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Ldshpc _hthrsdb

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Kdpyrejct © =?=? my Ldshpc _hthrsdb  G`` rejcts rhshrvha. rhshrvha. Bd pgrt df tces pum`ekgtedb igy mh rhprdaukha, rhprdaukha, stdr stdrha ha dr  trgbsiettha eb gby fdri dr my gby ihgbs, h`hktrdbek, ihkcgbekg`,  pcdtdkdpyebj, rhkdraebj, rhkdraebj, skgbbebj, dr dtchrwesh wetcdut wretthb phriessedb  frdi tch pum`eschr. pum`eschr. Et es e``hjg` td kdpy tces mddn, pdst et td g w whmseth, hmseth, dr  aestremuth et my gby dtchr ihgbs wetcdut phriessedb.  Ferst haetedb Qces mddn wgs prdfhssedbg``y typhsht db ]hhasy  Feba dut idrh gt  rhhasy.kdi

 

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Fdrhwdra –Qch rhgmsdrptedb df shihb my tch m`dda es tch strdbjhst bdurescihbt gba,  phrcgps idrh tcgb gby dtchr fgktdr, et et prdipts tch steiu`us df pdwhr.― pdwhr.― (Freharekc Behtzskch) –Qch igldr rhgsdb wcy tch igldrety df ihb wcd sukkhha ad bdt mhjeb td ad sd mhfdrh tch gjh df fdrty td fefty, es tcher thbahbky td aessepgth tcher  hbhrjehs tcrdujc dvhr-ebau`jhbkh eb pcysekg` hxprhssedb df tch hidtedb df  shx.― (Bgpd`hdb Ce``) –Fg``ebj df shihb mrebjs ahgtc> prhshrvgtedb df shihb jevhs `efh. [hihb es tch rhg` vetg`ety eb igb. Et es tch ceaahb trhgsurh fdr igb.― (Qch UdjgŞćstrg UdjgŞćstrg ‑ 7=tc khbtury) –E adb―t wgsth iy hsshbkh eb mha.― (Zebstdb Kcurkce``)

 

7 QCH JGQHZGU QD J]HGQBH[[ [hihb rhthbtedb iejct lust mh tch mhst sh`f-eiprdvhihbt thkcbequh ydu―vh bhvhr chgra gmdut. Cdwhvhr, tces prgktekh cgs mhhb grduba g vhry `dbj teih. Et cgs ets drejebs eb tch gbkehbt prgktekhs df trgaetedbg` Kcebhsh Ihaekebh gba Ebaegb Gyurvhaek chg`ebj. Mhfdrh wh ah`vh ebtd tch cestdry df  shihb rhthbtedb, `ht―s ferst ubahrstgba idrh gmdut wcgt wh―rh tg`nebj gmdut. ZCGQ E[ [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB4

[hihb rhthbtedb es queth seip`y tch gkt df gvdeaebj hlgku`gtedb. Udu kgb ad tces my gvdeaebj igsturmgtedb gba shx g`tdjhtchr fdr sphkefeha phredas df  teih. Ef ydu wgbt td kdbtebuh mhebj shxug``y gktevh, tch dtchr dptedb es td shpgrgth ydur drjgsi frdi hlgku`gtedb. Eb tces wgy, ydu kgb hxphrehbkh tch  p`hgsurh gba kdbbktedb df shx, ebk`uaebj drjgsi, wetcdut hxphrehbkebj gb hlgku`gtedb. Qces es kg``ha g ‐ary drjgsi.’ Qch ferst tcebj tcgt `enh`y krdsshs ydur ieba wchb chgrebj gmdut tces es wcy4 Zcy ad tces4 Udu iejct mh surpresha td chgr tcgt tchrh grh gktug``y buihrdus mhbhfets td tces gbkehbt prgktekh. Zh―`` jd ebtd idrh ahptc db tch  mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb eb sumshquhb sumshquhbtt kcgpthrs, mut chrh es g mrehf `est df  cdw et kgb ch`p ydu mhkdih g mhtthr vhrsedb df ydursh`f< Ebkrhgshs prdauktevety Ebkrhgshs idtevgtedb Mddsts ydur ebkdih pdthbteg` Ebkrhgshs fdkus Mddsts sh`f-kdbfeahbkh Ebkrhgshs ydur hbhrjy Mddsts ydur `emead

 

[trhbjtchbs ydur eiiubh systhi [cgrphbs ydur ihidry Ignhs ydu idrh df g resn-tgnhr  Ch`ps ydu s`hhp ]h`ehvhs ahprhssedb Ahhphbs ydur vdekh Jevhs ydu strdbjhr cger  Eiprdvhs ydur sh`f-kdbtrd` Qchrh grh hvhb skehbtefek stuaehs tcgt cgvh adkuihbtha tch fd``dwebj  mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb< Gb ebkrhgsh eb thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. Gb ebkrhgsh eb tch mrgeb―s gbardjhb rhkhptdrs (G]s) tcgt fgke`etgth tch f`dw df ig`h cdridbhs tcrdujc ydur mday. Ahkrhgsh eb adpgiebh `hvh`s ‑ tcgt―s g fhh`-jdda bhurdkchiekg` tcgt  p`gys g nhy rd`h eb gaaektevh mhcgvedrs. Ahkrhgsh eb prd`gkteb `hvh`s ‑ tcgt―s g cdridbh wcekc prdipts tch  prdauktedb df sphri, mut tdd iukc df et kgb ebthrfhrh wetc tch prdphr  fubktedb df tch thstek`hs. Ebkrhgsh eb shrdtdbeb `hvh`s ‑ tcgt―s g bhurdkchiekg` wcekc ch`ps td  prhvhbt ahprhssedb gba mddsts ihbtg` chg`tc. Qch eahg mhceba shihb rhthbtedb es tcgt ydu kgb rhdrehbt tch hbhrjy ebvd`vha eb shxug` p`hgsurh, ku`iebgtebj eb hlgku`gtedb, td mddst  phrfdrigbkh eb dtchr grhgs df `efh. Igby wcd prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb  mh`ehvh et ebkrhgshs mdtc pcysekg` gba speretug` hbhrjy hbhrjy.. Eb scdrt, shxug` hbhrjy kgb mh cgrbhssha gba rhaerhktha gs g pdwhrfu` krhgtevh fdrkh eb dtchr  grhgs df ydur `efh. Udu kgb ush et gs g arevhr fdr ydur krhgtevh, prdfhssedbg` gba phrsdbg` sukkhss. Zcgt―s idrh, ydu kgb ad tces wetcdut sgkrefekebj tch p`hgsurh df  tch shxug` hxphrehbkh, ef ydu sd kcddsh td. @ht―s tgnh g k`dshr `ddn gt wchrh

 

tces prgktekh drejebgtha gba wcd cgs usha et sukkhssfu``y td eiprdvh tcher  `efh. CE[QD]EK D]EJEB[ DF [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB

Eb trgaetedbg` Kcebhsh Ihaekebh, gbkehbt thxts sphgn gmdut tcrhh vetg` fdrkhs df `efh. Qchsh grh Lebj, dr hsshbkh, We, dr ger, gba [chb, dr speret. Lebj es kdbkhevha df gs tch `efh fdrkh tcgt bdureschs, fuh`s gba kdd`s tch  mday.. Et es mh`ehvha tcgt hvhrydbh es mdrb wetc g fexha gidubt df Lebj,  mday g`tcdujc et es pdssem`h td gttgeb idrh frdi khrtgeb fddas gba vgredus fdris df steiu`gtedb sukc gs hxhrkesh gba ihaetgtedb. Lebj es kdbseahrha eipdrtgbt fdr `dbjhvety, gba tch idst kdbkhbtrgtha fdri df Lebj es eb shihb. My rh`hgsebj shihb dut df tch mday, tchrhfdrh, ydu grh `dsebj sdih df ydur Lebj. Et―s neba df `enh idld, gba ydu adb―t wgbt td `dsh ydur idld! Qch `dss df Lebj, gkkdraebj td tch gbkehbt thxts, rhsu`ts eb aeshgsh,  prhigturh gjebj, fgtejuh gba ahthredrgtedb eb jhbhrg`. Zce`h hlgku`gtedb rhsu`ts eb tch `dss df Lebj, tch ubedb df twd phdp`h eb shxug` kdiiubekgtedb g``dws g igb td trgbsfdri sdih df ces Lebj ebtd We, tchrhmy rhp`hbescebj ces `efh fdrkh. Qcus, shx es kdbseahrha g chg`tcy gkt tcgt rhp`hbeschs tch `efh fdrkh, mut hlgku`gtedb etsh`f rhprhshbts rhprhshb ts g `dss df `efh hbhrjy. hbhrjy. Gkkdraebj td tces mh`ehf, my prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb thkcbequhs, ihb kgb mhbhfet hbhrjhtekg``y gba speretug``y frdi tch ubedb wetc gbdtchr wce`h seiu`tgbhdus`y rhtgebebj tcher `efh fdrkh. Eb dtchr wdras, ydu adb―t cgvh td sgkrefekh ydur `efh fdrkh td hxphrehbkh shxug` p`hgsurh. Eb tch gbkehbt Cebau thxts, tchrh grh seie`gr eahgs td tcgt df trgaetedbg` Kcebhsh Ihaekebh. Gyurvhaek thxts ahskremh shihb gs ahrevha frdi m`dda. Eb fgkt, dbh ardp df shihb es sgea td mh h`gmdrgtha frdi 3? ardps df m`dda (idahrb whsthrb ihaekebh bdths tcgt et tgnhs 1? ardps df m`dda td igbufgkturh dbh ardp df shihb). [hihb es sgea td mh phrvgsevh tcrdujcdut tch mday, iukc eb tch sgih wgy tcgt sujgr es fdr sujgr kgbh gba fgt es fdr mutthr. Zchb ydu rhidvh fgt frdi mutthr, tch mutthr es tceb gba whgn, gba tch sgih es truh fdr shihb eb

 

tch mday. Zhgnbhss rhsu`ts frdi wgstgjh. Eb tch 7=tc khbtury [gbsnret thxt, tch UdjgŞćstrg, UdjgŞćstrg, tch `dss df shihb wgs ahskremha gs fd``dws< ‐Fg``ebj df shihb mrebjs ahgtc> prhshrvgtedb df shihb jevhs `efh. [hihb es tch rhg` vetg`ety eb igb. Et es tch ceaahb trhgsurh fdr igb. Et eipgrts Mrgcig Qhlgs (tch (tch rgys df tch @dra ) td tch fgkh gba strhbjtc td tch ebth``hkt.’ Eb Cebau iystekesi, tch rddt kcgnrg, `dkgtha gt tch mgsh df tch spebh, es  mh`ehvha td mh wchrh tch Nubag`ebe [cgnte ‑ dr ydur truh pdwhr ‑ rhseahs. Qces es gssdkegtha wetc krhgtevh shxug` hbhrjy, gba u`teigth`y rhspdbsem`h fdr g`` df krhgtedb. Gaaetedbg``y, et es kdbseahrha td mh tch gjhbt df g`` kcgbjh. Zchb tch Nubag`ebe hbhrjy reshs tcrdujcdut ydur mday, et mrebjs gmdut  pcysekg` gba ihbtg` strhbjtc gba pdthbky pdthbky.. [hihb es g preigry kdipdbhbt df tces pdwhr. Eb tces prgktekh, gs eb igby Qgdest shkts, shihb rhthbtedb es g speretug` prgktekh, dfthb rhfhrrha td gs ‐jg`vgbezebj hbhrjy’. @dsebj hlgku`gtdry f`ueas es gneb td `dsebj vetg` `efh fdrkh, gba tcus, shihb rhthbtedb hbcgbkhs tch speretug` hxphrehbkh df jg`vgbezebj ydur  hbhrjehs mhkgush et nhhps tch `efh fdrkh ebseah ydu. Eb fgkt, sdih Qgdests grjuh tcgt ydu scdu`a bhvhr hlgku`gth, wce`h dtchrs cgvh ahvh`dpha g sphkefek fdriu`g fdr tch igxeiui gidubt df rhju`gr hlgku`gtedbs ydu kgb cgvh gba ste`` stgy chg`tcy. Hetchr wgy, tchy hipcgtekg``y mh`ehvh tcgt ydu cgvh td prhshrvh shihb td kdbshrvh tch `efh hsshbkh ‑ tch Lebj. ZCD ADH[ QCE[4 Udu iejct mh surpresha td feba dut tcgt igby fgidus gba cejc`y sukkhssfu` phdp`h cgvh prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb.

 Bgpd`hdb Ce`` wrdth gmdut tch prgktekh eb ces mddn, Qcebn gba Jrdw  ]ekc.. Ch bdtha tcgt shxug` ahserh es g igldr arevhr df sukkhssfu`  ]ekc kcgrgkthresteks `enh eigjebgtedb, we``pdwhr, phrsesthbkh, kdurgjh gba krhgtevety. Hvhb ihb wcd grh ubsukkhssfu` eb dtchr pgrts df tcher `evhs kgb igrscg`` tchsh trgets wchb cgrbhssebj tcher shxug` ahserh. Qcus, ef tch hbhrjy tcgt prdidths tchsh kcgrgkthresteks kgb mh cgrbhssha gba rhaerhktha td dtchr gsphkts df `efh, et kgb mh g pdwhrfu` krhgtevh fdrkh fdr 

 

gby fdri df prdfhssedbg` gba phrsdbg` ahvh`dpihbt, sgys Ce``. Jevhb tch `est df sukkhssfu` ihb wcd cgvh usha tch thkcbequh, et―s cgra td grjuh ch―s wrdbj. Chrh es g `est df sdih fgidus gtc`hths wcd cgvh prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb< Iucgiiga G`e ‑ mdxhr  Ienh Qysdb ‑ mdxhr  [gead Qgngidre ‑ kdbseahrha tch idst ebf`uhbteg` [giurge eb Lgpgbhsh cestdry Agvea Cgyh ‑ wdr`a chgvywhejct mdxebj kcgipedb Igbby _gkquegd ‑ hejct-aevesedb wdr`a kcgipedb mdxhr  Igrteb ‐Fgrihr’ Murbs ‑ wdr`a kcgipedb wrhst`hr  ]eknsdb Jrgkeh ‑ iexha igrteg` grts gba Leu-Letsu `hjhba Qch Jrhgt Jgig ‑ ubahfhgtha wdr`a kcgipedb wrhst`hr, kcgipedb df  wdr`a wrhst`ebj mhtwhhb 757? gba 75=3 [pdrts bdt ydur tcebj4 Chrh―s g fhw fgidus skehbtests gba musebhss  phdp`h wcd cgvh prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb< [ejiuba Frhua [er Esggk Bhwtdb [thvh Ldms  Bend`g Qhs`g Qhs`g Chrh―s g fhw pce`dsdpchrs ydu iejct cgvh chgra gmdut, tdd< _`gtd [dkrgths Qch Ag`ge @gig _ytcgjdrgs [wgie Vevhngbgbag  Bdw, chrh grh g fhw krhgtevh ebbdvgtdrs ydu iejct nbdw wcd cgvh u  Bdw, usha sha shihb rhthbtedb<

 

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Zh―`` jd ebtd sdih sphkefek thkcbequhs eb `gthr kcgpthrs, mut gs gb ebtrdauktedb, shihb rhthbtedb es typekg``y gkcehvha eb twd wgys. Qch ferst es gmstebhbkh, gba wce`h tcgt kgb ihgb gmstgebebj frdi igsturmgtedb gba shx g`tdjhtchr, et kgb g`sd ihgb gmstgebebj fdr phredas eb  mhtwhhb ydur shxug` gktevety. gktevety. Qch dtchr ihtcda ebvd`vhs iusk`h kdbtrd` wce`h cgvebj shx. Mgsekg``y, ydu cgvh td `hgrb cdw td cgvh gb drjgsi wetcdut hlgku`gtebj. [dubas trekny, adhsb―t et4 Mut et―s rhg``y bdt tcgt aeffeku`t. Et lust tgnhs g `ett`h  prgktekh. Udu wgbt td mhjeb my adebj sdih Nhjh` hxhrkeshs. Udur Nhjh` iusk`hs grh ph`vek f`ddr iusk`hs, gba my f`hxebj tchi rejct mhfdrh hlgku`gtedb, ydu kgb cgvh wcgt―s kg``ha g ‐ary drjgsi.’ Qd strhbjtchb ydur Nhjh` iusk`hs, ydu kgb stgrt my tejcthbebj tch iusk`hs tcgt prhvhbt ydu frdi pgssebj jgs dr urebgtebj ieastrhgi. Udu ush tch sgih iusk`hs fdr tch gktedbs bhkhssgry td prhvhbt hlgku`gtedb. Qd strhbjtchb tch Nhjh` iusk`hs, ydu seip`y kdbtrgkt tcdsh iusk`hs gba cd`a fdr tcrhh shkdbas gba tchb rh`gx tchi fdr tcrhh shkdbas. Ad tces shvhrg` teihs g agy. Udu―`` g`sd wgbt td prgktekh kdbtrgktebj db`y tcdsh iusk`hs wce`h nhhpebj ydur muttdkns, tcejcs gba gmadihb rh`gxha gba wce`h mrhgtcebj frhh`y. frhh`y. Dbkh strhbjtchbha, ydu―`` ush tch sgih thkcbequh gs gb drjgsi es bhgr td  prhvhbt hlgku`gtedb. Udu kgb g`sd prgktekh tces my igsturmgtebj. Gt ferst, ydur teiebj iejct mh dff, mut nhhp gt et, gba ydu―`` jht et adwb. Zh―`` jd tcrdujc g`` tces eb idrh ahtge` `gthr eb tch mddn.

 

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Gseah frdi tch pcysekg` mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb, igby phdp`h  mh`ehvh et cgs sejbefekgbt speretug` mhbhfets. Gs wh―vh aeskussha, tch gbkehbt Fgr Hgsthrb thxts mh`ehvh tcgt sphri es g igldr kdipdbhbt df ydur vetg` `efh fdrkh. Zetc tch rhthbtedb df shihb, tcdsh  pce`dsdpcehs cd`a tcgt ydu kgb hxphrehbkh g jrhgthr shbsh df `efh purpdsh gba dvhrg`` cgridby. Qchy g`sd grjuh tcgt ydu ahvh`dp strdbjhr gba ahhphr  hidtedbg` mdbas eb ydur rh`gtedbsceps. Qces mrebjs gmdut g jrhgthr shbsh df  `efh sgtesfgktedb. Nubag`ebe hbhrjy es mh`ehvha td rhseah gt tch mgsh df tch spebh, wchrh tch rddt kcgnrg es sgea td mh `dkgtha. Et es kdbseahrha g fhiebebh hbhrjy, mut wchb gwgnhbha, et reshs up tcrdujc tch mday td tch chga wchrh tch hbhrjy df @dra [cevg es `dkgtha. Gt tces pdebt, tch igsku`ebh gba fhiebebh ubeth, wcekc `hgas td g `dss df tch shbsh df aug`ety. Eb dtchr wdras, ydu wgnh td ydur dwb aevebety. Et es kdbseahrha tch purhst hkstgsy df ubedb. Qch rddt kcgnrg es g`sd gssdkegtha wetc shxug` hbhrjy, gba tch rhthbtedb df shihb g``dws fdr tcgt hbhrjy td mh rhaerhktha ebtd g Nubag`ebe gwgnhbebj ‑ wcekc kgb pdwhr ydur `efh eb gby aerhktedb wchrh ydu fdkus tch hbhrjy. ZCGQ ZCG Q GMDXQ ]H@G ]H@GQEDB[CE_ QEDB[CE_ MHBHFEQ[4

[hihb rhthbtedb gktug``y cgs buihrdus mhbhfets fdr ydur rh`gtedbscep. Ferst, ef ydur pgrtbhr ubahrstgbas ydur rhgsdbs fdr adebj et gba es suppdrtevh, ydu kgb mdtc rhgp tch mhbhfets df tces prgktekh. Et kgb krhgth g strdbjhr mdba mhtwhhb tch twd df ydu gs tch fdkus es bd `dbjhr db gb hba jdg`. Et kgb g`sd ebkrhgsh tch gbtekepgtedb df tch shxug` hxphrehbkh, gba et kgb ebkrhgsh tch ebthbsety df tch drjgsis tcgt ydu ad cgvh. G`sd, mhkgush ydu―rh fdkusebj db kdbtrd``ebj ydur shxug` hxphrehbkh, ydu kgb tchb kdbkhbtrgth db p`hgsebj ydur pgrtbhr. Qcgt we`` ebkrhgsh ydur  shxug` stgiebg, gba g mej mdbus es tcgt ydu kgb g`sd cgvh tch pdthbteg` td hxphrehbkh iu`tep`h drjgsis (wetcdut hlgku`gtedb). Et―s bdt lust fdr tch `gaehs gbyidrh.

 

Udu―`` g`sd hxphrehbkh idrh sh`f-kdbtrd` gba g jrhgthr shbsh df mday gwgrhbhss. Qces we`` ahfebeth`y eiprdvh ydur shxug` thkcbequh. Febg``y, shihb rhthbtedb g`sd eiprdvhs tch qug`ety df ydur sphri. Qchy we`` cgvh cejchr idte`ety, gba ydu―`` cgvh idrh df tchi. Qcgt―s jdda bhws ef ydu grh tryebj td kdbkhevh. Eb suiigry, ydu kgb mhjeb td shh buihrdus mhbhfets frdi shihb rhthbtedb. Udu―`` hxphrehbkh g jrhgthr shbsh df sh`f-kdbtrd`, idrh ebthbsh shxug`  p`hgsurh wetc jrhgthr stgiebg, eiprdvha fhrte`ety, fhrte`ety, g strdbj shbsh df sh`fgwgrhbhss, g mddst eb hbhrjy, g mhtthr eiiubh systhi, gba g strdbjhr shbsh df speretug` kdbbhktedb td tch wdr`a grduba ydu. Udu―`` g`sd cgvh idrh idtevgtedb gba hbhrjy fdr gkcehvebj ydur `efh jdg`s gs wh`` gs krhgtebj strdbjhr rh`gtedbscep mdbas. Qcgt g`` gaas up td jrhgthr phrsdbg` gba prdfhssedbg` `efh sgtesfgktedb. [d, grh ydu rhgay td jevh et g try4 Ef sd, sd , `ht― `ht―ss aevh rejct eb! KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr, wh―vh aeskussha tch mgseks df shihb rhthbtedb. [phkefekg``y,, wh―vh kdvhrha tch fd``dwebj sumlhkts< [phkefekg``y Zcgt es shihb rhthbtedb Zcgt grh sdih pcysekg` mhbhfets Qch iystekg` drejebs df tch prgktekh Fgidus gba sukkhssfu` phdp`h wcd prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb Qch speretug` gba rh`gtedbscep mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb Eb tch bhxt kcgpthr, ydu we`` `hgrb hvhrytcebj ydu g`wgys wgbtha td nbdw gmdut shihb.

 

= HVH]UQCEBJ UDX BHHA QD NBDZ GMDXQ [HIHB Mhfdrh wh aevh ahhphr ebtd tch cestdry gba gbkehbt wesadi rhjgraebj shihb rhthbtedb, et―s eipdrtgbt ferst td ubahrstgba shihb―s med`djy. Qd tcgt hba, `ht―s hxp`drh tch butrehbts gba hbhrjy et kdbtgebs gba cdw et es rhp`hbescha. Chrh, ydu―`` `hgrb hvhrytcebj ydu g`wgys wgbtha td nbdw gmdut shihb mut whrh gfrgea td gsn! Lust sd ydu nbdw, tces kcgpthr es bhkhssgre`y queth ahbsh gba wh jd ebtd tch med`djekg` ahtge`s. Udu kgb snep gchga gba jht td tch idrh prgktekg` gsphkts df tch mddn ef ydu wesc. Mut ef ydu stgy ydu we`` mh griha wetc ahtge`ha ihaekg` ebfdrigtedb gs td wcy shihb es sd prhkedus. Eb fgkt, ydu―`` nbdw lust gs iukc gs idst adktdrs gmdut tch tdpek! @ht―ss ferst `ddn gt c @ht― cdw dw ydur mday krhgths et. [HIHB _]DAXKQEDB

Udu iejct cgvh bhvhr tcdujct gmdut tces mhfdrh, mut shihb esb―t lust seip`y prdaukha eb tch thstek`hs. Eb fgkt, tch prdkhss ebvd`vhs ydur mrgeb, ydur hbadkrebh systhi gba tch gutdbdiek bhrvdus systhi, gs wh`` gs ydur  thstek`hs. Eb g shbsh, et tgnhs g ve``gjh td prdaukh shihb, gba tch ve``gjh eb tces skhbgred es ydur hbterh mday. Qch prdkhss stgrts eb ydur mrgeb, eb gb grhg kg``ha tch cypdtcg`gius. Qch cypdtcg`gius es gttgkcha td g j`gba kg``ha tch petuetgry j`gba. Qces phgsezha j`gba es nbdwb gs tch igsthr j`gba mhkgush et aerhkt`y prdaukhs, dr  ebetegths tch prdauktedb df, hvhry cdridbh eb ydur mday. Cdridbhs grh `enh tch mday―s ihsshbjhrs. Qchy grh hsshbteg``y tch wgy tcgt aeffhrhbt pgrts df ydur mday kdiiubekgth wetc dbh gbdtchr. Qchrh grh g buimhr df cdridbhs ebvd`vha eb shihb prdauktedb. Qch tcrhh cdridbhs

 

wh―`` tg`n gmdut grh tch Jdbgadtrdpeb-]h`hgsebj Cdridbh (Jb]C), tch @uthebezebj Cdridbh (@C) gba tch Fd``ek`h [teiu`gtebj Cdridbh (F[C). Qch shihb prdauktedb prdkhss mhjebs wchb tch cypdtcg`gius shkrhths Jb]C, kgusebj tch petuetgry j`gba td rh`hgsh mdtc @C gba F[C. Qch mday  mhjebs td prdaukh Jb]C aurebj pumhrty. pumhrty. Dbkh @C gba F[C grh rh`hgsha, tchy jd td tch thsths wchrh tchy hffhktevh`y shba g ihssgjh td sphkeg`ezha kh``s `dkgtha tchrh< @hyaej gba [hrtd`e kh``s. Zchb tch @hyaej kh``s rhkhevh tch @C ihssgjh frdi tch  petuetgry j`gba, tchy mhjeb td kdbvhrt kcd`hsthrd` ebtd thstdsthrdbh. Udu―vh prdmgm`y chgra df thstdsthrdbh, mut ydu igy bdt nbdw wcgt et es hxgkt`y gba wcgt et adhs. Mgsekg``y, et―s gbdtchr cdridbh ‑ tcgt es, gbdtchr  ihsshbjhr ‑ tcgt hbthrs tch [hrtd`e kh``s. Dbkh thstdsthrdbh hbthrs tchsh [hrtd`e kh``s, et trejjhrs kh`` aevesedb nbdwb gs ietdses gba ihedses. Udu iejct rhihimhr sdihtcebj gmdut ietdses gba ihedses frdi cejc skcdd` med`djy. Qchsh grh tch prdkhsshs df kh`` aevesedb. Zetc ietdses, ydu  mgsekg``y jht g k`dbh df tch ‐pgrhbt’ kh``, gba tces es tch aevesedb prdkhss tcgt hvhry kh`` eb ydur mday jdhs tcrdujc, hxkhpt fdr tch shx kh``s ‑ tcgt es, tch sphri gba tch hjj. Qch kh`` aevesedb tcgt prdaukhs sphri gba gb hjj es nbdwb gs ihedses. Zetc ihedses, ebsthga df g k`dbh df tch pgrhbt kh``, tch ‐agujcthr’ kh``s  prdaukha my tces prdkhss db`y cgvh dbh-cg`f df tch jhbhtek igthreg` tcgt tch  pgrhbt kh`` cga. Zcy4 Mhkgush tcgt kh`` wetc dbh-cg`f df tch jhbhtek igthreg` we`` ihht up wetc gbdtchr kh`` wchrh et we`` jht tch dtchr cg`f df tch jhbhtek igthreg` bhhaha td prdaukh g bhw `efh. Zchb sphri es krhgtha, sthi kh``s eb tch [hrtd`e kh``s ferst aeveah my ietdses. Qchy tchb mhjeb tch prdkhss df ihedses, gba tch rhsu`tebj sphrigtdzdg (tch thkcbekg` bgih fdr sphri) mhjebs td igturh. Gs wetc gby  mgmy,, ebfgbt sphri cgvh td cgvh tch prdphr hbverdbihbt td igturh. Qch  mgmy ebkumgtedb kcgimhrs fdr tchsh mgmy sphri grh kg``ha shiebefhrdus tumu`hs. Qch wg``s df tchsh tumu`hs grh `ebha wetc iukus, gba tces es wchrh tch [hrtd`e kh``s gttgkc. Qch [hrtd`e kh``s gktug``y fdri g tejct tessuh mgrrehr tcgt nhhps cgrifu` prdaukts, `enh mgkthreg, frdi hbthrebj tch ebkumgtedb

 

kcgimhr, gba et nhhps f`ueas ebseah tch kcgimhr frdi `hgnebj dut. Qces tejct  mgrrehr es kg``ha tch M`dda-Qhstes M`dda-Qhstes Mgrrehr (MQM). Et―s eipdrtgbt td nhhp g kdbkhbtrgtha `hvh` df thstdsthrdbh eb tch f`uea wetceb tch ebkumgtedb kcgimhr fdr tch sphri td igturh. Qch prdm`hi es tcgt iukc df tch `equea eb tch kcgimhr es wgthr, gba thstdsthrdbh es `epdsd`um`h, ihgbebj et kdbkhbtrgths eb fgt rgtchr tcgb wgthr. Qcgt ihgbs et wdu`a mh aeffeku`t td gkcehvh tch `hvh`s df kdbkhbtrgtedb bhkhssgry fdr thstdsthrdbh td nhhp tch ahvh`dpebj sphri chg`tcy whrh et bdt fdr tch dtchr cdridbh wh ihbtedbha, F[C. F[C hbthrs tch [hrtd`e kh``s gba kgushs tchi td rh`hgsh g  prdtheb kg``ha tch Gbardjhb Mebaebj _rdtheb (GM_). Qcgt mebas tch thstdsthrdbh id`hku`hs sd tcgt et kgb rhigeb cejc`y kdbkhbtrgtha eb tch wgthry `equea df tch tumu`hs. G`` df tces gktevety eb ydur shiebefhrdus tumu`hs rhquerhs g sphkefek thiphrgturh td dkkur. Qcgt―s wcy tch thstek`hs grh `dkgtha hxthrbg``y. Ef tchy whrh up ebseah tch mday, tch thiphrgturh wdu`a mh tdd cejc, sd tchy iust cgbj dutseah tch mday eb tch wrebn`ha skrdtg` sgk. Et―s wrebn`ha mhkgush et bhhas td gagpt ‑ strhtkc dut gba rh`gx gjgeb ‑ gs tch iusk`hs wetceb tch thsths kdbtrgkt gba rh`gx eb gb hffdrt td rhju`gth tch thiphrgturh. Ef et―s g wgri agy, tch thstek`hs cgbj `dwhr, gba ef et―s kd`a dutseah, tchy grh pu``ha up k`dshr td tch mday sd tcgt tcher thiphrgturh we`` g`wgys rhigeb gt grduba 5;.= ahjrhhs Fgcrhbchet (;1 ahjrhhs Kh`seus), tch eahg` thiphrgturh fdr sphri prdauktedb td dkkur. Qces es `dwhr tcgb tch bdrig`  mday thiphrgturh df 53.6 ahjrhhs Fgcrhbchet (;: ahjrhhs Kh`seus), wcekc es wcy tchy kgb―t mh ebseah tch mday. Qch prdaukt df tces gktevety es g fu``y fdriha ‐sphrigtdzddb’ wetc g chga, g mday gba g tge`. Zh―rh ste`` bdt adbh, tcdujc, mhkgush wh adb―t yht cgvh shihb. Qchrh―s idrh td shihb tcgb lust sphri kh``s. Qd ubahrstgba cdw wh jht shihb, wh iust ubahrstgba tch hrhktedb gba hlgku`gtedb  prdkhss. H]HKQEDB & HLGKX@GQEDB

 

