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Claris G. Ladica

II-7 BSEVE

Reflection Paper: Alfred Adler I am belong to getting type and avoiding type of lifestyle. I depend on others in a way that when there is something school works to do, I usually can’t do it all by myself because I depend on their ideas and on how they’ll going to do it. I can’t start without knowing on how they did it. On this matter is I consider myself that I’m dependent to others. This happens maybe because I don’t trust myself and I have low self-esteem which makes me feel inferior. I am also belong to the type of lifestyle which is called avoiding type because I am lack of self-confidence. I avoid situations like being a leader or representative one because of the thinking that I can’t do. This kinds of lifestyle has a big impact on what I am striving right now because this limits myself on what I can do. That I can create on my own without getting the idea of others first and that I can also by believing on myself. I should gain more self-confidence by believing and trusting myself and not being afraid of any rejections because this is already given. I should be open to any criticisms and opinions that I may receive because this will help me to improve more and do more. In terms of social interest, I’m not kind of a selfish person who strive only for the benefit of themselves because I consider others first before me. I n this theory, I learned that inferiority is normal I have also weakness but staying on that weakness makes e abnormal so I should not deal with it anymore and I should know more my strengths.

Rejie I. Yaris II-7 BSEVE Socially Useful What is my lifestyle? Does my lifestyle is mistaken? What is the basis of mistaken lifestyle of life? Do I have social interest? If I view my lifestyle in accordance to my superiority, I know that there is no mistake for I’m not hurting others. For example, I’m afraid to say what I notice wrong in my friend because I’m afraid that they will be offended when I say it to them in a good way especially if what I’m going to say is good for them. On the other hand, if I view it in terms of social interest, I know that I have it. For example, just like in achieving my superiority, I’m not doing it just for me but also for others; for them to improve too. Another example is my goal to graduate as a teacher. It is not only for me but also for others because I want to share to them everything I know that will help them to lead a better life. So to sum it all, I know that I am a socially useful type of person because I care for the welfare of others and I have social interest in my life.