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Sex Positions & Techniques

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Click here for our sex positions guide This website is designed to improve your sex life - whether you've been together ten weeks or ten years! Quite simply, if you want intense passion and excitement in your sex life, we have all the sexual positions and techniques you could ever want.

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Large, high resolution, explicit, and very erotic photos of real people enjoying real sex! (All very tastefully done, so men and women can view this website together!). Photos of attractive and passionate couples enjoying the basic sex positions like man on top, as well as many exciting new positions you've never seen before.

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Photographs arranged in groups: man on top, woman on top, side by side, rear entry, standing, sitting and kneeling, and also the more adventurous sex positions - again with all possible variations, and information about the advantages and disadvantages of each.

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Click here to get great sex! Ways To Make Sex Better: Top Tips For Orgasmic Pleasure And it's not all about sex positions! Top Sex Tip! One of the most exciting moments for a woman is the feeling of the labia and entrance to the vagina being opened. So, guys, don't just do it once. Do it ten, fifty or a hundred times. Withdraw completely then, after a moment, slide back in. See what happens when you vary the length of time between penetrations. One second, five seconds, ten seconds... Ten great reasons for using different sex positions What's the point of lots of different sex positions? This is a question few people would ever ask. Sex positions, like mountain peaks, are there. The more you can bag, and the harder they are, the greater the sense of satisfaction afterwards. On the other hand, some people prefer comfort and, above all, the familiar. In fact, there are excellent reasons for using several different positions in a session of lovemaking. A different view. Some sex positions provide less visual stimulation, others carry a powerful erotic charge. In some positions, you can see how your partner is responding; in others, eyes and faces are hidden from one another. Different muscular tension. Some sex positions create more muscular tension than others. When excitement is boiling up too fast, switch to a position with little tension; when things are going too slowly, switch to a position with high tension, which opens and stretches the thighs, such as the two triangles. Different stimulation. Different sex positions stimulate different areas. For example, rear-entry positions make it easier to stimulate the G-Spot with the penis. A man who tends to ejaculate too soon should choose a position that provides less stimulation. Variety. You don't want to make love in the same way every time; introduce novelty. Rest. Sometimes you simply need to rest muscles by switching to a different position. Practicality. When a nice comfortable bed isn't available, you may have to find an unusual solution. Entertainment. Trying different sex positions is, quite simply, fun. Different psychology. In Western culture, whoever is on top tends to have a feeling of 'dominance' while the other tends to feel 'submissive'. In some positions this can be quite extreme. In Eastern culture, on the other hand, the person on top gives energy to the person underneath. Different emotion. There are positions in which you feel very close and intimate, with stimulation all over your bodies. In others, you're connected only at the genitals, isolating and concentrating the impact there. Tackling inhibition. When you struggle and wriggle and stretch and groan and laugh as you attempt the more outrageous and difficult sex positions, you'll cast off your inhibitions. How many positions are there? One author claims 100, another 365, another 1,000. In reality, there are only a few basic positions but with lots of variations. Even if you just stick to the missionary style, for example, you'll probably still do at least a dozen taking into account all the variations that come more or less naturally. A word about switching postures. Whenever possible, try to move as seamlessly from one to the other without disengaging. A thickly carpeted floor is excellent because it gives you the space to roll over and over. Otherwise, have the biggest bed you can afford and have room for. The key to it all is a powerful erection, otherwise the penis is liable to slip out when you move. Great sex position no. 1: The improved missionary position People were asked to rate positions on a scale of 1 to 100 - and the results are listed here in order of the popularity of the main position. Everybody knows the missionary, precisely because it's one of the most natural positions there is. With the woman lying comfortably on her back and the man lying between her open thighs, supporting himself on his hands or elbows, it's intimate, allowing for kissing, talking, eye contact and a range of caresses. The man is slightly but not unduly dominant - which suits the psychology of most couples most of the time. The drawback with the basic missionary is that movement is restricted. The improved missionary simply requires the addition of a nice, thick pillow under the woman's buttocks. Not

only is her vulva now raised for some intensive cunnilingus, but the man can squat or kneel or arrange himself on one knee with the other leg out behind for a powerful and versatile pattern of thrusting. With the man's weight taken off her, the woman is also more free to move. Group score: 94 The improved missionary is a marvelous starting point from which to move seamlessly through a wide variety of variations, mostly with the man squatting or kneeling. Variation 1. The woman wraps her legs around the man's waist. Group score: 85 Variation 2. The woman puts one leg on each of the man's shoulders. Group score: 85 Variation 3. The woman holds her legs wide open and in the air at an angle of about 45 degrees. This sets up tremendous tension. Group score: 85 Great sex top tip In any position in which either of you have your legs open, up and free (such as variation 3 of the improved missionary) try waggling them vigorously as you approach orgasm. The additional stimulation along your inner thighs and throughout your pelvis will almost certainly send you into delirium. Variation 4. The woman puts both legs on one of the man's shoulders. (This gives a completely different sensation to variation 2 because the legs are together.) Group score: 83 Variation 5. The woman wraps her legs around the man's legs. Group score: 81 Variation 6. The woman closes her legs - some women find they can orgasm more easily with their legs together. Group score: 77 Variation 7. The woman draws in her legs and crosses them in the famous yoga position known as the 'lotus' (or as close to it as she can manage). This really opens up the vagina but, at the same time, keeps the man from thrusting too deep. Group score: 71 Variation 8. The woman bends her knees, placing her feet on the man's hips. Group score: 68 Variation 9. The woman raises her legs and clamps them against his hips. Group score: 63 Variation 10. The man (sitting back on his feet) pulls the woman's hips up onto his thighs and she helps support herself with her feet on the bed, beside his feet.

What we're all about! From the best site on positions for lovemaking and sex on the net! We're adding new information all the time. Our latest batch of pages provides information and advice on everything from improving the quality of your orgasm to how to give good oral sex to the best sex positions! If you're wondering how to move sex from the mundane or average to the spiritual level of human interaction, this page on the meaning of sex may be helpful. We remain true to our origins, however: we started out as a simple guide to sex positions, and we pride ourselves on the breadth and depth of our content and our ability to explain the pros and cons of just about every position you could ever think of. But sometimes it's helpful to go back to basics: so we also have a simple summary of the various sex positions you can use in your lovemaking, explained in clear straightforward language, with plenty of clear pictures to illustrate what we're describing. We have just added a new section on sexual healing aided by massage of the vagina and G spot. Mixed in among these pages, we also have our ever-popular sexual advice pages, partly made up of questions mostly sent in by our loyal readers over the last few years, together with answers provided by our resident team of sex experts, not just on the subject of sex positions, but also about many other aspects of sex and relationships. This helpful general advice includes a number of pages with helpful tips on sex positions and general advice on sex, all of which we offer as a contribution to greater sexual knowledge. Among them is one that turned out to be a controversial feature a couple of years ago, describing our view of the sort of mistakes women sometimes make during sex. We've found, over the years, that even though sex is such an intimate thing, it can produce so much shame and embarrassment that many people grow up lacking even basic knowledge which could help them enjoy it even more. For that reason, we've produced a series of pages on specific sexual issues. Here are some of them: If you're making love for the very first time, we have a page devoted to best ways to lose your virginity. And if you're more experienced, and just want to spice up your love life, truly passionate ways to have sex are listed here. Should you be a man with a smaller than average endowment, this may be a problem unless you know about sex positions for men with a small penis. Of course, while you may be self-conscious if your penis is smaller than average, your partner probably doesn't care at all about the size of your organ. But, if you use these sex positions, you'll be able to make great love to her! We also now have new advice for men with a smaller than average penis during sex (remember - that makes up half of all men). For more serious sexual problems, we have built a special website which deals with the problem of not being able to ejaculate during sex or masturbation, a condition known as delayed ejaculation, retarded ejaculation or male orgasmic disorder. And if you're wondering what other people do in the bedroom, and how it compares to your own sex life, you might just be able to find out with our survey of sexual behaviour. We asked a sexual therapist to give us her view of what women want from sex and relationships, and among other advice, she came up with a page of sex positions to help women reach orgasm during intercourse. Our sexual techniques pages cover a whole range of subjects: for example, one of the most popular is about sex positions for orgasm during intercourse; we have many others, on subjects as varied as enjoying passionate sex, relaxing into gentle sex, and the best ways to enjoy romantic sex. We explain the best sex positions for large people, the best ways to enjoy sex in pregnancy, and the easiest ways to enjoy sex with deep penetration. Our colleagues at great sexual positions granted us an exclusive right to use their "coitus content!" So now we have even more sexual techniques for you to enjoy! These pages include some fantastic photography: see our pages on rear entry sex, woman on top sex, and standing and kneeling sex; there's even a feature on advanced sexual positions (that means the kind of acrobatic postures you can hardly imagine using every day!). If you want a more relaxed lovemaking experience, try the range of gentler sitting positions and of course the old favorite of man on top and all the variations it offers. If you're a beginner in the art of lovemaking, start with our basic sex positions pages. These will give you all the background you need to understand sex and the various techniques available to you. With our advice, you'll be prepared for everything - whether that's making love for the first time, or going to bed with a new partner in one of the following positions - man on top; rear entry; woman on top; and, last but not least, side by side. We have many useful sex advice pages which include tips to improve your sex life and what women think of various sex positions. We also cover common sex problems and offer readers' advice; a very useful feature which has gained much applause is our page about how you should put a condom on during sex. And if all of that isn't enough, we describe oral sex (fellatio and cunnilingus); this is the place to go for information about positions for oral sex. Finally, our section on Tantra includes information on the basics of Tantric Sex, how the chakras are involved in energy flow during lovemaking; and information about the male orgasm - with and without ejaculation! If you're looking for something in particular, our site map shows you all of our content at a glance. So, if you're wondering, say, "Does sex really have to involve intercourse?" (we'd say definitely not!) or, "How on earth can we spice up our sex lives?" the site map might be the right place to start looking for the answers.

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The pictures expand into much larger and clearer photos when you click on them! Having a sexual relationship that works well doesn't just depend upon your knowing lots of sex positions! Any difficulties in communication between you and your partner will erode confidence, spark resentment and lead to a loss of passion. If that's the way your relationship is shaping up, then knowing lots of ways to enjoy sex is not likely to make much of an improvement. On the other hand, if things are going well for you and your partner, but you lack passion, or even sexual desire for each other, then trying out new sex positions and techniques can bring back emotional intimacy, fun and hopefully sexual excitement for you! We're all interested in sex, that's for sure. We spend a huge amount of time thinking about it, enjoying it, or trying to get it. Don't you think, then, it's a bit strange that a lot of people lose interest in sex with their partners so quickly? The explanation for this may lie in the fact that sex is just like lots of other human pastimes - to stop us getting bored, we occasionally have to find some new interests, some new techniques, which make it fresh and exciting for us. That's the idea behind this website: to help you find new ways to enjoy sex! So call your partner, look at the pictures together, have a laugh, and then go to bed and enjoy trying out these new sex positions. And above all, remember sex should be enjoyable, not taken too seriously, and above all FUN!

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But what is sex actually all about for you? It probably depends on what mood you're in: you might be looking for vigorous, passionate sex that's quick, impulsive and powerful; you might be looking for slow. romantic lovemaking, or you might be looking for lazy, loving sex before you go to sleep. Sex can do all these things and more for us, in all kinds of ways, and in all kinds of positions, but it's important for men to remember that though they may be very orgasm-centered, the same isn't always true for women. Men tend to think of penetration as wonderful, penile thrusting as extremely enjoyable, and orgasm as even better - regardless of the sexual position! - but many women find the very act of penetration gives them a huge amount of emotional and physical fulfillment. Women may find the physical connection of their partner's penis in their vagina sufficiently rewarding in itself. For them, vaginal thrusting usually doesn't produce an orgasm - regardless of the position in which you're both enjoying sex - and sex may have more emotional connotations than it does for a man. There's an old cliché about men needing sex to feel loving, while women want love before they're ready for sex. And most old clichés have a grain of truth in them somewhere! A man may also enjoy having sex (or making love, if you prefer) in less conventional ways: for example, penetrating his partner without thrusting to orgasm, just enjoying the feeling of sexual energy flowing as his penis is enclosed in the warmth and wetness of his partner's body. Or, perhaps, making gentle rocking motions from the hips rather than vigorous pelvic thrusts. Or making shallow thrusts at the entrance to her vagina, thereby teasing the most sensitive parts of her vulva. All of these are things that you can explore without being caught up in the search for passionate sex in outrageous new positions. But when you do want to enjoy some new ways of making love, you can turn to the pages of this site for hundreds of exciting sex positions that will enhance your enjoyment of sex.

"Basic" sex: the man on top position (also known as the missionary position) When you ask people what positions they like to have sex in, the most popular answer from men is "Rear entry" or "Woman on top". Women say they prefer "Woman on top" more than any other sex position. But the odd thing is that we know most people have more sex in the man on top position than any other! Now, just how do you explain that?

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Men certainly like the idea of rear entry sex. After all, there aren't many things more sexually exciting than penetrating your partner from behind, watching your penis moving in and out of her vagina while her bottom frames the picture! Yet men often reach orgasm quickly in this sex position, so intercourse doesn't last long, and it may not afford much opportunity for emotional connection with your partner. Women may find the idea of rear entry sex "naughty", raw, passionate or lustful, but in reality it may mean they don't feel very connected with their man. And woman on top sex is a very different thing to man on top sex - once she's on top, a woman may find herself taking the lead, controlling the pace of sex and determining its rhythm. All these things are exciting once in a while, but perhaps what we really crave is the certainty, the established roles, the security of man on top sex - or maybe it just feels good for both partners? Yes, that's partly true: it can certainly feel good for men, who can make deep pelvic thrusts, enjoy a sense of dominance over their partner, and have powerful orgasms. But what about a woman's pleasure? Does she get much out of sex in the man on top position? Her clitoris is rarely stimulated, she may not reach orgasm, and she feels the weight of her man on her.....but there are compensations. The couple can look into each other's eyes, have extensive bodily contact, and enjoy the emotional rewards of being on top and underneath (in other words he feels dominant or protective, she feels receiving or protected). Surely, man on top sex reaffirms a man's lustiness and sexual power, and a woman's desirability and sexuality, and in addition, as she permits her man to penetrate her, she feels safe, secure and protected. No wonder it's so popular...

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The basics of the man on top sex position If you're sexually experienced, then you probably already know how man on top sex works. But for the benefit of those who aren't, the man positions himself over the woman with his weight more or less supported on his arms, knees and legs, while she lies on her back with her partner's legs inside or outside hers. There are many variations of this basic position, all of which give a different experience to the man and the woman - for example, if she has her legs outside his, her vagina won't be as tight as it would be if she had her legs inside his. You can see how man on top sex works in the pictures below (all of which expand when you click on them).

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A lot of people think that in this sexual position the woman's movements are restricted by the weight of her partner, but that's not entirely true - a woman does have the freedom to thrust or rock her pelvis to some extent: in

fact, she can add greatly to the enjoyment of sex for both partners if she moves her hips to meet his thrusting with some energy of her own.

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But why stick with the basic man on top sex position? Try, for example, having sex with the CAT. That's the "coital alignment technique", of course.

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So what happens when she puts her legs in the air? The main difference between sexual positions comes down to two things. The first is the angle of penetration - the angle at which his penis enters her vagina. Any change in the orientation of the two partners' bodies can change the angle at which his penis thrusts into her vagina, and of course this will change the sensations that both partners feel. The other major difference, needless to say, is the tightness of her vagina - anything that tightens her vagina will tend to make sex feel better for him (provided there is still enough lubrication to ensure that the friction does not become unpleasant) and possibly for her. Unfortunately many women find that even a slight change of angle of entry can cause unpleasant friction in the vagina; this is especially true if his penis begins to rub too hard on her sensitive spots such as her G spot. Having said that, an interesting variation which makes man on top sex feel better for both partners is the one in which she raises her legs progressively further up his body. The most common variation is when she places her feet on his calves, or wraps her legs around his thighs - see the pictures below.

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Have Great Sex In Any Position You Desire! She clasps him with her legs and pulls him into her As a general rule, the higher she raises her legs, the deeper his penis will go into her. What's more, she can pull him deeper into her, which is delicious for both partners, especially if she's into deep penetration. Sex in this position can be very fulfilling for the man, since men often crave deep penetration - it's something genetic, no doubt, about ejaculating as near their partner's cervix as possible. But when we have sex for fun, such ancient genetic impulses can be used to enhance our pleasure - and if she's flexible enough to raise her legs as shown in the picture below, then both partners' enjoyment may increase greatly.

If she's even more flexible, this position may offer great sex As you might expect, when she gets her legs right back - see the picture below - the man can get his cock as deeply into her as he's ever likely to do. This can be very exciting, make him come quickly, and allow him to thrust deeply and powerfully. Hopefully he's not going to thrust too deeply, though, for if he does he might hit her cervix with the end of his penis, which is sometimes very painful for a woman. It's essential that both partners are able to

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tell the other what they want and don't want, so as to ensure sex is a great experience for both of them.

An interesting variation with the man kneeling for sex You've got to be flexible for some of this stuff, believe me. But if you're not, there's a chance you're going to feel you're missing out on something wonderful, that the heights of sexual pleasure are being denied to you. That's not true: sex can be just as good in the basic man on top (or any other basic position) as it is in the variations. What you miss if you can't get into positions like the ones below is variety - and though variety is supposed to be the spice of life, there are so many options in sex that you need never feel deprived. That said, the positions below do have a certain extra spice: the man can see himself penetrating his partner, which is what men like to see, and she can enjoy a feeling of wanton lustfulness, of being a "bad" girl, of exposing herself and allowing herself to be "taken". OK, that might not be your thing, and maybe you just like sex in this position because it feels good, but for a lot of people sex in a new position like this is exciting simply because it's different to the "safer", perhaps more conventional ways of having sex.

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Men like three things: warmth, wetness, and tightness. Provided the woman is naturally well-lubed, or you have a bottle of lube at hand, the first two are taken care of. The third depends on where you both have your legs. For extra sensation, try having the woman's legs inside the man's. He won't be able to penetrate as deeply, but it may be exquisitely pleasurable for him. Don't expect sex to last long, though! More Sexual Techniques And Positions!

Another exciting variation of the good old man on top! This position can be very exciting, because it allows deep penetration, the man can view his partner's buttocks as he enters her, and it provides both partners with a sense of taking/being taken, which might be something you find sexually exciting. It's certainly a good variation for those times you feel very horny, but you want a compromise between rear entry and conventional man on top sex!

A woman talks about man on top sex Why do I like the man-on-top sex position? Many, many reasons. I love to feel him on top of me, his weight bearing down on me, that slight sense of being dominated in a loving way, feeling him penetrating me, kissing him as he enters me, caressing his back, arms, legs, buttocks - oh, the sexiness of that......incredible! Of course what rocks your boat may be different, but what makes this so sexy for me is the connection - he's fucking me while he looks into my eyes, and I can move my legs so that I have him round the waist and I can pull him deeper into my cunt. That way, he's mine, and he can't get away. Mind you, I also love the thought of him entering me while I can't get away - even if I wanted to.....which of course I don't!

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And moving my legs can really get him going. I can bend my knees, rest my feet on his calves and relax while he does the work - including sucking my breasts - or I can straighten my legs out and flex my vaginal muscles - while I watch his face. The power of his orgasm is something amazing to me - the thought that I'm somehow responsible for the sexual energy he gives out as he shouts out in his uncontrollable orgasmic thrusts gives me a real sense of my feminine sexual power. What's more, if we get tired we can move into some other sex position - side by side being favorite! We can move over into the side by side position from the man on top very easily, and it doesn't take much effort. You just have to make sure that your legs and arms don't get squashed as you roll over, and his penis must must be deeply inside as you both start to roll. Once we're there, we spend a lot of time just caressing, looking into each other's eyes and moving gently. Sex lasts a long time, and this has the advantage that when we do come, we come much more powerfully - sometimes we can even manage to come at the same time, especially if I'm very aroused before we start to make love. The great advantage is that my clitoris is easily accessible and we can time our arrival at orgasm more easily than we can in some other positions where he (or I) can't reach my clitoris as easily. There's a lot of potential variation in this position. You can hug each other close or you can move back and relax, staring into each other's eyes. You can have the woman lift her leg high in the air, and you can then enjoy the sight of his penis penetrating your vagina, while being able to play with each other's labia, balls and anus - if that turns you on. The penetration is more visible in this position than many others, and it can be very exciting for both partners to watch the movement of his penis in and out of the vagina, wet with vaginal lubrication. It's a restful position for lovemaking, and one that seems to allow for a great exchange of sexual / spiritual energy. You can also take it more vigorously and enjoy powerful thrusting by both partners if that's what you feel like, though it's really nice to enjoy this position in a relaxed way before you go to sleep. If you do it reversed, with his chest to the woman's back, then you can actually fall asleep like this.

A man talks about man on top sex Man on top sex really does it for me. Sure, rear entry is exciting, and side by side is loving and relaxing - and very sexy when you can see the penetration - but man on top is my real favorite. I like to enjoy the feeling that I'm in charge, that I'd dominating my partner, that I'm taking her, and though that may sound a bit chauvinistic, I do believe this can be a real turn on during sex, when we encounter the essence of the male and female sexual nature. To me it's about giving/receiving, dominating/being taken, but definitely not about active and passive. It's nonsense to talk of women being passive during sex: they should be just as active as men, in particular during man on top sex, when they can thrust just as powerfully as a man. Man on top sex is a favorite position for me. There's so much intimacy and connection and yet at the same time there's so much raw sexual power around. I love feeling my partner under me, her breasts pressing on my chest, her nipples available for pleasure, our kissing can be passionate or gentle and loving, and there is of course always the thrill of penetration - especially when I see her face as I slide my penis into her. That moment has never stopped giving me the biggest thrill of my life - even after years with the same partner I still find it exciting and arousing to enter her, to push her flesh apart and find my way into her secret places. Entering her body is wonderful, especially when I feel her become even wetter in response to my entry; thrusting is so instinctual and fulfilling that it excites me beyond measure, and of course, the climax of sex in this position is ejaculating deep inside her. That's better than anything else I've known in my sexual experience. And in case that all seems a bit self-centered, I should add that she loves it all as well! One thing a lot of men have told me is that the man on top position certainly does not help them to spin out lovemaking, to make it last longer. It's the power of the deep thrusts we men can make during man on top sex that makes us come quickly - a lot of self-discipline and self-restraint is required before a man learns to hold off his ejaculation in this position, I think. It's not good for premature ejaculators, that's for sure! I've had a few amusing things happen in the man on top position. I tend to shout very loudly when I come, and I once deafened a partner because I had my mouth next to her ear on the pillow - something to watch out for if you like to give voice to your pleasure at the moment of orgasm! Another thing to watch out for is muscle strain - especially if you're moving into middle age. It's helpful to rest your weight on your arms when they are wrapped under her shoulders, so you're not pressing up just on your hands. This also allows her to feel protected and loved, since you have her in a tight embrace, though of course you shouldn't forget to ask her if she likes what you're doing, and adjust your position if she's uncomfortable. But as far as I'm concerned, the closer our bodies come the better during man on top sex. That doesn't mean it's got to be like that every time - of course, it's thrilling to adopt some of the variants, especially the kneeling ones, so you can see yourself penetrating your partner, and it's also very exciting if she positions her legs in the air so you can thrust more deeply and enjoy a different sensation as you move inside her. The only problem with this one, though, is that if you have an inflexible back and a short penis, you might not be able to get into her unless you support her bottom on a pillow. Other advantages of man on top sex: she can talk dirty into your ear, she can whisper encouragement to you (rude or not, as she chooses!) as you fuck her, and she can play with your buttocks, nipples and back. Having your nipples tweaked or even bitten as you come might increase the intensity of your orgasm quite a bit - at least, that's what I've found!

Readers comment on the man on top position for sex When we asked women to comment on man on top sex, this is a sample of what they said: Like many women, I love man on top positions. I have a pillow wonder my bottom, he's up on his arms, and as he thrusts into me he hits the spot that just makes me scream with delight! I also love watching his male power, the strength of his muscles and arms as he pushes into me. It's just so sexy. When I watch my man come, it is the greatest sight I've witnessed. I think many women appreciate man on top sex nowadays - we've moved through all that stuff about women being dominated and we can see it as a sex position where both partners get real pleasure. Watching my man come is a pleasure for me, but besides that, the position simply feels good! What's more we're in close contact - he can kiss me, kiss my breasts, caress me and look into my eyes. It's good for both of us.

When my man's on top, the kissing is wonderful! Imagine the eroticism of being kissed while your man has his cock buried deep inside you! Does it get any more romantic than that? Our favorite position is of course man on top - I love watching him while he's in ecstasy. But he can also shift his body up and use it to press on my clitoris, which can make me come. There's nothing as good as coming together! My favorite sex position is man on top. He shifts his body up so I can keep my clit in contact with his body and feel the pressure on it from his pubic mound. I think it's the fact I can control the pressure and control when I come that makes it so good. But I also like to be on top watching him go into ecstasy as I ride him - that is such a powerful feeling, to give him such pleasure. I love man on top when we adapt it so my legs are over his shoulders. I love feeling compressed, I love feeling his weight on me as he fucks me - it gives me a delicious feeling of being taken, being unable to resist his desires. No matter what we've done before, we always finish off in the man on top position - that is, we always finish so he can come in this position. He absolutely adores it, and so do I, though I usually come when I'm on top or through oral sex. But watching him as he ejaculates is just the most amazing thing, and something I never get over - no matter how many times we do it!

