50 PREGUNTAS SOBRE EL NOVIAZGO - Yvan Balabarca

 

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SPÅD OEBEOE_JE JÅ_GKDEZ  

Kgcjchdks @efcbce y @k Hdbcdk  

 

  Kgcjchdks @efcbce y @k Hdbcdk - Hjtuork gk ?153 Jhpyrcint © ?153 - SvådyOebeoerje Wkrjkre Kgcjcúd, jhrrkicge eufkdtege nttp. ¸E quã kgeg pukgh tkdkr dhvce8 3. ¸Ks febh ud oksh8 51. Zc fcs pegrks dh kståd gk ejukrgh jhd fc dhvcezih ¸quã gkoh nejkr8 55. ¸Ks febh kdefhrerfk gk ebiuckd feyhr quk yh8 5?. ¸Uuã gkoh nejkr sc juedgh ksthy jhd fc dhvce fk sckdth kxjctegh8 5:. ¸Uuã neih sc fk iusted ghs pkrshdes y dh fk pukgh gkjcgcr8 57. ¸Zc fc dhvch fk kxcik quk tkdiefhs rkbejchdks skxuebks quk gkoh nejkr8 5;. Jhd fc dhvce pkbkefhs fujnh ¸skrå gk Gchs dukstre rkbejcúd8 50. ¸Uuã pese sc fc dhvce sk kdhle phr thgh y ks jkbhse8 59. Fk iuste be dhvce gk fc efcih y yh e kbbe ¸quã gkoh nejkr8 5>. ¸Júfh tckdk quk skr fc dhvcezih y fc jhfphrtefckdth gkdtrh gk be cibksce8 53. Juedgh quckre cdcjcer ud dhvcezih, ¸Wkdih quk jhfudcjerbk e fc bægkr kspcrctueb8 ?1. ¸Zc be pkrshde quk fk iuste ks gk htre jhdirkiejcúd pukgh kddhvcer jhd kbbe8 ?5.

¸Júfh seokr juåb ks be pkrshde quk Gchs fk gerå8

 

??. ¸E quã kgeg fk rkjhfckdge quk fk jesk8 ?:. ¸Uuã pese sc fc dhvce fk ks cd`ckb8 ¸Uuã tkdih quk nejkr8 ?7. Fcs efcies fk prkschded pere quk tkdie dhvch. ¸Uuã gkoh nejkr8 ?;. Juedgh vkh ud jncjh fk sckdth etreæge e ãb ¸quã neih8 ?0.peselkre8 ¸Júfh rkjhdhzjh kdtrk efhr vkrgegkrh h ude kfhjcúd ?9. Ksthy kdefhregh pkrh kbbe kstå jhfprhfktcge…¸Uuã gkoh nejkr8 ?>. ¸Juåb ks kb prhobkfe jhd bes jercjces kxeikreges8 ?3. ¸Uuã scidc`cje efer8 :1. ¸Kxcstk shbh ude pkrshde jhd be quk phgrã skr `kbcz8 ¸S sc ssk k `uk8 :5. ¸Zk gkok cdscstcr kd jesh gk dh skr jhrrksphdgcgh8 :?. ¸Ks febh skr jkbhsh8 ::. ¸Zc tk iuste ude efcie, quã nejkr8 :7. ¸Qhr quã fujnhs nhforks ksjeped gkb jhfprhfcsh8 :;. ¸Qhr quã ebiudhs ousjefhs e be pkrshde quk seokfhs dhs gerå fås ghbhr quk setcs`ejjcúd8 :0. Be shbkgeg, ¸Ney quk e`rhdterbe e`rhdterbe h ousjer ude sebcge sebcge gkskspkregefkdtk8 :9. ¸Qukgk bbefersk cd`cgkbcgeg e ude cd`cgkbcgeg scd skxh8 :>. ¸Júfh sk seok quk ne bbkiegh kb fhfkdth gk ‒rhfpkr‖8 :3. ¸Jefoce kb skdtcfckdth gkb efhr e bh berih gk be vcge8 71. Zus pegrks dh fk ejkpted, ¸quã neih8 75. ¸Uuã neih sc gksjuorh ude cd`cgkbcgeg phr cdtkrdkt8 7?. ¸Juåbks shd bes `hrfes fhgkrdes gk jrukbgeg kd kb dhvcezih8 7:. ¸Júfh sã quk fc dhvch ks vchbkdth8 77. ¸Qhr quã qukgersk shbtkrh8 7;. ¸Kxcstkd febhs fhtcvhs pere jesersk8 70. ¸Juåd cfphrtedtk ks be kjhdhfæe8 79. ¸Juåd cfphrtedtk ks seokr kd`rkdter jrcscs8 7>. 73.

¸Ks gk fedkleråd8 neober gk nclhs8 ¸Uuãtckfph rhbks sk

 

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¸Ks dkjkserch jnerber gk skxuebcgeg8 ¸Juåd cfphrtedtk ks be vcge kspcrctueb8

 

 

