Best Sexual Positions for Having an Orgasm

Best Sexual Positions for Having an Orgasm

An illustrated guide for making art out of love. By Ashley Collins

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Copyright © 2015 – Ashley Collins All Rights Reserved The information included in this book is for educational purposes only and is not meant to be a substitute for seeking the advice of a professional. The author and publisher have made best efforts to ensure the information in this book is accurate, however, they make no warranties as to the accuracy or completeness of the contents herein and cannot be held responsible for any errors, omissions, or dated material. This book contains depictions of sexual positions that help you climax, regardless of my own results and experience, may not produce the same results for you. The author makes absolutely no guarantee, expressed or implied, that by following the advice, or using the data below, you will achieve the desired results. As with any advice, you assume all risk related to the overall expected results based on your own discretion and at your own potential expense. Liability Disclaimer: By reading this book, you assume all risks associated with using the advice, data and suggestions given below, with a full understanding that you, solely, are responsible for anything that may occur as a result of putting this information into action in any way, and regardless of your interpretation of the advice. You further agree that our company cannot be held responsible in any way for the success or failure of these methods as a result of the information presented below. It is your responsibility to conduct your own due diligence regarding the safe and successful methods and positions mentioned in this book.

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Table of Contents Introduction .................................................................................................................................................. 5 The Missionary .............................................................................................................................................. 6 The Doggie Style............................................................................................................................................ 7 The Woman on Top....................................................................................................................................... 8 The Spoons .................................................................................................................................................... 9 The 69 position ........................................................................................................................................... 10 The Erotic V ................................................................................................................................................. 11 The Rocking Horse ...................................................................................................................................... 12 The Glowing Triangle .................................................................................................................................. 13 The X-rated.................................................................................................................................................. 14 The Padlock ................................................................................................................................................. 15 The Slide ...................................................................................................................................................... 16 The Ascent of Desire ................................................................................................................................... 17 The Clip ....................................................................................................................................................... 18 The Crouching Tiger .................................................................................................................................... 19 The Hero...................................................................................................................................................... 20 The Ship....................................................................................................................................................... 21 The Snail ...................................................................................................................................................... 22 The Hinge .................................................................................................................................................... 23 The Challenge.............................................................................................................................................. 24 The Perch .................................................................................................................................................... 25 The Right Angle ........................................................................................................................................... 26 The Eagle ..................................................................................................................................................... 27 The Afternoon Delight ................................................................................................................................ 28 The Mermaid............................................................................................................................................... 29 Conclusions ................................................................................................................................................. 30

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Introduction Ever since the dawn of time, making love has been one of the most intimate and pleasurable activity that can occur between humans. Depictions of this activity have been found in places all over the world from Paleolithic cave paintings, Egyptian erotic papyrus to Asian and European documents and books describing in detail the art of love making. In this book you will find a series of sexual positions that helped couples to reach orgasms and have been recommended during therapy sessions. Each sexual position is depicted through various pictures in order to understand it better and to avoid any possible injuries that may occur for you and your partner. Even more for each position you will find some additional notes to help you perform better and to know if there are possible risks due to the complexity of the position, surface on which the sexual act is perform or the body structure of the partners. Sex is an activity that should be enjoyed by both partners and that is why we recommended to try various positions from this book until you find something you like and that both you and your partner feel comfortable about doing it. Upon trying these positions you will discover that some of them can help you climax faster while others will build up excitement for a more explosive orgasm. To diversify your sexual life we suggest including the positions you like in your daily sex life and add a little bit of excitement for the bedroom. Use this book as an alternative when you feel your love life has become boring or has lost it touch.

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We can start first by depicting the most commonly used sexual position in the United States, to discover what men and women prefer when it comes down to love making.

The Missionary This was voted the most favorite position by the American people. It still leads as number one and it may prove that we are not as adventurous as we like to think.

How to do it: In the missionary position, the woman has to lie on her back with the legs spread either flat or raised toward her chest. The partner approaches her on his knees between her spread legs and uses his hands or elbows to hold himself.

A few notes about “The Missionary”: The missionary position is one of the most intimate positions there is as both partners have direct eye contact and are locked in a strong embrace. In this position the man can kiss his partner or arch his back and kiss and caress the woman’s breasts. Anal penetration is not recommended for this position. 6 © 2015 Ashley Collins – All rights reserved

The Doggie Style

This is the second most favorite position of the American people, in fact it is one of the most used sexual position in the entire world. It seems that this is one of the most common positions worldwide and it is due mainly to the fact that in this position it’s much easier to find the G-spot. It's also a position that men really enjoy because it's quite primal. He gets to feel powerful and can see the mechanics of what's going on at the same time. Men love that for some reason.

