Anastasia 20081207

Anastasi A church saint

45-14 245th Street Douglaston, NY 11362-1135 Phone: (718) 631-4454 Fax: (718) 631-1774 Email: [email protected]

Douglaston-Little Neck Salus Animarum Suprema Lex

www.stanastasia.info

December 7, 2008

Second Sunday of Advent

Rev. Msgr. George J. Ryan, Pastor Rev. William A. McLaughlin Rev. Chris J. Piasta, OFM Rev. Msgr. Michael J. Cantley, S.T.D.,

Pastor Emeritus

Rectory Office Hours: Monday to Friday 9:15 AM to 8 PM Saturday 9:15 AM to 1 PM Mrs. Betty Harris, Secretary Mrs. Ann Larkin, Accounting Admin. St. Anastasia School: 45-11 245th Street Mrs. Lucy Mihulka, Principal Mrs. Cindy Roma-McCann, Assist. Princ. Phone: (718) 631-3153; (718) 631-3155 Email: [email protected] Religious Education & CCD Office: Mrs. Janine Kramer, Directress Phone: (718) 225-5191 Email: [email protected] Music Minister: Mr. Joseph C. Extejt Weekend Masses: Saturday Vigil at 5:30 Sundays 8 AM, 10 AM, 12 PM & 5 PM Weekday Masses: Monday thru Saturday at 8:30 AM Sacrament of Reconciliation: Saturdays 4—4:30 PM Holy Days and Special Liturgies: Mass schedules will be printed in the Bulletin at the appropriate time. Devotions: Miraculous Medal Novena: Mondays after 8:30 AM Mass

PARISH MEMBERSHIP: All new families are welcome to the Parish and every family should be properly registered. Registration forms are available at the Rectory. Use of the electronic giving (Faith Direct) or envelope system is required if statement of contribution is sought for tax purposes. All parishioners should use either one of the donation forms. If you move or change your address, please notify the Rectory by mail. SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM: First Sunday of each month at 1:30 PM only. Parents should make arrangements by calling the Rectory no later than 2 weeks before the Baptism. Parents must attend the Baptism instructions before Baptism SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY: Time available: Saturday 11 AM-3 PM; Sunday 2:30 PM-3 PM Couples must make arrangements six months prior to the selected date of their marriage and fully participate in the “Pre-Cana” Parish at home. R.C.I.A. (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) It is the process for adults wishing to become Catholic, complete their sacramental initiation, or attain full membership in the Church. For further information, please contact Ms. Janine Kramer

■ ANNOUNCEMENTS

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omeless men living under Flushing Meadow Bridges need clothing For a number of years now and thanks to the generosity of our parishioners; every Sunday morning during the winter months, we bring hot chocolate, a sandwich and some warm clothes to a group of homeless men living under the bridges and surrounding areas of Flushing Meadows Corona Park. These are men who for different reasons have given up on life and seen unable to cope with it. As the cold weather approaches, once again we are preparing to start our mission and we need clothing. If you have warm clothes and blankets that are clean and in good condition and would like to donate them please call us and we will pick them up. For more information call Jorge at (718) 224-8187 or (718) 423-5988.

Annual Coat Drive

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he coats are dropped off to needy parishes in Queens and Brooklyn, visiting Nurse Early Head Start program in Rockaway, St. John’s Bread and Life Ministry, and other spots that are in need of help. The coats can be left at my office at Bryce Rea Associates, or if you can’t come to me I will go and pick them up; just call my cell phone: Carolyn Meenan at (917) 796-2990. Thank you again for your generous help by keeping someone warm this winter.

Need a ride to Church?

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entury Car Service is offering a special rate to parishioners who need a ride to Sunday Mass. This offer is only available to get to St. Anastasia Church for Sunday Mass. The fee is $5.00 plus any gratuity they choose to

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give. (This is a 16% reduction in their usual rate. Just advise the dispatcher that you are going to St. Anastasia Church in Douglaston in order to get the discount.) Century Car is located at Springfield Blvd and Union Turnpike in Bayside Call: (718) 740-6600 or (718) 428-1010.

Christmas Giving Tree

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he Giving Tree which has gift tags is once again a Reminder of the rapid approach of Christmas. It is very important to remember that we would like to get the wrapped gifts back by Monday, December 15th, so that all those people that you are helping will get the gifts before Christmas. Please remember that you are doing a good thing giving a part of yourself by shopping, wrapping, & returning back to us. You will be blessed for your kindness. The tree is located in the hallway next to the Church please stop after Mass to pick up your tag(s).

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Help the Homeless

December 7, 2008

the immediate future. Applications may be obtained by sending a request by registered letter to The Joint Apprenticeship Committee, P.O. Box 560249, College Point, NY 11356. They must include a nonrefundable $25.00 application fee. For more information, prospective applicants should contact their nearest Department of Labor Office in Flushing (718) 321-6307 or Jamaica (718) 557-6735.