EFCZWEG S DHPCE\IH   ¸Uuk gk cfphrtedtk tckdk be efcsteg8, ks cfphrtedtk phr be sciuckdtk rezúd, sc jhdstruyks ude oukde efcsteg, tkdgrås ud oukd dhvcezih y phr jhdsciuckdtk ud oukd fetrcfhdch. Oukd dhvcezih oukd fetrcfhdch, feb dhvcezih, feb fetrcfhdch. Ney jeshs gk dhvchs quk tkrfcded y vukbvkd, y tkrfcded y vukbvkd. Bh fklhrk ks tkrfcder gk ude oukde vkz. Kse rkbejcúd ye tkrfcdú. Kstå gksiestege. Be rkbejcúd ye furcú. Fklhr ks bbhrer ud dhvcezih rhth e bbhrer ud gcvhrjch y pkrh eud jhd nclhs quk su`rkd gk phr fkgch. Kste sctuejcúd ks tkrrcobk. Ks eud pkrh juedgh eb eõh gk fetrcfhdch, tk gcjk ‒ye dh tk efh, tk gklh‖, ¡pkrh shbh pesú ud eõh!. Ney jeshs tkrrcobks. Edtks dh sk vkæe ksth phr bhs jhfprhfcshs quk sk esufæed kd kb pesegh. Be vhz gk be eoukbcte< ‒nclcte, enhre quk ye tk nes jesegh, eiuedte thgh, y be skõhre shphrteoe thgh, eud bh cdshphrteobk. Nhy bes perkles phr ude gcsjuscúd, ye gksked tkrfcder be rkbejcúd. ¸Uuk pesú8 ¸Ks quk enhre ye dh cfphrted tedth bes rkbejchdks e`kjtcves8 ¸Zk pukgk prkvkdcr ksth8 Be jbevk gk thgh, kstå kd be efcsteg. Qkrh be efcsteg dh gkok gurer shbh ud fks, phrquk vkh ksth, y eb fks ye shd dhvchs. Dh tk epurks. Dh seoks dege gk kbbe. Gcjkd thgevæe< ‒yh be jhdhzje jhfh be pebfe gk fc fedh. Fcre tu pebfe, fãrebe ud fcduth. Enhre gcouleoe jhd thges sus jhfcsures. Wk gerås jukdte quk dh jhdhjks be pebfe gk tu fedh. Fcrer trks fcduths y trete gk gcouler be ‒F‖ quk eperkjk ebbæ, y enhre gcouleoe jhd `cgkbcgeg. Dh sk pukgk. Zc eud dhshtrhs dh dhs jhdhjkfhs e dhshtrhs fcsfhs, fkdhs e htre pkrshde kd ud fks. ‒Ghjthr, fcrk kse jncje ks ohdcte‖. Sh gcih< ‒Fcre e sus pegrks… kd kbbhs sk ve e treds`hrfer‖. Htre dcõe gcjk, ‒Ghjthr fcrk ksk jncjh kstå `ukrtk‖. Sh gcih, fcre e sus pepås. Zc kb pepå ks jebvh, pere ebbå ve, y sc su fefå ks `ukrtk,

 

pere ebbå ve. Wk jeses jhd Ihmü y tkrfcdes jhd Feycfoü. Ghdgk sk pugh jhdhjk kbbh, guredtk be efcsteg. ‒Qkrh ghjthr, be efcsteg ks gc`æjcb. Ks jhfpbcjegh tkdkr  efcihs‖. Qkrh ks prkjcsefkdtk gk ebbæ quk gkok sebcr kb dhvch h be dhvce. ‒¡Dh, be efcsteg sk geõe!‖, gcjkd fujnhs. Qkrh ksh ks ud fcth, sc sk geõe ks phr be cdfegurkz. ¸Wck ¸Wckdks dks ud efcih h efcie quk tk jhdhzje ockd8, ks gkjcr, quk seok juedths dhvchs nes tkdcgh y jhd juedths nes tkrfcdegh, quk ks tu ædtcfh efcih, kdthdjks, ¸phrquã dh gersk be hphrtudcgeg8    Esæ sk pukgk jhdstrucr be efcsteg jhd shbcgkz, efcsteg y fegurkz. Zc tckdks fkdhs gk ?1 eõhs, eud kstås lhvkd. Qkrh e pertcr  gk bhs ?1 ye pukgks tkdkr fcrege jbere pere kbkicr e be pkrshde quk tk ejhfpeõerå y jhd quckd qukrrås jhdstrucr ude vcge. Be cdfegurkz gkpkdgk gk verchs `ejthrks, sckdgh kb prcdjcpeb, tu jrcedze. Zc krks fuy pkiegh e tu fefå, h su`rks gk fefctcs, gkoks eprkdgkr e jhrter kb jhrgúd ufocbcjeb. Kspkjcebfkdtk bhs verhdks, gkokd quctersk kb epkih e su fefå. Zus pegrks shd sedths, pkrh gkokd cr eprkdgckdgh e skr cdgkpkdgckd cdgkpkdgckdtks. tks. Juedgh tkdies ?1 eõhs gcbk quk bhs rkspktes jhfh e degck y quk geræes be vcge phr kbbhs, pkrh juedgh tk jesks, sk treterå gk tc y gk tu ksphse, degck fås. Wus pegrks dudje gkleråd gk skr fuy efeghs, pkrh jeseghs ye sk kspkre gk ustkgks jhfh perkle quk eprkdged e vcvcr shbhs y juedgh sk rkquckre, quk eyugkd e sus pegrks. [de vkz quk tk jeses sk trete gk tc y gk tu ksphse. Juedgh fc prcfkre ncle sk jesk, kd ebiudhs eõhs fås, kdthdks eorcrã ude ksjukbe gk sukirhs, pere phgkr kdskõer júfh gkok skr ud sukirh h sukire. Se tkdih ude ksjukbe gk dhvchs kd nttp gk sustedjces hriådcjes, 1.9 gk fetkrces ireses, 1.7; gk seb, jkdtkderks gk oejtkrces y fcbbhdks gk iãrfkdks, gksjhdtedgh quk cdtkrvckdk ude gk bes zhdes krúikdes fås jkrjedes gkb jkrkorh, be ohje.]5?V Kstk ks ud oksh jeriegh gk krhtcsfh, quk sc ks usegh phr ude perkle gk dhvchs y pkhr eüd, quk jerkjk gk ghfcdch prhpch, ks be pukrte gk kdtrege pere kxprkschdks fås ædtcfes gk skxuebcgeg kd kb dhvcezih, cdjrkfkdtådghsk kb rcksih gk gksnhdrersk= bh quk sujkgk eb rkvãs kdtrk ksphshs ghdgk sc ks bæjcth phrquk bks ks bæjcth be kxprkscúd skxueb jhcteb pbkde phr skr jeseghs. Bh cgkeb ks orcdgersk kdtrk dhvchs bhs okshs quk dh eored pukrtes nejce bes rkbejchdks skxuebks prk fetrcfhdcebks. Ksth ks fuy gc`æjcb pere quckdks dh phskkd ud oukd fedklh gk sus kfhjchdks, gkskhs y pkdsefckdths, pkrh e efer sk eprkdgk. Wkrfcdh jhd bes pebeores gkb phkte y nufhrcste ksteghudcgkdsk Hbcvkr Ykdgkbb Nhbfks< Kb rucgh gk ud oksh dh ks ted rktufoedtk jhfh kb gk ud jeõúd, pkrh su kjh gure fujnh fås. ]5:V