How to do it: The woman kneels on all fours with the legs opened; the man kneels up from behind holding the woman by her hips. He can create momentum by pulling her towards him and she can use her hands to push herself and create thrust.

A few notes about “The Doggie Style” This is one of the positions preferred by men as it is quite primal and make them feel powerful. In this position the man can see the mechanics of the penetration and he can interact with the partner’s breasts. For some couples this position is also preferred as the man can hold down the woman by her hair or by the back of her neck, creating a dominance feeling for him and a submissive feeling for her. It is also a good position for anal penetration and/or for involvement of sex toys (vibrator, beads, etc). 7 © 2015 Ashley Collins – All rights reserved

The Woman on Top

This position, also known as the cowgirl was voted as third most favorite by our fellow compatriots. It seems men like to have a powerful woman on top and women enjoy the ride. The name derives from the image of the woman riding her partner just as a cowgirl would ride a bucking horse.

How to do it: In this position the man lies down on his back with the woman straddling across his pelvis facing him forward in a kneeling or squatting position. The woman aligns her vagina and lowers herself onto the penis, controlling the up and down motion and the rhythm.

A few notes about “The Woman on Top” In this position the woman can control the depth and motion of penetration. She can lean on her partner’s chest or lean back and stimulate her clitoris. This is a position preferred by women as the man’s hands are free and he can touch her breasts, clitoris, buttocks, face, etc maintain eye contact. The man can also stimulate her breasts, suck on her nipples if he raises his torso towards her.

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The Spoons

Also known as spooning, this position comes fourth when it comes to the sexual preferences of Americans. It is preferred by both partners as it is a good cuddling position after partners have reached orgasm.

How to do it: In this position the woman lies on one side with the knees bent while the other partner lies with his front pressed against her back in preparation for rear-entry penetration. Based on the body build of the partners the upper bodies can be separated with just the pelvis area connecting. The receiving partner can also lift the upper knee to ease up the penetration. A few notes about “The Spoons”: This position allows for a great amount of intimacy between partners, allowing full body contact and cuddling. The woman can stimulate her own clitoris or the partner’s scrotum, while the man can stimulate her breasts. It is a position recommended for low intensity sex as it takes longer for the man to reach orgasm and both partners have control over the angle of penetration. It is a position recommended for when you are tired, for when a woman is pregnant (it doesn’t cause any abdominal pressure), for the people recovering from illness or for the elderly couples as it doesn’t require muscle strain. Anal sex is also possible in this position and sex toy can be used. 9 © 2015 Ashley Collins – All rights reserved

The 69 position

Surprisingly this position comes on the fifth place when it comes to the sexual preferences of American men and women, equality at last! The participants are mutually inverted like the numerals six and nine, their bodies creating the number 69, hence the name.

How to do it: In this position the partners align themselves so that each person’s mouth is near the other’s genitals, simultaneously performing oral sex. Depending on preferences the partners may chose who gets to stay on top. Depending on the body build or energy levels, this position can also be performed with both partners on their sides, creating a more relaxed state. A few notes about “The Sixty-Nine”: This position can be awkward of difficult to achieve if partners are not similar in height. For everything to go well both partners have to be into it and not focus only on pleasuring themselves. While doing 69 the partners can mutually stimulate the anal area and use toys like vibrators or dildos.

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If you are tired of trying these positions over and over again, say no more. Here are some of the positions that helped couples to reignite the fire and learn new ways to climax.

The Erotic V

How to do it: For this position you will require a piece of furniture or something on which the woman can sit. For example she can sit down on a table edge with the legs raised up. The man stands before her and aligns with her vagina, he bends his legs to find the best penetration angle. The woman braces herself by putting her arms around his neck, why she holds onto him she raises her legs on his shoulders. She can lean back and direct the trusting or she can let him control the motion. A few notes about “The Erotic V”: This position requires some good stamina and is recommended to use precaution depending on the body type of the partners. In this position partners have a good eye contact and they can kiss without effort, the man can also massage the woman’s breasts. Anal penetration is also possible from this position if the woman leans back and has good support.

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The Rocking Horse

How to do it: In this position the man has to sit cross-legged on the floor or on a mattress and support himself with both arms behind him. The woman kneels over his lap, hugging him with her thighs and lowers herself down on the erect penis. She can control the depth and speed of penetration while holding the man by his shoulders or hugging him. A few notes about “The Rocking Horse”: The rocking horse allows eye contact and kissing, the man can simulate her neck, breast and nipples with his mouth but his movements are restricted as he cannot use his hands. In order to avoid making this position painful, the man can lean onto the edge of the bed, or the wall. From this position the woman can stimulate her clitoris and anal penetration is also possible.