Qch systhi tcgt kdbtrd`s hrhktedb gba hlgku`gtedb es kg``ha tch gutdbdiek bhrvdus systhi. Ef ydu rhga tcgt gs gutdigtek ebsthga df gutdbdiek, et―s dngy ‑ ydu―rh bdt fgr dff. Eb fgkt, tch gutdbdiek bhrvdus systhi kdbtrd`s ydur mday―s ubkdbskedus prdkhsshs, `enh mrhgtcebj. Udu adb―t cgvh td tcebn  gmdut mrhgtcebj> ydu lust ad et. Et―s gutdigtek, gba ef ydu try td cd`a ydur   mrhgtc ubte` ydu aeh, ydu kgb―t ad et. Udu―`` pgss dut. Qch gutdbdiek bhrvdus systhi we`` tgnh dvhr, gba ydu―`` stgrt mrhgtcebj gjgeb. Qces sgih systhi kdbtrd`s mdtc hrhktedb gba hlgku`gtedb. Qch gutdbdiek bhrvdus systhi es igah up df twd aeffhrhbt pgrts< tch syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi gba tch pgrgsyipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi. Qchsh twd pgrts grh `enh twd seahs df tch sgih kdeb. Udur syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi es ydur ‐fejct dr f`ejct’ bhrvdus systhi. Zchb steiu`gtha, et jhts ydur mday rhgay fdr gktedb sd tcgt ydu kgb survevh gb gttgkn. Qcgt ihgbs chgrt pcysekg` rgth ebkrhgshs, gs adhs ydur mrhgtcebj rgth. Qchrh buimhrydur df dtchr rhspdbshs td tch cdridbhs rh`hgsha wchbgrh tcesg systhi es gktevgtha. Qch pgrgsyipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi es tch dtchr seah df tch kdeb. Et kg`is ydu adwb gfthr tch hxkethihbt cgs pgssha. Udu kgb tcebn df et gs ydur  ‐kce`` gba rh`gx’ systhi. Qchsh systhis wdrn eb kd-draebgtedb td prdaukh gb hrhktedb gba hlgku`gtedb. Zchb g igb es grdusha, tch pgrgsyipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi es steiu`gtha td rh`gx khrtgeb iusk`hs. Qch rh`gxgtedb df tchsh iusk`hs g``dws  m`dda td hbjdrjh tch tessuhs df tch phbes, rhsu`tebj eb gb hrhktedb. Qch  pgrgsyipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi g`sd shbas gb hxketgtdry ihssgjh td tch vgs ahfhrhbs, tch shiebg` vhsek`hs gba tch prdstgth j`gba. Qch vgs ahfhrhbs es tch tumh tcrdujc wcekc tch shihb trgvh`s td hxet tch mday, gba tch shiebg` vhsek`hs gba prdstgth j`gba grh tch strukturhs tcgt prdaukh shiebg` f`uea. Zchb g igb cgs gb drjgsi, tch syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi tgnhs dvhr. Et u`teigth`y kgushs g kdbstrektedb df tch m`dda vhssh`s tcgt hbjdrjh tch  phbe`h tessuhs wetc m`dda. Qcgt kuts dff tch m`dda f`dw ebtd tcdsh tessuhs, rhsu`tebj eb g `dss df tch hrhktedb. Mut gs tch drjgsi es cgpphbebj, tch syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi g`sd kgushs g strukturh kg``ha tch hpeaeayies td

 

kdbtrgkt gba squhhzh dut tcdsh igturh sphri kh``s eb tch shiebefhrdus tumu`hs. Qces puschs tch sphri ebtd tch vgs ahfhrhbs. Qch vgs ahfhrhbs g`sd kdbtrgkts td pusc tch sphri dutseah veg tch urhtcrg, wcekc es tch tumh tcrdujc wcekc urebh pgsshs. ]ejct mhfdrh tch sphri hbthrs tch urhtcrg, g rebj df iusk`h (spcebkthr) kdbtrgkts td k`dsh dff tch pgrt df tch urhtcrg kdiebj frdi tch m`gaahr. Qcgt wgy, sphri kgb―t trgvh` up ebtd tch m`gaahr. Zchb shihb es hlgku`gtha, et trgvh`s gt gb gpprdxeigth vh`dkety df 77 ie`hs  phr cdur. cdur. Et wdu`a mh g aeffeku`t reah ebahha, whrh et bdt fdr tch shiebg` f`uea. Et es tch kdimebgtedb df tch sphri gba tch shiebg` f`uea tcgt es kg``ha shihb. Qch shiebg` f`uea es g`sd wcgt bdureschs tch sphri gba prdthkts tchi frdi tch gkeaek hbverdbihbt df tch vgjebg sd tcgt tchy kgb hbthr tch uthrus td shhn dut gb hjj. Et es mhkgush df tch shiebg` f`uea tcgt sphri kgb `evh fdr  gpprdxeigth`y es et prdaukha4 := cdurs gfthr hlgku`gtedb. Mut wcgt es tces f`uea, gba wchrh [HIEBG@ F@XEA

Qcgt strukturh tcgt squhhzhs tch sphri ebtd tch vgs ahfhrhbs ‑ tch hpeaeayies ‑ g`sd shkrhths sdaeui, j`ykhry` pcdspcdry`kcd`ebh gba  pdtgsseui. Qchsh ldeb tch sphri gs tchy hbthr tch vgs ahfhrhbs. Qch sphri  pgss tcrdujc tch vgs ahfhrhbs gba hbthr g stdrgjh grhg kg``ha tch gipu``g. Qch gipu``g gaas fruktdsh ‑ g typh df sujgr ‑ td tch sphri gba g yh``dwesc f`uea kg``ha hrjdtcedbhebh, wcekc ahkrhgshs dr rhidvhs dxyjhb frdi tch kchiekg` kdipdubas prhshbt. Febg``y, tch shiebg` vhsek`hs gba prdstgth j`gba gaa wcgt―s kg``ha g prhhlgku`gtdry f`uea td tch iex. G`` df tchsh kdipdbhbts df tch shiebg` f`uea ignh up gpprdxeigth`y 6? phrkhbt df tch tdtg` shihb vd`uih, gba tcher ldm es td bduresc tch sphri gba prdthkt tchi. @ht―s tgnh g k`dshr `ddn gt tch shiebg` vhsek`hs gba prdstgth j`gba strukturhs ebvd`vha eb shiebg` f`uea  prdauktedb. QCH _]D[QGQH _]D[QGQH & KDZ_H]―[ J@GBA[

 

Kdwphr―s j`gba, bgiha gfthr Ze``egi Kdwphr, tch 7:tc-khbtury surjhdb wcd aeskdvhrha et, es g phg-sezha j`gba `dkgtha mhbhgtc tch prdstgth j`gba eb tch grhg wchrh tch ebthrbg` pgrts df tch phbes mhjeb. Gs g igb hlgku`gths, tces j`gba gaas k`hgr, tcekn f`ueas tcgt gkt gs g `umrekgbt gba ch`p td f`usc tch urhtcrg mhfdrh tch hlgku`gtedb df tch shihb. Qchsh f`ueas ignh tch shihb `hss wgthry gba gkkdubt fdr gpprdxeigth`y 8 phrkhbt df tch tdtg` shiebg` f`uea. Qch prdstgth j`gba es prdmgm`y tch mhst-nbdwb j`gba eb tch ig`h rhprdauktevh trgkt mhkgush df prdstgth kgbkhr. Et es g j`gba gmdut tch sezh df g wg`but, gba et es `dkgtha mhtwhhb tch phbes gba tch m`gaahr. Et g`sd gaas f`uea shkrhtedbs td tch sphri gs et es mhebj hlgku`gtha. Qch j`gba etsh`f gktug``y surrdubas tch urhtcrg, sd ef et mhkdihs dvhrjrdwb, et kgb ahkrhgsh tch aegihthr df tch urhtcrg gba s`dw tch f`dw df  urebh. Qcgt―s wcy d`ahr ihb sdihteihs tgnh g `dbj teih td urebgth. Qch f`uea frdi tch prdstgth, kg``ha prh-hlgku`gth, kgb mh k`hgr dr ie`ny-wceth, gba es s`ejct`y gkeaek. Qch f`uea kdbtgebs ketrek gkea gba khrtgeb hbzyihs. Hbzyihs kgush gb gktedb td dkkur, gba eb tces kgsh, tch gktedb es td sp`et prdthebs. Qch f`uea  prdaukha my tch prdstgth g`sd kdbtgebs sdaeui, zebk, kg`keui gba  pdtgsseui. Gpprdxeigth`y 78 td ;? phrkhbt df tch shiebg` f`uea es tces sumstgbkh prdaukha my tch prdstgth j`gba. [HIEBG@ VH[EK@H[

Qch shiebg` vhsek`hs grh gktug``y twd sig`` j`gbas `dkgtha ebseah tch  ph`ves. Qch f`uea tchy prdaukh gba shkrhth ebtd tch hlgku`gtdry trgkt ebk`uahs fruktdsh, ketrek gkea, pdtgsseui, prdthebs, pcdspcdrus gba prdstgj`gbaebs. Qch fruktdsh prdveahs g sdurkh df hbhrjy fdr tch sphri wchb et es dutseah tch igb―s mday, gba tch prdstgj`gbaebs grh `epeas dr fgtty sumstgbkhs tcgt suppdrt fhrte`ezgtedb. Mgsekg``y, tchsh ignh tch khrvex―s iukus `ebebj g met idrh ‐wh`kdiebj’ fdr tch sphri. Qchy g`sd ch`p td idvh tch sphri tdwgras tch hjj. Qch shiebg` vhsek`hs prdaukh gpprdxeigth`y 68 td :8  phrkhbt df tch shiebg` f`uea.

 

Gt tces pdebt, E―i surh ydu―rh stgrtebj td jht tch eahg tcgt tces prdkhss es g `dt idrh kdip`ekgtha tcgb cdw wh―rh usha td tcebnebj gmdut et. Et tru`y tgnhs g ve``gjh, gba tcgt ve``gjh cgs td mh wh``-bdurescha fdr tch hbterh prdkhss td rub siddtc`y gba prdaukh chg`tcy, fhrte`h sphri. Qcgt―s wcy et―s eipdrtgbt td ubahrstgba tch hsshbteg` vetgiebs gba iebhrg`s rhquerha fdr chg`tcy sphrigtdjhbhses (sphri prdauktedb). H[[HBQEG@ _]DAXKQEDB

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Qchrh grh g buimhr df butrehbts tcgt grh hsshbteg` td tch prdkhss df sphri  prdauktedb. @ht―s @ht―s `ddn gt tch rd`h df hgkc df tchsh.  \ebk< Qces es dbh df tch igeb kdipdbhbts fduba eb tch thsths, sphri gba eb tch shihb. Et es tcerty teihs idrh kdbkhbtrgtha eb tch shihb tcgb et es eb tch m`dda. Et es bdt prdaukha my tch mday, gba tchrhfdrh iust mh ebk`uaha gs  pgrt df g chg`tcy aeht. Et es fduba eb ihgt, agery prdaukts, hjjs, gba `hjuihs `enh quebdg, kceknphgs gba `hbte`s.

\ebk es krukeg` fdr tch prdphr rhp`ekgtedb df jhbhtek igthreg` rhquerha fdr  chg`tcy ietdses gba ihedses. Et es bhkhssgry td igebtgeb jdda `hvh`s df   prdthebs, `enh tch Gbardjhb Mebaebj _rdtheb tcgt nhhps thstdsthrdbh kdbkhbtrgtedb gt prdphr `hvh`s. Qcgt―s vetg` fdr tch igturgtedb prdkhss df tch sphri eb tch ebkumgtebj kcgimhrs. [dih rhshgrkc (Kchgc gba Ugbj, =?77) cgs scdwb tcgt g ahfekehbky eb zebk es gssdkegtha wetc g `dwhr sphri kdubt gs wh`` gs g ahkrhgsh eb thsteku`gr whejct gba screbnebj df tch shiebefhrdus tumu`hs. \ebk es g`sd fduba eb tch sphri―s tge`. Et ch`ps aestremuth hbhrjy sd tch sphri kh`` kgb swei gba bgvejgth tcrdujc dmstgk`hs. Eb tch shiebg` f`uea, et es g`sd gb gbtedxeagbt tcgt k`hgbs up tch sphris― wgsth prdaukts gs tchy ute`ezh fruktdsh td ignh hbhrjy. Zhrh et bdt fdr tch zebk, tcdsh wgsth  prdaukts kdu`a cgri tch sphri kh``s.  [h`hbeui< [h`hbeui es gbdtchr vetg` iebhrg` fdr sphri prdauktedb. Et es fduba eb sceetgnh iuscrddis, dgtihg`, tdfu, sch``fesc gba `hgb pdrn. Ets

igeb fubktedb es td gkt gs gb gbtedxeagbt. Et es prhshbt eb `grjh kdbkhbtrgtedbs

 

eb tch ebkumgtedb kcgimhrs df tch thsths. Qchrh, et prdthkts sthi kh``s gs tchy hbjgjh eb kh`` aevesedb (ietdses gba ihedses). Qchsh prdkhsshs rhquerh g `dt df hbhrjy, gba tch ute`ezgtedb df tcgt hbhrjy prdaukhs g `dt df wgsth  prdaukts, nbdwb gs frhh rgaekg`s. Qchwcy sthi kh``s grh vu`bhrgm`h tchsh wgsth prdaukts, gba tcgt―s tchy bhha td hxtrhih`y mh prdthktha. Dbkh tchtdsthi kh``s igturh ebtd sphri kh``s, tchy bd `dbjhr rhquerh tces prdthktedb, mut tchy―rh bdt adbh wetc tch sh`hbeui. Et gktug``y mhkdihs tch ieapehkh dr mday df tch sphri kh``. Qcgt―s wcy g sh`hbeui ahfekehbky we`` ahkrhgsh tch sphri kdubt. Zetcdut et, tch sthi kh``s adb―t survevh aurebj kh`` aevesedb. Idrhdvhr, g ahfekehbky df  sh`hbeui kgb gffhkt tch sphri―s idte`ety, tcgt es, ets gme`ety td idvh. Qch sphri―s ieapehkh es ets hbjebh, gba wetcdut gb hbjebh, tchy kgb―t idvh. Vetgiebs< Qchrh grh g`sd sdih eipdrtgbt vetgiebs rhquerha fdr sphri

 prdauktedb. Qchsh ebk`uah M7=, G, H gba K. Vetgieb M7= es fduba eb gbeig`  prdaukts gba fhrihbtha vhjhtgm`hs. Kgrrdts, mrdkkd`e, kgbtg`duph gba squgsc g`` kdbtgeb Vetgieb G. Vetgieb H es fduba eb spebgkc, g`idbas, subf`dwhr shhas gba mrdkkd`e. @gst`y, Vetgieb K es fduba eb ketrus fruets, tdigtdhs, phpphrs, kgu`ef`dwhr, kgmmgjh, gba yhs, ydu juhssha et, mrdkkd`e. Qch fubktedbs df tchsh vetgiebs vgry. M7= es bhkhssgry fdr kh`` rhp`ekgtedb gba aevesedb my ch`pebj prdaukh ABG gba ]BG, tch mday―s jhbhtek m`uhprebts. G ahfekehbky eb tces vetgieb gffhkts tch aevesedb df tch sphri kh``s, wcekc rhaukhs tch dvhrg`` sphri kdubt (Kchgc gba Ugbj, =?77). Vetgiebs K gba H gkt gs gbtedxeagbts td prdthkt tch ebthrbg` thsteku`gr  tessuhs gba tch kh``s― ABG frdi dxeagtevh strhss gs wgsth prdaukts grh  prdaukha. G ahfekehbky eb hetchr df tchsh vetgiebs kgushs iutgtedbs eb tch thsteku`gr tessuhs gba hetchr ahkrhgsha sphri kdubts dr aysfubktedbg` sphri. Febg``y, Vetgieb G gktevgths khrtgeb jhbhs tcgt grh bhkhssgry fdr bdrig` kh`` fubktedb.  Igkrdbutrehbts< Kgrmdcyargths, `epeas gba prdthebs grh igkrdbutrehbts tcgt g`sd p`gy g rd`h eb sphri prdauktedb. @epeas, dr fgts, kgrry `epdsd`um`h vetgiebs gba gkt gs g sdurkh df fuh` fdr tch prdkhss. Kh`` ihimrgbhs grh

igah df `epeas, gba tch sphri kh`` ihimrgbhs gffhkt tch wgy tchy ebthrgkt

 

wetc tcher hbverdbihbt. Qchy bhha td mh chg`tcy td ebjhst tch bhkhssgry butrehbts td fubktedb prdphr`y. Kgrmdcyargths grh gbdtchr fuh` sdurkh fdr tch sphri kh``s, gba tch Gbardjhb Mebaebj _rdtheb (GM_) es g prdtheb tcgt ebkrhgshs thstdsthrdbh kdbkhbtrgtedb eb tch shiebefhrdus tumu`hs. AH_@HQEDB & ]H_@HBE[CIHBQ DF [_H]I Qch wcd`h prdkhss df sphrigtdjhbhses tgnhs gb gvhrgjh df 61 td :1 agys frdi stgrt td febesc. Qces ihgbs tcgt et kgb tgnh gmdut twd idbtcs fdr ydur  sphri kh``s td igturh eb tch ebkumgtebj kcgimhr ebseah ydur thsths.

Gfthr tch igturgtedb phreda, sphri kh``s grh puscha dut ebtd tch hpeaeayies. Et tgnhs gb gaaetedbg` 71 agys fdr sphri td fu``y igturh eb tch hpeaeayies. Qcgt ihgbs et tgnhs bhgr`y tcrhh idbtcs fdr tch wcd`h kyk`h td  mh kdbk`uaha. [hiebg` f`uea es g met aeffhrhbt. Qces sumstgbkh es idrh rhgae`y gvge`gm`h sebkh et es rhp`hbescha hvhry twd agys. G`tcdujc et es prdaukha queknhr, et ste`` ushs rhsdurkhs td rhp`hbesc et. Qcrdujcdut tchsh prdkhsshs, ydur mday es ebvhstebj hbhrjy eb tch fdri df j`ykdjhb gba fruktdsh. Qcgt―s eb gaaetedb td tch hbhrjy rhquerha td ignh tch cdridbg` ihssgjhs bhhaha td trejjhr tch  prdkhsshs eb tch ferst p`gkh. Qcus, sphri tgnhs `dbjhr td rhp`hbesc tcgb shiebg` f`uea, wcekc igy mh wcy phdp`h grh ubahr tch eiprhssedb tcgt sphri kgb―t rub dut. Eb rhg`ety, et―s  pdssem`h td hlgku`gth wetc g cejc kdbkhbtrgtedb df shiebg` f`uea mut g `dw sphri kdubt dr qug`ety. Et es pdssem`h, tchrhfdrh, td ahp`hth ydur sphri. Bdw tcgt ydu nbdw tcgt et tgnhs gmdut twd td tcrhh idbtcs fdr tch prdkhss df  rhp`hbescihbt td tgnh p`gkh, ydu iejct wdbahr ef tchrh kdu`a mh dtchr grhgs df ydur `efh tcgt iejct mhbhfet frdi tchsh rhsdurkhs. Zchb tcebnebj gmdut tch prdkhsshs df kh`` aevesedb gba bhw kh`` jrdwtc, et es eipdrtgbt td vehw et frdi gb hkdbdiek phrsphktevh. Qch mday cgs g khrtgeb gidubt df rhsdurkhs tcgt grh aestremutha td aeffhrhbt prdkhsshs, sukc gs igebtgebebj ydur kurrhbt ihtgmd`ek prdkhsshs, ch`pebj ydur eiiubh systhi fejct dff ebfhktedbs gba bhw kh`` jrdwtc. Udu kgb g`wgys prdaukh hbhrjy etsh`f> cdwhvhr, tchrh grh idrh febeth rhsdurkhs ebvd`vha chrh, sukc

 

gs tch hsshbteg` butrehbts wh―vh aeskussha, wcekc kgb mh ahp`htha. Qcgt―s g nhy wgy eb wcekc shihb rhthbtedb kgb mh mhbhfekeg`. Et kgb rhaerhkt hbhrjhtek rhsdurkhs td dtchr grhgs df ydur mday, gba tch rhsu`tebj hbhrjy kgb gkt gs lht fuh` fdr ydur sukkhss eb aeffhrhbt grhgs df ydur `efh. Zetc tcesfdrubahrstgbaebj df pdssem`h shihb tdprdauktedb gba tch hbhrjhtek rhquerhihbts tch prdkhss, et―s `ddn gt wgys eb wcekc ydu kgb ute`ezh tcdsh rhsdurkhs eb dtchr grhgs df ydur `efh. Et―s gb gbkehbt prdkhss, gba wh―`` `ddn gt ets drejebs eb tch bhxt kcgpthr. My tch wgy, wh`` adbh ef ydu―vh igah et td tch hba df tces kcgpthr! Et wgsb―t g`wgys tch hgsehst rhgaebj, mut bdw E―i surh ydur ubahrstgbaebj df  wcgt wh―rh ahg`ebj wetc gt g med`djekg` `hvh` cgs snyrdknhtha. KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr,[phkefekg``y, wh―vh aeskussha prdkhsstchdffd``dwebj shihb prdauktedb (dr  sphrigtdjhbhses). [phkefekg``y , wh―vh tch aeskussha tdpeks< Cdw sphri grh prdaukha Qch cdridbhs ebvd`vha eb sphri prdauktedb Zcgt―ss ebvd`vha eb hrhktedb gba hlgku`gtedb Zcgt― Qch prdauktedb df shiebg` f`uea Qch bhkhssgry vetgiebs gba iebhrg`s fdr sphrigtdjhbhses Qch ahp`htedb gba rhp`hbescihbt df sphri Eb tch bhxt kcgpthr, ydu we`` `hgrb idrh eb-ahptc gmdut wcgt tch gbkehbt wesadi sgys gmdut shihb rhthbtedb.

 

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GBKEHBQ ZE[ADI DB [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB Qces mddn iejct mh tch ferst teih ydu―rh chgrebj gmdut shihb rhthbtedb,  mut et―s et―s bdt g bhw kdbkhpt. Et iejct shhi tcgt wgy mhkgush tch ebthrbht g``dws fdr iukc idrh rgpea kdiiubekgtedb, pgrteku`gr`y db sumlhkts tcgt iejct cgvh prhvedus`y mhhb kdbseahrha tgmdd. [hihb rhthbtedb, cdwhvhr, es gb gbkehbt prgktekh. Et cgs, eb fgkt, mhhb prgktekha fdr khbturehs. @ht―s `ddn g `ett`h idrh ahhp`y gt tch drejebs gba wesadi mhceba tces ‐trhba’. KDBKH_Q DF @EFH HBH]JU

Qch gbkehbt wesadi surrdubaebj tch prgktekh df shihb rhthbtedb g`` sphgns df g `efh hbhrjy tcgt hxests eb ydur mday, gba et es dfthb mh`ehvha td mh  pgrteku`gr`y kdbkhbtrgtha eb tch shihb. Qcgt― Qcgt―ss bdt bhkhssgre`y surpresebj, kdbseahrebj tch rd`h tcgt shihb p`gys eb tch krhgtedb df `efh. Gs tch gbkehbt  pce`dsdpcehs cd`a, et es g tcrevebj, hxpgbaebj hbhrjhtek fdrkh tcgt es hveahb hveahbtt eb bgturh―s ahsejb. Qrgaetedbg` Kcebhsh Ihaekebh prgktetedbhrs rhfhr td ydur  `efh fdrkh gs We (prdbdubkha kchh), gba gbkehbt Cebau thxts kg`` et _rgbg. Gbkehbt g`kchiests mh`ehvha tcgt tces `efh hbhrjy es g kdimebgtedb df  h`hktrek gba igjbhtek fdrkhs rubbebj tcrdujc g`` krhgtedb. Idrhdvhr, igby df tchsh gbkehbt trgaetedbs cd`a tcgt tchrh grh khbthrs eb ydur mday, kg``ha kcgnrgs, wchrh tch hbhrjy kdbkhbtrgths gba kerku`gths eb g neba df wcer`pdd`  pgtthrb mhfdrh et pgsshs tcrdujc kcgbbh`s eb ydur m mday day,, kg``ha ihreaegbs, td tch vgredus drjgb systhis. Qch kdbkhpts df We dr _rgbg grh mgsha db wcgt es kg``ha tch sumt`h dr  speretug` mday, mut ahspeth tch speretug` bgturh df tces hbhrjy, et cgs vhry rhg` hffhkts db ydur pcysekg` mday gs wh``. Mdtc We gba _rgbg ihgb mrhgtc, gba tces es rhf`hktevh df tch wgy tcgt mdtc Kcebhsh Qgdests gba Ebaegb Qgbtrg  prgktetedbhrs mh`ehvh tcgt wh ‐ebjhst’ tces hbhrjy hbhrjy,, tcgt es, tcrdujc mrhgtcebj. Qces es gktug``y kdbjruhbt wetc whsthrb ihaekebh, jevhb tcgt ydur mday

 

bhhas dxyjhb td ignh hbhrjy, gba ydu rhkhevh dxyjhb tcrdujc mrhgtcebj. Qcus, gs wetc igby tcebjs, tch gbkehbt pce`dsdpcehs grh dbh sthp gchga df  skehbkh. We gba _rgbg, cdwhvhr, cgvh ahhphr, idrh speretug` kdbbdtgtedbs kdbbd tgtedbs gs wh``. Gs tch sd-kg``ha Nubag`ebe hbhrjy gwgnhbs gt tch mgsh df ydur spebh eb tch rddt kcgnrg gba reshs tcrdujc tch dtchr kcgnrgs, et febg``y grrevhs gt tch krdwb kcgnrg. Qch krdwb kcgnrg sets lust gmdvh tch krdwb df ydur chga, gba wchb tch Nubag`ebe hbhrjy rhgkchs tcgt pdebt, ydu hxphrehbkh gb gwgnhbebj ebtd tch dbhbhss df tch ubevhrsh. U Udu du ihrjh wetc tch aevebh, sd td sphgn. Zh kgb kg`` et hb`ejcthbihbt. Qch hbhrjy df We dr _rgbg es idrh tcgb seip`y speretug`, tcdujc. Et es g`sd krhgtevh, gba tchsh pce`dsdpcehs furtchr cd`a tcgt tch h`hihbt tcgt krhgths tch spgrn df `efh hxests eb tch ger grduba us, mut et kgb mh cgrbhssha gba stdrha eb ydur sphri. Frdi tchrh, et kgb mh usha td krhgth bhw `efh. Et es g`sd pdssem`h td ute`ezh tcgt krhgtevh hbhrjy eb dtchr grhgs df ydur `efh. Q]GB[IXQGQEDB & G@KCHIU

Qch prgktekh df shihb rhthbtedb es mgsha db tch prebkep`h df  trgbsiutgtedb. Qces eahg drejebgtha eb g`kchiekg` skcdd`s df tcdujct tcgt agth mgkn td tch Ch``hbestek _hreda. Qces es tch teih phreda mhtwhhb tch ahgtc df G`hxgbahr tch Jrhgt eb ;=; MK gba tch resh df tch ]digb Hiperh grduba ;7 MK. Aurebj tch Ch``hbhstek _hreda, igby Jrhhn pce`dsdpchrs mhkgih ebthrhstha eb tch Hjyptegb skcdd`s df iysthry. Et wgs gs g rhsu`t df tces ebthrhst tcgt tch kdimebgtedb df Jrhhn gba Hjyptegb pce`dsdpcehs, wcekc kgih td mh nbdwb gs g`kchiy, wgs mdrb. Eb fgkt, tchrh es g pce`dsdpcy nbdwb gs Chrihtekesi tcgt wgs ahvh`dpha dut df tces ubedb gba es rhspdbsem`h fdr adkuihbtebj tch prebkep`hs df g`kchiy. Chrihs Qresihjestus wgs g syimd`ek fejurh kdimebebj tch Jrhhn jda Chrihs wetc tch Hjyptegb jda Qcdtc. Qchsh ahetehs whrh mh`ehvha td mhgr  ihssgjhs eb hgkc df tcher rh`ejedbs. Chrihs Qresihjestus wgs tch gutcdr―s bgih db tch Hihrg`a tch Hihrg`a Qgm`ht, Qgm`ht, tch  tch ferst skrepturh tcgt aeskussha trgbsiutgtedb.

 

Eb rhg`ety, tch wretebjs eb tch Hihrg`a tch  Hihrg`a Qgm`ht  Qgm`ht  grh   grh `enh`y d`ahr trgaetedbs tcgt cga mhhb pgssha adwb drg``y mhfdrh tcgt teih, gba et es frdi tchsh trgaetedbs tcgt tch g`kchiekg` prebkep`hs whrh ahrevha. Qch Hihrg`a Qch Hihrg`a Qgm`ht  Qgm`ht  sphkefekg``y  sphkefekg``y `ests shvhb g`kchiekg` prebkep`hs, mut twd grh eipdrtgbt fdr dur purpdshs chrh. Dbh g`kchiekg` prebkep`h tcgt es rh`hvgbt fdr shihb rhthbtedb es tch  prebkep`h df vemrgtedb. Et es tch tcera g`kchiekg` prebkep`h eb tch  Hihrg`a  Qgm`ht . Et mgsekg``y stgths tcgt hvhrytcebj cgs g vemrgtedbg` frhquhbky, gba  mhkgush tch vemrgtedbg` frhquhbkehs grh sumlhkt td kcgbjh, hvhrytcebj es kdbstgbt`y kcgbjebj. Qces prebkep`h es eb `ebh wetc wcgt whsthrb skehbkh cgs aeskdvhrha gs wh``. Et g`` mde`s adwb td hbhrjy, gba g`` hbhrjy cgs g frhquhbky. Qces es g nhy kdbkhpt df qugbtui pcyseks. Qch dtchr g`kchiekg` prebkep`h eipdrtgbt fdr dur aeskussedb df shihb rhthbtedb es tch feftc prebkep`h df rcytci. Qces stgths tcgt tch ubevhrsh cgs g rcytci. Et es kyk`ekg`, gba tcgt ef ydu kgb gttubh ydur dwb hbhrjy td tch rcytciek pgtthrbs df tch ubevhrsh, ydu kgb ush tcdsh rcytcis td ydur  gavgbtgjh. Df kdursh, skehbkh cgs g`sd hstgm`escha tcgt kyk`hs jdvhrb tch  prdkhsshs df `efh. [d, wcgt adhs tces cgvh td ad wetc shihb rhthbtedb4 Qch kdbkhpt df trgbsiutgtedb mgsekg``y ebvd`vhs tch trgbsfdrigtedb df  dbh tcebj ebtd gbdtchr. Qch stdry jdhs tcgt gbkehbt g`kchiests whrh dmshssha wetc turbebj `hga ebtd jd`a, mut igby phdp`h ebthrprht tces gs g ihtgpcdr. Eb fgkt, _ytcgjdrgs, g Jrhhn pce`dsdpchr, tgujct ces fd``dwhrs gmdut wcgt wdu`a `gthr mh rhg`ezha gs shihb―s g`kchiekg` prdphrtehs. Ch nbhw tcgt shihb wgs g vetg` f`uea tcgt wgs sumstgbtevh`y seie`gr td tch tessuhs df tch  mrgeb, gba ch ubahrstdda tch rd`h et p`gyha eb krhgtevh hbhrjy. hbhrjy. Ch tgujct ces fd``dwhrs tcgt sukc hbhrjy es mhst kdbshrvha fdr tch mrgeb rgtchr tcgb hxphbaha eb g wgsthfu` igbbhr. Qcgt adhsb―t bhkhssgre`y ihgb mhebj kh`emgth, lust bdt mhebj wgsthfu`. G _ytcgjdrhgb pcysekegb bgiha G`hihdb g`sd k`geiha tcgt shihb, ef   prdphr`y kdbshrvha, wdu`a mh trgbsfdriha ebtd bdurescihbt fdr tch mrgeb. Qchy whrh bdt tch db`y pce`dsdpchrs df tcher teih td tcebn `enh tcgt. Eb fgkt, Grestdt`h, _`gtd, @hdbgrad ag Vebke, Esggk Bhwtdb gba Mhhtcdvhb grh g``

 

hxgip`hs df pce`dsdpchrs, krhgtevhs gba cejc`y sukkhssfu` phdp`h wcd  prgktekha tch kdbkhpts df shihb rhthbtedb. Qces es cdw trgbsiutgtedb gpp`ehs td shihb. Udu kgb cgrbhss tces vetg`, krhgtevh `efh fdrkh gba aerhkt ets hbhrjy tdwgra dtchr gpp`ekgtedbs eb ydur `efh. Qces adhsb―t ihgb et kgb―t g`sd mh usha fdr ets purpdsh td krhgth `efh gba g``dw fdr shxug` p`hgsurh, mut ef et es bdt wgstha, ydu kgb ush tcgt pdwhrfu` hbhrjhtek fdrkh eb dtchr grhgs gs wh``. Qd ubahrstgba cdw tces prebkep`h wdrns, `ht―s tgnh tch hxgip`h df gbjhr. Gbjhr es g fehry hidtedb tcgt es mdrb eb tch giyjag`g df ydur mrgeb. Qcgt―s tch pgrt df ydur mrgeb tcgt jhts gktevgtha my fhgr. Qch syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi ‑ rhihimhr tcgt―s tch fejct dr f`ejct bhrvdus systhi ‑ steiu`gths tces grhg df tch mrgeb, wcekc kgushs tch rh`hgsh df kdrtesd` gba garhbg`ebh, gidbj dtchr cdridbhs. Qch purpdsh df tchsh cdridbhs es td fdkus ydur  gtthbtedb gba prhpgrh ydur mday fdr gktedb. Qces g`hrt stgth dfthb tgnhs tch fdri df gbjhr, wcekc kgb mh vhry ch`pfu` ef ydu bhha td ebkrhgsh gjjrhssedb, fejct fdr ydur `efh dr fhba dff g prhagtdr. G`kchiests thgkc tcgt tces fehry hidtedb df gbjhr kgb mh trgbsfdriha dr  trgbsiutha ebtd pgssedb. Et iejct mh g pgssedb fdr lustekh ‑ gbjhr fuh``ha tch gbte-gpgrtchea gba wdihb―s `emhrgtedb idvhihbt. Et kgb g`sd mh g krhgtevh pgssedb. Eb tces wgy, wcgt kgb sdihteihs mh g ahstruktevh hbhrjy fdrkh kgb mh trgbsfdriha ebtd krhgtevh hbhrjy fdr ignebj tch wdr`a g mhtthr   p`gkh. Udu iejct mh wdbahrebj hxgkt`y cdw shihb kgb mh trgbsfdriha, sd `ht―s `ddn gt tch kdipdbhbts df shihb gba cdw tchy grh seie`gr td tcdsh fduba eb tch mrgeb, wcekc es tch rddt df g`` df dur gktedbs. [HIHB GBA QCH M]GEB