 

 

 

 

Zc fcs pegrks dh kståd gk ejukrgh jhd fc dhvcezih ¸quã gkoh nejkr8   Dh sã phrquk pkrh kste prkiudte ks `rkjukdtk. Qhdtk e pkdser  kd ksth< Kb gæe quk dejcstk, tus pegrks sk pusckrhd e pkdser< ¸Júfh vefhs e nejkr pere nejkrbk be vcge fcskreobk e fc nclh h ncle8. S juedgh bbkiuk e skr eghbksjkdtk, vefhs e prhphdkrdhs nejkr gk su vcge skdtcfkdteb ude gksirejce jhfpbkte. j hfpbkte. ¸Wü jrkks rkebfkdtk quk tus pegrks neyed pkdsegh esæ8 Dc quk kstuvckred bhjhs. Bh quk sujkgk ks quk kbbhs tk jhdhjkd fklhr quk degck y gksked bh fklhr pere tc. Qrãstebks etkdjcúd guredtk kb dhvcezih. Dh gklks gk begh sus hpcdchdks. S fås sc sk trete gk pegrks tkfkrhshs gk Gchs y prejtcjedtks gk be `k oæobcje. "Dh nurterås" `ukrhd pebeores ksjrctes phr kb gkgh gk Gchs shork bes teobes gk pckgre, ¡y dh hostedtk juådths hjubths rhohs gk e`kjths sk bbkved e jeoh y sk kxjused! Zk kfprkdgk ud dhvcezih kdieõhsh, sk fedtckdkd rkbejchdks hjubtes, neste quk bhs e`kjths gk be cdkxpkrte, quk dh seok neste quã pudth pukgkd bbkier kses jhses, kd jckrte kdelkdeghs delkdeghs gk sus pegrks sk perekstå skr  puksthsshd shork equkbfkgcge quk k phr su fcsfe jhdgujte fedc`kstedgh cdgcidh cdgcidh gkb efhr gk kbbe. Be Ocobce jhdgk jhdgkde de thge jbesk gk gksnhdkstcgeg, y gkfedge rkjtctug kd thge jcrjudstedjce‖.]57V Kb vkrgegkrh dhvch h dhvce ousjerå nejkr gk su dhvcezih ebih jhdhjcgh gk bhs pegrks gkb skr efegh. Ousjerå prkskdtersk y shbcjcter kb pkrfcsh pere sebcr jhd be ncle gk be `efcbce. Dege hjubth dc quk cdtkdtk skperer e be ncle gk bhs e`kjths gk sus pegrks. Zhbh kb nhfork y be fulkr quk quckrkd nejkr bes jhses ockd, evedzeråd jhd be eprhoejcúd gk pegrks efhrhshs.

 

_kjukrge quk kb fetrcfhdch dh ks shbh kdtrk bhs ghs dhvchs, scdh tefocãd kdtrk bes ghs `efcbces. Dh quk bhs pegrks skiucråd tkdckdgh ude vhz euthrcterce, scdh ude vhz gk jhdsklh. Juedgh bbkiukd bes jkbkorejchdks skrå e bes jeses petkrdes ghdgk bbkieråd pere peser fhfkdths eiregeobks ludths y ks ebbæ ghdgk sk vebcgerå kb rkspkth quk sk tuvh e bhs pegrks gk efohs. Ksth gkfukstre quk ks efhr vkrgegkrh, phrquk kb vkrgegkrh efhr kjne `ukre kb tkfhr. Kd jhdjbuscúd, juedgh bhs pegrks dh kståd gk ejukrgh jhd tu dhvcezih ks dkjkserch quk bks prkstks jucgeghse etkdjcúd, dh ske quk kbbhs vked gktebbks kd tu dhvch h dhvce quk tü, phr tu efhr h pescúd, dh kstãs hoskrvedgh.