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Questions about man on top sex positions which have been emailed to us over the years - and our answers! A young man emailed: Our best sex position is man on top. I love holding my partner down and being able to look into her eyes as I push my penis into her - gently or more forcefully, depending on how we feel, whether we're making love or enjoying more powerful sex. We also do some role play, safe enough within the bedroom, about her fantasy of being taken against her will. We'd only do that in the context of a loving relationship, but she can look into my eyes and see the desire there as I enter her, and I guess that lets her fantasize about how much men might want to have sex with her. Whatever, the eye contact is important to us - it makes sex more connected, more exciting, more arousing. And for men, there's that amazing moment of pushing into her, of parting her labia, of sliding my penis into her juicy, hot, wet cunt (those are her words, not mine, by the way!). We can also maneuver ourselves so that my penis rubs on her G spot, and stimulates her in a way she just can't resist. If we go on long enough, she will even have a vaginal orgasm - a G spot orgasm - which lasts much longer and makes her more excited than a clitoral orgasm. We find her clitoral orgasms tend to be short lived, and centered around her pelvis, while her G spot orgasms involve her whole body. Anyhow, that's a few of the reasons why we like man on top.....! I'd love to know what other men and women think. A man answers: Well, like most men I like to see my wife's behind in the air - it really gets me thinking, I want to be in there! And it's very sexy, but the thing about it is that there isn't necessarily much tightness, although she can hold her legs together and that improves it. She's had two kids, so the best position for tightness is a variation of man on top where she holds her legs together and I push into her. I have a long penis so I can get deep enough to make this pleasurable for both of us. I doubt it would work too well for a man whose penis was shorter. Second reader (male) observes: Man on top used to be so unpopular but more and more people are realizing how good it is! Watching my woman orgasm is an amazing sight. We do this by having her thrust up and down as I penetrate her deeply - this way, her clitoris rubs or bangs against my pubic mound, and she comes quite quickly. And to feel her coming while I'm still inside her is amazing. The only other position we can do this is when we're in the side by side position. A woman replies: Man on top is great, but you should try the scissors! You (the woman) have one of his legs between yours and you then grind yourself against his thigh. By adjusting how much pressure you exert in this position, you can stimulate your clitoris and come quite easily. A second woman replies: I need my clitoris to be stimulated to reach orgasm, and one position where we can do this is with my man on top when I have my legs vertically up with him kneeling in front of them and pushing into me. He loves the deep penetration, and he loves watching me as I climax as he plays with my clit. A second man responds: My wife was very embarrassed about her body when we met and would never try sex in the rear entry position. But after we had tried man on top in the dark, we moved to man on top with the lights on, then we enjoyed man on top in every room in the house maybe that's why it's our favorite! We spent so much time trying man on top that it came as a surprise when she suggested that we do something different - it was even more of a surprise when she suggested the rear entry position! I'm happy to say we have sex that way a lot now, but our favorite is still man on top - it just feels best for us both! Original emailer observes: The best position for me is the man on top position with my partner lying on the bed face down. I can enter her from behind and reached around to play with her clit, and this is the only way she can come when I am inside her - I think it has something to do with the pressure of the bed on her clitoris. And she tells me that she likes to feel my weight on top of her - so I usually don't support myself too much in this position, but let my weight rest on her. When she tells me she would like me to raise myself, it takes the pleasure down a little for me, because I find I have to focus on keeping myself up on my arms, and this is a bit of a strain.

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Click here to find out how! A question from a reader of the site, and answers from other readers: My girl and I've just started having sex, and so we're trying out all kinds of sex positions. the problem is, things aren't going as well as wed hoped. We started in the man on top position, but I couldn't get the rhythm right, and my penis kept popping out of her. Should I be thrusting, which is how I thought it would be, or should I be doing what I was doing, which was sliding my whole body up and down hers, so as to move my cock in and out of her vagina? Is that why I kept sliding out? Answer 1: The correct movement in sex depends on what position you're using. For man on top, you have to ensure that your hips are free to move, so that you can thrust your penis in and out of your partner's vagina. To do this, you need to support your weight on your lower legs and arms or hands, so that your pelvis is free to make the thrusting movements which will move your penis in and out. If you simply lie on top of her, you may find that you can't move correctly, because you certainly don't want to be sliding your whole body up and down hers! Obviously if you are in the rear entry position, then you make your pelvic thrusts in a different way - you move your pelvis back and forth from the hips. Answer 2: This isn't directly an answer to your question, but when I started having sex I found that I couldn't feel where my penis was in her vagina because we were using condoms. Now that we're in a stable relationship and I'm simply entering her without a condom, I find I can judge the position of my penis in her vagina much better. Also, the other thing that made a difference is that I wasn't drawing back far enough on the outward stroke, because I thought my penis was shorter than average (and it is a bit, at about five inches!). Without pulling out far enough, you won't have much of a stroke. The only other thing I'd add is that you need to be able to talk to your girlfriend about this, and you need to be able to experiment sexually in a relaxed way. That helps you communicate much better. Answer 3: There are plenty of alternatives. You don't have to just stick to one rigid formula when you have sex. For example, you can put your penis into her then simply lie still and enjoy the feelings as you "twitch" your penis, or she clasps you with her vaginal muscles. Then you can churn your penis around in a circular motion by moving your hips around in a circle. Or you can make small in and out movements that stimulate the outer part of her vagina. You don't have to make deep thrusts - indeed, you don't have to do this in any position - you can just play around and see what you enjoy. Making deep thrusts will make you come quickly, anyway, so even if your girl wants to feel you thrusting you may find that sex doesn't last very long! Also, don't forget that sex positions with the woman on top can be much better for both partners. The man is saved the effort of thrusting, which can be tiring, and can make him come quickly. The woman is able to move her clitoris against the base of his penis so that she can find the exact movement or angle of entry which allows her clitoris or G spot to be stimulated - that way she may be able to reach orgasm during intercourse.

Question from a reader: If you have a small penis, what are the best sex positions? My penis is only about five inches long and I just can't find a position which makes sex good for us both. In the man on top position, I find I can't

make deep thrusts. In the rear entry position I find I pop out. In the side by side position I find I can't get into her and in the woman on top position I don't feel very much! First of all, it might be that you're thinking a bit too much about your size. Many men have a penis this size and they have great sex! So the first thing you need to do is drop any preconceptions about what your penis will allow you to do - the truth is this: with a bit of adaptability, you will be able to have sex in just as many positions as you want. It's actually things like the flexibility of your back that will restrict the number of positions you can get into. So let's take this step by step. First of all, in the man on top position, you can penetrate her quite deeply if she moves her legs back so her knees come up towards her chest. Ask her if she can clasp her legs around your back, crossing her ankles, and see if this gives you more sensation and/or control. You may not be able to thrust as deeply, but you may find that sex in this position is much more pleasurable due to the fact that her vagina is a bit tighter. Next, there is an important factor in how big you are: if you and your partner are overweight, then there is, sadly, the question of a certain amount of fat getting in the way! You have to find a position where her vagina is exposed and your penis is able to get into her comparatively easily. You can research this by looking up "sex positions for large people" on Google. Certainly you will find that spooning positions are impossible if you are very overweight. Third, be very careful if you have a small penis when she is on top. If she is riding up and down your shaft, then if your cock is a bit short you may find that she can accidentally ride up too far and you will pop out of her - the danger being that if she comes down too quickly, and at the wrong angle, then she may break your penis. So a certain amount of care is required. There shouldn't be any problem in the man on top position, though. If she can get her legs up onto your shoulders, then you should be able to penetrate her without much difficulty, and you should be able to get deeply into her. If you're trying sex in the conventional man on top position with you both lying down, try putting a pillow under her hips to raise them a bit, so you can get more easily into her. Next, doggy style or rear entry should not be a problem for you regardless of the size of your penis. You can penetrate your partner even if she has to raise her butt into the air to allow you to find the right angle. Often when men say they can't manage a sex position, it's because they haven't found the correct angle to get into their partner's vagina. If you try realigning your bodies, that might help you adjust things and make it easier to enjoy satisfying sex. Great Sexual Techniques shows you many more positions. Finally, remember that if your partner has orgasmed once or twice before you enter her, her vagina will be wet and swollen, so you may find that it grips your penis better, and you tend to slip out less - regardless of the position you're enjoying for your lovemaking. Another great position for deep penetration finds the woman lying on her back and bringing her legs up over her head. This makes her vagina the main focus of her partner's attention!

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Sex Positions In an intimate and emotionally open sexual relationship, the role of more dominant and more submissive partner may alternate between the man and the woman. Each partner can be comfortable with whatever a particular sexual position demands of them. For example, during man on top sex the woman is not so much passive as receptive, opening up to her man while he's in a position that seems to imply the more dominant or more "active" role. By contrast, woman on top sex suggests that the woman takes over the role of the more active partner; she is literally "on top" and in control of the rhythm and pace of the couple's sexual activity. And, just as the woman's movements are somewhat limited when her partner is in the man on top position, so his movements are more limited when she is riding high! Side by side sex tends to be more equal - it looks and feels like an act of mutual love and respect, where communication and intimacy between two people is reflected in long, slow lovemaking, albeit with deep penetration and powerful orgasms.

Man on to: the missionary position - uncomplicated, satisfying sex The legend is that the man on top or missionary position, with both partners lying down, was named after white missionaries by Pacific Islanders, who saw the white men and women having sex in the man on top position - the only one the missionaries deemed acceptable. Apparently the islanders preferred to have sex in the woman on top position, with the woman squatting. Whether that's true or not, man on top is still as popular now as it was then, and of course for very good reason, since it offers great intimacy, the opportunity to kiss, to maintain eye contact, and to have close physical contact between all the most erogenous and sexually sensitive parts of the body.

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Best of all, perhaps, from the man's point of view, is that he can move his pelvis freely, and so has great control over the depth and pace of his thrusting. Generally his penis will be at a very comfortable angle when it enters his partner's vagina, and and he can control his pelvic thrusts, making them as deep or shallow as he and she want. The fact that he can change the speed and depth of his movements means that he can find exactly what gives both he and his partner the greatest pleasure and the most powerful orgasm. In the basic man on top position, the man lies between the woman's legs, which are wide open to allow his penis access to her vagina. It's unlikely that his penis will slip out, but taking it slowly will help ensure that he remains inside her. Men: penetrating her slowly is good for your partner's pleasure: many women love the teasing sensation of their partner's penis slowly entering their vagina just an inch or two, then stopping, then resuming its inward journey, perhaps moving in and out several times within the first inch or two of the vagina before it goes deep into her. (It's important to respect the moment of penetration, especially if you are making slow, romantic and gentle love. For a woman, the moment of penetration is a symbol of opening herself up to her man, and she needs to be ready both psychologically and emotionally if she is to enjoy it to the full. Her partner can check if she is ready by feeling how moist she is - or she may tell him that she wants him to enter her. That's the ideal way to judge when the moment is right for penetration, because a woman can be physically aroused (i.e. her vagina may be wet) but not emotionally ready for penetration. And it's also possible for a man to have a hard cock but not to be turned on mentally - if you're a man and you've ever been in a situation where you knew that you didn't want sex despite having an erection, you'll understand this.

The basic man on top position illustrated You can bend your arms more and rest more of your weight on your partner if she is comfortable with this. Once you're inside your partner, you can begin to thrust gently at first, and also with quite shallow movements, moving your pelvis slowly back and forth and allowing time for the two of you to become fully attuned to the energies flowing between you.

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The Greatest Sexual Positions - live on video! Ways to make man on top sex better for both of you Penetrating your partner does not mean that you can thrust away regardless of her wishes, needs and desires. She may experience a whole variety of feelings when your penis enters her - and so may you, of course - and it's good to take time to savor the experience and feel it fully. You may wish to keep your eyes open so that you can look at each other as you make love; that adds to the intimacy. Some lovers prefer to close their eyes and focus on what they are feeling - that's especially true for sensitive people who can be a bit overwhelmed by all the sensations and feelings that sex produces. These days, most men realize that a woman wants more than the physical side of sex - she wants the emotional connections and feelings of being loved by her partner. And even if women's sexuality is a puzzling mystery to most men, at least we are capable of showing love and affection during sex and gaining great pleasure from our partners' sexual happiness. And it's true that most men do actually want to make their woman happy - it's very rewarding for men to give their partner an orgasm, or see her enjoying the feeling of him being inside her. If the woman wants to move more in this position, she can raise her hips on a pillow and brace her feet against the bed - this will give her greater freedom of movement. Equally, the man can raise himself on his arms so

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If you're a man, you'll have spent a fair amount of time thinking about this! Ah yes - it's the stuff of fantasy! To have her on top, giving you pleasure, watching her body as she moves up and down your penis, slowly teasing you, watching you seductively as she moves, controlling her movements and savoring her power as she keeps you in the relentless grip of her vagina. Yes, it's a good sex position for fantasy, alright - but does it live up to its billing? Well, probably. As always, the best sex position for you and your partner is a matter of individual preference, but it's fair to say that making love with the woman on top is very popular with both men and women - and for some very good reasons. Men find it exciting because it's novel - certainly it's less commonly used by couples than the man on top position - and so it produces a different set of sensations as you make love; it's restful, so no matter how much you like thrusting, it gives you a more relaxing experience; it can be very thrilling to have a skilful partner ride you, as she can tease you and keep you on the edge of orgasm until the sexual tension seems almost unbearable; and you have the chance to see her breasts or buttocks, depending whether she is facing towards or away from you. And for a woman, the position has some great advantages: she can control the pace and rhythm of sex; she can get a sense of her sexual power; she can see the pleasure she gives her man; and she can take the dominant role during sex. You'll see a lot of material written about how this is the best position for a woman to reach orgasm during sex - but that's only true if her man doesn't suffer from premature ejaculation! If he does have some measure of self-control, then his partner can certainly ride him in the way that best stimulates her clitoris (and her G spot, if that's what floats her boat). Since woman on top allows you both to get away from the idea that sex is something in which a man has to be dominant, it can be good for the relationship, bringing a greater sense of equality and enabling men who are secure about their own masculinity to relax and stop feeling they have to be "in charge" during sex.

Woman on top sex - how it works This isn't complicated! If you're a man lying on your back with an erection, and your female partner is straddling you, then the basic variation is whether she faces towards your face or your feet as she inserts your penis into her vagina. Many men find their penis is bent uncomfortably if their partner is facing towards their feet - in fact, it may not even be possible for you to insert your penis into her if it points straight up towards your chest when it's erect. But as always - think of the fun you can have trying out this sex position! More after this commercial break!

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As you can see in the pictures above (which, by the way, all expand if you click on them), a woman has plenty of opportunity to take a dominant role during woman on top sex. And since her body is not constrained by her partner's, as it may be during man on top sex, she has the freedom to move into the position that best suits her and gives her the greatest pleasure.

Variations on the woman on top sex position The woman lies on top Woman on top sex can give you a whole variety of sensations, depending on the angle at which the woman lies on top of the man. What's best for you and your partner will be something you only discover when you try this position, since the angle and shape of each couple's vagina and penis are slightly different. But a good starting point is to have the female partner lie on top of the male partner with her chest close to his.

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The physical feelings here can be very strong. Their intensity will depend chiefly on how closely the woman keeps her legs together. If she lies with her legs inside the man's and keeps them very close together, his penis will be squeezed in a way that is hard to achieve in any other sexual position, and though he is likely to ejaculate quickly, the feelings will be stronger for the woman as well. For a woman who likes the sense of penetration and the feeling of her man's penis inside her, this is a powerful experience. It's exactly like this position, except that the man and the woman are the other way up....

Obviously sex will last longer if there is less pressure on the man's penis, as there will be when she keeps her legs further apart:

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Other variations on woman on top sex positions Variations on the woman on top positions are all about the angle of the penis in the vagina, and the fact that the woman gets different sensations when the man penetrates her from different angles. This can be exciting for the man as well, of course, because different positions stimulate different parts of his penis and also put different degrees of pressure on it. A couple can have a great deal of fun and be very playful in experimenting with these different sexual positions.

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As you can see, in this position the woman has a great deal of flexibility in the angle at which she

leans on her man. Each variation will provide deliciously different sensations for her vagina and his penis, and in some cases will also provide added pleasure for both partners when they can see his penis entering her, or see each other's buttocks, or her breasts. Another enjoyable thing about this position is that he or she can play with her clitoris (and his balls) to make this even more pleasurable.

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A lovers' tender embrace It's always possible to rest during your lovemaking, to talk, to look at each other, and to feel the sexual energy moving between you. One position where you can not only do all of this but also look deep into each other's eyes is the one shown below, which is a true lovers' embrace, a position in which you can discover exactly how your partner is feeling and see just what he or she would like next. Resting will allow your sexual energy to accumulate, so that when you do finally go for your orgasms, they may well be much more intense than they would otherwise be. You can also sit up unsupported if you put your arms around each other. While you do this, she can clench her vaginal muscles around his penis, and he can twitch his penis inside her to provide enough stimulation to keep his erection.

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The woman on top faces away from the man (aka "The Reverse Cowgirl") We've already mentioned that men may find this position uncomfortable, but if you can manage it, sex in this position can be a very different experience. It isn't a position that all men will appreciate, because it puts a lot of pressure on your penis when your partner sits on you facing away - and for men who have a small, hard erect penis that points upright when they are fully aroused, it may even be impossible to get into this position. It's worthwhile being careful when you try it, to ensure that you don't bend your penis too far forwards and cause yourself any discomfort.

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The Personal Shaver A man talks about woman on top sex You've heard the old expression that women can just lie back and enjoy sex! Well, this is the time when men can lie back and enjoy it! The relaxing position, the lack of effort - you don't have to support yourself on your arms - the view of your partner's breasts as she rides you, and the sight of yourself penetrating her as you make love - all these things and more make this a wonderful position and one that both sexes can relish! More to the point, the woman has the chance to control how sex proceeds. She can control the pace, the rhythm and the depth of penetration, and if she's into getting off during intercourse then she might even be able to rub her clitoris along your body, making it more likely she can reach orgasm during sex.

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But the main thing, I think, is the chance of equality. So often we think of fucking as something a man "does to" a woman, and the female orgasm as something that a man "gives to" his partner. But neither of these things are true - women are (or should be) responsible for their own orgasms, and men are (or should be!) equal partners in sex with women. When your female partner's on top, she's running the show, she's the one who can thrust, she's the one who can control how quickly her man comes to orgasm, and she's the one who's more likely to be able to come during sex.

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The first time we tried it, I must admit it shocked me to find how much I resented having my partner fucking me! It took a while before I could let go of my preconceived ideas about male and female roles during sex, and relax while she put my erection inside her and used it to get off - I felt like a living dildo! The fact is, if you feel like this, then you simply must tell your partner, discuss it, talk it through, and sort out the way you both feel. I do still prefer man on top sex positions - but not by much! That's not because I feel insecure when she's on top - it's more about the fact that man on top sex feels better for me. But then again, if woman on top sex feels better for my partner, I guess it's only fair that we take it in turns!

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Woman on top sex positions Q & A from emails sent to us abut positions, pleasure and performance! Question: A young man emailed us to ask how you can get maximum pleasure from woman on top sex. Answer: There are some general rules during sex which help to make it much more pleasurable for you both - first is to consider what your partner needs and wants. That's' not to say you should put your partner before yourself, but certainly make sure you consider what they want. So, for example, if you're trying out woman on top sex, and you're the woman, don't just lunge up and down on his penis without checking with him if he'd prefer a slower, more gentle movement! The speed of sex is under your control, sure, and you can always move faster if you want to, since this might be what you need to get off, but only do that with his agreement. You know how it feels when a man pounds hard into you when he's on top - that can be exciting, sure, but only if you're in the mood for it - and it's right to extend the same consideration to your partner when the positions are reversed during sex. Then again, you might also want to consider how you move during sex. We all think of thrusting, with the man stroking his penis in and out of the vagina until one or both of you comes - but there's plenty of other ways you can move. For example, you can rotate your hips in a kind of circular motion while his penis is inside your vagina. This not only gives him a quite different set of sensations, it also stimulates more of your vagina. But find out what you both prefer - some couples like it more if they stick to the up and down movement! The man is pretty much in the position that his partner's in during man on top sex - that is, his movement's limited. But he can move more than you might think - for example, he can move you by placing his hands on your pelvis, on your hips, or around your waist. This isn't a case of him shifting you about - it's more about him gently encouraging you in which way to go and how to move. He can show you how to move in the ways

that are best for him, and you can show him what's best for you. In short, this might be summed up as: do what feels good for you both! You certainly want to try having the woman on top leaning forwards or backwards at different angles to see how it feels for you both, and have her lean right back to check out where it feels best. If you have the man so he's semi-sitting up, semi-lying, with his back resting against something, then he can support his partner's weight as she leans forward onto him - this gives her more chance of pressing her clitoris on his body and perhaps reaching orgasm while making love. Variation, as with so much else, is important, and instead of just sticking to one movement, say riding up and down his shaft, try alternating this by moving your pelvis around in a circle. As you do this, have your man push up his pelvis and move his knees up so he can get deeper into you. Finally, the reverse cowgirl is always fun to try! You can see a picture of this higher up the page - it refers to when the woman is facing away from her man.

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Women on top sex positions: girls take charge! Women may be more into the emotional aspects of a relationship than men, so if a woman feels intimately bonded with her partner during sex, not having an orgasm is not necessarily going to spoil lovemaking for her. Even so, there are times when a woman will want to fully express her rampant sexuality, experience the maximum richness of making love, and enjoy having one or more powerful orgasms during sex. Equally, though we often think of a man's role during sex as being that of the leader, setting the pace and rhythm and determining how events proceed, there will be times when he wants to relax and express the more tender, relaxed and gentle side of his sexual nature. And so we come to the woman on top position - one that allows both men and women to experience a different side of their sexual natures. A woman can express her natural sexuality more fully in this position than she can when her man is on top because she has much greater freedom of movement, she isn't pinned down by his weight, and either he or she can reach her clitoris and provide enough stimulation to bring her to orgasm. But the advantages of woman on top sex go beyond that. In almost every variation of woman on top sex, a woman can control the amount of friction and pressure her clitoris and vulva get as she and her partner make love: she is, therefore, pretty much in control of her own orgasm. But she's also in control of the sensual and intimate side of sex. As she sits on her man, with his penis inside her, she can tease and play with him in a way that just isn't possible when he's on top. For example, she can squeeze him with her vaginal muscles as she kisses his lips, his nipples, or his body. She can control how deeply he penetrates her, and how fast she rides him, taking him to the edge of orgasm - or over it - as she chooses. Or, she can ride him in the way that best stimulates her clitoris and brings her to her own orgasm as fast as possible. And what of her partner? He may find that lying back and letting her take charge is a refreshing experience. It can be thrilling for him to see his partner being so downright sexual - and the sense of being, well, not exactly helpless, but certainly at her sexual mercy, can be extremely exciting and arousing for him.

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Woman on top positions in pictures Woman facing the man When a woman is squatting over her man, she is able to achieve deep and satisfying penetration while controlling the depth to which his penis enters her. But she must be careful to lower herself gently onto her man, for if he slips out as she descends, and her weight then falls onto his penis, he may be severely injured. (The same is true when she is riding up and down his penile shaft.) The sequence of pictures below shows how she can alter the angle of penetration so that they find the position that gives them both the most pleasure. This is also an ideal position in which to try moving her pelvis in a circle, rather than riding up and down her partner's penis. If she keeps her pelvic mound in close contact with her partner's body, she can get lots of delicious pressure on her clitoris. As you can see in the pictures, he can also use his hands to caress her and add to her pleasure by stroking her breasts.

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Another wonderful thing about this position is that the woman can raise herself along the length of her man's penile shaft so that only the very end of his penis is being gripped by her vagina. Why's it wonderful? Well, shallow penetration with only the very end of his penis tantalizing the outermost part of her vagina can feel wonderful for her. So alternating between shallow and deep penetration can be a teasing, thrilling experience for them both, but especially for her if she also enjoys her vagina being deliciously filled with her man's penis. By leaning back she may increase the pressure her partner's penis exerts in her G-spot, so giving them both extra pleasure.

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Sex positions: rear entry - the words and pictures! Ah, now, the sex position men fantasize about more than any other! As a man, it's exciting to see your penis moving in and out of your partner's vulva at the best of times, but when this scene is framed by the cheeks of her bottom, sex in this position becomes something extremely arousing, sexy and downright lustful! Many women can't quite see why men find this such a turn-on, though they may well be happy to go along with their man's all-too-obvious desire to fuck in this way from time to time. I doubt it's a mainstay for most couples because women tend to find it a bit impersonal: it makes many women feel like they're a sex object. And a huge number of women are very concerned about what they look like in this position whether their bodies are up to scratch or not. But I'd have to say that most men, when making love in this position, don't spend a lot of time thinking about the ethics of sex or what their partner looks like: they're just consumed with lust and the desire to come inside their partner! For rear entry sex - also known as doggy style - is extremely arousing for men. It's the primeval, lustful position, the one that comes straight down to us from our animal ancestry. It's the one that we'd have fucked in throughout the development of the human race - and quickly, too, for life could be short, and time spent having sex was time exposed to the attentions of predators or competitors. Does that explain why so many men come so quickly in this position? Yes, probably. And it probably also explains why we find it so arousing - it's the ultimate stimulus to mate: the sight of a willing female's buttocks. But what about now, in our sophisticated society? The truth is that the animal instincts which make this position so arousing aren't buried very deep in us - we can reach a pitch of lustfulness during rear entry sex perhaps unmatched in any other position, men and women alike. For once a woman has put aside her fears about what she looks like, when she's having sex with her trusted partner, she can find a real liberation of spirit in rear entry sex, a lustfulness, a raw sexual energy, easily the equal of her man's.

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So what are the practical aspects of "doggy style sex" that we need to think about? Apart, that is, from the sheer lustfulness of this position? Well, it gives the woman a sense of her sexual power, and she can make a lot of movements, synchronizing her rhythm to match her man's thrusts, or grinding her hips in a circular pattern to give them both extra thrills, or even having him stand still while she moves back and forth along his shaft. This means she can find the best way to stimulate her G spot. If a couple want to try it, what advantages does rear entry have? Well, the man has a great deal of flexibility in how he moves, and the type of thrusts he can make. He can thrust deep or shallow as he wishes, and he can see his penis entering his partner, which is always a great turn-on. Either he or she can reach down and stimulate her clitoris, and he can play with her buttocks or anus if that's exciting for them both. All in all, it's a very flexible position, with a lot of alternatives to satisfy both the man and the woman. In general, since men come quicker in this position than any other, most women won't get to orgasm this way....but they can certainly reflect on the fact that rear entry gives them massive influence over how aroused and excited their man is going to get during sex! A brief commercial break:

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A few suggestions for varying the basic rear entry sex position The man stands behind his partner Having his partner kneel in front of him while he takes her from behind must rank near the top of all men's favorite sex positions: it's raw, it's lustful, and it's deeply appealing to the male psyche. Alternatively, she can stand and lean over as shown in the second position, in which case he is likely to see less of her buttocks, but he can hold her shoulders and guide her movements during sex.

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The woman lies on the bed with the man on top of her As you can see, there's no shortage of variations on the basic rear entry position. You can experiment until you find the position where the angle of entry of the penis into the vagina gives you both the greatest pleasure. And, depending on your preferences, you can lie down with the man on top, or the man can kneel over the woman (though you need to be flexible for this position), or you can raise her hips while the man fucks her from behind as shown in the third photo. Somewhere in all these possibilities you'll find the one that's best for you both! One thing worth noting about these variations is that a woman's G spot can be stimulated much more strongly by her lover's penis than in the basic rear entry, so you might need extra lube, especially if you're sensitive in that area.

