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Banter Lines

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For when she says something dumb

Banter Lines

To suggest she’s hitting on you

The best way to deliver the lines below is to exaggerate how little sense she is making. This is a good time to be animated, and a slightly childish.

The lines below are meant to be delivered as it becomes clear you’re hitting on her. The way to deliver these lines is you know she wants you, but she won’t admit it.

What am I going to do with you: • It’s a good thing you’re pretty cuz when those looks go you’re gonna be in trouble • Now are you just making shit up as you go along? • Let’s play a game and see how long you can hold your breath • You’re aware you’re still talking right? • Bartender, I think you need to cut her off

The Cat’s out of the bag: • What did you come over here just to flirt with me? • So what else do you like about me? • Stop undressing me with your yes • Did you slip roofies in my drink? • You’re looking at me like a fat kid looks at a cheeseburger

Remember, you don’t want to come across mean or insulting, just playful and fun.

Remember, these lines work best if you’ve already used one of the other banter lines above. You NEED to banter immediately. If not, these lines can be taken out of context later in the conversation.

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Interest Signs

For before you approach her

Although I never recommend waiting for signs of interest before approaching a girl you want to talk to. (Don’t wait for interest to approach. Create interest by approaching.) Here are some signals girls will give to hint to you that she wants you to approach. Signs that she wants you to approach: • She gets closer to you in proximity • She keeps making eye contact or smiling at you • She eave drops on your conversation • She has a friend talk to you to fish for information On the other side of this card you’ll get signs that she likes you and that should continue talking to her and begin escalating the conversation after the approach. Cheat Sheet for

Fun Openers

Basic Openers

For when you can think of anything

My favorite type of opener is when you comment on something that’s going on around you, or invite her into a conversation you’re already having. But if that’s not possible, use one of these. Opening lines for any situation: • Hey. You look like you’re having the most fun here out of anyone (said with relaxed sarcasm) • Hey. Let me guess, you’re from_____________ • Hey (yes, this works) These openers are simple and will get a girl talking to you. In “easy” environments these are more than enough to get her attention.

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For when you’re in a playful mood

While the situational opener is my favorite. Sometimes if I’m in a playful mood, Ill use one of these to ‘goof’ with a girl. Done right they are really effective as they quickly establish you as a fun guy.

Opinion Openers

For built in topics to talk about

Opinion openers are great for situations where you want to start the conversation off with an interesting topic.

Opening lines for any situation: • Is it cool for a dude to wear makeup • What’s your favorite dinosaur • You wanna know why you suck?_____________ • I’m lost I can’t find my friends and Im scared • The voices in my head told me to come over and say hi

Begin opener with “Can I get your opinion on something?” • Do drunk I love you’s count? • Who lies more men or women? • If your girlfriend kisses another girl… is it cheating? • Do you think mic Jagger is sexy? • Would you go on the Maury show to have a secret admirer revealed to you • Is it ok to break up with someone over text?

The important thing to remember about these openers is that they have be said playful so that she immediately assumes you’re just having fun with her.

If you use any of these openers make sure that you have the back story ready. These openers rely on you having a reason for asking.

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Motivation

How to get yourself to approach

The best way to get yourself motivated enough to approach a girl is to change the meaning you give it. Instead of making it a life or death situation… simply aim to do one of the following.

Talking to Women

15 Tips to Keep in Mind

Here are 15 tips to keep in mind while talking to a woman.

Ways to make approaching more fun: • Play a role (pretend you are an actor) • Be a detective trying to discover what she likes • Be purposely ‘uncool’ and a little goofy just for fun • Turn it into a game • Give her a story to tell her friends • Practice Faking confidence

Attraction building tips: • Lead the conversation- don’t wait for her to dictate it • Talk about topics that evoke emotions • Pay attention to the non-verbal cues she is giving you • Remember the motto: Women like “fun” not funny • Tease her • Take the conversation to rated r • Use things like cold reads to show you understand her • Avoid complimenting her too much

Doing any of the listed above will make the experience more fun.

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Teasing Her

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What to tease a girl about

Conversation Topics

4 ‘go to’ topics

Teasing her in one of the best ways to begin flirting with her. IF you listen to her, you’ll find things to tease her about. Here are some things to look out for:

These topics will keep a conversation moving forward toward rapport, attraction, and sexuality. This is the exact order you should bring the topics up in.

