Abandonment ReikiTM
© 2007 – Healing Art Forms - Channeled by Nicole Lanning in 2007 Prerequisite: Usui Reiki Level I - Of course basic knowledge of energy work is beneficial to be able to use this new form. Copyright Notice: © 2007 and beyond by Nicole Lanning. This manual may be given freely to students as long as the entire manual is kept intact and it is passed on in the pdf format that Nicole Lanning distributes. No text or portion of this manual may be copied or plagiarized, unless quoted briefly with credit as part of “fair use” in a review or other commentary. Other then the above exceptions, no part of this manual may be quoted, photocopied, faxed, duplicated, transmitted, emailed, electronically published or linked/posted to any website without the express written permission of Nicole Lanning. If anyone is breaking these copyright laws, please report them to me at
[email protected] Disclaimer: Abandonment ReikiTM is not a substitute for any health professional, mental health care and/or of the like. As with all vibrational energy work it is in conjunction with these professionals, not as a substitute – and remember to never undertake any type of work without consulting the proper professionals.
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Abandonment Reiki TM This is a new form I recently channeled in this year. This is a one near and dear to me as this helps a lot of people in many different ways with abandonment, along with my own issues. This new energy form will help let go of abandonment issues and heal the voids that are left behind from them along with healing the astral cords that attached you to the person(s) or things(s) that contributed to the abandonment issues. Have you ever felt helpless, dependent, abandoned, betrayed, separated, disconnected or alone? At one point in our lives or another, we all will feel this at some time. This can be from a family member, friend, etc. A lot of time the issues come from the ones closest to us, as these are the ones we have the strongest connections and ties to, along with the strongest astral energy cords. So when something does happen in our lives this is when these issues arise. Here are some of the primary causes of emotional distance dealing with feelings of abandonment:
1. Unforgiveness: This is emotional abandonment taken to its maximum time. When we feel as if someone has hurt us and we refuse to forgive them, we look for ways to protect ourselves from being hurt again in the future. 2. Insensitive Treatment: When someone has treated you in an unkind manner or disrespectful, this creates hurt that starts out small but grows into deep onset trauma over time. 3. Lack of Time and Effort: This can happen when people take others for granted and this causes them to feel unwanted or taken advantage of. 4. Fear: This is a major cause of a lot of people’s pain now-a-days and can stem from many areas, but I am discussing the one dealing with abandonment issues. A lot of people have this fear as they are afraid of someone’s reaction to the situation, afraid of being blamed for something and afraid of people thinking badly of them. 5. Living in Denial: Another one of the major signs is also when the person is most content to just deny the existence of the issues that are there. A lot of people do this as a coping mechanism to deal with them, as it is much easier to deny things are not happening then to owning up to reality, good or bad, facing it head on and dealing with the situations that were created.
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What the other party did may have been wrong, but the feelings of abandonment are the same. How you handle these feelings though can determine a lot of what happens with your energy levels. When people start going through abandonment issues, whether they be from a parent, child, spouse, loved one, friend, etc they start dealing with issues of anger, resentment, frustration, separation, loss of control of the situation, yearning for something to fill the void, desperation, anxiety, etc. There is also a sense of not measuring up. The more the person feels abandoned, the more likely they will turn into what they dislike. That person may then begin to start rejecting others who love them. They may also deny qualities that are good in them because someone else may disapprove. Which then in turn they end up becoming a people pleaser. This is when they go in search of acceptance wherever they can find it. These issues can develop into serious emotional issues; which can then affect your energetic fields with problems in your aura levels and chakras. These issues need to be addressed before they get to this point. Being abandoned hurts. It can have a rippling effect throughout someone’s life if not resolved. Some people need to talk it out, others accept things and move on understanding everyone is different and some people can change while others cannot. But one thing to always remember is that it is not always about you. You cannot control what others do, say or act. Abandonment Reiki works for this main reason. The energy helps to free us of these issues, along with filling in the void of where the issues were residing within ourselves with loving forgiveness energy. The energy was channeled in through my own spirit guides and Archangel Michael. Archangel Michael works wonderfully with removing ties to others, dealing with protection and many other resources. By forgiving those who abandoned you, it will set you free of them and the forgiveness energy will fill this void to heal. Anger only ties you to them, and you do not have to forgive them for their sake, but for your own. This does not mean you are accepting what they did, say or how they acted but you are opening the door to allow the healing energy to work.