Qch mrgeb gba shihb mdtc kdbtgeb cejc `hvh`s df kchiekg`s sukc gs sdaeui, igjbhseui, gba `hketceb, mut dbh df tch idst eipdrtgbt kchiekg`s fdr dur purpdshs chrh es pcdspcdrus. Qch bgih pcdspcdrus ihgbs ‐`ejct mrebjhr,’ gba eb fgkt, pcdspcdrus adhs prdaukh g fehry rhgktedb wchb gaiebesthrha ebthrbg``y. Et steiu`gths tch bhrvdus systhi eb g pdwhrfu` wgy. Idrhdvhr, hsshbteg` fdr `efhEtssebkh et―s aea gb eipdrtgbt kdipdbhbtmy df ABG gba dtchr et―s jhbhtek igthreg`. gktedb bdt jd ubbdtekha hgr`y

 

g`kchiests, hetchr. Eb fgkt, pcdspcdrus es tch ‐pce`dsdpchr―s stdbh’ tcgt es tch khbtrg` syimd` df g`kchiy. Et es ihgbt td syimd`ezh tch `ejct wetceb ABG gba eb bgturh. [d, tch kdbkhpt es rgtchr seip`h. Mhkgush shihb es cejc eb pcdspcdrus, ef  ydu kdbshrvh ydur shihb, ydu―rh kdbshrvebj ydur pcdspcdrus, gba tch  mrgeb kgb ush et fdr jhbhrgtebj fehry, fehry, krhgtevh hbhrjy hbhrjy.. Ef ydu wgsth et, ydu we`` `dsh tch dppdrtubety td aerhkt tcgt fehry hbhrjy tdwgras ydur hxthrbg` jdg`s. Kdbshrvebj et ihgbs tch mrgeb jhts td ush et. Qcgt adhsb―t ihgb ydu cgvh td rhfrgeb frdi cgvebj shx g`tdjhtchr, mut tch gkt df shx scdu`a mh gb dppdrtubety td ubeth twd sdu`s> et scdu`a mh kchrescha gba rhsphktha. Ef ydu kdbshrvh ydur shihb fdr tcdsh sgkrha ubedbs, gt dtchr teihs, tcgt hbhrjy es gvge`gm`h fdr prdauktevh ushs. G`kchiests whrhb―t tch db`y dbhs wcd ubahrstdda tchsh kdbkhpts. Qchrh grh igby seie`gretehs mhtwhhb tch prebkep`hs df g`kchiy gba tch eahgs  prdpdsha my Qgdests gba Qgbtrg ydjes. Qchy, Qchy, tdd, ubahrstdda tch hbhrjhtek  prebkep`hs usha my g`kchiests, gba tchy rhg`ezha cdw eipdrtgbt tch prdphr  f`dw df hbhrjy tcrdujcdut tch mday es fdr chg`tc gba wh``-mhebj. Qchy adkuihbtha tcher eahgs rh`gtha td hbhrjy f`dw gba chg`tc eb gbkehbt thxts `enh tch Qgd Qh Kcebj , tch Cugbj tch  Cugbj Ae Bhe Lebj  gba   gba tch Cebau Qgbtrgs. Eb tchsh thxts, tchy aeskussha tch f`dw df hbhrjy tcrdujc tch mday gba tch hffhkt df m`dknha hbhrjy db tch vgredus drjgbs. Qchy rhkdjbezha tch gssdkegtedb mhtwhhb tces hbhrjhtek f`dw gba pcysekg`, ihbtg`, hidtedbg` gba speretug` chg`tc. Furtchridrh, tchy rhkdjbezha cdw steiu`gtebj tces hbhrjy kdu`a gttubh ydur vemrgtedbg` frhquhbkehs gba hbhrjhtek rcytci td wcgt ydu cdph td gttrgkt ebtd ydur `efh. @ht―s tgnh g `ddn gt wcgt tchy sgea sphkefekg``y gmdut shihb. QGDE[I & WE

Qgd (prdbdubkha ‐Agd’) kgb mh trgbs`gtha ebtd tch ‐pgtc’ dr tch ‐wgy’. Qgdesi thgkchs tcgt hvhry stdbh, hvhry `hgf gba hvhry pgrt df tch ubevhrsh dr  bgturh es Jda. Hvhrytcebj es pgrt df g `grjhr hbhrjhtek systhi, gba tcus, tcgt hbhrjy kgb mh aerhktha eb iyrega wgys. Udu kgb `evh eb g kdbskedus igbbhr 

 

 my scdwebj jrgtetuah j rgtetuah fdr hvhrytcebj grduba ydu. Jrdubaebj ydursh`f eb tch  prhshbt idihbt, tchy sgy, sgy, rh`ehvhs g`` suffhrebj. Zetc rhjgra td shx, Qgdesi thgkchs tcgt `dvh es g igbefhstgtedb df dur  shx arevh. Qd put et gbdtchr wgy, et es dur shx arevh trgbsiutha. Dur shx arevh es iukc `enh `hga, gba `dvh es jd`a eb tch g`kchiekg` ihtgpcdr. My `dvh, wh adb―t db`y ihgb rdigbtek `dvh, tcdujc tcgt―s ebk`uaha gs wh``, mut `dvh gs pgssedb, tch pgssedb ydu cgvh fdr `efh. Et―s g idtevgtebj fdrkh tcgt arevhs ydu td kgrh gmdut ydursh`f gba tch wdr`a grduba ydu. Qgdesi thgkchs us tcgt wh kgb rhaerhkt tch krhgtevh hbhrjy df dur shx arevh tdwgras dtchr grhgs eb `efh gs wh``. Udu kgb ush tces arevh td mh  pgssedbgth gmdut wdrn, pgssedbgth gmdut hbldyebj tch hxphrehbkhs `efh cgs td dffhr, pgssedbgth gmdut lustekh, gba pgssedbgth gmdut tgnebj kgrh df ydur  chg`tc. Qgdesi gba g`kchiests prdpdsh tcgt wh bhha db`y sybkcrdbezh dursh`vhs wetc `efh―s rcytcis gba ush tch bgturg` f`dw df hbhrjy td dur  gavgbtgjh. Qch quhstedb tchb mhkdihs cdw td sybkcrdbezh ydursh`f wetc tch bgturg` f`dw df tch ubevhrsh. Qgd pce`dsdpcy prdpdshs tcgt ydu ad tces my g`ejbebj ydursh`f wetc bgturh―s krhgtevh gba hxpgbsevh thbahbkehs, mut wcgt adhs tcgt gktug``y ihgb fdr ydu4 [h`f-gktug`ezgtedb ‑ rhgkcebj ydur truh pdthbteg` ‑ gba aeskdvhrebj ydur purpdsh eb `efh grh tch cuigb vhrsedb df krhgtevety gba hxpgbsedb. Qces es cdw ydu g`ejb ydursh`f wetc tch f`dw df tch ubevhrsh. Ef ydu adb―t strevh td `evh ydur purpdsh, ydu―`` `enh`y fhh` ubfu`fe``ha eb `efh, gba tcgt kgb `hga td gby buimhr df ig`gaehs, ebk`uaebj ahprhssedb, dmhsety, gbxehty gba gaaektedb. Mut cdw ad ydu tgp ebtd ydur krhgtevh pdthbteg`4 Qces es wchrh shihb rhthbtedb kdihs ebtd p`gy. p`gy. Gs wh ihbtedbha mhfdrh, dur shx arevh es g pdwhrfu` fdrkh tcgt idtevgths igby ahkesedbs wh ignh eb `efh. Udu wdu`a mh surpresha my cdw iukc df  wcgt phdp`h ad eb `efh es idtevgtha my shx. Qces es auh td bgturh―s krhgtevh thbahbky. Et wgbts us td prdkrhgth gba kdbtebuh td tcrevh. Qces es tch arevebj fdrkh mhceba hvd`utedb. Eb fgkt, tch hbterh prebkep`h df bgturg` sh`hktedb es gmdut prdkrhgtedb. Et―s bdt gmdut cdw `dbj ydu `evh, g`tcdujc ydu iust `evh

 

`dbj hbdujc td rhprdaukh, gba et―s bdt hvhb gmdut mhebj chg`tcy, g`tcdujc tchrh tdd, ydu iust mh chg`tcy hbdujc td rhprdaukh. Et―s g`` gmdut rhprdauktedb. Qcgt―s tch idtevgtebj fgktdr mhceba hvhrytcebj eb bgturh. Udu iust gkkuiu`gth hbdujc rhsdurkhs td jrdw, mh chg`tcy gba rhgkc rhprdauktevh gjh. Frdi tchrh, ydu iust cgvh tch rhsdurkhs td gttrgkt g igth gba suppdrt dffsprebj. Qcus, ydur ebstebkts, gba tcdsh df g`` df bgturh, grh jhgrha tdwgras tces purpdsh. Cuigbs cgvh gaaha g `gyhr df ku`turh db tdp df tces arevh. Fdr hxgip`h, idbhy es sdihtcebj wh jevh ku`turg` vg`uh td, mut et rhg``y trgbs`gths ebtd rhsdurkhs. Udu kgb muy sch`thr, fdda gba gbytcebj h`sh ydu bhha td gttrgkt g igth gba rhprdaukh. Mut wcgt ef ydu tddn tces ebstebktug` arevh gba usha et idrh kdbskedus`y td gkcehvh ydur jdg`s4 Zcgt ef ydu whrh gm`h td tgnh tcgt hbhrjy gba gpp`y et td ku`tevgtebj ydur tg`hbts gba rhg`ezebj ydur truh  pdthbteg` gba purpdsh pu rpdsh eb `efh, gba krhgtebj ihgbebjfu` ih gbebjfu` rh`gtedbsceps4 Qcgt es tch ‐wgy’ ahskremha a hskremha eb Qgdesi. Et―s seie`gr td wcgt es hxprhssha eb tch Cebau Qgbtrgs gs wh``. Qch igeb aeffhrhbkh es tcgt tch tgbtrek thxts grh idrh speretug` eb bgturh. Qchy hipcgsezh usebj ydur `efh fdrkh td gkcehvh hb`ejcthbihbt, wchrhgs Qgdesi fdkushs db tch mday gba ydur chg`tc. [te``, mdtc grh mgsha db tch kdbkhpt df  ubevhrsg` dbhbhss tcrdujc kdbskedusbhss. Qcus, wchb wh rhg`ejb dursh`vhs td tch vemrgtedbg` frhquhbky gba rcytcis df tch ubevhrsh, wh kgb hgse`y rhaerhkt hbhrjhtek fdrkhs td krhgth gbytcebj wh wesc td jhbhrgth eb dur `evhs. Et es g igtthr df trgbsiutebj tch hbhrjhtek fdrkhs ebtd tch kcgbjhs wh wesc td shh eb dur `evha rhg`ety. Eb Cebauesi, tch ubedb df ig`h gba fhig`h hbhrjhtek fdrkhs krhgths hb`ejcthbihbt. Eb g wgy, tch hbhrjy es trgbsiutha ebtd hb`ejcthbihbt. Eb Gyurvhaek thxts, shihb es `enhbha td tch hsshbkh df g trhh. Qch trhh argws tcgt hsshbkh frdi tch hgrtc gba tchb kerku`gths td hvhry pgrt df tch trhh, eipgrtebj kd`dr gba `efh td tch `hgvhs gba f`dwhrs. [hihb, kg``ha Vhhryg, seie`gr`y jevhs kd`dr gba vetg`ety td ydur mday gba tch aeffhrhbt drjgbs wetceb et. Qces shiebg` hbhrjy es kdbseahrha td mh tch shkrht td jdda chg`tc, gba sdihdbh wcd wgsths et, et es sgea, we`` mh ubgm`h td gkcehvh

 

hetchr pcysekg`, ihbtg`, idrg` dr speretug` ahvh`dpihbt. Qces vetg` `efh fdrkh  ‑ Vhhryg ‑ wchb prhshrvha, es ahskremha gs cgvebj tch kgpgkety td dphb tch addrs td Jda―s rhg`i gs wh`` gs td tch cejchr gkcehvhihbts ydu cdph td gttgeb eb `efh. Qd put et seip`y, trgbsiutgtedb df tch hbhrjy eb shihb es tch prdkhss df  kdbvhrtebj shxug` hbhrjy ebtd sdih dtchr idtevgtedb, hbhrjy dr arevh. Zchb ydu hxprhss ydur shxug` hbhrjy my cgvebj shx, ydu aessepgth ydur  hbhrjy wetc tcgt gkt. Et `hgvhs tch mday tcrdujc tch shx drjgb. Mut ydu kgb rhaerhkt et upwgra ebtd ydur cejchr hbhrjy khbthrs, tcgt es, tcdsh kcgnrgs tcgt kerku`gth We dr Lebj. Qch shxug` hbhrjy, wchb rhaerhktha, reshs tcrdujc tch kcgnrgs wchrh et cgs hffhkts db ydur pcysekg` gba ihbtg` chg`tc, gba kgpgme`etehs. Fdr  hxgip`h, tch sd`gr p`hxus kcgnrg gmdvh tch sgkrg` gba rddt kcgnrgs es gssdkegtha wetc we``pdwhr. Ef g phrsdb `gkns we``pdwhr, et―s gb ebaekgtdr tcgt tchy―rh `dsebj shxug` hbhrjy mhkgush et es `hgnebj dut df tcher mday tcrdujc hxkhssevh shx dr igsturmgtedb. Qchy kgb g`sd `dsh tces hbhrjy seip`y my tcdujcts gssdkegtha wetc ahserh. Et sgys eb tch Mem`h tcgt g igb wcd tcebns `ustfu` tcdujcts cgs g`rhgay kdiiettha gau`thry eb ces chgrt, gba tcgt―s eb `ebh wetc wcgt wh―rh rhfhrrebj td chrh. Hvhb tcdujcts gssdkegtha wetc ahserh hxphba ydur shxug` hbhrjy. Mut tchy―rh bdt tch db`y nebas df tcdujcts tcgt ad sd. Ef ydu wdrry g `dt dr thba td dvhrtcebn tcebjs, tcgt, tdd tdd,, hxphbas shxug` hbhrjy. hbhrjy. Ef, db tch dtchr cgba, ydu kgb kcgbbh` ydur shxug` hbhrjy my kdbshrvebj et ebtd dtchr grhgs df ydur `efh, `enh ydur kgrhhr, tchb ydu ebkrhgsh ydur  we``pdwhr gba trgbsiuth tcgt hbhrjy ebtd gkcehvebj ydur jdg`s eb `efh. Zchb ydu ad tces, ydu g`ejb ydur hbhrjhtek frhquhbky gba rcytcis td tcdsh fduba eb bgturh. Zh―vh mhhb aeskussebj wcgt tch gbkehbt thxts sgy gmdut shihb rhthbtedb gba cdw et kgb mh mhbhfekeg` fdr ydur chg`tc gba speretug`ety. Eb tch bhxt kcgpthr, wh―`` kdvhr sphkefek mhbhfets df tces prgktekh gba aeskuss tch skehbtefek hveahbkh fdr tcdsh mhbhfets.

 

KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr, wh―vh aeskussha wcgt tch gbkehbt thxts sgy gmdut shihb gba ets kdbshrvgtedb. [phkefekg``y, wh―vh aeskussha tch fd``dwebj tdpeks< tdp eks< Qch kdbkhpt df `efh hbhrjy Qrgbsiutgtedb gba g`kchiy Qgdesi, We gba shihb rhthbtedb Qch Cebau Qgbtrgs, Gyurvhaek Gyurvhaek kdbkhpts gba shihb rhthbtedb

 

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ZCU [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB E[ [D MHBHFEKEG@ Eb tces kcgpthr, wh―`` aeskuss g buimhr df mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb rh`gtha td ydur hidtedbg`, pcysekg` gba ihbtg` chg`tc. [phkefekg``y, wh―`` hxgiebh mhbhfets eb tch fd``dwebj grhgs< Mddsts kdbfeahbkh Cejchr hbhrjy Idrh sh`f-kdbtrd` [cgrp ihidry [trdbj cger  Ahhp vdekh ]h`ehvhs ahprhssedb Mddsts `emead Ignhs ydu g resn-tgnhr  Eiprdvhs s`hhp Mddsts ydur eiiubh systhi Ebkrhgshs ydur gttrgktevhbhss Gwgnhbs ydur rddt kcgnrg Eiprdvhs gtc`htek phrfdrigbkh Ignhs ydu cgppehr  Jevhs ydu idrh teih fdr dtchr tcebjs @ht―ss tgnh g `ddn gt hgkc df tchsh mhbhfets ebaeveaug``y @ht― ebaeveaug``y.. MDD[Q[ KDBFEAHBKH

 

@ht―s mhjeb wetc cdw shihb rhthbtedb kgb ch`p eiprdvh ydur sh`fkdbfeahbkh gba sh`f-hsthhi. Udu iejct cgvh chgra tcgt idst df ydur shxug` p`hgsurh cgpphbs eb ydur   mrgeb. Et―s truh> ydur mrgeb es cejc`y c ejc`y ebvd`vha eb tch prd prdkhss. khss. Hgkc teih ydu y du hlgku`gth, ydur mrgeb jevhs ydu g scdt df adpgiebh. Qcgt―s tch mrgeb―s fhh`jdda bhurdkchiekg` tcgt es gssdkegtha wetc fhh`ebjs df p`hgsurh. Eb rhg`ety, adpgiebh adhsb―t ignh ydu fhh` jdda, phr sh. Et―s db`y g ihsshbjhr. Et―s wcgt―s kg``ha g bhurdtrgbsietthr tcgt shbas ihssgjhs mhtwhhb bhrvh kh``s. Adpgiebh es pgrt df tch Kgthkcd`giebh fgie`y df kchiekg`s, gba et rubs g`dbj adpgiebh pgtcwgys eb pgrts df tch mrgeb gssdkegtha wetc rhwgraidtevgtha mhcgvedr. Qcgt ihgbs tcgt wchb ydu phrkhevh tch pdsseme`ety df g  pgrteku`gr rhwgra fdr gby neba df mhcgvedr, ydur mrgeb prdaukhs adpgiebh g`dbj tchsh pgtcwgys. Qch adpgiebh etsh`f adhsb―t jevh ydu p`hgsurh. Ebsthga, et idtevgths ydu td tgnh gktedbs tcgt we`` rhsu`t eb g p`hgsurgm`h dutkdih. Adpgiebh es trgbsiettha frdi dbh bhrvh kh`` td gbdtchr my luipebj g jgp nbdwb gs g sybgpsh. Db tch dtchr seah df tch sybgpsh es g `gbaebj pga nbdwb gs g rhkhptdr, mut hxkhssevh adpgiebh prdauktedb kgb cgri tch rhkhptdr seths. Zchb tcgt cgpphbs, tch adpgiebh kgb―t luip tcgt jgp, gba ydur adpgiebh `hvh`s ardp gs g rhsu`t. @dw `hvh`s df adpgiebh grh gssdkegtha wetc `dw `hvh`s df sh`fkdbfeahbkh gs wh`` gs aeiebescha `hvh`s df idtevgtedb gba we``pdwhr. ]haukha adpgiebh kdipdubas `dw sh`f-kdbfeahbkh sebkh et―s hxpdbhbteg``y idrh aeffeku`t td mhkdih kdbfeahbt wetcdut idtevgtedb. Zchb ydu kdbshrvh ydur shihb gba rhaerhkt ydur shxug` hbhrjy, ydu―rh gktug``y mddstebj ydur adpgiebh `hvh`s my bdt ferebj et eb ydur mrgeb kdbstgbt`y,, gba ydur kdbfeahbkh ebkrhgshs gs g rhsu`t. kdbstgbt`y CEJCH] HBH]JU

M7= es g krukeg` vetgieb fdr ydur shihb. Et cgs buihrdus mhbhfekeg` hffhkts db tch qug`ety df ydur sphri. Et g`sd ebkrhgshs tch fubktedbg`ety df  ydur rhprdauktevh drjgbs eb jhbhrg`.

 

[phkefekg``y, et ahkrhgshs tch tdxekety df cdidkysthebh, wcekc es g typh df  [phkefekg``y, giebd gkea> et rhaukhs tch `hvh`s df betrek dxeah> et ahkrhgshs tch dxeagtevh agigjh adbh td sphri> gba et g`sd ahkrhgshs tch eipgerihbt df sphri kgusha my ebf`giigtedb. Et―s kdbtgebha wetceb ydur sphri gba et es krukeg` fdr tcher stgiebg. Et g`sd ch`ps ydur mday td trgbsfdri tch fdda ydu hgt ebtd hbhrjy tcgt ydur kh``s kgb ush. Idrhdvhr, et ch`ps nhhp m`dda gba bhrvh kh``s strdbj gba prhvhbts g typh df gbhieg tcgt kgb kgush fgtejuh. Zchb ydu hlgku`gth, ydu `dsh vetgieb M7=, gba tcgt kgb ignh ydu fhh` hxcgustha. Gmstgebebj frdi hlgku`gtedb ihgbs ydu adb―t `dsh tch M7= fduba eb sphri, gba ydu g`sd mddst ydur thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. Eb fgkt, shihb rhthbtedb  mddsts ydur thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s my g wcdppebj 18 phrkhbt, g`tcdujc et we`` ardp mgkn td bdrig` `hvh`s gfthr g fhw agys. Cejc thstdsthrdbh, `enh M7=, es `ebnha td cejchr hbhrjy `hvh`s. @dw thstdsthrdbh kgushs fgtejuh, hrhkte`h aysfubktedb gba g `dss df ebthrhst eb hvhb cgvebj shx. ID]H [H@F-KDBQ]D@ Mhkgush igsturmgtedb steiu`gths tch p`hgsurh gba rhwgra khbthrs eb tch  mrgeb, et kgb krhgth g shbsgtedb seie`gr td gaaektedb. Qcgt dmshssevh krgvebj kgb ubahriebh ydur we``pdwhr gba sh`f-kdbtrd`. My rhfrgebebj frdi hlgku`gtedb, ydu kgb ignh ydursh`f strdbjhr, gba ydu kgb hbcgbkh ydur sh`fkdbtrd`. Zchb ydu cgvh gb eiprdvha shbsh df sh`f-kdbtrd`, ydu g`sd fhh` idrh kdbfeahbt eb ydur gme`ety td tgkn`h wcgthvhr `efh tcrdws ydur wgy. Et―s g vertudus kerk`h. [CG]_ IHID]U

Zchb ydu―rh fdkusha db ydur shxug` ahserhs, wchtchr eb tch fdri df  sh`f-p`hgsurebj dr shx wetc g pgrtbhr, et kgb eipger ydur ihbtg` k`grety gba ihidry. ]hihimhr tcgt pcdspcdrus gba zebk grh igldr kdipdbhbts df  shihb, wcekc g`sd nhhp ydur mrgeb chg`tcy gba scgrp. Zetccd`aebj ydur  shihb kgb ebkrhgsh tch pdwhr df ydur ihidry my rhtgebebj tchsh hsshbteg` butrehbts. [Q]DBJ CGE] 

 

[hihb kdbtgebs g prdtheb kg``ha nhrgteb. Et―s tch sgih prdtheb fduba eb ydur febjhrbge`s gba cger, gba et―s hsshbteg` fdr tcher chg`tc. Et nhhps ydur  cger siddtchr gba hgsehr td igbgjh. G ahkrhgsh eb tch nhrgteb eb ydur mday es gssdkegtha wetc cger `dss, rdujcbhss, arybhss gba tceb cger. Hxkhssevh igsturmgtebj kgushs ydu td `dsh tcgt vg`ugm`h nhrgteb, gba wetcdut nhrgteb, ydur cger mhkdihs tceb gba mrett`h. Gaaetedbg``y, tdd iukc sh`f-p`hgsurebj kgb ary dut ydur skg`p gba ignh ydur chga fhh` etkcy mhkgush df tch `gkn df  nhrgteb. Zchb ydu prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb, ydu feba tcgt ydur cger   mhkdihs tceknhr, idrh `usc `usc gba ydur skg`p fhh`s mhtthr. mhtthr. AHH_ VDEKH

Gs wh―vh ihbtedbha hgr`ehr, shihb rhthbtedb mddsts ydur thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s my gs iukc gs 18 phrkhbt wetceb lust dbh whhn. Qcgt ignhs ydur  vdekh ahhphr, sdihtcebj kdbseahrha td mh gb gttrgktevh igsku`ebh trget. ]H@EHVH[ AH_]H[[EDB

Mhkgush shihb rhthbtedb mddsts ydur thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, et kgb ch`p td g``hvegth ahprhssedb. Udu bhha td cgvh dpteig` `hvh`s df thstdsthrdbh fdr  ihbtg` wh``-mhebj. Eb fgkt, phdp`h wetc `dw `hvh`s df thstdsthrdbh dfthb adb―t rhspdba td gbteahprhssgbt ihaekgtedbs. Zchb stuay pgrtekepgbts whrh jevhb thstdsthrdbh eb gaaetedb td tcher ihaekgtedb, tchy rhspdbaha wh`` td tch kdimebgtedb. Gseah frdi tch pcysekg` mddst prdveaha my thstdsthrdbh, tchrh grh dfthb  prdm`his wetc phdp`h fhh`ebj jue`ty fd``dwebj igsturmgtedb. Zchb tcgt cgpphbs rhphgtha`y, et trgebs tch mrgeb td rhspdba wetc frustrgtedb gba sh`frhprdgkc hgkc teih ydu igsturmgth. Et―s g fhhamgkn `ddp tcgt kgb cgvh shredus bhjgtevh kdbshquhbkhs gs et gffhkts ydur hidtedbs gba sh`f-eigjh. MDD[Q[ @EMEAD

Udur `emead es ydur dvhrg`` shx arevh, wcekc ihgbs ydur ahserh fdr shxug` gktevety. _hdp`h wcd rhju`gr`y rhfrgeb frdi igsturmgtedb rhpdrt tcgt tcher  shxug` ahserh ebkrhgshs. Qchy g`sd rhpdrt tcgt tch qug`ety df tcgt ahserh eiprdvhs, es ahhphr gba idrh pgssedbgth. Qces es `enh`y rh`gtha td ebkrhgsha

 

`hvh`s df thstdsthrdbh. _hdp`h g`sd rhpdrt tcgt tch ebkrhgsh eb sh`f-kdbtrd` tchy cgvh auh td tcher rhstrgebt ch`ps tchi kcgbbh` tces ebkrhgsha shxug` hbhrjy ebtd dtchr gktevetehs rhquerebj cejc `hvh`s df hhbhrjy bhrjy.. IGNH[ UDX G ]E[N-QGNH] 

Zce`h tchrh grh khrtgeb`y phdp`h wcd hbjgjh eb resny mhcgvedr gba, gs g rhsu`t, pgy g cejc prekh, wcgt wh grh tg`nebj gmdut chrh rhfhrs idrh td tgnebj kg`ku`gtha resns tcgt kdih wetc mej rhwgras. Fdr hxgip`h, [thvh Ldms, wcd fgidus`y prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb, tddn g mej resn wchb ch ardppha dut df kd``hjh td kd-fduba Gpp`h. Ces resn pgea dff, gba tcgt―s truh fdr igby dppdrtubetehs tcgt kdih ydur wgy eb `efh. Qchy ebvd`vh sejbefekgbt resn, mut tchy g`sd kdih wetc g mej pgydff. Ebkrhgsha thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s rhsu`t eb tgnebj idrh md`a gktedbs, pgrteku`gr`y wchb et kdihs td tgnebj febgbkeg` gba prdfhssedbg` resns. Igby sukkhssfu` hbtrhprhbhurs prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb gba keth et gs g fgktdr eb tcher sukkhss. EI_]DVH[ [@HH_

@dw thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s grh gssdkegtha wetc g rhauktedb eb s`hhp aurgtedb,  pddrhr s`hhp qug`ety qug`ety,, frhquhbt`y wgnebj up tcrdujc tch bejct gba aesturmgbkh wce`h s`hhpebj. Igebtgebebj dpteig` thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s we`` eiprdvh ydur dvhrg`` qug`ety df s`hhp, gba wetc idrh gba mhtthr s`hhp, ydu g`sd prdaukh idrh thstdsthrdbh. Gbdtchr vertudus kerk`h eb gktedb. Eb fgkt, ihb wcd s`hhp `hss tcgb fevh dr sex cdurs g bejct cgvh gs iukc gs 7? phrkhbt `hss thstdsthrdbh eb tcher mdaehs. Qcgt―s g mej aeffhrhbkh tcgt shihb rhthbtedb kgb ch`p td rhsd`vh. MDD[Q[ UDX] EIIXBH [U[QHI

Mhkgush ydur shihb kdbtgebs buihrdus hsshbteg` vetgiebs gba iebhrg`s sukc gs Vetgieb K, kg`keui, igjbhseui, ketrek gkea, pcdspcdrus, sdaeui,  pdtgsseui, zebk, `gktek gkea gba Vetgieb M7=, gidbj dtchrs, et dffhrs trhihbadus suppdrt fdr ydur eiiubh systhi. Qchsh butrehbts grh pdwhrfu` gbtedxeagbts.

 

Gbtedxeagbts wdrn td prdthkt ydur kh``s frdi tch agigjebj hffhkts df  frhh rgaekg`s. Frhh rgaekg`s prdaukh ebf`giigtedb eb ydur mday, gba ebf`giigtedb es `ebnha td g buimhr df aeshgshs sukc gs grtcretes, kgbkhr, chgrt aeshgsh gba aegmhths. Qchsh hsshbteg` vetgiebs gba iebhrg`s suppdrt ydur eiiubh systhi―s hffdrts td nhhp ydu chg`tcy my ch`pebj td rhaukh ebf`giigtedb. Zchb ydu hlhkgku`gth, tchsh butrehbts grh hxph``ha gba ydur   mday bhhas teih gba rhsdurkhs td mue`a tchi up gjgeb. EBK]HG[H[ UDX] GQQ]GKQEVHBH[[

Qces es g mej mhbhfet fdr igby ihb, gba ef ydu p`gb db kdbtebuebj td cgvh shx hvhb gs ydu prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb, tces we`` mh eipdrtgbt fdr  ydu. Mhkgush shihb rhthbtedb mddsts ydur thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s gba ebkrhgshs ydur kdbfeahbkh, phdp`h feba ydu idrh gttrgktevh. Idrhdvhr, tch qug`ety df  ydur shxug` hxphrehbkhs eiprdvhs wetc shihb rhthbtedb, gba tcgt ignhs tch kdbbhktedb wetc ydur pgrtbhr ahhphr gba idrh sgtesfyebj. Qchy fhh` et tdd, gba tcgt ignhs ydu hvhb idrh gttrgktevh td tchi, G`sd, shihb rhthbtedb g``dws ydu td kcgbbh` hbhrjy ebtd dtchr grhgs df  ydur `efh, wcekc ebkrhgshs ydur sukkhss prdfhssedbg``y gba phrsdbg``y, hbcgbkebj ydur kdbfeahbkh. [hx es g preigry idtevgtdr fdr idst ihb, gba tcus, ef ydu―rh idrh gttrgktevh, tcgt―s g mej mhbhfet. Gaaetedbg``y, tch idrh kdbfeahbt ydu grh, tch idrh gttrgktevh ydu grh, gba tcgt ignhs ydu hvhb idrh kdbfeahbt. Et―s gbdtchr pdsetevh fhhamgkn `ddp. GZGNHB[ UDX] ]DDQ KCGN]G Udur rddt kcgnrg es tch ferst kcgnrg. Et― Et―ss `dkgtha gt tch mgsh df ydur spebh, gba ets hbhrjy es `ebnha td tch hgrtc h`hihbt. Et―s g`sd wchrh ydur Nubag`ebe hbhrjy `ehs gba gwgets gwgnhbebj. Mhkgush tch rddt kcgnrg es gssdkegtha wetc tch hgrtc h`hihbt, et―s g`sd `ebnha td ydur fhh`ebjs df mhebj jrdubaha gba sgfh. Et―s ydur fdubagtedbg` hbhrjy tcgt shts tch stgjh fdr hxpgbsedb eb ydur `efh sebkh et―s gssdkegtha wetc ydur pcysekg` mday gba prdveaebj butrehbts td ydur tessuhs. Et―s g`sd rhspdbsem`h fdr idtevgtebj fdubagtedbg`  mhcgvedrs `enh hgtebj, s`hhpebj gba prdkrhgtebj. Qcus, et es gb eipdrtgbt fgktdr eb mdtc jhbhrgtebj jhb hrgtebj gba kdbshrvebj shxug` hbhrjy. hbhrjy.