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As a man I tend to think of sex in terms of rear entry - at least, that is, when I'm idly fantasizing about what I might do if I got the chance! Does this mean rear entry represents an easy way to cut off from the human connection of sex? Well, maybe, but does that matter? Fantasy is fantasy, and I'm sure women enjoy the idea of doing something rude and lewd with someone they hardly know just as much as men. The problem comes when the sheer sexiness of rear entry sex makes a man in a relationship forget who he's having sex with (his partner) and think he's shafting any old vagina! But that's how exciting it is - at least for me. The sight of my penis coming out of her vulva, glistening with her juices, her buttocks opening invitingly is just too much for me: thoughts of love go out of the window and seem to be replaced by lust quite quickly! So there probably is some basis for women complaining that rear entry makes them feel like sex objects, but then again, sometimes sex is like that - raw, primal, lustful and just a "quick fuck". Surely, it's the safety of the relationship which means you can enjoy those feelings with each other? And in any case, I think women can be just as turned on by the idea of rear entry as men. It's a way for a woman to present herself as a sexual being - to let her sexual nature come to the fore, to let go of all the ideas of being a "good" girl, and to enjoy sex in its rudest, "dirtiest", most basic form. Now, the sad thing is that I've met a fair few woman who talked about rear entry sex being dirty, and really meant it! If you're a man with a woman who thinks it's beyond the limits of acceptable sexual behavior, show her this page and tell her it'll be good for her sexual soul to release the doggy in her once in a while! Maybe we can get some clues about how men and women see sex in general from their attitudes towards rear entry? Let's try, anyhow! I wonder if women like the idea of rear entry when they're feeling horny, or when they're trying to please their boyfriends? I've been in a relationship with a woman who seemed to get real pleasure from waving her butt in the air, inviting me to enter her from behind, but she didn't do it very often only when she was at that horny point in her monthly cycle or on my birthday. Nothing wrong with that, of course (she also offered rear entry sex on holiday in luxurious hotels, I recall. Hmmmm...she said such places made her feel "sensuous").

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Perhaps women don't really understand the continuous nature of men's sex drive, the impulse that's with them for much of the time, the drive that makes them want to have rear entry sex - just because it's exciting and they like the idea. But, as any woman who has lived with a man soon realizes, the male sex drive can be a powerful and mysterious thing. Maybe going along with his wish for rear entry sex is exciting for her because of this air of mystery, and rewarding because it serves to please him. Does this sound like the idea that women use sex to please their men? Perhaps so, and why not, as that's pretty much the way it is? I assume women enjoy the sex too! There's one big drawback, as I see it, and that's the fact that this position can be so arousing that I tend to come rather more quickly than I want. My partner and I do put up with that because it's so exciting, and we're just about OK with the length of the time I can thrust before I come. However, if you feel that you ejaculate too quickly, and you'd like to know how to last longer during sex, try the website which offers great advice on overcoming quick ejaculation and delaying your orgasm. Keep reading below the advert......

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Sex positions: rear entry Be a great lover and learn about sex positions! Question: How do I make sex a success when I'm so much taller than my wife? And why does she feel pain when I penetrate her? Answer: Let's deal with the second question first. Pain on penetration can mean a woman isn't aroused, so her vagina is dry and your penis causes friction as it pushes in. The way to deal with this is to have plenty of foreplay so that she is aroused, and her vagina nicely lubricated, before sex starts. That means plenty of kissing, caressing, gentle stroking, erotic massage, oral sex and gentle touch on her genital areas - but only when she is aroused enough to appreciate it. There are plenty of internet sites which offer advice on foreplay: see, for example, sex and relationships. If you aren't spending about half an hour on foreplay most of the times you have sex, she simply isn't going to be aroused enough to be ready for penetration. Another possibility is that her vagina is naturally dry, so you might want to try using some additional lube: there are plenty on the market, but we recommend Probe or Astroglide. Next, you need to find the right position. Not all positions suit all couples, especially if they are physically different in size. When the man is taller than the woman, some good options are sitting sex, where she sits in his lap, either facing towards or away from him; woman on top sex; and rear entry if you can find a way of making sure her vagina is level with his erect penis. One advantage of the woman on top position is that she can control the speed and depth of penetration, so if she's frightened about feeling pain when you enter her, she can control how fast that happens. You can always try inserting a finger or two before you enter her to see if she is relaxed and ready to accept you inside her. Generally when a woman is ready for penetration, she'll be rocking her hips or thrusting them upwards or moving them in a gentle wave like motion. You'll soon get used to the signs when you have more sexual experience.

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If a woman has a lot of sexual inhibitions or conflicts, she may be inhibited from relaxing during sex: sometimes this takes the form of tight vagina - that is to say, a vagina which clenches so much that the admission of the penis is rather difficult and perhaps painful (vaginismus). Another form of sexual inhibition is when a woman can't relax and enjoy sex, or when she can't reach orgasm. This condition, known as anorgasmia, is actually not difficult to treat with self-help treatments based on the methods of professional sex therapists. If you have difficulty reaching an orgasm or having an orgasm during sex, or you've been diagnosed with anorgasmia, try the self help treatments. Question: I just can't persuade my girl to try doggy style sex. She's not shy about any of the others, but this one, she won't even consider. What can I do about this? Answer: If this is about your girlfriend's feelings about her body, then you might find that dimming the lights helps. You'll also need to give her loads of reassurance - which you'll probably have to repeat many times. She might be very sensitive about some aspect of her body, and whether or not you see it as an imperfection, it will be very real to her. On the other hand, she might just not like the idea - some women think it is a very demeaning position that puts them in a subordinate position or makes them into a sex object. This won't be helped if she feel she's not in control of what happens - that can be a very live issue for a lot of women during sex, for example if they have suffered abuse. If she thinks you're treating her like a sex object, purely for your gratification, then it's understandable why she might not be so keen on rear entry sex. Finally, if you have a large penis, she might also be being quite sensible, because it's possible you could hit her cervix when you thrust in this position - and that can be quite painful. If so, then you can get over this by having her keep her cheeks together and thrusting between them, so that you only enter her vagina part of the way. Don't get carried away by your own lust, though and push in deep! You need to talk to her about all this, since part of the way to resolving such problems is about communicating your wishes and desires as well as your fears. You can also use side by side sex positions to generate a feeling of intimacy and connection between you, which will go some way to counteracting any thoughts she has about the rear entry position being impersonal. Just don't forget to tell her how much you love her! If you can both work to release the goddess in your partner, she may well come to enjoy the sexual freedom and power than doggy style sex allows her. It can be very empowering for a woman to experience her full sexual nature. And since there is deep penetration, you may well be able to stimulate her G spot so she gets a lot of pleasure. And her clitoris is easily reached by either of you, so you can both work on giving her an orgasm during intercourse. Better Communication may help you to discuss these things with your partner. Talking openly and freely is a great way to help your sex life!

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Rear entry sex positions are exciting and powerful sexual stimuli for men - I haven't met a man yet who doesn't like rear entry sex. But, and it is a big but, women may not feel the same way. Why? Well, without making light of the pun, because they think they have a big butt. You see, this is a very exposed position for a woman. She's on view, naked, sexually vulnerable, and her butt, which she may think of as her least attractive feature, is fully exposed to her man's view. No wonder she may spend more time worrying about what she looks like than enjoying sex in this position!

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It's also possible that a woman may find this sex position to be a bit, well, animalistic, primitive, basic - but maybe not in a sexually arousing way. She may actually feel like a sex object as her man slavers with lust over the sight of her rear end ready and waiting for penetration. And that's an important point, for what I think many women lose sight of here is that men are far less critical of their partner's body than the woman herself. After all, a man who is about to enjoy rear entry sex is most likely to be completely turned on, and he's probably not mentally critiquing his partner's appearance. He's just relishing the prospect of the sight of his erect penis penetrating her body, sliding back and forth between her buttocks, entering her most special place - and giving him not only the wonderful physical feelings he gets from sexual intercourse, but also the exciting additional mental thrill that men get from sex in the rear entry sex position. Having said that, there are many women who do enjoy rear entry sex. It gives them a chance to be raunchy, to be sexual, to fully express the lustful side of their sexual nature - which can be very liberating if a woman was brought up with the presumption that being ladylike means being "sexually demure". So...a woman may well discover that rear entry sex provides her with the opportunity to be deeply feminine and sexual, to offer herself with total abandon to her man - and to enjoy the power she holds in this position, the power of arousing her man and making him desire her body even more than he normally does. This is, make no mistake, a powerful sex position for both men and women, a position that produces powerful sex! And so it should! Both male and female buttocks are very arousing to women and men respectively. Buttocks are a fundamental sexual signal, one we haven't lost touch with even though we may have undergone millions of years of evolution! To see the buttocks of your partner during sex, to slap them, to see them bounce as you thrust into your partner, to just look at their fleshy roundness - all of this, and more, is a powerful sexual stimulus. The power of the buttocks to arouse is proven by the way some couples enjoy more extreme sexual stimulation - spanking and slapping come to mind here - that centres on this part of the body. And, oddly enough, rear entry sex also offers the chance for greater sexual equality during lovemaking. We think of man on top as the archetypal male-dominant sex position. Yet what happens here? Think of how the woman can move, how she can thrust her body back and forth, whether her man moves with her or remains standing still. She has the power to bring him to sexual ecstasy, whether he thrusts in rhythm with her or not, and she can angle her hips so that she gets the greatest stimulation in her vagina, the greatest pressure on her G spot - a fact that means she stands a better chance of reaching orgasm during intercourse than in many other positions. All in all, the rear entry position can give a woman a sense of her sexual confidence and sexual energy; it is a great way for a woman to get in touch with her Goddess energy, the primal sexual energy which all lies within every woman, and which can be brought out in the right circumstances such as rear entry sex! And apart from this primal quality, which allows us all to feel the lustful side of our sexual natures, rear entry sex is very versatile. There are many possible variations of position which slightly alter the angle of the penis in the vagina so that both partners get a totally different experience. For a woman with a sensitive G spot, that can be incredibly important, allowing her the chance to get stimulation from the thrusting of her partner's erect penis in the way that pleases her best. This is a great sexual position for G spot stimulation! Are there any drawbacks to this position? Well, yes, a few. It can be that a woman finds she is a bit sore after sex in this position, because her partner's penis may hit her vaginal walls in a way that it does not normally do when they make love. If this happens to you, I suggest you use more lube, and change angle slightly - see the sex positions pictures below for more ideas on how to do this. And there is another drawback - it's often too exciting for a man. Even those who don't normally experience rapid or premature ejaculation may find that they shoot their ejaculation much more quickly.....it's just too exciting! For men who find themselves in this position, slowing down the rate of thrusting, even withdrawing when ejaculation is likely, and taking sex more slowly and calmly

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Side by side sex positions What better position for two lovers in love? This is the position where you can truly show your lover how much you adore them, with slow romantic sex in a position that lends itself to all kinds of exciting variations. You can take it slowly, holding each other closely, or you can lean back and stare into each other's eyes; you can take it fast and furiously, with powerful sex in a position that still lets you look at each other; you can have the female partner lift her leg so you get a clear view of penetration; and you can turn around in this position so that the man's chest nestles into the woman's back, and you then have a combination of snuggling sex and rear entry sex! The easiest way to get into the side by side sex position is to start in the missionary or man on top position and then roll over onto one side. That's how the couple in the photo above moved into the side by side position. So, rather than staying in the same position throughout a session of sex, why not start in the man on top position and then roll onto your sides? This way you can look at each other, see his balls, and him entering her, and see her vulva and labia, breasts and buttocks. Sex in this position can be very exciting and comes highly recommended for everyone - not just large people or pregnant couples!

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Perhaps people don't try this sex position because they think it's complicated. And yet the fact is, it's really easy! You start in the man on top position with the woman raising her legs towards her chest so that her knees are bent. Ideally, her thighs should be round about the same place as the man's waist. He then thrusts his cock deeply into her and holds it there as you roll over - decide which way you're going beforehand, though! You'd think the woman's legs might be crushed, but actually this position is really comfortable if she as them high enough before you roll over. Then make any minor adjustments until you feel really comfortable together. The first variation you can try is leaning back away from each other so you can get a good view of each other. You can clearly see penetration - very exciting! But even more arousing is the variation where the woman lifts her leg and holds it there - now you can really see all the details of each other's genitals; even better, you can see him withdrawing and entering her, his shaft covered in her vaginal juices, and you can play with her clitoris and labia and his balls.

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Another variation on the theme is to use this position for vigorous sex when you want to maintain a sense of connection or try some spiritual work during sex. You can make love, pause, talk, relax, carry on, look at each other, send energy to each other, relax, and carry on again. Ringing the changes like this makes sex much more interesting and ultimately makes your orgasms much more powerful. (The longer the build-up, the better the climax.) In addition, of course, it's great for the end of the day lovemaking when you don't feel very energetic but you'd still like to have some connection with your lover. Even better, there's little danger of the man slipping out in this position, even if he is a bit on the small side; and because the position puts less pressure on the penis, a man who's a bit prone to coming too quickly may find that he can last a lot longer in side by side sex - especially if you slow down or stop during your lovemaking (without him withdrawing), and start again when he's less excited.

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A woman's viewpoint I love changing position during sex: this makes a sex session more than a routine and (perhaps a bit familiar) period of man on top, doggy style or what-have-yo. That's not to say I don't like the man on top position , of course - I love it: I love feeling my man on top of me, I love the contact and the reconnection as he pushes into me; and I love being able to caress him. But having said that I do also like to vary the position a bit by moving my legs: either hugged round his waist, which really aroused him, or straightened out, or angled at the knees (which permits slightly deeper penetration) or very straight and held closely together which means more pressure on his penis and balls. Even if we have to wriggle round to get into this position, the extra sensation is well worth it!

A man's viewpoint I think as a couple my partner and I were a little bit sexually unadventurous for some time after we got together, although we certainly enjoyed sex a great deal. Maybe that just means we were so satisfied that we didn't need to seek out novelty and experiment with positions! Anyhow, after years having sex mostly in the man on top position, we started to play with side by side sex, and we enjoyed some fantastic sessions of lovemaking! Like most men, I'm a sucker for any position that allows me to look at my cock as I thrust into my partner - and she seems to like it as well, since she loves to reach down and feel the base of my shaft as it comes out of her, wet with her natural lube. This position certainly lends itself to a whole variety of exciting positions! The man can stroke his partner, or vice versa, and the couple can exchange loving words.

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So for me the greatest advantage of side by side is the intimacy that you can get. There's so much opportunity to kiss, caress and cuddle, with or without being locked together! The thing about this position is that it gives such variety - important if you're having sex several times a week - and it can be both intimate and fast and furious when you want powerful thrusting. It suits all our needs. Another wonderful thing is the amount of bodily contact that's possible: all of your front can be in contact with your partner's front, and there's plenty of chance for massaging each other, touching and caressing. Since it's so intimate, you can make great use of this when the woman is pregnant. We've all heard of the spoons position. It's one of the most common variations of side by side sex, where the man lies behind the woman but they both face the same way. When you're lying on your side like this, you can rest your belly on the bed - which makes it very useful for large people or, as my partner and I discovered, for a woman in the last stages of pregnancy. When the man tucks himselff in behind her, he can enter her without too much trouble, though a certain amount of maneuvering may be needed to get the alignment right. You don't have a great deal of opportunity to thrust, but it's intimate and connected, and the man can fondle his partner's breasts and stroke her belly - and either of them can play with her clitoris.

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We spoke earlier of the scissors positions - when the man has entered his partner, she can roll over on her back a little, and place one of her legs over her partner's, so that she presents her vulva to both partner's gaze. There's ample opportunity for the couple to stroke and caress each other, especially her stomach, though the man's opportunity to thrust is rather limited. The woman can stimulate the man's balls, which he might like, and she can shift position slightly until she finds a position in which her G spot gets most stimulation.

Scissors ("cuissade") positions and side-by-side sex positions This is a subtle variation of the side by side position. The woman is lying on her back, the man lies on his side at right angles to her - she then draws her thighs back towards her stomach and he enters her as he lies under her. The man can enter her quite deeply, and there's the opportunity for a lot of movement, although being at right angles, the couple can't kiss, but the man can touch most of his partner's body including her breasts. If you like anal play, this position lets you touch and play with each other's anus. Click here for the only effective treatment and cure for erectile dysfunction!

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This is truly a warm and loving sexual position. It conveys affection, love and friendship to each other - and especially from the man to the woman. Its biggest advantage is that neither partner's weight is resting on the other and you can therefore enjoy greater freedom of movement and either gentle or vigorous pelvic thrusting, as the mood takes you, without restriction. Once you're in the position, if you keep your chests close together, you can kiss; if you move further apart, you can caress each other's chests and belly, you both have access to her clitoris, and if the woman lifts her upper leg, you can both enjoy the sight of penetration and intercourse. There are several variations of position which you can enjoy when you are lying side by side. The easiest is to start in the man on top position, then to roll over onto your sides. Before you roll, have one of the woman's legs over the man's upper thigh, and one of her legs under his other thigh, so he lies between them. Her legs must be fairly high, so that when you've rolled over, it feels a bit like she's sitting in his lap. Here's a picture which illustrates all this:

You may find it takes a little experimentation to get your positions exactly right, so that her legs are comfortable, but once you're there, sex can continue for as long as you wish. There's much less pressure on the man's penis, so if you're normally prone to coming too quickly, you can penetrate your partner and enjoy sex with her for much longer than you may be used to. You can thrust as gently or as vigorously as you like, and when you lie still you can enjoy the feeling of sexual energy and connection that develops when you're in this position. You may find thrusting easier if the man wraps his arm around his partner's back so that as he thrusts he can pull her towards him; alternatively, she may wrap her legs around his buttocks so that she can pull him in towards him as he thrusts. An alternative to facing each other for sex in this position is to move into the spooning position, where the man snuggles up to his partner's back and places his penis between her buttocks as he enters her. You won't get very deep into her, but it's cuddly, warm and fun to try it. This position is also a good one for sex when you wake up in the morning and you both want to start a relaxed session of lovemaking. If she then bends forward from the waist, or he leans backwards, he'll be able to penetrate her more deeply.

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Other sex positions - standing, sitting and kneeling Well, these are the adventurous versions of some of the positions you have already seen - some of them are just for fun, and some of them are only for the fit and supple. Why try them? Well, you certainly don't need to, if you are happy with the way things are in your love life. But as we said in the introduction, if your love life is flagging through boredom and you're feeling that sex has become a bit monotonous, then trying some new positions can be a way to boost your excitement and passion. I think that lovers who are trying slightly more complicated positions than the standard missionary, rear entry and side by side will be able to play with these positions and find their own favorites - above all, have fun, and enjoy yourselves! Sex should be playful as well as passionate! If you're going to try standing sex positions then you need to be fit and fairly strong especially if you're trying to carry your partner while she's mounted on your erect member! If you aren't confident of success, we'd recommend that you don't try these positions - there's no point risking a broken penis! And that raises an interesting question - why would you even want to try standing sex positions? Well, there were a lot of jokes around in my younger days about "knee tremblers" behind the bike sheds at school: maybe the whole point of standing sex is to be able to do it quickly, when there are no beds or other conveniences, either out of necessity or for the sheer thrill of it! (Airplane toilets at 60,000 feet, maybe? Which prompts me to add a note to premature ejaculators...while quick sex may be desirable in some circumstances, and a fast ejaculation suitable for sexual adventures such as joining the mile high club, it's not conducive to sexual pleasure in all circumstances, so you can always go here if you'd like to treat premature ejaculation and learn how to last longer in bed!) Standing sex is most likely to work when you're both roughly the same height, so if the man is taller, then the best way to get it together is to have the woman stand on something strong enough to support her. Then, the best way for the man to get into his partner is to start with him bending his knees while the couple embrace loosely, facing each other, so that the man can enter his partner as he straightens up. He can thrust fairly strongly if the couple's height's right, and if the woman leans backwards a little bit, then his pelvic bone can press against her clitoris each time he thrusts. To get deeper penetration, the woman should stand one one leg and hook the other one around him. He can hold her thigh to add support, and he can hold her round her butt to help rock her on his erect cock. Take this a stage further if you like by having her completely supported on his hips - or resting her butt on a table if he doesn't have the strength to hold her up. You can see how all this works more clearly in the pictures below. For even more variety, if you're the woman, stand facing away from your man, and have him enter you from behind as you bend forward. He can get into you deeply, and his hands are free to play with anything else that takes your fancy!

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All in all, standing sex is a position you might want to explore, ready for those moments when you want a quickie, you just can't wait, and you just have to have your partner NOW! Apart from the quick satisfaction of an urgent fuck, there isn't a lot of sensuousness or romance in this sex position! But if it's what you need, what you want, and the time and the place are right, then go for it! Standing intercourse is associated with the urgency of early sexual attraction and takes on an especially intense eroticism all of its own. We don't recommend resorting to it in the very first instances of having sex. That's because it's not intimate enough to help you bond as a couple, and it needs a high level of cooperation and communication for both man and woman to enjoy it. This sex position is pretty easy but for those who have never experienced it, here's how you do it. Lean your woman with her back to the wall with her legs slightly apart. Support her at the rear with one hand while helping to insert your penis with the other. If she is short, you may have to lift her slightly. You may also have to bend your legs so that your penis is suitably angled. Don't forget that every time you thrust you crash her into the wall - so do

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Sitting sex - a restful way to make love If you're starting out in your sex life, one sex position you may not have tried is sitting. It seems to be a position that couples don't use until they're more experienced - or perhaps it's one that helps to relieve the boredom or sense of routine that can creep into a sexual relationship after a while. Whatever, it's not a very popular or common position. In one survey by Vulva Velvet, it transpired that only 1.2% of couples said this was their favorite sex position, and only 5% used it regularly.

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But sitting sex does offer several benefits. A firm chair where both partners can get their legs over the sides and their feet onto the floor gives more support than a bed, so there's more stability as you make love. This means the woman has more control over the depth of penetration and the pace of lovemaking. Thus sex can equally well be spontaneous and passionate or slow and loving; in this sitting position, especially if the woman is facing her partner, sex can be gentle, romantic and cuddly, with plenty of kissing, touching and caressing, or it can be fast, exciting and rollicking with passion. It's harder to make love in an armchair; the woman will have to squat with her thighs folded if she faces her man, unless he is so slumped that she can sit astride his thighs with her feet on the floor. An alternative position here is for her to sit facing away from her man, so that she basically sits in his lap and the couple enjoy a sitting form of rear entry sex. This can be very exciting and erotic: she can wriggle her hips and pelvis to enhance both her own and her partner's pleasure, either she or he can get to her clitoris, and he can enjoy the feel of her buttocks in his lap.

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The third major sitting sex position is for the couple to sit on a bed - the man has his legs over the edge, while his partner sits on his lap facing towards him, her legs clasped behind his waist with her feet resting on the bed. This position has ample scope for the couple to caress, kiss and explore each other's bodies as passionately as if they were in the early stages of their love affair.

Most difficult of all is the variation where the man and the woman both sit on the bed, clasping each other with their legs around the waist. This requires a fair degree of flexibility and may not be possible for all couples. Indeed, even those who can manage it may wish to have some kind of back support. Obviously the woman will be sitting in the man's lap. One of the advantages of this position is that you can adopt an almost meditative pose and extend sexual intercourse for as long as you wish - small pelvic movements will keep him erect, and her aroused - while you center your sexual energy centers and visualize the flow of energy around your bodies. The higher the woman holds her knees, effectively the shorter her vagina will become.

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Advanced Sex Positions Just to prove that there really are no limits when it comes to sex, here are a variety of positions put together for your amusement. If you have fun trying them out, so much the better! Some of them are fairly basic, some of them require the skills of a contortionist to get into. Try them if you're fit and supple and/or looking for a new experience!

Face to Face Sex Positions The rocking horse This requires a fair amount of strength in your legs and thighs. The man takes up a squatting position, probably on a bed or a firm surface like the floor, and his partner then sits on him. She helps to support her weight with her feet and legs, but the main sensation in this position comes from her ability to rock backwards and forwards while her partner's penis is inside her. It's also interesting to try a variation where the man rocks back and forth while his partner remains still, moving with him only as he moves. Crossed swords When you take up this position for sex, the male partner sits as shown in the illustration with his upper body supported on his hands. He can keep his legs straight or bend them, depending on what is most suitable and pleasurable. His partner sits on him as shown, bending his erect penis forwards so that it enters her. This means that men with a very upright erection may not be able to enjoy this position as their penises will not bend forward enough. Assuming that the couple can get into this position, she can control all the movement, the rhythm and the speed of thrusting, since she has purchase with her arms to allow her to thrust from her pelvis. One great advantage is that the couple can enjoy looking at each other during sex, though of course they can't really touch or kiss.

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The Goddess embrace Sitting on the edge of a chair or bed, the woman allows her partner to penetrate her while he kneels. Clearly, the position depends on the couple getting the height right, so you may have to adjust the height of the woman's bottom before it is easy for the man to enter her. He also may need some cushions under his knees for comfort. Once inside her, he can embrace her tightly as she clasps her legs around his back. By holding her close, he can get deep into her, and he has control of the speed and rhythm of sex. Climbing the hill We'd only recommend this position for very flexible or adventurous lovers! The male partner lies as shown, with a firm erection, which he holds for his partner as she guides herself down on top of him. She must sit slowly and gently so as not to bend his penis, though if she can get onto him, she has control of the movement. He basically lies there while his partner rides up and down him, using her legs to move up and down. The man gets extra stimulation by watching his partner's breasts and his penis moving in and out of his partner's vagina. The spider's web This is an exciting position - if the man's back is flexible enough for him to get into it! It also helps if he has a long penis, though this is not essential if the couple raise her bottom with a pillow so that her vagina is at the right height for him to enter her. The easiest way to get into this position is for her to shuffle towards her man as he sits waiting for her. If he leans forward and holds her shoulders, he will be able to gain enough purchase to thrust slightly, though movement is limited. He is basically entering her from below and pushing up, since her bottom and pelvis are slightly higher than his.

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Advanced sex positions There are many reasons to try new sex positions which step beyond the boundary of what you may be used to. The first is sexual excitement. By trying new positions you can add a new level of sexual excitement to any sexual relationship. And for a man, any position that enhances his ability to see his penis penetrating his partner's body will usually be even more exciting: something like the first position shown here would probably satisfy that condition! Side by side sex positions like this one are excellent at adding intimacy as you can get close to your partner while enjoying all the physical sensations of steamy sex. Whether it is really necessary to wrap your legs around your partner in such a complicated way is another question altogether, of course! Here's a view of the more conventional approach to side by side sex. Men can keep going for a long time in this position without coming, as it puts less pressure on the penis.