Things you can look to tease a girl about: • Her bossy side • Her “blonde” side • Double entendres • Her wild side • Her naivetés or gullibility • Her paranoia

The Four best topics to bring up: • Glorified Gossip (drama, jerry springer type stuff) • Early childhood memories (tv shows, stories, playground) • Future ambitions (get her talking about her ideal life) • Observations about her (notice things about her)

Basically you’re looking for things she says or does that demonstrate any of these things. (on the back are things to remember when teasing)

These topics are so effective because they build rapport, provide hooks, elicit emotions, highlight your value, and lead to sexuality. (more topics on back)

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Banter Lines

To set the tone of the interaction

Ideally you want to get across 3 or 4 banter lines before you move into normal conversation The best way to deliver these lines is like you just realized something about her. Your knee jerk reaction to her: • You and I aren’t going to get along • You guys are tourist aren’t you • Don’t say anything, you’re cute… you’ll mess it up • You’re cool. You can help me pickup chicks. • You usually hang out at the library don’t you • Oh, so you’re one of THOSE Don’t dwell on the banter line. If she pries to try to get you to explain more just let it roll off. Give a sly smile and change the subject. Cheat Sheet for

Interest Signs

Banter Lines

For when she’s acting bitchy

The lines below should be delivered with the attitude that you know beneath her tough exterior she is a cute little puppy dog. I’m going to make you smile no matter how hard you resist: • Oh… we’ve got grumpy smurf here • Ooh she is very hostile when she hasn’t taken her nap • I love it when you talk mean to me • I bet you have a real cute side somewhere. You just don’t show it • Stop playing hard to get. You know im better at it • Looks like someone put on their cranky pants this morning. These lines are meant for a girl who is not giving you much to go with or is giving you a little bit of an attitude. Cheat Sheet for

For After you’ve been talking to her

Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

Its good to have an idea of where you stand with a girl after you’ve been talking to her for a while.

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep some simple strategies in mind.

Signs that she you should escalate: • She tries to keep the conversation going so you don’t leave • She tries to find out if you’re single • She keeps moving closer towards you or touches you alot • She gives you a flirtatious nickname • She’ll try to make future plans for the two of you to do • She laughs at all your jokes (even the unfunny ones • She is eager to introduce you to her friends • She calls you a “player” or “heartbreaker”

How to create the best chance of success: • Come in at the same energy level she is at • Don’t invade her personal space • Talk to her friends if they are around • Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it) • Don’t hesitate before approaching (she will notice) • Don’t overthink- be spontaneous • Have laid back body language • Use a time constraint

If you are getting a few of these signs it’s time to escalate.

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

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Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep some simple strategies in mind.

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep some simple strategies in mind.

How to create the best chance of success: • Come in at the same energy level she is at • Don’t invade her personal space • Talk to her friends if they are around • Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it) • Don’t hesitate before approaching (she will notice) • Don’t overthink- be spontaneous • Have laid back body language • Use a time constraint

How to create the best chance of success: • Come in at the same energy level she is at • Don’t invade her personal space • Talk to her friends if they are around • Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it) • Don’t hesitate before approaching (she will notice) • Don’t overthink- be spontaneous • Have laid back body language • Use a time constraint

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

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Motivation

How to get yourself to approach

Sometimes the best way to get you to take action is to get a slap in the face with reality. Below are little doses of it that should inspire you to act. Things to keep in mind next to you hesitate to approach: • You never regret the approaches you make (only the ones you don’t make) • At the end of your life are you going to say I wish I approached less girls? Or more? • If you want to achieve greatness, stop waiting for permission • Every “no” is one step closer to the girls of your dreams • An entire lifetime of sexual frustration can change with one approach (continued on back)

15 Tips to Keep in Mind

Here are 15 tips to keep in mind while talking to a woman. Attraction building tips: • Make statements instead of asking questions • Avoid “interview mode” you like the plague • Don’t hide your identity. Don’t blindly agree with her • Never compliment her on her eyes, looks or body • Say something that expresses sexual desire for her • Touch her • Use conversation games and take her back to the playground • Don’t give away your hand too fast. Let her work to keep you interested • Be prepared to do 90% of the talking when you first approach (continued on back) Cheat Sheet for

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Teasing Her

Talking to Women

Things to remember when teasing

Teasing her in one of the best ways to begin flirting with her. IF you listen to her, you’ll find things to tease her about. Here are some things to look out for: Things you to keep in mind: • Always be “playful” no t mean • Avoid teasing her about physical appearance • Be clear and remember girls aren’t always so bright • If something works, go back to it throughout the conversation • You always have to have the better comeback if she starts teasing you back The biggest thing to keep in mind is to avoid making asshole comments and instead concentrate on being playful.

Conversation Topics

8 More topics

A good topic should create connection, provide hooks, emotions, sexuality, make you human, and highlight your best qualities The 8 more of the best topics to bring up: • Travel • Pop culture • Observations of things around you • Lessons learned overcoming odds • Music • Food (oddly sexual) • Unusual experiences (meeting someone famous, scary) • Passions and interests