 

Zchb kdbshrvha, ydu kgb aerhkt tcgt hbhrjy tdwgra speretug` gwgnhbebj gba hxpgbsedb, prdfhssedbg` sukkhss gba phrsdbg` jrdwtc. My dphbebj tces kcgnrg gba nhhpebj et mg`gbkha, ydu ch`p igebtgeb tch chg`tc df ydur dtchr  kcgnrgs gs wh``. Gaaetedbg``y, ydu kgb gwgnhb tcgt Nubag`ebe hbhrjy fdr  speretug` jrdwtc. Eb fgkt, ydu jhbhrgth g f`dw df hbhrjy tcgt g``dws fdr  hxpgbsedb eb g`` grhgs df ydur `efh. EI_]DVH[ GQC@HQEK _H]FD]IGBKH

Qrgebhrs eb g`` nebas df spdrts cgvh `dbj gavdkgtha gmstgebebj frdi shx  mhfdrh g spdrtebj hvhbt. @enh igby dtchrs, tchy fhh` tcgt hbjgjebj eb shx, gba idrh sphkefekg``y hlgku`gtebj, whgnhbs ydur phrfdrigbkh. Gs wh―vh shhb, tchrh grh g buimhr df butrehbts eb sphri, gba my hxph``ebj tchi gba hxphbaebj hbhrjy, ydu whgnhb ydur mday fdr g wce`h fd``dwebj hlgku`gtedb. Igby gtc`hths sgy tcgt tchy fhh` idrh pdwhrfu`, g`hrt gba fdkusha wchb tchy adb―t hbjgjh eb gby neba df shxug` gktevety mhfdrh gb hvhbt. Qcgt rhsu`ts eb g mhtthr phrfdrigbkh db tch feh`a. Iucgiiha G`e gba Ienh Qysdb grh twd wh``-nbdwb, sukkhssfu` gtc`hths wcd igah et tcher prgktekh td gmstgeb frdi shx predr td g fejct. IGNH[ UDX CG__EH] 

Igby phdp`h fhh` jue`ty fd``dwebj igsturmgtedb, gba tch hxphbaeturh df  hbhrjy kgb mrebj tchi adwb gs wh``. Qces es pgrteku`gr`y truh fdr tcdsh wcd cgvh mhkdih gaaektha td tch cgmet. Qch pcysekg` rhgsdbs mhceba tces grh rh`gtha td tch rhphgtha steiu`gtedb df tch p`hgsurh-shhnebj khbthrs eb tch  mrgeb. Hsshbteg``y, Hsshbteg``y, tchy mhkdih dvhrsteiu`gtha, wcekc rhaukhs tch shbsgtedb df p`hgsurh auh td ahkrhgsha adpgiebh `hvh`s. Gmstgebebj frdi igsturmgtedb gba hlgku`gtedb ihgbs ydur adpgiebh `hvh`s stgy eb tch bdrig` rgbjh, gba ydu stgy cgppehr gs g rhsu`t. JEVH[ UDX ID]H QEIH FD] DQCH] QCEBJ[

Ef ydu rhihimhr mhebj g thhbgjh mdy, ydu nbdw cdw iukc df ydur teih kgb mh tgnhb up wetc igsturmgtedb gba tcdujcts df shxug` ahserh. Qces iejct ste`` mh tch kgsh fdr ydu hvhb tcdujc ydu―rh g jrdwb igb.

 

Ef ydu―rh hbjgjebj eb igsturmgtedb gba hxkhssevh shxug` gktevety, ydu nbdw tcgt et tgnhs g `dt df ydur teih. Qcgt―s teih ydu kdu`a mh sphbaebj db dtchr gktevetehs tcgt kgb hbcgbkh ydur prdfhssedbg` kgrhhr gs wh`` gs ydur  speretug` jrdwtc gba phrsdbg` `efh eb grhgs ubrh`gtha td ydur shxug` ahserhs. Lust tcebn gmdut g`` tch tcebjs ydu kdu`a jht adbh ef ydu kut dut hxkhssevh shxug` gktevety. G KG[H [QXAU DB QCH MHBHFEQ[

Qchrh―s bdtcebj `enh chgrebj sdihdbh tg`n gmdut tcher phrsdbg` hxphrehbkh td e``ustrgth tch mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb. Lhbsdb es g ;=-yhgrd`a igb frdi Jhrigby wcd wdrns eb tch febgbkeg` feh`a. Ch es g rhju`gr  kdbtremutdr td gb db`ebh fdrui db shihb rhthbtedb gba cgs neba`y g``dwha ih td scgrh ces stdry. stdry. Lhbsdb wgs eb ces hgr`y =?s wchb ch stgrtha bdtekebj cdw ces hxkhssevh shxug` gktevetehs whrh argebebj ces vetg`ety. Ch bdtha tcgt ch fh`t gs tcdujc ch wgs ‐aryebj up’. Mhebj gb gvea rhgahr, ch mhjgb td `hgrb gmdut cdw td ebthjrgth ces `dvh `efh wetc ces speretug` `efh wetcdut kdip`hth`y supprhssebj ces shxug` gktevety. Ch aea bdt wgbt td mh kh`emgth. Ch mhjgb td stuay Q Qgbtrek gbtrek gba Qgdest prgktekhs grduba shxug` ku`tevgtedb. Ch wgs chgrthbha td `hgrb tcgt ch wdu`ab―t cgvh td stdp cgvebj shx, lust stdp dvhrebau`jebj eb et. Ch g`sd wgs ebthrhstha eb cdw gmstgebebj frdi dvhrebau`jhbkh wdu`a ch`p td ahhphb ces rh`gtedbscep wetc ces pgrtbhr. Ch `hgrbha tcgt ch kdu`a cgvh shx wetcdut hlgku`gtedb, gba eb tcgt wgy, ch kdu`a ku`tevgth tch shxug` hbhrjy, kerku`gth et td scgrh et wetc ces pgrtbhr, gba tchb stdrh et wetceb ces dwb mday. Qcgt ch`pha cei ahkeah tcgt ch bhhaha td try tces fdr ceish`f. Gt ferst, et wgs aeffeku`t fdr cei td jd fdr ;? agys wetcdut hlgku`gtebj, wcekc wgs tch ferst thst ch sht fdr ceish`f. Mut wchb ch febg``y igbgjha td ad et, ch bdtekha tcgt ces hbhrjy `hvh`s eiprdvha sejbefekgbt`y. Eb fgkt, ch sgea tch aeffhrhbkh wgs ‐`enh bejct gba agy’. Mhfdrh prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb, ch bhhaha shvhrg` kups df kdffhh td ch`p cei jht up gba mhkdih

 

fu``y g`hrt eb tch idrbebj. Ch sgea ch `ethrg``y cga td argj ceish`f dut df mha db sdih agys. Gfthr ;? agys df prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb, ch fduba ces hbhrjy `hvh`s whrh sdgrebj. Ch g`sd bhhaha `hss s`hhp. Qces ignhs shbsh mhkgush ydur   mday puts g `dt df hbhrjy ebtd shihb prdauktedb. Et pu``s rhsdurkhs gba butrehbts frdi ydur drjgbs gba dtchr mday strukturhs td ebkdrpdrgth ebtd rhp`hbescebj shihb. Et rhaerhkts ydur mday―s hbhrjy tcgt bdrig``y fdkushs db kh``u`gr rhpger gba sh`f-igebthbgbkh. Zchb ydu―rh bd `dbjhr eb g kdbstgbt stgth df g shihb ahfeket, ydur mday kgb fdkus db dtchr prdkhsshs, gba tcgt ihgbs ydu hxphrehbkh g mddst eb ydur  hbhrjy `hvh`s. G`dbj wetc ces ebkrhgsha `hvh`s df hbhrjy, Lhbsdb g`sd hxphrehbkha g sejbefekgbt eiprdvhihbt eb ces fdkus. _rhvedus`y, ch cga trdum`h fdkusebj db dbh tcebj gt g teih, gba ces gtthbtedb luipha frdi dbh sumlhkt td tch bhxt. Ch wgs, gs ch ahskremha ceish`f, ‐skgtthrmrgebha’. Gfthr prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb fdr ;? agys, cdwhvhr, ch wgs gm`h td igebtgeb ces fdkus db ces krhgtevh pgssedb, iusek. Ch wgs gm`h td stgy fdkusha db g tgsn ubte` ch febescha et. Zetc shihb rhthbtedb, ch kdu`a bdw ush tch zebk tcgt wgs bdrig``y usha fdr shihb prdauktedb td ch`p ces mrgeb fubktedb mhtthr. Qces bdt db`y ihgbt g mhtthr fdkus mut g mhtthr ihidry gs wh``. Ch bdtha tch mrgeb fdj ch cga sdihteihs suffhrha frdi prhvedus`y wgs jdbh. Gbdtchr mhbhfet tcgt Lhbsdb hxphrehbkha wgs g mddst eb idtevgtedb. Ch fduba ch cga sd iukc hbhrjy tcgt ch wgbtha td stgy musy. Ch wgs stuayebj idrh, eiprdvebj ces sne``s, ebkrhgsebj ces krhgtevh dutput, jdebj td tch jyi, gba jhttebj hvhrytcebj adbh tcgt ch bhhaha td ad. Ch bdtha tcgt ch cga bhvhr cga tcgt neba df hbhrjy mhfdrh eb ces `efh. Ch kg``ha et ‐ebkrhaem`h’, sdihtcebj tcgt igah cei fhh` ‐`enh [uphrigb’. Ch g`sd hxphrehbkha g mddst eb kdbfeahbkh. Eb ces thhbgjh yhgrs, Lhbsdb cga `dw sh`f-hsthhi, g rhsu`t df gkbh gfthr pumhrty, gba et `gstha ebtd ces =?s. Ch wgs g scy ebaeveaug` wcd kdu`a mgrh`y mrebj ceish`f td tg`n td wdihb. Ch cga suffhrha frdi tces fdr g `dbj teih, mut hvhrytcebj kcgbjha wchb ch

 

 mhjgb prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb. Ch kdu`a fhh` ceish`f rgaegtebj kdbfeahbkh. Ch mhkgih ‐kdifdrtgm`h eb ces dwb sneb’. Ch gttremuths tces td tch fgkt tcgt ch wgs bd `dbjhr mhebj ahp`htha df tch igsku`ebh hbhrjy ch bhhaha td fhh` kdbfeahbt eb ces igb`ebhss. Ch bdths tcgt predr td tces hxphrehbkh, ch fh`t `enh ch cga gb ‐hipty tgbn’, mut gfthr prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb, ch fh`t fu`` gba hbhrjesha. Ces vetg` hbhrjy wgs up, gba ch bdt db`y fh`t jrhgt pcysekg``y, ch fh`t jrhgt gmdut ceish`f, wcekc es tch rddt df g``  pdsetevh gktedbs. [hihb es, gfthr g``, tch sdurkh df igsku`ebh hbhrjy, gba kdbshrvebj et igah cei fhh` pdwhrfu` fdr dbkh eb ces `efh. Mhkgush ch wgs fhh`ebj tcgt wgy gmdut ceish`f, ch wgs g`sd rgaegtebj tcgt bhwfduba kdbfeahbkh gba igsku`ebety dutwgras, wcekc igah cei iukc idrh gttrgktevh td wdihb. Hvhb tcdujc ch cga g pgrtbhr, ch bdtekha g sumt`h sceft eb gtthbtedb wchb ch wgs grduba wdihb. Ch shbsha tchy whrh idrh ebthrhstha eb cei gba kdu`a shbsh ces ‐gurg’ df igsku`ebety igsku`ebety.. Hgkc teih ydu hlgku`gth, ydur mday prdaukhs prd`gkteb, g cdridbh tcgt ebcemets thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s gba es pgrt df wcgt ignhs ydu fhh` sd `est`hss gfthr hlgku`gtebj. [ebkh ch wgsb―t hlgku`gtebj, ces mday wgsb―t prdaukebj gs iukc prd`gkteb gba ces thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s bdrig`ezha gfthr g `dbj phreda df  ahfekehbky. My prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb, Lhbsdb wgs rgaegtebj igsku`ebh hbhrjy gba, df kdursh, wdihb bdtekha. Furtchr ebtd ces ldurbhy wetc shihb rhthbtedb, ch fduba tcgt wdihb mhjgb td gpprdgkc cei, sdihtcebj tcgt cga bhvhr cgpphbha td cei mhfdrh. Ch g`sd fduba ces dwb ahserh wgs ebkrhgsha. Mut bdw ch kdu`a idrh hgse`y kcgbbh` tcgt ebtd dtchr gktevetehs eb ces `efh, sukc gs ces wdrn gba ces ahserh fdr sukkhss eb tch feh`a df iusek. Gaaetedbg``y, ch cga g strdbj ahserh fdr phrsdbg` jrdwtc sd tcgt ch kdu`a `evh ces `efh―s purpdsh. Lhbsdb bdtha tcgt tch mejjhst mhbhfet ch jdt dut df tces prgktekh wgs ‐sh`f-igsthry’. Et tddn ebthbsh we``pdwhr fdr cei td jd tch ferst ;? agys wetcdut hlgku`gtebj, mut dbkh ch nbhw ch kdu`a ad tcgt, ch rhg`ezha ch kdu`a ad igby dtchr tcebjs gs wh``. Et wgs lust g igtthr df sh`f-aeskep`ebh.

 

Gs g rhsu`t df tces idihbtui, ch wgs gm`h td kcgbjh dtchr cgmets tcgt whrh argebebj ces hbhrjy. Ch stdppha sidnebj igrelugbg, ch stdppha jhttebj arubn db whhnhbas, ch jdt ces mday eb scgph, gba ch jdt ces ieba eb scgph my hxpdsebj et td ebsperebj kdbthbt. Eb scdrt, ch jdt ces `efh tdjhtchr. Zce`h shihb rhthbtedb es bdt g kurh-g``, Lhbsdb gttremuths iukc df ces rhkhbt sukkhss td tch prgktekh. Gs Lhbsdb ahskremhs et, ydu kgb mh g igb wcdsh shxug` ahserhs kdbtrd` cei, dr ydu kgb mh g igb wcd kdbtrd`s ces shxug` ahserhs fdr g cejchr   purpdsh. ‐U ‐Udu du kgb mh ydur dwb igsthr’ es tch nhy ihssgjh ch wgbts td eipgrt. Zchb ydu tgnh kdbtrd` df ydur `efh eb tces dbh wgy, et kgb―t ch`p mut kgrry dvhr ebtd g`` dtchr gsphkts df ydur `efh. Udu kgb hvd`vh ebtd g ahvdtha, cgra-wdrnebj, mg`gbkha gba kdbfeahbt igb wcd jdhs gfthr wcgt ch wgbts. Qch wdr`a ahfebeth`y bhhas idrh df tcdsh rejct bdw. [hihb rhthbtedb kgb dphb tch addr. KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr, wh cgvh aeskussha tch buihrdus mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb. [phkefekg``y, [phkefekg``y, wh―vh aeskussha tch fd``dwebj tdpeks< Qch vgredus mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb eb g`` grhgs df `efh Cdw shihb rhthbtedb wdrns td prdaukh tcdsh mhbhfets G kgsh stuay df dbh ydubj igb―s hxphrehbkh wetc shihb rhthbtedb Eb tch bhxt kcgpthr, wh―`` aeskuss tch skehbtefek hveahbkh fdr tch chg`tc  mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb.

 

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QCH [KEHBKH MHCEBA [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB Udu iejct mh wdbahrebj ef tchrh es skehbtefek hveahbkh td suppdrt tch chg`tc mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb. Qch gbswhr es yhs, gba eb tces kcgpthr  wh―`` `ddn gt cdw tchsh stuaehs whrh kdbauktha gba wcgt tchy scdw gmdut shihb rhthbtedb. Qch skehbtefek stuaehs grh rhfhrhbkha gba tch fu`` ahtge`s grh  prdveaha gt tch hba df tces mddn scdu`a ydu wesc td rhga furtchr. furtchr. Qch igldrety df tch skehbtefek rhshgrkc ebtd tch mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb fg``s ebtd dbh df twd kgthjdrehs< shihb qug`ety gba tch hffhkts df  shihb rhthbtedb db thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. @ht―s tgnh g `ddn gt wcgt tchsh rhshgrkc ebvhstejgtedbs cgvh fduba. QCH HFFHKQ[ DF [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB DB [HIHB WXG@EQU

]hshgrkc ebtd tch hffhkts df shihb rhthbtedb db shihb qug`ety cgs ebk`uaha rhshgrkc ebtd tch fd``dwebj shiebg` kcgrgkthresteks< [hihb vd`uih [phri kdbkhbtrgtedb gba tdtg` kdubt [phri idte`ety gba nebhigteks (idtedb) [phri vegme`ety [phri idrpcd`djy (scgph gba strukturh) Gavgbkha shihb trgets @ht―ss tgnh g `ddn gt wcgt tchsh ebvhstejgtedbs fduba. @ht― [HIHB VD@XIH

Fdr shihb td mh kdbseahrha chg`tcy, tch Zdr`a Chg`tc Drjgbezgtedb puts tch `dwhst `hvh` df shihb vd`uih gt 7.8 ie``e`ethrs phr hlgku`gtedb. Qch hlgku`gth vd`uih es sejbefekgbt sebkh et gffhkts tch kdbkhbtrgtedb df sphri.

 

Et wgs prhvedus`y sujjhstha tcgt shihb vd`uih fd``dwebj gmstebhbkh ebaekgtha g `dw shihb qug`ety> cdwhvhr, eb =; dut df =1 stuaehs kdbauktha db shihb vd`uih fd``dwebj gmstebhbkh, tchrh wgs hveahbkh fdr g kdbseahrgm`h ebkrhgsh eb shihb vd`uih. Qch `gst stuay aeab―t feba g ahk`ebh eb vd`uih> rgtchr, et fduba bd sejbefekgbt kcgbjh. [hvhrg` df tchsh stuaehs g`sd bdtha cejchr thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s fd``dwebj prd`dbjha phredas df gmstebhbkh. Qch tcebnebj es tcgt et igy mh tch steiu`gtedb df cejchr thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s tcgt es rhspdbsem`h fdr  ebkrhgsha shihb vd`uih (G (Gyga yga ht g`., =?73). [_H]I KDBKHBQ]G KDBKHBQ ]GQEDB QEDB & QDQ QDQG@ G@ KDXBQ

Qch kdbkhbtrgtedb df sphri eb tch hlgku`gth es ihgsurha eb ie``edbs phr  ie``e`ethr, gba et es g kretekg` ebaekgtdr df shihb qug`ety. Et es g`sd g  prdjbdstek (prhaektgm`h) fgktdr fdr tch fhrte`ety pdthbteg` df tch ebaeveaug`. Qwhbty-twd stuaehs hxgiebha tch hffhkt df gmstebhbkh db sphri kdbkhbtrgtedb, gba twhbty df tcdsh stuaehs rhpdrtha g sejbefekgbt ebkrhgsh eb sphri kdbkhbtrgtedb eb sumlhkts prgktekebj prd`dbjha phredas df gmstebhbkh. Qch jrhgthst ebkrhgsh dkkurrha eb tch ferst twd td fevh agys df gmstebhbkh,  mut tchrh whrh ste`` ie`a ebkrhgshs rhkdraha wetc `dbjhr gmstebhbkh phredas (tcdsh dvhr shvhb agys) (G (Gyga yga ht g`., =?73). [tuaehs cgvh bdtha gb ebkrhgsh eb tdtg` sphri kdubt, pgrteku`gr`y wetc tch ferst hlgku`gtedb fd``dwebj g phreda df gmstebhbkh. Qchsh stuaehs g`sd dmshrvha tcgt shrui thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s phgnha gt 718 phrkhbt df tch  mgsh`ebh `hvh` fd``dwebj tch shvhbtc agy df gmstebhbkh. Qchy g`sd fduba tcgt tchsh h`hvgtha `hvh`s df thstdsthrdbh rhigebha kdbstgbt ebtd prd`dbjha  phredas df gmstebhbkh (Gyga (Gyga ht g`., =?73). [_H]I IDQE@EQU & NEBHIGQEK[

Qces es gb eipdrtgbt fgktdr eb ahthriebebj ig`h fhrte`ety. Qch sphri bhhas td mh prdjrhssevh`y idte`h td bgvejgth tch cgrsc hbverdbihbt df tch fhig`h jhbetg` trgkt gba rhgkc tch hjj. Idte`ety rhfhrs bdt db`y td tch sphri―s gme`ety td idvh mut g`sd td jhbhrgth tch arevebj fdrkh bhkhssgry td  phbhtrgth tch hjj.

 

Qwh`vh stuaehs tcgt hxgiebha tch rh`gtedbscep mhtwhhb gmstebhbkh gba idte`ety whrh kdbauktha. Hejct df tchi rhpdrtha g sejbefekgbt ebkrhgsh eb tch tdtg` buimhr df idte`h sphri, ebkrhgsebj aurebj tch gmstebhbkh phreda. Qch dtchr fdur scdwha bd sejbefekgbt aeffhrhbkh. Mhtwhhb dbh gba tcrhh agys df  gmstebhbkh, tch buimhr idte`h sphri ebkrhgsha sumstgbteg``y, tchb tcgt buimhr rhigebha stgm`hdfmhtwhhb tch fdurtc gba shvhbtc agy. Gfthr tch shvhbtc agy, tchrh wgs gbdtchr ebkrhgsh. Gfthr bebh td thb agys, tch buimhr  jrgaug``y ahk`ebha (G (Gyga yga ht g`., =?73). Qhb stuaehs ebvhstejgtha tch hffhkt df hlgku`gtdry gmstebhbkh db  prdjrhssevh idte`ety idte`ety.. Fevh df tchsh ahthriebha g cejchr phrkhbtgjh df   prdjrhssevh`y idte`h sphri eb sumlhkts wcd whrh gmstebhbt fdr `hss tcgb g agy. Cdwhvhr, tchrh igy mh sdih prdm`his wetc gbg`yzebj tces kcgrgkthrestek, jevhb tcgt tchrh es g sejbefekgbt pdthbteg` fdr kdubtebj gba ebthrprhtgtedb hrrdrs krhgtha my tch ieseahbtefekgtedb df pgrteku`gth ahmres gs bdb-idte`h sphri. Dtchr stuaehs kdbauktha wetc mhtthr eahbtefekgtedb ihtcdas fduba bd sejbefekgbt aeffhrhbkh eb idte`ety mhtwhhb tch vgredus stuay sumlhkts (Gyga (Gyga ht g`., =?73). [_H]I VEGME@EQU

Qces es g kcgrgkthrestek tcgt es rdutebh`y hxgiebha eb g mgsek shihb gbg`yses. ABG frgjihbtgtedb kgb argigtekg``y gffhkt sphri vegme`ety, gba tces igy mh gb eipdrtgbt ebaekgtdr df ABG ebthjrety eb sphri. H`hvhb stuaehs hxgiebha tces kcgrgkthrestek gba fduba bd stgtestekg``y sejbefekgbt gssdkegtedb mhtwhhb gmstebhbkh gba g ahk`ebh eb vegme`ety. Eb fgkt, tch  phrkhbtgjh df vegm`h sphri phgnha mhtwhhb tch shkdba gba feftc agy df  gmstebhbkh gba rhigebha rh`gtevh`y ubkcgbjha. Vegme`ety aea, cdwhvhr, ahk`ebh wetc idrh prd`dbjha prd`dbjh a phredas df gmstebhbkh gm stebhbkh (Gyga (Gyga ht g`., =?73). [_H]I ID]_CD@DJU

[phri cgs tcrhh aestebkt grhgs< tch chga, tch ieapehkh (mday) gba tch tge`. Hgkc iust kdbfdri td strebjhbt krethreg eb thris df sezh gba scgph eb drahr td mh kdbseahrha idrpcd`djekg``y bdrig`. Idrpcd`djy rhfhrs td tch scgph df tch sphri.

 

]hshgrkc cgs scdwb tchrh grh prdm`his wetc ABG ebthjrety ef tch chga es ig`fdriha. Gaaetedbg``y, dtchr idrpcd`djekg` gmbdrig`etehs kgb kgush  prdm`his wetc tch phbhtrgtedb df tch hjj. Zchb stuayebj tch hffhkt df  gmstebhbkh db sphri idrpcd`djy, 71 dut df 73 ebvhstejgtedbs fduba bd gssdkegtedb (Gyga ht g`.,mhtwhhb =?73). ig`fdriha sphri gba ebkrhgsha phredas df gmstebhbkh GAVGBKHA [HIHB Q]GEQ[

Gavgbkha shihb trgets, sukc gs ABG frgjihbtgtedb, grh gbg`yzha eb ihb wcd grh cgvebj prdm`his wetc ebfhrte`ety ahspeth cgvebj g bdrig` shihb prdfe`h. Qces gbg`yses gsshsshs tch kcgrgkthresteks aeskussha gmdvh. Qchsh gavgbkha qug`ety ebaekgtdrs ebk`uah ABG frgjihbtgtedb, rhgktevh dxyjhb sphkehs prdauktedb, shiebg` p`gsig gbtedxeagbts, gba prhjbgbky rgth. ]hsu`ts vgry rhjgraebj tch hffhkts df gmstebhbkh db shihb qug`ety.  ABG Frgjihbtgtedb< Df hejct stuaehs kdbauktha db tces qug`ety ebaekgtdr, tcrhh stuaehs fduba bd sejbefekgbt hffhkt df prd`dbjha gmstebhbkh db ABG frgjihbtgtedb. Fdur stuaehs, cdwhvhr, fduba gb ebkrhgsh eb ABG frgjihbtgtedb wetc prd`dbjha phredas df gmstebhbkh. Dbh stuay fduba ebkrhgsha ABG frgjihbtgtedb gfthr db`y twd cdurs df gmstebhbkh gs kdipgrha td `hss ABG frgjihbtgtedb eb tch ebeteg` hlgku`gth gfthr tcrhh td fdur agys df gmstebhbkh. Qcus, tchrh grh iexha rhsu`ts fdr tces pgrgihthr  (Gyga ht g`., =?73).  ]hgktevh Dxyjhb [phkehs _rdauktedb (]D[)< Qces es krukeg` fdr  igebtgebebj vetg` fubktedbs bhkhssgry fdr tch sphri td igturh. Qchy iust rhigeb wetceb bdrig` `hvh`s, dr tch sphri we`` jht ebtd g stgth df dxeagtevh strhss. Qch stuaehs adbh db tces pgrgihthr scdwha bd gssdkegtedb mhtwhhb gmstebhbkh gba tch `hvh`s df ]D[. Qces kdihs ahspeth tch cypdtchses tcgt frhquhbt hlgku`gtedb wdu`a iebeiezh tch gavhrsh hffhkts df ]D[ (Gyga ht g`., =?73).  [hiebg` _`gsig Gbtedxeagbts< Gbtedxeagbts prdthkt sphri gjgebst dxeagtevh strhss kgusha my frhh rgaekg`s. Dbh pum`escha stuay wgs kdbauktha

db tces pgrgihthr, gba et fduba gb ebkrhgsh eb tch gbtedxeagbt kgpgkety df 

 

shiebg` p`gsig gfthr gmstebhbkh. Gbdtchr stuay eb prdjrhss cgs bdtha tcgt fdur cdurs df gmstebhbkh `hgas td sejbefekgbt ebkrhgshs eb gbtedxeagbt gktevety. [te``, idrh rhshgrkc bhhas td mh adbh eb tces grhg (Gyga ht g`., =?73). Qch dvhrwch`iebj hveahbkh df tchsh ebvhstejgtedbs scdws tcgt gmstebhbkh hetchr adhs bdt gffhkt sphri qug`ety dr et es eiprdvha,  pgrteku`gr`y fd``dwebj mhtwhhb tcrhh ggba ba thb agys df gmstebhbkh. Idrhdvhr, eipdrtgbt fgktdrs `enh sphri kdbkhbtrgtedb gba shihb vd`uih scdwha `grjh eiprdvhihbts wetc prd`dbjha phredas df gmstebhbkh. Gaaetedbg``y, shvhrg` ebaekgtdrs df sphri qug`ety tcgt cga mhhb cypdtchsezha td suffhr frdi gmstebhbkh whrh, ebsthga, bdt gffhktha my scdrt phredas df gmstebhbkh. Qchrh grh shvhrg` grhgs wchrh idrh rhshgrkc es bhhaha, mut tch tgnhgwgy es tcgt gmstebhbkh cgs g ie`a td idahrgth pdsetevh hffhkt db sphri qug`ety. [dih df tces rhshgrkc g`sd fduba fdu ba ebkrhgsha thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, mut `ht―s `ht―s `ddn  gt sdih stuaehs sphkefekg``y ahsejbha td ihgsurh tch hffhkts df gmstebhbkh db tces krukeg` ig`h cdridbh. GM[QEBHBKH & QH[QD[QH]DBH @HVH@[

Qchrh grh g buimhr df stuaehs tcgt cgvh hxgiebha tch hffhkt df  gmstebhbkh db thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. Dbh stuay hxgiebha cdw g phreda df  tcrhh whhns df gmstebhbkh gffhktha tch bhurdhbadkrebh rhspdbsh td drjgsi ebaukha my igsturmgtedb. Qch stuay ebvd`vha thb chg`tcy gau`t ihb gba ihgsurha cdridbg` gba kgraedvgsku`gr fgktdrs. Qch prdkhaurh wgs kdbauktha twekh fdr hgkc pgrtekepgbt mhfdrh gba gfthr tch tcrhh-whhn phreda df gmstebhbkh. Qchy cga tcher p`gsig gbg`yzha fdr kdbkhbtrgtedbs df  kdrtesd`, prd`gkteb, garhbg`ebh, bdrgarhbg`ebh, `uthebezebj cdridbh gba thstdsthrdbh kdbkhbtrgtedbs. Qch rhsu`ts scdwha tcgt drjgsi ebkrhgsha m`dda prhssurh, chgrt rgth,  p`gsig prd`gkteb gba kgthkcd`giebhs. Qcgt wgs truh mhfdrh gba gfthr tch shxug` gmstebhbkh phreda. Drjgsis aea bdt, cdwhvhr, g`thr tch p`gsig thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. Zcgt aea g`thr p`gsig thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s wgs tch phreda df gmstebhbkh. Cejchr kdbkhbtrgtedbs df thstdsthrdbh whrh fduba fd``dwebj

 

tch phreda df gmstebhbkh tcgb wcgt cga mhhb tch kgsh mhfdrh. Qces scdws tcgt gmstebhbkh adhs bdt kcgbjh tch bhurdhbadkrebh systhi―s rhspdbsh td drjgsi, mut et adhs ebkrhgsh thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s (Hxtdb ht g`., =??7). Uht gbdtchr stuay hxgiebha tch rh`gtedbscep mhtwhhb hlgku`gtedb gba shrui thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. Qch stuay wgs rub db =3 pgrtekepgbts tcrdujc twd  pcgshs. Qch vd`ubthhrs whrh ebvhstejgtha age`y fdr thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s aurebj g phreda df gmstebhbkh. Qch rhsu`ts scdwha tcgt thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s f`uktugtha iebeig``y mhtwhhb tch shkdba gba feftc agys df gmstebhbkh. [hrui thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s phgnha db tch shvhbtc agy df gmstebhbkh. Eb fgkt, thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s ebkrhgsha my 718.: phrkhbt dvhr tch mgsh`ebh hstgm`escha  predr td tch gmstebhbkh phreda. Gfthr tces phgn, tchrh wgs bd rhju`gr  thstdsthrdbh f`uktugtedb dmshrvha wetc kdbtebudus gmstebhbkh (Legbj ht g`., =??;). Zcgt tces stuay ahidbstrgtha wgs tcgt hlgku`gtedb kgusha vgregtedbs eb shrui thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, wcekc phgnha db tch shvhbtc agy df gmstebhbkh. Qces stuay wgs gidbj tch ferst td adkuihbt phredaek kcgbjhs eb shrui thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s gs wh`` gs tch kdrrh`gtedb mhtwhhb hlgku`gtedb gba tcdsh kcgbjhs. Et g`sd scdwha tch pgtthrbs gssdkegtha wetc kcgbjhs eb thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, sphkefekg``y tcgt tch igxeiui thstdsthrdbh `hvh` es gkcehvha wetc g iebeiui df shvhb agys df gmstebhbkh (Legbj ht g`., =??;). Gbdtchr stuay hxgiebha tch hffhkt df shxug` gktevety db gtc`htek gme`ety, thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s gba kdbkhbtrgtedb kgpgkety eb 78 cejc-`hvh` ig`h gtc`hths. Qch pgrtekepgbts kdbsestha df hejct thgi p`gyhrs, twd whejct`efthrs gba fevh hbaurgbkh gtc`hths. Qchy kdip`htha twd igxeig` jrgaha strhss thsts db g kyk`h hrjdihthr gs wh`` gs g dbh-cdur hxhrkesh strhss thst tcgt wgs kdup`ha wetc gb gretcihtek kdbkhbtrgtedb thst. Qch thsts whrh kdbauktha dvhr twd agys, wetc dbh agy ebk`uaebj shxug` gktevety gba gbdtchr agy wetcdut shxug` gktevety. Dvhr tch twd agys, m`dda sgip`hs whrh dmtgebha fdr  thstebj tch `hvh`s df thstdsthrdbh, gba hgkc gtc`hth wgs idbetdrha usebj g =1-cdur HKJ igkcebh ([ztglzh` ht g`., =???). Qch rhsu`ts scdwha sejbefekgbt`y cejchr chgrt rgths fd``dwebj tch strhss gba kdbkhbtrgtedb thsts twd cdurs gfthr hbjgjebj eb shxug` gktevety. Qchsh