Generally speaking, in side by side sexual positions, the woman will move her legs up and the man will lie between them. In this photo the female partner has moved her legs apart in such a way as to allow her man an unusual position for access to her vagina. Such different ways of getting your penis into her vagina can be exciting - and there are some more ways you can achieve this in the pictures below - but the thrill that you may anticipate often turns out to be less pleasurable in reality. Sex positions like these may give you a nice ego boost, but they can also place an undue strain on your penis, not to mention your neck, arm and thigh muscles!

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And, of course, having said that, for a man, such a blatant view of his partner's vagina is likely to be a real turn on. This is not, however, a position recommended for women with back problems!

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Oral sex positions Whether you like to use oral sex as part of foreplay or prefer to take it all the way to orgasm, whether you like to enjoy it regularly or just once in a while as a special treat, oral sex can certainly be one of the greatest pleasures of a romantic relationship. Is there anything to say on the subject that hasn't been said before? Perhaps not, but there are one or two things to remember which can make it a more comfortable or pleasurable experience. First of all, a few words about positions. There aren't really any special positions for oral sex - unless you count the ones which help to avoid neck strain for men who are pleasuring their partner orally. And that's an entirely serious comment, for men who like to bring their partner to orgasm this way can feel obliged to continue as their partner nears orgasm, even if they are in some discomfort. One answer is to raise her hips slightly on a pillow, so that you can get to her vulva more easily. Another possibility is to have her lie on the bed with her legs over the edge so that you can get between her legs as you kneel on the floor.

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Of course, finding a good position for oral sex isn't really difficult, but what you might need is inspiration to find some new ideas for doing it that will please both you and your partner. Accordingly, we've included a selection of oral sex position pictures below. For women giving oral sex (fellatio) to their man, getting into position tends to be less difficult, since a man's penis is much more accessible in every way than a woman's vulva, whether he's standing, lying, or sitting. And it's almost every man's number 1 or 2 favorite sexual activity (no prizes for guessing what the other one is! OK, then it's vaginal intercourse!) Here's a link to a fun guide to oral sex on a girls' website, handbag.com. Speaking as a man, I'd say it was pretty well written, though I'm not sure that the suggestion that men like a consistent rhythm of stimulation for their penis (just as women do for their clitoris) is completely accurate. Still, it's good general advice.

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We know it doesn't appeal to everyone, but anal sex can be fun and exciting. For those who are into it, the positions are not actually much different from normal sex positions. The simplest is to have the man on top with the woman's legs raised high so that her anus is exposed for penetration. It's also very easy to adapt the rear entry position for anal sex: you can adopt the same postures but orientate yourself to penetrate your partner's anus rather than her vagina. If you make sure that you are positioned so that the tip of your erect penis is level with her anus, then penetration - with plenty of lube and a condom - shouldn't be a problem. By adapting the rear entry position so that she's lying on her side, you can achieve a comfortable and relaxed style of rear entry sex. And another position you can use the man lie on top of his partner as with her legs wide apart. The key using plenty of lube and being Certainly if one partner has it, anal sex is not likely to become your regular sex life. Having said do really enjoy it, since the sense trying something forbidden can be very arousing. In is an extremely erotically charged part of the body.

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You can adapt both man on top and woman on top positions so that the woman actually comes during sex If you don't know what the Coital Alignment technique is, then I strongly recommend you try it. It is one of the best positions, and can really help the partners come together. The man gets into position as if for the missionary. But he keeps his legs outside hers while he inserts his penis into her. He then shifts his whole body upwards so that his elbows are near her head. The net result of this position is to rub the clitoris on the base of the penis, so that she is stimulated as he thrusts. Sex in this position will almost certainly make her have an orgasm.

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It may be better to change positions slightly so that the guy is moving his penis in a stirring or churning motion rather than simple thrusts. Many couples say they love this position the most, and it works even better after cunnilingus because then she's already aroused and will reach orgasm quicker. More information on Coital Alignment Technique can be found here: Women's health forum or here: Man on top page of this site

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Even better sex can be achieved with the woman on top because it allows her to find the exact angle that gets her clitoris stimulated. If she can find a position that get her clitoris in contact with the base or shaft of your penis or your pubic mound during sex, she will go into orbit while she moves on you. And of course, these positions have the advantage that they are quite relaxing for you during sex! Many women find woman on top sex incredibly stimulating, so much so that they reach orgasm much more easily. If you get the position just right, your glans will hit her G spot and she will come while you are inside her. Believe me, this is an amazing sensation!

The best way to enjoy woman on top sex depends on what you want! Like everything in sex, the best thing is what is best for you and most comfortable. But in general, when you're the woman and you're on top, don't bounce up and down on his penis like a jack hammer - this will only make him come quickly, and it probably won't give him much pleasure. Instead, screw a man to the edge of unbearable ecstasy in the woman on top positions if you move your hips slowly in a circular grinding way. Slow and luxurious - that's the way to do it. A great way to enjoy this position is for the man to move his partner placing his hands on her hips and then shifting her (gently, more like a process of encouraging her to shift into different positions) into the positions that feel best for him. Once she knows which positions feel best, she'll be able to take him to fantastic orgasms. If there's one guiding principle, it's this: like everything else to do with sex positions, just do what feels good. When you first try woman on top, you'll quickly find it's important to adjust the position to suit the angle of your cock. If it's hard and upright when erect, lying flat along your belly, you woman will have to lean forward so that your chests are quite close, otherwise it is very uncomfortable as your penis will get bent downwards. This sex position allows you to spin sex out so that she controls how long sex lasts, and gets her pleasure while driving her man crazy! Another good option is to have the man half lying and half sitting, then have the woman climb onto his lap and do all the rocking back and forwards and the going faster or slower. In these positions, his penis gets deeper into her, and this can feel amazing! What's more, if the man sits upright, his pubic bone can very

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Sex positions for deep penetration Deep penetration can be very rewarding. Men are genetically programmed with the desire to ejaculate deep inside a woman's body (though sometimes it seems not to matter if that's in her vagina, anus or mouth!), and they really enjoy the positions that allow them to get as deeply into their partner's vagina as possible during sex. Women may crave deep penetration for the emotionally rewarding sensations it gives them - a sense of satisfaction that goes beyond the mere physical. For, with all positions that offer the possibility of deep penetration, there's the sense of being deeply connected to one's partner. And both sexes enjoy positions that offer deep penetration because they can feel very, very good!

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One challenge in all these deep-thrusting positions is that a man may come very quickly - maybe not too soon for his pleasure, but perhaps too soon for his partner, who may not have had enough physical stimulation to get her fully aroused or to allow her to reach orgasm. This is discussed more below.

1 Man on top positions where the woman has her legs raised towards her chest And the further she raises her legs, the deeper he will be able to enter her. But even in the standard man on top position, where his partner lies on her back and places her feet on his calves, he can get pretty deep into her vagina and thrust vigorously.

2 Rear entry sex positions This position is especially good for deep penetration when the woman is lying face down, with her buttocks raised. The Kama Sutra describes one way in which a couple can get into this position for sex: they start by kneeling with the woman sitting astride her man, facing away from him. Then she bends forward until he is able to enter her. She then stretches her legs backwards alongside his, resting her chest on her arms which are folded under her, while she raises her buttocks with pillows. The final position is something like this:

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This is really making things more complicated than they need to be, for any rear entry sex position is good for deep penetration, including the conventional "woman kneeling with man behind her" positions, as shown below.

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3 Other positions for deep penetration One of the risks of deep penetration is that a man's penis can hit his partner's cervix if he thrusts too hard or too deeply during sex. A position that makes this less likely to happen is the one where the woman lies flat on her belly, spreading her legs as wide as possible, while her man penetrates her as he lies on top of her. This position has the added advantage of allowing excellent G-spot stimulation during sex.

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Sex positions for fast, passionate sex You might think that all sex positions are created equal, but in fact they're not! For example, when passion overtakes you and your sex just has to be fast and furious, you need a position that allows you to thrust hard and fast. You couldn't do this in a kneeling position, for that requires a careful balancing act, while sitting sex positions and most variations of woman on top will restrict the man's movements so much that fast thrusting becomes impossible for him (though of course a woman has much greater freedom of movement when she's on top).

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Intense sex isn't just confined to the first weeks or months of attraction to your partner, though that's when it's most common. This is the kind of sex that demands instant satisfaction without foreplay; it's all about rapid pleasure, fast action, and powerful orgasms. If desire hits both you and your partner at the same time, then fine: if not, you can convey the urgency of your desire to your partner in a way that will turn them on - for example, a woman can leave a trail of clothes leading to the bedroom, the last item being her underwear, provocatively placed outside the bedroom door. And a man can press up against his lover so that she feels the hardness of his desire expressing how much he wants to make love to her. Another powerful signal men can use is the male sexual gaze the kind of gaze that says to a woman, "You're mine, I'm going to take you, penetrate you, make love to you and make you come!" Many times, this will make a woman go weak at the knees with excitement and anticipation! It's also important to act on these desires when they arise. It may seem self-indulgent to drop what you're doing and have sex, especially if you're in a long-term relationship, but by doing so, you can refresh yourself and your relationship. Not acting on the desire to make love when it develops can be unhealthy for you - and your relationship. So, the question is, "which sex positions are most suited to fast, urgent, passionate sex, which probably means fast thrusting?"

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1 Rear entry standing It's probably the one most people associate with fast, "quickie" sex - it's easy, simple and very arousing. You don't even have to get undressed, for if the woman is wearing a skirt, she can flip it up and move her underwear aside, while her partner can just pull out his erect penis and thrust straight into her. It's easier if the man holds his partner round the waist as they enjoy sex: once he has her supported in this way, she can also thrust herself back and forth along the length of his shaft, but getting a good rhythm going can be challenging. (A good reason, perhaps, to practice more!)

Keeping to the theme of rear entry, this position is likely to be exciting and arousing - it can feel very wicked! Once again, the woman need not undress fully: she can flip up her clothes and present herself to her man - he has a thrilling view of her buttocks as he enters her. A great position for fast sex - but perhaps the danger is that in this position, the man will ejaculate very quickly through sheer excitement, and sex will be over quite quickly.

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2 Sitting sex positions suitable for fast thrusting This position, either as shown here, or with the man standing (in which case the woman keeps her legs in exactly the same position as shown on the left) is recommended in the Kama Sutra for fast sex. If the man is standing, he needs to lean back against a solid surface to get some support. It can be a tiring position, and it's not a good idea to try it if you feel you might not be able to keep it up - if the couple collapse, her weight bending his penis down can seriously damage it. To get good, fast sex, the man can move his partner back and forth along his penis as he thrusts - or his partner can thrust herself as he remains still.

3 Standing sex positions This position is one which can be used for passionate sex, though it may work better if the man stands more upright and the woman wraps her leg around his waist. However, when there is a height difference between the partners, it may easier for the woman to stand on the first tread of a staircase while he stands on the ground. If he has the strength to lift her completely off the ground, she can wrap her legs around him and hold onto him around his neck with her arms, thereby supporting herself and allowing her to thrust vigorously against her man. He can also help her by supporting her around her buttocks.

4 Other ideas for passionate sex Not all couples will be flexible enough to have sex in the position shown on the left. It also requires a man to have a fairly long penis. There are many variations of the position which can offer great pleasure, most of which involve the woman placing her feet against her man's chest or raising them over his head. When he grasps her round the thighs, as shown in the picture on the right, he can thrust hard and powerfully. Another highly enjoyable variation is the "edge of the bed" one shown in the photograph to the left. This allows fast and powerful thrusting, as well as deep penetration and intimate connection between the lovers.

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It's a mistake to think that gentle sex has to be dull. On the contrary, there are many times in any relationship where a slow, romantic session of lovemaking suits the mood of the couple much more than a fast and furious bout of penetration and thrusting. By its very nature, slow and romantic sex implies you'll be taking it easy, and so all the positions need to be ones that you can sustain for long periods of time without getting tired. These positions have other uses too, apart from helping a couple to bond emotionally. If a man only has a partial erection, or no erection at all, he may be able to enjoy penetration into his partner's vagina if they lie side by side, taking their time, and using lubricant to get his penis into her. Often, if he grips around the base of his penile shaft as he presses in, then remains inside his partner, he will become more fully erect as the couple lie together.

1 Side by side sex positions for gentle lovemaking Side by side positions are certainly the best for long, slow lovemaking. By entering your partner and remaining still rather than thrusting into her, especially if you have gone in from behind so that her buttocks are in your crotch, your desire will slowly increase and you'll both get more turned on. As you get more turned on, your sex may gather pace and become faster and more vigorous - or it may not, depending on the mood and what suits you at the time. Often if a couple lie together, moving their hips gently from time to time, and talking, cuddling and kissing, the eventual orgasm may be even more powerful than one you get in a "quickie". This is because the slow sexual build up in this position allows a lot of sexual energy to accumulate. It's also very easy for the man or his partner to play with her clitoris and bring her to orgasm as they enjoy their intimate connection.

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2 Sitting sex positions for slow, romantic sex Though sitting sex positions tend to be some of the most underrated and underused positions we have for our sexual interactions, they can be highly enjoyable, very intimate and they are perfect for slow romantic love.

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4 Sex positions suitable for overcoming delayed ejaculation in men Men who have delayed ejaculation cannot ejaculate at all during intercourse or only with great difficulty. This condition is caused by intrinsic systemic low levels of sexual arousal - a man may have a rock hard erection but simply not be aroused enough to reach the point of ejaculation during intercourse. This kind of retarded ejaculation can be very distressing for a man and his partner, especially if they are trying to get pregnant. Fortunately there are various ways you can cure this kind of problem, called male orgasmic disorder, using self-help treatment programs, which will quickly and effectively help a man to ejaculate normally during sex. Overcome delayed ejaculation and ejaculate normally during sex. (Oh, and use the man on top sex positions, with the deep thrusts it permits, it is one of the positions in which men tend to come very quickly during sex.) 5 Sex positions suitable for a woman to reach orgasm during intercourse Many women would love to reach orgasm during intercourse but find that they cannot do so. Advice for women who want to reach orgasm during intercourse can be found here. If you need more general advice on becoming fully orgasmic, you can find it here. But in general, any sex position where a man or a woman can stimulate her clitoris is a good one for a woman to reach orgasm during intercourse.

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Sex positions suitable for pregnancy Pregnancy can sometimes produce a great surge in a woman's sexual desire. Unfortunately, it can be uncomfortable to have sex just when she wants it most - her hormones are flowing, she may feel a strong need for love and reassurance, and her partner may be very turned on by the sight of his pregnant partner's swollen breasts and belly. So what positions are most suitable for sex during this most amazing stage of a couple's sex life? The first thing to note, perhaps, is that sex will not harm the baby. There's actually plenty of information about this on the internet - see for example, Baby Center, which gives a comprehensive list of the conditions in which you might be advised not to have sex while pregnant. Another excellent source of information is the Mayo Clinic.

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The main issue, of course, in finding a suitable position for sex during pregnancy is the need for comfort. You may find, especially in the later stages of pregnancy, that lying on your back compresses the veins in your abdomen and makes you feel slightly light-headed or dizzy. If so, this is just a symptom of reduced blood pressure; fortunately, you can easily avoid any sex position where you lie on your back the man on top position, for example, comes to mind, but this is not likely to be very successful anyway because of your bulging belly, especially for men with a short penis!

Most comfortable sex positions for a pregnant woman - from the woman's point of view Side by side positions are great because they keep your partner's weight off your abdomen. And if you have him lying behind you, he can only make shallow thrusts - which may be more comfortable as you get nearer full term. Any position where your vulva is presented without your bulge becoming an obstacle is likely to be successful - the most obvious way of achieving this is to lie on your back with your legs hanging over the side of the bed, or with your feet perched on the edge of the bed, and have your partner stand or kneel in front of you as he enters you. Again, though, this may not suit men with a short penis. Any variations of the woman on top position is very good during pregnancy. You can control the depth of penetration and your swollen belly is not in the way of his penis as it enters your vulva. And if you or your partner are turned on by the sight of your breasts and belly (by the way, it is OK to be sexually aroused by the sight of your pregnancy!) this is likely to be very exciting.

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Another possibility to try is any sitting position. You can try sitting down on him so that his penis enters you while you lower yourself onto his lap as he sits on a chair - but do make sure the chair's strong enough to support the weight! Last but by no means least, the rear entry sexual position will certainly be an easier one than most to enjoy from a physical point of view, but some women will be too emotionally sensitive during pregnancy to find this an appealing one, especially if they see it as being slightly impersonal and having connotations of animal lustfulness.

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Sex positions suitable for orgasm during intercourse Before we look at how a woman might enjoy orgasm during intercourse, let's think about men's orgasmic issues. If you experience premature ejaculation, side by side sex is a wonderful position for intercourse, as it puts much less pressure on the penis and therefore lets you to last longer during sex. If on the other hand you suffer from delayed ejaculation, a condition where you find it difficult to ejaculate during sex - and also called retarded ejaculation and male orgasmic disorder, this is not a good way to enjoy sex since you will be even less likely to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse.

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As for women, if you read the surveys, only about 20% of women claim to reach orgasm during intercourse on any kind of regular basis. A few others say they can come from time to time, but one thing's clear: orgasmic intercourse is a rare event for a woman. If you'd like to introduce orgasms during intercourse into your sex life, there are several positions which you can use that will allow either the male or female partner to stimulate her clitoris during sex. Combined with penile thrusting which stimulates her vagina and G-spot, this gives her a good chance of an enjoyable orgasm; and since it's always very exciting for a man when his partner comes while he's inside her, this can be a way for a couple to have great sex and perhaps even simultaneous orgasms. So, what positions allow him and/or her access to her clitoris during sex? The first is the classic missionary, with a twist. Instead of the usual in-out, in-out thrusting routine, you get into close bodily contact and then rock gently, so that his body and hers act together to press on her clitoris in a rhythmic motion which will eventually bring her to orgasm. This is called the Coital Alignment Technique, or CAT, and it's been described many times, with greater or lesser accuracy, on the internet. One of the best descriptions I've found is on this link. The next position is woman on top. This works well because when a woman is on top she can alter the angle of penetration by leaning forwards or backwards, change the degree of pressure on her clitoris by pressing her pelvis more firmly into her partner's body, and adjust the pace of sex so that she has a chance to get just as aroused as her partner: for example, she can stop riding her partner so his arousal remains constant, while she adds to her own excitement with some clitoral self-stimulation. This can bring the level of arousal of the two partners closer together so they eventually reach orgasm at the same time when she resumes thrusting. You can also try any rear-entry sex position. These positions work well because the man is behind his partner, and he can reach round and add to her pleasure by manually stimulating her clitoris as he thrusts. If she prefers, she can do this herself, pacing her arousal so that she comes before her partner does. A good tip for a couple who want to experience the joys of simultaneous orgasm is to use their PC muscles to alter the level of arousal they feel. By clenching her PC muscle, a woman can increase the pressure on her partner's penis, and thereby increase the pleasure he feels. This maneuver will also increase the pleasure that she gets, and with the right muscular movements can increase her arousal and speed up her arrival at orgasm. The same is true of the change in arousal that comes from moving her legs closer together or further apart.

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Side by side (while facing each other) sex positions are good for simultaneous orgasm. There is much less pressure on the man's penis, so he can last longer; if the partners lean back so their upper bodies are apart from each other, her clitoris is freely available for pleasure, and she can move her hips in the way that gives her most pleasure. If he stops thrusting or moving, while either he or she plays with her clitoris, it's very likely that she'll be able to reach orgasm while he is inside her. Another useful tip for some couples is to thrust deeply enough so that her cervix is stimulated. Not all women find this pleasant - indeed, the usual advice to men is not to thrust deeply because it can be painful for a woman if he hits her cervix. However, there are a significant number of woman who find that cervical stimulation - often when they are highly aroused - is actually the key to triggering orgasm. It follows that the deeper the penetration offered by a position, the more effective it will be in helping these women reach orgasm. See Positions For Deep Penetration.

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Sex positions for men with a small penis Obviously the problem with having a small penis is that you can't get deep penetration as easily as men who have a large penis. But is this really a problem? Well, that depends on your point of view: deep penetration is very satisfying and can produce profoundly fulfilling sensations for men; some women like it, especially if they're stimulated by having your penis touch their cervix. (Though some women find this painful, for others it's the key to a powerful orgasm.) If you do want the pleasure of plumbing her depths, then there are several positions that can help you get deeper into her.

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There's no danger of falling out of her in the doggy position even if you have a small penis, provided you position yourselves correctly and comfortably. This means adjusting your respective heights (e.g. you stand on something, she raises or lowers her bottom) so you have easy and smooth access to her vulva. You get the enjoyable sight of her rear end, you get deep penetration, and you can good pressure on your penis if she keeps her legs together and/or lowers her head and neck onto a pillow while keeping her bottom raised.

Woman lies face down and man enters her from behind The woman lies face down on her belly and keeps her legs together, as you kneel, your knees outside her legs, one on each side of her, ready to enter her. For you to get into her in the first place she may have to open her legs a bit more, but once you're in she can close them, which will produce good sensations for you both. It's often helpful if she places a pillow under her pelvis, so that her hips are raised. You'll find you can then enter her more easily.

She lies on her back and raises her legs In fact, she may raise her legs right back so that her knees are on her chest, her ankles around her ears. This opens her vulva to your gaze, and allows you to penetrate her easily and deeply.

She lies on her back and you hold her legs in a V-formation The starting position for this is that she lies on her back and you enter her from a semi-kneeling position. Then you hold her ankles and raise them into a V formation, holding her legs up and apart. You can thrust deeply, but it does take some flexibility to do this.

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This is a very good one for deep penetration and thrusting by the man. However, as in all these positions, it's important to remember that even though women may be turned on by the sight of a large penis, they often don't particularly want one inside them. The secret of sexual success is to get her really aroused before you enter her, and then to snuggle close and deep, kissing her as you penetrate her as deeply as possible. This s the ultimate romantic, sexy and loving embrace. Although many women find big penises visually stimulating, most admit that they wouldn't like to have one inside them. So don't feel insecure if your penis is below average; there are so many ways you can make up for it as a lover. The truth about small penis size is interesting - and one that many men who find themselves in this position find hard to accept. That is, for most women, the size of a guy's penis is well down the list of things which are important to them in a relationship. Now, don't get me wrong, I don't want to sound like an apologist for men who have smaller than average endowments, because I do know that many women like to look at men's bodies, and they also like to see a penis which is visually stimulating because of its size. Sure! We all have a natural curiosity like this. But maybe the point which men miss here is that this is no different to men finding large breasts attractive - and there are only a very few men for whom this would be a determining factor in whether or not they had a relationship with the woman concerned! This logic is even more true for women, whose values of a potential partner include factors such as loyalty, honesty, reliability, commitment, strength and compassion. Though women like to look at bodies, they aren't that important a factor in deciding whether or not to form a relationship. But of course, that leaves open the question of what this means in practice if you happen to be a man with a small penis, and you lack confidence in sexual relationships because of it. For one thing, it may seem alike a major effort every time you want to go to bed with a woman - and the psychological barrier to intimacy of a small penis, blocking your moves towards sexual intimacy because you fear the eventual outcome of being naked with a woman, can seem insurmountable. It's to be hoped that hearing the words over and over again - "It doesn't matter to a woman" - may help you to overcome your problems. But ultimately there is no choice but to leap in, as it were, to take the plunge towards sexual intimacy. You can forewarn your partner - "I have some shyness round my dick, because I've always felt it's a bit smaller than average" - which, to be truthful, may be honest but isn't likely to garner you much admiration. Or you can find a way of giving her great pleasure, so she sees you as a wonderful lover and the size of your cock pales into insignificance behind that fact. So my suggestion to you is this: become an expert at cunnilingus. Show her that your only concern is for her orgasm and for her pleasure. Give her head before you even think about penetration. You'll find that she appreciates you more for this than for any other aspect of your lovemaking skills. Oral sex, let me repeat, for many women, is much more rewarding than intercourse. Sexual intercourse may give a woman a feeling of connection and intimacy, but if you're a thoughtful man, you can give her the feeling of intimacy and connection by listening and being present with her at any time, while her sexual pleasure comes from cunnilingus. See the advice we have to offer on cunnilingus here. Also, if you're a man with a small penis, you might like to read this page for more information on sexual positions.

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may not know much about female sexuality and the anatomy of a woman's body, but these things are especially relevant if you're a man with a small endowment, worried about how you can satisfy a woman during intercourse. First of all, fewer than than half of all women are able to have what we call vaginal orgasms. Of course some women can't reach orgasm at all, but the reality is that the vast majority of women can only reach orgasm via clitoral stimulation. This means they can only come from stimulation of their clitoris with fingers, toys, tongue or some other part of the body (such as the penis being rubbed on the clitoris). Obviously oral sex is especially good for making a woman come through stimulation of her clitoris. So, "small" men, here is a reality check: most women do not reach orgasm during penetrative sex. Thus, for more than 50% of women, their orgasmic ability has got nothing whatsoever to do with the size of their lover's penis. (As a side note, there is one sex position, the coital alignment technique, that may in fact produce an orgasm for a woman who is clitorally orgasmic since it positions the lovers so that her clit rubs on the man's pubic bone). Of those women who can have vaginal orgasms - and remember this is much less than half of all women there is a further grouping into two sections: the so-called deep vaginal (or cervical) orgasm and the G-spot orgasm. The cervical orgasm takes place in a blind ending up behind the cervix. When a woman is sexually aroused, her uterus lifts up and tilts, so that the end of her vagina is underneath it in a form of cul-de-sac, while the penis of her lover (if it is long enough) actually passes under her cervix. In some women this cul-desac can be stimulated with a five-inch penis; in others, simply due to them having a longer vagina, it may take a longer penis to reach the same spot. Because this blind ending is up behind the cervix, it follows that the cervix is rubbed when the man thrusts during intercourse - but only if his penis is long enough. The problem is that many women find cervical bumping and rubbing rather unpleasant, if not painful, for it is usually only exciting if a woman is extremely aroused. In any event, women who do not like their cervix stimulated during sex will undoubtedly prefer men with a shorter penis.

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Most women who can enjoy a cervical orgasm will also be able to enjoy a G-spot orgasm. As most men and women know, the G-spot is usually located only two or three inches into a woman's vagina, on the upper wall as she lies on her back, so it is easily reached by any penis over three inches long. (In fact a male friend of mine had a penis two inches long and was able to stimulate his wife to many G spot orgasms in each session of sex - she completely loved him!) One drawback to stimulating the G spot is that although it is not painful, sometimes it can make a woman feel like she needs to pee during sex, though the sensation usually goes off after a while. This can be avoided by visiting the bathroom before sex. One great thing is that G-spot stimulation can cause the extremely exciting experience of female ejaculation, a liquid sometimes squirted by a woman out of her urethral glands during sex. Here's a page about female ejaculation and the G-spot: www.the-clitoris.com The long and short of all this, of course, is that as far as length is concerned, almost every man in the world is able to stimulate a woman to vaginal orgasm - if she is vaginally orgasmic in the first place. If she isn't, then he is in exactly the same position as all other men - he can use his fingers and tongue on her clitoris to bring her to orgasm.