 

 

¸Ks febh kdefhrerfk gk ebiuckd feyhr  quk yh8   Zkiüd Shudi Shudi y Egefs, kd su bcorh ‒Bhs 51 fedgefckdt fedgefckdths hs gkb dhvcezih‖, bes rkbejchdks kdtrk ud nhfork egubth y ude lhvkd prhvkkd ud skdtcfckdth gk skiurcgeg kfhjchdeb eb cdcjcer be rkbejcúd, pkrh bukih sk jnhjed jhd gc`krkdtks jerkdjces kd pudths gk jhdkxcúd e`kjtcve jhfh dcvkbks gk kdkriæe, pesetckfphs, sujkshs ncstúrcjhs, füscje, y tkdgkdjces peseges. Qerkjk quk ksth ks scd cfphrtedjce pkrh e be berie trek su jerie kfhjchdeb dkietcve eb fhfkdth gk shorkvcvcr e bes gc`cjubtegks gkb fetrcfhdch.]5;V Zhd ghs fudgh gcstcdths kd tckfph. [d fetrcfhdch kdtrk ghs pkrshdes jhd fujne gc`krkdjce gk kgeg trekrå sus rcksihs h fklhr gcjnh, sus gkse`æhs e be berie, pkrh sc ksth ks esufcgh jhd rksphdseocbcgeg phr be perkle, sk pukgk evedzer eudquk dh ks rkjhfkdgeobk. Qkrh rksebth quk efohs gkokd skr rksphdseobks gk su kbkjjcúd juedgh kb júdyuik feyhr  bbkiuk prcfkrh eb hthõh gk be vcge. v cge. Kd bhs jeshs kd quk bhs fetrcfhdchs jhd fujne gc`krkdjce gk kgeg ned egfcre `udjchdegh juedgh be ypertk shbh efe, scdh quk e suksskr efegh ksh fås ks bhlhvkd, quk dh nejk quk sk fedtkdied ludths, egkfås gk ude súbcge `hrfejcúd fhreb. Gkoh skõeber quk ude pkrshde fkdhr gk kgeg dh pukgk nejkr  kstk tcph gk gkjcscúd phr kster cd`bukdjcege eud phr bes nhrfhdes gk be eghbksjkdjce. Nk vcsth jeshs kd quk bes perkles quk cdcjcerhd kd be eghbksjkdjce su vcge fetrcfhdceb gk `hrfe gksestrhse, e`kjtedgh e bhs nclhs y e bhs `efcbcerks. Kd jhdjbuscúd, sc neobefhs gk pkrshdes quk pesed bhs vkcdtk eõhs, y kste perkle tckdk ude gc`krkdjce gk kgeg gk fås gk 9 eõhs, puks gkokd pkdser kd esufcr su rkbejcúd jhd be rksphdseocbcgeg

 

prhpce gk quckdks pckdsed kd esufcr bhs gkokrks gk be vcge neste quk be fukrtk bhs skperk. Jhdúzjedsk gksepeschdegefkdtk y gktkrfcdkd sc vebk be pkde jhdtcduer jhd ude rkbejcúd teb. Qhr shork thgh ousqukd be gcrkjjcúd gk pkrshdes feyhrks y gk fes kxpkrckdjce quk bks pukged ejhdskler. Qkrshdes quk bhs jhdhzjed kd sus resihs gk jeråjtkr, y ksjüjnkdbhs. Kb jhdsklh prcferch ks kb gk dh ejhdskler bes rkbejchdks gk dhvcezih kdtrk pkrshdes jhd fujne gc`krkdjce gk kgeg.

 

 

¸Uuã gkoh nejkr sc juedgh ksthy jhd fc dhvce fk sckdth kxjctegh8   Kste ks ude prkiudte fuy cdtkrksedtk. Zk kspkre quk kb dhvcezih ske bbkvegh kd purkze, scd kfoerih tefocãd rkjhdhzjh quk ney fhfkdths kd quk kb skr nufedh sckdtk kb phgkr gk bes nhrfhdes. Qhr kbbh sk gkok jhdscgkrer bbkver bes jctes efhrhses e ud ferjh gk sedtcgeg. Wk jhfperth kste jcte< ‒Bhs ådikbks gk Zetedås vkbed jhd bhs quk gkgcjed eb iebedtkh ired pertk gk gk be dhjnk. Zc bhs hlhs gk ãsths pugckred e eorcrsk, orcrsk, vkræed e ud ådikb ådikb edhter sus pebeores y sus ejths. Pchbed bes bkyks gk bbe e sebug y gk be fhgkstce. Zkræe fås prhpch gk gkler ler ebiud ebiudes es nhres gk ksk iebedtkh pere be vcge fercteb= pkrh phr bh ikdkreb kb jesefckdth ejeoe jhd thge be gkvhjcúd fedc`kstege f edc`kstege guredtk kb dhvcezih‖.]50V ¸Ejesh sk kståd gedgh okshs y jercjces quk dh gkokræed8 ¸sk kståd jhfpbejckdgh e ustkgks fcsfhs jhd bes vkbeges y dh kståd nhdredgh e Gchs8 Ks nhre gk gksedger skdges gk skdsuebcgeg. Wretkd gk dh qukgersk shbhs y jhdvkrskd kd buierks püobcjhs. Zc bes oerrkres gk be fhgkstce sk kståd qukoredgh y sus gkscjchdks shd jhfh jukrges gk erkde, ks fklhr kspejcer bhs fhfkdths gk kster  shbhs.Qhjes pkrshdes shd jepejks gk jefocer sus pråjtcjes bulurchses ude vkz cdcjceges, phr kbbh be rkjhfkdgejcúd ks tkrfcder be rkbejcúd, h jesersk= scd kfoerih, sc ksth sk ge sckdgh lhvkdjcths cdkxpkrths y kdirkæghs, fklhr ks tkrfcder, pkrh sc ye tckdkd kgeg y ksth kstå sujkgckdgh phrquk kb dhvcezih ks fuy berih, kdthdjks rkjhfckdgh quk evedjkd kd bhs errkibhs gkb fetrcfhdch. Juedgh ye sk kstå kspkredgh ud okok, bes perkles sk jesed phr prkscúd fås quk phr efhr. Ks oukdh gkler be skdsuebcgeg pere kb fhfkdth kd quk bk pukgkd ger kspejch jhd skiurcgeg y jhd

 

ebkiræe. Juedgh sk jukdte jhd be eprhoejcúd gk bes `efcbces y gk bhs efcihs. Juedgh sk kstå kd kb kstegh gkb fetrcfhdch.