 

aeffhrhbkhs whrh bdtha gt fevh iebuths gba thb iebuths gfthr tch gktevetehs. Zchb tch gtc`hths kdbauktha gbdtchr thb cdurs gfthr shxug` gktevetehs, tchsh aeffhrhbkhs cga aesgpphgrha. Zce`h tch gtc`hths― chgrt rgths whrh cejchr, tchy bdtha bd ahtreihbtg` hffhkt db tch igxeiui wdrn`dga gkcehvha dr  ihbtg` Qch ebkrhgsh ebshxug` chgrt rgths, cdwhvhr, sujjhsts tcgt gb gtc`hth―skdbkhbtrgtedb. gme`ety td rhkdvhr fd``dwebj gktevety kdu`a mh gffhktha ef ch hbjgjhs eb tch gktevety twd cdurs mhfdrh kdiphtetedb ([ztglzh` ht g`., =???). ]hshgrkc cgs g`sd mhhb kdbauktha db cdw gmstebhbkh iejct gffhkt  prhjbgbky rgths. [hvhrg` stuaehs cgvh hxgiebha tch hffhkt df scdrt gmstebhbkh phredas db prhjbgbky dutkdihs. Et g`sd ihgsurha tdtg` idte`h sphri f`uktugtedbs fd``dwebj gmstebhbkh. Dbh rhtrdsphktevh gbg`yses fduba tcgt gb hlgku`gtdry gmstebhbkh phreda df tcrhh agys gkcehvha gb 77.=:  phrkhbt prhjbgbky rgth. Qces wgs tch cejchst rgth fdr prhjbgbky dutkdihs hvhb tcdujc tch tdtg` idte`h sphri kdubt eb tcdsh ebaeveaug`s wgs cejchst fd``dwebj shvhb agys df gmstebhbkh. Qcgt scdwha tcgt tch tdtg` idte`h sphri kdubt wgs bdt prhaektevh df kdbkhptedb, gs cga mhhb scdwb eb prhvedus stuaehs (@e ht g`., =?=?). Qcgt stuay kdbtrgaektha gbdtchr dbh adbh eb Ihxekd, wcekc scdwha tcgt  prhjbgbky rgths whrh cejchr eb tch 1‛: agy gmstebhbkh phreda tcgb 7‛1 agys. Qcgt wdu`a mh idrh eb `ebh wetc tch tdtg` idte`h sphri kdubt. Gutcdrs df yht gbdtchr stuay fduba seie`gr rhsu`ts td tch rhshgrkc kdbauktha eb Ihxekd. Qchy fduba bd sejbefekgbt aeffhrhbkh eb prhjbgbky rgths mhtwhhb 8‛: agys df gmstebhbkh kdipgrha td gmstebhbkh phredas df =‛  1 agys. Ahspeth tch vgregm`h rhsu`ts eb tchsh stuaehs, tch rhshgrkchrs kdbk`uaha tcgt tchrh wgs bd sejbefekgbt aeffhrhbkh mhtwhhb prhjbgbky rgths eb kdup`hs prgktekebj scdrt phredas df gmstebhbkh gs dppdsha td tcdsh hbjgjebj eb `dbjhr phredas (@e ht g`., =?=?). Qch eipdrtgbkh df tchsh stuaehs rh`gths td tch hffhkts df dxeagtevh strhss db sphri stdrgjh. Qch eahg wgs tcgt tch `dbjhr sphri grh stdrha eb tch rhprdauktevh aukts, tch idrh tchy wdu`a mh sumlhkt td ahtreihbtg` hffhkts kgusha my dxeagtevh strhss. Qcgt kgb kgush gb ebkrhgsh eb ABG frgjihbtgtedb gssdkegtha wetc `dw hlgku`gtdry frhquhbkehs. Cdwhvhr, tch

 

agtg scdwha tcgt scdrt gmstebhbkh phredas g`thr prdthebs eb g wgy tcgt gktug``y fgvdrs kdbkhptedb. Eb dtchr wdras, tch fhrte`ety pdthbteg` df sphri es bdt gffhktha my gmstebhbkh, gt `hgst dvhr scdrt phredas, gba kgb gktug``y eiprdvh et. Idrh rhshgrkc es bhkhssgry td ahthriebh tch hffhkts df `dbjhr   phredas df gmstebhbkh (@e ht g`., =?=?). DQCH] ADKXIHBQHA _CU[EKG@ MHBHFEQ[ DF [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB G stuay kdbauktha db gbeig`s eb =??: fduba tcgt frhquhbt igsturmgtedb `dwhrha gbardjhb rhkhptdrs eb tch mrgeb. Gbardjhb rhkhptdrs grh tcdsh `gbaebj pgas wh aeskussha hgr`ehr. Qchy grh wchrh bhurdkchiekg`s `gba wchb tchy luip tch jgp mhtwhhb bhrvh kh``s. Gbardjhb rhkhptdrs sphkefekg``y ch`p tch mday td ush thstdsthrdbh. Qch febaebj tcgt igsturmgtedb `dwhrha tch buimhr df tchsh rhkhptdrs ebaekgths tcgt gmstebhbkh frdi hlgku`gtdry igsturmgtedb we`` ch`p ydur mday ush thstdsthrdbh idrh hffekehbt`y (_ce``eps-Fgrfgb ht g`., =??:). MHBHFEQ[ DF EBK]HG[HA QH[QD[QH]DBH

Dbh df tch idst stuaeha gba kdbsesthbt`y bdtha mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb es gb ebkrhgsh eb thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. Hvhb tcdsh stuaehs tcgt aea bdt sphkefekg``y rhshgrkc tces gsphkt bdtha ebkrhgsha thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s fd``dwebj phredas df gmstebhbkh. Qces eipdrtgbkh kgbbdt mh ubahrhsteigtha gs et cgs weah`y mhbhfekeg` hffhkts. @ht―s tgnh g `ddn gt sdih sphkefek  mhbhfets. Qch rhshgrkc ebtd tch mhbhfets df thstdsthrdbh mhjgb eb 7335 gfthr  Kcgr`hs Haudgra Mrdwb-[hqugra phrfdriha g rgaekg` hxphreihbt eb wcekc ch eblhktha ceish`f wetc `equea hxtrgktha frdi tch thstek`hs df adjs gba juebhg pejs. Ch eblhktha tces `equea thb teihs dvhr tcrhh whhns. Mrdwb[hqugra wgs g :=-yhgr-d`a bhurd`djest, gba gfthr eblhktebj ceish`f wetc tch shiebg` f`uea frdi gbeig`s, ch bdtha b dtha igrnha pcysekg` kcgbjhs. kcgbjh s. [phkefekg``y [phkefekg``y,, tch strhbjtc eb ces fdrhgri f`hxdr ebkrhgsha, ch cga g idrh fdrkhfu` urebgry strhgi, ch wgs idrh hgse`y gm`h td ahfhkgth, gba ch g`sd bdtha g sumlhktevh eiprdvhihbt eb ces kdjbetevh gme`etehs. Ces dmshrvgtedbs grh krhaetha wetc

 

jhbhrgtebj idrh ebthrhst eb tch sumstgbkhs prdaukha my tch thsths (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). [ebkh tcgt teih, thstdsthrdbh, kg``ha tch ‐h`exer df `efh’ my Mrdwb[hqugra gba ces kdbthipdrgrehs, cgs mhhb stuaeha fdr ets gbgmd`ek, ihtgmd`ek gba ahvh`dpihbtg` prdphrtehs. Hgr`y rhshgrkc ebk`uaha buihrdus gbardjhb (ig`h cdridbh) stuaehs tcgt hxgiebha tch prdm`his rh`gtha td `dw thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, bdtgm`y ebsdibeg, ahprhssedb, bhrvdusbhss, eipdthbkh gba g ahkrhgsha `emead. Qces cgs kgusha hxphrts td ahmgth tch ush df  thstdsthrdbh rhp`gkhihbt tchrgpy eb ihb suffhrebj frdi ahk`ebebj `hvh`s df  tch ig`h cdridbh. Qchrh grh buihrdus mhbhfekeg` hffhkts df thstdsthrdbh db tch iusku`dsnh`htg` systhi, ihbtg` gba kdjbetevh chg`tc, gba eb g buimhr  df dtchr ushs (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). [hx cdridbhs p`gy g rd`h eb mdbh jrdwtc gba ets sumshquhbt igebthbgbkh eb mdtc ihb gba wdihb. Qcdsh gbardjhb rhkhptdrs wh aeskussha hgr`ehr p`gy g rd`h eb tch jrdwtc p`gths eb mdbhs gba tch fdrigtedb df mdbh tessuh. Qhstdsthrdbh g`sd p`gys g rd`h eb ahkrhgsebj tch rhsdrptedb df   mdbh gba ebkrhgsebj mdbh iebhrg` ahbsety. ahbsety. Qhstdsthrdbh Qhstdsthrdbh rhp`gkhihbt tchrgpy cgs mhhb usha sukkhssfu``y td ch`p ihb wetc dsthdpdrdses ebkrhgsh tcher   mdbh iebhrg` ahbsety (Qygje (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). Qhstdsthrdbh es g`sd gssdkegtha wetc vetgieb A, g vetgieb krukeg` fdr  igebtgebebj mdbh kg`keui `hvh`s. Qhstdsthrdbh g`sd cgs g mhbhfekeg` hffhkt db mday fgt gba `hgb iusk`h igss. Eb g stuay td ihgsurh tch hffhkts df  thstdsthrdbh gba hstrgaed` (gbdtchr cdridbh) db mday kdipdsetedb, rhshgrkchrs fduba tcgt `dwhr `hvh`s df thstdsthrdbh rhsu`tha eb g ahkrhgsh df  `hgb iusk`h igss, strhbjtc gba sezh. Idrhdvhr, wchb thstdsthrdbh wgs ebcemetha frdi mhebj kdbvhrtha td hstrgaed`, tch rhsu`t wgs gb ebkrhgsh eb  mday fgt. Qch stuay scdwha tch eipdrtgbkh df thstdsthrdbh fdr ebkrhgsebj iusk`h igss wce`h ahkrhgsebj mday fgt (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). Eb gbdtchr stuay, d`ahr ihb wcd cga `dwhr tcgb bdrig` thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s whrh jevhb thstdsthrdbh rhp`gkhihbt tchrgpy. Qchy hxphrehbkha eiprdvha iusk`h fubktedb gba ebkrhgsha `hgb mday igss wchb kdimebha wetc strhbjtc trgebebj. Qch kdbtrd` jrdup wcd sd`h`y ute`ezha strhbjtc

 

trgebebj hxphrehbkha eiprdvhihbts eb iusk`h fubktedb, mut bdt `hgb mday igss. Qch iusku`dsnh`htg` mhbhfets df thstdsthrdbh tchrgpy aesgpphgrha wetceb sex idbtcs gfthr aeskdbtebuebj tch tchrgpy (Qygje (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). [tuaehs cgvh g`sd scdwb tcgt thstdsthrdbh p`gys g rd`h eb ihbtg` chg`tc gba kdjbetevh gme`ety. Dbh stuay fduba tcgt chg`tcy, d`ahr ihb jevhb thstdsthrdbh ebtrgiusku`gr`y ahidbstrgtha sejbefekgbt eiprdvhihbts eb mdtc spgteg` gba vhrmg` ihidry. Gbdtchr twd-idbtc stuay df 87 ihb wetc `dw thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s scdwha sejbefekgbt eiprdvhihbts eb idda gs wh`` gs g ahkrhgsh eb bhjgtevh idda pgrgihthrs, `enh gbjhr gba erretgme`ety, fd``dwebj thstdsthrdbh rhp`gkhihbt tchrgpy. Et g`sd eiprdvha tcher hbhrjy `hvh`s (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). [tuaehs cgvhb―t lust mhhb kdbauktha db d`ahr ihb, hetchr. Eb tch ferst cg`f  df tch =?tc khbtury, stuaehs mhjgb ebtd tch mhbhfets df thstdsthrdbh fdr  gtc`hths. Zchb rhshgrkchrs kdbtrd``ha tch stuaehs fdr hxhrkesh rdutebhs gba  prdtheb ebtgnh ‑ tcgt ihgbs tchy h`eiebgtha tcdsh fgktdrs gs pdssem`h ebf`uhbkhs eb tch stuay ‑ tchy fduba tcgt thstdsthrdbh gkkh`hrgtha ebkrhgshs eb strhbjtc, fgt-frhh igss gba dvhrg`` iusk`h igss eb ihb wcd hxhrkesh. Gaaetedbg``y, ydubj ihb wetc `dw thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s g`sd scdwha gb ebkrhgsh eb iusk`h strhbjtc gba fgt-frhh igss (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). Qhstdsthrdbh es g`sd mhbhfekeg` fdr ch`pebj wetc urebgry trgkt syiptdis gssdkegtha wetc dvhrjrdwtc df tch prdstgth j`gba. D`ahr ihb dfthb suffhr  frdi gb dvhrjrdwb prdstgth j`gba, gba tces kdbstrekts tch tumh tcrdujc wcekc urebh pgsshs ‑ tch urhtcrg ‑ sd tcgt tchsh ihb cgvh g whgn strhgi. Mhkgush df tcgt, et tgnhs tchi g `dbj teih td hipty tcher m`gaahr kdip`hth`y, gba tchy cgvh td urebgth idrh frhquhbt`y. Eb g stuay df =16 pgrtekepgbts jevhb thstdsthrdbh fdr dbh yhgr, rhshgrkchrs fduba tchy eiprdvha tcher urebh stdrgjh kgpgkety gba vdeaebj. [hvhrg` kgsh stuaehs cgvh g`sd scdwb tcgt thstdsthrdbh rhp`gkhihbt es sgfh fd``dwebj tch rhidvg` df tch prdstgth j`gba gs g rhsu`t df kgbkhr (Q (Qygje ygje ht g`., =?7:). Qhstdsthrdbh es g`sd ch`pfu` fdr pgtehbts wcd rhquerh rhcgme`etgtedb. G stuay df ihb mhtwhhb tch gjhs df 68 td 5? scdwha tcgt eblhktedbs df  thstdsthrdbh whrh gssdkegtha wetc eiprdvhihbts eb `eim fubktedb.

 

Qhstdsthrdbh gaiebestrgtedb g`sd ch`ps ihb db mha rhst igebtgeb tcher   prdtheb mg`gbkh, g`tcdujc tces mhbhfet wgs db`y shhb eb tcdsh pgtehbts wcd kdu`a wg`n age`y. Qch rhshgrkc shhis td sujjhst tcgt tch mhbhfets df  thstdsthrdbh gaiebestrgtedb rhquerh pcysekg` gktevety (Qygje (Qygje ht g`., =?7:). Zce`h tchsh stuaehs whrh bdt thstebj ebkrhgsha thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s auh td shihb rhthbtedb, tchy scdw tch eipdrtgbkh df thstdsthrdbh eb igebtgebebj dr  eiprdvebj chg`tc eb vgredus wgys. [ebkh shihb rhthbtedb cgs mhhb scdwb td ebkrhgsh thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, et fd``dws tcgt ihb wcd prgktekh et we`` shh sdih df tch mhbhfets gssdkegtha wetc cejchr thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s. Qchsh ebk`uah eiprdvhihbts eb iusk`h strhbjtc gba igss, gs wh`` gs eiprdvhihbts eb kdjbetevh gme`etehs gba g mddst eb idda. Qgnhb g`tdjhtchr, tch skehbtefek hveahbkh fdr shihb rhthbtedb sujjhsts buihrdus pcysekg` mhbhfets. _hrcgps tch idst bdtgm`h mhbhfet es gb ebkrhgsh eb thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s tcgt kgb mddst idda, eiprdvh ihidry gba ebkrhgsh iusk`h strhbjtc gba `hgb mday igss. Idrhdvhr, g buimhr df shihb trgets eiprdvh, ebk`uaebj shiebg` f`uea vd`uih gba kdbkhbtrgtedb df sphri. Eiprdvhihbts eb tch qug`ety q ug`ety df sphri g`sd eiprdvhs fhrte`ety fhrte`ety.. [d gs ydu kgb shh, tchrh grh shvhrg` adkuihbtha pcysekg` mhbhfets td shihb rhthbtedb, mut wcgt gmdut tch eipgkt df tch prgktekh db ydur whg`tc gba sukkhss4 Zh―`` Zh―`` tgnh g `ddn gt tcgt eb tch bhxt kcgpthr. KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr, wh―vh `ddnha gt tch skehbtefek stuaehs scdwebj tch  mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb. [phkefekg``y, [phkefekg``y, wh―vh aeskussha tch fd``dwebj tdpeks< Qch hffhkts df shihb rhthbtedb db shihb qug`ety Qhstdsthrdbh `hvh`s gba shihb rhthbtedb Mhbhfets df ebkrhgsha thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s

 

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CDZ [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB IGNH[ UDX ID]H [XKKH[[FX@ Zh―vh ihbtedbha tch igby mhbhfets df shihb rhthbtedb eb prhvedus kcgpthrs, mut chrh wh wgbt td aeskuss cdw sdih df tcdsh mhbhfets gktug``y trgbs`gth ebtd jrhgthr sukkhss eb g`` grhgs df ydur `efh. Gs wh aeskussha, gbkehbt mh`ehfs ahskremh tch prdkhss df trgbsiutgtedb df  tch hbhrjy et tgnhs td prdaukh sphri ebtd grhgs df ydur `efh dtchr tcgb  prdkrhgtedb. Df kdursh, prdkrhgtedb es g strdbj ebstebkt eb g`` sphkehs, mut cuigbs, wcdsh `grjhr mrgebs ihgb tchy grh idrh kgpgm`h df gmstrgkt, syimd`ek tcdujct, cgvh tch dptedb td aevhrt tch hbhrjy put ebtd prdkrhgtedb fdr dtchr hbahgvdrs. Et―s eb tch aevhrtebj df tcgt hbhrjy tcgt tchy feba sukkhss. @ht―s `ddn idrh k`dsh`y gt wcgt tces ihgbs. Ihb grh gm`h td prdaukh sphri dbkh tchy cgvh rhgkcha pumhrty. Qch  prdauktedb df tcgt sphri rhquerhs g jrhgt ahg` df hbhrjy, hbhrjy, gba tcgt― tcgt―ss dbh rhgsdb wcy, db gvhrgjh, ihb adb―t `evh gs `dbj gs wdihb. Eb fgkt, igby  mh`ehvh tcgt tch prdauktedb df sphri td krhgth `efh g`sd tgnhs g `ett`h met df  `efh gwgy frdi tch igb prdaukebj et. Qcus, my `dwhrebj tch buimhr df  hlgku`gtedbs ydu cgvh tcrdujcdut ydur `efhteih, ydu we`` g`sd mh gm`h td `dwhr tch dvhrg`` sphri prdauktedb. Qces u`teigth`y ihgbs ydu―`` `evh `dbjhr, gjh s`dwhr gba `ddn mhtthr pcysekg``y. Qcgt―s dbh igrnhr df sukkhss  mhkgush et jevhs ydu idrh teih td rhg`ezh ydur arhgis. Zh cgvh mhhb aeskussebj cdw shihb rhthbtedb cgs mhhb prdvhb td ebkrhgsh thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, gba tcgt g`dbh prdaukhs g kgskgah df hffhkts tcgt ch`p ydu mhkdih idrh sukkhssfu` eb `efh. Ferst, et es tch cdridbh rhspdbsem`h fdr igsku`ebh trgets sukc gs ebkrhgsha iusk`h igss gba mhtthr  iusk`h tdbh. Et kgb g`sd jevh ydu idrh kdbfeahbkh gba ch`p rhaukh syiptdis df ahprhssedb, gbxehty gba fhh`ebjs df sdkeg` gwnwgrabhss. Eb

 

scdrt, et ignhs ydu idrh gttrgktevh td prdsphktevh pgrtbhrs gba idrh kdbfeahbt eb ydur gme`etehs td mh sukkhssfu`. Qcgt spurs ydur krhgtevh, ebbdvgtevh gba prdm`hi-sd`vebj gme`etehs td nekn ebtd cejc jhgr. Gs wh―vh g`sd aeskussha, sphri es fu`` df butrehbts tcgt, wchb kdbshrvha, ydu kgb gpp`y td dtchr grhgs df ydur chg`tc gba wh``-mhebj. Qchsh ebk`uah vg`ugm`h sumstgbkhs tcgt ch`p ydur mrgeb fubktedb mhtthr, tchrhmy eiprdvebj ydur ihbtg` k`grety gba ihidry. Qcgt wdrns mhkgush, gfthr grduba twd whhns df shihb rhthbtedb, ydur mday rhgmsdrms tch sphri, sd tcdsh butrehbts grh bdw rhkyk`ha td dtchr pgrts df tch mday. Gs g rhsu`t, ydu jht tceknhr cger,  mhtthr sneb, mrejcthr hyhs, mejjhr iusk`hs, idrh fgkeg` cger jrdwtc gba g  mhtthr fubktedbebj mrgeb. Udu hvhb jht g ahhphr vdekh. Qces es tch gmubagbt  pdwhr df trgbsiutha shihb hbhrjy. hbhrjy. Zchb ydu prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb, ydur mrgeb quekn`y rhg`ezhs tcgt ydu grh bdt hlgku`gtebj ‑ tch ihkcgbesi my wcekc `efh es krhgtha. Qces th``s ydur mrgeb tcgt et cgs td eiprdvh ydur pdthbteg` fdr igtebj, gba tcgt ihgbs eiprdvebj hvhrytcebj gmdut ydu. Qces es wchb ydu cgvh tch dppdrtubety td rhkcgbbh` ydur rhtgebha hbhrjy ebtd krhgtevh gme`etehs, we``pdwhr, kdurgjh gba phrsesthbkh, gba tchsh qug`etehs kgb tchb mh usha td gkkuiu`gth rekchs eb `efh, krhgth gigzebj wdrns df grt dr mue`a tch mday df ydur arhgis. ]hihimhr tcgt tch rekchs ydu gkkuiu`gth eb `efh trgbs`gth ebtd rhsdurkhs fdr gttrgktebj g igth. Hvhb ef ydu wesc td prgktekh gmsd`uth kh`emgky, ydur   mrgeb we`` ste`` mh wdrnebj mhceba tch skhbhs skh bhs td ch`p ydu feba g p pgrtbhr grtbhr gba  prdkrhgth, my idtevgtebj ydu td eiprdvh ydursh`f. Qcgt― Qcgt―ss mhkgush ie``edbs df yhgrs df hvd`utedb scgpha ydur gbgtdiy, mrgeb gba idtevgtedbs, gba febhtubha tchi fdr rhprdauktedb. Mut ydu kgb kcddsh cdw td ush tcdsh idtevgtedbs gba ydur bhw-fduba hbhrjy. Mut wchb ydu ad, tch rhsu`ts grh dfthb ebkrhaem`h. Qch ubahr`yebj gktedb df ydur mrgeb td ch`p ydu gttrgkt g pgrtbhr es hsshbteg``y gb errhsestem`h fdrkh, gba wchb ydu―rh mhebj jueaha sumkdbskedus`y my tces fdrkh, ydu―`` feba ydu cgvh fehrkh idtevgtedb, arevh gba gme`ety td sprebj ebtd gktedb. Qch nhy td gpp`yebj tcgt gme`ety td dtchr  grhgs df ydur `efh es kdbtrd` dvhr ydur shxug` hbhrjy. Fdr hxgip`h, my

 

we``fu``y aerhktebj tcgt hbhrjy ebtd ydur musebhss pursuets, ydu―`` ahvh`dp ihbtg` k`grety gba gkuety tcgt we`` mrebj ydu jrhgt sukkhss eb gby  prdfhssedbg` hbahgvdr. Dbh skehbtefek stuay hxgiebha wcy, trgaetedbg``y, idst ihb adb―t rhg``y  mhjeb td sukkhha ubte` tchy grh eb tcher 1?s dr 8?s. Et fduba tcgt wchb tchy whrh ydubjhr, tchy thbaha td aessepgth tcher hbhrjehs tcrdujc shxug` ebau`jhbkh, gba tcgt nhpt tchi frdi rhg`ezebj tcher fu`` pdthbteg`. Zchb tchy jdt ebtd tcher 1?s gba 8?s, tchy mhjgb td fdkus `hss db shxug` pursuets gba idrh db dtchr grhgs df tcher `efh. Gs g rhsu`t, tchy gkcehvha tch sukkhss tcgt cga h`uaha tchi fdrihr`y. Mut adb―t tgnh iy wdra fdr et. @ht―s `ddn gt sdih thsteidbeg`s frdi sukkhssfu` ihb eb aeffhrhbt prdfhssedbs gmdut tch  pdwhr df rhfdkusebj shxug` hbhrjy. hbhrjy. AGVEA CGUH< KCGI_EDB

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Agvea Cgyh `enhbha shihb rhthbtedb td g `edb wcd cgsb―t hgthb gbytcebj fdr g wce`h. Qcgt ignhs cei dbh agbjhrdus gbeig`. Cgyh stgtha tcgt ch adhsb―t rh`hgsh fdr sex whhns mhfdrh g fejct. Ch adhsb―t cgvh shx dr  igsturmgth> bd hlgku`gtedb. My tch teih tch fejct rd``s grduba, ch―s jdt g `dt df phbt-up hbhrjy tcgt―s rhgay td mh rh`hgsha, gba ch rh`hgshs et eb tch rebj db ces dppdbhbt. [eie`gr strgthjehs g`sd wdrnha fdr Ienh Qysdb gba Iucgiiga G`e. Mdtc df tchi whbt yhgrs wetcdut rh`hgsebj gby shihb, gba tchrh―s bd grjuebj wetc tcher sukkhss. tchrh―s [G]VH[C [CG[CE< G =3-UHG]-D@A ZD]QC $78 IE@@EDB [grvhsc es g rgrh igb, ebahha. Ch es g kdbsu`tgbt eb tch wh``bhss ebaustry wcdsh k`ehbts ebk`uah Lhbbefhr @dphz, Awgybh –Qch ]dkn― Ldcbsdb gba  Bgdie Kgipmh``. Gba, mh`ehvh et dr bdt, ch―s ch―s g verjeb. Zchb ch wgs jrdwebj up, ch sgys ch wgs grrdjgbt gba gjjrhssevh. Ch drejebg``y wgbtha td mh g kreknht p`gyhr. Ch jdt ebtd ydjg mhkgush ces fgtchr fh`t et wdu`a ch`p cei wetc tch spdrt my kdbtrd``ebj ces hidtedbs. Cesgba ydjg thgkchr tgujct[grvhsc cei cdw ceish`f gba tddn ces gbjhr hjd. Ch gsnha td td `evhkg`i my fevh prhkhpts tcgt gwgy ebk`uaha

 

kh`emgky gba shihb rhthbtedb, gba [grvhsc fd``dwha ces gavekh td tch `htthr. Zce`h ch adhsb―t mh`ehvh tchrh―s gbytcebj cgrifu` gmdut cgvebj shx dr  igsturmgtebj, ch gmstgebs gs pgrt df ces dwb ldurbhy tdwgras sh`fgktg`ezgtedb. Ch mh`ehvhs et ch`ps cei td mh ‐k`hgb frdi wetceb’. Zchb gsnha cdw gmstebhbkh kcgbjha ces `efh, ch krhaetha ces gme`ety td kcgbbh` tch krhgtevh hbhrjy fduba eb shihb td ces mrgeb tcrdujc ihaetgtedb gba kh`emgky. Ch bdtha tcgt ces sh`f-aeskep`ebh tddn gwgy tch aestrgktedbs tcgt cga p`gjuha cei hgr`ehr eb ces `efh. Qcgt g``dwha cei td fdkus db ces jdg`s. Qch wgy ch `ddns gt et, hlgku`gtebj prdaukhs g fhw idihbts df   p`hgsurh, mut my gmstgebebj, ch cgs krhgtha truh sustgebgm`h p`hgsurh tcrdujc speretug` gba prdfhssedbg` sukkhss. [QHVH LDM[< KD-FDXBAH] DF G__@H

Xbfdrtubgth`y, [thvh Ldms es bd `dbjhr wetc us, mut ch wgs tch jhbeus  mhceba Gpp`h, gba ch g`sd prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb. Ch wgsb―t kh`emgth,  mut ch aea rhfush td rhgkc drjgsi gba hlgku`gth, hx hxkhpt khpt wchb ch wgbtha td cgvh kce`arhb. Ch feri`y mh`ehvha eb kdbshrvebj ces shiebg` hbhrjy fdr ces wdrn. Qdwgra tcgt hba, ch prgktekha tgbtrek shx td ch`p cei cgrbhss tcgt ebthbsh hbhrjy. Qch wdrn ch aea rhvd`utedbezha tch wdr`a tcrdujc kdiputhr  thkcbd`djehs, gba df kdursh, ch wgs g me``edbgerh igby teihs dvhr. Chrh―s g fhw cestdrekg` fejurhs nbdwb td cgvh prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb< ZEB[QDB KCX]KCE@@< _]EIH IEBE[QH] DF QCH XN  Zebstdb Kcurkce`` es weah`y kdbseahrha td mh dbh df tch mhst `hgahrs eb cestdry.. Ch ch`pha ahfhgt Gad`f Cet`hr, gba ch prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb. Ch cestdry dbkh rhigrnha tcgt ch wgs gm`h td wreth sd iukc mhkgush ‐E adb―t wgsth iy hsshbkh eb mha.’ Qcgt `enh`y p`gyha g mej rd`h eb ces hxtrgdraebgry gkcehvhihbts. IEKCH@GBJH@D< [KX@_QD] & G]QE[Q

Iekch`gbjh`d es grjugm`y tch idst jeftha grtest eb cestdry. Ch wgs gm`h td krhgth rhigrngm`h sku`pturhs, ebk`uaebj ‐Agvea’ gba ‐_ehtg’, mdtc df wcekc grh ch`a gs trhgsurhs fdr g`` cuigbety. Iekch`gbjh`d wgs g`sd g mre``egbt

 

 pgebthr gba gb grkcethkt ‑ k`hgr`y k`hgr`y,, gb dvhrgkcehvhr. Ch p`gbbha [t. _hthr―s Mgse`ekg, gba ch pgebtha tch khe`ebj df tch [estebh Kcgph`. Ch es g`sd nbdwb td cgvh gmstgebha frdi mdtc shx gba igsturmgtedb. Ces kdbthipdrgry  medjrgpchr, Gskgbed Kdbaeve, wrdth gmdut ces idbn-`enh kcgstety, kcgstety, gba tces es suppdrtha my tch fgkt tcgt eb igby df ces wdrns wdihb grh ahpektha gs igb`y eb fdri. My gmstgebebj frdi shx, ch wgs gm`h td fdkus db krhgtebj tcdsh gigzebj wdrns df grt. BEND@G QH[@G< EBVHBQD] & FXQX]E[Q

 Bend`g Qhs`g es kdiidb`y nbdwb gs tch igb wcd ebvhbtha tch =?tc khbtury. Ch wgs nbdwb td mh kh`emgth fdr ces hbterh `efh. Ch rhaerhktha tcgt hbhrjy ebtd ces prdfhssedbg` `efh, gba et cgs mrdujct us sdih df tch jrhgthst gkcehvhihbts gt g skg`h tcgt cgs yht td mh rhphgtha. Eb tch hgr`y =?tc khbtury, ch ebvhbtha g wgy td trgbsiet h`hktrekety werh`hss`y, gba ch krhgtha ahvekhs tcgt kgusha hgrtcqugnhs gba igbefhstha  mg`` `ejctbebj. Ch wgs g cgbasdih, sukkhssfu` igb wcd, cga ch bdt rhlhktha grestdkrgtek idbhy fdr ces ebvhbtedbs, wdu`a cgvh mhhb tch ferst me``edbgerh eb cestdry. G`` tch sgih, ch igah g kdbskedus ahkesedb td rhlhkt shxug` p`hgsurhs. Ch stgtha eb gb ebthrvehw tcgt wdihb whrh tch jrhgthst tcehvhs df hbhrjy, gba tchrhfdrh, df dbh―s speretug` pdwhr. Ch whbt db td sgy tcgt ch ahkeaha td  prhshrvh tcgt hbhrjy fdr ceish`f sd tcgt ch kdu`a krhgth wcgt ch wgbtha. @HDBG]AD AG VEBKE< QCH G]KCHQU_H DF ]HBGE[[GBKH IGB

@hdbgrad Ag Vebke es dbh df tch idst rhbdwbha ihb eb cestdry. Ch wgs gb hxphrt eb igby aevhrsh pursuets< grt, hbjebhhrebj, cuigb pcysed`djy gba iukc, iukc idrh. Ch cga g jrgba gimetedb td mh g igsthr df g`` trgahs, gba ch idst khrtgeb`y gkcehvha tcgt. Ch wgs g`sd g `efh`dbj mgkch`dr, gba tchrh es bd ebaekgtedb ch hvhr cga gb ebthrhst eb rdigbtek rh`gtedbsceps dr shxug` gkts. Bdtcebj eb ces aegrehs dr wdrns ebaekgtha dtchrwesh. Cdwhvhr, ch aea sphgn gmdut et wchb ch sgea tcgt tch prdkrhgtevh gkt wgs sd aesjustebj tcgt et wdu`a surh`y aeh dut ef et cga bdt mhkdih g cuigb

 

trgaetedb gba ef tchrh whrh bd ‐shbsudus aespdsetedbs gba prhtty fgkhs’. Frdi tcdsh kdiihbts, et es k`hgr ch prgktekha shihb rhthbtedb, gba tch rhaerhktedb df tcgt hbhrjy prdaukha pchbdihbg` wdrns fdr g`` cuigbneba. [EJIXBA F]HXA< BDQHA _[UKCD@DJE[Q

Zce`h [ejiuba Frhua es g kdbtrdvhrseg` phrsdbg`ety, tchrh―s bd aesputebj ces ebf`uhbkh eb tch feh`a df psykcd`djy. Ces tchdrehs cgvh pd`grezha tch wdr`a, gba ebthrhstebj`y, tchy g`` khbthr grduba shx. Ch kgih up wetc tch fgidus Dhaepus kdip`hx tcgt stgths mdys ahserh tcher idtchrs gba kdih td shh tcher fgtchrs gs kdiphtetedb. Qcgt―s wcy tchrh―s sukc frektedb mhtwhhb fgtchr gba sdb. Ch g`sd mh`ehvha wdihb cga ‐phbes hbvy’. Ch tcdujct igsturmgtedb rhsu`tha eb gbxehty, gba ch g`sd mh`ehvha tcgt shxug` gktevety wgs ebkdipgtem`h wetc tch gkcehvhihbt df jrhgt wdrns. Ch aea cgvh g wefh, mut gfthr ch turbha 1?, ch mhkgih fu``y kh`emgth ubte` ces ahgtc. Ahspeth ces aeskrhaetha tchdrehs, ch es ste`` kdbseahrha tch Fgtchr df  _sykcdgbg`yses. Qcgt―s g `hjgky tcgt kgbbdt mh ejbdrha, gba et es `enh`y ces kcdekh td mhkdih kh`emgth tcgt ch`pha cei gkcehvh ces jdg`s. BG_D@HDB CE@@< GIH]EKGB [H@F-CH@_ GXQCD] 

 Bgpd`hdb Ce`` es mhst nbdwb fdr ces mddn, Qcebn gba Jrdw ]ekc. ]ekc. Et es rgtha gs gidbj tch tdp thb mhst sh``ebj sh`f-ch`p mddns df g`` teih. Ces  mddns g`` tg`n gmdut cdw td gkcehvh sukkhss eb `efh, gba ch ahvdtha gb hbterh kcgpthr eb Qcebn gba Jrdw ]ekc  ]ekc  td shihb rhthbtedb gba aevhrtebj shxug` hbhrjy ebtd dtchr grhgs df ydur `efh. Ch wrdth tcgt shxug` trgbsiutgtedb es g vetg` ferst sthp fdr gbydbh wcd wgbts td mhkdih rekc. Gs ydu kgb shh my bdw, igby fgidus, sukkhssfu` ihb cgvh usha tch  pdwhr df shxug` trgbsiutgtedb td gkcehvh tcher jdg`s. @ht―s @ht―s `ddn gt sdih sphkefek rhgsdbs tcgt gmstebhbkh kgb krhgth sukkhss. EBK]HG[H[ KD]H [Q]HBJQC

Ef ydu―rh gb gtc`hth, prdmgm`y tch buimhr dbh tcebj ydu bhha es kdrh strhbjtc. Kdrh iusk`hs grh gktevh wchb ydu―rh wetcstgbaebj dppdsebj fdrkhs `enh jrgvety, gba tchy eipgrt strhbjtc td g`` pgrts df ydur mday.

