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Table of Contents Chapter 1: Men Don’t Really Know What they Want
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Secret 1: Targeted Action Results in a Targeted Outcome
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Secret 2: Attraction is a Learned Skill
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Secret 3: Most Men are Confused
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Secret 4: What He Says versus What He Means
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Secret 5: The Most Reliable Indicators of His Desires
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Chapter 2: His Logical Mind versus His Emotional Mind
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Secret 6: An Emotional Man is Much Easier to Deal with than a Logical Man
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Secret 7: How to Bypass His Logical Mind – Method #1
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Secret 8: How to Bypass His Logical Mind – Method #2
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Secret 9: How to Bypass His Logical Mind – Method #3
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Chapter 3: Discover His 3 Deepest Needs
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Secret 10: His First Deepest Need
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Secret 11: His Second Deepest Need
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Secret 12: His Third Deepest Need
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Chapter 4: 3 Cornerstones of Seduction
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Secret 13: Seduction is persuasion – Cornerstone One
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Secret 14: Pleasure versus Pain – Cornerstone Two
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Secret 15: Hard versus soft persuasion – Cornerstone Three
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Secret 16: The 90/10 Rule for Persuasion
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Chapter 5: Power Roles in Seduction
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Secret 17: Every Man has a Desired Power Role
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Secret 18: The Two Types of Power Roles Men Secretly Want to Play
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Chapter 6: The 3 Steps of Seduction
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Secret 19: Learn from the Masters
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Secret 20: Disarm the Object of Seduction (Step 1)
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Secret 21: Identify His Desired Power Role (Step 2)
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Secret 22: Identify Your Desired Power Role (Step 3)
Chapter 7: The Seduction Gradient
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Secret 23: Gauging His Seduction Gradient
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Secret 24: The Seductive Gradient Criterion
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Secret 25: For the Men on the Left Side of the Seductive Gradient…
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Secret 26: For the Men on the Right Side of the Seductive Gradient
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Chapter 8: Feminine Domination
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Secret 27: The Key to “Feminine Domination”
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Secret 28: How Can You Apply Feminine Domination?
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Chapter 9: Adjust Your Seduction Based on His Mood
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Secret 29: Seductive Strategies for a Stressed Man
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Secret 30: Seductive Strategies for a Bored Man
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Chapter 10: The Best Candidate for Seduction
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Secret 31: A Very Healthy Respect for Women
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Chapter 11: The 3 Stages of Love
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Secret 32: Stage 1 - Infatuation (1-6 Months)
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Secret 33: Stage 2 - Emotional Bonding Stage (6-12 Months)
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Secret 34: Stage 3 - Stabilization (One Year and After)
Chapter 12: 3 Stages of Seduction
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Secret 35: Stage One: Developing Interest
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Secret 36: Stage Two - Sexual Expression
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Secret 37: Stage Three - Getting The Commitment
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Secret 38: Take Your Time with Your Seduction
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Chapter 13: 3 Commitment Deal-breakers
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Secret 39: Comfort – The Enemy of Getting a Man to Commit
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Secret 40: Don't Move in with a Man and Relinquish Your Best Negotiating Position
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Secret 41: Watch Out for Speeding Tickets - Sex
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Chapter 14: Commitment Deal-Makers
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Secret 42: Motivate Him With Your Expectations
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Secret 43: Involvement with An Emotional Touch Leads to Commitment
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Secret 44: How to Use Tough Challenges to Build Deep Connections for Commitment
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Secret 45 Timing the Reward – The Secret to Avoid Being Taken for Granted
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Chapter 15: Set Up Love Deadlines Secret 46: Exclusivity and Commitment Deadlines
Chapter 16: Discover A Man's Ultimate Fantasy
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Secret 47: If You Won't Accommodate Him, Someone Else Will
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Secret 48: Don't Just Say NO Because You Think You Won't Like It. Give It A Chance!