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So what about girth? Some women say penile girth is more important than length, while some women hate the feeling of being stretched. Mostly, women do not like a large girth because it can cause painful friction in the vagina - and while men who have a thin penis, a small girth to their penis, may think that they do not feel their partner's vagina around their penis, and believe it all feels too loose during sex, the fact is that it's easy for a woman to make her vagina much more tight by strengthening her pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (which are the "sex muscles" that add to the depth and intensity of the sensations of orgasm, and which clamp around the penis during sex and close the vagina and anus in both men and women). Kegel exercises may help in the first place, but in truth a woman needs a resistance-device called a Kegelmaster to get really good PC muscle tone. The more strength in her PC muscles, the stronger a woman's vaginal orgasms - and obviously the tighter her vagina feels to her lover during sex. Furthermore, powerful vaginal muscles help increase the power of the woman's orgasm, and make it more satisfying. I have heard it said, though I have never seen it, that women with very strong PC muscles can actually induce a vaginal orgasm by flexing the muscles of their vagina even if there is nothing inside it. The message is clear: vaginal orgasms do not depend on penis size. They depend much more on the size and shape of the woman's anatomy and the man's regular thrusting against the G spot rather than on him sporting a cock big enough to stretch her cunt wide open! For small-dicked men the message is this: if you hit her G spot in the right way you will be a great lover! Men may find this hard to believe. But we get the wrong images from all round us, especially porn. The reality of sex never seen in porn. Porn is about male fantasy - not about women's sexual pleasure. Women rarely come in porn films, unless they are specifically being filmed for that reason. The reality is that women generally need at least ten to twenty minutes of direct and careful clitoral stimulation before they reach a (clitoral) orgasm. In porn the orgasms are faked! Yes, they are faked. Shocking, isn't it? Almost no woman reach orgasm as quickly and as powerfully as appears to happen in porno films. The very few women who can reach orgasm in this way are often very skilled at sex because they have spent a lifetime developing those skills - in other words, their capacity to orgasm has nothing to do with the size of their partner's penis. For example, women who can reach a vaginal orgasm in moments have very powerful PC muscles. The problem is that men look at porn and think it somehow represents normality - the stud's large penis producing (apparently) massive orgasms. But if you see this and conclude that your cock is not big enough to give a woman an orgasm, you are truly falling into a web of self-deception and falsehood. Furthermore, many women have a low level of sexual desire because they lack testosterone. This will affect how easily a woman reaches orgasm - and again, without knowing this, many men will be seduced into thinking that their partner's lack of interest in having sex, or her lack of orgasms, is down to the inadequacy of their penis. Two websites which deal with female sexual problems are www.newshe.com and www.fsdinfo.org Also most men's sex shops send the wrong image to men. Often if a man buys a sex toy for his partner he goes for the enormous, penis-like dildo. But a woman buying for herself will buy a dildo about six inches or less in length and only about an inch and a bit in diameter. The Rabbit Pearl which is one of the most popular sex toys when women do the buying, is only five inches long in the shaft. So the message is - be a careful, sensitive lover and a strong, romantic, considerate man, and the issue of penis size fades into insignificance.

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Best sex positions for men with a large penis Although many men think that having a large member would be a gift from the gods, the truth is that it can be as much of handicap as an advantage in the loving department. In fact, some might say that the only advantage is that you can impress other men in the locker room; for although a few woman may be "size queens", the majority, despite bawdy talk among girlfriends, are anything but.

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A long penis is actually less desirable than an average one for the majority of women: anything over seven inches long is just too long for sex, and can be uncomfortable; bear in mind that the average vagina is about five inches long, though admittedly it does stretch out when a woman is sexually aroused - but certainly not to eight inches or more (which seems to be the length of penis that many men think of as "ideal"!). Most women can only accommodate such a large penis is if they are highly aroused. This is because when a woman is very aroused, her uterus tilts back and her vagina effectively elongates underneath her cervix (as pictured when she's lying on her back, that is). But the problem, of course, is that most women simply don't get extremely sexually aroused during sex: certainly not to the same extent as men. And so for most women, most of the time, the maximum length of penis they can comfortably accommodate in their vagina is about six inches - maybe seven at a pinch. And guess what? This happens to be the average penis size among white men. (Asian men and woman are both smaller in the genital department, so they too fit well together. Obviously you potentially have a problem when you have a Caucasian man and an Asian woman making love.) So, men who are six inches or less, take heart! You're the right length for 90% of women. And if you meet one who likes more meat on her man, well, satisfy her with oral sex until she can't do without you! However, we digress. We were thinking about the ideal sex position for men who are well-endowed. The object is to give him feeling but to keep her safe from having her cervix bumped as he thrusts with his long cock. So any position that gives him the impression that he is deep inside her, while in fact his penetration is actually quite shallow, is going to work well.

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A very good position to achieve this is to have the man lie on the bed face upwards, and then have his partner lie on top of him with her back on his chest, so they are both facing upwards. Then he can insert his penis between her thighs and into her vagina: the angle of attack means he can't get his whole length into her, but the effect is that the shaft of his cock is held loosely between her thighs. This means that he gets good sensation as he thrusts and this can be improved if he uses a lot of lube on her thighs, so that the sensations he gets in the lower part of his cock are very similar to those the upper part of his shaft feels when it's inside her vagina. She can play with her clitoris, which may mean that she can reach orgasm - which will be an added pleasure for them both! Other positions which may be helpful if you're in this situation are the ones where the man cannot enter his partner deeply, or where she has some measure of control over how deeply he enters her. For example (click on any picture to expand it):

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The alternative to getting into these positions, of course is to exert some control over the depth to which you thrust in normal positions such as man on top or woman on top. This is OK, unless you get carried away by sexual desire and forget to exercise your self-control! Still, if you do, her screams as you hit her cervix may well remind you to take more care!

But what if your organ is short and thick (or even long and thick rather than long but of average girth)? The short and thick scenario is surprisingly common: many men have a cock that is short and thick rather than long when erect. And this presents a wholly different set of challenges for the man and his partner. When asked, many women say they like the feeling of fullness, so a man whose erection is thicker than average may be a satisfying sexual partner for women who enjoy the added pleasure of feeling "full" during lovemaking. (I think at this stage I should add that women find many other things much more important than size during sex with a partner. You can read about this here: Male Facts.) Here are some examples of the kind of thing we mean:

This isn't really a "positions problems", it's much more about whether or not her vagina is relaxed enough to admit your large girth. Certainly there can be a number of problems in getting into your partner with a member like the ones illustrated above. If she's a bit nervous about penetration, the sight of such a large organ poking at her vaginal opening isn't going to be very reassuring! She may well tighten up completely involuntarily - when you move towards penetration, which can lead to vaginismus. This is an involuntary tightening of the muscles around the vaginal opening, and it can completely stop you gaining entry into your partner's body. The cure is relaxation, lubrication (either natural or artificial), reassurance, and training her vagina to admit gradually increasing sizes of dildoes. Let's face it, being penetrated by one of those monsters must be a bit frightening! She's going to have to be very relaxed, very confident, very aroused and very lubricated - all of which means that you're probably in a well-established relationship, you love (or at least respect each other), and she's happy you'll be gentle enough not to hurt her. So a good way to start is to give her control over the speed and depth of penetration - side by side or woman on top positions are good for this. After she's realized that she can in fact accommodate you, then she'll be much more relaxed the next time. But a very good idea is to use lots of lube, artificial lube that is, to enhance her natural lubrication. This will undoubtedly make penetration easier, and sex more pleasant for you both - and with something that size, there's not likely to be any issues about a lack of feeling or tightness for either of you, no matter how much lube you use!

Some extracts from the forums at the Large Penis Support Group http://www.lpsg.org if you're interested! Question from a 10 inch long guy: I have a girl who can only take half my length. But what would you say - is it better when tight rather than deep? I like to feel my hips banging against my girl's as I go deep into her - there's no better feeling for me. And if she can only get half of my length in, then I can't do that and, worse, I won't come. What do others do? Answer 1 from a woman: I am pretty small - 5'2'' - and my boyf is 9.5 inches. When we started having sex I could only accept half his shaft - but a lot of that was me feeling nervous about his size. Now it all goes in, and when it does, I can feel him pushing the back wall of my vagina while we make love! Answer 2 from a man: I'm not a tall man, 5 feet 10 inches, but boy, am I hung! I like to go out with small girls, but imagine the problems! A lot of petite girls can't even get their hand around my cock! As for sex, I soon realized that lots of foreplay and lots of lube was essential. If she's tight, then yes, you have to go slow, but boy, when she's full you just OWN her. My favorite was a blonde woman, a long time ago, who was desperate to have sex when she saw me, but when I got in her, started moaning, "Oh no..... it's too big, I can't handle it, this is too much," and so on. Since I'm considerate, I whispered, "Look, we can stop if you want." She immediately replied, "Don't you fucking dare!" Then, when it was all over, she had that strange look in her eye as she said, "Man, big cocks are FUN!" Answer 3 from a man: I think petite girls always have small pussies. But having said that, I think all girls can take a large diameter cock because all pussies can be very accepting of large girth. It's the length of the vagina that is related to a woman's height. My wife is 5'10" and very nearly the tallest woman I ever slept with. She is also the woman who can take more of my 10 inch shaft than anyone else I ever met. Sad to say, I have never felt my hips pounding against a woman's, yet I really wish I could do so.....but who am I kidding? As you know if you're hung like me, there's no substitute for having a massive cock! Answer 4 from a man: If you hit her cervix it's going to hurt, since most vaginas are only about six inches. That's why it's unrealistic to believe that sex is going to be pain free for her, especially if she's ovulating. If you say the woman couldn't take it, it begins to sound like it's the woman's fault, whereas in fact this is simply the result of an anatomical mismatch which you can't do anything about. If she hasn't got the capacity to take your length, then she can't take it, and that's pretty much it. On the other hand, girth is a different matter. I think most woman can accommodate a large penis if they are sufficiently relaxed, and the only problem you might face here is that their perineum can't stretch enough to take the penis with a huge girth during sex. The solution, as you may already have guessed, is to use plenty of lubrication and make sure she is aroused before you try and penetrate her. Her natural lubrication will only be sufficient if she produces a copious supply, and not all women do - especially after the menopause, when breastfeeding, and sometimes on the pill. For the guys who have a penis as thick as a beer can, the answer also lies in letting her take control - especially the first few times you have sex. She's going to be frightened, no doubt about it, if she does not have the experience of having sex with such a large penis, so she needs the reassurance of knowing that she can control the pace and depth of penetration. She can lower herself down onto you at a speed that suits her and this will enable her to relax and be sure she can take all of you before she stretches painfully. In other words, it will stop her stretching painfully. Second, if you lie on top of your partner and she holds her legs together, you can thrust your penis between her thighs and only have the top part of it inside her. This feels like you have buried yourself deep in her, and provides friction all along the penile shaft, so that you have a very satisfying experience, and she is again in no danger of having you thrust right up inside her. The other position where you can achieve something similar is the side by side position where the woman lies on her side and you enter her either from behind or facing her, but once again you need the base of your penis to be between her thighs so that you get the effect of deep penetration. These are real issues for men with massive length or girth. Some women I have managed to get deep into, and that was very satisfying sex, others however, I have just got nowhere with. For example, there was a small Japanese girl with whom I had sex - I could not even get the head of my penis into her vagina. If we loosened her up with cunnilingus and fingering for about an hour, I could shaft her from behind in the rear entry position, but if we then flipped over and tried for man on top again, I could still only get half of the length of my cock inside her vagina. Of course all of this was very unsatisfying, and I came to realize that sex can be incredibly frustrating at times for men like us - even when the woman is having fun. I have always wanted to feel that I can pull the woman around her waist back down onto my cock, bury it deep in hr and grind her clit on my pubic area - fat chance. The really odd things is that once I met a small white girl who was around five feet two who could take all of my length - so maybe Asian girls really do have smaller vaginas.

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Sex positions for Tantric Sex Tantric sex is a concept that came to attention in the West quite recently. Most people think it's all about extending arousal, prolonging penetration and avoiding ejaculation. (The kind of position that's a bit like waiting for the plumber - you stay in all day and nobody comes.) But Tantra goes way beyond this. Imagine energy flowing around your body, through your sexual centres, into your lover then back to you. That's more what Tantra's about, though it's true that the ancient practitioners of Tantric Sex did think ejaculation was bad for a man: they believed it caused him to lose vital energy. So we can think of positions for Tantric Sex as being those that allow a couple to extend pleasure: positions that get sexual energy flowing, allow you to delay or avoid ejaculation, and generate extreme waves of pleasure or orgasmic bliss for both partners. If you want to know more about Tantra, you can find a lot of information on the internet. For example, check out: Source Tantra. The question that concerns us here is: "Which sex positions are most suitable for prolonging sexual pleasure?"

Starting your Tantric arousal A good way to start developing Tantric sex is through gentle, stimulating touch. The idea is not to produce orgasm or even high levels of arousal, but to stimulate your awareness of your body and its energy flows. Start by stroking each other's arms and legs with a gentle touch, for say fifteen minutes. Then take a break before moving onto each other's back, chest, face and neck. Again, avoid each other's genitals. This touch is not explicitly sexual, and you can use any position you like, though lying down with one partner stroking the other one is easiest. Alternatively, you can sit up with your arms around each other, though this position may be tiring if you have any back problems. The next step is to spend thirty minutes or so stroking each other's breasts and genitals. Try and find as many ways to touch your partner as possible: that's to say, using different pressures, strokes and different parts of your fingers and thumbs. Again, the object is not to produce sexual arousal, so if a man's erection comes and goes during this phase of the process, that's fine. If you start to get bored, move beyond the boredom and focus your attention on your fingertips. Imagine every ounce of your sexual energy is focused at that point, and see it pouring into your partner's body. When you're on the receiving end, see if you can feel the energy coming from your partner's touch. Next, try and pass this energy between you from the man's penis to the woman's G-spot. Get an erection and have the woman life motionless on top of the man with his penis inside her. Try and feel the exchange of energy; in any event, stay in this position without having sex for as long as you desire, or until your erection subsides, whichever is the longer.

Tantric Sex Positions As the aim of Tantric sex is to prolong arousal and focus on energy flow rather than rapidly thrusting till you ejaculate, you need a position which is comfortable, will allow the man to sustain his erection, and which does not provide too much stimulation. Man on top is not a good position for Tantric sex, since it is very tempting to thrust, it encourages deep penetration, and it is tiring on the man's arms (unless he's lying on top of his partner, which can be uncomfortable for her). And the muscle tension and strain which man on top promotes tends to speed up a man's arrival at orgasm. All the variations of rear entry, likewise, are not good for prolonging intercourse, since these positions both encourage deep thrusting and rapid ejaculation, as well as providing a very arousing view of his partner's rear for the man. As you've probably realized by now, that pretty much leaves side by side and woman on top positions as the most likely candidates for Tantric sex. Side by side is probably the best, for it allows eye contact, mutual caressing, touching, and gentle slow intercourse. To repeat: the objective of Tantric sex is to allow your arousal to build without necessarily tipping over into orgasm and ejaculation. It's the flow of sexual energy around and through each other's bodies which provides intense pleasure. Nonetheless, a certain amount of movement is needed to keep the man's erection hard and to stimulate the flow of energy during sex. A good way to do this is to have very slow sex: if you're the man, penetrate her vagina only an inch or two, then remain still inside her for a minute before withdrawing and resting the head of your penis in contact with your partner's clitoris. As you become more aware of the energy flow, you may actually feel it leaving your glans penis and flowing into her G-spot. Rest for half a minute then re-enter her. To encourage the energy flow, you can visualize the energy in whatever way seems most appropriate (blue light seems to work well). You may be surprised at the results when you do this: once your partner's G-spot is sensitized, she may begin to experience waves of bliss like energy flowing through her body. If you can intensify these waves of energy enough, and feed them back to each other, you may experience an ever-increasing level of energy flow which results in as vaginal orgasm for her. (It's often suggested that if you kiss the energy will flow back from the woman to the man through your entwined lips.) As she becomes more aroused, she may beg you to thrust, craving more stimulation of your G-spot. If you do, you'll most likely come quite quickly, which breaks the Tantric energy flow. An alternative is to stimulate her G-spot with your finger; if you use fast or firm pressure, an artificial lube will help to avoid soreness in her vagina. If, on the other hand, you can keep stimulating her G-spot with your penis without coming, you're likely to be heading for a massive orgasm yourself when you do eventually speed up and go for your orgasm. So, keep the very slow rhythm going for as long as you can, resting to let your arousal drop if you get too near orgasm. An alternative routine is to alternate deep thrusts and shallow thrusts - say one deep thrust for every nine shallow ones. In any event, once the woman has had her share of the vaginal energy flow, and it's the man's turn, he can speed up his thrusting and rapidly take himself to orgasm. If you're in a Tantric position, it's possible for the man to experience a long-lasting orgasmic energy flow rather like a woman's multiple orgasm, simply by continuing to thrust after he has ejaculated. Many men develop an extremely sensitive penis after orgasm, and think it too uncomfortable to continue trusting. But the discomfort actually dissipates quite quickly, and by continuing to thrust gently after you have ejaculated you may find that you move into a blissful multi-orgasmic state. Actually, it's not so much a multiple orgasm as a rolling wave of orgasmic energy which can continue for quite some time. Another link for Tantric Sex. And another. There are many more - you can easily find them for yourself by researching Tantra or Tantric Sex on Google. Body Electric is another organisation which teaches sensitive approaches to energy and the body.

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Sex Positions For First Timers and the Sexually Inexperienced If you haven't actually been to bed with someone yet, you may want to read our general advice for men and women before you have sex for the first time. You can find it here. On this page we give you some ideas about the sex positions you might like to try during your early sexual explorations. Sex positions advice - mostly for men Why would it matter how you get it together? Well, young men don't generally last very long. They're too horny and over-aroused. Sure, provided your partner's willing, you can always have a second go, but premature ejaculation - or even just quick ejaculation - is often just as quick second time around. If you want to give your partner pleasure, then you might want to try the positions where you last the longest. But there are other factors too. First, some sex positions are harder to get into than others. If you're not that confident anyway, trying to maneuver yourself into a twisted figure of 8 while keeping your penis from popping out of your girl's vagina may not be the easiest thing in the world. Second, during sex you'll pop faster in some positions than others. Of course, if you have an understanding girlfriend, this may not matter, but if you want to be a good lover, and develop your skills, you can - for most of the time, anyway - stick to the less arousing sex positions. That way, you'll last a bit longer. For example, rear entry is an arousing and exciting position, notorious for making men come fast. You look down on your partner's rear end as your penis enters and leaves her body.....which is very exciting, so unless you've developed some self-control, sex probably won't last long in that position!

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Third, your partner may not be very experienced herself, and she might want you to take the lead as she learns more about sex. If you choose the easier positions, you'll take a bit of pressure off yourself. Fourth, you might actually prefer sex in the simpler, easier positions. Being able to fuck in the harder-to-get-into, acrobatic ones is often not the mark of a good lover but of someone who's not bothered to find out how to get pleasure from simpler ways of making love, and thinks that trying something complicated will make sex better. That's not true - good sex is based on intimacy, love and caring for your partner, not technical ability. Still, enough of that. Which are the good positions?

Man on top sex positions The oldest and still the best position for sex! Your girl lies on her back, with her legs apart, and you lie on top, supporting yourself on your knees and elbows (she may actually like to feel your weight resting on her, but don't assume that without asking her. She won't thank you for squashing her!). You're most likely to have your legs between hers; she can rest her feet on your calves or bring her legs higher up you back if she wants - though that's usually easiest after you've completed your initial docking maneuver. If you're not experienced at getting your cock into a woman's pussy, admit it and ask her to guide you in with her hand. Don't just peck ineffectually around the entrance to her vagina with your knob! It may be a bit easier if she raises her hips by resting her butt on a pillow, but generally speaking, getting into her pussy isn't hard in this position. Make sure you have enough lube on the condom, or if you're not using one, on your penis. Saliva is always a good stand-by.

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Woman on top sex positions Another easy one, but it does need some confidence on your partner's part. You might say, well, what's to be confident about? The answer is she may be a bit self-conscious with her body exposed to your eager eyes (especially if she has some issues with the size or shape of her breasts or body), or she simply may not know what to do. So you, the man, start by laying on your back, and work up an erection if you're not already hard.

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But why have a section of sex tips, tricks and techniques at all? Discovering new sex positions is great, of course, and can add hugely to the fun of a sexual relationship, but new positions alone will not increase your sexual compatibility with your lover in the long term. What makes a sexual relationship successful has more to do with intimacy, tenderness, tolerance and openmindedness, not to mention being accepting and non-judgmental when your partner opens up their heart and soul to you in the act of lovemaking. When you know each other well, the way you make love on successive occasions can be very different. One day you may be in the mood for passionate, urgent sex; the next you may want slow, romantic and loving sex. Women especially can expose their vulnerability and gentleness through the act of love - or, rather, they can do so when they connect their heart and body and open up fully to a man - this is something that usually happens when they trust him. And it's also important to remember that the sexual positions and techniques which you liked and favored in a previous relationship may have to be modified or even abandoned when you meet a new partner, for sex is definitely not a "one size fits all" activity! With a new relationship, allow plenty of time for a sensual approach to lovemaking. Take the time to get to know your partner and their body: this way, you will better understand what turns them on, what they like and appreciate, and what things to avoid. What does this mean in practice? Perhaps, first and foremost, it means communicating with your partner. Even sexually experienced men and women can be shy about asking for what they want in a sexual encounter, whether this means a particular position or activity (like oral sex), or a different approach to lovemaking (like taking it more slowly, for example). But there's a real danger that if you don't ask for what you want, you'll end up feeling resentful and disappointed, feelings which are bound to leak out in some way in your relationship. The key aspect of being able to talk to your partner is feeling safe - knowing that they will not put you down or belittle your sexual desires or wishes. Second, it means taking the time and trouble to understand what your partner really wants from sex (especially if they are to shy to say it without your help). Nowhere is this more clear than in the question of how men and women like to be touched during sex. We all know that men like their penis to be stimulated (a horrible word, but it's hard to think of a better one: fondled? caressed? masturbated?) early on during sex, and with a firm pressure. This is so different to the way women like to be touched: a woman usually prefers a more gentle and subtle approach, with delicate touches from her partner only after she has become aroused. The clitoris is extremely sensitive, and most women dislike being touched there too early on in lovemaking. As a general guide, it's only after being kissed, caressed and touched elsewhere, all over her body, belly, back, neck, shoulders, and indeed touched enough to become so aroused that she is producing vaginal lubrication, that a woman is ready for her lover to approach her clitoris. Too much touch, too soon, is not only irritating for her but can also be quite painful. (Not something a man would ever say about his partner touching his penis!) Having said that, once a woman is aroused, touching and licking on and around her clitoris can be extremely exciting for her. There's a huge variety of movements on and around the clitoris that a woman may like you to try: for example, gently touching it with the very tip of your tongue, licking up and under her clitoris from the vaginal entrance, gently pressing your lips across the hood of her clitoris, or the moving your warm wet tongue across her whole vulval area - there's no way to predict what will turn a woman on most, and the only ways to find out are either to ask her, or better yet, to try and find out for yourself! But even though a woman may find it incredibly erotic and powerful when you stimulate her clitoris, she will almost certainly want you to focus on other parts of her body as well from time to time: her nipples

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and breasts, of course, for they are two of the most erotic and erogenous zones on her body; her belly, neck, lips and face; her buttocks; in fact, all of the rest of her body may be aching for your touch and caresses as you make love to her. If you're using your fingers to play on or around her clitoris, then you'll certainly need some lubrication either her natural vaginal juices if she produces enough, or saliva, frequently replenished from your mouth. This will give you the perfect opportunity to kiss or lick her vulva, which can be as delightful for you as for her. If you prefer, you can use some artificial lubricant instead. You must use a water-based lube if you are going to wear a condom later on when you penetrate her. For a woman stimulating a man, the important thing to remember is that his penis is much more used to being handled firmly - perhaps even in your eyes roughly - than your clitoris. A good way to learn how he likes his penis to be handled is to watch him masturbate: you can then try and copy his movements. But don't be afraid of trying something you've thought of for yourself as well: you'll know when he likes what you're doing from the sounds he makes! Kissing and licking his testicles as you stroke his penis shaft or lick its head is also a sure-fire way to bring him great pleasure. There is another reason why I think this section is important. It's because sexual problems are much more common than you might think, and anything that sparks off a higher level of arousal for men and women may help to solve certain problems - namely, anorgasmia in woman, and the fact that some men can't come (can't ejaculate) during sex. I admit it's a bit simplistic to think that simply offering a page of sexual tips and tricks can instantly solve a man or woman's anorgasmia - but what it can do is offer hope and ideas. Hope, in the sense that you have something to look forward to when you are fully orgasmic; ideas, in the sense that you can look through them with your partner and by doing so, open up new lines of communication and discussion - which is the first stage of becoming more liberated about sex. In addition, any page of practical sex advice will contain information on how to delay your orgasm during intercourse (slightly ironic considering that so many people have trouble reaching orgasm) and last longer in bed by delaying a quick ejaculation.

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1 Give him pleasure with sex, masturbation and oral sex with energy and enthusiasm! But not necessarily all at once! Seriously, this simply means: be uninhibited. Find out what he likes, and go for it. He'll certainly appreciate the attention and the sexual energy. For example, he will want you to handle his penis more firmly than you would ever consider handling your clitoris don't make the mistake of assuming that what's good for you will also be good for him. It may not be. Ask him to show you what he likes, and then ask him to tell you if you're doing it right.