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The Glowing Triangle

How to do it: This position is similar to the classic missionary position. The woman lies on her back with the legs spread and the man stays on top. The main difference is that the men stays on all four holding his weight on the elbows, knees and toes. The woman has to lift herself towards his penis so that penetration can occur. The man remains still and the woman does all the work, controlling the angle and speed of penetration. A few notes about “The Glowing Triangle”: In this position the man can get very tired depending on his points of support. This position allows eye contact and kissing, but that is pretty much it. The woman can also tease her partner and scratch his back as this position doesn’t allow action movement for him.

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The X-rated

How to do it: The man lies on his back with his legs spread and the woman straddles him with her back towards her partner. She has to extend the legs back, over his shoulders, leaning her torso onto the bed between his feet. Both their legs should form an X, hence the name, and the woman can start sliding up and down on his penis. She can use his feet to add more thrust. A few notes about “The X-rated”: In this position the woman has total control over the penetration act and she is in charge of her orgasm. The man has a perfect view of the mechanics and he can stimulate her anal are with his finger or with sex toys. Some women prefer to be slapped on their buttocks while performing in this position.

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The Padlock

How to do it: The woman has to climb on a high piece of furniture (table, desk, etc) and sits down on the edge, supporting herself with the arms behind her. The man stands before her and she wraps her legs around his hips as he leans in to penetrate her from a descending angle.

A few notes about the Padlock: In this position both partners have eye contact and the male can massage her breast with one or both hands. In case he uses both hands she will support his weight and control the thrust by pushing forward. Be aware of the surface the man is standing on, as due to the angle of penetration, he can slip and injure himself.

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The Slide

How to do it: The man lies on his back on the bed or on a harder surface, the woman lies on top of him keeping her legs together. She puts his arms around his neck or holds him by the shoulders and while he penetrates her she begins to rub up and down his body.

A few notes about “The Slide”: This position is easy to master and provides a feeling of tightness for both partners. The man can use his hands to grab the buttocks of his lover. This position provides a great deal of intimacy and kissing is recommended. It is much easier to perform in this position if one of the partners has a slim figure.

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The Ascent of Desire

How to do it: For this position it is recommended that the man is fit and that he can lift his partner without problems. The man stands with feet firmly on the ground and knees slightly bent. She stands before him and he lifts her onto him as she wraps her legs around his hips and grabs him by the shoulders. You can also start this position by sitting on the bed and lift slowly while she is in position. The weight should help with deep penetration as she moves up and down. A few notes about “The Ascent of Desire”: This position allows eye contact and kissing, the woman relies on her partner to keep her safe and relaxed. He can’t stimulate her as he has to lift her and control the penetration thrust. Anal penetration is also possible in this position.

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The Clip

How to do it: The man will lay on his back with the legs closed tight. The woman will sit down onto his erect penis and once he is carefully inside her, she bends backwards supporting herself with her hands. A few notes about “The Clip”: The woman is in charge with the rhythm and speed of penetration making sure the penis doesn’t slip out. He can use his hands to stimulate her clitoris and breasts while enjoying the view. This position is also good for anal sex.

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The Crouching Tiger

How to do it: The man lies on his back on a bed with his knees of the edge, feet on the ground. The woman squats over his erect penis, facing away with her arms between her legs. He holds her by the bottom as she moves up and down. A few notes about “The Crouching Tiger”: This position requires some thigh power and stamina for the woman but she can also be supported by her partner. She can reach her clitoris or stroke his penis or testicles from this position. She also controls the depth of penetration and the motion that goes with it. This position is also recommended for anal sex, assuring a good field of view for the man.

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The Hero

How to do it: For this sex position the woman lies on her back, pulling her knees up to her chest, feet extending up towards the ceiling. The man kneels down under her bum so she can rest on him as he penetrates her. He can use his hands to press her thighs back or grab on to them to provide more thrust. A few notes about “The Hero”: This position provides a good penetration angle and it’s not uncomfortable for the woman. She has the hands free and she is able to stimulate her clitoris. The same goes for the man as he can use his hands in order to stimulate her clitoris or play with her breasts. Anal penetration is also possible in this position and the woman can use sex toys as she has her hands free.

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The Ship

How to do it: To perform this position the man will lay on his back with the woman simply sitting down on him with both legs to one side, looking like a boat on the water. The man will hold her in place as she moves up and down, holding her weight on her legs. A few notes about “The Ship”: In this position the woman controls the movement and depth of penetration as the man sits backs and enjoys the view. She can stimulate her clitoris with her hands from this position or use a vibrator. This position is also ideal for anal sex as it assures a good penetration. The woman has to be careful not to put too much weight on the man as injuries may occur.