Leisure Club News

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rip to Atlantic City on Monday, December 15th, $30 pp., For more information, call Peg McKeon at (718) 4282833.

Add a Soldier to your Christmas Card List

St. Nicholas Dinner Dance

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hen doing your Christmas Cards this year, take one card and send it to this address. If we pass this on and everyone sends one card, think of how many cards these wonderful, special people who have sacrificed so much would get. On your card list please include: A Recovering American Soldier, c/o Walter Reed Army Medical Center, 6900 Georgia Avenue N.W., Washington, DC 20307.

t. Josaphat Church in Bayside is hosting a St. Nicholas Day Dinner Dance on Sunday, December 14th, 2:00— 6:00 PM at Parish Hall on 35th Avenue & 210th Street. For more information, call Steve at (718) 224-3052.

Youth Lock-in: “iLock”

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his time it will take place on Saturday night, December 13, 2008. The lock-in begins at 3 PM at the Youth Center. We will wrap up on Sunday around 10 AM. Sometime at night we will celebrate candle-lit Mass, which traditionally is one of the most memorable features of the retreat. In a session and following discussions we will address the issue of people, both young and not-so-young, communicating and at the same time having ever more growing hunger for real communication and relationship. Bring your sleeping bag, be ready for pizza, ping-pong, and some scrambled eggs in the morning. The price is $15 per person, which covers snacks, Saturday dinner, Sunday breakfast and drinks. More information, consent form and everything else about our youth group is available at www.matthew267.net.

Apprentices Wanted

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ew York State Department of Labor has announced that Electrician Local #3 is looking for 500 apprentices and will issue 2,000 applications for the prized slots in

— Why did the lady put lipstick on her forehead? — She wanted to make up her mind.

Good News from the School Principal Students and Teacher of the Month By Lucy Mihulka, Principal

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his month, students are being recognized by their homeroom teachers for their generosity, which exemplifies the spirit of the season. Congratulations to: Grade 1 Grade 2 Grade 3 Grade 4 Grade 5 Grade 6 Grade 7 Grade 8

Mark Huber Patricia Mattone Kathleen Cunniff Amanda Stoner Janai Chandler Kristin Barnikel Joseph Chong Caroline Gawlik

The Teacher of Month being recognized for December is Ms. Connie Cannone. We thank her for exemplary Science lab activities at the 4th and 5th grade levels and for her leadership in setting up of the Science lab for all the students of St.

A.’s. Congratulations! Thank you to those that participated in the NY Mets Catholic Schools night in September. The school received a rebate check for $366. We also received $952 from the Energy Curtailment Specialists for participating in energy saving measures in the school up through October 31st. The Honors assembly for grades 5 to 8 will take place on Friday, December 12 at 9AM in Father Smith Hall. Those students that have achieved the 90% honor status will be recognized as well as those with exemplary effort. Parents are invited. Students in the second grade will receive the sacrament of First Pen-

ance on Saturday, December 13th. Please keep them in your prayers. The St. John’s University Speech and Hearing center located at 15211 Union Turnpike will be holding two free information sessions for parents only entitled, “Ask the Speech-Language Pathologist Days” on Tuesday, December 9th from 10 AM to 12 Noon and on Wednesday, December 10th from 1 to 3 PM.

CHRISTMAS SCHEDULE 2008 SACRAMENT OF PENANCE Monday December 22, 2008 7:30 PM Communal Penance Service

CHRISTMAS EVE MASS Wednesday, December 24, 2008 4:00 PM 6:00 PM

CHRISTMAS MIDNIGHT MASS December 25, 2007 Doors will open at 11:15 PM St Anastasia Choristers will sing Christmas Music before Mass

CHRISTMAS DAY Thursday, December 25, 2008 8:00 AM 10:00 AM 12:00 Noon No Evening Mass

Saturday, December 27, 2008 5:30 PM Vigil

Sunday, December 28, 2008 8:00 AM 10:00 AM 12:00 PM 5:00 PM

NEW YEAR’S Eve 5:30 PM Vigil

NEW YEAR’S Day 9:00 AM 12:00 Noon No Evening Mass

Building Skills for Everyday Living Pediatric Occupational Therapy By Andrea Krauss, DSW, OTR/L, Certified RDI Consultant