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Having said that, a feather light touch on his penis with a wet hand can be exquisite, and may excite him greatly: but as he gets near his orgasm, he'll definitely want a firmer hand. When you're sucking his cock, do it with enthusiasm. If you genuinely don't like giving him fellatio, it's probably better to tell him this and see if you can work through the problem together than to try and fool him into thinking you're enjoying it. Men are extremely keen on fellatio, and they see it as the ultimate expression of acceptance by a woman. It's important to him that you do it right - so try different movements of your lips and tongue, and listen to his moans of pleasure to tell you what you should focus on and how he likes to be stimulated in your mouth. There's no room for restraint in giving to each other sexually, between two people who are in love, especially when this very intimate act can make him feel deeply loving towards you - not to mention extremely sexually satisfied! 2 Stimulate his balls, perineum, nipples and anus - and all the rest of his body Two very sensitive spots on a man's body are his perineum and his anus. If you play with these as you masturbate him or give him oral sex, and especially as he ejaculates, you'll increase his pleasure and the intensity of his orgasm a great deal. If he's willing, a finger up his anus (but make sure you use plenty of lube) can add greatly to his pleasure when he reaches orgasm, especially if you massage his prostate. Though he may have some inhibitions about anal play, which is fair enough - it's not everyone's ball-game - if you can persuade him to experiment, he may find that it's something he wants to do more often. Many men know this already, having discovered during masturbation that a finger on the anus (or inside it) adds a lot to the experience, but he might be a bit shy about sharing this with you. Just check it out by asking him if he'd like to try it! 3 Be bold, be sexy, be wild! Don't be afraid to act like a rude girl in bed!

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Nothing kills sexual excitement faster than boring routine. Well, that may not be true if both partners are happy with routine and find it fulfilling, but most couples like to have a bit of spice from time to time. So - shed your inhibitions. Cast them to the winds! If you're a woman who thinks girls should all be "good" in bed, then try something different -talk dirty, thrust vigorously when he's on top, take the initiative instead of letting him lead during sex, get on top of him and ride him like a cowgirl, try dressing up in sexy clothes (black suspender belts always seem popular with men), or visit the sex shop together....anything for a bit of variety.....but try being "a rude girl" once in a while! 4 Go on a romantic break Book a romantic break for your both. Surprise him with a romantic holiday in a luxury hotel or a camping trip with a shared sleeping bag. Anything that gets you in close proximity and ready to relax, without worrying about the pressures of day to day life can do wonders for your sex life. 5 Have sex at different times of the day If you always have sex in the morning, try it in the afternoon. If you have it in the afternoon, try it at night. If you....well, you get the idea. Book time for sex together in your schedule and try doing it at a time when you usually don't think of it...you might be surprised how naughty and sexy this feels! 6 Don't forget role play and dressing up may excite you both Men are - as you well know - very visual. They are turned on by what they see, and this includes you! It may turn your man on even faster if you dress up for him in a way that he finds sexually exciting. This might mean stockings and suspenders, it might mean blue gym knickers, or it might mean a nurse's uniform, or indeed anything else. Whatever it is, accept it as part of his sexuality if you find it amusing, don't laugh about it: this is just likely to cause an argument or humiliate him. Besides, you might want to confide your fantasy in him one day, and you wouldn't want him to laugh about it, would you? If you really don't like the role you're being asked to play, then tell him, and see if you can find something that does turn you on. You may find acting out your fantasies is very exciting and adds a massive thrill to sex. 7 Be assertive during sex - take the lead Men like to lead during sex, but they also like their partners to take the lead from time to time. You'll find that if you surprise him with an assertive approach to sex from time to time you can turn him on more than you thought possible - but he has to understand the rules of the game: you're in charge! You might even want to turn this into fantasy play - he has to do everything you say for an evening. In any event, if you seduce him, strip him, mount him, and ride him on top, he'll certainly enjoy it. This kind of role reversal is also helpful for women to discover and express their own powerful sexuality. 8 Be creative in your sex life Couples can all too easily get stuck in the same place each time they have sex, going through the same moves and enjoying the same positions each time. Yet if you try some new positions for sex, you may find the whole thing becomes much more exciting for you both - at the very least, you'll have fun trying the positions out and seeing what they feel like! Another thing to experiment with is the use of sex toys. These can add greatly to your pleasure, make it easier for a woman to come, and help a man to discover erogenous zones he didn't know he had. For example, a vibrating anal bullet can stimulate a man's prostate and add a lot of pleasure to his orgasm. 9 Let him use your body in new ways to get pleasure You may not like it, but men want to ejaculate on you, in you and over you. It excites them! Whatever the reason for this, it can be turned to your advantage by making your man so grateful for the pleasure you give him he'll be happier to do whatever you want - sexually and possibly otherwise! High on the list of pleasures for a man is to masturbate by thrusting between his partner's well-lubed breasts. You get a great view too, though watch out for his ejaculation - you don't want semen in your eyes. (It stings.) 10 Give him the chance of a quickie each week You may have noticed that men don't always go for the whole romance thing! There are times when a man's need for sex can be as powerful and fundamental as his need to drink and eat - and that may not match his partner's sexual drive. This potential mismatch is the downside of the male sex drive. Powerful as it is, it needs some form of expression - and one of the ways you might choose to let your partner express his sexuality is by giving him a quickie once a week: a chance to ejaculate without frills, fuss or foreplay. Sure, you'll need lube, but as long as you don't feel like a sex object, and you recognize that he gets great pleasure from being able to do this with the woman he loves, or at least respects, then it can be a great way to keep a man happy. In return, you have every right to expect him to be sensitive to your needs for romance and affection. (If he isn't - tell him what you want!) 11 Don't use sex as a weapon It's a mistake to withhold sex as a tool of manipulation. Men don't respect manipulative strategies around something that's so important to them, and women probably don't appreciate the resentment that it causes. Of course, men can be guilty of this as well, so the real answer is for both partners to learn how to communicate openly and naturally. 12 Respect your man and he will cherish you As a general rule, men like to be respected, even if it's only for being able to open jam jars or change the oil in the car. Competence is important to a man, and he usually finds some field in which he can show you his talents. No matter how simple this is, the best thing you can do to

make him feel fulfilled is to respect him for this - and all the other things he does for you, and for who he is and what he gives you. By respecting him, he is much more likely to express his love for you because he feels more of a man. When he feels like that, he's more likely to give you the cherishing love you expect and deserve. 13 Don't be a doormat No matter how much men may like to play at being the big bold man in response to the girly energy you can put out, they will get tired of this sooner rather than later. If you're straightforward, direct and assertive, you're much more likely to get a man's attention, respect and love than if you act "small", or come over as passive and weak. This includes sex, where it is quite OK for you to show masculine energy (assertive, direct, initiating, demanding, leading and dominant) as often as you care to. You don't have to be a weak, pathetic, feminine thing all the time. In fact, it's better for both of you if you aren't. 14 Teach him what you want during sex Show him how you like your clitoris and G spot to be touched - coach him in what to do, how fast to move his fingers, how hard to touch you, how to tell when you're approaching orgasm, and thank him for his efforts afterwards! Above all, don't criticize him, if, for example, you're on your way to orgasm and you suddenly lose it. No matter how irritated this makes you feel, you gotta assume he didn't; do it deliberately to frustrate you, and if you criticize his efforts, you might find he's less willing to do it again. 15 Women come first Most men sadly don't last especially long during sex, and they need to be motivated to change. If you're with a man who can't or won't learn to last longer, then you might want to adapt. Tell him you won't tolerate selfish behavior during sex, and you want to have an orgasm! The way to do it is this: tell him to give you cunnilingus until you come, then enjoy intercourse. He will appreciate the warmth and wetness of your vagina, and though this may make him come even more quickly, at least you get an orgasm before he enters you. If he says he'll fuck you first, then give you an orgasm, remember that men tend to lose interest once they have ejaculated. There are ways for him to learn how to last longer in bed, which involve controlling premature ejaculation by slowing down how quickly he gets aroused during sex. The longer he can hold himself at a level of arousal below the point where he will ejaculate, the better sex will be for both of you. 16 Try acting out your sexual fantasies Fantasies are generally harmless fun, but they are often best kept in the mind - if you do want to try acting them out, ask your partner first and then see whether you can agree to try them. It can be sexy fun to exchange fantasies, but it's a good idea to have a "no-laughing" agreement before you start. If your fantasies involve bondage make sure you have a safe word ("sultana" or something equally irrelevant to sex) so that you absolutely know when "no" when your partner means "no". 17 Don't ever fake orgasm just to please him Most women, as we have sad so many times, do not come through vaginal intercourse. The thrusting motion of the penis is not conducive to female pleasure since it does not stimulate the clitoris. There's no point pretending that you're having an orgasm if you're not: trust and honesty are much more important. And if you do pretend, how will you ever tell him the truth? This really is one of the worst sexual deceits there is (not up there with having an affair, true, but pretty bad all the same). Get your orgasm before he enters you, and then enjoy the friction and sense of fullness when he fucks you. If you come, perhaps from having a G spot orgasm, it's a bonus. If you're having trouble reaching orgasm, you can always look at this source of information on how you can make it easier for yourself to enjoy orgasm during sex and overcome anorgasmia - how to have an orgasm during sex. 18 Offer him fellatio - but only swallow if you really want to You can't really imagine how important it is to your man that you suck his penis. Taking his cock in your mouth is a sign of complete acceptance of him and his maleness, it feels very good indeed, and he likes the way it looks when yo do it! Of course he may get carried away, so you set the boundaries - tell him what is and isn't OK with you. If you don't want to swallow, then don't: instead, finish him off with your hand. 19 Keep the muscles of your cunt well-exercised and fit Your cunt is the most precious asset of your goddess being - and it deserves both his respect and yours. He loves it- the taste, the scent, the appearance, in fact everything about it. You should love it too, and keep it fit with Kegel exercises. This will increase both your pleasure and his, as you grip him while he makes love to you, or before, during and after his orgasm. If you're lucky enough to be able to come through vaginal intercourse, then fit cunt muscles will increase your pleasure enormously. 20 Learn how to masturbate him like he does it himself (or better) 1 Use lots of lubricant such as Probe, Astroglide or even just saliva. Apply it to both of your hands, then loop the fingers and thumb of one of your hands around the bottom of the shaft of his penis your fingers and thumb will then encircle it. Sweep your fingers up to the glans of his penis in a single movement. When you reach the top, rotate the palm of your hand across his glans in a smooth motion, so that the soft skin of your palm circles and moves sensuously over his glans. Then return your looped fingers and thumbs to the base of his penile shaft and repeat! This can

be exquisite. 2 Alternatively: lubricate your hands, and softly intertwine your fingers like you were clasping your hands. Move your thumbs together, but make sure you leave a space wide enough for his cock between your fingers and thumbs. Then run your hands up and down his penile shaft, with his cock poking out between your intertwined fingers and your thumbs, possibly adding to his pleasure with a series of twisting, side-to-side rotations when you get to his glans. This allencompassing technique will probably make him come rather quickly! 3 If he's slow to get hard, lube up your hands and then form a tube around his shaft with the fingers and thumb of one hand. Slide your well-lubed fingers and thumb up and down his shaft, over his coronal ridge, and pull upwards slightly as you go. Don't go right over the glans, just stop at the ridge. This "hand job" is the one men most often use to get themselves erect or even all the way to orgasm. You can play with his scrotum in your other hand to add extra pleasure to the sensations he feels as you masturbate him like this. 4 Keep one hand wrapped firmly around the base of his shaft as you circle the well-lubricated fingers and thumb of his other hand around his penile shaft, then slide them up and down the full length of his erect and hard penis. Or another idea is to hold the base of his penile shaft with one hand while you run the soft, lubricated palm of your other hand over and around his glans in a smooth, circular fashion. 5 Put the palms of your hands at right angles to each other, make sure they are well-lubed, and then put his penis between them. Move your hands up and down his cock shaft, changing the length of your stroke and/or the speed at which you are moving your hands: make this either a hard and fast or a slow and luxurious hand job. 6 To ring the changes on number 5 above, steeple your hands together, so they form a prayer position, then move your hands up and down his shaft with his penis between the tips of you fingers.......and watch him come with such pleasure! 7 Let him masturbate between your breasts. All men find it an incredible turn-on to have their penis between a woman's breasts. To thrust between them to orgasm is so erotic and incredibly exciting that most men will give anything to have the chance of a "titty fuck"! You can help him achieve this pleasure by kneeling in front of him so that his penis is about level with your breasts, then let him thrust between your well-lubed breasts, holding them together so they grip his penis. Lube is essential to make your skin slippery enough for his cock to slide easily; if you don't have any lube handy, just use your saliva. He'll really thank you for this pleasure - men find it so erotic that they tend to come quickly! Masturbating between your breasts like this gives him a vaginasubstitute composed of one of the most exciting parts of your body after your vagina. 8 Let him masturbate between your buttocks. Sliding his erect cock between your ass cheeks will not only turn him on, it will make him love you as he sees how happy you are to give him pleasure! He'll really enjoy reaching orgasm in this way, as it provides a massive erotic thrill for him. 21 Make sex special for him! Penetrative sex is very special for a man because the feelings are so wonderful for him: the combination of your body heat, your vaginal wetness, and the tightness of your cunt around his penis send him into a pleasure zone which you can only imagine! So if you can provide warmth, tightness and wetness when you masturbate him, the more he will want to play sexual games with you! A long upward stroke and a twist when your hand reaches his glans or coronal ridge will provide great stimulation for your man, but some men have an over-sensitive glans which means that this degree of pressure may not be entirely pleasant. If your man's penis is uncircumcised, you might find that moving his foreskin back and forwards over his glans, which allows the soft, sensitive skin of his inner foreskin to stimulate his glans, gives him great pleasure - in fact, this may be how he masturbates himself. If his penis has been circumcised, then you must use lube or ask him to show you what gives him the greatest pleasure. Masturbation can be a sexual goal in itself, or a part of foreplay. Make it last just as long as you both want: it may become an enjoyable part of foreplay prior to intercourse, or it may be a way of giving him pleasure when you don't want penetrative sex. If you don't want penetrative sex, let him know you'll be willing to give him pleasure by hand or in some other way! Men may be unwilling to try sex toys, but they can be an exciting way of spicing up your sex life and fending off sexual boredom: if your man thinks sex toys are mostly for women, or that having a sex toy means he's going to get it up his ass, then you have some education to do! Obviously, vibrators are the most familiar toys, and equally obviously, men have don't need a vibrator to reach orgasm in the way that women might, but men can still enjoy playing with a vibrator. They can be an exciting way to stimulate nipples, lips, and mouth; or, more sexually, testicles, scrotum, buttocks, anus, and the penile shaft. Then again, there are some very sophisticated penis rings or condoms that can be worn during intercourse, and which excite a woman's clitoris as the man thrusts. For added pleasure during sexual intercourse, a woman can insert an egg-shaped vibrator into her rectum so her partner will feel the vibrations in her vagina as he makes love to her. Small hand-held vibrators can be pressed against his scrotum, perineum or anus as you make love. He may be willing to accept anal play, or even anal penetration, because it feels wonderful and enhances the sensations of orgasm when he ejaculates. It's the same effect as a prostate massage, with a finger inserted through the anal canal. However, it's important to remember that the lining of the rectum is thinner and more easily damaged than the lining of the vagina, so use a jelly-like soft vibrator. His prostate gland is to be found just inside the inner end of the anal canal, behind the wall of the rectum on the front of his body. It's easy to feel - it's shaped like a walnut and he'll enjoy the sensation of having it massaged. As you will know, being a woman, men love to insert their penises into warm wet holes, so an

obvious sex toy for a man is the artificial vagina: this mirrors the texture and perhaps the warmth of the vagina, and they are cheap and easy to buy, though how the two of you might use one during sex is best left to the imagination! Perhaps men like to use them for masturbatory play, where they can let their fantasies run wild.....though you might want to try masturbating your man with the artificial vagina while he enjoys the sensations. Once again, if you use plenty of lube, either natural or artificial, the sensations will be much more pleasurable. For those who want to explore the world of BDSM (bondage-dominance-sado-masochism) there are many exciting toys to play with. I tend to shy away from those pleasures, being more of the vanilla tendency for sex (!), but I do recommend the Venus 2000 masturbation machine for men, since it can provide massive eroticism for a woman while a man uses it to get off - it's such a powerful tool he can be brought almost to his knees by the power of it when he comes! The Venus 2000 Masturbation Machine For Men! And something else which feeds all men's pleasure - the idea of having a bigger cock - can be at least imagined by using an erection ring, or as they are also known, a cock ring: they make the penis look bigger or harder by closing off the veins at the base of the penis and stopping the outflow of blood. The safest and most attractive penis rings are made from leather: they can provide a thrill from their tightness, appearance, the sensations of wearing one, and the scent of the leather. And they also hint at bondage, while being perfectly safe and easy to remove. More advanced sex toys include ball separators, heavy weights which can be hung from a man's balls to stretch the scrotum, and harnesses which give the appearance of a bigger and more prominent erection erection.

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1 Stimulate her G spot - and her "A spot"! You know about her G spot, I'm sure. It's that sensitive area of tissue that lies just inside her vagina on the upper wall as she lies on her back, about two inches inside. You can feel it with a fingertip as either a raised, ridgy area or, if she's sexually aroused, a smooth, bump measuring about an inch or less from side to side. This change in texture is a good sign of how aroused she is - the more smooth, the more aroused. If you're giving her G spot some attention with a finger, and it's ridged and rough, move back to her clitoris and give that some more attention: this will get her more aroused, and you can then go back to her G spot. This way you'll probably release her wild feminine energy in a most dramatic fashion.

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There's another area of the vagina which is very sensitive to stimulation; it's called the A zone, short for "anterior fornix zone". It's actually basically the whole of the upper wall of her vagina, though there will be certain spots on it which are more sensitive than others. The best way to stimulate it is to sweep your fingertips across it in an arc, rubbing, pressing, caressing the soft flesh - just do whatever seems to excite her the most! You may need extra lube to make this more comfortable for her. In general, inserting one or two fingers into her vagina to massage the G spot or A spot is not a bad idea if she's fairly well aroused - if she doesn't respond, then perhaps withdraw, give her clit more attention and reinsert your fingers when she's further down the path of sexual arousal. If you combine this internal stimulation with your tongue on her clitoris and a finger on her anus, she's likely to respond with extreme excitement and a massive orgasm - which is always a good thing for you, as she's then likely to want you to make love to her. If she's really turned on, she might want it had and fast. 2 Be a good lover, and romance her from time to time Women love romance - it makes them feel special, and it makes them feel wanted. Your partner wants to know that you cherish her, respect her and want her to the exclusion of all other women. This is what turns her on and makes her desire rampant sex with you: she wants sex when she feels loved by you. Now, doesn't that make it worth your while putting a bit of effort into romancing her? You can do this in many ways - leave a card for her to find after you've left the house, saying how much you love her (and how much you appreciate her lovemaking). Call her from your workplace and tell her you really fancy her and think she's incredibly attractive; send her flowers unexpectedly; cook her a meal; seduce her with soft lights and sweet music; turn your bedroom into a lovers' den with flowers, candles, aromatic oils and satin sheets. Buy her gifts that show you care - they don't have to be expensive.....just something significant. A single rose can be just as impressive as a weekend away (well, perhaps not quite, but maybe you know what I mean: for a woman, it really is the thought that counts, because what she wants to know is that you are thinking about her and caring for her well-being.)

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Part of being a good lover, of course is being able to last long enough in bed that your partner is fully satisfied - by which we mean she has been able to have an orgasm through intercourse before you ejaculate, provided she is able to have an orgasm that way. There are alternatives, if you really find that you can't last long enough in bed for her to come as part of vaginal intercourse: for example, you can bring her to orgasm through oral sex or masturbation before you enter her and enjoy intercourse. But it is the mark of a skilled and - from a woman's point of view - a desirable lover that he can control his ejaculation and last for as long as he wishes in bed. If you'd like to know more about this, check out how to control your premature ejaculation and last longer during sex. 3 In sex, women come first! There's no better motto than this: women come first. In other words, give her an orgasm before you have yours. Do it by oral sex, masturbation, using a sex toy, or whatever. But give her pleasure before you fuck her and come yourself (unless she specifically tells you she just wants you to put your cock inside her - women don't always want to come, sometimes they just want the connection). Why? Because, despite what you may read, very few women ever come through vaginal sex - and in some ways it may not even be that important to a woman. Many women appreciate sex because it feels nice, or because their partner gets pleasure from it. They often just have orgasms through clitoral stimulation and.....an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. What? Well, We know you, as a man, like to come inside your partner. Most of the time, that will be much better than an orgasm you get through masturbation. But for her, it may be different - she may just want to come, and then for you to fuck her. It's certainly not a bad arrangement if, like most women, she isn't ever going to come through intercourse. 4 Find out what turns her on There will be plenty of places that your partner will like you to touch her, and she'll really appreciate it if you take the time and trouble to find out where they are. This might mean that you have to spend some time gently caressing her behind the elbows, around her knees, on her scalp, between her toes, along her back, and so on, but the shivers of pleasure when you find her erogenous zones will show you the areas to focus on and the places that will arouse her when you touch them. Then of course there's also the things you can say to her in bed that will excite her (which might range from "Fuck me, bitch!" to "I love you darling" - mind you, you'd better get those the right way round!), the sexual fantasies you can share which will turn her on, the way you can look at her and make her melt with desire, the acts of love which surprise her and make her feel wanted, the sex positions she finds most exciting, the romantic candlelight dinners that make her want to have you inside her......and so on, and on, and on....it's a lifetime's work, being in love). 5 Take it slowly and let her excitement mount You, being a sensitive kind of a guy, know that it takes a woman a lot longer to get aroused than it does a man: in fact, it can take ten or twenty times longer. So what do you do to fill up this time? You kiss, you caress, you stroke her skin, you look into her eyes, you murmur sweet nothings.....oh dear, only five minutes gone by......OK, what next? Well, how about a sensual massage (see below), a bit of oral sex, running a vibrator over her erogenous zones (see above), teasing her clitoris with fleeting glances of a moist fingertip, telling her what you'd like to do to her, describing her clitoris and vulva (only if you think they're beautiful!), telling her how gorgeous she is, undressing her slowly, kissing romantically, kissing passionately, tickling her, stroking her, even scratching her gently with your fingernails, teasing her vulva or clitoris with your erect penis, giving her more oral sex, then going back to finger play, massaging her body.....In short, use your imagination, and she should get turned on quickly. Of course, the fact that she wanted sex in the first place means something - she must already have been forward to it, so all you now have to do is find the right combination of stimulation to really get her going. On the subject of arousal....you probably know that her vaginal lubrication is the equivalent of your erection. But the fact that she's wet doesn't mean she's ready for sex. Indeed, in research, it's been shown that even when women are very wet they may still not feel aroused mentally. In short, a woman has to be ready both physically and mentally for sex: it's no use assuming that as soon as her vagina is juicy, you can just stick your penis in and she'll be happy. Far from it - she will show (or tell) you when she wants you in there, and, no matter how wet she is, you'd do well to wait until there's no doubt she wants to be penetrated. It's a trust thing - a woman has to feel ready to accept you in her body, and that may be some time after she's physically ready for sex. When you understand that, you're a long way down the road to being a considerate and desirable lover. 6 Give her oral sex while you finger her At some point in foreplay, you may want to get her to orgasm. A great way forward is to gently insert one or two fingers and play with her G spot (palm upwards if she's lying on her back, stimulating the upper side of her vagina with the tips of your fingers, a couple of inches in). While you do this, you can gently lick her clitoris (or around it if it's too sensitive to take a direct hit); this is likely to be a powerful way of arousing her. Another good way to get her going is to use the upper side of your crooked finger to stimulate her vulva and vaginal entry, especially the area around the edge of her cunt opening and her urethral opening. You can rub your finger joint up and down this area, almost but not quite touching her clit as you get to the top of the stoker. It helps if you use two fingers of your other hand to hold back her clitoral hood so the clitoral glans get indirectly stimulated as you sweep your finger up and down her vulva. Leave one finger extended on the same hand so you can gently stimulate her anus. You'll need plenty of lube, but combined with a tongue-tip on her clitoris, this may well send her into orbit. 7 Learn how to give her a sensual massage This is the kind of massage which ends in a sexual touch, but works up to it very gradually. You can start with long sweeping strokes over her body, and gradually work towards her sexual areas as you progress. There are plenty of places on the internet to find out about this: Google "Sensual massage".

8 Make it clear that you desire her Nothing turns a woman on more than the fact that she is loved and desired by her man. Yet "love" is such a powerful word that it's wrong to use it unless you actually feel it. The words "I love you" have the power to melt a woman's heart and open her body to you. So be careful how you use them! Having said that, if you truly love your partner, why not tell her? If you desire her, and tell her so, you make her feel appreciated and womanly, which will turn her on. You can also say something like: "You are so attractive, you turn me on so much...." The art of this kind of communication is not to make her think you want her only for sex (unless this happens to be the case), but to convey how much you appreciate her and her feminine sexuality, to tell her how much you appreciate the joy and pleasure that her body and mind can give you. 9 Get her aroused before penetration with enough foreplay We know that most women will reach orgasm if they have enough foreplay during sex (which, by the way, often means about twenty minutes). However you do this, it's important to make sure that she has enough excitement, enough foreplay, and is aroused enough to fully enjoy sex. This may mean caressing her, stroking her, kissing, cuddling, massaging, and giving her cunnilingus, but however you go about it, the object of the exercise is to make sure that her arousal matches yours before you enter her, so that sex for her is just as enjoyable as it is for you. As to the matter of her orgasm, she is unlikely to reach orgasm during intercourse unless you happen to find a position where your thrusts pull indirectly on her clitoris during intercourse. This means that the best idea is probably to give her oral sex or masturbate her to orgasm before you enter her. That way she will be relaxed, satisfied, and ready for you to enjoy intercourse without the pressure of her orgasm (or lack of it) looming over you! 10 Touch her belly and inner thighs These are very erotic areas for most women, so your partner will certainly appreciate you touching them. Move your hand gently in a circular motion, palm downwards, fingertips in contact with her belly, preferably moving your hand in a clockwise direction. Another exciting movement is to move your fingertips (or perhaps your fingernails, for a different kind of stimulation) up her inner thighs from her knees to her vulva, doing this slowly and teasingly, so that she is constantly anticipating the touch on her vulva that you deny her at the last moment.... Such gently stimulation will tease her, and brushing her genitals gently will enhance her desire to be touched more firmly. If you can discover the other areas of her body that turn her on in this way, she will easily become aroused: but do remember that arousal is much less formulaic with women than men, so what works one day may have absolutely no effect on her the next! 11 Find out how she likes her clitoris to be touched Men and women's requirements are very different during sex; the penis needs a firm touch, the clitoris a subtle one, at least to start with, though as sex progresses a woman may appreciate a firmer touch. One thing's for sure, though - you should never apply the same degree of pressure to the clit which you use on your penis, for to do so will feel most unpleasant to her. be as sensitive as you can, watching her responses and asking her for feedback, modifying your touch as she becomes more aroused. 12 Her sex drive is less constant than yours - adapt your sex life to suit Well, you know how much your sex drive fluctuates from day to day - probably not very much (though it may do as as you get older). However, your female partner's sex drive is likely to be much more variable, up one minute and down the next, in accordance with the variation in her sexual cycle. Her most sexy days are generally before and after her menstrual period. When she doesn't want sex, ask her to masturbate you or give you oral sex, or at the worst, do it yourself. being able to accept this gracefully is one mark of an emoitonally mature man. 13 Know her intimately One thing above all else that makes a woman exciting in bed is her complete commitment to a man. This tends to happen when she trusts him enough to completely let go and give herself, body and soul, to him. Only when she is prepared to trust and connect enough with you to do this will sex achieve its greatest potential. So your role in this is to be consistent, faithful and committed. Also, being a strong man (that is to say, having inner strength, a male power that goes beyond the "macho") is a powerfully attractive quality for most women. 14 Make love with your mind and your body! While women often find men's penises amusing, intriguing or exciting (or all three!), it certainly won't have the same importance to 99% of the female population that it has to you. So while you might want to show it off, have her play with it, and bring it out on every possible occasion, she may find this male tendency, shall we say, a little baffling! One way you can make the whole act of romance and love more exciting and engaging for her is to move your focus from the physical to the emotional: make love with your mind, as well as your body. Tell her you love her (if you do!); leave notes and cards for her to find when you're not there; light candles in the bedroom; stare deeply into her eyes as you come inside her (and don't forget to say her name as you do so!); and so on....there are a million ways to be romantic, and all of them will help her love you well, both inside and outside the bedroom. 15 Tease her as you make love Let's suppose you are giving her head. You get her aroused, then you back off for a few minutes and do something else. This will let her arousal drop a little, so when you start again, it has to build up once more. If you repeat this a few times during your lovemaking, she will have a much more powerful orgasm when she does eventually come. However, if she is ready to come, and you stop what you're doing, she won't thank you, so make sure you judge this right!