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The Snail

How to do it: Another position preferred by women as they can easily climax. She will lay flat, pulling her knees into her chest and throws her feet over the shoulders of her partner. He kneels in front of her and penetrates her, taking his weight on his hands on either side of her shoulders. A few notes about “The Snail”: This position provides a deep penetration and it is recommended for the woman to be sufficiently lubricated if her partner is well gifted, all this to avoid any pain for her. This position assures a good angle for both vaginal and anal penetration and the woman can use her hands to stimulate her clitoris. It is one of the positions recommended for when trying to conceive as the man can ejaculate proper in this position.

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The Hinge

How to do it: This position is similar to the doggie style one but is slightly different. The man kneels up, leaning backwards and using one arm to support himself. The woman is facing away in doggy position. She straddles him, leaning forwards onto her elbows and thrusting herself backwards onto him. A few notes about “The Hinge”: This sex position is a good one as it allows deep penetration, both anal and vaginal. The man can use his spare hand to play with her clitoris, caress and tease. Leaning back, the man has a good position from which he can spank her buttocks or pull her hair. From this position the man can also stimulate her anal area or use an anal dildo.

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The Challenge

How to do it: For this challenging position you will need to use a sturdy chair, to be flexible and have a good strength. The woman leans forward in a sitting position with her feet on the chair and her elbows on her knees. The man penetrates her from behind while keeping a firm hold of her waist to keep her balance. A few words about “The Challenge”: This is a position recommended for deep penetration, both anal and vaginal. It can become tiresome for the woman if the sex act lasts too long. In this position the woman can slip on hand between her knees to stimulate her clitoris or her partner’s penis. A vibrator can also be used, preferably one with a remote.

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The Perch

How to do it: For this position you will need a sturdy chair on which the man sits with his partner perched on his lap. She has her back to him and uses the strength in her legs to make an up and down movement, leaning back and forth to control the angle of penetration. A few notes about “The Perch”: In this position both vaginal and anal penetration is possible and both the man and woman have their hands free. He can use his hands to stimulate her breasts or her clitoris while kissing her neck. She can use her hands as well to stimulate her clitoris or use a vibrator.

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The Right Angle

How to do it: For this position you need a tall bed or you can use a table. The woman will lie on her back with her bottom at the edge of the bed or table to allow penetration. Her partner stands in front of her and enters her from the right angle. If the woman grips hold of the man by crossing her ankles behind his back and he presses himself against her, the pressure will mount, giving both partners intense pleasure. A few notes about “The Right Angle”: The man is in charge with the penetration rhythm and he can use his hands to caress her breasts or clitoris. This is a very stimulating position if she can squeeze her pelvis floor muscles. The woman can also play with her clitoris while maintaining eye contact with her partner. This position is also recommended for anal sex.

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The Eagle

How to do it: The man sits on his knees, legs spread in front of his partner as she lies on her back, legs in the air and wide apart. She can relax while he holds her legs up and apart and penetrates her. A few notes about “The Eagle”: This is an ideal position for the woman to climax as the man can stimulate the G spot easily. He can control the depth of penetration and adjust the angle of penetration according to her licking. She can use her hands to play with her breasts or clitoris, while maintain eye contact with her partner. Anal sex is also possible in this position and the woman can use a vaginal dildo or vibrator while doing the eagle.

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The Afternoon Delight

How to do it: This is a good resting and relaxing position, ideal for getting a break during an intense night. The woman lies on her back and he lies on his side at a right angle to her. She puts her knees over his hip to allow gentle penetration. A few notes about “The Afternoon Delight”: The woman has her hands free to caress her body and to stimulate her clitoris. This position is good for both vaginal and anal penetration. This position provides a good eye contact for both partners and it is ideal to relax and communicate with your partner.

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The Mermaid

How to do it: For the mermaid position you will need to use the edge of the bed, a desk or a table. The woman lies face up at the edge and she places a pillow under her bum to get some elevation then extends her legs straight up, keeping them close together. He penetrates her while standing up. If the bed or desk is low, he can kneel on the floor. He can grip her feet for leverage, which will give him the extra stability he needs to thrust more deeply. A few notes about “The Mermaid”: If you use a hard surface to perform in this position you have to pay attention not to hurt your back. If the thrust is too intense injuries may occur on the lower back of the woman. This position is recommended for both vaginal and anal penetration. The man can use one of his hands to play with the breasts of his partner or to stimulate her clitoris.

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Conclusions When it comes to men, having an orgasm it is easy peasy, but for women the situation changes. These position should help you achieve an orgasm easily. However there are also methods that can fasten the way to an exploding orgasm and it’s easier than one would think. It’s the result of years of medical research and it doesn’t involve taking any medicine or buying expensive procedure. If you would like to know more watch the following video. You will thank yourself you did it!

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