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There is an old saying, “No one can hurt you with your permission.” Some people say this is true, while others say it is not. My personal feeling is that you should not give away your own personal power to someone else and allow him or her the ability to control your emotions to hurt your own being. Easier said then done, I know from personal experience and years of work, as I am human just like you! But this can be worked on, completed and accomplished, as you have to retain your own personal power. The main thing is to accept yourself for who you are. If you cannot accept yourself then how can you expect anyone else to.
How The Energy Works: After receiving the attunement for Abandonment Reiki, this energy will integrate your system. Once the energy is fully integrated, you can then start to work on self-healings. This can be done be simply stating, “Abandonment Reiki Flow”. This will activate the new energy to flow throughout your physical body and energetic fields. You can also visualize the Abandonment Reiki symbol surrounding your physical body and energetic fields sending positive loving energy into your system. What this new energy will do when first activate is to locate and then work on removing the ties that bind you to others that have caused abandonment issues within your system. Once this has been done the new energy will then fill the voids left behind with forgiveness energy to help heal the emotional and psychological issues that were left behind from the abandonment issues. This is a process, not a magical cure or instantaneous. You have to give this time to work. It will not take years, or even months – but this is not a quick fix. Give the energy time to work, days even weeks at the most. This is a very gentle and kind energy to help recover from abandonment issues.
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Abandonment Symbol
Attunement Procedure In Person Attunement The person should have at least been attuned to Reiki I prior to the attunement. Basic knowledge of running energy flow, calling on the energy from the great energy collective and not draining oneself and being able to send energy is required for this form. 1. Have your client sit in front of you with eyes closed to receive the attunement. 2. Call upon your guides, Archangel Michael and the Abandonment Reiki energy to help with the attunement. 3. To pass the attunement to your client, place both hands on your client’s head and send the Abandonment Reiki energy into the crown chakra, seeing it expand and fill the entire physical body. 4. Next send the Abandonment Reiki symbol into the crown chakra. 5. End the attunement by sealing the crown chakra and encompassing the client within a healing bubble for 7 days.
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Distant Attunement *Chiball Method -This attunement can be sent via Chiball for the client to call upon when they are ready. Program the Chiball with the Abandonment Reiki energy and the specific symbol. Program the Chiball as well with the client’s name, location and time period for them to receive the attunement. *Real time connection distant attunement - Set aside a time that is both convenient for you and your client to do this attunement. Next name a proxy for your client beforehand. Follow steps 1 through 5 listed above as for an in person attunement. Remember to cleanse your proxy after your attunement session by cutting any cords and cleansing the energies.
Using Abandonment Reiki This new energy will work on the abandonment issues you have been dealing with, remove the ties that are holding you back and filling in the void that is left behind with forgiveness energy. This energy works well for: • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Abandonment Re-developing trust issues Rejection Grief Shame Anger Filling abandonment/separation voids Resentment Anxiety Fears Security and stability Shock/numbness Frustration
You can work on issues that you are dealing with personally. You can send this energy to someone else that needs help in dealing with abandonment issues. You can use this on future issues you may have to deal with. Using this energy is very easy and simple, as once you activate this energy, as described above, you can then send this energy distantly through a proxy, or with intention method. You can use this locally on yourself or a client with either the traditional hand positions or via intention method as well.
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Additional Information I am offering these new forms to the world to be able to share with those who have an interest in learning as well as those who have a hard time working on channeling or are not as far along in their path. Please respect this healing system and treat it with dignity in which it is presented to the world. You may charge for this system, but remember it is your time not the system it-self you are charging for. So please respect this system and my time and work in creating this for all to share and use. For these reasons, please do not give this system away freely, nor over charge for this system. The set price for this system is $25 US Dollars. Prerequisite for the attunement is Usui Reiki Level 1 and basic knowledge of energy work is beneficial. • The attunement for Abandonment Reiki is done in a single attunement session lasting a total of 25 min. • This manual may not be altered in anyway and should only be given to students of this system. It may not be sold separately or given away without an attunement. • All rights reserved by Nicole Lanning. This includes translations into other languages, all names and symbols, text and attunement procedures. • Abandonment Reiki may not be offered on yahoo groups or similar institutions. • Attunements may only be passed on to clients who are 18 years of age and from a certified teacher. I hope you find that this wonderful Abandonment Reiki energy a gift that enhances your life and spiritual path, as well as working through any transformation process you may be having. Please keep in touch and let me know how things are working with this system. If you have any questions, concerns, problems, etc please feel free to contact me, as I am here to help in any way I can.
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