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Secret 49: The Bedroom is the Place You Can't Afford to Be Selfish
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Secret 50: How to Find Out What His Fantasies/Fetishes Are?
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Chapter 17: The Key to Enticing a Man is Change, Change, And Change
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Secret 51: Secret 51: Visual Change
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Secret 52: Intellectual Change
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Chapter 18: Be a Woman of Value
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Secret 53: Financial Value
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Secret 54: Support Value
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Secret 55: Network Value
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Chapter 19: Create Jealousy in a Man to Get Him Back
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Secret 56: Step 1 - Agree with him
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Secret 57: Step 2 - Introduce Worthy Competition
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Secret 58: Step 3 - Analyze the Results
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Chapter 20: Play the Role of Victim
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Secret 59: How to Inspire a Man to Change
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Chapter 21: Stay Away from the Toxic 3
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Secret 60: The Power of Controlling Your Emotional Environment
Chapter 22: Little Battles versus Decisive Wars
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Secret 61: Distinguish Between Skirmishes and All-Out War
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Secret 62: The Art of Winning No Matter What He Chooses
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Chapter 23: Read Your Man Like A Book Secret 63: Male Psychology Decoded
Chapter 24: How to Create Your Love Safety Net for a Rainy Day
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Secret 64: Why Should You Have a Love Safety Net?
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Secret 65: 2 Ways to Put a Love Safety Net in Place
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Chapter 25: How to Cheat-Proof Your Relationship
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Secret 66: Forbidden Fruit #1 - Your Girlfriends and Your Boyfriend
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Secret 67: Forbidden Fruit #2 - Your Man and His Female Employees/Co- workers
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Secret 68: Forbidden Fruit #3 - Your Man and The Wives/Girlfriends of His Male Friends
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Chapter 26: Control Your Man's Psychological Environment
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Secret 69: Be the Most Influential Person In His Psyche
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Secret 70: Secret 70: 3-Step Attack Strategies
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Chapter 27: How to Create Psychological Discomfort in a Man Secret 71: Creating Psychological Discomfort
Chapter 28: The Power of Being Abnormally Optimistic
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Secret 72: Step 1 - Dream as Big as You Want
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Secret 73: Step 2 - Refuse to Listen to Any Negative Thoughts
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Secret 74: Step 3 - Break the Big Goals into Small, Achievable Steps
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Chapter 28: Become a True Seductress
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Secret 75: First Discover Your Authentic Self, Then Be A Chameleon
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Secret 76: Don't Take No For An Answer
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Chapter 29: Conclusion Secret 77: The New Journey Begins …
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A Final Word From The Author
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Bonus Report #1: Seductive Body Language
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Bonus Report #2: 100 Seductive Words
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Bonus Report #3: The Seductive Voice
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Chapter 1 Men Don’t Really Know What They Want Dear Friend, Let me start this letter by asking you a few questions. Please be honest when you answer them. Have you ever felt frustrated because the relationship is struck and going nowhere? Have you ever felt confused about what he's thinking and why he's not responding to you the way you'd like? Have you ever felt a lack of deep connection between you two? Doesn't it just kill you that when it comes to communicating with him, you have no idea what to say or what to do to get your desired outcome? Have you ever wondered how some women can get any man they like? They are never the best-looking, the smartest, or the most accomplished. But for whatever reason, they can get a man to do anything for them … without even lifting a finger. If so, you are not alone. For many years, I was confused about how www.unforgettablewoman.net
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attraction works. I had no idea what to do or what to say to get my desired outcome. It took me many painful trials and errors to finally figure out these must-know secrets that will help you transform your love life.
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Targeted Action Results in a Targeted Outcome To get your desired outcome in love, you need to execute the actions
that will result in that specific outcome. I used to believe that attracting a man was about being myself and having my fingers crossed, hoping for the best. The reality is that attracting a man is no different from getting a new client. In either case, both are looking for specific things that can satisfy their needs. And your actions indicate to them if you have those qualities that they're looking for.