16 Consistent pace and rhythm is necessary for her to reach orgasm You probably like the speed of hand movements with which she masturbates you (or with which you masturbate yourself) to get faster as you near orgasm. This is not quite the same as it is for a woman: she will appreciate a much more consistent rhythm throughout sex, and only when she approaches orgasm will she want you to speed up the pace of your finger movements on her clitoris. Of course, if you're using your tongue on her clit, this can be quite challenging! You could try moving your entire head from side to side while you keep your tongue still..... 17 Don't forget to stimulate her vulva with your penis during sex Gently tapping her clitoris or vulva or even her vaginal opening with your erect penis during sex is likely to be very exciting for her. 18 Anal sex needs careful planning This is not everyone's cup of tea, for sure, but it can be exciting and erotic if you can get past the idea that the anus is filthy and only for one purpose. The best way to introduce it is to gently stimulate her anus during ordinary sex - perhaps when you are giving her cunnilingus, for example, with one finger inside her vagina and another on her anus. (Don't mix them up, for reasons of avoiding infection.) You can also make sure that she is as clean as possible by taking a shower together before sex and gently washing her anus, and running a finger around inside her anal canal. The same applies to you, of course, for if you have discovered the delights of masturbation with a finger in or on your anus, you'll already know how erotic anal stimulation can be, and how much it can add to the force of your orgasm. Well, the even better news is that if she has her finger inside you when you come, the pressure of her finger massaging your prostate gland from inside your rectum can be immense! Of course, latex gloves can always be used, and this avoids any issues of cleanliness. As for the full act of anal intercourse, well, only you know if you want to try it: I would say that it is a lot less common in reality (mostly due to women saying" no", I suspect) than it is in fantasy, and if you do want to try it, then, as I said above, you need to do some planning. Happily, there is a page on this very website devoted to the finer points of anal intercourse. 19 Know what you're doing when you masturbate her! As you should already know, a woman's clitoris is many times more sensitive than any penis ever was. This is because it has two times as many sensitive nerve endings in its glans, which - as you undoubtedly know - is much smaller than a man's. This means it isn't able to tolerate take much direct touching until its owner's fairly well aroused. Of course, you'll soon hear about it if you do touch her the wrong way, since the sensitivity is so great - so don't directly touch her clit in the early stages of your lovemaking. Instead, gently rub your fingers all over her labia, and up and down the sides of her clit, and in between times play just inside the opening of her vagina with your fingers. make sure that you use adequate lubrication, because this is essential if clitoral masturbation is to be a success. Saliva is very useful here, though it does dry up a bit, and you may need to replenish it fairly often. When you think she's ready, gently slip a finger or two inside her vagina. If she doesn't seem to like this, she may not be aroused enough, so pay her clitoris a bit more attention. Where cunnilingus is the order du jour, you may need to be reassuring about how she smells: a lot of women think their vulva is dirty, no matter how much you tell them it's delightful!) Of course, if it is a bit ripe, then why not have a bath or shower before sex, using nonallergenic, pH balanced washing products which won't irritate her sensitive parts in the same way as soap. Be tactful! Don't say anything about her body which will hurt her - she's got enough cultural baggage about female smells, fluids and bodily appearance to last her a lifetime, and if you add to it, you might not be getting good sex anytime soon (or any sex at all!) 20 Hints on how to give great cunnilingus First of all, don't make a beeline for her genitals. You know she doesn't like that - she needs to be aroused gently with attention to her non-sexual parts - her belly, neck, back, for example - before you get down to her thighs and then work towards her vulva bit by bit. When you get near her vulva, just let your fingers or your tongue or lips casually flick lightly over them, breathing gently onto them as you do so to let her have a taste of the delights to come. Kiss her thighs, and gradually work upwards towards her clitoris, slowly and surely lingering as you go so she can savor the experience.When she's aroused enough, she'll start to move her hipsin a gentle thrusting motion, a sure indication that she's ready for you to pay her some intimate contact. Now focus your attentions more directly on her clitoris, for example by licking around it, along her labia, up her vulva, and into the opening of her vagina. Keep your rhythm going, and offer her consistent stimulation - this is essential in moving her to orgasm. 21 Be adventurous! Fruity sex Why not try eating off your partner, for example, by putting slices of fruit in or on her body or genitals, or even in her vagina, so you can both enjoy the erotic sensations of eating it off her body or out of her vagina. Beach sex When you're on a secluded beach, try woman on top sex, using a sarong or towel to hide the fact that you are fucking. You can also do the same thing deep in the forest in a woodland glade, which has the advantage of being both erotic, exciting and romantic. Take a sensuous bath Few women can resist a bath with aromatherapy oils, candles and soft lights. While she lies in the warm bath, massage her feet gently to delight her and relax her. She'll love you for this attention,

and it will make her much more responsive to sexual pleasure later. Two nipples are sexier than one! If you're playing with her breasts or teasing her nipples, keep in mind that her pleasure will be much greater if you tantalise them both at once: for example, try stimulating one with your tongue and one with your (well-wetted with saliva) fingers. 22 Practice great foreplay Successful sex for women usually requires a prolonged build up. She's likely to need ten times more foreplay than you need to get to the same level of arousal - on average, perhaps twenty minutes or more of gentle, not-so-sexual-at-first-but-getting-hotter-later touch to her body. Some people would even say that a woman's need for foreplay was so great that the more you signal your love outside the bedroom, with little touches, with the odd unexpected kiss, the better your sex life will be.....in other words, consider the idea that foreplay starts well before you're even thinking of having sex, that the seeds of successful sex lie in everything you do during the day to show her you love her (or at least, to show her you respect her). Of course men tend to get bored with foreplay pretty quickly - we want penetration and ejaculation more than anything else, and when we're felling lusty, that does tend to be our main objective. So, as a man, how do you give your partner the stimulation she needs without it becoming boring as hell for you? First of all, you can put your whole attention onto the matter in hand, whether that is kissing, caressing, stroking, oral sex or whatever. Think what it means, how it feels, to be fully present, to be fully occupied in the pleasure of giving sexual stimulation to your partner: then, when you're placing your whole attention into your fingers, toes, mouth or whatever part of your body you're using to stroke, kiss, fondle or caress your partner, you'll be a lot more focused on what's going on, which also means you'll be much more interested in it, which means you'll be much more sensitive to your partner's needs, and much more responsive to her shifts in arousal, and best of all, you'll be a lot less bored about doing it. But remember that boredom isn't only about what you're feeling: sex is about two people (unless you're masturbating solo!), and you need to think about ringing the changes as you pleasure her......she needs variation in the way you approach her body because a continual, unchanging stimulus may not be arousing enough. She may want (and need) variation and variety in the way you touch her, the way you stimulate her, and the way you arouse her sexual interest. So, instead of just caressing her using the soft ends of your fingers, use a variety of touches: try scratching, try running your nails down her back, gently or firmly as the mood takes you; use different types of pressure - firm or soft - as you move your fingers over her skin; try using circular movements of your fingers alternately with long strokes; when you kiss her lips, tease her with varying movements of your tongue, perhaps sucking or biting her lips with your teeth. And, above all, be subtle! For example, it's a no-no to French kiss her as soon as you start making out: the golden rule is always to wait until she seems more responsive to what you're doing before you explore further, more sexily, or more firmly. Her arousal needs to shift before she's ready for sex, just as yours does: but hers arousal moves more slowly, and you need to pace yourself. A woman discovers her desire to be sexually aroused by being physically aroused: a paradox, yes, but what it means in practice is that you start by touching her non-sexual areas, and only when she has awakened to her desire to be touched sexually do you move onto her more intimate areas breasts, thighs, vulva, clitoris. Always leave her clitoris to last - a touch when she's not particularly aroused may feel rough, even painful, certainly it can seem irritating. And be firm and clear: don't shilly-shally. A woman likes a man who knows what he's doing and who can be assertive, sensitive and clear at the same time. The key thing is this: do not touch her vagina or clitoris until her sexual arousal is such that it will be pleasurable. You may find an indirect approach is helpful: for example, by gently pressing the palm of your hand onto her vulva, you may be able to get some sense of how aroused she is - if she reacts with a pressure up onto your hand, a gentle lifting of her hips, then she may be ready for you to insert a finger into her vagina. Certainly she will appreciate your care if you are slow and sensitive. And something she will very probably find extremely exciting is stimulation to her whole labia and vulval area: wet her labia and vulva with your saliva (or a lube) and then move your fingers all over her vulva, gently teasing her with sensuous movements along the whole length of her labia and on the area around her clitoris, without staying too long on any single spot, constantly varying the pressure and movements of your fingers and hands so that she is sensuously stimulated. You can move onto her clitoris when she begins to express signs of greater arousal - moving her hips, moaning with pleasure, asking for harder and firmer stimulation - and in any case, you'll sense this, because you're fully focused on what you're doing, right? Another excellent way to increase a woman's level of arousal is to massage her body, using slow strokes with a high quality oil, with attention paid particularly to her back, thighs and belly. Tease her by stroking very slowly up her thighs without touching her vulva, then move your fingers away at the last minute just before your touch becomes sexual; this will tease her and excite her and increase her desire for sexual touch. When you reach her buttocks, once again exciting her with gentle strokes of your fingers around her genitals and anus, you may find that she is so aroused that she asks for penetration: she may raise her hips and thrust her vulva towards you. But don't let yourself shorten the experience by moving towards penetration at this stage (even if she wants you to put your cock in her......wait!) Instead, put your finger inside her and massage her G spot. The G spot is an area of tissue about one or two inches deep in her vagina, along the top surface (as you feel it when she lies on her back). You'll find that this tissue gradually changes in texture as she becomes more aroused: more swollen and engorged with blood (just like your penis), and simultaneously less ridged and smoother. As you move your fingers all over the surface, you'll find an area where she is exquisitely sensitive, and and where her sexual arousal increases markedly. Experiment by moving your finger in different ways across the whole of the inside of her vagina to see what excites her the most - it may be a sweeping movement on the upper surface of her cunt,

or a finger fucking movement in which you move your finger in and out to mimic the thrusting actions of a penis during intercourse. Sometimes I've found that a very good way of getting her excited is simply to apply an on-off fingertip pressure to the very front edge of her G spot. She'll appreciate this G-spot massage only when she's ready to do so: if it feels rough ad ridgy, she's not aroused enough, and you need to go back outside her cunt and play with her labia or her clitoris to get her more aroused. If you focus on the G spot too soon, she may not like it, but when she is ready, a g spot massage can be extremely exciting, accompanied by exquisite sensations which provide her with profound sexual pleasure. To add fuel to her sexual fire, you may wish to try gently licking or caressing her clitoris at the same time as you massage her G spot. It's worth remembering that since her G spot is such an important sexual nerve point, when you play with it you may get all kinds of repressed emotions being released and she may well laugh, cry, shout, get angry, or express some other emotion or behavior that seems completely irrelevant to where you are or what you're doing. Although this can be hard to take, try and keep calm and relaxed - it really isn't personal, it's about all the sexual baggage she has stored in her vagina as what has come to be called a body memory. (Think of this as the unexpressed emotional consequences of a sexual event. Major abuses like rape or sexual abuse can obviously leave a major emotional legacy, but so can apparently insignificant events such as simply having sex when a woman didn't really want to do so.) The interesting thing about playing with her G spot is that you just don't know what's going to happen. So you may want a quiet life. Why would you take the risk of such an unexpected and difficult-todeal-with response to sexual play? Well, first of all, whether or not you find it difficult to deal with depends on how you respond. The best response is to keep in mind that whatever she says or does really is not personal, and that if you listen to the flow without absorbing it, the storm passes as quickly as it came. Secondly, G spot play is a fast route to maximum sexual pleasure in the form of a G spot orgasm. Such orgasm are much more whole body centered than the focused clitoral orgasm, and can be much more emotionally fulfilling. They can also lead to a phenomenon known as female ejaculation, which is both incredibly exciting for the man and leads to orgasmic contractions of powerful intensity which can be very satisfying for a woman. The other benefit is this: if you make love to or fuck a woman after a G spot orgasm her vagina will be wet and swollen, a real haven of delight for your penis to penetrate. (By the way, I use the term fuck without prejudice to mean simply the act of penetration and thrusting; it's useful because it removes expectations that are often applied to G spot orgasms of spiritual sex and deep meaningful relationships. These are not in fact a prerequisite of a G spot orgasm, though trust probably is.) After a G spot orgasm, a woman's vagina is as warm, swollen and wet as it gets, and she will most likely be very ready to feel you inside her. If she comes again during intercourse, as you thrust, she may well have intense vaginal contractions around your penis that make you ejaculate. This is a simultaneous orgasm and it can be deeply satisfying for both partners.

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1 Thinking he should be ready for sex whenever you want it Just because men are supposed to have a high sex drive doesn't mean that they want sex all the time! If you decide you want sex, and he isn't in the mood, don't feel offended and think that he's doing it deliberately - he's probably heard the same thing from you many more times! Instead, use your feminine charms to seduce him. Let's face it, women will always know how to get a man interested......and if he really isn't, the answer is in your hands. You know where your clit is, so use it. 2 Believing that kissing has to be sweet and romantic Sometimes the force of his passion will seem overwhelming to you. Suppose you'd like to have a gentle romantic session of kissing? Then, when you start, he begins to get passionate and starts to kiss you, shall we say, rather energetically. What to do? Maybe in these circumstances you should just surrender to passion and leave the romance for later? 3 Thinking men are responsible for giving you an orgasm Hey honey, it's YOUR orgasm, not his. He can't give it to you, he can only help you get there. And

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that's true even though he might think it's his job. So don't sit back and do nothing - tell him what you want, and if he isn't doing it properly, how you'd like it to be done. And above all, give him feedback. he's not a mind-reader. 4 Wondering why he has to go to sleep after sex It's just natural. Sometimes he might want to cuddle you; sometimes he won't. While your orgasm makes you want to talk, bond and exchange sweet nothings, he wants to sleep. You just have to accept it isn't personal. Never trying any new sex positions For men, variety is the spice of life, at least as far as sex is concerned, and you need to know how much he'll appreciate trying some new sex positions from time to time. And you might just find it exciting as well, when you present your butt to him for a quick fuck from behind! If you want slow loving sex, try the side by side positions, and if you want some more excitement, try riding him in the woman on top positions. You don't just have to be a good girl in the missionary position all the time! 5 Hoping he'll fall asleep with you in his arms Yes, it's a lovely idea, but actually it's not going to happen every time you have sex. And it can be very uncomfortable. Why not settle for a cuddle, back to front, spooning, after sex, so you can both go to sleep in comfort? 6 Expecting him to be romantic and charming all the time Remember, neither man nor woman can live by romance alone - no matter what passes for it in your household. Sometimes a man's just gotta be a man. And while that doesn't mean he should never be romantic, it just isn't in a man's nature to be romantic all the time, much as you might like it. Think of it this way - it's a bit like him expecting you to behave like a female porn star all the time. 7 Thinking sex is just about your pleasure I guess a lot of women think men are selfish in bed, but then they don't think how they might please a man...do you suck his cock? Ask him if he'd like to try a little role play? Find out what he likes to have done to him? If not, stop reading the sensational crap in women's magazines, and start asking your partner what he wants, and consider what sex can offer both of you within your relationship! 8 Reading the sex articles in magazines and thinking the advice they give is any good Believe me, you're never going to learn anything useful from magazine articles entitled "Ways to drive a man wild in bed". Websites like this one, though, well, that's a different matter altogether. Seriously, the best way to enjoy sex is to be aroused. The best way to be aroused is to be emotionally connected and intimate with your partner. It really is that simple. 9 Moaning about when he pushes your head towards his penis for oral sex Well, true, he could just ask you for it, but then on the other hand maybe he's sent you enough signals to tell you what he wants and you just ignored them? Men like oral sex, they like it a lot, and they want you to give it to them. You don't, by the way, have to swallow, but couldn't you at least try, for the sake of his pleasure? 10 Lying there like a log while he fucks you Unless you've agreed he can have a quick fuck, without complications, lying there without moving isn't going to send him a positive message. Mind you, even if you did agree he could have a quick fuck it still isn't sending a good message. All you have to do is move about a bit. Meet his energy, even when he's on top. Thrust yourself, for heaven's sake - introduce a bit of your own sexual energy into intercourse. That way it will be better for both of you. 11 Expecting him to undress himself nicely each time A lot of things done by men don't suit women. But let me tell you a secret. If you try and change him, you'll fail. If you moan at him too much, he might get so pissed off he leaves. That's what men do. What women don't generally understand is how to get a man to do what they want. So here it is: you ask, directly and clearly. You don't drop hints or make indirect suggestions - men won't pick up on them. So if you'd like him to take his clothes off before he gets into bed, or you'd prefer him not to leave his socks on when he mounts you, you need to tell him: "It pisses me off when you make love to me with your socks on. I want you to take them off." If he asks why, you just say: "Because that's what I want, OK? Will you do it?" Now, the other side of this coin is that at times he will be so desperate for sex with you that taking his clothes off nicely is the last thing he wants to do. However you approach the subject at times like this, he may well react rather badly.....so judge it right, and if your lovemaking isn't the culmination of a romantic evening for two, where you want to be treated gracefully, let him indulge himself once in a while by having sex with his socks (or whatever) on. 12 Not shaving - at least occasionally It could be he's one of the guys who gets off on websites like hairiest-horniest-pussies.com But then again, he might like you to look a little bit feminine, with your legs shaved and your armpits waxed. I'm not saying you need to do this, and you certainly don't need to shave your pussy if you don't want, but surely it's nice to destubble for him once in a while rather than just doing it when

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you go the spa, isn't it? Besides which, if you don't shave, why should he? 13 Letting your bush get too big Unless he's a fan of hairiest-horniest-pussies.com ...oh, no, we already did that joke. OK, trim that hair, even if you don't want to shave. For one thing, it'll make oral sex much more peasant for you both - he won't have to keep stopping to remove pubes from his teeth, and it'll be smoother for you. On the other hand, if he intimates that he'd like your bush to look like the Amazon jungle, and you don't mind a bit of fluff, well, it could be a match made in a heavenly jungle paradise. 14 Assuming that sex means a relationship Uh-ho. Did you make it clear to him before you started out that this was the beginning of a life-long relationship? As others have said, he might think the only relationship you have is that he's stuck his cock in your pussy and you both had a bit of fun doing it. That might be it, unless you agreed otherwise beforehand! 15 Not having sex when you're on your period If you don't want to have sex when you're bleeding - though you might even find it erotic - then give him oral sex. If you don't even feel like that, give him a helping hand. If the problem's more about the mess than anything else, then use a condom for sex, and let him enjoy sex with you using a rubber. 16 Expecting him to know what you like if you lie there silently (or just grunt at him) No matter how passionate the sex, there's always room for words. Even if they come out one at a time: "Harder, faster, lighter, left, right." He's not a mind reader, and he needs the feedback, OK? 17 Leaving contraception to him The clued-up girl knows that condoms are a joint responsibly. If one of you is overcome with passion, and you're ready to have sex without protection in the heat of the moment, it's the other's duty to remind you about AIDS and so on...that might be you, it might be him, but your joint responsibility is to protect yourself and your partner. It takes two to tango, remember? Keeping a box of condoms by your bed doesn't mean anything - except maybe that you're a sensible, mature woman with an active sex life. Good for you. 18 Getting upset if he talks dirty Unless he's being offensive, he probably just says these things to get an extra thrill. Let's face it, men like to think of a "good girl" turning dirty on them in the bedroom, and there's an air of the forbidden about having sex with a "dirty slut"(whatever that means for him). You never know, it might get you going too! (But it's not OK if he talks to you like that all the time, too much of the time, or more than you like.) 19 Refusing to be spontaneous Yes, sex exists all over, in the woods, the fields, in cars, the stairwells of public buildings, in the changing rooms at the local pool....just be wise enough to know when the risk isn't acceptable, but puts you in danger of a court appearance. Sex positions are important in more ways than one! 20 Asking him "How it was for you, dear?" Let's face it. From a man's point of view, there are only two sorts of sex: good sex and even better sex. So you don't need to ask if he enjoyed it, because you can assume that he did. Especially if he ejaculated inside you - that makes it very good for him. You might want love and emotion, but for him, the physical pleasure of sex can be reward in itself. So don't ask if he enjoyed it - it makes you look needy. If he doesn't tell you how good it was, how lovely you are, and how good he felt, dump him and get a lover who lets you know that he appreciates you. 20 Avoiding quickies because you want slow, sensual sex Sex is a many splendored thing. Sometimes it takes a while, and the energy is slow and sensuous - sometimes it's quick and powerful. If you just want someone so badly that you can't wait, then why not do it now, fast, furious, half dressed on the floor? 21 Being too shy to tell him what he can and can't do before sex starts Make it all clear - for example, if he asks you if he can come in your mouth, and you giggle like a girlie, and say no like it's a joke, don't act surprised when you end up with a mouthful of goo. You have a responsibility to make the ground rules clear before you get into bed. 22 Expecting him to undress you as you'd undress yourself Men know about flies and buttons. They may not know about bras and the need not to stretch your special lace panties as they pull them off over your butt. If he shows signs of wanting to undress you, let him; if he fumbles the fastenings, help him out. 23 Taking your clothes off in the dark If you're a bit on the shy side, turn down the lights, but give him something to see. That's what turns him on, that's what he likes - to see your naked or semi-naked body. That's what gets him excited, possibly erect, and certainly ready for sex. And don't think that ripping your clothes off and diving under the duvet will leave him happy!

24 Refusing to get on top There's no reason why men should have to do all the thrusting, and in any case, sex with the woman on top is just as good as man on top sex. Start by taking a look at the pictures of sex positions on this site and then try something new, for goodness' sake. 25 Getting that bored look on your face So you might be a bit bored - then why aren't you telling him how he can make sex better for you? And because he likes to look at you, why not give him something titillating to look at? For example, climb on top and arch your back a little bit. Thrust your breasts towards him. Suck his cock, with you on top and him lying on his back, with your butt in his face, and let him enjoy the sight, scent, and maybe the taste, of your rear end. If that's too much for you, move about a bit, at least! In fact, do something to show him that you're not dead and that you might just be enjoying yourself! 26 Expecting him to make you come when you're riding him It's your body, you know (presumably) what turns it on. If you aren't getting enough stimulation, go into what you're feeling, let your wild woman loose, play with your tits, finger your clit, make a bit of noise and do something - anything - to make his job easier. 27 Being too afraid to show your partner how to touch you If he's not getting it right, and you're not feeling stimulated, excited or thrilled by his touch, then take his hand and move it the way you'd like him to do it. If he's got any sensitivity at all, he'll soon catch on. 28 Changing your mind about sex after you get into bed You are setting yourself up for trouble if you get naked in bed with a guy, start getting him turned on, and then decide you just want to cuddle. It's your choice not to do anything, and he needs to respect that, of course, but don't be surprised if that's the last you see of him and you get a reputation as a cock-tease. What the fuck did you think would happen when you got naked with him in a bed? 29 Refusing to let him take control So you call yourself a feminist, heh? So what? If he takes control during sex, it doesn't mean he's subscribing to the patriarchy. It means he's taking charge during sex. Your turn next time, maybe? 30 Refusing to take control You gotta know this, girl: it's not the man's job to start sex every time. Why don't you try leading him to the bedroom, pushing him onto the bed, and getting on top of him with your hand on his cock? He might just get the message! 31 Overlooking his body Even if he doesn't know it yet, he has a body too, and it likes to be touched in all the same places as yours - thighs, back, legs, knees, toes, head, scalp, stomach and so on - and it likes to be kissed in these places as well. Give it a go, and don't just focus on his cock and balls. 32 Overlooking his balls Seriously, his balls are not there just to make splooge for him to shoot onto or into you (much as he might like that). They have a life of their own, and they like to be taken notice of. Kiss them, suck them, take them into your mouth and play with them with your tongue. Apart from the fact that this is damn sexy for both of you, he'll appreciate the attention paid to them, and he won't come as fast as he would if you were playing with his cock. 33 Leaving him to his own devices Nothing is more confusing than having a girl who gets a guy most of the way but then decides that's enough and bolts because she doesn't want to deal with the mess. You started it - you go through with it! 34 Complaining about being a sex object when he tries to titty-fuck you To put it bluntly, push them together, add some spit for lube and and enjoy yourself. You get a great view! Just enjoy and stop being such a tight-assed bitch about the things he likes to do. That's what sex is all about: give and take. 35 You want him to handle you like you're fragile porcelain? Well, unless he really thrusts hard you won't break. Just accept this fact: sex can be rough and sex can be gentle, and sometimes lust takes over, That can be true for you too, if you let it, so if he wants sex with you standing against the wall, or he wants to thrust hard while you bounce up and down on the bed, why not enjoy it, and laugh about it later instead of moaning that sex should be all gentle and romantic? 36 Refusing to try things in the name of "making love" You're naked, and you're having sex, which means you want to be trying out some new and exciting ideas. That goes along with the strange faces you pull and the funny noises you make sex isn't all romance and lovey-dovey lovemaking, you know.

