi dmj ehe`hjtua prgcmau ehrham dm dmcme cme eh ehehcgbmrm ehcgbmrm ahbgd ahbgdupmj, upmj, ahshbmtmj dmj ahshlmbthrmmj. Lgam shci omrh dg`hjtua dhjfmj hihatgi emam bmc thrsh`ut mamj ehe`mjtu ehe`hjtua gjthfrgtms struatur dmj iujfsg emjusgm dmj hrmt amgtmjjym dhjfmj  phrahe`mjfmj emjusgm. _hci omrh mfhjoy mdmcmb ahemepumj emjusgm mtmu ahaumtmj ujtua ehcmauamj shci omrh. Ahemepumj gjdgvgdu ujtua ehcmauamj shci omrh dgphjfmrubg kchb `msgo okjdgtgkjgjf imotkrs shphrtg1 ueur, lhjgs ahcmegj, stmtus phrahe`mjfmj, stmtus ahshbmtmj, krghjtmsg sksgmc `udmym, sgsthe phrmwmtmj ahshbmtmj (dgmfjkstga, phjmtmcmasmjmmj ekdmcgtms), sgsthe ahcumrfm, pkcm ahbgdupmj, cgjfaujfmj shrtm ahthrshdgmmj sue`hr.

 

Ah`utubmj shci omrh tbhrmphutga (Tbhrmphutgo shci omrh dhemjd) mdmcmb ehrupmamj tktmcgtms dmrg ttgjdmamj gjdmamj shci omrh y ymjf mjf dggjgsgmtgi dmj dg`hjtua ujtua ehehjubg ah`utubmj shci omrh dhjfmj ehjffujmamj ehtkdh ymjf vmcgd ymjf `hrbu`ujfmj dhjfmj tgjdmamj ymjf mamj dgcmauamj. Akjshp cmgj ymjf `hrbu`ujfmj dhjfmj thkrg shci omrh mdmcmb shci omrh rhqugsgth. Krhe ehjfgdhjtgigamsgamj tgfm amtmfkrg shci omrh rhqugsgth <   Xjgvhrsmc ehcgputg1 udmrm, mgr emamjmj dmj hcgegjmsg, matgigtms dmj gstgrmbmt, skcgtudh dmj gjthrmasg sksgmc, phjohfmbmj ahrusmamj bgdup, ahshlmbthrmmj dmj  phjgjfamtmj iujfsg emjusgm. Dhvhckpehjtmc, ch`gb abusus dmrg ujgvhrsmc dgbu`ujfamj dhjfmj akjdgsg ymjf ehjgjfamtamj prkshs phjfhe`mjfmj sgacus ahbgdupmj shphrtg1 phahrlmmj `mru,  phru`mbmj struatur tu`ub dmj ahbgcmjfmj ahbgcmj fmj rme`ut.   ^hru`mbmj ahshbmtmj (Bhmctb Dhvgmtgkj) `hrbu`ujfmj dhjfmj mag`mt thrlmdgjym  phru`mbmj struatur jkremc dmj ahrusmamj gjthfrgtms gjdgvgdu ujtua ehcmauamj shci omrh mag`mt sumtu phjymagt mtmu gjlury.  

  Thkrg _hci Omrh Dhigogt

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Ehrupmamj bmc utmem dmrg thkrg fhjhrmc ahphrmwmtmj ehjurut Krhe. Dmcme thkrg gjg ahphrmwmtmj dg`hrgamj lgam shkrmjf dhwmsm (mtmu pmdm amsus ahthrfmjtujfmj) tgdma emepu mtmu thr`mtms dmcme ehcmauamj shci omrh shomrm hihatgi. Ahphrmwmtmj dg`hrgamj lgam ahemepumj ehrmwmt `hraurmjf mtmu tgdma dmpmt thrphjubg mtmu mdmjym ahthrfmjtujfmj. Krhe ehjfgdhjtgigamsg cgem ehtkdh ymjf dmpmt dgfujmamj dmcme ehe`mjtu shci omrh<   Tgjdmamj ujtua mtmu cmauamj ujtua krmjf cmgj.   Ehe`hrgamj phtujlua dmj phjfmrmbmj.   Ehe`hrgamj duaujfmj igsga dmj psyobkckfgs.   Ehe`hrgamj dmj ehehcgbmrm cgjfaujfmj ymjf ehjduaujf phjfhe`mjfmj  phrskjmc.   ^hjdgdgamj. ^hrmwmt dmpmt ehe`mjtu gjdgvgdu dhjfmj ehjffujmamj `h`hrmpm mtmu sheum ehtkdh thrsh`ut dmcme ehehjubg shci omrh.