 

Zetcdut strdbj kdrh iusk`hs, ydu―rh `enh`y td suffhr frdi g buimhr df  eblurehs, gba g`tcdujc hxhrkesh es g jrhgt wgy td strhbjtchb ydur kdrh iusk`hs, hlgku`gtedb ahp`hths tchi df strhbjtc. Ef tcgt cgpphbs, et we`` ahstgme`ezh ydur mday gba prhvhbt dtchr iusk`hs frdi rhgkcebj tcher  igxeiui pdthbteg` strhbjtc. Qcgt―s wcy tch gtc`hths db tch `est gmdvh nbdw (dr nbhw) tchy cga td rhtgeb tch hbhrjy frdi tcher shihb td ebkrhgsh tcher   pcysekg` pdwhr pdwhr.. Qch `dbjhr tchy prgktekha hlgku`gtdry gmstebhbkh, tch idrh hxp`dsevh`y pdwhrfu` tchy cga tch pdthbteg` td mh eb tcher spdrt. EI_]DVH[ ]DIGBQEK ]H@GQEDB[CE_[

Qchrh―s phrcgps bdtcebj tcgt kgb k`dua ydur luajihbt idrh tcgb shx. Zchb ydu rhidvh tcgt frdi tch hqugtedb, ydu kgb shh ydur rdigbtek  pgrtbhr fdr wcd tchy rhg``y grh, gba ydu kgb ahthriebh ef ydu jhbuebh`y hbldy tcher kdipgby. [hx wdb―t mh aestrgktebj ydu frdi ydur prdm`his. Ebsthga, ydu―`` cgvh td feba rhg` sd`utedbs dr ahkeah td aeskdbtebuh tch rh`gtedbscep. Eb scdrt, gmstebhbkh we`` sgvh ydu g `dt df teih gba chgrtgkch gs ydu wdrn td hstgm`esc g sd`ea, `dbj-thri rh`gtedbscep wetc sdihdbh ydu `dvh. Idrhdvhr, wcgt dkkurs wchb ydu cgvh shx wetc sdihdbh es g speretug` hxkcgbjh tcgt cgs eipdrtgbt eip`ekgtedbs fdr ydur hbterh `efh. _rgktekebj hlgku`gtdry gmstebhbkh ch`ps ydu fdkus db ydur pgrtbhr―s p`hgsurh gba db  mue`aebj g `efh tdjhtchr. tdjhtchr. EI_]DVH[ AE[KE_@EBH

Muknebj g strdbj bgturg` ahserh rhquerhs aeskep`ebh. Udu cgvh td igbgjh bdt db`y ydur shx `efh mut dtchr grhgs gs wh``. Gs ydu `hgrb td kdbtrd` ydur  gktedbs, ydu strhbjtchb ydur ieba gba ydur gme`ety td fdkus db wcgt es eipdrtgbt eb ydur `efh. @ust wetcdut wesadi dfthb rhsu`ts eb agigjha rh`gtedbsceps, ubp`gbbha kce`arhb, presdb, aevdrkh, ahprhssedb gba kdubt`hss dtchr prdm`his. Et rhquerhs aeskep`ebh td kdbtgeb tcgt neba df `ust, mut wchb ydu―rh gm`h td stekn td g stgbagra tcgt ydu sht ydursh`f, ydu―`` feba ydu―rh gm`h td ahvh`dp tch neba df sh`f-aeskep`ebh tcgt mrebjs sukkhss td hvhry grhg df ydur `efh. CHEJCQHB[ K]HGQEVEQU

 

Zchb ydu cgrbhss shxug` hbhrjy, ydu grh gm`h td kdbvhrt et ebtd g  pdwhrfu` tdd` fdr eiprdvebj ydur `efh. Udur eigjebgtedb mhkdihs iukc idrh vevea gs ydur gwgrhbhss ebkrhgshs. U Udu―rh du―rh idtevgtha td pursuh vgredus dtchr jdg`s td hxphba tcgt phbt-up hbhrjy, gba ydur pcysekg` stgiebg jevhs ydu tch gme`ety td ad lust tcgt. Mhkgush df tch kdbbhktedb mhtwhhb ydur mrgeb gba ydur `emead, ydu―rh cgra-werha td jd td hxtrhih `hbjtcs td sgtesfy ydur shxug` ahserh> cdwhvhr, wchb ydu kcgbbh` tcgt sgih hbhrjy gba gpp`y et td dtchr jdg`s, ydur `efh kgb  mhkdih kdip`hth`y trgbsfdriha. Udu―`` mh gm`h td kdbkhptug`ezh tch `efh ydu wgbt td `evh, krhgth eahgs td mrebj et ebtd rhg`ety, gba febg``y `evh tch arhgi `efh ydu―vh g`wgys wgbtha. Udu―rh usebj g pdwhrfu` bgturg` hbhrjy tcgt―s rhspdbsem`h fdr g`` `efh db Hgrtc. My mhkdiebj gwgrh df tcgt hbhrjy gba cgrbhssebj et, ydu kgb ‐mertc’ ydur igby dtchr jdg`s ebtd hxesthbkh. [_E]EQXG@ J]DZQC

Gs wh cgvh g`rhgay aeskussha, buihrdus speretug` trgaetedbs thgkc tcgt shxug` hbhrjy es pgrt df g kdip`hx feh`a tcgt rh`gths td ydur speretug` hbhrjy. Zchb ydu gwgnhb tch fhiebebh Nubag`ebe hbhrjy s`hhpebj eb ydur rddt kcgnrg, et reshs tcrdujc tch dtchr kcgnrgs ubte` et ubeths wetc igsku`ebh hbhrjy gt tch krdwb kcgnrg. Zchb tcgt cgpphbs, ydu hxphrehbkh tch ubevhrsg` dbhbhss tcgt es ydur bgturg` stgth. Udu gwgnhb ebtd tch rhg`ety df  ydur dwb aevebety. Et adhsb―t igtthr wchtchr ydu himrgkh tces `ethrg``y dr gs g ihtgpcdr td gkcehvebj ydur vhrsedb df speretug`ety tcrdujc ydur hbcgbkha gme`ety td fdkus db wcgt es eipdrtgbt eb ydur `efh gba tch vg`uhs ydu mh`ehvh eb. ]haerhktebj tces shxug` hbhrjy ebtd gsphkts df ydur speretug` `efh g``dws ydu td hxphrehbkh g iukc idrh vevea shbsh df tch aevebh. Qch igeb tcebj td ubahrstgba gmdut shxug` hbhrjy es tcgt et es g pdwhrfu` krhgtevh hbhrjy. Et―s bdt hve`, mut wchb et―s bdt kdbtrd``ha, et kgb mh ahstruktevh. My rhfrgebebj frdi dvhrebau`jhbkh dr prgktekebj dutrejct gmstebhbkh, ydu ush tcgt krhgtevh hbhrjy td igxeiezh ydur pdthbteg` eb hvhry grhg df ydur `efh. Udu kgb jhbhrgth sukkhss eb ydur prdfhssedbg` `efh gba  mue`a ahhp, `dvebj, `dbj-`gstebj phrsdbg` rh`gtedbsceps. Udu kgb jrdw  phrsdbg``y,, prdfhssedbg``y gba speretug``y  phrsdbg``y speretug``y.. [hxug` hbhrjy es gbg`djdus td

 

kruah de` eb tcgt et es vg`ugm`h, pdwhrfu` gba gb eipdrtgbt rhsdurkh, mut td igxeiezh ets pdwhr, ydu cgvh td rhfebh et. Db`y tchb kgb ydu ush ets pdwhr  td fuh` prdauktevh gba kdbstruktevh krhgtedb eb ydur `efh. Eb tch bhxt kcgpthr, ydu we`` `hgrb gmdut BdFgp gba shihb rhthbtedb. KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr wh cgvh aeskussha tch buihrdus wgys eb wcekc shihb rhthbtedb kgb ch`p ydu mh idrh sukkhssfu`. [phkefekg``y, wh―vh kdvhrha tch fd``dwebj tdpeks< Cdw shxug` hbhrjy es trgbsiutha ebtd hbhrjy td ush eb dtchr pgrts df  ydur `efh.  Buihrdus fgidus, sukkhssfu` ihb wcd cgvh ute`ezha tch prgktekh df  shihb rhthbtedb td gkcehvh tcher jdg`s. Qch rhgsdbs wcy et wdrns eb vgredus grhgs df ydur `efh.

 

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BDFG_ GBA [HIHB ]HQHBQEDB Ef ydu―vh adbh gby rhshgrkc ebtd shihb rhthbtedb, ydu―vh prdmgm`y rub ebtd tch wdra BdFgp, gba ydu iejct mh wdbahrebj ef BdFgp gba shihb rhthbtedb grh tch sgih tcebj. Qch gbswhr es tcgt tchy grh bdt, mut tchy grh rh`gtha. @ht―s @ht―s `ddn gt wcgt es aeffhrhbt gba hxgkt`y cdw tchy grh rh`gtha. BDFG_

 BdFgp hihrjha dut df gb db`ebh kdbvhrsgtedb tcgt stgrtha eb =?77  mhtwhhb phdp`h wcd cga jevhb up igsturmgtedb. Qch thri, wcekc es bdw eb fgkt g trgahigrnha bgih gba musebhss, es ahrevha frdi tch s`gbj thri ‐fgp,’ wcekc es ebthrbht `ebjd fdr igsturmgtebj. Et kdihs frdi tch sduba tcgt ydu ignh wchb ydu―rh hbjgjebj eb sh`f-p`hgsurh ‑ fgpfgpfgpfgp.  BdFgp mhjgb gs g aeskussedb fdrui, mut et sddb mhkgih g whmseth gba drjgbezgtedb tcgt adhsb―t lust prdidth quettebj igsturmgtedb, mut g`sd gmstgebebj frdi wgtkcebj pdrbdjrgpcy gs wh`` gs dtchr nebas df shxug`  mhcgvedrs. Qch tgrjht guaehbkh es preigre`y strgejct ihb, mut et es dphb dp hb td g`` jhbahrs gba shxug` eahbtefekgtedbs. MHBHFEQ[ DF BDFG_

Igby df tch mhbhfets grh seie`gr td wcgt ydu jht wetc shihb rhthbtedb, gba fdr tch sgih rhgsdbs. Fdr hxgip`h, mhkgush ydu grh bd `dbjhr hbjgjebj eb shxug` mhcgvedr dr hlgku`gtebj gs frhquhbt`y gs mhfdrh, ihb prgktekebj  BdFgp g`sd hxphrehbkh gb ebkrhgsh eb thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s gba idrh idtevgtedb td eiprdvh tcher `efh. Qch mhbhfets ebk`uah< Et mddsts ydur sh`f-kdbfeahbkh Udu fhh` cgppehr  Udu hxphrehbkh idrh idtevgtedb gba strdbjhr we``pdwhr 

 

Udu hxphrehbkh `dwhr `hvh`s df gbxehty gb gba a strhss Et chejcthbs ydur speretug` hxphrehbkh Udu hxphrehbkh idrh sh`f-gkkhptgbkh Udu hxphrehbkh g mhtthr gttetuah tdwgras, gba jrhgthr gpprhkegtedb fdr, tch dppdseth shx Qchrh grh g`sd seie`gr pcysekg` mhbhfets td wcgt ydu hxphrehbkh wetc shihb rhthbtedb. Qchsh ebk`uah cejchr hbhrjy `hvh`s> jrhgthr iusk`h jrdwtc>  mhtthr s`hhp> eiprdvha ihbtg` k`grety k`grety,, kdbkhbtrgtedb gba fdkus> ebkrhgsha stgiebg gba mhtthr dvhrg`` pcysekg` phrfdrigbkh> eiprdvhihbt eb, gba sdihteihs hvhb g kurh fdr, hrhkte`h aysfubktedb> gba eiprdvha qug`ety df  sphri. Gs wh―vh g`rhgay aeskussha, igby df tchsh pcysekg` mhbhfets gba sdih df tch ihbtg` mhbhfets grh rh`gtha td ebkrhgsha `hvh`s df thstdsthrdbh, gba tchsh cgvh mhhb ahidbstrgtha eb k`ebekg` stuaehs. BDFG_ BDF G_ GBA _D]BDJ]G_CU

Dbh df tch aeffhrhbkhs mhtwhhb shihb rhthbtedb gba BdFgp es tcgt  BdFgp adhsb―t kdip`hth`y prdcemet hlgku`gtebj> rgtchr, prdpdbhbts mh`ehvh tcgt ydu scdu`a jevh up igsturmgtebj gba vehwebj pdrbdjrgpcy. Qcgt cgs g seie`gr hffhkt gs shihb rhthbtedb, jevhb tcgt ydu―rh bdt hbjgjebj eb shxug` gktevety rhsu`tebj eb hlgku`gtedb gs iukc gs ydu wdu`a mh dtchrwesh. Mut wchb ydu―rh wetc g pgrtbhr gba cgvh shx, tchy adb―t bhkhssgre`y gavdkgth fdr g ary drjgsi. Qchy grh cgppy fdr ydu td rh`hgsh wetceb tch kdbthxt df g rh`gtedbscep. Zchrhgs wetc shihb rhthbtedb, ydu grh bdt hlgku`gtebj eb drahr  td rhgp tch igby mhbhfets. BdFgpphrs grh preigre`y fdkusebj db wcgt tch Qgdests wdu`a kg`` dvhrebau`jhbkh. Kdbkhrbebj pdrbdjrgpcy, BdFgp rhkdiihbas jevebj et up auh td tch bhjgtevh hffhkts et kgb cgvh db ydur shx `efh, ydur gttetuahs tdwgras shxug`  pgrtbhrs, gba ydur `efh eb jhbhrg`. Qchy g`sd grjuh tcgt my wgtkcebj  pdrbdjrgpcy gba igsturmgtebj frhquhbt`y, ydu wgsth teih gs wh`` gs hbhrjy eb ahstruktevh gktevetehs. Udu g`sd ahvh`dp dmshssevh gba ubchg`tcy gttetuahs gba mh`ehfs gmdut shx. Eb fgkt, eb tch `grjhst hvhr survhy wetceb tch BdFgp

 

kdiiubety, tchy fduba tch fd``dwebj hffhkts db ihb wcd wgtkcha pdrb gba igsturmgtha frhquhbt`y< Qcher ahserh fdr g sthgay igth ahk`ebha, gba db`y tcdsh wcd whrh gm`h td feba aeffhrhbt igths frhquhbt`y whrh gm`h td igebtgeb grdusg`. Qces es sdihtcebj kg``ha tch Kdd`eajh Hffhkt. Et―s g thbahbky tdwgra bdvh`tyshhnebj mhcgvedr, gba tces es prhkesh`y wcgt pdrb trgebs vehwhrs td ad. Db`y =? phrkhbt df phdp`h wcd rhju`gr`y wgtkcha pdrb fh`t tchy whrh gm`h td kdbtrd` tcher shxug` ahserhs. Qcgt ihgbs 3? phrkhbt fh`t tchy kdu`a bdt kdbtrd` tcher ahserhs. Gt `hgst ;= phrkhbt df tcdsh survhyha rhpdrtha tchy wgtkcha fevh dr idrh cdurs df ebthrbht pdrb hgkc whhn, gba 85 phrkhbt sgea tchy wgtkcha mhtwhhb fdur gba fefthhb cdurs hgkc whhn. Gpprdxeigth`y 8? phrkhbt df tcdsh survhyha whrh verjebs. Qcher db`y shxug` hxphrehbkh kgih frdi igsturmgtedb. Gidbj kd``hjh-gjh ig`hs, sdih 1= phrkhbt veset pd pdrb rb seths rhju`gr`y. Idrh tcgb cg`f ‑ 8; phrkhbt ‑ ahvh`dpha tcher pdrb cgmet mhtwhhb tch gjhs df 7= gba 71. Gbdtchr 76 phrkhbt stgrtha wgtkcebj pdrb mhfdrh tchy whrh 7=. Qwd-tceras (61 phrkhbt) rhpdrtha tcgt tcher tgsths eb pdrb mhkgih idrh hxtrhih gba ahvegbt. Gidbj tcdsh survhyha wcd whrh gjha mhtwhhb =: gba ;7, 75 phrkhbt suffhrha frdi prhigturh hlgku`gtedb, ;7 phrkhbt cga aeffeku`ty rhgkcebj drjgsi, =8 phrkhbt whrh aesebthrhstha eb shx wetc tcher pgrtbhr, gba ;1  phrkhbt cga prdm`his wetc hrhkte`h aysfubktedb. Dbkh tchy kdiiettha td aetkcebj tcher igsturmgtedb gba pdrb cgmets, 6?  phrkhbt fh`t tcher shxug` fubktedb cga eiprdvha. Gidbj tcgt sgih jrdup wcd kdiiettha td bd igsturmgtedb dr pdrb, 6:  phrkhbt hxphrehbkha g sh`f-rhpdrtha ebkrhgsh eb hbhrjy `hvh`s. Udu kgb shh tcgt tchrh―s khrtgeb`y hbdujc hveahbkh td sujjhst tcgt pdrb kgb bhjgtevh`y eipgkt ydur `efh. Et―s g`sd hgsy td shh cdw iukc teih

 

 pdrbdjrgpcy gba igsturmgtedb kgb hgt up wchb ydu―rh eb tch jrep df gb gaaektedb. Eigjebh cgvebj tcgt teih td gpp`y td dtchr grhgs df ydur `efh. Zce`h shihb rhthbtedb gba BdFgp grh bdt tch sgih hxgkt tcebjs, tchy k`hgr`y scgrh shvhrg` mhbhfets. [hihb rhthbtedb aeffhrs frdi BdFgp eb tcgt  BdFgp adhsb―t gavdkgth gvdeaebj hlgku`gtedb> rgtchr, et seip`y grjuhs tcgt  my jevebj up tch dvhrebau`jhbkh eb shxug` gktevetehs rhprhshbtha my pdrb gba igsturmgtedb, ydu kgb jgeb mhtthr kdbtrd` dvhr ydur `efh gba hxphrehbkh tch  mhbhfets df gt `hgst scdrt phredas df gmstebhbkh. Df kdursh, gs wh―vh aeskussha, shihb rhthbtedb es g`` gmdut hlgku`gtdry gmstebhbkh. Udu iejct gkcehvh tcgt tcrdujc kdip`hth kh`emgky fdr g phreda  ‑ wcgt BdFgpphrs wdu`a kg`` ‐cgra idah’‑ dr ydu kgb gkcehvh et tcrdujc tch ary drjgsi, wchrhmy ydu hxphrehbkh gb drjgsi mut adb―t hlgku`gth. Udu iejct mh tcebnebj tcgt et―s neba df d`a-fgscedbha td mh gjgebst igsturmgtedb, gba wce`h tcgt es truh, tchrh grh g`sd mhbhfets td mh cga frdi gmstgebebj frdi et. @ht―s `ddn gt g fhw pdebts ydu igy bdt cgvh kdbseahrha  mhfdrh. [DKEG@ D] [_E]EQXG@ _]H[[X]H

Igby phdp`h fhh` `enh igsturmgtedb es g seb, gba igby rh`ejedbs grjuh et es. Mhkgush igby ebaeveaug`s mh`ehvh tcgt igsturmgtedb es eiidrg`, tchrh es g`sd g stejig gttgkcha td et. Ef ydu wgbt td ubahrstgba tcgt, tcebn gmdut sdih fgidus phdp`h wcd cgvh mhhb kgujct igsturmgtebj. Qchrh―s sdihtcebj g `ett`h shhay gmdut tchi, gba igby phdp`h tcebn tchy―rh eiidrg` gs g rhsu`t. Mhkgush df tch sdkeg` gba rh`ejedus stejig gttgkcha td igsturmgtedb, g buimhr df iytcs cgvh ahvh`dpha ahsejbha td prdaukh gbxehty gba fhgr eb tcdsh wcd agrh td igsturmgth. Udu―vh `enh`y chgra ydu―`` jd m`eba, mut igymh ydu cgvhb―t chgra tcgt et kgb kgush ydu td jrdw cger db ydur cgbas. Qchsh, df kdursh, grh kdip`hth`y fg`sh, mut ste``, tchsh ruidrs phrsest. Mhkgush tcdsh nebas df ruidrs ste`` kerku`gth, pgrteku`gr`y gidbj thhbgjhrs, igby phdp`h hxphrehbkh bhjgtevh fhh`ebjs df scgih, jue`t gba

 

hvhb sh`f-`dgtcebj wchb tchy igsturmgth. Fdr tcgt rhgsdb, et―s eipdrtgbt td aestebjuesc mhtwhhb kcddsebj td gmstgeb frdi igsturmgtedb gba hlgku`gtedb fdr tch mhbhfets wh―vh aeskussha rgtchr tcgb fhh`ebj gs tcdujc ydu cgvh td  mhkgush df rh`ejedus dr sdkeg` stejigs gttgkcha td tch mhcgvedr. Udu scdu`ab―t fhh` jue`ty ef ydu igsturmgth, mut kcddsebj bdt td kgb prdaukh shvhrg` mhbhfets. XBAH]@UEBJ XBAH]@ UEBJ KDBAEQE KDBAEQEDB[ DB[ IGNH EQ AEF AEFFEKX@ FEKX@Q Q

[dih phdp`h iejct cgvh chg`tc prdm`his tcgt ignh igsturmgtedb aeffeku`t fdr tchi. Et kgb mh g frustrgtebj hxphrehbkh, fdr hxgip`h, ef ydu cgvh hrhkte`h aysfubktedb, `dw `emead, dr sdihtcebj `enh pdst-drjgsiek e``bhss sybardih wchrh ydu mhkdih e`` eiihaegth`y fd``dwebj hlgku`gtedb. Igsturmgtedb kgb g`sd mh aeffeku`t dr upshttebj ef ydu cgvh mhhb trguigtezha shxug``y. IG[QX]MGQEDB KGB MH GAAEKQEVH

Gbytcebj eb hxkhss es bdt jdebj td mh jdda fdr ydur chg`tc, gba tcgt―s  lust gs truh fdr igsturmgtedb gs et es fdr arujs dr g`kdcd`. G jdda ru`h df  tcuim es tcgt ef wcgt ydu―rh adebj es ebthrfhrebj wetc ydur `efh, ydu―vh jdt g  prdm`hi. Gs wh―vh aeskussha, igsturmgtedb mhkdihs gaaektevh mhkgush et trejjhrs tch mrgeb―s p`hgsurh khbthrs eb tch sgih wgy arujs gba dtchr  gaaektevh sumstgbkhs ad. Udu kgb th`` tcgt ydu iejct cgvh g prdm`hi ef ydu hxphrehbkh tch fd``dwebj rhjgraebj ydur igsturmgtedb cgmets< Udu fhh` frustrgtha ef ydu kgb―t ad et wch wchbhvhr bhvhr ydu `enh Udu kgb―t kdbkhbtrgth db iukc df gbytcebj h`sh Udu ad et td tch pdebt ydu eblurh ydursh`f  Udu suffhr frdi syiptdis `enh prhigturh hlgku`gtedb dr hrhkte`h aysfubktedb Et―ss gffhktebj ydur shxug` rh`gtedbscep wetc ydur pgrtbhr  Et― BDFG_ CG]A IDAH

 

 BdFgp cgs g idrh strekt vhrsedb tcgt gavdkgths gmstgebebj frdi hlgku`gtedb, wcekc es seie`gr td shihb rhthbtedb, mut et g`sd sgys ydu scdu`a kdip`hth`y jevh up pdrb. Et cgs sdih sphkefek ru`hs, gba tchsh grh jdda ru`hs fdr gbydbh wcd es prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb, wchtchr tchy k`gss tchish`vhs gs BdFgpphrs dr bdt. Qch ru`hs ebk`uah tch fd``dwebj<  Bd pdrb g``dwha. Qces es jdda fdr nhhpebj ydu frdi mhkdiebj shxug``y steiu`gtha. Ef ydu―rh prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb, et―s ch`pfu` td gvdea hxpdsebj ydursh`f td pdrb.  Bd hrdtek eigjhs df gby neba g``dwha. Fdr tch sgih rhgsdb gs gmdvh, gvdeaebj g`` hrdtek eigjhry we`` ch`p td nhhp ydu frdi mhkdiebj steiu`gtha td tch pdebt wchrh ydu iejct bdt mh gm`h td kdbtrd` ydur urjuhs.  Bd igsturmgtedb, hvhb wetcdut pdrb. Zce`h et es pdssem`h fdr ydu td drjgsi wetcdut hlgku`gtedb, et tgnhs g jrhgt ahg` df iusku`gr kdbtrd`, gba ef  ydu―rh igsturmgtebj g `dt, et―s jdebj td mh idrh aeffeku`t fdr ydu td gkcehvh tcgt.  Bd drjgsi. Gjgeb, et― et―ss pdssem`h td cgvh g ary drjgsi, mut et― et―ss bdt hgsy hgsy,, sd et―s mhtthr td gvdea drjgsis eb tces kgsh.  Bd shx. Qces es pgrteku`gr`y truh ef ydu grh lust jhttebj ebtd shihb rhthbtedb. Df kdursh, ydu igy g`sd kcddsh kh`emgky, mut ef ydu wgbt td cgvh shxug` rh`gtedbs wetc gb ebteigth pgrtbhr, ydu scdu`a gvdea shx ubte` ydu fhh` ydu cgvh gahqugth kdbtrd` dvhr ydur drjgsis.  Bd `ustebj. @ust `hgas td eipu`sevh mhcgvedr, gba tcgt―s tcgt―s jhbhrg``y bdt kdbaukevh td shihb rhthbtedb dr BdFgppebj. Fd``dw tchsh ru`hs fdr gt `hgst 5? agys. Dbkh ydu cgvh kdbtrd` dvhr ydur  shxug` ahserhs gba mhcgvedrs, tchb ydu kgb kcddsh td rhsuih sdih ahjrhh df shxug` gktevety gktevety.. Cgra idah es ahfebeth`y g aeffeku`t kcdekh fdr sdihdbh wcd es lust stgrtebj dut, mut et―s bhkhssgry td jgeb kdbtrd` dvhr ydur shxug` mhcgvedrs. Et ahphbas db ydur `hvh` df gaaektedb td shx gba igsturmgtedb, mut fdr igby  phdp`h, cgra idah es g ahfebeth iust. Et we`` ch`p ydu mue`a g jdda fdubagtedb fdr igsthrebj ydur dwb ahserhs, gba et ch`ps ydu jgeb tch

 

 mhbhfets df hetchr BdFgp dr shihb rhthbtedb iukc fgsthr tcgb ef ydu kdbtebuh td hbjgjh eb shxug` gktevetehs spdrgaekg``y. Ef ydu grh ubkhrtgeb gmdut wchtchr et―s rejct fdr ydu, gsn ydursh`f tch fd``dwebj quhstedbs< Es pdrb, igsturmgtedb dr dtchr nebas df shxug` gktevety stdppebj ih frdi gkcehvebj iy `efh jdg`s4 Cgvh E gkkdip`escha iy `efh jdg`s fdr tch gjh E cgvh rhgkcha4 Ad E hvhb nbdw wcgt iy `efh jdg`s grh4 Ad E cgvh tch we``-pdwhr td hbjgjh eb shxug` gktevety wetcdut hlgku`gtebj4 Ef tch gbswhrs td tcdsh quhstedbs jevh ydu pgush, tchb et―s `enh`y ydu―`` wgbt td pursuh cgra idah td jgeb idrh kdbtrd` dvhr ydur `efh gba mhjeb td fdkus db gkcehvebj tcdsh tcebjs ydu ahhi idst eipdrtgbt. Ef ydu ad kcddsh td prgktekh cgra idah, ydu iust fd``dw tch ru`hs fdr gt `hgst 5? agys. Gfthr  tcgt, ydu kgb kdbtebuh eb gb hgsehr idah. Fdr hxgip`h, ydu iejct cgvh dr  wesc td cgvh gb ebteigth rh`gtedbscep wetc g pgrtbhr. Gfthr tch 5? agys, ydu kgb rhsuih tcgt rh`gtedbscep, mut et―s eipdrtgbt td rhihimhr tcgt ydu wgbt td jhbuebh`y trhgsurh ydur shxug` hxphrehbkhs gba ydur pgrtbhr gs wh``. Qch eahg es td mrhgn gby scg``dw, gaaektevh mhcgvedr gssdkegtha wetc ydur shxug` hxphrehbkhs. Zchb ydu fd``dw cgra idah, ydu―`` hxphrehbkh g buimhr df mhbhfets gs g rhsu`t. Udu―`` jgeb tcdsh mhbhfets igby teihs fgsthr tcgb ef ydu whrh ste`` hbjgjha eb shxug` gktevety dr tcdujcts, gba ydu―`` feba ydu―rh tgnebj tch gkcehvhihbt df ydur arhgis eb `efh idrh shredus`y. Udu―`` jgeb hbdridus hbhrjy, ihgbebj ydu we`` mh rhgay td resh gba scebh hvhb mhfdrh tch g`gri jdhs dff. Df kdursh, ydur thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s we`` sdgr, gba pdthbteg` pgrtbhrs we`` bdtekh. Udu―`` Udu―`` g`sd jgeb g`` tcdsh jrhgt mhbhfets df ebkrhgsha thstdsthrdbh `hvh`s, `enh idrh iusk`h igss gba g cgppehr aespdsetedb, Et―s eipdrtgbt td rhihimhr tcgt wce`h wh grh bgturg``y arevhb td rhprdaukh, gba tcgt ihgbs cgvebj shx, ydu kgb tgnh tcgt hbdridus hbhrjy sdurkh gba ush et td ad dtchr tcebjs gs wh``. Eb fgkt, dvhrebau`jebj eb shx ignhs ydur shx `efh wdrsh, gs wh―vh shhb. Ef, db tch dtchr cgba, ydu stgrt

 

kdbshrvebj ydur shxug` hbhrjy, ydu―`` mh gm`h td kcgbbh` et tdwgra gkcehvebj jrhgt tcebjs. CDZ QD ]HGKC 5? AGU[ EB CG]A IDAH

E nbdw et―s g cgra sh`` td swhgr dff gby neba df shxug` gktevety dr hvhb tcdujcts fdr 5? agys, mut `ht―s `ddn gt g strgthjy ydu kgb ush td gkcehvh tcgt jdg`. Udu Udu kgb hvhb jd `dbjhr usebj tchsh tgkteks. Qch ferst tcebj td ad es mrhgn tcgt 5? agys adwb ebtd sig``hr kcubns. Qcgt ignhs tch dvhrg`` jdg` shhi hgsehr td gkcehvh gba jevhs ydu aeffhrhbt eahgs fdr rhaerhktebj ydur hbhrjy hbhrjy.. @ht―s `ddn gt tcrhh pcgshs fdr gkc gkcehvebj ehvebj 5? agys df bd shxug` gktevety gktevety,, ahserhs dr tcdujcts. tcduj cts. _CG[H 7< ? - ;? AGU[

Qces es prdmgm`y tch idst eipdrtgbt pcgsh, prhkesh`y mhkgush et―s tch idst aeffeku`t. Et―s pdssem`h ydu igy rh`gpsh aurebj tces pcgsh, mut lust nhhp fd``dwebj tch strgthjehs ahskremha chrh, gba ydu―`` jht tchrh. X[H _G]HBQG@ IDAH

Ef ydu wgbt td gvdea `ustfu` tcdujcts, ydu bhha td stdp ydursh`f mhebj hxpdsha td steiu`gtebj eigjhs dr setugtedbs. Db ydur kdiputhr, ush pgrhbtg` idah td m`dkn gby pdrbdjrgpcek seths. Ef tcgt wdb―t wdrn fdr ydu, gsn g frehba td kcgbjh tch pgsswdra td ubm`dkn tcdsh seths. Qcgt wgy, ydu wdb―t  mh gm`h td gkkhss tch pgrhbtg` kdbtrd` idah td kcgbjh et dbkh et es sht td  m`dkn pdrb. Qchrh ggrh rh g buimhr df sdftwgrh prdjrgis ydu kgb ush fdr tces,  mut dbh jdda dbh es kg``ha Kdvhbgbt Hyhs. Et kdip`hth`y m`dkns g`` pdrb seths, gba et g`sd ignhs ydu gkkdubtgm`h td sdihdbh h`sh. Qcgt―s g strdbj idtevgtdr td rhgkc ydur jdg`. KCGBJH UDX] HBVE]DBIHBQ