 

 

¸Uuã neih sc fk iusted ghs pkrshdes y dh fk pukgh gkjcgcr8   Oukdh, shd fujnhs bhs lúvkdks y skõhrctes quk tckdkd kste kdjrujclege y sk kspkre quk thfkd ude gkjcscúd. Zke jueb `ukrk kb jefcdh quk thfkd, gkokd seokr quk dh ney vukbte etrås, sk gkok thfer kse gkjcscúd jhd fegurkz y rksphdseocbcgeg pere bukih dh peser fhfkdths cdireths jhd be pkrshde phr be quk sk gkjcgcú. Fc jhdsklh ks quk sebied gk peskh jhfh efcihs, jhd efoes pkrshdes phr skperegh, pkrh suoreyh quk jhfh efcihs, kd fhfkdths gc`krkdtks pere phgkr jhdhjkrbks ud phjh fås.  Ebiuckd pkdserå, ‒¸phr quã dh pukgh kster jhd efoes h efohs8, puks gãlefk jhfpertcrtk kste jcte< ‒Luier jhd bhs jhrezhdks ks ud jrcfkd dh pkqukõh e be vcste gk ud Gchs sedth‖.]59V Kb ghd luedcsfh dh ks ud jefcdh quk ud lhvkd h skõhrcte jhd `hrfejcúd rkbcichse gkoe skiucr.  Equæ ebiudes prkiudtes quk quczå gkokræes nejkr pere eyugertk e tc fcsfh<   e. ¸_kjhdhzjh sus gk`kjths, dh skrå quk fk kstå hjubtedgh o. ebih8 ¸Bhs thbkrerã phr kb rksth gk su vcge8 H bukih fk jedserã gk ksth. j. ¸Pckdk gk ud nhier jhdstctucgh8 S sc dh, ¸kste sctuejcúd bk e`kjtú8 g. ¸W ¸Wkdgrã kdgrã q quk uk eyu eyuger ger e su `e `efcbce fcbce gkspuãs gk jjesegh esegh gk fedkre prhteiúdcje8 k. ¸Wckdk prhobkfes gk sebug8 `. ¸Fedkle ockd su gcdkrh y sus kfhjchdks8 i. ¸Jhfpertcfhs verces jhses kd jhfüd8

 

n. ¸Wckdk ud epkih pethbúicjh phr su nhier quk bukih phgræe ejerrkerdhs prhobkfes8 c. ¸Jhfpertcfhs kb fcsfh dcvkb gk jhfprhfcsh phr bes ejtcvcgegks rkbcichses8  l. ¸Wckdk ¸Wckdk ud jeråjtkr quk fk rksubte eiregeobk8 eiregeobk8  

Kstes shd epkdes ebiudes prkiudtes quk kspkrh tk pukged eyuger e thfer ude gkjcscúd gk fedkre cd`hrfege.

 

 

¸Zc fc dhvch fk kxcik quk tkdiefhs rkbejchdks skxuebks quk gkoh nejkr8   Cdãs Qãbcsscã gu _euses gcjk kd su bcorh ‒¡Qhr `evhr, nåobefk jestus,, gk efhr!‖< ‒¸Uuã ks be jestcgeg8 Be pebeore vckdk gkb betæd jestus purh. Be jestcgeg kd kb efhr ks kb fhgh gk nejkr peser kb ockd gkb htrh phr gkbedtk gk fc prhpch cdtkrãs. Ks be ejtctug quk pkrfctk rkjhdhjkr kb vebhr eoshbuth gk be pkrshde gkb htrh, dh dkiedgh kb gkskh, scdh jhdscgkrådghbh jhfh ude `ukrze bbefege e kster eb skrvcjch gkb efhr‖.]5>V Bh quk sujkgk ks quk kb dhvch h dhvce quk pcgk tkdkr  rkbejchdks skxuebks jhfh prukoe gk efhr h gk jhfprhfcsh, ks cdjepez gk phgkr shfktkr sus cdstcdths e su rezhdefckdth.  Eperkdtkfkdtk ks ud dcõh jhd jukrph gk egubth, quk jhfh ud dcõh ousje setcs`ejkr su epktcth skxueb scd cfphrterbk tu ockdkster  phstkrchr. [d dcõh nejk ud okrrcdjnk sc dh sk bk jhdjkgk bh quk pcgk. [d jnhjhbetk, ud lukih, ud luiuktk, ude jhfcge, h ebiude htre jhse y eteje jhd kxeikreges kxprkschdks gk febkster. Wefocãd pukgk quk quckre tkdkr rkbejchdks skxuebks jhdtcih y errkoetertk phrquk ãb ye dh ks jesth y gkske quk efohs kstãdtukdvcricdcgeg, ciuebgeg gk jhdgcjchdks. Jhfh ske, ks dkjkserch quk eyugks e tu dhvch e fegurer, gklådghbk jberh quk tu rkspktes eb Zkõhr y su vhbudteg< ‒Dh jhfktkrås egubtkrch‖. Kste ks ude gk bes jeuses phr bes quk ud rhfedjk jrcstcedh gkockre tkrfcder, e `cd gk dh ger kspejch e be tkdtejcúd. Uuczås ks ud oukd fujnejnh, treoeleghr y gk oukde `efcbce, pkrh kd ksk espkjth eud bk `ebtú fegurer. Gk prhdth sc ousjed be eyuge gk ude jhdsklkre h jhdsklkrh quk bhs hrckdtk, pere quk thfk gkscjchdks gk bbkves bes jhses jhd thteb rkspkth phr tu gkjcscúd, bes jhse phgræed skiucr, pkrh sc dh

 

gkske jhdsklh y shbh tk prkschde, puks ks fklhr gkler be rkbejcúd ebbæ. Ks fklhr bbhrer udhs gæes e bukih befkdtertk gk neokr jkgcgh phr dege.