Summary – Secret # 1: To get your desired outcome in love, you need to execute the actions that will result in that specific outcome. Target Mr. Right and show him you have the qualities he is looking for.
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Attraction is a Learned Skill Being an attractive woman isn't something you're born with. If you
look at the top seductresses who have seduced some of the most powerful men in the world, you would notice that beauty is not their most important asset. A deep understanding of male psychology and how seduction works will serve you better than a pretty face. You may have heard of some of these legendary seductresses: Cleopatra, Wallis Simpson and the now infamous Camilla Parker-Bowles. These women were neither the smartest nor the most beautiful (please tell me you know someone who looks better than Camilla!). But there is one thing they know and understand better than 99.9% of women in this world – they know HOW TO INFLUENCE MEN. In other words, they know how to align men to their way of thinking and make them want to satisfy each and every one of their little wishes. They also make men fall so deeply in love that in the case of Wallis Simpson, King Edward VIII gave up his throne to spend his life with “the woman I love.” Imagine you want to become a successful account. You will have toe
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LEARN how to work with numbers. Right? To be a successful woman in the dating world, you need to LEARN the skills of attracting and keeping the man of your dreams.
Summary – Secret # 2: When it comes to attraction and seduction, beauty is not your most important assed. To be a successful woman in the dating world, you need to LEARN the skills of attracting and keeping the man of your dreams.
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Most Men are Confused Here's the reality: most men are confused. They can be the smartest
guys when it comes to work, but when it comes to what make them feel deep attraction for a woman, they're just as confused as we are sometimes. The thing is that most men don't know what they want. Take up the challenge (AND the responsibility) to figure out what he truly wants and then give it to him. Have you ever met a guy who told you something like this, “I like a nice, honest woman who doesn't play games and who truly cares about me.” Then, you see this exact same guy fall for a woman who play games and who doesn't care about him at all. Have you ever dated a guy who told you he liked a woman to act a certain way and when you did exactly as he asked, he got bored and lost interest? And how about this one? The guy would say that he loves you and wants to be with you, but he never makes time for you or dates you. If you have ever seen any of these inconsistencies between what he
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says and what he does, you've witnessed one of many examples of the fact that men are confused and they don't know what they want.
Summary – Secret # 3: Many men are simply confused and do not know what they want. Take up the challenge and the responsibility to find out what he wants and then give it to him.
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What He Says versus What He Means
One common mistake the majority of women make, is to believe what a man says he wants, is what he truly wants. So she modifies her behavior accordingly, in the hope that she will make herself desirable. This will never work. The reason is not because she's not smart. It's not because she's not working hard enough. The real reason is because she has the wrong source for her information. A man's words are the most unreliable source of information you can use to trigger desire and passion in him.
Summary – Secret # 4: A man's words are the most unreliable source of information you can use to trigger desire and passion in him. Don’t change your behavior on what he says.
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The Most Reliable Indicators of His Desires So, if a man's words can not be trusted, what could be trusted? What's
a reliable source of information? And how can you dig the information out.
Here is how: A man's past relationships will give you some of the most important information you need about understanding his hot buttons, attraction triggers, what works for him, and what doesn't. Although it's important that you know what didn't work out in those relationships, the most important information you need to dig out is what DID work in that relationship. What made her attractive in his eyes? A man is innately selfish and he won't waste his time on someone he is not attracted to. There must be something about her that attracts him; something that, despite everything else, made him want to stay with her. Once you find out what worked to attract him, you would have discovered the things he unconsciously is attracted to. From my experience, asking about his longest relationship will always give you a lot of information. Find out what made him want to have a www.unforgettablewoman.net
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relationship with her. What made him want to spend all that time with her? You may have to do an analysis here yourself, since most guys don't know what things attract them. No next up, we'll talk about the difference between a man' logic mind and his emotional mind. Knowing the difference is crucial.
To learn the secrets to connect with a man's emotional mind and make him feel a burning attraction to you, click on the link below. You have more influence on his decisions than you think...
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