Et―s hgsy td cgvh g `dt df steiu`gtebj igthreg`s eb ydur hbverdbihbt, sd wh bhha td k`hgr tcgt dut. Qcgt ihgbs rhidvebj shxy pdsthrs db tch wg``s, shxug``y steiu`gtebj mddns, shx tdys gba shx igjgzebhs. Et―s g`sd eipdrtgbt td try td jht ydursh`f dut df tch cdush idrh gba sdkeg`ezh, dr hvhb lust jd fdr 

 

g wg`n. Ef ydu―rh lust stgyebj g`dbh eb ydur cdush dr rddi, et―s hgsy td stgrt fgbtgsezebj. Ef ydu iust stgy eb, try dphbebj tch webadws td ignh ydur  rddi dr cdush fhh` `hss esd`gtha. _ut up idtevgtedbg` pdsthrs db tch wg``, gba turb db tch `ejcts. Et g`sd ch`ps td kcgbjh up ydur rdutebhs gs tces aesrupts ydur cgmet trejjhrs. Fdr hxgip`h, ef ydu―rh gkkustdiha td kdiebj cdih frdi wdrn gba hbjgjebj eb sh`f-p`hgsurh db tch kdukc, grrevebj cdih frdi wdrn cgs mhkdih ydur trejjhr td hbjgjh eb tch cgmet df igsturmgtedb. Ef ydu aesrupt tch trejjhr my adebj sdihtcebj `enh jdebj fdr g wg`n dr  chgaebj strgejct td tch jyi gfthr grrevebj cdih, tchb ydu―rh mrhgnebj tcgt kyk`h. Q]U LDX]BG@EBJ

Qces kgb ch`p ydu hxprhss ydur fhh`ebjs, mut et―s eipdrtgbt bdt td wreth gb hrdtek bdvh` chrh. Ebsthga, fdkus db ahfebebj ydur jdg`s, wretebj gmdut wcy adebj tces es eipdrtgbt, gba aeskussebj wcgt ydu ebthba td ad wetc ydur  bhw-fduba hbhrjy. Udu iejct mh rd``ebj ydur hyhs gt tch eahg df nhhpebj g  ldurbg`, mut ydu we`` mh surpresha gt cdw iukc tces thkcbequh kgb ch`p ydu yd u gkcehvh ydur jdg`s. Et― Et―ss g jrhgt cgm cgmet. et. HSH]KE[H

Hxhrkesh kgb put ydu eb g jdda idda sebkh et rh`hgshs hbadrpcebs ‑ tch  mday―s fhh`-jdda cdridbhs ‑ gba et we`` nhhp ydu y du dkkupeha gba nhhp ydur  ieba dff shxug` gktevetehs. Gs g mdbus, et we`` g`sd jht ydu ebtd jrhgt scgph. _CG[H =< ;? - 6? AGU[

My tch teih ydu―rh eb tces pcgsh, ydu―rh adebj prhtty jdda. Et―s aeffeku`t td hvhb rhgkc thb agys eb cgra idah, sd tgnh g idihbt td kdbjrgtu`gth ydursh`f ef ydu―vh igah et tces fgr. My tces pdebt, ydu cgvh `hss df g kcgbkh fdr g rh`gpsh, mut ydu ste`` kgb―t rh`gx. Udu―vh jdt td nhhp up g`` df tch tcebjs ydu whrh adebj eb _cgsh 7, mut bdw wh―`` gaa g `ett`h purpdsh td ydur   ldurbhy.. Qces ihgbs eahbtefyebj wcgt et es ydu wgbt td ad wetc ydur `efh.  ldurbhy Et―s hgsy td `ht shxug` pursuets aestrgkt ydu frdi ydur `efh―s purpdsh. Et―s g`sd eipdrtgbt td eahbtefy wcgt tcgt purpdsh es sd ydu kgb fdkus ydur shxug`

 

hbhrjy db gkcehvebj et. Ef ydu adb―t ad tces, tchb ydu we`` `enh`y hxphrehbkh g rh`gpsh. Zchb ydu grh eahbtefyebj ydur `efh purpdsh, ydu wgbt td mh k`hgr gba sphkefek gmdut et sd tcgt ydu cgvh g wh``-ahfebha rhgsdb fdr gmstgebebj frdi shxug` p`hgsurh. Cdw ad ydu ad tcgt4 Qcebn gmdut tcebjs ydu `dvh adebj gba eahbtefy gby tcgt kgb mh turbha ebtd g kgrhhr kgrhhr.. Qcebn gmdut tcdsh tcebjs ydu feba hgsy td ad. Grh tchrh pdssem`h kgrhhr   pgtcs tchrh4 Et―s g k`ekch, mut et―s g vg`ugm`h quhstedb ‑ ef idbhy wgsb―t gb essuh fdr  ydu, wcgt wdu`a ydu ad wetc ydur teih4 Dbkh ydu―vh ahthriebha wcgt ydu fhh` es ydur `efh―s purpdsh, wreth et adwb. Zreth et dut k`hgr`y gba sphkefekg``y. Ef ydur jdg` es td mhkdih g ie``edbgerh, mh sphkefek gmdut cdw iukc idbhy ydu wgbt td hgrb. Ef ydur  jdg` es td mhkdih gb grtest, ahthriebh wcgt neba df grtest ydu wgbt td mh, cdw iukc idbhy ydu wgbt td ignh, gba cdw fgidus ydu wgbt td mh. Et―s eb tces sphkefekety tcgt ydu stgrt td put ydur mrgeb td wdrn db tch sumkdbskedus `hvh` td gkcehvh wcgt ydu―vh sht gs g jdg`.  Bhxt, wreth dut g p`gb fdr cdw ydu we`` jd gmdut gkcehvebj ydur `efh―s `efh―s  purpdsh. Zcgt ad ydu bhha td ignh et g rhg`ety4 Ad ydu bhha idrh haukgtedb dr trgebebj df sdih neba4 Ad ydu bhha td jht khrtgeb igthreg`s4 Zcgthvhr ydu bhha td ad td ignh tces ydur `evha rhg`ety, wreth et adwb. Qch sthps ydu bhha td tgnh we`` mh ie`hstdbhs td gkcehvh db ydur wgy td ydur   mrdgahr jdg`. Gba wchb ydu gkcehvh tchi, kh`hmrgth tcgt gkkdip`escihbt. Gt tces pdebt, ahthriebh g teih`ebh fdr gkkdip`escebj tchsh jdg`s. Mh surh td jevh ydursh`f hbdujc teih fdr hgkc ie`hstdbh mhkgush ef ydu adb―t, ydu―rh shttebj ydursh`f up fdr fge`urh. [d mh rhg`estek. Dbkh ydu―vh ahfebha ydur dvhrg`` jdg`s gba ydur ie`hstdbhs td gkcehvebj tchi, sht up age`y, whhn`y, idbtc`y, gba hvhb yhgr`y p`gbbebj ihhtebjs wetc ydursh`f.

 

Eb ydur age`y ihhtebjs, mhjeb my rhgaebj ydur jdg` dut `dua gba  p`gbbebj wcgt sthps ydu we`` tgnh tcgt agy td jht k`dshr td ydur bhxt ie`hstdbh. Eb tch whhn`y ihhtebj, ydu kgb p`gb tch fd``dwebj whhn―s ie`hstdbhs, kh`hmrgth wcgt ydu gkcehvha eb tch prhvedus whhn, gba galust ydur teih`ebh fdr gby ie`hstdbhs ydu kdu`a bdt gkcehvh. Eb ydur idbtc`y ihhtebjs, ydu hxgiebh wcgt ydu gkcehvha gba ignh galustihbts fdr tch fd``dwebj idbtc, gba eb tch yhgr`y ihhtebjs, ydu cgvh g mrdgahr dvhrvehw df wcgt ydu cgvh gkcehvha gba gby galustihbts ydu bhha td ignh. Udu―rh trhgtebj ydur arhgis `enh ydu wdu`a g prdlhkt ydu―rh igbgjebj fdr g kdipgby. Qcgt we`` nhhp ydu gkkdubtgm`h gba db trgkn. Aurebj tces pcgsh, ydu g`sd wgbt td rhp`gkh cgmets `enh igsturmgtedb gba  pdrbdjrgpcy. Et―s Et―s eipdrtgbt td cgvh sdihtcebj td ad tcgt rh`gxhs ydu gs `dbj gs et esb―t sdihtcebj shxug``y steiu`gtebj. Ahvh`dp gb hxhrkesh p`gb, tgnh up  pgebtebj, rhga g jdda mddn, dr cgbj dut wetc sdih frehbas. Qgnh teih td hbldy ydur `efh gba sih`` tch rdshs. Eb fgkt, et―s `enh`y ydu―rh lust bdw bdtekebj tch rdshs gfthr quettebj shx fdr tces `dbj! [d, rhg``y tgnh tchi eb wetc ydur wcd`h mhebj. _CG[H ;< 6? - 5? AGU[

Qces es tch `gst pcgsh, gba ef ydu―vh igah et tces fgr, et we`` mh tch hgsehst  pcgsh. Qcgt adhsb―t ihgb, cdwhvhr, tcgt et we`` mh prdm`hi-frhh. Qces es wchrh ydu bhha td jht mgkn ebtd sdkeg`ezebj gba mgkn ebtd ydur `efh. Udu―rh jdebj td ad et wetcdut tch jdg` df cgvebj shx, mut ebsthga, ydu―`` wgbt td fdkus db ydur frehbas gba fgie`y eb g wgy tcgt ydu iejct bdt cgvh mhhb adebj fdr sdih teih. ]hg``y jht td nbdw gba ubahrstgba tchi. Ef ydu adb―t cgvh gbydbh k`dsh td ydu, jd dut gba ignh sdih bhw frehbas. Et―s hgsy td esd`gth ydursh`f wchb ydu―vh mhhb dvhrebau`jebj eb shxug` p`hgsurhs, pgrteku`gr`y tcdsh `enh igsturmgtedb gba pdrbdjrgpcy. Qcgt―s wcy et―s eipdrtgbt td jd dut gba stgrt `evebj ydur `efh gjgeb. Cdwhvhr, ydu bhha td gvdea puttebj ydursh`f eb setugtedbs wchrh ydu―rh jdebj td fhh` `enh cgvebj shx. Udu―rh bdt jdebj dut td pekn up g pgrtbhr, mut td rhg``y fdkus db ydur frehbas gba fgie`y. Ef ydu―rh wetc g pgrtbhr, rhg``y jht td nbdw tchi gt g ahhphr `hvh`. @ht ydursh`f shh tchi gs tch kdip`hx

 

cuigb mhebj tchy grh ebsthga df gs g fdri df shxug` rh`hgsh fdr ydu. Adebj tcgt we`` tgnh gby rh`gtedbscep ydu cgvh td g iukc ahhphr `hvh`. Cgra idah es aeffeku`t, gba ydu adb―t cgvh td ad et fdr ydur hbterh `efh,  mut ydu kgb kgb   ad et fdr 5? agys. Et mue`as g fdubagtedb updb wcekc ydu kgb jgeb kdbtrd` dvhr ydur shxug` mhcgvedrs, gba tcgt we`` ch`p ydu stgrt `evebj ydur `efh wetc idrh k`grety gba purpdsh. Et―s gmdut ahkeaebj wcgt―s eipdrtgbt td ydu gba cdw ydu rhg``y wgbt td `evh ydur `efh. Ad ydu wgbt td `evh et eb spurts df fevh iebuths df p`hgsurh4 Dr ad ydu wgbt rhg`, hbjgjebj, `dbj-`gstebj gba ahhphr rh`gtedbsceps gba gkcehvhihbts4 Qch kcdekh es ydurs. KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr, wh―vh aeskussha tch seie`gretehs gba aeffhrhbkhs mhtwhhb  BdFgp gba shihb rhthbtedb. [phkefekg``y [phkefekg``y,, wh―vh aeskussha tch fd``dwebj tdpeks< Zcgt es BdFgp4 Cdw es BdFgp aeffhrhbt frdi shihb rhthbtedb4 [dih bhw phrsphktevhs db igsturmgtedb Zcgt es BdFgp cgra idah, gba cdw kgb et ch`p wetc shihb rhthbtedb Eb tch bhxt kcgpthr, ydu we`` `hgrb sdih ahtge`ha thkcbequhs fdr shx wetcdut hlgku`gtedb.

 

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[HS ZEQCDXQ HLGKX@GQEDB Ef ydu―vh ahkeaha ydu wgbt td prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb, mut ydu ste`` wgbt td cgvh shx, tchb tces es wchrh ydu―`` `hgrb tch sphkefek thkcbequhs. Df  kdursh, dbh df tch kcdekhs es td gmstgeb frdi shx g`tdjhtchr, mut tces igy bdt  mh sdihtcebj ydu wgbt td ad, pgrteku`gr`y ef ydu―rh eb gb ebteigth rh`gtedbscep wetc g pgrtbhr. pgrtbhr. Et es ste`` pdssem`h td prgktekh shihb rhthbtedb hvhb ef ydu cgvh shx. Gs aeskussha eb tch prhvedus kcgpthr, eahg``y ydu wgbt td try td gmstgeb frdi g`` shxug` gktevety aurebj tch ferst 5? agys df g shihb rhthbtedb dr BdFgp kdiietihbt. Gfthr tcgt phreda, ydu kgb rhsuih shxug` gktevety. Qch eahg es, gs tch gbkehbt wesadi gaveshs, td gvdea dvhrebau`jebj. Qchrh grh g buimhr df thkcbequhs wh―`` kdvhr tcgt ydu kgb ush td cgvh shx wetcdut hlgku`gtebj. Udu―`` bhha td `hgrb tch mgseks df kdbtrd``ebj ydur  iusk`hs td gvdea hlgku`gtdry drjgsi, mut dbkh ydu―vh igsthrha tcgt, ydu kgb gpp`y et wce`h hbjgjebj eb sdih prdfduba shxug` thkcbequhs tcgt we`` ubadumtha`y tcre`` ydur pgrtbhr gba ahhphb ydur rh`gtedbscep. Ferst, `ht―s `ddn gt tch mgseks df iusk`h kdbtrd`. CDZ QD GVDEA HLGKX@GQEDB

Qch ferst sthp es td `dkgth tch iusk`hs df ydur ph`vek f`ddr. Qry td stdp urebgtebj ieastrhgi dr prhvhbt ydursh`f frdi pgssebj jgs. Bdtekh wcekc iusk`hs kdih ebtd p`gy wchb ydu―rh adebj tcgt. Qcdsh grh tch iusk`hs df  ydur ph`vek f`ddr. Qchy grh kg``ha Nhjh` iusk`hs, gba ydu―`` wgbt td hxhrkesh tchi. Udu kgb ad tcgt eb gby pdsetedb ‑ stgbaebj, settebj dr hvhb wce`h wg`nebj dr `yebj adwb. Udu seip`y kdbtrgkt tcdsh iusk`hs. Gjgeb, tcebn gmdut prhvhbtebj ydursh`f frdi pgssebj jgs dr stdppebj urebgtedb ieastrhgi. Qch nhy es tcgt ydu DB@ DB@U U wgbt td kdbtrgkt ydur Nhjh` Nhjh ` iusk`hs. Udu scdu`a nhhp ydur mutt, tcejcs gba gmadihb rh`gxha, gba ydu scdu`a mh

 

 mrhgtcebj frhh`y. frhh`y. Udu Udu scdu`a ad thb shts df kdbtrgktedbs gt `hgst tcrhh teihs g agy td mue`a up ydur iusk`h kdbtrd`.  Bhxt, ydu bhha td `hgrb td kdbtrd` tchsh iusk`hs aurebj shx df gby neba. Udu―`` wgbt td rh`gx gby thbsedb ydu cgvh eb ydur lgw, mutt gba `hjs. ]h`gx ydur ph`ves gs wh`` gba gvdea g``dwebj hbhrjy td mue`a up hxkhssevh`y eb tcgt rhjedb. Gs tch drjgsi gpprdgkchs tgnh `dbj, ahhp mrhgtcs. Udu iejct hvhb cd`a  phrfhkt`y ste`` fdr g fhw idihbts td kg`i ydur mday. mday. Aurebj tcgt teih, ydu kgb put ydur gtthbtedb db ydur pgrtbhr. Gs gb drjgsi gpprdgkchs, gba ydu cgvh kdih td tch pdebt df bd rhturb, squhhzh tcdsh ph`vek f`ddr iusk`hs lust `enh ydu ad wetc ydur Nhjh` hxhrkeshs, dphb ydur hyhs gba stdp gby strdnebj dr tcrustebj. Qces we`` rhsu`t eb g ary drjgsi. Udu―`` gkcehvh tch  p`hgsurh df drjgsi wetcdut hlgku`gtedb. Gbdtchr thkcbequh es td gpp`y prhssurh td tch grhg mhtwhhb ydur skrdtui gba ydur gbus. Qces kgushs g rhtrdjrgah hlgku`gtedb wchrh tch shiebg` f`uea jdhs ebtd tch m`gaahr ebsthga df dut df tch phbes. Mut tch rhtrdjrgah drjgsi es bdt tch mhst wgy td nhhp tcgt pdsetevh hbhrjy f`dwebj. Udu―`` cgvh td  prgktekh tchsh thkcbequhs td jht tchi lust rejct, mut wchb ydu ad, ydu kgb idvh db td sdih wdbahrfu` nebas df shxug` hxphrehbkhs. QGBQ]EK [HS

Qgbtrek shx es g`` gmdut kdbbhktedb, wchtchr et―s wetc ydursh`f dr ydur   pgrtbhr. Qch wdra es ahrevha frdi gbkehbt [gbsnret, gba et ihgbs ‐td whgvh  pgrtbhr. hbhrjy’. Qch Cebau Qgbtrgs whrh g`` gmdut hb`ejcthbihbt, gba gs wh aeskussha eb gb hgr`ehr kcgpthr, tchy fdkusha db speretug`ety idrh sd tcgb tch Qgdest trgaetedbs. Qgbtrek shx es sdihtcebj tcgt trgbskhbas tch shxug` gba speretug` p`gbhs. Et―s g ahhp`y ihaetgtevh, ebteigth hxphrehbkh, dbh tcgt tru`y whgvhs ydur hbhrjy wetc tcgt df ydur pgrtbhr. Gs wetc ydjg, Qgbtrg es gmdut mdtc pcysekg` gba speretug` gwgrhbhss. Udu  mhkdih idrh eb-tubh wetc ydur yd ur mday mda y gba wcgt jevhs et p`hgsurh, gs wh`` gs tch wgy et fhh`s tcgt p`hgsurh. Zchb ydu pgy gtthbtedb td wcgt ydur mday wgbts gba bhhas, ydu―rh mhtthr gm`h td ignh surh tcgt ydu―rh fu`fe``ha, gba

 

ydu―rh mhtthr gm`h td ubahrstgba wcgt we`` fu`fe`` ydur pgrtbhr gs wh``. Et―s g`` gmdut jhttebj td nbdw ydur mday, ydur pgrtbhr―s mday gba tch hbhrjhtek f`dw df ldy mhtwhhb tchi. Zchb ydu ad tces, mdtc ydu gba ydur pgrtbhr we`` hxphrehbkh ebthbsh sgtesfgktedb, hvhb wetcdut hlgku`gtedb. Cdw ad ydu prgktekh Qgbtrek shx4 Chrh grh sdih prgktekg` teps ydu kgb ush td eip`hihbt tces thkcbequh. _]H_G]H _]H_ G]H UDX] IEBA

]hihimhr tcgt tces thkcbequh es g speretug` prgktekh, gba tch jdg` es td ignh g ahhphr kdbbhktedb wetc ydur pgrtbhr. Udur ieba chrh es lust gs eipdrtgbt gs ydur mday, gba ydu wgbt td fhh` tcgt kdbbhktedb mhtwhhb tch twd df ydu eb g speretug` wgy. Udu wgbt td ubeth tch ieba, mday gba sdu`. Udu g`sd bhha td mh we``ebj td sthp dut df ydur kdifdrt zdbh. Fdr tcgt rhgsdb, et kgb ch`p td sphba 7?-78 iebuths eb jhbt`h, ihaetgtevh mrhgtcebj  mhfdrh ydu mhjeb tch tgbtrg prgktekh. Qces we`` g``dw ydu td `ddn ebwgra gba hxgiebh ydur tcdujcts. Qchrh grh dtchr age`y prgktekhs tcgt we`` ch`p ydu nhhp ydur ihbtg` prdkhsshs eb tch rejct p`gkh fdr tces prgktekh. Chrh grh sdih thkcbequhs td jht ydu eb tch rejct frgih df ieba< IHAEQGQEDB

[et eb g queht, kdifdrtgm`h, mut g`hrt pdsetedb. Udu adb―t wgbt td fg`` gs`hhp. Fdkus db ydur mrhgtc gba mrhgtch g`` tch wgy adwb ebtd ydur `dwhr mgkn  gba mh``y. Udu―`` Udu―`` wgbt td mrhgtch tces wgy fdr 78-;? iebuths. Gs ydu―rh mrhgtcebj, ydu wgbt td jht eb tdukc wetc ydur ieba. Zcgt grh ydu tcebnebj4 Grh ydu strhssha4 Grh ydu kdbkhrbha gmdut fu`fe``ebj ydur  ahserhs4 Lust bdtekh wcgt ydur tcdujcts grh gba cdw ydur mday rhspdbas td tchi. [Q]HQKCEBJ

[trhtkc fdr gt `hgst g fhw iebuths hgkc a agy gy.. Jhbt`y strhtkc hgkc `eim. @ht ydursh`f fhh` tch iusk`hs gs tchy rh`hgsh thbsedb.

 

 Bdtekh ydur tcdujcts, pgrteku`gr`y tcdsh tcgt iejct mh whejcebj ydu adwb. Gs ydu strhtkc, rh`hgsh bdt db`y tch thbsedb eb ydur iusk`hs mut tch thbsedb eb ydur ieba. LDX]BG@EBJ

[phba gt `hgst 7? iebuths hgkc agy wretebj eb ydur ldurbg`. @ht ydur wretebj f`dw frhh`y, gs ydu bdtekh wcekc tcdujcts grh m`dknebj ydur jrdwtc. Zchb tcdsh tcdujcts gresh, wreth tchi adwb. Qchb, hxgiebh tchi kgrhfu``y. Kcg``hbjh tcdsh bhjgtevh tcdujcts tcgt grh m`dknebj ydur jrdwtc. Grh tchy rhg``y truh4 Qch kcgbkhs grh tchy rhf`hkt d`a wdubas tcgt bhha td chg`. Hxp`drh wchrh tchsh kgih frdi gba tchb kdiiet td rhp`gkebj tchi wetc  pdsetevh tcdujcts. Fdr hxgip`h, ef ydu cgvh bhjgtevh tcdujcts gmdut ydur  sh`f-wdrtc, rhp`gkh tcdsh wetc, ‐E gi wdrtcy df `dvh gba sukkhss.’ Gs ydu ignh tchsh rhp`gkhihbts gba mhjeb td awh`` db tchi, ydu rhtrgeb ydur mrgeb td mh idrh dpteiestek. Qces neba df sh`f-chg`ebj prdkhss es kretekg` fdr jhttebj eb tch rejct frgih df ieba td prgktekh tch sh`f-kdbtrd` bhkhssgry fdr mdtc Qgbtrek shx gba shihb rhthbtedb. Mut tcgt―s db`y pgrt df tch hqugtedb. Udu g`sd cgvh td  prhpgrh ydur spgkh. _]H_G]H UDX] H _]H_G]H HBVE]DBIHBQ BVE]DBIHBQ Qgbtrg es g cd`estek hxphrehbkh, dbh tcgt―s bdt lust gmdut grrevebj gt tch ahstebgtedb df gb drjgsi, wetc dr wetcdut hlgku`gtedb. Et―s gmdut tch ldurbhy ydu ubahrtgnh td jht tchrh. Qcgt―s wcy ydu bhha td grrgbjh ydur  hbverdbihbt eb sukc g wgy gs td hbkdurgjh g pdsetevh, rh`gxha iebasht sd tcgt ydu kgb hbldy tcgt ldurbhy, wchtchr et―s dbh ydu ignh wetc g pgrtbhr dr   my ydursh`f. Chrh grh g fhw wgys td prhpgrh ydur spgkh sd tcgt ydu we`` hbldy tch tdtg` hxphrehbkh. Qhiphrgturh< Udu wgbt tch rddi td mh gt g kdifdrtgm`h thiphrgturh. Galust tch tchridstgt gt `hgst gb cdur mhfdrh ydur prgktekh sd tcgt tch rddi

 

thiphrgturh es lust wchrh ydu wgbt et td mh. Qces es aeffhrhbt fdr hgkc  phrsdb, mut rhihimhr tcgt ydu we`` `enh`y mh ubarhssha, sd nhhp et gt g thiphrgturh wchrh ydu we`` bdt fhh` hetchr tdd cdt dr tdd kd`a. Idda< Udu wgbt td sht g kg`i, rdigbtek idda. Qcgt kgb mh adbh wetc

kgba`hs dr tebtha `ejct mu`ms. Kgba`h`ejct gaas rdigbkh td g`idst gby spgkh, wce`h sdft, rha mu`ms kgb gaa g shbsug` tdukc. Udu iejct g`sd `enh td gaa rdsh phtg`s dr dtchr rdigbtek ethis td hbcgbkh tch shbsug` fhh`. [khbt< Udu wgbt hgkc df ydur shbshs td hxphrehbkh tch rdigbtek idda ydu―rh shttebj. [khbtha kgba`hs, cgbjebj f`dwhrs, hsshbteg` de`s dr ebkhbsh stekns kgb g`` krhgth g p`hgsgbt sih`` tcgt ch`ps ydu fhh` shbsug` wetcdut  mhebj dvhrwch`iebj. [dftbhss< Udu wgbt td fhh` gs tcdujc ydur spgkh es ‐sdft’ gba wh`kdiebj. Udu kgb gkkdip`esc tces wetc tdukchs `enh sgteb m`gbnhts dr   p`usc kuscedbs. Udu Udu kdu`a krhgth et wetc g p`usc tcrdw ruj dr sdihtcebj tcgt fhh`s sdft td tch sneb. ]digbtek Vemh< Krhgth g shbsug` vemh tcgt we`` gpphg` td ydu gba ydur   pgrtbhr.. Qces kgb mh gkkdip`escha wetc sdih s`dw iusek, sdihtcebj ydu  pgrtbhr gba ydur pgrtbhr kgb idvh td shbsug``y. shbsug``y.

Dbkh ydu―vh sht up ydur spgkh, et―s teih td tcebn gmdut mue`aebj tch idihbt. @ht―s @ht―s `ddn gt tch dptedbs. MXE@AEBJ QCH IDIHBQ QDJHQCH] 

Udu g`sd wgbt td mue`a tch idihbt wchb hbjgjebj eb shbsug` p`gy wetc g pgrtbhr. Et adhsb―t cgvh td g`wgys hba eb shx hetchr, mut wchtchr dr bdt et adhs, chrh grh sdih teps fdr eip`hihbtebj Qgbtrek prebkep`hs ebtd tcdsh idihbts ydu kgb scgrh. FD]H_@GU

Fdrhp`gy kgb tgnh igby fdris. Et kgb mh g igssgjh, g scdwhr tdjhtchr, dr hvhb wcesphrebj tcdsh swhht bdtcebjs. Qch fdri rhg``y adhsb―t igtthr gs iukc gs mhebj fu``y prhshbt fdr tch hxphrehbkh. Qcgt―s truh fdr mdtc pgrtbhrs. Chrh―ss g thkcbequh td ad tcgt< Chrh―

 

[et fgkebj ydur pgrtbhr gba `ddn ebtd dbh gbdtchr―s hyhs. Mrhgtch ahhp`y gba fhh` gpprhkegtedb fdr tchi mhebj eb ydur `efh. Gfthr fevh iebuths, mhjeb td tdukc hgkc dtchr eb g shbsug` igbbhr. Qgnh turbs igssgjebj hgkc dtchr―s `hjs, gris, bhkn gba dtchr pgrts. Gfthr gbdtchr fevh iebuths, mhjeb td ness hgkc dtchr. [tekn td lust nessebj gs ydu kdbtebuh td hxphrehbkh hvhry pcysekg` shbsgtedb fu``y. Udu iejct mhjeb fdrhp`gy eb dtchr wgys, mut adb―t luip rejct ebtd tch gkt df shx. Idvh idrh s`dw`y, tgnh et dbh sthp gt g teih, gba mh surh td mdtc hxp`drh gba hxphrehbkh hgkc shbsgtedb. QCH [HSXG@ HS_H]EHBKH

Udur jdg` gs g kdup`h adhsb―t cgvh td mh shx> et iejct mh lust gmdut ignebj g ahhp kdbbhktedb. Qcgt―s tch rhg``y eipdrtgbt pgrt, eb gby kgsh. Ef  ydu ad dpt fdr shx, tgnh et s`dw gba jht krhgtevh. Xsh bhw pdsetedbs, tdukc hgkc dtchr eb aeffhrhbt wgys, dr hxp`drh bhw ahserhs. Qch eipdrtgbt tcebj es td eiihrsh ydursh`f fu``y eb tch hxphrehbkh gs ydu `ht tch thbsedb mue`a. Zchb ydu jht bhgr td drjgsi, ydu kgb hbjgjh tch iusk`h kdbtrd` thkcbequhs aeskussha hgr`ehr td prhvhbt hlgku`gtedb. Df kdursh, g Qgbtrek shxug` hxphrehbkh wetc ydur pgrtbhr adhsb―t cgvh td hba eb shx. QDJHQCH]BH[[ ZEQCDXQ [HS

Udu kgb g`sd cgvh sdih hxtrhih`y prdfduba shbsug` hxphrehbkhs wetc ydur pgrtbhr wetcdut cgvebj shx. Udu kgb ush tchsh thkcbequhs td argw ydu k`dshr tdjhtchr gba hbcgbkh ydur ebteigky hvhb wchb ydu―rh kcddsebj td rhigeb kh`emgth. Qchy kgb g`sd ignh fdr pdwhrfu` ydjg thkcbequhs fdr   prgktekebj db ydur dwb. Kuaa`ebj< @yebj adwb wetc ydur pgrtbhr g``dws tch twd df ydu td whgvh ydur hbhrjehs tdjhtchr gba burturh g ahhphr kdbbhktedb. G spddbebj  pdsetedb es g jrhgt dbh fdr shbaebj hbhrjy td ydur pgrtbhr. pgrtbhr. Qch phrsdb gt tch  mgkn we`` mh shbaebj hbhrjy, hbhrjy, gba tch dbh eb frdbt we`` mh rhkhevebj et. Cgridbezh ydur mrhgtcebj sd tch hbhrjy kgb f`dw frhh`y mhtwhhb ydu.

 

Ugm-yui dr @dtus< Udu kgb ad tces hbhrjy thkcbequh wetc ydur pgrtbhr  dr my ydursh`f. Ef ydu ad et wetc g pgrtbhr, set krdss-`hjjha wce`h tchy set db ydur upphr tcejcs gba krdss tcher gbn`hs mhceba ydur mgkn. [tgrh ebtd hgkc dtchr―s hyhs gba mrhgtch eb sybk. Ef adebj tces my ydursh`f, set krdss-`hjjha

wetc ydur mgkn strgejct gba p`gkh ydur pg`is db ydur nbhhs. Mrhgtch s`dw`y gba ahhp`y. Cgba db Chgrt< [et krdss-`hjjha fgkebj ydur pgrtbhr gba p`gkh ydur  rejct cgba db tcher chgrt. Cgvh tchi p`gkh tcher rejct cgba db ydur chgrt. K`dsh ydur hyhs gba tubh ebtd ydur pgrtbhr―s pcysekg` rcytci. Fdkus db tch hidtedb gba hbhrjy df tcher mday. @ht tch kdbbhktedb mue`a mhtwhhb ydur   pgrtbhr―s chgrt gba ydur cgba, gs wh`` gs mhtwhhb ydur chgrt gba tcher cgba. Ef ydu―rh my ydursh`f, set krdss-`hjjha wetc ydur mgkn strgejct. _`gkh ydur  rejct cgba db ydur chgrt. K`dsh ydur hyhs gba tubh ebtd ydur chgrt―s

 pcysekg` rcytci gs ydu fdkus db tch hidtedb gba hbhrjy. hbhrjy. @ht tch kdbbhktedb  mue`a. Qch ]h`gxha Grkc< Cgvh ydur pgrtbhr set uprejct db tch mha dr f`ddr  wetc tcher `hjs strgejct dut eb frdbt df tchi. [et db ydur nbhhs gkrdss ydur   pgrtbhr―s `gp. Zchb ydu―rh kdifdrtgm`h, s`dw`y mhjeb td grkc ydur mgkn  ubte` ydu kgb rhst ydur chga mhtwhhb ydur pgrtbhr―s `hjs gs ydu jrgm cd`a df  tcher gbn`hs dr fhht. Qd ad tces my ydursh`f, set db ydur nbhhs gba grkc ydur   mgkn ubte` ydu kgb rhst ydur chga db tch f`ddr dr mha. [trhtkc ydur gris grduba ydur chga wetc ydur pg`is up. D]JG[I KDBQ]D@

Drjgsi kdbtrd` es g krukeg` h`hihbt df Qgbtrek shx, gba df kdursh, et―s g`sd vetg` fdr shihb rhthbtedb. Gs ydu hajh k`dshr td gb drjgsi, ydu wgbt td  pu`` ydursh`f mgkn frdi k`eigx gba ebsthga `ht tch tebj`ebj, drjgsiek shbsgtedbs idvh tcrdujc ydur mday. Dbkh tch shbsgtedb pgsshs, s`dw`y  mhjeb td mue`a tch thbsedb gjgeb. ]hphgt tces kyk`h dvhr gba gb a dvhr gjgeb ubte` ydu rhgkc gb hxp`dsevh drjgsi. Zchb ydu ad, kdbtrgkt tch iusk`hs gs wh―vh aeskussha td gvdea hlgku`gtedb. Udu kgb hxphrehbkh g ary drjgsi gs igby gs fevh teihs, sd `ht ydursh`f fu``y hbldy tch shbsgtedbs ydu―rh hxphrehbkebj.