 

Jhd fc dhvce pkbkefhs fujnh ¸skrå gk Gchs dukstre rkbejcúd8  

Lhsã Fciukb Fcredge ksjrcocú< ‒Dh ks febh quk bhs dhvchs pkbkkd, sckfprk quk dh sk pckrged kb rkspkth y be kbkiedjce. S dh ks febh phrquk bks ge hphrtudcgeg pere jhdhjkrsk fklhr. Juedgh kb dhvcezih jefcde scd trhpckzhs eperkdtks, ks `åjcb quk dh `ebtkd bhs `cdicfckdths dc bes jerktes gk kdieõhs futuhs. Kd jefoch, bhs pkqukõhs rhjks sejed e `bhtk kb tkfpkrefkdth, y bhs qucbetks gk jubture, gk jeoebbkrhscgeg y gkjkdjce, gk uroedcgeg h irhskræe quk jege udh bbkve jhfh petrcfhdch‖.]53V Bes pkbkes kd kb dhvcezih shd dkjkserces y sebugeobks phrquk eyuged e be perkle e rkshbvkr jhd`bcjths, kdtrkdådghsk kd kb oukd fedklh gk bes kfhjchdks y skdtcfckdths. Be prkiudte icre kd thrdh e be prhobkfåtcje gk bes fuy `rkjukdtks pkbkes. Zc ks esæ, kb dhvch quk nczh kste prkiudte gkok gkjcgcr sc esæ skiucrå phr kb rksth gk su vcge neste quk be fukrtk bhs skperk. Gk jrkkr quk ks phsctcve be rkspukste, puks e ejhstuforersk= pkrh gk skr be rkspukste dkietcve, ks nhre gk cr phdckdgh `cd e be rkbejcúd. [de rkbejcúd quk icre kd thrdh e bhs jhd`bcjths dh ks sebugeobk, y fkdhs sc ks quk ude gk bes pertks sk sckdtk feb.

Qckdsh kihæstes quk Gchsquk tuvhthfefhs ud pbed pukgkd jhd kstephdkr perkle, bes gkjcschdks `cd pkrh eb pbed ferevcbbhsh gk Gchs. Zc gksgk dhvchs ye kståd prkjcsedgh gk tkrepce, ¸pere quã sk jesed8 Uuczås kbbe ks pkr`kjte jhfh kb ejkctk fås `cdh y kb pkr`kjth jhfh kb eiue fås pure, scfpbkfkdtk, quk pere skiucr egkbedtk, dh jhfocded, phr kbbh fklhr gkler be rkbejcúd y qukger jhfh oukdhs efcihs.  E vkjks sujkgk quk be perkle quk pkbkeoe fujnh, eb tkdkr  bukih gk tkrfcder, sus prhpces rkbejchdks e`kjtcves phr skperegh,

 

gksjuorkd quk ye dh pkbked jhd sus dhvchs dhvch y dhvce. S ks quk jhd bes pkrshdes dukves, dh tckdkd tedtes gc`krkdjces.  Eb pkdsefckdth< ‒¸febhirã kb pbed gk Gchs8‖, gkoks pkdser  quk Gchs dh tckdk ud pbed E, ud pbed O h ud pbed J. Zcdh ud pbed quk pukgk thfer fujnhs jefcdhs y quk tckdkd ud holktcvh, kb quk tk eyugkd e kster fås jkrje gk Ãb y fås `kbcz. Zc tu dhvch h dhvce dh tk eyuge e kster fås jkrje gkb Jrkeghr, ks fklhr quk gklks ksk dhvcezih.

 

 

¸Uuã pese sc fc dhvce sk kdhle phr thgh y ks jkbhse8   Okrdergh Ztefetkes gcjk< ‒Kb jkbhsh jhd`udgk kb efhr kihæste y phskscvh quk tckdk nejce su perkle, jhd kb vkrgegkrh efhr quk bcokrte eb htrh. Jrkk quk efer ks phskkr , quk kb htrh bk pkrtkdkjk ciueb quk jhfh sk jhfpre ud pequktk gk sebjncjnes= quk kb htrh gkok hokgkjkr y kster e su gcsphscjcúd sckfprk y pere sckfprk‖.]?1V  Equæ ney ghs prhobkfes, prcfkrh quk be dcõe dh seok fedkler  sus kfhjchdks y egkfås quk sk sckdtk cdskiure gkb efhr gk su dhvch. Wefocãd pukgk skr ud prhobkfe gkb dhvch y dh gk kbbe, quk bk ge rezhdks jberes pere quk kbbe sk kdhlk. Uuczå tü dkjksctes esufcr  rhbks gk fegurkz pere quk kbbe dh tkdie rezhdks gk kdhlh y jkbhs. Zc krks gkfescegh kxprkscvh kd tu jercõh phr tus efcies, y ksh dh bk iuste e kbbe, puks h jefoces h peres jhd be rkbejcúd. _kjukrge quk gkoks eferbe dh jhfh quckrks scdh jhfh kbbe dkjkscte. Ksth übtcfh ks juedgh ges rezhdks pere quk kbbe sckdte jkbhs y hovcefkdtk sk sckdtk sckdtk cdskiure phrquk tk e efe. fe. Jhfh ske. Bhs jk jkbhs bhs shd kvcgkdjce gk cdskiurcgeg y dh gkokræed fedc`kstersk kd ude perkle sebugeobk y jhfudcjetcve. prhdth, be prkiudte phgræe skr< ‒¸Zkrå kståsGk gcspukste e thbkrer kb pere rksth begkdhvce tu vcge be jhdgujte qukquk tk gcsiuste gk tu dhvch8‖. Eperkdtkfkdtk ks ud prhobkfe fås gk be dhvce quk ne bbkiegh e cdjhfhger tefocãd eb dhvch. Kbbe gkok gkjcgcr  sc ksth jhdtcdüe h tkrfcde phr kb ockd gk efohs y gk sus pegrks quk sk prkhjuped phr su rkbejcúd gk dhvcezih y phr übtcfh gk sus `uturhs nclhs, sc ks quk prhspkrerå kse rkbejcúd, pkdser kd quã jbcfe `efcbcer ved e rkshbvkr bhs `uturhs jhd`bcjths nhierkõhs. [dhs shd bhs jkbhs dhrfebks gk vkrtk jhdvkrsedgh jhd htre pkrshdes gkb skxh hpuksth, pkrh ude fuy gc`krkdtk ks be jkbhtcpce quk jhdscstk kd nejkr ud ksjådgebh gkbedtk gk htrhs pere gkler kd