37 Taking things much too seriously Sex can be funny if you let it, you know! In fact, it can be hilarious, and if you fall off the bed, come on the dog, lose your false teeth or get your tights stuck up your crack, it doesn't matter - what matters is that you laugh about tit 38 Throwing a fit when he asks for a threesome It's a male thing - a fantasy that almost every man has, but do you really want to turn it into reality? OK, if he asks, let him know how you feel. One request is OK: going on about it less so. 39 Sucking his cock when he's least expecting it This is a bit like him just assuming he's going to have sex without asking and grabbing your tits. You need a certain amount of consent in these things. The problem is, if he doesn't want you to suck his cock he most likely won't tell you in case you never suck it again. So be sensitive. You don't want him standing there feeling like a spare prick at a wedding while you suck his cock, thinking he's enjoying it. 40 Nails It's one thing gently teasing his back with them - it's quite another digging them in and screaming as you come. Know the difference! 41 Bitching when you get semen on your body, sheets, towels, whatever Well, it happens - in fact, it might even be the whole point of sex, so stop moaning about it. Just prevent it, if it bothers you, by telling him where you don't want him to come: that might be on some part of you, your furnishings, your dog....whatever. 42 Not making any noises at all He'll not be very encouraged to go on at oral sex if you don't give him a clue that you're still alive and enjoying it. If it's the full monte (i.e. fucking) you're doing, then moan, mutter his name, scream or shout - anything - in a way that suggests he's giving you a good time, even if he isn't. You can always help by moving around a bit and frigging your clit so it gets more exciting for you both. 43 Faking orgasms This is a seriously bad idea. If he thinks you really are coming, then whatever he's doing right now that isn't getting you off, is reinforced. How then do you ever admit that you were lying? Simply tell the truth and find another way to get off or get some tuition on how to come during intercourse. 44 Not washing before sex While sex is supposed to be spontaneous, it's never as nice as it might be if one of you is a little well, ripe. Take the time to prepare - even if it's earlier in the day - if you plan to have sex. While a twelve hour unwashed body might be perfectly acceptable, and a twenty four hour old body fine if you aren't planning on getting your faces into each other's genitals, it's only a matter of consideration for your partner to be clean when you get intimate. 45 Trying new and threatening stuff without checking first Whether that's tying her up with handcuffs or inserting a dildo up his bottom, you have a responsibility to check out with your partner first the riskier edges of sex. Consensual sex is great when you move into the territory of coercion, you touch issues of dominance and submission that are better talked before they are worked out in bed. 46 Refusing to use lube, creams, foods, other accessories Sure, this is similar to the point above, but there's less of an element of coercion if you get out a tube of lube and suggest you try it during sex. The same goes for tubs of whipped cream, body oil, and strawberries on her nipples. 47 Doing all of your before bed things before sex You don't want to sleep with makeup on, for sure. But while your partner's waiting with a hard-on is not necessarily the time to start your end-of-day beauty routine. Use your sense so that the flow of sex is not interrupted, and you can enjoy intimacy without feeling pressurised about make-up, creams and lotions. 48 Cleaning up after sex I once met a woman who was incredibly upset that her husband ran to the bathroom immediately after sex, "to wash my juices off his cock," as she put it. The same is true in reverse. While you, as a woman, might feel you want to wipe off his spunk, think how much more relaxed and accepting it is to lie there for a while with all your sex juices adorning your body before you wash. If you do want to clean up after sex, how about keeping a nice warm washcloth handy, and wiping your self (and maybe his cock) gently before you settle down for a cuddle? And by the way, changing the sheets straight after sex and then washing everything that might have touched your naked bodies is not such a romantic thing either..... 49 Making a big deal out of it if he loses his hard on As a man, I just want you to know, this happens. It doesn't mean you're suddenly unattractive, he's

shagging Tricia from the office, your bum's too big, your tits too floppy, or anything else. It just means he lost his erection, OK? Don't try and console him by saying things like "it happens to all men" or "it doesn't matter." For one thing, he knows the first isn't true, and for another it does matter to him. Just do something different (get him to give you head) and put the main event off until another time or day. 50 Asking questions right after sex Now, you know how you hate it when he asks "Was it good for you?" Well, how about the womanly "What does this mean about us?" The simple answer is, it means you had sex, OK? Postpone any discussions about lifelong commitment, marriage and children until later.

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1 Going for her sexual areas (clitoris, vulva, breasts) without arousing her up first Women take longer to get aroused than men, and often find touch to their genitals or breasts without adequate foreplay to be simply irritating. If you dive straight onto her vulva, clitoris or breasts, because that's what you'd like her to do with your penis, you're probably going to find that while you might get a hand on her bits, you won't be invited back to play again. 2 Not knowing how to kiss sensitively There are times for passionate sex, and there are times for more romantic sex. But no matter what kind of sex you're having, most women really appreciate a good kisser - it's such a romantic and intimate act and, done well, it can communicate to a woman exactly how you feel about her. Most women think of kissing as one of the most romantic things there is, and they value a man who knows how to do it well. So learn how to kiss sensitively, put some feeling into your lips as you do it, and don't just resort to sticking your tongue in her mouth and wiggling it around. And the position you're using for sex has a bearing on this, as well: kissing just isn't possible in some of the more exotic sex positions - so, if it's romance you're looking for, man on top sex is as good as any. 3 Touching her breasts, clitoris and vulva too hard, too soon Women appreciate a gentle touch to the clitoris - it's a very sensitive organ, and you can't handle it in the way you want your penis to be touched and expect her to respond by getting aroused she's more likely to kick you out of bed! To some extent the same is true of her breasts and vulva it's best to work up to touching them by kissing and touching around them first. Women become aware of their desire to be touched sexually by being touched on their non-sexual areas first. So take it slowly, put feeling into what you're doing, and above all treat her clitoris with care. When she gets near to orgasm, a direct touch may well be more acceptable, and indeed may be needed to make her come, but "slowly, slowly" should be your motto when you're enjoying foreplay. Furthermore, when you've actually got to penetration, don't stop touching her. Even when you're having sex in one of the more impersonal positions - like rear entry, for example - you can run your hands appreciatively over her body. For maximum touching, try sex in the side by side position. 4 Forgetting she has a body beyond her genitals By which we mean, a body with a lot of skin which you can touch, caress, stroke, massage and kiss. Women feel sensuous during sex and enjoy skin to skin contact - so if you don't spend time touching her all over, in a variety of ways that please her, you'll miss out on one of the fastest ways to get her aroused. And focus on what you're doing - she'll know if you're thinking about the football game as you stroke her. Try the more loving sex positions like side by side to see how much you can both enjoy sensual touching during sex.

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5 Sucking on her breasts too hard, too soon Just like a woman's clitoris, her nipples are sensitive and need to be treated with respect at first. A lot of women will tell you that nipple play is very exciting - it sends a direct tingle of sexual excitement to their vagina and clitoris. But you have to time it right. Teasing her nipples with your lips and tongue, maybe even your teeth, might excite her, but if you do it too soon, it's more likely to make her shriek with pain rather delight. 6 Not taking the time to locate her erogenous zones The sensitive spots that make her shiver with delight might be behind her knees, in the crook of her elbows, across her belly or on her earlobes, but if you don't find them, she'll assume you're not really interested in her pleasure and probably mark you down as a second rate lover, selfishly concerned only with getting your cock into her vagina as soon as possible. Even if that last statement's true, you need to take the time to find out what turns her on, and where those deliciously sensitive bits of her body are to be found. That's the kind of thing that will make her see you as a considerate lover, and that will make her want to please you, which means you'll have a much better time in bed. This knowledge will come in especially handy if you're trying to go for a mutual orgasm while you make love: you can only get to her clitoris and breasts in certain positions. Once again, making love in the side by side position is probably a good way to ensure you can touch her erogenous zones - clitoris and breasts especially - while you make love. 7 Not paying attention to personal hygiene You may have noticed that men seem to regard dirt of any kind with less distaste than women. Regardless of why that is, or even whether it's right or wrong, just take note of the fact that if you turn up in bed with your armpits smelling of stale sweat, your foreskin harboring that special aroma, and your feet smelling like a slice of cheese, you're not going to get much further until you've taken a quick trip to the bathroom. 8 Not shaving before sex There's nothing as unpleasant as a shaving rash - particularly when it comes from someone else's stubble! Show her you care by shaving before sex, unless she's expressed a desire to feel this sign of your manliness. 9 Trying to get into her before she's ready or willing to be entered One of the great things about sex is that it can vary so much from one occasion to another. This does, however, give you a problem. Sometimes you and she will want to get down to penetration and orgasm as quickly as possible; mostly, though, she'll want things to work up to a climax more slowly. This means that no matter how eager you are to explore her vagina, you need to exercise some restraint. You need to skillfully judge the moment to enter her, whether with a finger or two, your penis, or indeed anything else, so that you don't go in before she's ready. By the way, that means before she's mentally and emotionally ready - she may well be wet enough long before she wants anything put inside her vagina. You can judge this with experience by her desire, expressed in verbal or non-verbal form, to be penetrated. One helpful sign (apart from her begging you to put it inside her!) is a gentle wave like motion of her hips, or a kind of thrusting motion as she raises her vulva towards you.. 10 Ejaculating two minutes after you enter her (or, worse, two seconds) Sure, it can be difficult to control your ejaculation, particularly if you're a young man. We all know that. But the fact is that sex naturally involves a longish period of thrusting before a woman is fully satisfied. If you're a quick ejaculator, you're likely to have a very unfulfilled woman on your hands. She wants a long period of vaginal thrusting - unless she's averse to penetration and intercourse and she wants you to be able to control yourself so you don't come before she's satisfied. Indeed, that's actually how sex should be for men: you should be able to choose when to ejaculate during intercourse. That's how sex is meant to be. If you're a "two pump chump", then you owe it both yourself and your partner to look at this website: Stop premature ejaculation NOW!

Click here to find out how you can last as long as you want in bed! 11 Not giving her cunnilingus or masturbation When you ask women to name their favorite sexual activity, many of them will say it's oral sex. Women love the wetness, the warmth of your tongue on their labia and clitoris, the intimacy and the symbolic act of love that it entails. And it feels fantastic! So if you're not making sure she gets enough "head", you might just be leaving her disgruntled about how sex is going.....and the same is true if you don't masturbate her from time to time. She'll love you doing all these things, and she'll return the favor in kind....

12 Stopping too soon, just as she's getting to the point where she's going to come Men have a very clear route to orgasm in sex: they get aroused, they thrust, they get more aroused, they thrust harder, they ejaculate. It's that simple. But it's not like that for women: they can lose their arousal at any stage of sex, and it can slip away without warning. This makes it harder for men to know just what to do to keep their partner firmly on the road to orgasm - and what makes this worse is that women often get lost in their own sexual arousal, so they forget to tell their partner what they want. Your partner's silence may be a sign of her sexual pleasure, but it's not unreasonable to expect her to let you know how you're doing - even if that's only through moans of pleasure. She can communicate with you with single words ("yes", "no", "lighter", "harder", "faster") no matter how aroused she is - and if she wants you to give her the maximum pleasure, then she needs to do this. What you need to do is keep going with your fingers, tongue, lips, vibrator or penis, and don't stop - especially if she's near her orgasm - keep going at all costs until she tips over into her orgasm! 13 Not respecting the precious moment of penetration Men don't always appreciate how much penetration means to a woman: it's the ultimate act of trust and love, and when a woman to give her body to a man she makes a great emotional investment and perhaps takes a significant risk, especially with a new partner. So this act of love requires sensitivity on the part of the man - and that can be demonstrated in many ways: by looking into her eyes as you push your cock into her vagina; by asking if you may enter her (this can be a romantic and loving aspect of sex, but you probably won't want to do it every time!); by taking her strongly with manly pride as her lover, when you know that's what she'll appreciate; by being sensitive to her needs at all times; and in many more ways as well, no doubt. The key thing is to penetrate her with respect and appreciate the honor she is paying you by taking your penis into her body. Penetrate her sensitively and mindfully every time you do it! 14 Undressing her clumsily Sure, it can be exciting to rip your clothes off as you rush to the bed, and it can be very exciting to fuck with your clothes on, your cock thrusting out of your pants, her underwear pulled to one side to expose her slit as you push into her from behind. But sex is not always so frenetic and urgent, and most of the time you'll want to take it more slowly and romantically. Even when your sex is energetic, you'll want to be graceful and elegant during foreplay: so undress her carefully, like you're unwrapping a Christmas present from someone you care about.......unless, of course, you just rip the paper off like an excited child! 15 Undressing yourself like a man desperate for sex Well, we all know that the prospect of pussy can make a man slightly less, shall we say, thoughtful than usual. No problem there. But don't forget how you might look to others as you hop around the bedroom in your socks and underwear, trying to pull off your jeans as they hang around your ankles. Hardly the mark of a graceful lover, or a promise of wonderful things to come, is it? (From her point of view, that is!) 16 Pushing at random in the general area of her vulva with your erect cock Nothing seems to be as much of a turn-off for a woman (apart possibly from an unwashed penis with a cheesy foreskin) as a man who can't enter her gracefully. It's not a problem if you occasionally have to ask her to guide you in! Indeed, if it's a straight choice between you blindly pushing your penis at her for five minutes before you finally find her vagina, or just asking her to lend a helping hand....well, think about it. Which would you choose if you were in her position? 17 Thrusting hard until you come without thought for her pleasure From a woman's point of view, there's nothing worse than a guy who gets so carried away with his own success (in getting into her in the first place) that he just thrusts away until he comes, without so much as a thought for what she might want. Certainly, there will be times when she is just happy to see you take your pleasure in her body, and come with a powerful and massive ejaculation, but most of the time she's going to want to be in on the act in a more active way! So start slowly, see how she reacts to your thrusts, and if she obviously wants more of it, then speed up and thrust harder - unless you're going to come too quickly, in which case you should learn how to control yourself. What she wants is a man in bed, not a two pump chump! You should be able to thrust for long enough to please your partner, at least some of the time, even if that means fifteen minutes' thrusting before you ejaculate (possibly with a few breaks for rest). If you can't go on for this long, or you can't thrust hard enough to give her the pleasure she wants without coming yourself, get some advice here: How To Increase Your Staying Power. 18 Asking her to shave her pussy if she doesn't like to Maybe she wants to shave it, maybe she doesn't. But even if you adore shaved pussy, going on about it in the face of her obvious objections is just immature and silly. Ask her nicely. If she says "no", then learn to love the fluff. Or ask her to trim it a bit so you can see her beautiful vulva more clearly. If she shaves it bare but you like fur, that's a different problem altogether! 19 Thinking her body is at your disposal A lot of guys, brought up on porn, think that a woman's body is at their disposal. It might be a shock to you, but if she doesn't want, let's say, to be fucked from behind, with her ass in the air, that is her privilege. You could always try telling her why you like it so much: "You turn me on like never before when I see your beautiful ass - it's so perfect! And your body's just so unbelievably beautiful, I want to see it from all angles...." Get the idea? (Tact and sensitivity win the day, in case you need to be told.) 20 Thrusting too hard in her vagina

This relates to what we said above, but it's worth making the point again. You need to be sensitive to her wishes, needs and desires as you have sex. If your penis is large (especially if it is long), or you thrust too hard in some sex positions, you might hit her cervix. She may like this, or she may find it painful. You don't really want to find out which by doing it accidentally in a fit of lust. 21 Coming before she's got excited or begun to enjoy sex Again, we said this above, but we need to mention it again so we can get to fifty mistakes men make during sex. Seriously, if you insert your penis too soon or ejaculate too soon, she's not going to be very happy for very long. In fact, such selfishness will give her the perfect excuse to look somewhere else for a better lover. 22 Being unable to ejaculate and thrusting for hours without coming If this applies to you, you hardly need telling this is a bit of a nightmare. Can we encourage you to see a sex therapist so you can have a normal sex life with your lover? You'll still be able to thrust for ages without coming, which gives her a good chance of getting all the pleasure she wants from sex, while knowing that eventually you'll be ready to ejaculate and get pleasure yourself. That's much better for both of you than suffering the problems of retarded ejaculation, about which you know too much already. 23 Being unwilling to use a condom Only a fool would refuse to use a condom these days. If you want to play sex roulette, where the prize is an infection with HIV or a nasty dripping disease, that's your affair. Don't inflict the same stuff on your partner. Equally, this is one reason why women should be just as ready to get out the foil packet as men, so if you're a woman, and you like having sex with lots of men (or even one or two): get a supply of condoms, just in case your lover hasn't got any handy. 24 Asking her "How it was for you, dear?" You might wonder what is wrong with asking your partner if she enjoyed sex. The answer is that (1) if you're a sensitive lover, you'll know anyway, and (2) if you're a confident lover, and you're any good at sex, you won't need to ask. If you really need feedback, then simply say, "Is there anything I can do that would please you more?" 25 Not going down on her We know that more women want oral sex, and they want you to make them come with it! But men, always ready to penetrate and thrust, and ejaculate for their own pleasure, sometimes overlook the need to make sure their partner has come when giving her oral sex. She may want oral even if she's not asking for it - a lot of women are shy about requesting cunnilingus. So make sure you don't miss out on this: ask her if she wants you to give her oral pleasure! (and plenty of it.) If you think she might be a little, well, less than fresh down there, then why not take a bath or shower together before sex? 26 Coming too quickly, rolling over, and going to sleep Women need more pleasure and foreplay to get them to orgasm than men - and they aren't happy if they don't get it! What's more, as a man, you may well lose interest in sex once you have ejaculated - but she isn't going to, especially if she's not reached orgasm through oral sex or masturbation before you spill your seed. In other words, make sure she's happy and had at least one orgasm before you come - however you arrange this, it's the route to happiness. (Hint: give her oral sex till she comes, then have sex with her, ejaculate, roll over and go to sleep....err....or, rather, cuddle her and tell her you love her - if you do - and then roll over and go to sleep.) 27 There are certain things you never do when you get oral sex from her And prime among them is trying to force her head towards your erection as a little hint that she should give you oral sex. After all, if you want her to give you head, why not just ask her for it? And when she's doing it, if you'd; like her to do something different, tell her, don't just resort to the kind of crass movements seen in porn films. Especially, the one that involves trying to force her head towards your penis. 28 Trying to force your penis down her throat OK, you may have seen Debbie does Dallas and Deep Throat, but the woman in your bed is your life partner and lover, for God's sake, not a porn star! So be courteous and don't expect her to deep throat you. Not unless she knows how to do it.....there are some websites which explain it.....not this one, as yet, so you'll have to go and search on Google. 29 Coming in her mouth without discussing this first You really have to get this one sorted out, for both your sakes. Semen can taste unpleasant, so she may know she doesn't want it in her mouth. If she's willing to try taking your load, then prepare yourself by eating pineapple (they say it makes spunk taste nicer. I think this might be true.) Do not ask her to swallow after you've eaten curry, beer or asparagus - she'll probably never go near your cock again. How the flavor of these things gets in there baffles me, but there you are. If you don't know how to open a discussion on the "spit or swallow" issue, simply ask her: "I'd see it as an act of love if you would take my semen in your mouth when I ejaculate. Is that something you could do for me?" 30 Thinking that a porn film should be a model of sexual behavior for men (or women) Porn is one of the most negative sexual influences there is - both for men and women. In all but the rare example of consensual porn it involves exploitation and brutalization; unfortunately it also happens to serve as a model of sexual behavior for many young men. What you see in those films

is in no way like real life, so don't behave like a porn star and don't treat your partner like one either. 31 Watching porn in a woman's presence without asking her if it's OK Most of the porn on the market is pretty abusive to women; it seems to represent an expression of men's anger towards women - watch the expressions on the faces of some of the men as they fuck the women and you'll see what I mean. And if you watch the women, their suppressed rage is not hard to see. What this means is that women do not generally find hard core porn arousing. I'd qualify that statement by adding that some porn can be exciting for both sexes, but it obviously has to be consensual and equal. I'm not talking about the sex education market here: that's obviously a different matter. In fact, of you want to see some arousing, consensual sex, try the Lovers' Guide series of educational videos, which feature erotic scenes of full penetration and ejaculation - you might also learn something valuable. In any case, always ask her before you get the DVD out. 32 Getting offended when she doesn't want to watch porn Come on, you're more mature than that, surely? 33 Saying sorry about the size of your penis (not that she cares about it) The fact is that most women want a sensitive lover, not one with a big penis. And because sex is often so much more of a whole body and mind experience for a woman than it is for a man, remember that as long as you can make her aroused, give her pleasure (which means make her come if she wants you to - oral sex is good for that), and show some sensitivity to her needs, then she isn't even going to care about the size of your penis. Not unless she's a heartless bitch, or a size queen, in which case you're definitely better off without her anyway. And just in case you ever feel inclined to apologize for not sizing up to the guys in the porno movies, remember that she'll be too worried about the size of her breasts and belly to care about your cock! Three helpful sites: Penis Size Information Penis Size & Women What Women Think About Penis Size 34 Making comparisons with your last lover Don't ever talk about your last lover's ability in bed in a way that might suggest a comparison. How would you feel if the situations were reversed? And that also goes for making comparisons about other lovers' willingness to try new positions or new sexual adventures. If that's what you want with your current lover, just ask, simply and directly, OK? (And, by the way, your current lover is the most desirable lover, the most attractive, and definitely the best in bed you ever had.) 35 Asking for a threesome Well, threesomes can be exciting, but they often don't leave things the way they were before. You may find once the excitement has died down, there's a legacy of jealousy, bitterness and resentment, so treat the subject carefully if this is really what you want to do. You need to work out how she feels about the idea before you start launching into the subject. "Have you ever thought about trying three in a bed? " might be a good way to start a conversation. 36 Expecting her to do all the work Sex tends to flow between two partners, with one taking charge one day and the other the next. It's not a bad idea to make it work like this each time you have sex - especially if you're changing sex positions, As you swap, there may be a natural leader: the woman on top position, for example, gives her the chance to be dominant. Whatever you do, don't make her do all the work. There will be times when she wants to take the lead, and that's fine, but for you to just lie back and think of England while she rides you is asking for a bit of trouble....on the other hand, if she's already had a massive orgasm through your prolonged efforts at cunnilingus, then it might just be OK to relax for once. 37 Trying to slip your cock in her "back door" A lot of men like the idea - a lot of women don't. If this applies to you and your partner you'll have to discuss it. It's no use just trying to slip it in there by accident. (It won't go in unless she's cooperating.) Anal sex advice. 38 Photographing or videotaping your sex Well, one survey showed that the most common way a jilted man gets back at his partner is by putting the recording she rashly agreed he could make of her squealing in ecstasy as he fucked her on the floor all over the internet. It's a bad idea; don't do it. 39 Using the "same old, same old" sex positions every time you make love Variety makes sex more interesting - that's a fact. And there's no reason why you shouldn't try lots of positions, even if you rely on a few basic ones for 90% of your sex lives. After all, different positions give you different sensations, some more or less pleasurable: you will get a different experience from even simple changes to the way you have sex. Try the reverse missionary, for example, with the woman lying on top of the man, and see how different that is to the conventional man on top - or the reverse cowgirl, if his penis will bend down far enough, compared to woman on top facing the man. 40 Not bringing romance into your sex life Women love romance. Men put up with it, or do it to get sex. True or false? Probably true, but the

romantic "chase" is deeply rewarding for most men (i.e. seducing and winning a woman makes us feel deeply fulfilled), and romance is an essential part of that process. If you're able to continue being romantic once you're an established couple, then you set yourself head and shoulders above the rest of your fellow men, and you stand that much greater chance of getting regular, passionate sex. 41 Slapping her buttocks without asking if she likes it Slapping and hair-pulling can be fun, and certainly if she likes rear entry sex, you can add spice to the mixture by grabbing her hair and slapping her ass as you thrust into her vagina.....but do check if she likes this before you plant a slap across her bum cheeks. 42 Not being relaxed during sex By which I mean, being uptight about what's going on rather than relaxing and making it fun for both of you - sex should certainly be fun, and it should also be easy for you both to communicate what you're feeling. So don't get wrapped up in worrying about getting it exactly right in every position you try, just see how it goes, laugh if it goes wrong, and try something else. 43 Playing with her anus without asking if she likes it If you're playing with her clitoris, and you have one finger inside her, you will probably find that a little anal play adds a great deal to her enjoyment - it's a sensitive area full of erotic nerve endings. So, if you get the position right for sex, you can use the end of your little finger to play with her anus as your forefinger stimulates the inside of her vagina on her G-spot. This can be enough to bring her over into orgasm. 44 Deafening her when you come If you're fucking in the man on top position, and you're a guy who shouts a lot when he ejaculates, you may well find that you shout in her ear. Just be a bit careful, and if you like to let the world know when you come, then give her a pair of ear plugs. 45 Talking dirty without checking if she likes it Dirty talk makes sex more exciting, so check this out when you're fucking to see how it goes down with her. Mind you, she might do this first......"oh, yes, fuck my hot wet cunt!" kind of thing, I mean. God, the first time that happened to me, I came straight away, it was so exciting. 46 Not taking your weight Always remember: when in the man on top position, a gentleman always takes his weight on his arms. Or elbows, or knees, or something. 47 Ejaculating on her like she wasn't there (err....?) By which I mean, it's nice to check this out with her before you do it. She might just object if you deposit a load of come unexpectedly on some corner of her body. While it can be exciting for you, for her it might just be another load of laundry. 48 Not controlling your ejaculation Learn hot to control when yo come. It's the mark of an immature lover to ejaculate way before she's satisfied. That's true even if you don't really care about coming soon after you penetrate her - which a lot of men don't. 49 Dropping the condom on the floor & not cleaning up after you come Dispose of your condoms nicely, boys, put them in the waste bin rather than down the toilet; have tissues and towel handy if you aren't using a condom. If you feel like being a good guy, and perhaps even if you don't, offer her a warm towel to clean herself when you've parted. Unless she wants to lie in a wet patch, leaking your semen all night (what a lovely gesture on her part if she does, though.....it happened to me once and I was greatly touched by the idea that my spunk was something she was happy to keep in her rather than mop up straight away like it was messy or dirty. The same may be true of you, though: do you rush off to wash straight after sex, and if so, what message does it send her about how much you like her vaginal fluids? 50 Not spending some time with her in your arms after sex For her, the post sex glow can be a special time when she feels very close and connected to you so try and respect that. She will also take much longer to come down from sex than you will, and she will also want to know she's loved and adored by the man to whom she has just given herself. So spend a while cuddling her after making love, especially if you're not sleeping together.