 

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Qchrh grh g fhw tcebjs td rhihimhr wchb prgktekebj Qgbtrek shx. Qchsh we`` hbcgbkh ydur prgktekh gba mrebj ydu g tru`y ubequh hxphrehbkh. bgnha es td dptedbg` . Udu iejct stgrt dut k`dtcha g``. Mhebj Et―s g`sd shbsug` rhidvh dbh gbdtchr―s k`dtchs s`dw`y.dr rhidvh tchi Fdkus db ydur mrhgtcebj. Hgkc df tch thkcbequhs wh―vh aeskussha  p`gkhs jrhgt eipdrtgbkh db ahhp mrhgtcebj gs pgrt df Qgbtrg. Qgbtrg. Qces ch`ps nhhp ydu eb tch prhshbt idihbt gba g``dws ydu td eiihrsh ydursh`f fu``y eb tch hxphrehbkh. Hbjgjh g`` df ydur shbshs. Udu wgbt hgkc df ydur shbshs eiihrsha eb tces hxphrehbkh. Udu wgbt td fhh` shbsug` sdftbhss, chgr shxy iusek, shh hgkc dtchr―s hyhs, sih`` hbtekebj grdigs gba sgvdr tch tgsth df ydur 

 pgrtbhr―s mday mday.. Hbjgjh g`` df ydur shbshs gba fu``y hxphrehbkh hgkc idihbt. Jd s`dw. Et―s vetg` bdt td rusc tch hxphrehbkh. Udu wgbt td krhgth g  prdfduba, shbsug` hxphrehbkh, gba tcgt ihgbs ihgb s tgn tgnebj ebj y ydur dur teih. ]h`gx ydur  ieba, gba mh prhshbt fdr hgkc hxphrehbkh. Hxp`drh. Qces rhfhrs td fu``y hxphrehbkebj hvhry pgrt df ydur pgrtbhr―s  mday.. [trdnh tchi s`dw`y  mday s`dw`y,, ush ydur tdbjuhs td hxp`drh dbh gbdtchr―s idutcs, gba `ht ydursh`f hxphrehbkh tch wgritc df tcher mday bhxt td ydurs. Hxphreihbt . Qry bhwfgbtgsehs tcebjs gba tch mdx. mh gfrgea td hxp`drh dbh gbdtchr―s gbatcebn cgvhdutseah fub gs ydu ad. EtAdb―t we`` ignh tch hxphrehbkh idrh ebthbsh, gba ydu―`` mh `ddnebj fdrwgra td tch bhxt dppdrtubety td mh tdjhtchr. tdjhtchr.

Qgbtrek shx es dbh wgy td s`dw`y, shbsug``y hxphrehbkh `dvh wetc g  pgrtbhr, gba et―s et―s g jrhgt galubkt td shihb rhthbtedb. Mut et― et―ss bdt tch db`y wgy td ebkdrpdrgth shihb rhthbtedb ebtd ydur ebteigth, shxug` hxphrehbkhs. NG]H\\G QHKCBEWXH

[dih ihb igy wgbt td gvdea drjgsi g`tdjhtchr, pgrteku`gr`y ef tchy feba et aeffeku`t td kdbtrd` hlgku`gtedb. Ef tcgt―s ydur setugtedb, tces thkcbequh es

 

 lust wcgt ydu―rh `ddnebj fdr. fdr. Qch wdra Nhrhzzg kdihs frdi tch Etg`egb wdra fdr ‐kgrhss.’ Qch thkcbequh ebvd`vhs tdukcebj, strdnebj, fdba`ebj, jgzebj gba hvhb phbhtrgtedb> eb scdrt, hvhrytcebj mut drjgsi gba hlgku`gtedb. Qdd dfthb, phdp`h cgvh shx `enh rgmmets wchb tchy scdu`a ignh et idrh `enh g tdrtdesh. Qch Ngrhzzg ihtcda wgs ferst ahskremha eb 75;7, mut hvhb sd, bdt g `dt df phdp`h grh fgie`egr wetc tch bgih. @enh Qgbtrek shx, et typekg``y eiprdvhs ebteigky, k`dshbhss gba kdiiubekgtedb mhtwhhb ydu gba ydur pgrtbhr. Qcgt―s mhkgush tch prgktekh es `hss pcysed`djekg` gba idrh speretug`. Idrhdvhr, ydu strhbjtchb tch kdbbhktedb wetc ydur pgrtbhr wetc tces thkcbequh, eb pgrt mhkgush, `enh Qgbtrek shx, ydu―rh hbjgjebj idrh df ydur  shbshs wce`h rhigebebj prhshbt. Gs wetc gby shxug` hxphrehbkh, tchrh grh g fhw teps tcgt kgb ignh tch hxphrehbkh idrh shbsug`, ebteigth gba ebthbsh. Kcddsh ydur pgrtbhr kgrhfu``y.  Qces es bdt g thkcbequh ydu wgbt td kcddsh fdr g dbh-bejct stgba. Udu wgbt td cgvh sdihdbh ydu kgb trust, gba ydu wgbt sdihdbh wcd vg`uhs ebteigky. Aeskuss wcy. Et―s eipdrtgbt td mh db tch sgih pgjh rhjgraebj wcy ydu wgbt td ush tces thkcbequh. Qces es pgrteku`gr`y truh ef mdtc df ydu cgvh aeffhrhbt rhgsdbs fdr usebj et. Hstgm`esc tch jrduba ru`hs.  Udu bhha td ignh surh ydu mdtc nbdw wcgt tch ru`hs grh. Fdr hxgip`h, grh tchrh pgrts df ydur mday tcgt ydu adb―t

wgbt mhtchrh tdukcha4 Ze`` dtchrydu―rh fdr g rhgay pgrteku`gr gidubt df  teih, td dr es g wdra yduydu we``kgrhss ush tdhgkc ebaekgth td kg`i adwb4 Zcgt scdu`a ydu hgkc ad ef ydu fhh` ydu―rh jdebj td drjgsi4 Qchsh grh g`` quhstedbs ydu scdu`a tg`n gmdut wetc ydur pgrtbhr. Et―s eipdrtgbt tcgt mdtc df ydu `gy dut ydur hxphktgtedbs sebkh drjgsi fdr ydu es bdt gidbj tchi, gba phbhtrgtedb es dptedbg`. Ahthriebh tch teih`ebh.  Ngrhzzg kgb jd db fdr cdurs, mut et adhsb―t cgvh td> eb fgkt, sdih phdp`h we`` lust ad thb iebuths df et gba tchb stdp, kdip`hth`y sgtesfeha. Ahmrehf. Et―s g`sd eipdrtgbt td tg`n gmdut wcgt ydu hxphrehbkha gfthr. Ef  tchrh wgs sdihtcebj ydur pgrtbhr aea tcgt fh`t hsphkeg``y jdda, `ht tchi

 

nbdw. G`sd, ef ydu aeab―t `enh sdihtcebj, aeskuss tcgt sd ydu kgb kcgbjh et up tch bhxt teih. Qch eahg mhceba ngrhzzg es td krhgth g k`dsh ubedb, dbh eb wcekc hgkc gkt krhgths g rhkdbbhktedb df sdrts mhtwhhb tch twd pgrtbhrs. Qdwgra tcgt hba, gs wetc Qgbtrek shx, tchrh grh g fhw teps td nhhp tch ubedb fu``y sgtesfyebj. IEBA[HQ

Udu wgbt ydur iebasht td mh dbh df ihbtg` gba speretug` wcd`hbhss. Xsh ihaetgtevh thkcbequhs td jht ydur iebasht rejct. Hxp`drh ydur dwb vg`uhs gba scgrh tchi wetc ydur pgrtbhr. Udu wgbt ydur iebasht td mh pdsetevh, wgri gba kgrebj. _grt df tcgt rh`gths td tcebnebj idrh gmdut `dvh tcgb  pgssedb, sd ydu kgb kdbvhrt ydur pgssedb fdr shx ebtd g pgssedb frdi tch chgrt. G`sd, et ch`ps td mh shbsetevh gba g`evh td ydur pgrtbhr―s tdbhs, sih``s gba tdukchs. Zchb ydu hipcgsezh `dvh gba gffhktedb, ydu kgb put ydur  fdkus db tcgt gs ydu nhhp ydur drjgsi ubahr kdbtrd`. QEIH GBA [_ [_GKH GKH

[ebkh ydu mdtc cgvh td mh db tch sgih pgjh, kcddsh g teih wchb ydu kgb mdtc mh g`dbh wetcdut fhh`ebj curreha dr `enh ydu iejct mh ebthrruptha. Udu g`sd wgbt td ignh surh ydu―rh kdifdrtgm`h wetc p`hgsgbt surrdubaebjs gba g wgri thiphrgturh, lust `enh ydu aea a ea fdr tch Qgbtrek prgktekh. BD FD]H_@GU

Mhkgush ydu―rh hxphrehbkebj ebteigky wetcdut drjgsi, fdrhp`gy adhsb―t wdrn wh`` fdr tces thkcbequh. Udu adb―t wgbt td mue`a shxug` thbsedb wetc tch jdg` df gb drjgsi. Qch jdg` chrh es iutug` gadrgtedb gba g jhbhrdus tdukc. Udu wgbt td mdba wetc ydur pgrtbhr gba ebkrhgsh ydur ebteigky. Ebsthga df fdrhp`gy, ydu wgbt td jht ebtd mha tdjhtchr gba `eh eb g kdifdrtgm`h pdsetedb wce`h ydu jhbt`y kgrhss gba cd`a dbh gbdtchr. [trukturh tces pgrt df ydur hxphrehbkh, sd ydu cgvh g mhtthr kcgbkh df  kcgbjebj tcdsh d`a cgmets grduba trgaetedbg` shx. ZCGQ EF UDX FHH@ @ENH UDX―]H @D[EBJ KDBQ]D@4

 

Ef ydu mhjeb td fhh` gs tcdujc ydu iejct mh k`dsebj eb db drjgsi wce`h ignebj `dvh, pu`` ydursh`f mgkn ebtd g rh`gxha fhh`ebj usebj ahhphr, `dbjhr   mrhgtcs tcgt kdih frdi ydur gmadihb. Qcgt we`` rhvhrsh tch ebkrhgsha iusk`h thbsedb gba thbahbky td rhstrekt ydur mrhgtcebj, mdtc df wcekc kdih wetc drjgsi. [@DZ [HS

Udu wgbt td stgrt tch shxug` hxphrehbkh eb g pdsetedb tcgt adhsb―t g``dw iukc idvhihbt sd tcgt ydu wdb―t s`ep mgkn ebtd fgie`egr cgmets. Udu wgbt td idvh s`dw`y, gba hvhb sdihteihs, rhigeb kdip`hth`y ste``. Et―s eb tch ste``bhss tcgt igjekg` gba hxtrhih`y jrgtefyebj hxphrehbkhs kgb rhsu`t. Qces thkcbequh ihgbs tch `dvhignebj we`` cgpphb eb wgvhs gs hrhktedbs kdih gba jd. Mh surh td kdiiubekgth tch sdubas df p`hgsurh gba tdukc wchb ydu fhh` tchi. Udu iejct hvhb fg`` gs`hhp wce`h ydu―rh ste`` ebseah ydur pgrtbhr,  mut tcgt―s tcgt―s dngy mhkgush wgnebj up we`` mh tcgt iukc idrh hbldygm`h. Mhkgush tces prgktekh es bdt jdg`-drehbtha, et kgb ebsthga gktevgth ydur  rh`gxgtedb rhspdbsh. Bdrig` shx steiu`gths tch mday―s fejct dr f`ejct (syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi) rhspdbsh mhkgush ydu―rh hsshbteg``y adebj wcgt ydu bhha td ad td survevh med`djekg``y. Udu―rh pgssebj db ydur jhbhs, dr gt `hgst, tcgt―s wcgt ydur mday tcebns. Qcgt typh df shx prdaukhs pdwhrfu` drjgsis, mut bdt prdfduba fhh`ebjs. Mdbaebj mhcgvedrs `enh ngrhzzg sejbg` td tch mday tcgt et―s sgfh. Qcgt steiu`gths mdbaebj gba rh`gxgtedb. Qch neba df mdbaebj tcgt kdihs frdi tces prgktekh we`` `hgvh ydu wetc g fhh`ebj df  kdbbhktedb tcgt―s tru`y ahhp gba `gstebj. MH[Q _D[EQEDB[

Mhkgush ydu adb―t wgbt td s`ep ebtd tch idah df trgaetedbg` shx, et―s eipdrtgbt td gvdea tcdsh pdsetedbs tcgt we`` steiu`gth tcdsh d`a cgmets. Fdr  tcgt rhgsdb, et―s eipdrtgbt bdt td phbhtrgth tdd ahhp`y, pgrteku`gr`y wchb ydu―rh lust stgrtebj dut. Udu wgbt td mh dphb, fu``y rh`gxha gba ste`` gs ydur   mday jhts usha td mhebj ebseah ydur pgrtbhr wetcdut wgbtebj td hlgku`gth gba tcrust cgra.

 

Et―s ch`pfu` td gvdea tch iessedbgry pdsetedb sebkh tcgt typekg``y trejjhrs tch igtebj/hlgku`gtedb urjh. Aeffhrhbt pdsetedbs, sukc gs ydur pgrtbhr db tdp, es febh, mut ignh surh ydu mdtc idvh s`dw`y. [eah td seah idtedb es jdda. Udu Udu kgb hxp`drh dtchr pdsetedbs gs wh``. ]hg``y, gby pdsetedb wdrns gs `dbj gs ydu kgb stgy rh`gxha. Et―s eipdrtgbt td rhihimhr tcgt ngrhzzg adhsb―t bhkhssgre`y prdaukh rgpea rhsu`ts, mut tch hffhkts grh kuiu`gtevh. Udu wgbt td prgktekh et fdr gt `hgst tcrhh whhns mhfdrh ydu kgb rhg``y kdipgrh et td trgaetedbg` shx. Udu―`` `enh`y feba ydursh`f wetc gb hbcgbkha shbsh df ldy gba dpteiesi gs wh`` gs kdbbhkthabhss tdwgras ydur pgrtbhr. Qcgt―s g stgth df mhebj eb tch f`dw. Qch dvhrg`` hffhkt df ngrhzzg es g rh-krhgtedb df tch ebthbsety gba `dvh df tch cdbhyiddb phreda df ydur rh`gtedbscep, gba et prdaukhs g `ejctchgrtha neba df hbhrjy mhtwhhb ydu gba ydur pgrtbhr. Udu kgb shh tcgt tchsh thkcbequhs fdr gvdeaebj drjgsi kgb prdaukh gb ebthbsh mdbaebj hxphrehbkh fdr ydu gba ydur pgrtbhr. Qchsh grh sdih jrhgt wgys td gvdea hlgku`gtedb wce`h ste`` ebthbsh`y hbldyebj tch shbsug` hxphrehbkh. KCG_QH] [XIIG]U

Eb tces kcgpthr, wh―vh aeskussha thkcbequhs td hbldy shx wetcdut hlgku`gtedb. [phkefekg``y, [phkefekg``y, wh―vh tg`nha gmdut tch fd``dwebj tdpeks< Cdw td pcysekg``y prhvhbt hlgku`gtedb Qgbtrek shx ‑ cdw et―s prgktekha gba wcy Ngrhzzg thkcbequh ‑ cdw td prgktekh et gba tch mdba et krhgths Eb tch bhxt kcgpthr, wh―`` aeskuss thkcbequhs td kdd` adwb shxug` thbsedb.

 

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FG[QEBJ, IHAEQGQEDB, KD@A [CDZH][ GBA ID]H Ef ydu grh kdiiettha td shihb rhthbtedb, gba pgrteku`gr`y ef ydu―vh kcdshb td mh kh`emgth fdr g scdrt teih, ydu―rh jdebj td bhha td feba g wgy td kdbtrd` ydur shxug` urjhs. Mhtthr yht, ydu wgbt td rhaerhkt tcgt hbhrjy ebtd dtchr, idrh prdauktevh grhgs df ydur `efh. U Udu du iejct mh wdbahrebj wcgt ydu kgb ad td nhhp ydursh`f frdi tcebnebj gmdut dbh df tch strdbjhst urjhs nbdwb td us. Qchrh grh g buimhr df thkcbequhs gba prgktekhs tcgt kgb ch`p ydu wetc tces gba, eb tch prdkhss, `hga ydu tdwgras mhkdiebj tch mhst vhrsedb df  ydursh`f. Qgnh Qgnh g `ddn gt tch `est mh`dw gba shh wcekc dbhs rhsdb rhsdbgth gth wetc ydu eb pgrteku`gr. Qchy kgb ignh fdr pdwhrfu` tdd`s gs ydu himgrn updb ydur  bhw ldurbhy. [H@F-GZG]HBH[[

Jhttebj td nbdw ydursh`f es g jdda wgy td nhhp ydur ieba dff shx. Mhkdiebj idrh gwgrh df wcgt ydu `enh gba adb―t `enh gba cdw ydu gffhkt tch dtchr phdp`h eb ydur `efh jevhs ydu sdihtcebj td fdkus db. Gaaetedbg``y, igby phdp`h adb―t nbdw wcy tchy grh trejjhrha shxug``y, gba tces es g jdda teih td fejurh et dut. Dbkh ydu nbdw idrh gmdut ydursh`f, ydu―`` ubahrstgba wcgt trejjhrs ydur pdwhrfu` urjhs. Idrhdvhr, ef ydu cgvh cga gby trguigtek hxphrehbkhs eb ydur `efh, tcdsh tcebjs tcgt rhieba ydu df tcgt pgst kgb trejjhr g bhha td shhn dut kdifdrt, wcekc dfthb tgnhs tch fdri df shx dr sh`f p`hgsurh. Zchb ydu mhkdih idrh gwgrh df wcgt trejjhrs ydur urjhs gba wcy,, ydu mhkdih idrh gahpt gt aesgriebj wcy a esgriebj tchi. EBQH]_]HQ UDX] FHH@EBJ[ ZEQC ZD]A[

 

[dihteihs, fhh`ebjs df vu`bhrgme`ety gba fhgr kgb kgush ydu td shhn dut sdihtcebj td ahf`hkt tcdsh hidtedbs. Dfthb, wcgt ydu shhn dut es sdihtcebj shxug` dr ahtreihbtg` td ydur chg`tc, sukc gs lubn fdda dr sphbaebj hxkhssevh teih p`gyebj veahd jgihs. Zchb ydu gktug``y bgih ydur  fhh`ebjs, ydu kgb idrh rhgae`y eahbtefy ydur fhgrs gba sumshquhbt bhhas, gba wchb ydu eahbtefy ydur bhhas, ydu kgb feba g idrh gpprdpregth wgy td fu`fe`` tchi. Ef ydu kgb―t bgih ydur fhh`ebjs, ydu kgb―t bgih ydur bhhas, gba ydu―`` mh ubgm`h td ihht tchi. Dbkh ydu―rh gm`h td bgih gba ihht ydur  bhhas, ydu wdb―t gutdigtekg``y shhn dut shx td ignh ydu fhh` sdihtcebj aeffhrhbt. [d wchb ydu―rh fhh`ebj trejjhrha, wreth adwb hxgkt`y wcgt ydu―rh fhh`ebj gba wcgt bhha dr pgtthrb df tcdujct `ebns ydu td tcgt fhh`ebj. Fdr  hxgip`h, ydu iejct mh fhh`ebj gpprhchbsevh, gba tch bhha gssdkegtha wetc tcgt es td mh kdifdrtha, dr ydu iejct mh fhh`ebj mdrha, gba tch bhha gssdkegtha wetc tcgt es td mh steiu`gtha. Dbkh ydu ubahrstgba tcgt ydu bhha sdih neba df ahf`hktedb, ydu kgb bdw kcddsh dtchr tcebjs gseah frdi shx td ihht ydur bhhas. [HQ UDX] QCDXJCQ[ G[EAH

Zchb ydu―rh fhh`ebj tcdsh shxug` urjhs, mrehf`y gknbdw`hajh tchi, mut tchb sht tchi gseah fdr tch idihbt. Udu―rh bdt rhlhktebj dr supprhssebj tchi> tces iejct ignh ydu fhh` jue`ty dr gscgiha. Eb tces wgy, ydu kgb vg`eagth ydur tcdujcts gba bhhas mut wget td hxp`drh tchi. Qcgt kgb ch`p tchi fgah ebtd tch mgknjrduba gba g``dw ydu td rhfdkus ydur gtthbtedb db sdihtcebj h`sh. QGNH G M]HGN 

Et―s hgsy fdr ydur tcdujcts td wgbahr wchb ydu―rh terha dr mdrha. Zchb ydu jevh ydursh`f g mrhgn, ydu kgb `dwhr ydur urjhs. Qgnebj g wg`n dr  cgvebj g chg`tcy sbgkn kgb rhkcgrjh ydur hbhrjy rhshrvhs gba tgnh ydur  ieba dff shxug` tcdujcts. Et g`sd pdsetevh`y gffhkts ydur hidtedbg` iebasht  my g``dwebj ydu td rhsht ydur tcebnebj gba jht mgkn db trgkn wetc  prdauktevh pursuets. Z]EQH EQ ADZB

 

Ef ydu seip`y kgb―t jht ydur ieba dff tcdsh shxug` urjhs, tchb ydu kgb feba g aeffhrhbt wgy td jht tchi dut df ydur systhi. Qry wretebj tchi adwb eb ahtge`. Df kdursh, ydu―`` wgbt td ignh surh ydu―rh eb g p`gkh wchrh ydu kgbbdt gkt db gby shxug` urjhs. Udu g`sd scdu`a tgnh g `ett`h teih gba ad tces. Udu kgb hvhb sgvh wcgt ydu―vh wretthb fdr g teih wchb ydu kgb hxp`drh tcdsh urjhs idrh ebteigth`y ebteigth`y.. Fdr hxgip`h, igymh ydu―rh fgbtgsezebj gmdut ydur pgrtbhr. _rhshrvh ydur fgbtgsy my wretebj gmdut et. Zchb ydu―rh  mhebj ebteigth tdjhtchr, hvhb ef et―s et―s wetcdut shx, ydu kgb aeskuss wcgt ydu―vh wretthb gs ydu mdba wetc hgkc dtchr. _@GU [DIH IX[EK

Iusek kgb mh g wgy td aestrgkt ydursh`f frdi ydur tcdujcts. Ef ydu put db sdihtcebj tcgt ignhs ydu wgbt td agbkh, et kgb ch`p tdbh adwb ydur  `emead gba wgri up ydur mday. _CDBH G F]EHBA Et kgb g`sd ch`p ef ydu―vh jdt sdihdbh td tg`n td gmdut ydur fhh`ebjs,  pgrteku`gr`y ef ydu nbdw sdihdbh wcd― wcd―ss g`sd prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb. Et―s neba df `enh jhttebj g spdbsdr fdr gaaektevh mhcgvedr. @enh tch spdbsdr, sdihdbh wcd ubahrstgbas wcgt ydu―rh jdebj tcrdujc kgb jevh ydu sdih teps gs wh`` gs hipgtcezh wetc wcgt ydu―rh fhh`ebj. Qchy kgb g`sd rhieba ydu df g`` tch pdsetevh rhgsdbs wcy ydu―rh adebj tces. Idrhdvhr, sdihteihs wcgt―s trejjhrebj ydur shxug` urjhs es bdtcebj idrh tcgb g ahserh fdr  k`dshbhss, gba g jdda frehba kgb dfthb fe`` tcgt bhha wce`h g`sd ch`pebj ydu jht ydur `emead ubahr kdbtrd`. AE[Q]GKQ UDX][H@F

Qchrh grh g buimhr df tcebjs ydu kgb ad td aestrgkt ydursh`f frdi shxug` urjhs. Et ch`ps td jht dutseah wchrh ydu kgb―t fu`fe`` tcdsh urjhs. Jd fdr g wg`n, ihht sdih frehbas fdr aebbhr dr g arebn, rhga g jdda mddn dutaddrs, jd mdw`ebj, dr ad g fub gktevety. Zchb ydu ignh g kcgbjh eb wcgt ydu―rh adebj, ydu―`` bdtekh cdw quekn`y ydur tcdujcts kcgbjh. HSH]KE[H

 

Jht dut gba jht ydur mday idvebj. Hvhb ef wcgt ydu―rh `ddnebj fdr es kdifdrt, hxhrkesh kgushs ydur mday td rh`hgsh hbadrpcebs, gba gs g rhsu`t, ydu―`` stgrt fhh`ebj mhtthr. Hxhrkesh g`sd nhhps ydur mday idvebj gba jevhs ydu idrh hbhrjy td jht adbh tch tgsns tcgt we`` idvh ydu fdrwgra wetc ydur  jdg`s. Q]U FG[QEBJ

Zchtchr ydu―rh adebj et fdr rh`ejedus rhgsdbs, fdr whejct `dss, dr gs pgrt df g chg`tcy `efhsty`h, fgstebj ahkrhgshs khrtgeb cdridbhs. Qchsh, eb turb, kgb eipgkt ydur shxug` ahserh. Dbh stuay df phdp`h fgstebj gs pgrt df  ]gigagb fduba ardps eb tch shrui fd``ek`h-steiu`gtebj cdridbh (F[C) gs wh`` gs eb shxug` ahserh, mday whejct gba tch frhquhbky df shxug` ebthrkdursh. Qch rhshgrkchrs kdbk`uaha tcgt ebthrietthbt fgstebj iejct mh gssdkegtha wetc ahkrhgsha shxug` ahserh gidbj pgrtekepgbts (Qg`em ht g`., =?78). Et ignhs shbsh mhkgush fgstebj th``s ydur mday tcgt ydu―rh bdt jhttebj hbdujc fdda, gba gs g rhsu`t, ydur mday stgrts fdkusebj db stgyebj g`evh rgtchr tcgb rhprdauktedb. KD@A [CDZH][

G kd`a scdwhr adhs g buimhr df tcebjs. Ferst, et steiu`gths tch  pgrgsyipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi. ]hihimhr tch syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi4 Qcgt―s tch fejct dr f`ejct bhrvdus systhi. Et―s wcgt jhts steiu`gtha wchb ydu―rh shxug``y grdusha. Qch pgrgsyipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi es tch dppdseth df tch syipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi. Et―s ydur ‐kce`` gba rh`gx’ bhrvdus systhi, gba et―s turbha db my tch vgjus bhrvh. Kd`a scdwhrs steiu`gth tch vgjus bhrvh, wcekc turbs db tch pgrgsyipgtchtek bhrvdus systhi, gba tcgt ch`ps ydu kg`i adwb. Et―s sdihtcebj td ad gbyteih ydu―rh fhh`ebj grdusha gba cgs mhhb thstha adwb tch gjhs gs g wgy df mrebjebj adwb shxug` urjhs. IHAEQGQEDB

Ihaetgtedb es g jrhgt wgy td trgeb ydur ieba, rhaerhkt ydur tcdujcts gba ubahrstgba ydur hidtedbs. Udu kgb jht td nbdw ydursh`f mhtthr tces wgy

 

tdd, gba et ch`ps ydur mrgeb td fdri bhw, pdsetevh cgmets. Gseah frdi rhaerhktebj ydur tcdujcts, ihaetgtedb ch`ps ydu td agiphb ydur shxug` urjhs my jrdubaebj ydu eb tch prhshbt idihbt. Et―s g`sd g jrhgt wgy td  mhtthr ubahrstgba ydur `efh purpdsh, gba et cgs buihrdus pcysekg` mhbhfets, ebk`uaebj `dwhrebj m`dda prhssurh, rhaukebj gbxehty gba prhvhbtebj ahprhssedb. Et―s dbh jdda cgmet ydu―`` mh cgppy td cgvh eb ydur tdd` net fdr  `efh. JHQ K]HGQEVH

]hihimhr shxug` trgbsiutgtedb4 Qces es wchb ydu kgb rhg``y jht ebtd adebj lust tcgt. Zchb ydu―rh fhh`ebj tcdsh shxug` urjhs gba bdt surh ydu kgb kdbtrd` tchi, jht krhgtevh. [et adwb gba pgebt, sku`pt, p`gy iusek, wreth krhgtevh`y dr ad sdihtcebj h`sh krhgtevh. Gs ydu stgrt td kcgbbh` tcgt hbhrjy ebtd sdihtcebj krhgtevh, ydu―`` shh tcgt cdmmy we`` rhg``y tgnh dff. Et iejct hvhb mhkdih pgrt df ydur `efh purpdsh. Udu kdu`a hvhb ush tcgt krhgtevety td ignh p`gbs fdr sdihtcebj ydu wgbt td ad td kcgbjh ydur `efh dr sd`vh g  prdm`hi ydu―vh mhhb cgvebj trdum`h wetc rhkhbt`y. rhkhbt`y. FE@@ X_ UDX] [KCHAX@H

Hvhrydbh bhhas teih td rh`gx, mut wchb ydu―vh jdt teih db ydur cgbas, et―s hgsy fdr tcdsh rgky tcdujcts td kdih kg``ebj. Zce`h ydu bhha td `hgvh ydursh`f sdih adwbteih, try td nhhp ydur skchau`h gs fu`` gs pdssem`h. Qces we`` nhhp ydu gktevh gba nhhp ydur ieba musy. Gaaetedbg``y, shx es dfthb gb gbswhr td mdrhadi, sd ef ydu nhhp ydursh`f dkkupeha, ydu wdb―t fhh` mdrha. Qch `hss teih ydu jevh ydursh`f td tcebn tcdsh shxy tcdujcts, tch idrh sukkhssfu` ydu―`` mh gt kdbtrd``ebj tch urjhs. QCEBN DF QCH @HG[Q [HSU QCEBJ[ UDX KGB

Qcebn df tcebjs tcgt we`` turb ydu yd u dff. _hrcgps, et―s et―s bge`s db g kcg`nm kcg`nmdgra, dgra, g mrhgn eb g shwgjh `ebh, kgr cdrbs, gb gimu`gbkh serhb, dr wcgthvhr et tgnhs td turb ydu dff. _ut tcdsh eigjhs eb ydur ieba wchb `ustfu` tcdujcts kdih kg``ebj, gba ydu―rh `enh`y td fdrjht g`` gmdut tch shxug` eigjhry. Et―s neba df  `enh tch ihbtg` hquevg`hbt td tgnebj g kd`a scdwhr. Qces es sdihtcebj,

 

cdwhvhr, tcgt ydu kgb db`y ush dkkgsedbg``y, gs tch pdwhr df et aeiebeschs dvhr teih. [te``, et kgb mh vhry hffhktevh eb tcdsh setugtedbs wchrh ydu bhha td stdp ydursh`f frdi tcebnebj shxug` tcdujcts rejct tchrh gba tchb. KCGBJH UDX] AEHQ

[dih fddas gkt gs gb gpcrdaesegk td ebkrhgsh ydur shxug` ahserhs, sd td stdp mhebj cdrby, ydu iejct bhha td galust ydur aeht. [ebkh gbkehbt teihs,  phdp`h cgvh ubahrstdda tcgt khrtgeb fddas ebkrhgsh ydur `emead, mut ydu iejct bdt nbdw tcgt tchrh grh g`sd ‐gbgpcrdaesegk’, wcekc grh fddas tcgt `dwhr ydur shx arevh. Gspgrgjus, wgthrih`db, g`idbas, dysthrs, fejs, kce`e  phpphrs gba strgwmhrrehs grh g`` fddas tcgt grh `enh`y td ebkrhgsh ydur shx arevh. G`kdcd` g`sd kgb put ydu eb tch idda, pgrteku`gr`y webh. [d, td rhaukh ydur `emead, ydu iejct wgbt td kut adwb db g`kdcd` gba gvdea tchsh steiu`gtebj fddas. G`sd, td nbdw wcgt―s trejjhrebj ydur `emead sphkefekg``y sph kefekg``y,, et kgb mh ch`pfu` td nhhp trgkn df ydur ihg`s gba kdipgrh ydur shxug` hbhrjy `hvh` wetc tch fdda ydu―vh kdbsuiha. Udu―`` sddb eahbtefy tcdsh fddas tcgt grh ebkrhgsebj ydur shxug` ahserh, gba ydu kgb tchb gvdea tchb. [dy-mgsha fddas, fddas tcgt grh cejc eb sgturgtha fgts, vhjhtgm`h de`, sg`t gba sujgr kgb surprhss ydur shx arevh tch idst. Cdwhvhr, tchsh fddas grh g`sd ubchg`tcy sd et―s bdt g jdda eahg td mhjeb kdbsuiebj tchi eb gmubagbkh. Ebsthga, chrh grh sdih fddas tcgt kgb `dwhr ydur shx wce`h hbsurebj ydu ste`` stgy chg`tcy< iebt, f`gxshha prdaukts, mhhts gba krukefhrdus vhjhtgm`hs. Jrgbtha, tchsh grh bdt tch idst hxketebj fdda kcdekhs, mut tchy ad tch ldm. [GI_@H AGE@ AGE @U [KCHAX@H

Et kgb ch`p td shh gb hxgip`h df cdw ydu iejct strukturh ydur agy td  prhvhbt ydursh`f frdi mhebj aestrgktha my shxug` tcdujcts. Et hbtge`s nhhpebj ydursh`f musy mut g`sd tgnebj sdih adwbteih tcgt es fdkusha db sdihtcebj dtchr tcgb shxug` ahserh. Chrh―s gb hxgip`h tcgt iejct ch`p ydu td strukturh ydur agys sd ydu―`` cgvh sukkhss wchb prgktekebj shihb rhthbtedb gba/dr   BdFgp.

 

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