 

jberh quk bk gcsiuste quk tkdies ude vcge shjceb y quk dh ske kbbe kb jkdtrh gk tu vcge. Gk skr esæ, ks nhre quk pckdsks kd gkler quk kbbe fegurk. Bes pkrshdes prkjcsed esufcr rhbks quk bks pkrfcted nejkr  `kbcz e be pkrshde efege. E vkjks pese quk dh sk pukgkd fedkler  bhs jkbhs quk tckdkd jhfh escgkrh be cfeicdejcúd. Qhr kbbh rkjhfckdgh, gk skr ksk kb jesh, quk tu dhvce vcsctk e ud pscjúbhih pere quk bk eyugk e rkshbvkr bes jeuses gk su cdskiurcgeg, ye quk, eudquk tkrfcdk be rkbejcúd jhdtcih, ney quk gerbk be rkjhfkdgejcúd pere quk ske ude fklhr pkrshde pere `utures rkbejchdks e`kjtcves.

 

 

Fk iuste be dhvce gk fc efcih y yh e kbbe ¸quã gkoh nejkr8   _kdã Wrhsskrh gcjk< ‒… bh quk sk pukgkd kxcicr kdtrk ustkgks (dhvchs) ks be bkebteg gk dh edger jhd ud ghobk lukih… kdieõådghsk. Ks gkjcr, skdtcrsk jhd bcokrteg gk phgkr kbkicr htre perkle, pkrh scd gkler gk begh kb rkspkth y be nhdkstcgeg jhd be ejtueb, neobedgh jberefkdtk bes jhses‖.]?5V Wk pukgkd iuster fujnes skõhrctes pkrh gkoks skr rkspktuhsh jhd be rkbejcúd gk tus efcihs. Kd kb jesh gk quk kbbe iustk gk tc, kbbe gkok skr nhdkste jhd su dhvch y tkrfcder be rkbejcúd jhd ãb e `cd gk nhdrerbh jhd rkspkth jrcstcedh. Kbbe gkok gcebhier jhd ãb, phr neokr  pkrfctcgh evedzer kd sus e`kjths eb efcih gk ãb kd su jhrezúd. Ks kdthdjks quk be rkbejcúd kdtrk kbbhs gkok jhdjbucr, ye quk dh ney `cgkbcgeg e`kjtcve. Kdthdjks kbbe ge ud pesh eb jhstegh. S tü phr rkspkth e tu efcih, tk gkoks eperter gk kbbe phr ud tckfph. Juedgh ye ned tkrfcdegh, ks gc`krkdtk kdthdjks, tedth be kx dhvce gk equkb, jhfh su efcih, dh tckdkd dege quk kxpbcjer phrquk sk rkspktú eb efcih pere dh eperkjkr jhfh ‒kb htrh‖, scdh quk tk ebklestk gk kbbe. Kb espkjth gkok yjhdtkfpber ks kb cdcjcer gk jucger oukd dhfork. Wkrfcderquk jhdkbbe ebiuckd eb phjh tckfph ude su rkbejcúd jhd htrh gkle fujnh quk gksker gk be ksteocbcgeg kfhjchdeb gk be skõhrcte. _kjhfckdgh quk peskd phr bh fkdhs udhs skcs fksks pere quk jhfckdjk ud dukvh rhfedjk. Jhdscgkre quk gkoks rkspkth kd thgh e tu efcih. Qhr htrh begh, sc e tc tk iuste be dhvce gk tu efcih, tk rkjhfckdgh quk tk ebklks, y dh prktkdges jhdqucsterbe phrquk pkrgkræes be efcsteg gk ãb. Ney quk skr bkebks. S sc tü krks be skõhrcte quk iuste gkb efcih gk tu dhvch, sk bkeb, jhdtrhbe tus kfhjchdks y sk nhdkste jhd tu

 

dhvch= tkrfcde be rkbejcúd y ebãletk phr ud tckfph gk juebquckr  rkbejcúd.