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ediatric occupational therapy improves children’s ability to participate in day to day activities in spite of limitations or special needs they may have. As children grow and develop, the range of the activities they participate in expands, placing ever increasing demands on them. The day to day activities that occupational therapists often become in involved are typically in the areas of play, self-care and later, school. An occupational therapist will evaluate the strengths and vulnerabilities of each child. The therapist will work with the parent and child to make a better fit between the child’s abilities and the demands of every day situations. Parents are the experts on their children’s performance in daily activities and the occupational therapist will work with parents, as a team, in the treatment of their child. When a child is identified as having special needs, various programs and systems come into play. Occupational therapists work through Early Intervention (EI), Committee on Preschool Special Education (CPSE), Committee on Special Education (CSE) and in

private practices. It is important for parents to remember that once their children are in elementary school, the goals for all therapies are directed towards academic success. Eligibility for services provided by Early Intervention, Committee on Preschool Special Education and The Committee on Special Education require that a child has scored in the bottom 20th percentile for his/her age. When a child is denied services, it does not necessarily mean they can’t benefit from supportive services. Parents can challenge the results of formal assessments if they believe that they are not an accurate representation of their child’s abilities or limitations. Parents may also wish to provide support privately to children who are having difficulty meeting the demands in every day living situations but do not test low enough to qualify to receive services through the system. Finally, when children are school aged and all therapy is directed at academic performance, parents may want to supplement services that are not typically provided in schools. An example of an occupational therapy intervention for

a baby having trouble sitting in a high chair to eat due to low muscle tone may be to simply put a piece of sticky material called dycem on the seat of the high chair to keep the baby from slipping. The occupational therapist would also make sure the foot rest is in the proper position to support the baby’s feet. The benefits of this simple adaptation to the high chair enable the baby to maintain a position that provides better support. By providing this stable base of support for the baby, he/ she would then need to use less energy in holding the upright position in the high chair. The result is more energy available for hand use,

eating and interacting with the caregiver. Typical areas that occupational therapists evaluate are activities of daily living, including the child’s ability to participate in dressing, eating, personal hygiene. These are the skills required for a child to participate in play, preschool and school. It is now understood that early childhood play is the foundation for all areas of development (motor, social and cognitive). The occupational therapist will work with the child and family to develop the child’s skills including fine motor and gross motor coordination,

motor planning, visual perception, eye-hand coordination, sensory processing and integration and/or in modification of the activity. The focus for the occupational therapist is always on the ‘goodness-of-fit’ between the demands of the different activities children engage in, the environments in which children participate and the child’s abilities. The occupational therapist, by supporting skill development and/or modifying environmental demands, provides opportunities for the child to learn he/she can succeed. Success builds self-esteem, which helps a child to meet new challenges.

Dr. Krauss is the Chair of the Occupational Therapy Department at York College CUNY. She has been working with children and their families for over 25 years in her Great Neck, Long Island private practice.

MASS INTENTIONS

Bread & Wine

December 6—13, 2008

Memorial SATURDAY

WEEKDAY

5:30 PM Mary St. John, and the Biemer & Tommaso Families

SUNDAY

IN THANKSGIVING FOR

*** Lawrence G. Lundy ***

8:00 AM Luciano Schiff 10:00 AM Michael O’Shaughnessy 12:00 PM James P. Quigley, Sr. 5:00 PM

MONDAY

Please remember in your prayers all the sick of our Parish Community, especially:   

Ruth Marchese Annette Montello Mary Ann Inguagiato

and those who have died, especially:  

9:00 AM Charles Freeman & Frank Capella & Michael Corso 7:30 PM Lawrence & Elizabeth Lundy

TUESDAY

ADVENT WEEKDAY

8:30 AM Stefana Oddo

WEDNESDAY ADVENT WEEKDAY 8:30 AM Irene Baker and Maria Cozzi

THURSDAY

ADVENT WEEKDAY

8:30 AM Rose & John Slevin

FRIDAY

OUR LADY OF GUADALUPE Apparitions of Mary at the hill of Tapeyac December 9-12, 1531 to the native convert Juan Diego; known to the Aztecs as Tecoatlaxope, meaning “she will crush the serpent of stone”; Patroness of the Americas.

Anne C. Gagen Elaine C. Wyckoff

We’re Here Where Are You? Have You Heard What We Do?

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION Holy day of obligation

DECEMBER 7—13, 2008

{ Remember }

SECOND SUNDAY OF ADVENT

8:30 AM Henry Lewondoski

SATURDAY

ADVENT WEEKDAY

8:30 AM Susan Kearns

Need A Lift To The Doctor……… Call Outreach 347-481-5477 Need To Get To The Store……… Call Outreach 347-481-5477 Want Some Company…………….. Call Outreach 347-481-5477 Need A Ride To- You Name It…… Call Outreach 347-481-5477 We’re Here: Call Us – We’ll Be There!

A Ceremony of Lessons and Carols The next recipe section will be published in the December 21 edition of our Bulletin. This time we will focus on Christmas recipes. If you would like to share your “secret formulas”, leave them at the Rectory or email us at [email protected] by December 18.

Sunday, December 7 at 3:00 PM Please join us to herald in the Advent and Christmas season by hearing the prophets of old as well as the Christmas story. These nine readings will be interspersed with Advent anthems and Christmas Carols performed by our music minister and the Choir.