  Thkrg Jursgjf _ysthe

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 Jursgjf systhe dgdhsmgj kchb phrmwmt dgdmsmramj pmdm ah`utubmj shci omrh dmj ahemepumj pmsghj ehcmauamj shci omrh. Lgam mdm shci omrh dhigsgt, shci omrh mfhjoy dmj ah`utubmj shci omrh tbhrmphutga emam ahphrmwmtmj mamj dg`hrgamj. Jursgjf mfhjoy mdmcmb sumtu prkphrtg mtmu mtrg`ut ymjf chjfamp dg`hrgamj ujtua krmjf-krmjf ymjf thcmb dgdga dmj dgcmtgb sh`mfmg phrmwmt ymjf dmpmt ehcmauamj, ehjfhtmbug dmj ehe`mjtu krmjf cmgj ujtua ehjheuamj ah`utubmj shci omrh thrmphutga ehrham, ehcmcug phcmtgbmj dmj phjfhe`mjfmj shci omrh mfhjoy. 4.  ^HJHPM^MJ THKPG KPHE ^hjhrmpmj thkrg shci omrh Dkrktbhm Krhe dgdmsmramj pmdm tgfm thkrg ymjf  `hrikaus pmdm phrmj emjusgm dmcme ehjyhge`mjfamj ahbgdupmj, ahshbmtmj dmj ahshlmbthrmmj dhjfmj ehrmwmt dgrg ehrham shjdgrg. ^hrmj phrmwmt mdmcmb ehehjubg ah`utubmj phrmwmtmj dgrg acghj ujtua ehjompmg ahemjdgrgmj dmj ahshbmtmj ymjf kptgemc.

 

  ^hjfhckcmmj DE ehrupmamj phjfhckcmmj phjymagt ymjf ehcg`mtamj ahrlm smem euctgdgsgpcgj gceu, pmsghj dmj ahcumrfm dmcme ehjfhjdmcgamj fucm dmrmb dhjfmj ehcmauamj cmtgbmj igsga, msupmj jutrgsg ymjf thrhjomjm, akjtrkc fcgahega (imremakckfg), dmj hduamsg ujtua ehjgjfamtamj shci omrh emjmfhehjt. _mcmb smtu  prkfrme ymjf dgrhakehjdmsgamj kchb MDM (0>=?) ujtua ehjgjfamtamj shci omrh  pmsghj mdmcmb Dgm`htgo _hci Emjmfhehjt Hduomtgkj (D_EH). ^hjhrmpmj shci omrh tbhkry pmdm pmsghj DE `hrtulumj ujtua ehjompmg phrmwmtmj dgrg mtmu ah`h`msmj ehrmwmt dgrg dgemjm pmsghj bmrus ehegcgag ahemepumj ujtua ehjfhjmc, ehevmcgdmsg ehjfhjmg mjmtkeg dmj igsgkckfg emjusgm ymjf `hrgjthfrmsg dmcme cgjfamrmj ahbgdupmj dhjfmj ehcmauamj bmc-bmc dg`mwmb gjg <   ^hehcgbmrmmj ahouaupmj phemsuamj udmrm   ^hehcgbmrmmj ahouaupmj phemsuamj emamjmj   ^hehcgbmrmmj ahouaupmj phemsuamj omgrmj   Ehephrtmbmjamj bu`ujfmj phrmwmtmj prkshs hcgegjmsg dmj hasrhsg   ^hehcgbmrmmj ahshge`mjfmj mjtmrm matgvgtms dmj gstgrmbmt   ^hehcgbmrmmj ahshge`mjfmj mjtmrm skcgtudh dmj gjthrmasg sksgmc   ^hjohfmbmj rhsgak-rhsgak ujtua bgdup, akekr`gdgtms, iujfsg usgm dmj ahshbmtmj emjusgm   ^hjgjfamtmj prkeksg iujfsg tu`ub dmj phjfge`mjfmj emjusgm dmcme ahckepka sksgmc shsumg dhjfmj pkthjsgjym Thkrg Krhe dgdmsmramj pmdm tgfm akjstrua utmem ymgtu ahbmrusmj phrmwmtmj dgrg,  phrmwmtmj dgrg dmj sgsthe ahphrmwmtmj. _hjtrmc dmrg thkrg Krhe mdmcmb ahymagjmj  `mbwm gjdgvgdu `hriujfsg ujtua ehephrtmbmjamj b bgdup, gdup, ahshbmtmj dmj ah ahshlmbthrmmj shlmbthrmmj dhjfmj ehrmwmt dgrg ehrham shjdgrg. Lgam gjdgvgdu tgdma emepu ehehjubg ah`utubmjjym (ahbmrusmj phrmwmtmj dgrg), emam thrlmdg dhigsgt phrmwmtmj dgrg dmj tge`uc tujtutmj phrmwmtmj dgrg thrmuphtga ymjf ehjfmrmb pmdm `mjtumj phrmwmtmj. Ahtgfm ahbmrusmj dgrg mdmcmb ujgvhrsmc, phrahe`mjfmj dmj phjygepmjfmj ahshbmtmj. Ahtgam ah`utubmj phrmwmtmj dgrg ehch`gbg ampm`gcgtms phrmwmtmj dgrg gjdgvgdu, emam thrlmdg dhigsgt phrmwmtmj dgrg.