 

 

¸Júfh tckdk quk skr fc dhvcezih y fc jhfphrtefckdth gkdtrh gk be cibksce8   Kb dhvcezih ks be edtksebe gkb fetrcfhdch y gkok skr bbkvegh jhd rkspkth y fhgkstce tedth gkdtrh jhfh `ukre gk be cibksce. _kjukrge quk kb dhvcezih ks ud sæfohbh gk be rkbejcúd kdtrk Jrcsth y su cibksce. Qhr tedth gkokd skr fuy jucgeghshs kd jhfh sk jhdgujkd kd kb tkfpbh. Kb tkfpbh ks ud buier pere eghrer e Gchs y ãb sk fkrkjk thge su etkdjcúd. Gkdtrh gkb prkgch gk be cibksce bhs dhvchs gkokd bcfcter thge kxprkscúd kxeikrege gk e`kjth, jhfh okshs y eorezhs. Whfersk gk be fedh, skdtersk ludths y phdkr etkdjcúd e bes pebeores gkb prkgcjeghr shd ejtctugks sebugeobks. Qkrh skdtersk eorezeghs, gersk gk okshs y kxeikrer kd sus kxprkschdks gk e`kjth, dh gkok tkdkr buier kd be cibksce quk kstå rkskrvege pere be hrejcúd y be eghrejcúd eb Zkõhr. Be cibksce sk ebkire kd kb efhr gk sus fckforhs lúvkdks, sckfprk quk kstãd kd kb ferjh gkb rkspkth jrcstcedh, pkrh dh thbkre be kxprkscúd gk be pescúd quk dh egfctk jhdsklhs. Bhs lúvkdks rkebfkdtk jrcstcedhs ejkpteråd kb jhdsklh gk pkrshdes feyhrks y bægkrks kspcrctuebks. Juedgh ye sk ne puksth `kjne pere kb fetrcfhdch, sk pukgk prhjkgkr e be prkskdtejcúd gk be perkle e be cibksce. Kb bægkr rkbcichsh prkskdterå e bhs ghs jhfh dhvchs jhd `kjne gk fetrcfhdch y hrerå phr kbbhs. _kjukrge quk kd be cibksce, dh sk trete shbh gk ustkgks sc dh gk tu rkbejcúd pere jhd Gchs, sus kxprkschdks gk jercõh rkvkrkdtk pere jhd kb Jrkeghr. Dh ks tefphjh tedth tckfph, scdh tckfph gk eghrejcúd kxjbuscve pere jhd kb Qegrk Jkbkstceb.  Esæ quk bks rkjhfckdgh quk pertcjcpkd jhfh dhvchs kd bhs skrvcjchs rkbcichshs, pertcjcpkd kd be bcturice y kd bhs skrvcjchs

 

jhfudcterchs. Dh `ebtkd e be cibksce phr kster ludths, scdh, vkdied  lusths e be cibksce. cibksce.  

 

 

Juedgh quckre cdcjcer ud dhvcezih, ¸Wkdih quk jhfudcjerbk e fc bægkr  ¸Wkdih kspcrctueb8   Zkræe oukdh quk kb pesthr gk be cibksce h kb bægkr kspcrctueb ske jhdhjkghr gk be rkbejcúd gk dhvcezih quk sus lúvkdks fckforhs cdcjced, e `cd gk phgkr ejhdsklerbhs y iucerbhs kd kb jefcdh gk be kxpkrckdjce vcvcge. Kb rhb gkb pesthr ks kb gk jhdsklkrh y neste fkgceghr kd bes gc`cjubtegks quk bhs lúvkdks etrevcksed y kd kb jesh gk bhs dhvchs,  ludth e sus pegrks jrcstcedhs y gk ejukrgh jhd kbbhs, iucer y ejhdskler e bhs cdkxpkrths nclhs. [d dhvcezih bbkvegh e ksjhdgcges gk be euthrcgeg gk bhs pegrks ks ude sctuejcúd fuy gkbcjege, y bbkvege e ksjhdgcges gkb pesthr, ks phjh prugkdtk. Zk gkok jhdscgkrer nejkr pertk eb bægkr  kspcrctueb gk be `hrfejcúd gk be dukve `efcbce. Kb vkrgegkrh efhr kjne `ukre kb tkfhr. Gklkfhs quk be `efcbce y be cibksce sk ebkirkd kd bes gkjcschdks gk efhr quk nejkd. Ksth gerå pck e ksjujner fübtcpbks jhdsklhs quk gkokd skr etkdgcghs, phrquk kd be eoudgedjce gk jhdsklkrhs ney seocguræe. s eocguræe. _kjukrge quk juedgh ude pkrshde kste kdefhrege, kb lucjch jrctcjh sk edube y ks juedgh sk dkjkscted gk pkrshdes quk pukged iucer, ejhdskler y hrckdter kd bhs fhfkdths gc`æjcbks. Qkrshdes quk bhs jhdhzjed y gkd ude pebeore skiure. Qhr htrh begh, ks gkokr gkb bægkr kspcrctueb phdkrsk kd jhdtejth jhd be `efcbce gkbhs dhvchs pere phgkr phdkrsk gk ejukrgh kd kb prhjksh gk prkperejcúd pere kb fetrcfhdch. Kb bægkr kspcrctueb gkokrå gkserrhbber kb jursh prk fetrcfhdceb kd be perkle quk sk kstå prkperedgh pere udcr su vcge kd sedth fetrcfhdch jhdtedgh jhd be okdgcjcúd gk Gchs.

 

Ksths jurshs shd hobciethrchs pere be perkle y tckdkd ude gurejcúd gk kdtrk juetrh y skcs fksks, jhd skschdks quk pukgkd skr  gk kdtrk ude vkz phr skfede e ude vkz eb fks, gkpkdgckdgh gk be eikdge gk bhs pertcjcpedtks.

 

 

¸Zc be pkrshde quk fk iuste ks gk htre jhdirkiejcúd pukgh kddhvcer jhd kbbe8   Bhs tkxths gk ? Jhrcdtchs 0